好事黎嘅,25歲會反省呢樣野。 細個我一直都以為自己係born to be a fashion designer,因為我上堂鐘意畫下公仔咁,所以揀科同之後讀既野都係fashion design。但後來讀讀下先發覺其實我唔鍾意fashion design,而fashion design只係我父母既膚淺認知,以為畫公仔就係fashion design架喇😑 灌輸左成廿年,好白痴。好彩都唔太遲發現,仲趕得切讀我想讀既野😮💨
我覺得好多野都係同Positive reward有關 ,當初可能係因為拍片比到開心同認同,先有動機同力量去做。我相信好多人既興趣都係咁樣開始。 下一步就係雞先定蛋先,究竟個Personal value 係因為你鍾意呢樣野定鍾意人地認同。如果人地唔appreciate,咁係唔係就得於否定自己既價值。 講到尾我覺得興趣就係自己既事,個Reward應該係自己比自己既,如果唔再 enjoy,其實唔再pick up 個興趣亦都 nothing to be shame of. sorry 1999.
@chengchris552
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可能係咁。as what you said,你為左想迎合你啲frd,所以搵榴槤既唔好既地方例如臭,搵炒飯唔好既地方例如成本低唔抵食。但如果有朋友鍾意食榴槤/係炒飯關注組成員,你可能為左有埋堆既勇氣,相反地會尋找相關既跡象,例如發現原來榴槤「好惹味wo--!」既一面,炒飯好飽肚。 好似揾工咁,一開頭,為左有份優越感,會諗自己讀左咁多書應該deserve一個高人工、專業既工作;但當揾唔到工時,為左穩定失業既不安,降低自己個揾工要求,唯有諗:自己咩經驗都冇,由低做起都好應該 Sorry for 1999,唔太識elaborate/未諗到其他例子😐,諗到再加,諗唔到唔加🙃
Unfortunately, in HK society; it is a rather judgemental and follow the 'wind' behaviour. Is like if most ppl don't do this, then you should not do. That is no personal stand. HK ppl very care what ppl may see about how they dress up, look, eat, think... but at the same time, they are seeking for freedom and everyone can do what they want. Is just seem very contrast. Do what you like to do. If you like to eat Durian, just go for it. Nobody can understand you more than yourself. If they don't like you, that means they are not worth even a friend.
your mind is an open mindset from psychological perspective. I think that you are great ideas for our life.
@sy-ek2oz
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diu, 我地sync左, 我尋日都諗呢個問題, 因為"夢想"黎加拿大讀書, 雖然依家做緊kinda dream company, 但not dream job at all. But as you said, you never know, may be in some point in my life, I will love this job :)
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