It doesn't get better as time goes on....it gets worse. At first you're in denial and shock. Once that's over the reality sets in and that's when you realize that it's final, and the loneliness hits you in the face. Family and friends stop coming around because they either feel they've exhausted their condolences, or they don't want to be around someone that is depressed all the time (which is understandable). So you either lie and say that you're doing ok, or you avoid people.
@tiffanyanderson6271
2 жыл бұрын
These testimonies were so helpful as I am grieving the loss of my husband, who passed away 2 months ago. We would have celebrated our 34th wedding Anniversary in March. My heart aches because I miss him so much but my heart also rejoices that he is with the Lord.
@godfreytumwesigye
2 жыл бұрын
I lost my wife to Covid-19 on 16th June 2021. I'm hurting, I feel a huge vacuum in my heart, in my entire being. A big part of me went with her. People don't understand how I feel. They fear to talk to me. Is not easy!
@godfreytumwesigye
2 жыл бұрын
Whereas I want to keep talking about her, people want us to avoid. I have stopped telling people the truth about how I feel; I lie to them that I'm fine: that's what they want to hear. Truth be said; I'm not ok, I m doing so badly - the pain, the emptiness, the feeling of guilt. The feeling that people don't care. I think only my children feel such deep pain
@gbossy1857
3 жыл бұрын
I lost my husband at 23 yrs old. At first I was so mad at God for taking him from me. But it’s not Gods fault but will. I’m still in love w him, we had 4 beautiful girls that are now fatherless but my faith is in God. I pray that the Lord help us all through this pain and journey. God bless us all. In Jesus name.. Amen 🙏🏼
@tedsterrett7204
3 жыл бұрын
In actuality your spouse has a piece of your soul so when they pass on part of your soul goes with them. I lost my wife of 30 years in 2016. There is no loss like the loss of a spouse you feel empty.
@kathylaho3344
This is the best grief video I have watched and listened to. My heart goes out to all three people who had the courage to share their stories with viewers. I lost my Husband Dennis Jan 12 of this year. For him it was a very long illness. I took care of him at home from Sept 2023 through the day he died. He was in the hospital once a month from Dec 19 through Dec 8th 2023 in ICU. He was intubated 4 times he died 3 times. When he died I could not accept it. I still am not accepting of it. Someone said to me that now my husband is God. I didn’t want to accept that either. I just wanted my Dennis back. I am a Christian but struggling with deep sadness. I knew him 57 years. You all have helped me some. Thank you❤
@dougmoore5222
3 жыл бұрын
My wife and daughter died in a car crash almost 40 years ago. I have since remarried, yet, I think of them almost ever day. The years may pass, and we survivors may build a wall to help deal with such loss, but it almost always proves but a thin veneer that can crumble with a whiff of perfume, a sudden warm memory, or the melody of a shared song, and again the tears roll down our cheeks and grief tears at our heart. The pain of such loss remains for life even though we learn ways of disguising it.
@mightymouse2098
Жыл бұрын
I agree, thank you to all that shared their pain and sorrow. I am widowed 2 months and its been devastating.
@peace4serenity
2 жыл бұрын
My beautiful husband died 3 weeks ago. In the last year of his life he had prostate and esophagus cancer. He died quickly of complications following surgery and radiation. He was the most loving, kind, giving, faith filled man I’ve ever known. In a few days we would have been celebrating our 19th wedding anniversary. I miss praying with him, I miss his laughter and his loving ways. We were supported in prayer by so many people we felt carried in grace. He died peacefully. In the last week of his life I would often say “Thy will be done”. “Jesus I trust in you”. When he struggled he would say, “I offer it up”. I watched as he placed his trust in the Lord. His faith strengthened me. I miss him so deeply and all the paper work and legal things to do is so stressful. All our children live far away from home, but I feel the presence of the Lord. Each time I cry deeply. I feel comforted by God. I work very hard to stay in this moment. I can manage today with God’s grace despite how deeply my heart aches. Often when we prayed together we would thank God our faith. I thank God for my faith and our faith community who have been so supportive.
@dondressel452
3 жыл бұрын
I’m here because I’m worried about my fiancé
@npenick66
My wife of 20 years passed away unexpectedly 23 days ago on 1/5/24. She said that she was a little tired and wanted to nap in her recliner, she didn't wake up. She was 52. They said that she had a 'little bit' of pneumonia in her right lung, that's it. Something that was easily treatable.
@CamDollM3
3 жыл бұрын
To all those who have lost someone dear to you, the people who care about you, we love you and recognize your struggles. You're doing the best you can given your circumstance.
@anniej2670
Жыл бұрын
My beautiful soulmate died in a car accident 3 weeks ago today ❤he had turned 39 only a few days earlier. I can not wait until we’re together again in the next life.
@dordil
4 жыл бұрын
My husband of 43 years died on 15 July
@cameraguy1968
Жыл бұрын
I lost my wife of 19 years 2 days ago, I'm destroyed, every breath is agony and everything in the house reminds me of her.
@cindyrobbins8789
4 жыл бұрын
My Soon Joshua passed at the age of 29 years old 1/7/2012
@beautifulhomeswith_venza
3 жыл бұрын
It’s exactly 3months now since I Lost my wonderful fiancé (oct 9th 2020)l can relate to the video very well,the pain is unbearable,and it doesn’t get any better ,I miss him so so much ,it’s not easy,but I trust that our God will make it easy for each one of us who is going through this hard time
@marilynpagliuca1478
2 жыл бұрын
My husband passed 3 years ago and there are still times I sit and cry and kiss his photos and talk to him. I am 87 and have a daughter that looks out for me although I am very independent and still drive and go grocery shopping and Mass on Sundays and a few functions at church. All our elder relatives are gone and some of are nieces and nephews have started going as well. We were married 60 years and still were in love and liked each other. I have never felt so much pain in any other loss before but I consider myself as extremely fortunate for having all these memories to live on for now and music of all kinds helps me get through it. I think of him every moment of every day and can hardly wait to be with him again. God is GOOD!!!
@PT-tw6kg
4 жыл бұрын
I just lost my husband of 20yrs the Lord took him home on Aug 5th 2019. My world has imploded have no family or children. I face this alone friends seem to disappear but I do have the Lord our God.
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