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@CffeRyokoo
3 ай бұрын
"did she just take my pen? She did She did just take my fucking pen." 😭🙏🏼🙏🏼
@Hazelnut_The_Weirdo
Ай бұрын
That’s not even the worst part of being neurodivergent as a kid undiagnosed I’m pretty sure I am and OMG THIS IS SO TRUE
@dcbandit
Ай бұрын
Big Tweety Bird energy in that sentence.
@aarishowton8037
3 ай бұрын
People borrowing my gel pens was the bane of my existence
@chelseabray7565
3 ай бұрын
One girl stole my bubblegum pen in 98 never forgotten I hope karma has her
@Vai_Editzz
3 ай бұрын
@@chelseabray7565 I aspire to be the petty you are 😭
@A13XLaircey
2 ай бұрын
I didn't have gel pens, but I did have an eraser each year. So when a friend would borrow the eraser, they would obviously see the used corner there, that I cleaned it up even so they could use it, and OBVIOUSLY use that corner to erase with, right? ... RIGHT?? WRONG!! They would take it, turn that eraser ALL THE WAY AROUND just to make SURE a clean corner was there, and then rub it really hard, messing it up!!
@kaleenar963
2 ай бұрын
@@A13XLairceyI used to collect Novelty Erasers and one time I brought one to school to show my friends and then left it in my locker, but then someone came and took the eraser and STARTED USING IT ON EVERYTHING. It’s a novelty eraser! OF COURSE you’re not supposed to erase with it, because it comes in a unique shape! I wouldn’t have even been that mad about them stealing it if they had taken good care of it, but I didn’t even try to get it back because it was ruined forever and I was so mad.
@rainpooper7088
2 ай бұрын
I dipped out of gel pens prior to school, non-refillable pens with a visible life bar were the bane of *my* existence.
@annafurmaniak8981
3 ай бұрын
It gives me indiscernible rage every time but people pleasing makes me go “oh, okay,” 🙂
@rainbowbutterflyfan
3 ай бұрын
It also gives indescribable rage to other people when you people please. Do better for yourself and others
@followthewhiterabbit884
3 ай бұрын
Your people pleasing can be hard for others too. Imagine you have a friend, but never know If he/she isn't ok with something. You don't seem happy with it either. Other people aren't mind readers. Behaviour is learned, that means you can work on it. 😊
@CrowAkechi_The_Luminary
3 ай бұрын
Same
@Phoenix.L.M
3 ай бұрын
@@followthewhiterabbit884Some behaviors aren’t learned, some are genetic. People don’t “learn” autistic and/or ADHD traits. Nature vs. nurture still involves both nature (inherent) and nurture (learned).
@Melancholy_Star_Bunny
2 ай бұрын
Real. But people pleasing does get annoying for others so trying to get over that is a good idea.
@KelsiHope09
3 ай бұрын
DON'T 🙅🏻♀️ TOUCH 😤 MY 😱 THINGS 👿 Edit: DAD I'M FAMOUS!!! 🙀🙀
@channelofrandomthingsthata6269
3 ай бұрын
Pluh
@v1per.wavez.
3 ай бұрын
@@channelofrandomthingsthata6269😹
@zelderfreek
3 ай бұрын
YES omfgg my teacher took my pencils >:(
@KelsiHope09
3 ай бұрын
@@zelderfreek I would be throwing hands
@K-12_love
2 ай бұрын
@@KelsiHope09I’m with you
@goldenheart__
3 ай бұрын
i hate when people get angry with you for not sharing your things. i hate that we were all raised on ‘sharing is caring’ cause yeah its nice to share things with others but also, i dont HAVE to if i dont WANT to. so hey, maybe respect that my things are MINE and go get your OWN things
@kia7314
3 ай бұрын
Especially when you spend your own money on buying them. As a kid, if I spent my own money on something for school, there was no way I'd ever let anyone touch it.
@lovelysophxox
3 ай бұрын
My response to “sharing is caring” was always “but I don’t care, so I won’t share” like piss off, my stuff is MY STUFF.
@plant620
3 ай бұрын
yeah sharing is caring is fine when youre at daycare and dont own the toys or whatever, but as soon as youre old enough to buy your own stuff, its whatever you want to do
@DJ-rm3co
3 ай бұрын
omg fr, and that rule annoying applies to you when someone else would get pissy at you not sharing and your roles are swapped it's "Oh I got here first" SHUT THE FUCK UP
@jessieellul-harrison5111
2 ай бұрын
@@lovelysophxoxgreat response and such an underated comment 😂
@asarishepard8171
3 ай бұрын
I wouldn't " lend" a kid a pencil in grade school cause we all know lend means keep to these types 😂
@ashhole03
3 ай бұрын
If I borrowed a mechanical pencil from someone, I would always give it back, but if it was a wooden one, I would keep it. They're cheaper, lower quality, and look the same as almost any other wood pencil so nobody would recognize it as theirs.
@Bit_By_A_Flea
2 ай бұрын
@@ashhole03 Weak. You eat them while making eye contact to assert dominance.
@MLH_1231
2 ай бұрын
Fr. As a kid, someone borrowing my stuff always made me super antsy and anxious, because the kids at my schools would almost always just steal it or break it ☠️ even now I still get kinda nervous whenever someone uses something of mine
@tornado_music24
2 ай бұрын
When I was in high school I'd always buy my own pencils, but then tell people my pencils were out of lead if I didn't want to lend them to people 😅
@colourbright1159
2 ай бұрын
I remembered all my pencils, when I was at school:D The ones that were quarter the length of a normal pencil and had a groove left by a ruler (the school saw) were my favourite I always tried to give anything I borrowed back, but the most awkward part was that I often forgot who I borrowed it from (yes, in less than an hour), so I had to ask sometimes
@lolbrb8697
3 ай бұрын
I was very fortunate with my mom, when I told her that I didn’t want to share but people weren’t listening she told me that I was aloud to blame her so I told everyone that I’d get grounded if I shared, I appreciate my mom so much for that
@brisebastiano4974
3 ай бұрын
I felt this deep in my inner child
@tearsofthekingdom9062
2 ай бұрын
I have my markers in rainbow order and I specifically say: I have my markers in order you can only borrow one at a time, and you need to put each one back in the exact spot you found it because it’s in really specific order. I turn my head and half my markers are gone and I’m freaking out.
@rippled.-.
3 ай бұрын
I hate it when this happens. You dont touch me, you dont touch my stuff. I will have a breakdown
@4theloveofgawd
3 ай бұрын
I was the worst in elementary school. I HAD to organize the puzzle blocks in specifically ordered patterns, I was so bored with how slow my classmates would read when we took turns in class that I faked needing to go to the nurse, and I straight-up kicked a kid for walking too slow in the hallway.😅
@thatonelesbian17
2 ай бұрын
you did what nobody else was brave enough to do. i’m proud of you, traveler.
@imat-rex
2 ай бұрын
They took my book away in reading circle because I'd read ahead. I had undiagnosed ADD, so I went from reading ahead to completely zoning out. I understand group reading is helpful for some kids, but not all kids learn the same.
@teadrinkerfication9160
3 ай бұрын
Gel pen swapping was a big thing when I was a kid, and I remember the day I finally got a gel pen of my own I was so happy. Then some kid traded my gel pen for someone else’s and gave me theirs and I got really upset because I just wanted to keep my one special gel pen I had. Luckily they gave it back when they saw how upset I was.
@CelticRuneSinger
2 ай бұрын
You should have reported this do your teacher and your parents
@teadrinkerfication9160
2 ай бұрын
@@CelticRuneSinger I wouldn’t have thought to do this, they also probably wouldn’t have cared 😕
@geelk8306
2 ай бұрын
The putting colors back in their designated spot is so real. Whenever I would lend stuff like markers or colored pencils to people I would always ask that they would just put the color back in its same spot. Luckily most people using them were art kids like myself so people would usually do so.
@Eliza-ie3zx
3 ай бұрын
Well i can relate. I HATE it with heart and soul when people take MY stuff when they're not my friend. Its actually SO annoying because they don't put it back or use it to roughly so it breaks or when they break it or when they give it to a friend of theirs WITHOUT telling me.
@Duru-ci8mw
3 ай бұрын
They usually chew the back of the pen too😔
@rmt3589
3 ай бұрын
Okay. The lesson I want my kids to know: Sharingvis a good way to make friends and strengthen connections, but is never required. If it's yours, you never have to share it, even with me. If it belongs to the school(or other organization) take turns if the toys are limited, but if in abundance you don't have to share till you're done. A bit more wordy than "sharing is caring", but less damaging. Any ideas how to sum this up for children?
@CheshireEclipse
2 ай бұрын
Not exactly a parent, still a child myself actually, but I have two younger brothers. Honestly, not everything needs to be short and sweet. Sometimes it's better to give a more detailed reply, as long as you keep out longer or more complicated words. "What's yours is yours, sharing is nice but not something you have to do." And "What's theirs is theirs, they don't have to share even if it is nice." And "It belongs to the school, their sharing with everyone-not just you."
@midnightfoxy3026
3 ай бұрын
I literally never shared when I was younger. When my teacher asked me why, I said "why would I share my things when I don't trust them?"
@helenaoftroy9625
3 ай бұрын
I once had two girls in a younger grade run up to me and grab both my props (a hat and a cane) that i needed for a school play. No reason, they just run to my table and were like "hey can i borrow this? *Grab it* thanks bye" and run away. Worst experience ever
@DinoandGalaxy
2 ай бұрын
Don’t they understand props work hard on those? It’s not just for anyone to use freely and they have a purpose :/
@helenaoftroy9625
2 ай бұрын
@@DinoandGalaxy yes exactly. Luckily I had a friend who got them back for me so no harm done
@Justcat19277
2 ай бұрын
I would 100% cry I know it seems over dramatic but I really love my art stuff and I hate when people touch them
@DinoandGalaxy
2 ай бұрын
Same, it didn’t help that in elementary I had problems with my emotions
@veroboro4035
3 ай бұрын
In 6th grade I sat next to the most popular guy in class, he constantly licked his glue. One time he asked me if he can borrow my ruler. I of course said no. After that I got bullied.
@ianrexcunanan3424
3 ай бұрын
Oh that's awful I'm so sorry for you 😭😔
@shannond1511
2 ай бұрын
How was the glue licker the popular kid?
@xjokes_onux
Ай бұрын
YOU GOT BULLIED WHEN HE LICKED HIS FRICKING GLUE!? YOU AREN'T THE WEIRD ONE, HE IS!!!!!
@leaf8781
3 ай бұрын
I was the shy kid that wanted to use the crayons but was too scared of rejection so I just used the boring classroom ones. Sometimes the kid with the cool crayons would offer to let me use them though because another kid would ask for me 😭 EMBARRASSING
@determinedfox5141
3 ай бұрын
Agreed, I'd be bothered too. People need to learn to respect each other's things and spaces
@silverrraven5349
2 ай бұрын
remembering "can i please borrow that when you're done?" instead of "i need that now" might make us more inclined to share too
@elton1158
3 ай бұрын
I had alcohol markers and derwent brand colored pencils that i took with me to school for a project, and i did have a lot of supplies but that was only because my parents helped and i would save my own money to buy some, and the pencils had been a christmas gift from my brother. It was accumulative, is what im saying. Other students used to get pissy all the time about not being allowed to use my professional level art supplies when they couldnt even use a crayola marker without jambing the nib
@SunnyKitten-fv7xc
3 ай бұрын
Yeah fr I don’t let anyone touch my beautiful castle art pencils😤 not even family members.
@voidmoon3878
2 ай бұрын
These videos bring back memories and make me so mad- i love ur vids so mich 😭😭
@Stellafails
3 ай бұрын
This happened to me but she never asked and she stole all of them, I had nothing to write with so I was forced to go tell the teacher about it and I almost cried. The only way I knew it was her was because she used them in class
@Rye-Bread04
2 ай бұрын
I feel so called out for being so excited to color code those maps that middle school geography class did *WITH THE GEL PENS* 😭 (that I would steal from the store down the street from my old home because I wasn’t allowed to have them bc then I’d use them with my friends to draw on each others’ hands)
@shannond1511
2 ай бұрын
I never got why that was such a problem with adults. They wash off.
@Rye-Bread04
2 ай бұрын
@@shannond1511 Right?? Don’t understand how it was such a bad thing, before I went back home at the end of the day I’d scrub them off or use hand sanitizer to remove them lol
@x10296
3 ай бұрын
This reminds me of the time in year 1 when I missed a day because I was sick, then came back to find all of my textas empty. I was really upset, and knew my best friend would have been the one who took them. I went to confront her and she told me the whole class had been using my textas to colour in a massive rainbow we were making for something, and she thought I wouldn’t mind. 7 year old me definitely minded 😭😭
@reneedittmer9625
Ай бұрын
Exactly! I can share, but I'm really protective of my things and only want certain people borrowing them!!
@wafflesthearttoad6916
2 ай бұрын
People asked to borrow my markers once and kept pushing and I’ve never been more grateful to the girl who turned around and told them that I said no the first time. (I actually said “these are my really nice markers so I’d like to keep them nice for as long as I can…” I didn’t think they’d mess them up, but I was trying to save as much ink as possible. I’ve had people completely dry out my art supplies before and I hate it.)
@kindrayvette4573
2 ай бұрын
Im only diagnosed in the past few years (currently 35) and i just remembered how often people would want to borrow my things and how uncomfortable it made me
@ninyxox1180
2 ай бұрын
Real asf!! In the words of the song… “that’s just not my problem”
@The13thArcher
2 ай бұрын
I remember in preschool I was banned from beinging toys because I didn't share a doll my grandma bought for me-
@MercuriousVA
Ай бұрын
Never lend anything you're not prepared to give away. I learned this the hard way.
@JacksDinoNuggets
2 ай бұрын
Why is your hair so good? Like, its perfectly wavy and really fits you!/gen
@originalkingdomhearts
2 ай бұрын
This happened to me too and I hated it. I flat out told her if she did it again I'll scream thief.
@AddisonStaats-uq6oj
3 ай бұрын
I've been recently battling with the concept of neurodivisity. I've always been kinda like this and people said I was slightly OCD because I'm very routine oriented AND MY LIFE WILL FALL APART IF SOMEONE IS DONE WRONG but not with cleaning. I've recently gone over alot of my childhood behaviors and behaviors today and realized how it's so weird. I always walk the same path to and from work or wherever else I'm going, if I walk with friends they'll try to change routes and get mad at me when I tell them I can't, I've gotten my meal prep down to a science and literally cannot stand my food touching, I will not eat something if it touches something else unless I specifically make it do so. Finally, I have a extreme obsession with school supplies like notebooks, lose paper and pens. For Christmas, I got 187 pens which I counted out and sorted into their places adding to the 233 pens I already have, I never use my notebooks because If I open or write on the paper is will crease and ruin the pages, same thing with notebook paper. I used to believe maybe I had a form of autism that people looked over and was hoping to speak to doctors about it to figure things out but they say it's simply just my anxiety pushing me to do things a certain way. Someone please help and tell me if you've experienced the same thing!
@pterodactyl-rachel
3 ай бұрын
I actually don’t enjoy sharing some things. Like my watercolour paint for example, whenever literally ANYONE comes to my house (like friends or family who don’t already live here already) I always hide away my paint. Just so they don’t even ask to use them, no. I’m not sharing them and they’re mine. I don’t want them to get ruined, even if you aren’t actually going to do it or even if you’re my bestest friend. Nuh uh. I enjoy art, especially painting. The only reason I have it because it’s for ME to paint for MYSELF. But I do share other things, just not anything I value a lot. I’m also quite secretive, usually out of insecurity or just because I just don’t want to share.
@mocchikkidraws
2 ай бұрын
Yep, i remember me being called stingy because i wont share my pens before. Relatable
@gabwittick3956
2 ай бұрын
The “plus they wouldn’t put them back in their color coordinated spots” is my day to day life with my 30 pack of pens I bring everywhere
@Rayne_of_Sunshine
Ай бұрын
Okay, not only is this relatable, but it also pissed me off.
@korach1
2 ай бұрын
I got in trouble multiple times as a kid bc ppl would take my things and I’d stand in front of them/ over their shoulder and dead pan stare at them until they gave it back 😭
@midnightsarrow160
Ай бұрын
I'm glad I grew up with the pleasure of everyone being mildly unwanting to touch anything I own qwq Especially art related stuff- the only kid in school that touched any of my art stuff was the boy i had a crush on cuz he liked showing off my work and i liked him so he got a pass
@dcalfine8191
2 ай бұрын
imagine being able to set boundaries 🥲
@lizzybizzy_bee1234
2 ай бұрын
“Hey can I borrow one of your pens?” “…No”
@MelonHere20
Ай бұрын
Even worse when they "borrowed" something AND NEVER GAVE IT BACK
@em7626
Ай бұрын
back when i was writing stories and coming up with characters, i would get gel pens and label them with a character’s name and i could only use that pen for that specific character.
@Alesha_Lewer
2 ай бұрын
Felt that. Everyone in my life knows to ask before they use something now and to not move my stuff or put it back where they found it
@Cedar_Blossom1830
2 ай бұрын
I had glitter gel pens and I LOVED THEM. I used them in my Handy Mandy coloring book while on car trips LMAO
@Anney_arts
3 ай бұрын
This happens to me any time someone takes my stuff, even if I gave them permission. My friends used to take my journal and run off with it (they never went as far as reading it) but I got very upset over this. I also absolutely hate it when I put something somewhere where I won't forget about it, and someone "puts it away" but puts it on the highest shelf in the darkest closet in the house, ignoring the fact that there is a designated spot for my and my siblings' things when cleaning up.
@stuartchapman5171
Ай бұрын
Im like this to this day, 56yrs old. Im so overwhelmed when folk lend me their cool stuff. I know Im not usually that generous.
@PikachuYoshiPines164
Ай бұрын
Had a similar thing happen when I was homeschooled. Once a week we’d have a class meetup with other homeschooled students and I brought my Sharpies in that I’d use to color my drawings, and turns out the students were taking them without my permission. They gave them back but I was annoyed and had to reorganize them
@cheeseman28
3 ай бұрын
This exact thing happened to me but i was too shy to say anything and they got all used up
@1800DumpHim
2 ай бұрын
Honestly same like if you snacth that pen out of my hands you are starting a war at that poiny
@Alonelysea
2 ай бұрын
When i tell you i straight up had my nice supplies and then supplies I let people borrow. For years i carried 2 sets of coloured pencils
@_Uno_Cinco_
2 ай бұрын
People putting them in the wrong spot and completely throwing off my colour coordination makes me so mad actually. Like, DUDE. It’s not difficult to remember that the orange-red goes AFTER the red and BEFORE the oranges.
@UnstableMelanieFan
2 ай бұрын
LITERALLY. THEY RUINED MY GEL PEN BOX AND MY ANIME CODED-ANIME STICKER COLLECTION 😞 luckily i like organizing shit 👹👹👹
@_Uno_Cinco_
2 ай бұрын
@@UnstableMelanieFan I’d go back to my biting era and straight up bite off their fingers the next time they tried to touch my stuff. I spent so much time and put so much effort into organising my stuff. 💔
@cookiekattt
3 ай бұрын
"sharing is nice, but we also don't have to share."
@GiannaThrelkeld
2 ай бұрын
When I don’t let people use my stuff and they say you are so stingy I say “no I just don’t like you” there face😭 they just go silent and I continue what I am doing,never have to worry about them bothering me again.
@kdepp90
Ай бұрын
I felt that "designated spot" bit. I hated when my crayons weren't put back EXACTLY where they had been, when first packaged! Like, that's where they are in the box brand new, when u take one out, u put it back in that exact same spot it was when it first came out!
@th3_ryl43f_1n_leet
3 ай бұрын
Someone once went through my art supplies and I literally looked at them and said: "Don't touch my things." In the most 'intimidating' voice ever. Coming from the bubbly sweet bean, paired with a death stare, I successfully scared the shit out of my friend group.
@XimenaArriaga444
2 ай бұрын
I totally get this as a neurodivergent myself I hated letting people borrow things because he wouldn’t do it the way I did it and they would mess up the order and it really made me ticked off❤
@FIZZY-g2l
2 ай бұрын
I relate to this so much. In middle school, I got these nice markers that I really liked and someone asked me to use them. I wanted them to like me so I let them use them. In the span of a couple of days, everybody was using them. After like two weeks, they were ruined and I was very upset. Some of them even got stolen.
@holdensaia5962
2 ай бұрын
This is why I ask before I just take anything, if they say no I will take that as a no and if they say yes I will take that as a yes, respecting boundaries and all.
@koolbrayden21
2 ай бұрын
If it was me it would go like this "Hey can i borrow one of your pens" Me:Fuck no
@trixIsHere1
2 ай бұрын
When this actually happened to me I said “ I didn’t say yes” and took it back, they asked again the next day and I just said “no bc you weren’t polite before” and they got mad at me 💀
@bakaichigo
2 ай бұрын
So much more self control and self advocation than I was capable of when I was a kid 😢😅
@Kittytheraccoon
2 ай бұрын
When I was younger and someone asked me for my gel pens I said "you don't need it, you just want it"
@Sceneslt
2 ай бұрын
As a kid and still now I don’t understand the problem in not wanting to share stuff, it’s yours, it’s your decision whether you want to share it or not.
@Urlocalswiftie1989
2 ай бұрын
Me and my other undiagnosed friends in school would always share the pens BUT ONLY WOTH EACHOTHER cause we followed the rules and waited and put them back perfectly, those were the days fr.
@Aea_23
2 ай бұрын
Omg this is so real. Especially when rhey dont put it back in its right spot 😭
@sclopez90
Ай бұрын
The amount of times I was called stingy was unreal.
@vampyroteumint
2 ай бұрын
Confession: seeing if my classmates would put markers back in their correct places was my way of testing how smart they were. And it sort of worked through coincidental correlation
@imhereforthedrama
3 ай бұрын
Once i brought lots of coloring supplies to school and at leats 2 pens and 3 markers were broken
@muybuenodumdum9122
2 ай бұрын
Omg when I was a kid in kindergarten-1st grade every kid just stole my things whenever I left the classroom, it happened all the time
@elizabethsimpson111
2 ай бұрын
I used to tell people that I wasnt allowed to share my stuff. Pretty sure my mum actually told me that cos we grew up low income so she didnt want anyone stealing or breaking my stuff but it also just helped people from messing with my shit
@gracenippert403
2 ай бұрын
This sucks when it happens. One of my friends sometimes borrows my pens and then breaks off the little pen handle thingy and then gets mad at me when I get upset and shut down. This friend is a great friend, and he is amazing, but I dont trust him with my pens anymore.
@Igotyeetedasakid
3 ай бұрын
growing up as a autistic kid who didn't know, i threw a lot of fits if someone asked for what i'm using or anything im about to use. i refused to let anyone mess with my work that i spent so long on and mess it up, specially when iwas organizing my stuff, i didn't want anyone bothering or helping me unless i asked them myself
@ladygrimm6661
2 ай бұрын
Bro one of my biggest pet peeves growing up was people snatching stuff off my desk or taking my stuff without asking. It goes like this; I would have like a bottle of hand sanitizer or a stapler or some white out tape on my desk, a student would walk up and without asking or saying anything they just take it off my desk and when I be like, "Hey give it back" they be like, "Wait, lemme see it, lemme see it" What also bothers me is that they wind up damaging my stuff to where it's useless! Man, whenever I think about it it infuriates tf outta me
@gingercatqueen4368
2 ай бұрын
Omg did you pull this out of my high school memories??. 😭 😭 I would be holding back tears from frustration over my glitter gel pens. Meanwhile I’d be terrified to even ask for a pencil from another classmate. 😭
@avr181
3 ай бұрын
When i was younger i was lucky and the people i lent my stuff usually gave it back nicely, and also were a lot more polite. There still was the "you don't put them in their designated spot", but i would immidiately fix it. I stopped lending things at 15, after one girl took my sharpener (a blue sharpener with a label withmy name), removed the label, put the sharpener on the ground l, waited until i recognized it and picked it up, and then cane to me asking for HER sharpener back. I knew it was my sharpener, half of the class didn't even had one, and had other varieties. I freaked out because it was MY pencil sharpener until they (the girl and her friends) told me i was exaggerating just for a sharpener that didn't had my label. I yielded, gave the sharpener, and 5 minutes later the girl "found" my sharpener and gave it back. But the label. The label. I had put in on the interior part, precisely on top of the barcode label. I didn't put it randomly, it had a system, so that MY name label was both cute and functional. When i got my sharpener back, both labels were on the exterior part of the sharpener, and the name label didn't cover entirely the barcode label. Honestly, i actually like sharing my stuff, it makes me feel important. But what that girl did, idk, kinda hurt? Not like hurt hurt, but i was really freaking out for my sharpener. If she asked if she could have it, i would have given it to her, but she just wanted to make a fool out of me. It doesn't matter, but she was also 4 years older, she was in my grade because she kept skipping school.
@savvivixen8490
2 ай бұрын
And then they steal the pen they already have in their possession, gloat to their friends, lose it, and then forget about the pen completely.
@muffinbutton2873
3 ай бұрын
When I was 10, I had a fancy mechanical pencil and my 'friend' told me lending me a normal pencil was rude when she wanted the pencil I was using, so she took a highlighter and covered the inside of the fancy white winter jacket my grandparents gave me for Christmas that year.
@CelticRuneSinger
2 ай бұрын
You mean used to be friend
@Lazy_cat726
3 ай бұрын
yeahhh my undiagnosed ass would have yelled cause the anger issues were POPPING
@pixywings
Ай бұрын
Yeah I get this. You learn that sharing is good and makes everyone happy, but then when you share people just take advantage of you and destroy your stuff. I can't even count how many video games and music CDs and movies and even just toys that have completely vanished from my life because I let someone borrow them. I stopped letting friends borrow stuff in Elementary school because it felt like most of the time I would either never see my stuff again, or I would get it back damaged.
@askimbeatrix8245
3 ай бұрын
Me having to put the box of coloring tools in my lap so that only I can use them and they wouldn’t get stolen anymore.
@deadlytoxicwaste
3 ай бұрын
im not neurodivergent or anything but this feels wayyy to relatable!!
@SilverAg_
2 ай бұрын
As the art kid who (I’m 99% I’ve got some sort of autism+adhd but I’m not diagnosed. I have properly diagnosed friends who say I act way too much like them habit-wise to not have something) and I’d always have a case of pens, pencils, colored pens, you name it I probably had it- the amount of shit I had stolen from me in middle school. So many cool pens, gone. At some point I stopped leaving stuff in my locker and just carried my bag with me, never lent people stuff, cause it would go missing, or the lock on my locker would mysteriously be open despite me always double checking to make sure it was locked before I left it- high school, I used my locker for my winter boots and my jacket and that was it. I never left anything of value out of sight for more than a few minutes and suddenly, none of my stuff ever went missing again 😒
@eastward98
2 ай бұрын
In highschool I would carry around a lot of spares (even an extra waterbottle when people would ask me for water) because i was afraid of getting bullied by kids for saying no and seeming "selfish"...
@katelynnb809
2 ай бұрын
I always hated sharing my pens or markers and I loved organizing things by colour and would do so without instructions. For example I would colour code all my notes in French class to the T . I hated school because of discipline that I couldn’t understand but I loved things like this lol. I’m undiagnosed ; not sure what it is and want to be diagnosed with the cause but it’s soooo expensive and nobody cared when I was younger.
@Lurning-disability
2 ай бұрын
I love that last part. We teach our kids that sharing is nice and you should share but you do not have to. Any shared items are ofcorsed shared but if kid 1 dose not want to share a toy they own with kid 2 they do not have to
@elizabethlord8655
2 ай бұрын
I straight up stopped sharing my markers, because i would get like nice artsy markers, and people would loose them, not put the caps on all the way, there was a tine when like half of my markers were dried out, so when I got a new set, I stopped letting people use them, I also had a friend who liked to write in my sketchbook, even without asking sometimes because I had let her see it, got a new sketchbook didn't let her write in it, at one point I completely stopped letting people use any art supplies I had
@zombie_robot_invasion
2 ай бұрын
People used to ask me for my food every day in elemetary and sometimes in Middle school, I hated it, but I could never get myself to say no until around Highschool, and then two kids tried to steal my food from me (Ive been having trouble with them for awhile)
@alazarth2985
Ай бұрын
This is why I use fountain pens because no one knows how to use them and leaves me alone, also exact reason I stopped sharing anything with anyone.
@Itsdevin26
3 ай бұрын
I HATE when people touch my things without permission especially my art supplies
@BellaDouglas-tq7pe
2 ай бұрын
I force my friends to put my pens in their designated spots, and i make sure i have multiple types of pens in the same colors.
@X-CosmicVixen-X
3 ай бұрын
I’m like this but with my friends I share everything, like any excuse for using a highlighter I’m always like “Okay guys, who wants what color?” I always let them pick first even if they use the color I want for the day :)
@Crow--
3 ай бұрын
Okay but I'd get really upset when someone would use my stuff and then I'd freak out at myself for being upset about it
@ludicrousmoth8442
2 ай бұрын
I did this especially with my animal erasers. I had a huge collection of them but THEY WERE NOT TO BE USED, only looked at. Kids would “borrow them” off my desk and scuff them up and I would actually cry. I still do this with my colored pencils… people ask to borrow them all the time and I’m just like… (;~;) nuuuuuuu. I was always just treated like a spoiled brat for not wanting to share my things, but Im not like this about everything, just my most prized possessions. It’s not like the basic supplies weren’t available, they were. I have special colored pencils because I like the way they feel and they’re kinda expensive. I love them so much. There’s literally always colored pencils available, people usually just want to borrow mine for convenience. Same with my eraser animals, there were erasers available, kids just wanted mine because they’re cute animals. I would have some on my desk in a line just looking at them lol. Writing this I just realized I’ve always been like this about my colored pencils too, like at one point I have the erasable pencils and kids would ask to borrow them and then proceed TO BURN THE ERASER OFF BY RUBBING THEM ON THE DESK. Their logic? It makes a cool mark trail on the desk. Bruh.
@xxnotcocoxx
3 ай бұрын
I relate to this so much cuz I have a big set of color pencils that are organized by color and in like a certain place but I let my brother used them one time and he didn’t put them back where they belonged 😭
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