PLZ like guys already on 558 views but 87 likes.. Plz like ❤
@Katniss796
24 күн бұрын
N to watch them ads ❤ it's free
@fmaz2669
23 күн бұрын
She could have continued to be a Christian and let the man do his shenanigans so sad
@boitumelosinesiphotabata1603
22 күн бұрын
Fix your eyes on Christ. Don’t let familiar spirits control your life to this point.
@khetimthembu8465
24 күн бұрын
My mom was right, no matter how smart you think you are, a man will show you flames🫢🤦🏾♀️ I’m sorry but it seems like gogo got tricked shamm👀that sangoma, the husband & his mom did things sham😖😂you can’t convince me otherwise
@TheeSpace939
20 күн бұрын
Exactly my thought
@ToxxicMafia
18 күн бұрын
the husband bribed the Sangoma to tell her she must be a sister wife
@millicentmotheogane7842
24 күн бұрын
It is not for me shem, I rather be alone and my Christ.
@paballomoroanyane240
21 күн бұрын
scared of how this lady condones the BS her husband put her through. women...!! i dnt even have better words
@nicosekano5942
20 күн бұрын
its not meant for you
@sharonmafagane6947
19 күн бұрын
Lenna, it’s too much. Thwasa, sangomas, side chicks and all that trauma!? Nope I’d leave
@itumelengthokoane9074
21 күн бұрын
This has to be the silliest thing I have ever heard and her conviction 😢😢😂this man is in the studio probably with a smug thinking look at my popeye 😂
@zeemali4369
19 күн бұрын
Exactly my thought 🤦🏾♀️
@nokuthulakomako869
11 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂I totally agree
@leahlinki5683
Күн бұрын
"My money-making Popeye!" 😅😅😅😅😅
@leahlinki5683
Күн бұрын
"My money-making Popeye!" 😅😅😅😅😅😅
@Mapula23264
23 күн бұрын
Her husband really disrespected her though🥹💔😭 The cheating.. Having a baby outside their marriage… Buying the side chick a house… Yoo🥹💔men are not good people.. Love&Light to this beautiful lady 🥹
@millicentmotheogane7842
21 күн бұрын
Agree 100 %total disrespect.. Angenge, I love myself first before I love someone else
@refilwemahoma5925
22 күн бұрын
The audacity of saying my husband didn’t marry the side chick behind her back meanwhile he had a child and house with the side chick behind her back.She didn’t have a choice but to accept the side chick.
@teeslife2408
15 күн бұрын
Why do you call them side chick…?????the minute a guy cheats no one is a side chick or wife …you are both his woman finish and clararrrrr
@PheladiPhillipine_
5 күн бұрын
@@teeslife2408pila pila
@AmyMapena
24 күн бұрын
Shes not okay with it...she just didnt want to be unmarried with kids
@robbylebotha
24 күн бұрын
If she said she's unhappy, you would believe without question. Dont project your own feelings, this lady sounds happy, the most happy compared to other guests that have come here.
@Pchick20
24 күн бұрын
So so true
@sheilamogadime8681
24 күн бұрын
I definitely agree, like she's trying to justify this whole thing. She is a strong and very intelligent woman. I feel for her, deeply.
@tuupsipuupsi2788
24 күн бұрын
Lol okay
@ntombizodwamariamakhoba8231
24 күн бұрын
Ooh yes she will never pretend this much
@keotshepileplaatjies8424
23 күн бұрын
May i allow Jesus to continue to be the author of my life. 😢
@pulengmoatshe9985
20 күн бұрын
Amen..sister wife spirit ijo..She must give me those qualifications
@debramontymmatau5136
19 күн бұрын
Amen.
@thabelofavormufamadi
18 күн бұрын
You can say that again.
@AmyMapena
24 күн бұрын
Lol she thinks she did the side chick a favour by accepting her...Delulu ya basadi. They would have stayed together with or without her approval
@RayOfLetsatsi
24 күн бұрын
She says when she accepted the sidechick she told her "I'm here to dignify you as a woman" lol no she was also dignifying her cheating husband & herself cause if she hadn't accepted she was always gonna be that wife whose husband has a sidechick & children outside of marriage cause the sidechick told her I ain't going nowhere.
@lungelolamula7075
24 күн бұрын
They were going to continue vele. But being a side chick is only viable for a certain time. After 40 being a side chick starts to become embarrassing, and lonely even. Worse ke having a child with a married man khona it's worse worse. So nje I agree with her, she definitely dignified the side. There's a reason why sides are hidden. You are someones dirty secret.
@givemethesimplelife
23 күн бұрын
@@RayOfLetsatsi Imagine the nerve to think she held the key to the other woman's dignity 😂😂
@Afro_Dee_SA
22 күн бұрын
@lungelolamula7075 where did she get the power or authority to dignify another human being as someone whose husband wanted someone else while married to her? Stop please!
@Afro_Dee_SA
22 күн бұрын
@@givemethesimplelifeso ridiculous!!
@eaglettethobejane2768
23 күн бұрын
Not most of ya'll out here judging Kgothatso for picking her battles and accepting a polygamous marriage when you're 'bekezeling' your serial-cheating husbands/boyfriends 👀👀👀.
@nandimzanzi
17 күн бұрын
Listen her husband was married before her. She is not admitting his infidelity and giving excuses.
@ThuliBGH
15 күн бұрын
I'd rather deal with that than isthembu.
@Mazatzat
7 күн бұрын
The man can have 2 wives, 3, or 4! They will never stop cheating if they have no self-control and no boundaries! No commitment. They lead with their feelings! They are just a male, not a man. Therefore, accepting a 2nd wife or 3rd will not stop him from cheating. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.
@AkiM357
18 күн бұрын
Honestly we must learn to respect people's choices, religion and traditional ways of doing things. She's a beautiful lady I must say. 👌
@mahlohonololebuso741
24 күн бұрын
I think she's trying her best to convince herself that she's okay with this. I think.
@Afro_Dee_SA
22 күн бұрын
100%
@sinenhlanhlabuthelezi6834
21 күн бұрын
shes not okay at all
@heartzofmen27
9 күн бұрын
How’s going against nature working out for most women?
@heartzofmen27
9 күн бұрын
I think a lot of women don’t want to except reality.
@NomfaneloNgoma
24 күн бұрын
Hyooo why pretend marra , she’s not coping with whatever she’s normalising 😢…
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Who are you to tell the next women what she is or isn’t coping with? 😂😂😂 the woman is sitting there telling us her truth you are here in the comments telling us your projection and insecurity and calling her truth lies. Aowa you women have issues
@winxbratz
24 күн бұрын
Side note: both your outfits are gorgeous in this episode 🤭
@Notesfrommypad
17 күн бұрын
🎉
@randomlady
21 күн бұрын
This episode gives ama side chicks hope that one day they too will get the ring if they stay long enough😅😂😂
@SindisiweMbambo-ek4lt
24 күн бұрын
All I can say is that the husband is a liar it was all in his plans to have a second wife. Shame this woman is broken its said 😢
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Your man if you even have one also has a sidechick darling, whether you know them or not. Relax
@user-qg3up8ht4h
23 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm No one comes out alive here 🤣🤣 Pasop!!
@tuupsipuupsi2788
24 күн бұрын
Some people in these comments just can’t take other peoples perspective… this lady sat here for an hour told us her journey, she wrote a book and some of you come here to say …..” she is not okay with it”!! Just say not for me and move on
@dumisanindlovu4396
24 күн бұрын
This commment❤
@siphokaziluzipho4197
24 күн бұрын
@@dumisanindlovu4396100 % truth in her comment. We need to show respect, even if we dnt agree.
@siphokaziluzipho4197
24 күн бұрын
We want people to live our truth, not theirs. This lady is living her truth, and doing it proudly.
@patienceikombele9161
24 күн бұрын
Thank you 💯
@patienceikombele9161
24 күн бұрын
I'm going to follow her, interested in her journey.
@rudzanikharivhe6294
23 күн бұрын
Promise, single parenting is not a sin I refuse to believe that.....
@ngele438
22 күн бұрын
People will choose to stay in toxic marriage because they fear single parenting. it takes a lot to stand your ground and leave
@rudzanikharivhe6294
21 күн бұрын
@ngelemuofhe that is why ppl are staying with cheating husband they acome and tell us that single parenting is a sin, what does she know about a sin, I'm sure she's God's assistance that why she come and tell us about a sin that is not on 10 commandment
@ntebomoela8443
21 күн бұрын
True, promise must correct that
@kphosh
21 күн бұрын
Agreed... I think Promise made an irresponsible comment there... sometimes it's not by choice... sometimes it's the best choice... rather than a toxic marriage or fighting to be mamkhulu even though you don't want isithembu
@nicosekano5942
20 күн бұрын
it is
@spm9130
20 күн бұрын
Yooo, brokenness leads to broken decisions, leading to more brokenness. I pray she wakes up from the lies she has been fed by the devil through her husband, mother-in-law, and the sangomas she visited. I am okay in my singleness with Christ in it, that's my hard that I chose and I am fine.
@Ntuthu28_M
2 күн бұрын
Ey you and I both girl❤❤❤
@kgothatso_20
23 күн бұрын
Men really win in this life thing...
@langabi408
21 күн бұрын
Yeyi, they do. 😢
@spm9130
20 күн бұрын
I think it's because we allow them! Most of us are enablers!
@kgothatso_20
20 күн бұрын
@@spm9130 Thats what I always say. If women were firm and had stubborn morals and values etc over half of the society issues with relationships wouldn't exist. WOMEN ARE ENABLERS!
@nosisamaseko2825
20 күн бұрын
@@spm9130 Agreed
@thathappened2009
17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@siyamtolo6733
21 күн бұрын
"I'm here to dignify you." Hay no delulu is the solulu!🤣🤣🤣
@hopengunduza2316
12 күн бұрын
That sent me 😂😂😂. Like ma’am?
@Winterflowers1
24 күн бұрын
She was manipulated by that man and she’s not even aware 😢
@user-tf4ji7gt5j
23 күн бұрын
for me its the fact that he is sitting there listening to her relay the story with so much pride . i feel sorry for her.
@mphomorongwe6655
23 күн бұрын
True
@ayandasam2269
22 күн бұрын
Yhooo sana he played her and he played her very well, sozeeee☹️
@rudzanikharivhe6294
21 күн бұрын
@user-tf4ji7gt5j here I am thinking ad well, this men will finish us I'm telling you.
@portiazulu8352
18 күн бұрын
But she is happy
@rea9085
24 күн бұрын
You know this woman is delusional.The sangoma that the husband is using on her is really strong 💪.No one in their right mind can tolerate such bullshit.Its sad to watch.They say never say never but in this case Never!!!
@user-qy6nk4ht2x
24 күн бұрын
She did say she left and came back fearing being a second best or side chick
@rudzanikharivhe6294
21 күн бұрын
She end up being a sangoma herself
@dikeledimogobe5117
21 күн бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@zusiphendabeni3457
21 күн бұрын
She's really delulu💔
@siyamtolo6733
21 күн бұрын
"We can't continue to perpetuate broken families" kutsho a broken woman in a broken marriage. Just because she doesn't believe you can be whole alone.
@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb
18 күн бұрын
What is broken in her marriage? You want her to be happy in your own terms? You want her to define a happy marriage according to you?
@Live_More_Love_More
15 күн бұрын
@@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tbthere’s quite a couple of broken things like accepting your man is cheating, bringing a child and accepting polygamy against your will, she clearly fought against this fight and lost to the man.
@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb
15 күн бұрын
@@Live_More_Love_More Thats your version of her story. Maybe you should watch again only this time listen to what she says not your feelings.
@Live_More_Love_More
15 күн бұрын
@@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb sorry, where does she start talking about a happy marriage with a side chick involved? She described it as driving her crazy hey,8 hour hunt, truck.
@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb
14 күн бұрын
@@Live_More_Love_More like i said watch again & dont invole your feelings.
@mabathomosekeli
23 күн бұрын
True, we choose our hard. I made a deal with my God that I'd rather be single forever than be with a cheating husband or be in a polygamous marriage.
@goodnessmitileni1120
19 күн бұрын
Exactly I would rather be single forever shame hayi God forgive me for disrupting his plans but not heart ache like that hey
@khensanebaloyi6835
24 күн бұрын
Did she really have to twasa or she was depressed? 🤔
@thelmaseaka1567
24 күн бұрын
She wanted sthembu to fall into place. 🤣😅😃😃😇 I like it when women say "I am a strong woman, I am stubborn, I am controlling, I dont take nonsense, nywerenywere....but men have a way of humbling them😀😃😁😆😅🤣 "I AM HERE TO DIGNIFY YOU"
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
@@thelmaseaka1567the same way they have humbled you too but you are here pretending to be a know it all on other peoples stories
@lethabomotaung6538
23 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@mphomorongwe6655
23 күн бұрын
Depression
@boitumelosinesiphotabata1603
22 күн бұрын
Definitely depressed
@palesasefurutshe6832
24 күн бұрын
She was gaslight into the situation and accepting the marriage. She got told about her gift after she found out about the side chick?! And went to thwasa after the scandal?! Its such a frustrating situation. So sad to see she gave into the isithembu dynamic.
@rosegold6209
24 күн бұрын
Im married, but Im not for polygamy however I must applaud her for being brave.
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Your man is definitely cheating either way
@rosegold6209
24 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm Since you want me to go there, lets go...😏 Men are polygamous by nature, there's noan that doesnt cheat. Bofebe bo padile le baruti. Most woman marry to be happy, you dont marry to be happy, realistically, you marry to make living easier. Let me break it down: Marriage is a business contract. When you are single, u pay 100% of your household bills, its more challenging when you are a single parent. When you marry, you each pay 50% towards household bills, you reproduce, children are raised in a stable home, husband is provider, protector and wife is helper and nurturer. Two incomes are better than one or none. Thats the reality of marriage. If you thought you'll have me triggered by my cheating husband, you are wrong. I got into it knowing exactly what Ill be dealing with. 😏
@SnehN
24 күн бұрын
Not you in a previous comment, saying people mustn't project how they feel onto others? And now you're here telling this lady's husband is cheating! Weee klibhi MASIMBA! @Vv-fl2rm
@MsSwanlake
24 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm bathong sisi, are u ok?
@viriacssa2003
24 күн бұрын
@@rosegold6209you were supposed to say, not every man cheat, and it's true. Again, I'm not saying you must do it, but they're people who know how to manipulate a man to be yours alone, period, it's also true.
@sindiswamnyanda8216
24 күн бұрын
marriage is very hard😢. I applaud this women
@ladyb5843
24 күн бұрын
So your ancestor was a sidechick, and she came through you to come to become a first wife.Our husband's who making babies outside marriage are the ones perpetuating single motherhood.My question is why is it always men who put us through this "trials and tribulations in marriage"?I am also eager to hear the husband understanding with regards to how things unfolded.🤔 Hope everything you did and sacrificed brings you ✌️
@MsSwanlake
24 күн бұрын
True that! She's gonna find that it wasn't that deep for the husband but of cause he had to make up something! lol He was bored, wanted to F around, found a worth woman and that's it, that's all! 😂 But keh here she is saying the side was just a casualty in her bigger story
@givemethesimplelife
24 күн бұрын
So the Side was right when she said: "I am not going anywhere." I 😂😂😂😂😂
@_molebogeng6281
24 күн бұрын
She stood on her business 😂
@koketsonkanyane3211
24 күн бұрын
Lmaooo
@connymontsho
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 yhoooo
@zeemali4369
19 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pulengphatedi8153
24 күн бұрын
Before side chicks kills you, the mother in laws will finish you 😢
@mamosianemmotong6869
20 күн бұрын
But it's really not the mom's in-law's fault hey, she is in the middle. 😢
@juliamaloka70
21 күн бұрын
What a beautiful woman, she lost herself in this marriage, i wonder gore when she confronts reality with herself what comes out.
@Mcgolwane10
10 күн бұрын
Wat reality thus her reality ... Live your own uhlukane nabantu if you have everything figured out why care about other people and their reality .. Surely you the who jump ships
@RayOfLetsatsi
24 күн бұрын
So indoda didn't want isthembu, but there was already another woman in the picture as he & his mom pitched the sthembu idea, and he even impregnated her?? Yah, that really sounds like a husband that didn't want isthembu😂. Gogo wa lona got tricked. Seems like she choose her "hard" & made peace with it.
@givemethesimplelife
24 күн бұрын
All of this drama in a marriage that's not even 10 years old. This woman needs therapy. Acting tough, like all is well but she is not okay at all. If anything, she should understand why he moved fast to marry her
@AmyMapena
24 күн бұрын
Lol the old man played his cards very well
@mercypuso3888
24 күн бұрын
It was a set up. And it worked.
@nickymthelebofu
24 күн бұрын
I also realised that somewhere somehow she's just trying to fool herself. Men are clever guys, he planned it so well Nd he knew the day the aunt came to tell his wife
@matlhatsi3486
24 күн бұрын
The level of delulu going on here.....shem ugogo it's so Sad......likhehla played his cards right
@_molebogeng6281
24 күн бұрын
No woman can convince me she's okay with being in a polygamous relationship ESPECIALLY if she was the 1st wife and she truly loved that man unless if it benefits her somehow. That's why today we see women who were 1st wives divorcing to be number 2 or 3 in other people's marriages😂. This lady is uGogo and I've seen on TV people who've gone this route having polygamous relationships sooo🤷♀️ it could be part her calling or she's just an exception
@Khenzi-so7hq
24 күн бұрын
She dsnt want to be a single Mom thts all.A banthu ba zothini
@Khenzi-so7hq
24 күн бұрын
Ur a coward
@chisonimponda363
23 күн бұрын
You can say that again, moving out your own marriage and ernt to another being number 3 side chick aaa
@bahumimatebesi8000
24 күн бұрын
this is book worth reading.. she’s very articulate…shes a very assertive and dominant person naturally. It’s a difficult experience from the sound of it.. 😌
@Bonangish
23 күн бұрын
It can never be me, I do not have such shoulders. If it's about kids, I can even buy or rent near their house for kids to see their dad frequently. A man can never have so much power on me.
@FancyMaite
23 күн бұрын
Neva.
@Selzo6642
3 күн бұрын
True
@dumisanindlovu4396
24 күн бұрын
We need to let people live their truth and stop projecting...God has a tailored journey for each and everyone us....lets show love and respect as Africans❤
@maureenkhumalo839
22 күн бұрын
True lala
@mydesires23
24 күн бұрын
Ijo how does one come to this. Men are the prize, I can’t there is nothing wrong with being alone and being at peace
@boipelokuju6704
23 күн бұрын
I love Promise way of asking questions and allowing her guests to speak... she's a real digger & not all over. My best & fav podcaster.
@pfulu
24 күн бұрын
It sounds like everything was cooked because this man has already had a side chick ,
@khetimthembu8465
24 күн бұрын
Exactly.. & the dreams of the calling started when she started dating this man
@robbylebotha
24 күн бұрын
The man and his mother have been cooking this for long time like oxtail. They bribed sangomas. The mother like the 2nd wife more, this lady needs to go back and look at things properly, she’s under the delusion that she’s in control
@leesomz8876
24 күн бұрын
exactly, they brainwashed her
@refilwemotlhaga3748
24 күн бұрын
Akere, it sounds like a set up nyana
@newwineskin5494
22 күн бұрын
Spiritually dreams can be tampered with.Esp if you are not Prayerful.
@masegomaposa3999
24 күн бұрын
Nice Interview….I can’t judge Gogo, she’s living in her truth right or wrong. Thanks Ous Promise for the lovely interview.🔥🔥
@rea9085
24 күн бұрын
Waitsi they even made her think gore ke sangoma
@msngema1380
24 күн бұрын
😢
@palesasefurutshe6832
24 күн бұрын
Eish wena
@mphomorongwe6655
23 күн бұрын
Serious 😂😂😂
@boitumelosinesiphotabata1603
22 күн бұрын
Depression is a calling nowadays, almost driving into trucks, she was depressed
@MsSwanlake
21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 haaike!
@rosegold6209
24 күн бұрын
THIS LADY HAS BEAUTIFUL LEGS, izitho...❤ Shes CLEAN and well put togther...UGEZILE❤ No bonnet, sleepers, gowns and pyjamas in public, uyazithanda lo, akagezi ngo 4pm, ugeza ngo 4am lo
@TheeMsutu
24 күн бұрын
Right?! I've been looking at them 😍
@gracenobadula2044
24 күн бұрын
Indeed hey❤
@RayOfLetsatsi
24 күн бұрын
She's so gorgeous, men are never satisfied.
@jaydenmalatji
24 күн бұрын
Her legs Her aura Her beauty Ai maan
@cherlytooblessed1989
24 күн бұрын
I adore her legs wish she could even stand😂😂😂😂
@MadamTMT
24 күн бұрын
What i like about Promise is that she's a digger😂😂😂😂😂, her questions are always intrigue, re a leboga kgoshigadi 😊😊..
@CoachThirdhope
24 күн бұрын
She is depressed…chronically
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂 you are projecting your own feelings. Rest
@zusiphendabeni3457
21 күн бұрын
Fr🤞💔
@boitumahloko6165
24 күн бұрын
She is so well spoken, Love her
@abigailtakobana2950
23 күн бұрын
Not her saying we are not going to perpetuate single parenting as if it's something nice, but same opinion can't be said about her sthembu, its still not nice too 😂😂😂
@bonisiweviolet3841
24 күн бұрын
I think that the most important thing is for women to be able to make a choice. For some women, staying in polygamy is ok for them, for some, divorcing and going alone is ok. Let all live their truth. We are all just answerable to God, not other human beings. Basically, each to their own.
@matanato01
23 күн бұрын
Yep❤️
@sibongilenkwana8835
23 күн бұрын
sadly, most times they trap you with a ring and baby before they introduce to you their dream of polygamy, now your options are limited
@bonisiweviolet3841
23 күн бұрын
@@sibongilenkwana8835 No, women must never allow themselves to be their own prisoners. No man can trap you. How does having a ring and a baby trap you? You can remove the ring and bring up your kid. Women trap themselves sometimes because they fear social judgement and feel they need a man to complete them. Men know this and some use it to abuse women. Women are very powerful if they decide to use their power. That is why you find many professionals today who were actually raised by women. How many graduates were raised by informal trader mothers? No, men cannot trap women indefinitely. The mind is a very powerful thing. Contraception any one? As for a ring! So you want to live in hell for a small metal! Imagine!!!
@nolubynature9513
16 күн бұрын
@@sibongilenkwana8835😢pure evil
@robbylebotha
24 күн бұрын
lol "You carry the spirit of a sister wife"? Bathong lona, ausi o hana di chomi or something? As mojita, I can tell this was a heist, this was a dribble and even worse, the whole plan was designed by his mother nna keo bullelle. There is a very big reason why his mother and him did the most so that the lady can join the family. Im also gifted and this is what I see now, via wifi.
@nkosazanaleseka4261
24 күн бұрын
Kopo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lemogangomatla5328
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂funny.
@olebaganyethokweng3728
24 күн бұрын
Wena😂😂😂😂😂,stop it.
@sheronsnethembancube2693
24 күн бұрын
True wena WIFI has seen all, they cooked
@MsSwanlake
24 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂nje! But they let her believe she is the one who carries the spirit so she has no choice!
@matanato01
24 күн бұрын
Men are the prize yho,looking for a side chick for 7 whole hours.Hayi guys😭
@_molebogeng6281
24 күн бұрын
Ayyy men will be the end of us. Mina I wish I could pursue my career like that maybe I'd be a CFO or something
@matanato01
24 күн бұрын
@@_molebogeng6281 🤣🤣Listen, I would have a PHD
@ntandokazimanqele9462
24 күн бұрын
@@_molebogeng6281Lalela I'd be a millionaire spending baller money in Dubai sana, driving a ferrari
@angelajohn1327
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
One thing men will do is get a sidechick darling even the one you are with, it’s certainly not just you.
@sheronsnethembancube2693
24 күн бұрын
So why didn't this ancestor make his own kids why come and want someone to do something you couldn't do....hay kudlaliwe ngabantu emhlabeni
@ntombizodwamariamakhoba8231
24 күн бұрын
She's a very good person. And her honesty touch me
@flowerlindz
24 күн бұрын
This is polygamy, its not oxygen😅
@tuupsipuupsi2788
24 күн бұрын
😂😂what does that mean
@-Natefo-
24 күн бұрын
Think it means she can live without it.
@angelajohn1327
24 күн бұрын
😅
@baatsebamashego334
21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@robbylebotha
24 күн бұрын
Oh ok, so shap shap all you need is to say a sangoma told you so and then you can do anything you want ne... even cheating I can just say ke madlozi mos. Financial over spending...madlozi. Not sleeping at home ka weekend.. madlozi. 1 minute round... madlozi. Yoh thanks for the plug my leader. This is how we gonna win this sthepu battle. Bribe sangomas.
@judyatoro9387
24 күн бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂😂👍🏾👏👏👏
@_molebogeng6281
24 күн бұрын
😭
@noluthandomncube493
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@nkosazanaleseka4261
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 not me reading this in your voice😂😂😂😂😂
@paballomakgopa
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 aish
@rea9085
24 күн бұрын
Kopa the numbers tsa sangoma that the husband is using.Yeyy that sangoma is strong.
@baatsebamashego334
21 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@vuyokazi1797
24 күн бұрын
Delulu this guest
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
You are even more delulu for projecting your limitations on this woman's choice and her truth.
@vuyokazi1797
24 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm yes my therapist u are very correct I’m very very very delulu
@SJ_KingMthembu
20 күн бұрын
@@vuyokazi1797 but nawe uyi therapist mos to the guest😂😂diagonising her
@vuyokazi1797
20 күн бұрын
@@SJ_KingMthembu no lies detected
@zeemali4369
19 күн бұрын
Delulu 101
@gracenobadula2044
24 күн бұрын
I really enjoyed this interview, Khothatso is very articulate. Her voice commands attention ❤
@chisonimponda363
23 күн бұрын
Very
@lindatafeni9402
23 күн бұрын
From leaving the relationship, 7 hours looking for a side chick😮 and later she comes back allow isithembu she wasn't aware of before marriage, now to becoming a sangoma!! Kuningi sana and someone is delulu here 😂 her husband's muti/nyanga is working overtime I'm telling you
@mphomorongwe6655
23 күн бұрын
Delulu😂😂😂
@HISTORYLANDER
22 күн бұрын
If her husband didn't legally divorce his first wife through the court system (because lobola is a legal marriage),they are still married ( yes guys you have to divorce in court even when you just paid lobola) , that would make this sangoma lady technically a second wife and his sidechick the third😅
@portiamashaba76
21 күн бұрын
Exactly my thought she is not a baby mama but a wife as well, and prolly left the guy for the same reasons
@Santee_K
19 күн бұрын
It's too soon for her to be talking about her peace in polygamy. She is sadly married to a selfish man who covers his actions with polygamy. She is not ok, she is being emotionally abused and she is in denial. I wish her eyes get opened .
@CallMeKatlego
24 күн бұрын
Shadani asinamona ladies🫢
@ayandasam2269
24 күн бұрын
Delulu is the only solulu sana.
@angelajohn1327
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@charmainesayi
24 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@amukelanibaloyi9904
24 күн бұрын
😂😂
@MpumiDlamini-ft5de
24 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hai Sana..
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Delulu is also wanting to misconstrue and undermine people who are telling their own life stories
@mslettiemathibe71
24 күн бұрын
Promise you are getting more and more comfortable ❤ Your growth is inspirational. Start Start Start!! Anything you wish to accomplish. It's possible
@Ownnarrativepodcast
24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@themalawiandiner180
19 күн бұрын
Amen!
@MSTT691
24 күн бұрын
She is very beautiful, smart and glowing. One can tell she is a true healer. Siyamfanela isithembu ❤
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
A lot ❤
@Tee-mz9nu
21 күн бұрын
My question is if we say woman must choose their struggle in marriage neh, what are husbands choosing in this marriage or is it every sacrifice must be done by woman? Anyway to each their own
@themalawiandiner180
19 күн бұрын
It's about choosing the right man through patience, vetting and God's grace. She rushed to move in and marry this man, without really knowing him.
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Of all tribes why would any woman want to marry a zulu man? 😢
@palesasefurutshe6832
24 күн бұрын
There is nothing wrong with zulu men im tswana but want to be married into a zulu family.
@Vv-fl2rm
23 күн бұрын
@@palesasefurutshe6832 go ahead 😂😂😂 you will be on a podcast later venting about how that went.
@silindokuhlezakwe815
23 күн бұрын
@palesasefurutshe6832 oh, but there's definitely something wrong with Zulu men.😅
@MsSwanlake
21 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm😂😂😂😂😂 mara
@kphosh
20 күн бұрын
Iyoh i dealt with 2 Zulu men in my life.... ke sharp
@yondelandongeni740
14 күн бұрын
Yhuuuuu😮😢 this is seriously disturbing.....and she is so convinced 😭
@MsSwanlake
21 күн бұрын
Wait, not me thinking Moguy compromised the cupboard door to scare the bajezas out of her into polygamy!!!😂🤣🤭 Re phela le di tsotsi thle!
@nompulal
24 күн бұрын
You'll lost it when you spoke about single parents....some of us did not choose...death defined our path so please be a little sensitive. Absolutely speak your truth but don't generalize.
@lungelolamula7075
24 күн бұрын
There is a certain spec of married women who bekezela infidelity and all sorts of rubbish men put them through (which is fine cos it's their choice and they can do what they want in their marriage) but my irritation with them is decorating it and pretending it's coming from a place of wisdom 🤣🤣🤣 no please just say my husband cheated, made a baby and I decided to accept it. Which one is "I decided to run towards the storm????" 🤣🤣🤣 It's really not that deep. You chose to stay with your cheating husband, congratulations.
@silindokuhlezakwe815
23 күн бұрын
Not her trying to sound wise for tolerating infidelity
@lethiwesithole
23 күн бұрын
I completely agree with you, but then again I think a curse and a blessing is literally the same thing, it just depends on which side you focus on. For example Africa is blessed with abundant natural resources, but the same blessing has literally caused poverty and conflict in Africa… it’s not the best example but I hope you get what I am trying to say
@lungelolamula7075
23 күн бұрын
@@lethiwesithole a cheating husband can never be a blessing. Infidelity is a sin even biblically. But I get that for some people, it is not a deal breaker, my only issue is decorating it to look like something beyond what it is. A cheating husband is a cheating husband. Qha. She had to make do with the cards she was dealt with, and she did. She seems happy, but there's nothing spiritual or deep about infidelity.
@lungelolamula7075
23 күн бұрын
@@silindokuhlezakwe815 yazi! She's acting like there's something deep 😂 He's just a cheating husband. That's it. I do wish her well though.
@silindokuhlezakwe815
23 күн бұрын
@@lungelolamula7075 if the husband did not have any sidechick with child when he came to ask for a 2nd wife it would have sounded better. The man was unfaithful from the get go it seems. Anyways I'm not one who supports polygamy and I wish her all the best. But she shouldn't try to decorate cheating. It's just cheating, nothing beyond that!
@puseletsohlongwane845
24 күн бұрын
Nothing about what she had done is strong, she isn’t a strong woman. If she was strong she wouldn’t have been gaslit into going to twasa and accepting this kind of nonsense.
@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb
18 күн бұрын
Your definition of strong is her doing what you think is right??
@puseletsohlongwane845
18 күн бұрын
@@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb my definition of strong is leaving a man who has broken me🙃🙃
@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb
18 күн бұрын
@@puseletsohlongwane845 Ditto, so you were pretty much projecting. Go heal Oprah's child, miss strong & independent wothuvi. She would have been strong if she did what you think she should have done.
@puseletsohlongwane845
17 күн бұрын
@@ThokozaniSithole-cu7tb lmao projecting?😂😭 I- you know what you are right no need to engage you
@MsSwanlake
24 күн бұрын
Yah neh! Ku tuff, ku ruff, go sepagetse! LOL So moGuy says it is part of his path to be polygamous cause he was having accident after accident and now it is also part of her path cause she carries the sister wife spirit in her, yah no men will kill us shem! I guess after 3 months she was ready to accept defeat and go back but of cause we all gotta tell ourselves a believable story that we can stomach in order to do so, hers are that : she is the one in control, side was a casualty of HER calling she couldn't escapte this destiny, it is her portion to have a cheater of a hubby she got a taste of how cold her streets are and she cut her spiritual journey short and hitched it back to his deceitful path, but if she loves it, we like it!
@thobiledlamini3648
23 күн бұрын
I may not agree with polygamy but I’ve enjoyed listening to her - definitely a different perspective.
😂😂😂😂😂😅 My thoughts exactly, listening to her kuyadabukisa.
@angelajohn1327
24 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Badlala ngawe nawe maybe even worse because you think you know but you don’t know.
@azukentapaneingazi1808
23 күн бұрын
sudika 😂😂😂
@ludwabaludwaba3074
24 күн бұрын
Yhaaa it's tough maan that's all I can say. It's true when they say u choose your hard.
@thabelofavormufamadi
18 күн бұрын
Thank God for Jesus. This thing of saying I was a church girl I ask myself which God were you believing, were you going to church so people can say you good or you had a relationship with Him. The God I know will never allow you/me to submit to anything less than Him. I am sorry sistas but you open up yourself to this spirits don't mention church. Just do you boo do you and leave Jesus out of this.
@tebogogumede5730
23 күн бұрын
The saddest thing in life is to not have a spiritual relationship with your creator God. This world is cruel, youll loose yourself completely. This is heartbreaking on a serious note. Yoooo
@nthabisengmashalane6993
22 күн бұрын
True, not studying the word of God will turn you into a confident clown. This is truly a sad episode.
@CallMeKatlego
24 күн бұрын
Yoh but did her hubby not feel the slightest of guilt for seeing her going through all that for so many years🥲even after the 7 hours situation he still continued but I guess we don’t see “true love” the same way
@MsSwanlake
21 күн бұрын
Fr fr💯 I read it differently too, he didn't care, he doesn't care
@sibongisenisakhele3114
24 күн бұрын
What an articulate Mama! Beautiful ladies
@palesamotsoeneng4506
20 күн бұрын
Would also love to hear the husband and second wife story
@themalawiandiner180
19 күн бұрын
Yes, it would be nice to hear their side of the story.
@Millibabe
23 күн бұрын
Yoh that was a tough one, I'm even shaking 😮
@allaboutyou7524
24 күн бұрын
Eish is not nice but re tlareng as long as she is fine,i love her❤
@lebo3130
23 күн бұрын
yohh I am not begging for marriage😅 imagine accepting polygamy because you keep meeting married men. The man didnt even fight for the marriage. hai no
@themalawiandiner180
19 күн бұрын
Sadly, he didn't fight to get her back, she just went back on her own accord.
@thembisaluyandabuthelezi3993
24 күн бұрын
Women always have to go through pain ? For a purpose. Can I not be purposeful🎉
@MsSwanlake
24 күн бұрын
😂🤣 Oh haaike!
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Leave men alone entirely if that’s your wish.
@thembisaluyandabuthelezi3993
24 күн бұрын
Because they are suppose to hurt us?
@thembisilemsiza942
23 күн бұрын
Lol U r soooo me , 😃 😀 😄 ayivalwe le purpose 🤣 I bet you the purpose is running as far away as possible to being unmarried and single life... That's what I get from this...
@noluthandosibiya108
22 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@MmeChuene
24 күн бұрын
Yoooo. Asoze. Aneva. Angeke
@SouthAh
24 күн бұрын
Let’s just be honest, no one is okay with sharing a partner - they just settle. Infact, I find it be the worse form of lack of self love. …& as Khanyi Mbau said, when you’re depressed you’ll think you have an ancestral calling.
@nomfundomagubane712
24 күн бұрын
Once you understand that polygamy is not just what you see but it’s actually more spiritual when done right, you’ll have a different opinion .
@pfulu
24 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 O worse , when you depressed you will confused it to ancestral calling🙆♀️
@nomfundomagubane712
24 күн бұрын
@@pfulu again read what said to understand not to reply fast
@boitumelosinesiphotabata1603
22 күн бұрын
She was definitely depressed
@juliamaloka70
21 күн бұрын
Can we have the side chick aka mamncane's own narrative. But come alone not with husband or delulu mamkhulu
@tshiamor22
23 күн бұрын
I love this podcast ❤️ BUT the only thing I’ll complain about is time I feel like guests are rushed and have to cut their stories short to accommodate the producers Also guests who are about to release a book they don’t really share the tea some viewers would want to hear.
@mmamoketecarolkhobane4852
7 күн бұрын
Its like we are finally as women admitting that its a man's world, we are just living in it
@triciakekana
24 күн бұрын
My maths is not Mathing here, she said they started dating Feb 2016 she moved in March, he paid Lobola Oct/Nov she said 5months but ke....now ahe says they paid lobola 2018/17 I am so confused
@khensanebaloyi6835
24 күн бұрын
Maybe they paid half lobola in 2016 then came back to finish the process in 2018
@heidyloniagrant9007
24 күн бұрын
They started lobola negotiations 2017 finished 2018
@triciakekana
18 күн бұрын
Alright thank you
@msngema1380
24 күн бұрын
Why are single mothers catching strays? Guys let’s choose what we can tolerate. All of it is hard including staying with a cheating man. I was raised by a parent who stayed for us…My God was my mom an angry women when I was growing up…so I choose to do it on my own…
@Vv-fl2rm
24 күн бұрын
Your own way will definitely have negative outcomes on your kids. Your way is not the blue print. Kids need a balanced two parent happy secure home situation to become well adjusted healthy adults. You are currently parenting from your own wounded traumatic childhood with your experience of your own angry mother who stayed. Not every women who stays is angry and broken.
@msngema1380
20 күн бұрын
@@Vv-fl2rm both of not healthy will affect the kids…sp let’s not justify into engekho…trauma is trauma is not better because it comes from a family eno mama nobaba
@sulezinyembezigqeba
24 күн бұрын
I laughed when they said "side chicks are going to kill us" who is fetching these side chicks na? 😂 Anyway as long as she's happy, she did say polygamy is her portion😶
@kgotatsothobejane6761
24 күн бұрын
Yho , kuningi and it keeps getting kuningier .
@ThobileMacaws
24 күн бұрын
Gogo is so beautiful 😍. Both ladies are so gorgeous ❤!! I love how she’s owning her story.
@khanyisamaluleke6399
20 күн бұрын
Not into isthembu but i really enjoyed the interview, really nice how gogo owned her narrative.
@nomthandazogulekana3297
22 күн бұрын
Am proud of you Promise 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉I love you and our podcast is growing I started with you on TikTok n from your first video here am still here
@annietabok154
9 күн бұрын
Incredibly refreshing perspective, Gogo. I admire your maturity and your capacity to embrace the situation and meaningfully navigate life.
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