Beautifully explained! A lot of common sense about approaching things, like you said the fog that surrounds you is hard to clear. MY hubby died a year ago, we are both disabled, and I was his carer, he had m.s and was wheelchair user. Yes life was hard but not as hard as life is without him. He was my soul mate and we laughed every day. Unfortunately the hospital let him down badly! Also at his funeral my eldest son collapsed and I thought he had just died in front of me. Thankfully he, s OK now. But grief isn't just for the wife! Husband /partner etc, it affects so many, all of whom loved them. Sometimes we need permission (I know it may sound silly) to start to enjoy life again, take care every one. Thank you
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. You went through a lot. I can't even imagine how horrible that must have been, losing your husband and then having your son collapse at the funeral. I'm glad your son is ok. Thanks so much for sharing. Sending lots of hugs your way.
@emereldpatterson1900
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss Daisy, we are all in this together, your videos are very factual and helpful for us widows and what we are really going through. Yes! Our husbands would not want us to unhappy as my husband of 52 years did everything to make me happy. I am staying strong for him. Thank you for your very valuable information and advice.
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment. It means so much to me to hear that my videos are helpful. I'm so sorry for your loss also. Your husband must have been a wonderful person and I'm sure he's watching over you from above and is proud of you. Many hugs, Daisy
@priscarupiya
Жыл бұрын
Very useful indeed thank you - it's difficult though!
@emereldpatterson1900
Жыл бұрын
@@priscarupiya Extremely difficult indeed, I believe God has given us life and therefore He will help us to fulfill our purpose and that my husband will be proud of me.
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
@@priscarupiya I'm so sorry for your loss. Yes, it's extremely difficult, loss turns your life completely upside down. The only thing we can do is to be there for each other and comfort and help each other on this shitty journey. Sending lots of hugs your way.
@germainefisher1632
Жыл бұрын
It’s 9 months since my husband died. I was his primary caregiver for two plus years in our home. I feel so lost and lonely still. Thanks for the tips!
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could say or do to lessen your pain... I can imagine how difficult this must be, especially since you were his caregiver for two years. I'm sure your life was completely centered around him and now he's gone. It's so hard to find your bearings after loss and when your world has been completely turned upside down. Sending lots of hugs your way.
@germainefisher1632
Жыл бұрын
Everything you said is true. Thank you!
@lindaagee5880
Күн бұрын
I understand where you are coming from. I too was my husband's caregiver for 2 years. I'm lost and lonely also. But I thank God I was able to care for him. Prayers for you🙏
@jpowell2603
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this helpful video. Im 5 months in after my wife died from breast cancer. I love this video thank you.
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish no one had to go through this. Sending many hugs your way, Daisy
@lyndaennis8036
Жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad this video was helpful to you.
@nancyclayton1741
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your tips. It's been 18 months.
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. Grief can still be so raw at 18 months. Sending hugs your way!
@kathleenhensley5951
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Its been 2 years.
@mywidowedheart
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish no one would have to go through this. It's been ten years for me. Sending lots of hugs your way, Daisy
@jerrygilliland7944
Жыл бұрын
A very helpful video. Thank you
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you for your comment.
@carolynhiscock9457
Жыл бұрын
You are so right about deferring major decisions.I thought I was doing well until I reflected back to decisions made .
@mywidowedheart
Жыл бұрын
Yes, it's so hard, or even impossible, to think clearly after loss. Thanks for sharing. Hugs, Daisy
Пікірлер: 24