Sorry for your loss , remember the happy times and it be less painful
@daveclarke8913
5 жыл бұрын
Again.. Who else are as candid and open as Dave and June .. they have a knack of broaching difficult subjects whilst keeping a positive spin on things... people can relate, and identify with them.. and that's why what they say resonates with us "folks"... Like the "speakmans" of KZitem.. Seriously though,..Great work guys 🤗🤗
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, comments like this mean a lot.
@daveclarke8913
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan Again...Thank you guys XXX
@andyspet
5 жыл бұрын
My dad died in 2014. And my mum is in hospital right now doesn't look like she's getting out of this one been called in the office and doctors have told me. I spoon fed her today I love her so much but she's nearly 86 people always say good innings and all that. But if you love someone it makes no odds but life doesn't last forever and no one gets away from this I'm dreading this but you have to think they love you and would want you to carry on. But you'll never forget. Told my mum I loved her today. And she said I love you son. Life is hard but that's life cheers Andy xx
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like me and June were right to do this video. We seem to have touched and help a lot of people. Hope you find the strength to get through mate and your parents live on through you. 👍👊🙏
@andyspet
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan thanks a lot
@thor8419
5 жыл бұрын
BVM & June really are the mom and dad of youtube. These videos will help so many people. Thank you Dave & June ❤️
@elizabethbutler8619
4 жыл бұрын
Wow June talking about her Mum passing totally got me. So lovely that both of you have shared this video I can imagine it being helpful to so many people who are going through something like this x
@BlueVanMan
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words 🙏
@ptaker91
5 жыл бұрын
"Has that dog gone upstairs" is the best quote on this video, talking about something so sensitive but being so down to earth as well! love the video BVM
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
We don't want him eating socks again.
@dalehendo
5 жыл бұрын
Credit where credits due. Well done BVM and June. Salt of the earth you two. Not many people out there providing this kind of help and support whilst still being entertaining. Hats off
@DanielCatterson-uj5pt
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Blue Van Man for this video dealing with such a serious topic. I lost my best friend of over 13 years on this day five years ago to cancer. She was only 16 years old and dealing with this loss has been very tough for me. Thank you so much to you and June for sharing stories and advice that I will certainly take on and use to help with all this. Keep up the great work big man.
@willmarshonline
5 жыл бұрын
Superb content big boy and June, absolutely love you guys, as far as KZitem your going straight to the top BVM god bless guys x
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words.
@mikehunt6195
5 жыл бұрын
Trolls just say things for attention Dave, don’t even talk about them it’s wasting your time. You’re a great KZitemr and an even better man.
@herbiereviews1619
5 жыл бұрын
June was excellent in this video and really revealed what a wonderful person she is. Maybe your best video yet, BVM. Thank you for sharing.
@caitlintaylor98
5 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy listening to these videos about more difficult topics, its refreshing to hear such honesty
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, hopefully this helps a few people. Respect.
@caitlintaylor98
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan I think it will definitely help
@fidgetspinner343
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan It has been great to watch your KZitem journey, you are a special guy reflected by your YT following. I do like these life talks every now and again and your honesty (which is sadly lacking in this world)
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
@@fidgetspinner343 yeah, it's good when we can help others with topics like this.👊
@fullscreengaming3619
5 жыл бұрын
I know you'll never see this, but just want to say that this was a great video, just as real and honest as everything you do. I have no one that is ill/dying at the moment, but I know that one day it will arrive and I often think about it, and this video has given me hope for the future and pushed me to tell the people around me that I love them and that we will be ok afterwards, even if the pain never truly leaves. Thank you BVM.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Hi, my Juney looks at all my messages and I go through as many as I can so yes, I have seen this. Thanks for watching and the support and I hope you don't need the words of this video for a long time. 👍
@adamgrice2194
5 жыл бұрын
my dad passed this year. thanks for this, guys x
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Hope it helps
@Simon-gq8wn
5 жыл бұрын
Zaid Patel You idiot.
@shenkmu5501
5 жыл бұрын
@Trill 1 what did he say
@mendoh7891
5 жыл бұрын
Same. It gets better
@DEAN0795
5 жыл бұрын
Christ, the grandad bit at the start had my eyes watering because I’m in the same boat. Nobody knows how they’re going to react or know how to deal with it until it happens. Hindsight is a beautiful thing
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, really didn't know what to expect that day. Like it was yesterday but if he knew he would give me a clip round the ear.
@DEAN0795
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for uploading this video BVM. Really put a thought in my head as I’m sure it did for many others.
@afwzidane
5 жыл бұрын
Much respect fella, to you and your wife. Takes real strength to be truly honest and real on KZitem these days... You are breaking down the 4th wall and rightly so.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Cheers mate
@afwzidane
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan No THANK YOU... This world has gone to hell in recent years... and what you do, in your down to earth way, makes people (me included) very happy. ...and the blue van man rolls on! :D
@JD-ke7zt
5 жыл бұрын
This is really good advice - I'm sure a lot of people will benefit from this video.
@elboothroyd3224
5 жыл бұрын
Really rate this kind of content! Someone actually talking about real life problems etc
@richgixer
5 жыл бұрын
Probably the best video yet, June was on point 👌
@veloso4united
5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you did a video like this, I enjoyed it, It helped me a lot, My grandfather passed away last September, And the first anniversary of his death is coming up soon, I've been griefing for almost a year, June said she overthinks things, And I'm like that as well, I would like to thank the both of you for your honest opinions and advice on how to handle Grief, Bereavement and loss, Keep up the good work.
@Michael_67
5 жыл бұрын
BVM you are such a legend mate,you and June have got it right there,losing someone is horrible but you have put the reality into it and life does go on 👍🏻👍🏻
@GTiR23
5 жыл бұрын
Great video guys, big love to everyone reading, have a great weekend! You only get one go round, enjoy yourselves!
@callumwoodward1591
5 жыл бұрын
I remember when my grandad died and just last week I saw a video of people trying other people’s bikes and failing. My gran wanted to try my grandads bike before I was born and revved it and went straight up a tree. Something like that reminds me of him. Something like that and model trains bless him. Never forgotten.
@danielashcroft669
5 жыл бұрын
Blue van man you are a person who says how it is and that's what I love about you so well done and plz keep in going with your youtube career I can tell it's gonna go really far
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I just take it one day at a time and what happens happens. If I can help others on this ride then great. 👍👊
@Nob0dy420
5 жыл бұрын
Genuinely an absolutely amazing video, I love you to so much man. You are the real people that we need on KZitem.
@TheSeejay35
5 жыл бұрын
The videos your doing bvm on serious topics are superb absolutely nailing it. Credit to june also fair play for sharing stories
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks, I have no idea why people think we can help but hopefully we can.
@user-st6we4dq3l
5 жыл бұрын
Respect for doing this my guy
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@user-st6we4dq3l
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man much love
@LEK7686
5 жыл бұрын
Another excellent video mate, thank you very much to you and June for sharing your past experiences. I lost my Grandma in mid 2017 and it truly knocked me for six (by far the closest Grandparent we had), I wasn't in a great place for a little while after but like you say - time and keeping busy really does help. Now I just think of all the happy memories we had and forever thankful that she was able to bond with my young daughter before it all happened.
@marinew25
5 жыл бұрын
Honestly, you have so much advice to give because you've experienced the good & bad parts of life. It's actually incredibly helpful to hear these stories because one day everyone will be in at least one of the situations that you've described, and get reassurance to know they're not the only one who's experienced it🙏🏽
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words and support.
@rickybaillie4222
5 жыл бұрын
Who laughs at death do they not realise that they will be in the same position at some point. Absolutely nobody gets through life without losing someone
@dominicedwards-wilds4333
5 жыл бұрын
No one laughs at death. People deal with grief in a thousand different ways
@harveywright2710
5 жыл бұрын
Best video you’ve done mate, really help this
@cmgamer1309
5 жыл бұрын
Dear Dave and June, Thank you for sharing your experience on this touchy subject. Sometimes just hearing other peoples story just might help oneself. You guys are great. Also shout out to the person who was the inspiration for this video. I hope you're doing alright.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words
@KIoakk
5 жыл бұрын
Im not even greaving and this helped. lost my cat this year and I dont have any friends, I only go to college, and play games and watch youtube. She was my only proper friend.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
sorry to hear that, when losing a pet it can be as bad as losing a relative. Hate it when pets die. x
@KIoakk
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan Yeah, one of the worst things, probably because they're always around you or nearby x
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
@@KIoakk yeah, my advice is get another cat. You obviously love them so go and get a rescue and give it a happy life. 👊
@KittenHasWares
5 жыл бұрын
@@KIoakk lol describes my life aswell 🤔
@KIoakk
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man yeah, Id like another one but I might move out in a few years - Im 17 soon. I love any animals really, so when I get my own place chances are Ill have some.
@saramurphy7046
5 жыл бұрын
A big thank you Dave to You and June for talking about such a personal and deep topic like this and for being so open and candid about the loss of your Mum Dave as well as June's parents. I'm sorry for your loss Dave & June 🙏 (hugs). I was really close with my grandparents and losing them deeply affected me and I want to thank You and June for being so open and honest and for the great advice! It really does mean a lot to so many people, including myself. Xx
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words and support. I really hope this does help you and others with the loss of a loved one. 🙏
@UltimateFeudEnterprise
5 жыл бұрын
The right folks was a serious right folks today
@thisisnix
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this and all your videos BVM & June 🙏💖
@veloso4united
5 жыл бұрын
Even though it was a serious video, There were a couple of funny moments in it, And that's why I watch your videos, You'are your self, And that's what I like about your videos, You say it how it is.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Cheers buddy
@veloso4united
5 жыл бұрын
No Problem at all.
@rebekahglenn
5 жыл бұрын
lovely words from you and June x
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@joebarrell8045
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing guys, absolute heroes
@tommymcallister2170
5 жыл бұрын
Love this video BVM. Me and my partner had a miscarriage last year and hearing this video has helped me realise how positive you have to look on life.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
It's the only way mate. If you don't look forward you end up falling backwards.
@tommymcallister2170
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man Appreciate the reply mate means a lot. Will continue watching your videos and reviews as I love them! Also hope you and June and ginge are doing well 👍
@onetwothreefourfive12345
5 жыл бұрын
The thing I personally always like to think when worrying about grief is that literally every other human being on this earth will experience or has experienced the loss of family members. You aren’t alone. And im not trying to downplay loss or anything obviously. I just find that it helps to think this way.
@ryanbutcher4527
5 жыл бұрын
Great video BVM & June. Difficult subject to talk about but your video is going to help loads of people
@james2156
5 жыл бұрын
You are definitely the right person to be discussing topics like these and other real life issues I think you should do more. Very nicely done.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words and support mate. Comments like this make us want to do more.
@Socrates...
5 жыл бұрын
Your best video yet along with the debt videos. It should be part of a series you do. Please continue making these types of vieos. They mean a lot to me.
@rickybaillie4222
5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love these guys i don't miss a video ❤️
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support.
@rickybaillie4222
5 жыл бұрын
I'm like you i always try to be humorous at serious times and it's more of a coping method for me tbh rather than actually having a laugh.
@jacknugent6829
5 жыл бұрын
I lost my mum when I was 17, hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with, this is great advice from Dave and June
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry and thanks
@jacknugent6829
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man legend Dave
@Sam-mk5kp
5 жыл бұрын
Great video BVM. Pure raw emotions from ordinary people who deal with grief naturally is so much better to hear than a pre-programmed response by someone who hasn’t actually experienced grief properly. My Grandad had recently had a stroke and has brain damage from it. He was truly my idol for life and losing what he was was terrible. This video helps so much even though you might not think it.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Like I said mate in the video, use the tools he gave you and make him proud when he is looking down on you buddy. 👍👊🙏
@Sam-mk5kp
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man thanks big BVM
@EastwoodFPS
5 жыл бұрын
Great vid & i think its one that people need to hear. Sorry for your losses♥️, family is the most important thing whether its the one your born into or the one you build.
@douchebag2019
5 жыл бұрын
Legend Dave. Love your videos
@yungweej1119
5 жыл бұрын
Top bloke BVM glad you found this platform, cheers x
@markblackford7131
5 жыл бұрын
Best video you've ever done mate. Hats off to you and your dear wife June. Quality. I have my own loss I struggle with and this is a massive help. Cheers BVM aka Big Dave. (Be a massive help if you could drop 3 points on Sunday to my lads as well... If you have any say on that..)
@millwall0178
5 жыл бұрын
This video was really genuine and you can tell that they really felt like they needed to make this video and the emotion that they put into this
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Cheers mate, it was harder for June than me but both from the heart.
@notmanynamesleft
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experiences on this emotional subject I discovered this channel a couple of days ago and you are great 👍
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you and welcome aboard the van ride.
@onetwothreefourfive12345
5 жыл бұрын
Really nice video Blue Van Man. I really like these kind of serious videos in addition to your product reviews. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.
@maxtaylor6057
5 жыл бұрын
You truly are the beating heart of this website ❤️❤️
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
WOW, high praise indeed. 👍
@charleebrown6406
5 жыл бұрын
It's a hard one my mum's mum was completely out of charaxter from her normal self, 5 sisters between them could not handle dementia. We all die but I think a celebration of life is the way to go. Remember the memories and have a chuckle with our loved ones past and present. Yer.
@ThaGuyRage
5 жыл бұрын
I'm just watching this now and I got to say I'm a mix of both! I'm really deeply involved emotionally, but at the same time I have to find a way to find humour in a bad situation. June struck my heart a bit made me choke up and remember things that mad me grieve
@DarkPhoenix89
5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video guys. The culture club comment had me in stitches. Songs not to play at a funeral. #1: Do you really want to hurt me? xD
@daveclarke8913
5 жыл бұрын
Continuing the songs not to play at s funeral theme.. I suggest..'living on a box',..or maybe.. 'going underground'.. by the jam...or perhaps..' Wake me up before you go go'..😏😏😏
@Highlander1518
5 жыл бұрын
I was in Vegas in 2015. Came back to find out my uncle died suddenly of a heart attack at the age of 66. Excellent video, BVM.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@TECHLEGACY
5 жыл бұрын
Love you David; keep this kind of content up!
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
thanks you fro the both of us.
@StoleYourUserName
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts about this you have given me some hope.. after loosing our much loved dog Strongbow to cancer I thought I wouldn’t be able to cope when my parents pass away but maybe I might cope better with that like you did. 👍
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
🙏👍✌👊
@michaeldoyle799
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this Dave
@cybermiddi6742
5 жыл бұрын
Keep going strong BVM we’re here for you
@givetea4464
5 жыл бұрын
Never thought I’d be crying at a bvm video ☹️
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Apologies
@Jaydownes7
5 жыл бұрын
Get this man a podcast
@JakeMcBoss
5 жыл бұрын
Would love for June to come on the camera with you, but still a really insightful video and one that I'm glad I watched fully.
@phillyb4796
5 жыл бұрын
Really rate this. Have had a cousin and 2 friends pass away in the last year or so and a ton of family members and friends before that. Hate funerals so can relate to this fully.
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Totally agree mate.
@Gblonkers
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone hates funerals man. It seems to take someone passing away to bring family and friends together
@dylanmitchell2145
5 жыл бұрын
Not going to lie when I heard June getting upset I felt a bit upset too . Great video bvm and June
@gdn2705
5 жыл бұрын
Good upload I lost my mam in 2017 and lost my dad in 1987 when I was 17 so know how bad bereavement can be.
@johnatkin8093
5 жыл бұрын
Top man bvm and June,great video of a serious subject
@mrkierancraft2
5 жыл бұрын
Im not going through any loss but i am glad you had this video i enjoyed listening to this
@celticwarlord4204
5 жыл бұрын
RIP MUMMA VAN
@NeathanBrowne
5 жыл бұрын
You guys are amazing I can relate so much wish you the best in life
@LucaWilkinsonest2012
5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant and motivational video BVM. I really needed this so thank you
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Glad to be of help.
@givetea4464
5 жыл бұрын
Wow this video is Breaking my heart I’m actually so lucky I haven’t had anyone close to me die
@aaronsean3251
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely quality video
@jayknight3625
5 жыл бұрын
Top man Bvm, I deal with it exactly the same, nice to hear because I was feeling like I am strange, bless you my friend
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
We all have our own ways mate. 👊
@taylor2some480
5 жыл бұрын
I’m 35 and have just lost my uncle and loosing my mum too...your words are very true...very hard time for me right now at such a young age too...wish I would of been able to have my mum for years to come
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear it mate but make sure you let her speak and say what she needs to say and you do the same. 🙏👊
@davey9357
5 жыл бұрын
KZitem's own Jezza Kyle this fella respect
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Have you seen my DNA video?
@SuperSweetToffee
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. My dad died when I was 6
@jill-e644
5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you June.....she waited....
@thumper151284
5 жыл бұрын
My brother took his own life last month. It's like someone has ripped my feelings out of my body. I can't concentrate on anything other than trying to make it through each day.
@Lisa-oc2cd
5 жыл бұрын
That's all you can do! Take it a day at a time, I know it's a cliche but it is true that time is a great healer x
@jacksonkeeler
5 жыл бұрын
Laughter is nature’s medicine
@maxchaplin9456
5 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss bvm
@jeremyhillock5519
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@RB-pq9ld
5 жыл бұрын
Fair play to you both, took bollocks that.
@garyhillis6749
5 жыл бұрын
You guys get nicer with every vid you put up... haven't watched yet so I'll comment when I do. Just wanted to say that.
@Charliewright-hi3pf
5 жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
17 years ago mate so its ok
@MRxXaeroXx
5 жыл бұрын
Great video mate
@aestheticsbyjasmine940
5 жыл бұрын
My mum 15 year anniversary coming up soon I’ll never get over it no matter how long I love you don’t just get over losing a parent a part of you dies with them 😿
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
It sure does die with you. 🙏
@Danfazza-ey6mx
5 жыл бұрын
Chin up big man... Great vid 👍👍
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Think you mean "chins"
@Danfazza-ey6mx
5 жыл бұрын
Didn't want to make u feel worse... 🤣🤣
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
@@Danfazza-ey6mx Hey mate, its all cool, say what you see. My mum been dead for 17 years so its all cool.
@shreklayers9609
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man man i love you so much 😂
@Danfazza-ey6mx
5 жыл бұрын
Not my style mate to call anyone for their appearance.. I thinks your a swell bloke and your vids especially these ones are brilliant. Your a top man.
@DJTVisuals
5 жыл бұрын
I sent you a message about this, thanks for this mate 👍
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
No worries mate, hope it helps. 👊👍
@DJTVisuals
5 жыл бұрын
Blue Van Man It has thank you so much
@human777
2 жыл бұрын
June was great here :)
@melgrant7404
5 жыл бұрын
Lost my mum last year love to you bvm
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Hope this helps. 👊
@melgrant7404
5 жыл бұрын
@@BlueVanMan thanks bvm xx
@rssagoo5780
5 жыл бұрын
As a Sikh person we learn to accept death as part of life, so you should not be affraid when it comes it comes. The body is just flesh but the soul is the most important thing. Hope this makes sense to some 🙏
@adeyprince4086
5 жыл бұрын
Amazing words ❤️
@deannamarie4149
5 жыл бұрын
You don't get over it, you get used to it. ☮919
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
How true. 👍👊
@llihkram
5 жыл бұрын
my mum passed away nearly 6 years ago and I don't think I will ever get over it, I'm just learning to cope without her
@BlueVanMan
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree mate but it's been 17 years when my mum left us but you do move on eventually. 👊🙏
@Mookiethedog
5 жыл бұрын
Love you two
@jamiealbrecht1284
3 жыл бұрын
2 years since the loss of my son's mum. It hasn't got gone away, I've just found ways to divert my thoughts.
@BlueVanMan
3 жыл бұрын
I guess everyone has their way to deal with things. 🙏
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