“Go to bed early for a change.” Then there’s me watching this video at midnight.
@Beccalotte1021
5 жыл бұрын
try 4:00am
@sarahstauffer1
5 жыл бұрын
Ya me too lol 11:57pm
@Beatlegirl27
5 жыл бұрын
Yep 2am for me lol
@weaponofmassconstruction1940
5 жыл бұрын
Edward, you're a creature of habit. Bad habit. Your peers are all going to heaven, but you're going to hell!
@pravallikachalla9326
5 жыл бұрын
00:23 PM
@ranstxx
5 жыл бұрын
Ive been watching old 50's educational videos for over an hour now...HELP ME!
@fathimamohideen1917
5 жыл бұрын
😂
@aking3624
5 жыл бұрын
Join the club babe.. You're in good company!!😉
@jimevans4582
5 жыл бұрын
Follow all the habits and you'll have a good life!
@cupcakes1742
5 жыл бұрын
Humpy And Bex me too 😂😂😭😭
@LaBucci
5 жыл бұрын
Humpy And Bex can’t stop watching! The 50s were so interesting
@ericag5346
5 жыл бұрын
Since everything was black and white back then it was easier to pick out clothes.
@toocutepuppies6535
5 жыл бұрын
It really is amazing how the world has changed since they invented color!
@bonnieyoung8720
5 жыл бұрын
You guys do know that it was just the camera film in black and white not the entire world, right?
@hannahfiedler7096
5 жыл бұрын
@@bonnieyoung8720 r/wooosh
@dariowiter3078
5 жыл бұрын
@@hannahfiedler7096 RIGHT!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@katiedoverspike1287
5 жыл бұрын
Bonnie Young what are you talking about
@ffy0000
5 жыл бұрын
the shade thrown is darker then the monochrome film style
@user-ri2qn4qo4k
4 жыл бұрын
🤣
@youssefa.2251
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr the classy sass 💅🏽⚫✒🔲💅🏽
@Keepbe
5 жыл бұрын
Barbara: *breathes* Narrator: Helen would have done it better
@pheo212
5 жыл бұрын
“Helen has REGULAR breathing patterns. Try it out, Barbra.”
@elizabethnobody6591
3 жыл бұрын
That's because Helen plans all of her breathing ahead of time. That way she's never surprised by having to breathe spontaneously. Also, Helen has never colored outside of the lines, in her entire life. 😂😂😂
@Jmmoffa
2 жыл бұрын
Helen’s a robot
@androiduser6928
2 жыл бұрын
Lol lol 🤣🤣🤣
@nolatucker1282
2 жыл бұрын
👍🎯
@hailmaary8616
5 жыл бұрын
“It’s a little late for tears Barbra” 😂😂 I died laughing
@riggs20
4 жыл бұрын
Brutal! 🤣
@crazysingingchick
4 жыл бұрын
The narrator’s a huge B!!!
@ShadowsofthePastTheater
4 жыл бұрын
@@crazysingingchick This reminds me of the narrator from The Stanley Parable.
@crazysingingchick
4 жыл бұрын
Strange Paradise I’m gonna have to go look that up now!
@crazysingingchick
4 жыл бұрын
Strange Paradise I see what you mean 😂
@ClarissaMartin2806
5 жыл бұрын
The narrator sounds EXACTLY like my anxiety
@stargirl7646
5 жыл бұрын
Watching it now and oh my gosh it DOES
@sallyvillarreal4294
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, the negative self talk counselors help you avoid.
@TedSeay
5 жыл бұрын
Your anxiety needs a firm slap.
@StarryNightxx
5 жыл бұрын
Bruh exactly my thoughts
@angelvalentynn
5 жыл бұрын
Omfg seriously
@dn6457
5 жыл бұрын
This video roasted me.
@barbaraneville9056
4 жыл бұрын
i spilled lipstick in your valentino bag I am Barbara.
@SapienSafari
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@CK-op7ho
4 жыл бұрын
Good, I'm not the only one.
@Mtz2604
4 жыл бұрын
Say what? You felt roasted, I felt like Barbara with the narrator and everything! And I'm getting into my 30s soon... 😓
@JoeKaye-hn5dt
3 жыл бұрын
Me too, except I'd a burned that sweater.
@Tabby5899
5 жыл бұрын
This video is actually kind of helpful to be honest.
@sallyvillarreal4294
5 жыл бұрын
Dead Woman's Grave - Except they taught it all in the most patronizing, negative, micromanaging way possible. The main idea about habits is good, but the anxiety so many would take away is so damaging.
@Tabby5899
5 жыл бұрын
@@sallyvillarreal4294 That makes sense tbh I can see how that would happen.
@sallyvillarreal4294
5 жыл бұрын
Kim Duclos - I really feel like this video was beyond “blunt”. It sends the message that everyone is noticing and judging you on the tiniest things. The big “disaster” is all in Barbara’s head. It was just a couple of awkward moments. The benefits of being blunt probably have to do with being honest. I feel like a narrator isn’t being honest when she implies that Barbara is being judged on the dirt under her fingernails, for example.
@SmilingDepression
5 жыл бұрын
@Sally actually having a good routine/pattern/habits (whatever you wanna called it) as been proven to reduce anxiety even if its micromanaging, in fact that'd probly help people with OCD. Having a routine helps you being grounded aka knowing where you are in the world at said time which helps a lot when you have anxiety. also im not sure what was negative in this, the video showed perfect and realistic examples even for 2019.
@SmilingDepression
5 жыл бұрын
also the narrator isnt implying that barbara is being judged, barbara herself feels judged because she knows her fingernails arent clean. have you never went out to eat and had ketchup on your shirt or something and it bothered you all day knowing people could see it? if not that'd be weird but if so then thats what barbara is feeling.
@angelvalentynn
5 жыл бұрын
Literally nobody: Narrator: Helen would’ve done it better
@UIAL570
4 жыл бұрын
Venus Zambrana think we should all look up to Helen. Be like “What would Helen do?” 😂
@janepurcell6747
4 жыл бұрын
Helen is a smug little Madam. And her father Mr Elliot, looks exactly like Dr Crippen. In fact he probably is.
@pennypay1
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, I don't think Helen is necessarily smug. It's confidence. Like the way I feel inside- but would never say- when I've planned an outfit and other women are running around looking and probably feeling scruffy. I bring a clean outfit to change into after my work shift. That way if I decide to go on an impromptu outing or I get invited last-minute to a friend's house, I don't have to feel unkempt. When we have the habit of planning in advance like Helen, we usually look better and feel confident about making a good impression. As for her not 'defending' Barbara at the party, some women are just like that. They feel that others can 'hold their own'.
@ayojoy7358
2 жыл бұрын
@@sskogsraa s
@dotsyjmaher
Жыл бұрын
@@pennypay1 That is Karen..not..Helen lol.
@vernettegilbreath2353
5 жыл бұрын
Dang...the narrator has NO chill!!
@XxXShevampXxX
5 жыл бұрын
Lmfao I swear I was just thinking that same thing.
@vickihshallenberger3644
4 жыл бұрын
Narrator is snarky! LOL
@sharpaycutie2
4 жыл бұрын
It's called being honest. Nowadays people cant even handle honesty or truth without taking it as an insult
@kon2175
4 жыл бұрын
sharpaycutie2 Dude it’s a joke. But the narrator needs, in fact, to chill a little.
@vernettegilbreath2353
4 жыл бұрын
@@sharpaycutie2 Relax. It's ok. We'll all be ok. Barbara will be ok. And you will be ok.
@jeremyfrancispiano2
Жыл бұрын
Forget modern day self-improvement podcasts. Our grandparents are the real OG's
@maryj7423
4 жыл бұрын
I would have loved this advice when I was a teenager. The lack of good habits, tidiness and organization still makes my life messy. I'm anxious and insecure but this narration didn't bother me. It has a loving tone, like someone who cares about you enough to tell you the truth. Plus, the video is not comparing people but habits. It showing how anyone can achieve good habits that make you grow better, feel better in your skin and face daily life with more confidence. Consistency is the hardest thing for me and because of this I wasn't able to focus on my passions and projects for years, and I never got to experience the satisfaction of reaching goals through a long time of training and discipline.
@zazuzazz5419
3 жыл бұрын
Mary J, in all sincerity I must tell you that the narrator of this 1954 educational video does not have a loving tone. Not at all. It possesses a shaming tone, of extreme destructive condescension. The best way to get yourself organized - or to break from a bad habit or addiction no matter how vicious - is to become aware of it - and your place in it. Besides having the hot desire to change - you have to hold yourself in a moment of observation where you no longer allow a paralysis of shame. Then... you’re free.
@sofiabravo1994
2 жыл бұрын
@Zazu Zazz Yes but sometimes a little shaming that’s good because when you don’t have any shame you don’t feel the need to change anything even if it’s hurting others and yourself
@owamuhmza
2 жыл бұрын
@@zazuzazz5419 that’s what our present day society lacks, a generous dose of shaming. We need to bring shaming back.
@veronicahaney6005
2 жыл бұрын
@@owamuhmza honestly
@TuberoseKisser
2 жыл бұрын
@@sofiabravo1994 and not everyone is equipped to handle shame, the tone the narrator used would definitely make a situation worse.
@pj123xyz
5 жыл бұрын
Of course her eggs were cold. They never were cooked. Maybe chronic salmonella is the reason Barbara can't seem to focus.
@TheEllmad
4 жыл бұрын
P J This has my mother and I absolutely rolling 🤣🤣🤣 bravo 👏 my dude
@gilbertmedina9308
4 жыл бұрын
I’m dying laughing 😂😂😂
@candifiend
3 жыл бұрын
LMAO!
@JoeKaye-hn5dt
3 жыл бұрын
Sunny side up fried in bacon grease, Yum! My favorite.
@robinmariasmith1237
3 жыл бұрын
Sunny side up the way I like them
@isabelr3806
6 жыл бұрын
People who have there life together vs people on the internet
@ingriddubbel8468
5 жыл бұрын
their not there
@dariowiter3078
5 жыл бұрын
So says this stupid bitch who typed this on the internet. 😒 💻
@dariowiter3078
5 жыл бұрын
@@ingriddubbel8468 That's "They're not there," stupid! 😠
@angaeltartarrose6484
5 жыл бұрын
Lol~ i know, right!
@-zephyressence-2018
5 жыл бұрын
Gosh, everyone is so sensitive. If you'd take time to look at the essence of her message you'd understand that she meant everyone who spend all their time on the internet doing unproductive things. It really isn't that hard to understand, yet you all resort to name calling. Really, very shameful.
@CherryStudios2
4 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: The passive aggressive narrator is Barbara's mom
@namedrop721
3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh
@idiotthatdrawsakaartist
3 жыл бұрын
OMG XD I JUST RELIZED YOU'RE RIGHT! This is exactly the shit that a passive aggressive mother would say while comparing her kid to some other kid
@keribun6473
Жыл бұрын
For REAL??
@julianakleijn9254
4 ай бұрын
LOL RIGHT?!
@brittanybrittany2307
5 жыл бұрын
Feeling personally attacked 😂😂😭
@karaamundson3964
5 жыл бұрын
*my sad little life*
@elissamarcus
5 жыл бұрын
For real
@XxXShevampXxX
5 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Me too girl me too.
@Gypsy839
4 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@farishope6540
4 жыл бұрын
If you are a beautiful blond you will find a stupid guy (like this comment writer) who loves you even if you are the laziest girl in the world.
@sophiadellacroce9445
Жыл бұрын
As a teenage girl, I can definitely relate to some of the bad habits Barbara shows us. But, that’s why I value these educational videos. This one points out practical things that I will definitely make an effort to execute in my life!
@libertytree3209
Жыл бұрын
Actually, this was shown to me in school and it changed my life. In a good way. My mother nagged me to death about my lack of preparation, but this other voice really made me aware of the mistake I was making, and the other girls in school looked different from me for a reason. Self-discipline is a good habit, and people telling us we don't need us do us no favors.
@jacealbine
11 ай бұрын
Just goes to show how a kind and gentle voice reasonably explaining something can work better than nagging.
@juanitawalker3521
5 жыл бұрын
“Looking for your hairbrush, can’t remember where you left it?” Me, literally every single morning.
@g.j
4 жыл бұрын
🙃
@indigothecat
4 жыл бұрын
That's why I have 3 Tangle Teasers, 2 Hairbrushes, and 2 wide-toothed combs, lol.
@lambgaming1347
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@katienorthenmore1892
3 ай бұрын
still in the back of my head from yesterday!!
@colleen6341
5 жыл бұрын
That scarf does NOT cover that stain, girl just wear a different shirt it’s not hard
@g.j
4 жыл бұрын
Probably all her clothes are in the laundry.
@laneyperkins840
4 жыл бұрын
Back then they didint have as many clothes as we do today, Helen's dresser was basic empty.
@افكاروابداع-س7ج
3 жыл бұрын
she can wear it from the other side so the spot can be covered with the hair
@carriemindplsable
3 жыл бұрын
her lazy a$$ had nothing clean
@ChrisStargazer
4 жыл бұрын
For the first minute, based on the narration and the crying, I thought Barbara’s problem was her first visit from Aunt Flow.
@rethalockhart5452
3 жыл бұрын
I did too! Either that or a boy dumped her bc she said something “silly”
@deniseherud
2 жыл бұрын
I thought she was preggers😂🤷🏼♀️
@JenniferRose-_-
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Lol
@MissLilRedRooster
5 жыл бұрын
As someone with ADD, Barbara spoke to my entire soul..
@ilovepickle
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr! 😭❤️
@emacias1473
3 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@1MikuFan
2 жыл бұрын
Same. 😅
@MinecraftMartin
2 жыл бұрын
Haha I came into the comments about to say the exact same thing. My god
@bro6568
Жыл бұрын
Same. That get up for school routine her and mom did came right out of my childhood 😂😂
@aminajayy
3 жыл бұрын
This narrator came for my whole life. If someone over 60 years is talking about your bad qualities, that’s a sign to get your life together.
@zeposgrave
Жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Montgomery 🧙
@redwingfan9393
5 жыл бұрын
Barbara got married after high school but divorced her husband after tripping acid in the 60s. She became the mother hen in a hippie commune before becoming an evangelical christian in the late 70s. She remarried and died in 2003.
@lascar327
5 жыл бұрын
What about Helen?!
@marenehh
5 жыл бұрын
Steven Birn I-I was born in 2003
@redwingfan9393
5 жыл бұрын
@@lascar327 Helen joined the Hells Angels and had numerous tattoos. Never married, she died in a motorcycle crash in 1987.
@ericag5346
5 жыл бұрын
You're hilarious 🤣
@cakekyo7
5 жыл бұрын
@Kenneth Sloan nope she isn't. I do not see her alike.
@toria01
4 жыл бұрын
She wakes up when the alarm sounds BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT SHE HAD IN MIND WHEN SHE SET IT! dang geez you don't have to attack me like that
@Mtz2604
4 жыл бұрын
Chronic snoozer? Me too 😅
@juliethartshorn
3 жыл бұрын
I'll sometimes set my alarm earlier then when I need to wake up because I know I'll probably just hit the snooze button a few times lol
@deniseherud
2 жыл бұрын
I set mine at least 20 minutes ahead bc I can’t be trusted to get up😂 I think I can trick myself into thinking I’m going to be late …I hurry but it doesn’t help. I feel Barbara 😂
@kenbob1071
26 күн бұрын
I have in mind to stay sleeping for another 30-40 minutes when the alarm goes off.
@Mr4thahaters
5 жыл бұрын
All in all . . . . Not bad advice.
@tacocatt6808
5 жыл бұрын
Trrevor Lewis (except from the anxiety it teaches you, and the way it demeans people)
@GTA5Player1
5 жыл бұрын
Except for the part where the narrator suggests that she should do anything so that those girls like her and feel bad if they don't. Those girls suck! Just find a different friend group.
@genli5603
4 жыл бұрын
@@tacocatt6808 Oh, please. Don't be pathetic. If you're bad, you should feel bad.
@genli5603
4 жыл бұрын
@@GTA5Player1 Those were the girls that SHE liked, though.
@GTA5Player1
4 жыл бұрын
@@genli5603 We,, maybe she shouldn't considering how different they are.
@Kawfeeislife
4 жыл бұрын
I feel like I have learnt more from these videos about personal lifestyle from the 50's and it was more constructive than any youtubers unrealistic daily habits or morning/night routine.
@ingridgallagher1029
2 жыл бұрын
No kidding right? Same.
@chamilajla
Жыл бұрын
Seriously.
@toniyah5381
9 ай бұрын
As a young woman I wish I had seen this video when I was in middle school. I always showered and brushed my teeth daily but I wasn’t as groomed and prepared as I could have been. Now that I have a son I will make a conscious effort to teach him to do better than what I did.
@Anastasia-ex7iw
7 ай бұрын
Amazing 🤩 teach him to be a gentleman
@TexKP
Ай бұрын
These days the world has an anything goes attitude, but the lack of structure puts all the pressure on youth to figure out everything for themselves.
@natalieputnam9811
5 жыл бұрын
I have two very important comments: 1. We gotta bring those outfits back😍 And more importantly.. 2. Those eggs are damn uncooked
@geoffreymelkonian2479
5 жыл бұрын
Natalie Putnam it’s supposed to be runny it’s a fried egg 😑
@daniels1293
5 жыл бұрын
@@geoffreymelkonian2479 even for a fried egg that shits too runny, you'd be stuck on the toilet ten minutes after eating that.
@jasamkojajesam6108
5 жыл бұрын
@@daniels1293 No its not, news flash; not everyone likes eggs like u.
@daniels1293
5 жыл бұрын
@@jasamkojajesam6108 yes it is you can literally see the uncooked clear asf ass egg whites on the top, egg whites are supposed to be white, that's how you know it's done
@mariecharles212
5 жыл бұрын
I love the outfits from back then. That's why I mostly purchase vintage as much as I can. People care more for trends than quality
@SoftChroma
Жыл бұрын
I can see this being helpful because sometimes we just need to be told. When I first met my therapist at 30 years old, she was the first one to ever (kindly) point out that I looked a bit disheveled. She wasn’t wrong, and I really wasn’t offended. I wore moccasin slippers with socks, leggings which may have had holes, and usually some type of hoodie with a messy bun. Yes, I was diagnosed with adhd but besides that, it was really helpful to realize how I was coming across. Sadly I never thought about it before that. I tried dressing up or putting in effort when it was appropriate, but it feels really good to look presentable no matter the occasion.
@sl4983
10 ай бұрын
Yes, we often are not aware of how we are coming across or the image we're giving off, and it takes a brave person to mention it.
@nayelam8770
4 жыл бұрын
Barbara feels so relatable.While the other girls are so sophisticated and mature.Barbara just feels out of place among them.She's just like a kid.
@sarahmascara
5 жыл бұрын
Barbara's pajamas at the end are adorable.
@guacamolly_
4 жыл бұрын
@@sskogsraa She's dead
@amberhartzog9851
Жыл бұрын
You're alright Barbara. My room is also a disaster. We just need better habits.
@MiserysFence
5 жыл бұрын
My hair is ALWAYS in a tizzy.
@karaamundson3964
5 жыл бұрын
All mine is falling out
@angelicaotero8302
5 жыл бұрын
I am a tizzy
@mchatouille
5 жыл бұрын
My tizzy is always in my hair.
@crazysingingchick
4 жыл бұрын
My tizzy is always in a tizzy!
@friendofdorothy9376
4 жыл бұрын
I tizzed
@MarjorieLeNoan
2 жыл бұрын
How do you even end up with that big of a stain ? Was she stabbed in the chest last time she wore that sweater ?
@JustAPrayer
2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact, this actress starred in Night Of The Living Dead 14 years later, also as a character named Barbara. So maybe she was training for the upcoming zombie apocalypse
@ahnyisbillingsley8589
2 жыл бұрын
@@JustAPrayer hmm. Google is questionable, I googled her, it says she was 9 at the time of filming this.
@Ghargr18
2 жыл бұрын
Looks like she spilt a drink down herself imo - missed her mouth when she tipped the glass!
@molliwilson5639
Жыл бұрын
Koolaide is my guess or Tang…
@DTD110865
4 ай бұрын
Maybe her kid brother spilled some soup or something like that on it. Or, maybe he was sick and puked all over it.
@ahnyisbillingsley8589
9 ай бұрын
Neurodivergent teen here! I think habit patterns and planning is very important and stress relieving. It can be difficult at the start but in the end it’s very helpful, beneficial, AND it saves a lot of anxiety. Start off small. One step at a time. It’s all about progress. Remember, everyone; you got this! ❤❤
@faj3ane
4 жыл бұрын
This video is literally the definition of female ADHD. Barbara had: Trouble organizing Trouble finishing projects she started Interrupting conversations Being late Among many other traits. I don’t know if they meant to show this, but it’s so spot on
@spinynorman1562
4 жыл бұрын
So sick of this ADHD bullshit. Why pathologise everything? Convenient excuse for you?
@Odood19
2 жыл бұрын
Accurate but for both sexes. The biggest tell is trouble 'conforming' to the 16 hours awake, 8 hours asleep pattern. Not awake at 6 am every day? Utterly un-American!
@Zzzk23
2 жыл бұрын
@@spinynorman1562 Actually do some research before you continue making yourself look stupid.
@VicvicW
2 жыл бұрын
Meh. This video describes me when I'm in a bad way, but I've not got ADHD. I'm able to get good habits together, I just fall out of them again when I move home between university terms.
@iamnotreal0717
2 жыл бұрын
@@spinynorman1562 adhd is real
@candacegladden5313
5 жыл бұрын
Omg I've got to stop watching these videos and clean up my room 😆
@homeskillet7423
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@antratoporkova9522
4 жыл бұрын
You see, Helen has made a habit of cleaning her room. She knows where the tools she needs are, she has a routine.
@davidradcliffe955
3 жыл бұрын
See helen would be cleaning her room while listening to these video
@leifmeadows3782
5 ай бұрын
I'm listening to these while cleaning my apartment.
@darlingdarylann3453
4 жыл бұрын
bro my entire existence was insulted,distroyed,and re structured by this video.
@vintagehippie3647
5 жыл бұрын
Couldn't help thinking right in the beginning when Barbara was crying her eyes out and the narrator was saying you knew this day would come and you should have prepared for it I thought..yup her friend has finally arrived for her years and years and years to come monthly visit.
@dumbdino1135
5 жыл бұрын
Same
@karaamundson3964
5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, 'swhat I thought, but instead she chose to wear a sweater with a Friend-Sized Stain 😨
@aking3624
5 жыл бұрын
Yep.. You be a woman now…
@GTA5Player1
5 жыл бұрын
I thought she was pregnant... Although I guess teen pregrancy would be too controversial for these.
@vickihshallenberger3644
4 жыл бұрын
Me too! Lol
@sunshower2601
4 жыл бұрын
omg.. the part where Helen puts worn clothes to the back is so smart!! I always forget when the last time was, that I wore the item and I don't want there to be clothes that I never wear.
@anonnone8196
5 жыл бұрын
I feel personally attacked by this video.
@lanarios7114
5 жыл бұрын
Same sis :(
@tamarikimani5701
5 жыл бұрын
That was oooh!
@SapienSafari
4 жыл бұрын
Dude
@claudiov5554
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@alyssachantaychampagne2773
4 жыл бұрын
Well maybe learn some, idk, good habits
@Deedz999
2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it isn't neurological divergence, sometimes it's just poor habits that don't serve us. Neurologically divergent or not, the tips offered can definitely aid one in building routine and getting along socially.
@aisling7540
Жыл бұрын
They aided me for certain. I developed better habits *after* watching this short film. I can see why people would want to diagnose Barbara with ADHD or something, but that ironically rids her (and those with ADHD) of their agency. Sometimes, people can have bad habits simply because they have bad habits. I used to have a messy room, was rude during conversation, etc. That wasn't because ADHD or even my diagnosed autism. I just simply had bad or nonexisting good habits. Many people do. Bad habits aren't a sign of a mental disorder.
@abbadabbba232
5 жыл бұрын
Yes, Barbara, get your act together, so you can join the Mean Girls Club, instead of being someone the Mean Girls are mean to.
@robertwesley4416
5 жыл бұрын
oh common Brookie Pooh. be nicey goo.
@opinionatd1324
5 жыл бұрын
Lol 😆😂
@nazare334
5 жыл бұрын
Its like “Be killed or kill”
@GTA5Player1
5 жыл бұрын
It's like the exact opposite of what any modern day teen movie would teach you. These days they would tell you to forget the mean girls, be yourself and find people like you to hang with. This one? "DO EVERYTHING SO THAT THE MEANIES LIKE YOU"
@jane2309
4 жыл бұрын
@@GTA5Player1 How were they mean? They literally invited her to their house and to the party and were polite to her even though she was rude.
@morgansurette8640
5 жыл бұрын
Narrator: Helen is a perfect angel :') Also narrator: JESUS CHRIST BARBRA WTF
@Anastasia-ex7iw
7 ай бұрын
Please, stop using God's name in vain.
@gabbi2739
Жыл бұрын
Honest, to the point, blunt and only meant to be helpful. We need so much more of this today. They were not about coddling back then and I’m here for it.
@sallyvillarreal4294
5 жыл бұрын
Hey kids, you know all your little insecurities about your looks and popularity? They’re all true, everyone can see them and you should worry about them!
@Renee-sk3ed
5 жыл бұрын
😂
@tacocatt6808
5 жыл бұрын
Mark Lanton you should look up the word “sarcasm” old man.
@HereIAm247
4 жыл бұрын
*They are true, but you can do something about them - here is how.
@sallyvillarreal4294
2 жыл бұрын
@@HereIAm247 Another comment just drew me back to this video. Your comment is reasonable, but it doesn't reflect what the narrator said. Yes, they sort of touch on the how after berating the main character. And I realize why this bothers me so much is because I have spent a lot of time in therapy trying not to berate myself like the narrator. Ironically, self talk was a habit I had to learn, but I didn't need shame to learn it.
@blu3chav3z8
Жыл бұрын
Where WAS this when I was younger? The pieces on living in your imagination about what others may or not be saying is spot on
@maryanne2025
Жыл бұрын
I wished I’d known this when I was younger
@Beth-pq9wl
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly? This is actually very accurate and still very relevant. It's somewhat... harsh... but the message is there. I love the 50s videos because they're informative, sensible and pack a punch. The message from this video? Get up on time, be kind and courteous to those who do nice things for you, eat properly, wear clean clothes, have a breakfast, be on time, do your work, pay attention at school, don't be a gobshite, do your work, be organised, get enough rest and wash. I was a Barbara throughout high school and I fucking hated it. I could have been more Helen if I'd have tried.
@UnknownName5050
2 жыл бұрын
I still tryna to be helen
@BADBIKERBENNY
Жыл бұрын
Honestly I agree. This like just one of the very few films of this era still relavent.
@JanieBee
Жыл бұрын
Life is harsh tho! If we soften up too much itll eat us alive
@SpaceMuffin
Жыл бұрын
harsh? come on. truth it not HARSH. it's helpful. people need to grow a thicker skin. too many weak-minded people with these mindsets out there and it's keeping society down.
@dollynina8992
Жыл бұрын
@@SpaceMuffin Your name is Space Muffin and you're in a KZitem comments section. You can't talk about keeping society down lmao.
@Pablo123456x
5 жыл бұрын
Say, Barbara could have clinical depression. That's not swell.
@AntiAtheismIsUnstoppable
4 жыл бұрын
It's a little late for excuses isn't it, Barbara!
@bluehydrangea5506
4 жыл бұрын
Nothing a couple rounds of shock and insulin therapy at the local sanatorium cant fix!
@davidradcliffe955
3 жыл бұрын
Helen would have done it better and hid her depression through smiles
@JustAPrayer
2 жыл бұрын
Fun fact, 14 years after this short the actress who played Barbara went on to play another Barbara in the classic zombie movie Night Of The Living Dead. She’ll have even more to be depressed about in that movie
@Anastasia-ex7iw
7 ай бұрын
It's not depression. It's heavy messy life
@tj921able
Жыл бұрын
This video is actually an excellent guide for today's society as well. I love all these old PSA films.
@FortyWhacks
Жыл бұрын
"They were talking about a popular book..." Sadly, the female narrator neglected to mention that if the other girls were 'better examples' of social habits, then they would've noticed that she hadn't read it so they should've tried to explain the plot to her (and gush on how good it was, etc). Like normal people do.
@ffy0000
5 жыл бұрын
The alarm doesn't even wake me up. It blares for a good hour but I still sleep.
@unlokia
5 жыл бұрын
Sir And you’re not embarrassed admitting that? Deeper problems.
@ffy0000
5 жыл бұрын
@@unlokia What's embarrassing about it?
@ericag5346
5 жыл бұрын
@@ffy0000 nothing to be embarrassed about but you may want to look into sleep studies, could have sleep apnea? You could really wake up feeling refreshed!?
@nightsilvermoon6653
5 жыл бұрын
Same, once I even get sit and walk with my mom while still sleeping 😂
@aking3624
5 жыл бұрын
Get rid of the alarm.. Get a pet! I guarantee you wont sleep in!
@Cryaboutit__lol1
8 ай бұрын
As a 14 year old, i can still definitely relate to most of these bad habits, so thats why these videos are very important to me. I really like how sophisticated yet simple things used to be, so I am going to try and impliment these into my own life.
@cellytron
2 жыл бұрын
Oh jeez I could be Barbara, and I’m 37 years old. The “where’s your hairbrush?” And the random crap piled on the table is eerily similar to my everyday life.
@lucamackenzie9229
2 жыл бұрын
Hu? What do you think they said?
@Urm0mz
Жыл бұрын
I hate when stains don't come out by rubbing the fabric together like a Genie's lamp😂
@stellayates4227
5 жыл бұрын
This is why they created school uniforms! No need to spend ages matching an outfit every day.
@ericag5346
5 жыл бұрын
Well back then it didn't take as long because everything was black and white and matched.
@noice2606
5 жыл бұрын
Just plan the night beforehand
@jinx724
5 жыл бұрын
It doesn't take that long, they started uniform because not everyone can afford new clothes
@randomPerson-ul1jq
5 жыл бұрын
@@ericag5346 it was also do much easier to make conversation before this because you didn't even have to speak words, just subtitles.
@ericag5346
5 жыл бұрын
@@randomPerson-ul1jq oh you're right! There were silent movies before sounds and words! Good call! 😆
@daveygivens735
5 жыл бұрын
You're still the hottest one at the party, Barbara, so there's that...
@priv.0808
3 жыл бұрын
No lies
@sweethanami94
5 жыл бұрын
Annes dress has pockets!!!!!
@marywebb9127
5 жыл бұрын
I love pockets on dresses and skirts
@magicalomaha2804
5 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too, very cool!!
@flamingbliss6998
4 жыл бұрын
Pockets!!!
@VaclavKosar
Жыл бұрын
Actionable Summary: 🙂 - When you wake up, then establish a morning routine that includes grooming and a healthy breakfast. - When selecting your clothes, then make sure they're clean and properly matched. - When leaving for school or work, then be on time and well-prepared. - When planning your day, then consider the special events that might take place and prepare accordingly. - When engaging in conversations, then listen actively and participate in a way that adds value instead of just talking about yourself. - When maintaining personal hygiene like cleaning fingernails, then make it a regular habit to avoid being caught unprepared. - When handling your clothes after wearing them, then check them for cleaning requirements and hang them properly for further use. - When planning for the next day, then make the habit of organizing your clothes and tasks in the right order. - When you realize you have bad habits, then recognize the need for change and make conscious efforts to establish better habits in their place. - When you end your day, then ensure you get proper rest by sleeping at reasonable hours.
@DTD110865
4 ай бұрын
They were talking about themselves, and their activities too. But when she tried it, they made her more of an outcast.
@glamourchick21
11 жыл бұрын
ADD vs. OCD...
@SDS-ee9js
6 жыл бұрын
Lol
@BeccaMoses
4 жыл бұрын
TEA
@sheagaier7582
4 жыл бұрын
truth! I think that Barbara may also have Nonverbal learning disorder (NVLD/NLD) bc she's not great with social skills (like me, who also has NVLD).
@emacias1473
3 жыл бұрын
😄 adhd still into adult hood probably worse now tbh
@michaelpryor78
3 жыл бұрын
As someone with depression, this day seems like a war to me.
@joannelarose8198
2 жыл бұрын
This is so outdated.
@michaelpryor78
2 жыл бұрын
@@joannelarose8198 Not sure what that has to do with what I said, but ok...
@By.daniieel
2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelpryor78 don't be ludicrous that's ain't real
@noname-qw9td
2 жыл бұрын
@@michaelpryor78 what Joanne's commend had to do with it, is the fact that back then the likes of depression and so on were overlooked, and these videos would be pushed into school's societies to ensure that regardless of how you'd feel, you'd be doing these anyway else you'd let your family down. Back then the mental health and the whatnot weren't discussed, and so yes, it is outdated. This would be, if in today's society, changed to relate to multiple mental health problems, and also physical disabilities.
@MTknitter22
Жыл бұрын
The thing is, yes it’s old but the messages in it are absolutely timeless. Another difference is the orderly routine of the home, the parents. The foundation was there that for many kids is not now. None of the girl’s problems are that rare for teens and they can be overcome with help.
@IsabelGP5
9 ай бұрын
Dang that really made me feel identified in the worst way, I will begin to change the patterns I created and take back control of my life. I HOPE ANY ONE READING THIS DOES TOO!!!
@theonlyjer
4 жыл бұрын
Narrator: "It's a little late for tears, isn't it, Barbera?" Barbera: "You're right. I should have had the forsite to cry sometime BEFORE the worst day of my life you judgmental voice!"
@shayu3146
4 жыл бұрын
The narrator is giving me serious flashback of my convent school experience!
@ziptoid
5 жыл бұрын
they deadass left her out though
@cheers2023
4 жыл бұрын
Right? There was only one person who asked her a question to try and include her.
@lifelessuser99
5 жыл бұрын
Barbra is my daily mood except my clothes aren't dirty.
@JeshiSama
Жыл бұрын
This isn’t a lesson in individual habit patterns, it’s contributing to society, it’s not teaching you how to be above the crowd.
@simmi6348
5 жыл бұрын
I was so engraved into this film that when it ended. I had forgotten that I'm living in 2019 and felt like I had time travel to the future lol Times have really change in the way we do things but the moral good of good living basic never change.
@valeriebellomo3573
2 жыл бұрын
So right you are. Good values and morals NEVER change.
@blancaortega409
Жыл бұрын
So weird, I’m having the same experience. I walked into Walmart feeling like I walked into the future and it’s a mess.
@ditherdather
4 жыл бұрын
I laughed when she put her slippers back on simply to walk to the end of the bed and pick her gown back up off the floor.
@opinionatd1324
5 жыл бұрын
I love these videos. People were so fancy and proper back then.
@Rembrandt8
4 жыл бұрын
I wish these mannerisms were still around today
@Rembrandt8
4 жыл бұрын
@@gw437 that's a beautiful thing!
@wbnxd5856
4 жыл бұрын
G W same with me, I don’t cuss, I use manners, people might think that’s boring but they need to remember, the world was like that before things change, I also don’t listen to rap or anything like that
@zazuzazz5419
3 жыл бұрын
... And white!!!
@natalieanderson3951
2 жыл бұрын
This video should be titled - successful mature people versus immature unsuccessful people. Great info for us all!!!! I’m married to a Helen. I have ADD and lived as a Barbara until working on it for years now. The Helen’s in life are far less stressed out and far more successful. I wish I had seen this in my teens.
@Mirjen97
3 жыл бұрын
Even in the '50s they had 'THE' chair with the clothes.
@proud2bpagan
4 жыл бұрын
Barbara farts Narrator: Helen's would have smelled of peaches and tasted like Rainbow Sherbet.
@christeek7466
4 жыл бұрын
Helen has a plan for her farts. She keeps the fart flavor capsules beside her bed, and every morning when she gets up at the moment her alarm sounds, she swallows her fart flavor capsules with a full glass of water she set there the night before to grow stale. Helen makes a habit of sherbet flavored farts. She has a place for her fart capsules. She uses taste when selecting them. Peach, now there's a good flavor.
@shayalkumar8209
4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@richik5924
4 жыл бұрын
Ppl
@youssefa.2251
3 жыл бұрын
@@christeek7466 💀💀💀
@ragazzasolare77
5 жыл бұрын
Who liked this video before watching it? *habit*
@tracytru8119
4 жыл бұрын
Your Solar Girl good job helen :}
@impagain
Жыл бұрын
"Have severe, undiagnosed and untreated ADHD, Barbara? Just stop doing that! You haven't even tried being neurotypical! Tears certainly won't do, Barbara."
@amytaylor1652
Жыл бұрын
My thoughts too! Poor Barbra 😢
@ladypenelope572
5 жыл бұрын
You keep doing you babs, don’t let the man get you down
@danadoozer9990
3 жыл бұрын
Lol!!!🤣
@GameChanger597
5 жыл бұрын
Story of my life. I think Barbara and I could be good friends.
@confusedindy
4 жыл бұрын
Everly Green failing friends
@savannahc7587
4 жыл бұрын
John Queenie Lajot failing friends 🤝🤠
@Trump966
Жыл бұрын
While the world falls apart all around me, I seek solace in these Coronet films.
@vexer2942
4 жыл бұрын
Barbara's real problem is the wallpaper in her bedroom.
@baronsorgi1
5 жыл бұрын
I love what she's done with her hair is that the Tizzy look
@TB-cb3vj
5 жыл бұрын
Y’all really self diagnosing people in these comments. Maybe she’s just sloppy 🤦🏽♀️
@sh0eh0rn4
Жыл бұрын
Helen stays ready, so she doesn’t have to get ready
@nateboone5796
2 жыл бұрын
The actress who played Barbara is Judith O’Dea, she is 77 years old now, so she would have only been 8 or 9 in this film, I thought she was a teenager!!
@MeadeSkeltonMusic
2 жыл бұрын
No she is about 20 in this
@lucamackenzie9229
2 жыл бұрын
Na I don't think so. Definitely older than 9 yrs
@terrisserose
Жыл бұрын
What me to
@ramona4516
4 жыл бұрын
I love how Helen and her mom enjoy Helen's dad's opinions on the news.....
@ramona4516
2 жыл бұрын
@Misha Sunne true 😂😂😂😂😂
@DTD110865
8 ай бұрын
Well, maybe Barbara doesn't have that option.
@celinehatting3080
5 жыл бұрын
Damn in the beginning I thought they both got their period
@missyglittervlogs3543
5 жыл бұрын
The lead actress was in the movie A Tree Grows In Brooklyn! She is such a good actress! She was so good in this too!
@malibu64
5 жыл бұрын
Missy Glitter Vlogs what’s her name?
@DanKoon
5 жыл бұрын
I believe she's referring to Peggy Ann Garner, although there is no mention of this film (Habit Patterns) on her wikipedia page.
@oldjack-mi8gk
4 жыл бұрын
No, that’s also not her. There is no definite info on who this young lady is. Garner would have been older than this girl at the time this was made, and they don’t look alike. The girl playing Barbara was in this and one other episode for Knickerbocker Productions, but there are no credits that give her name.
@JustAPrayer
2 жыл бұрын
Actually the actress who played Barbara was Judith O’Dea, and she went on to play another Barbara in the classic zombie movie Night Of The Living Dead
@yash124
11 ай бұрын
@@JustAPrayerGoogle it and her DOB is 1945 I don't think it's true because she does not look 8-9 year old in this movie
@clairecampbell18
3 ай бұрын
All the people commenting that Barbara has ADHD are part of the problem. Whether she does or not is irrelevant, we all must learn habits to be neat, punctual, polite and polished. For some it comes more easily than for others but you can’t just say ‘I have ADHD’ and be done with it. ADHD is an explanation, not an excuse. You may find it harder to get up on time, so set more alarms, incentivise yourself to get up, get organised the night before so you can sleep in longer. These are all habits that can help you but the modern mindset is ‘I have ADHD, I’ll always be late’. It’s appalling.
@MTknitter22
Жыл бұрын
Social organization for teens in school and community much much healthier then. Pleasant conversation skills, dressing appropriately for different situations, polite manners need to be taught and kids given safe fun opportunities to practice them.
@zazuzazz5419
3 жыл бұрын
Within the ten ensuing years after the release of this film our Barbara will be out on the road living the quintessential epic, “Rebel Without A Scarf.”
@JustAPrayer
2 жыл бұрын
Actually fun fact, 14 years after this short the actress who played Barbara went on to play another Barbara in the classic zombie movie Night Of The Living Dead
@Bruno-tm3xo
5 жыл бұрын
Just discovered these movies .....what a gem they are. I have to laugh my head off. Think of it....20 years later everybody is smoking grass and having wild sex with every one.....and it looks like Barbara’s generation
@doofsdoofs
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah things are so much better now that everyone is useless and lazy without any guidance or assertion.
@janeeengumela1051
4 жыл бұрын
OOF
@tensugarcubes
4 жыл бұрын
yes just like back then nobody was incredibly misogynistic or racist and everyobody was white and neat and there were no social issues at all are you so stupid as to base your perception of a time period and its people off a scripted film
@beatrizalves9789
4 жыл бұрын
Well, teens back then did some of those things too, but they didn't have cellphones to record it.
@moonlightcocktail
4 жыл бұрын
@@tensugarcubes Why can't we have the best of both worlds? Organized lives, proper values, and no hatred for otherkinds? Both are bad in different ways.
@castaway2680
11 ай бұрын
Love the Iris wall paper in Barbara's room
@ericapoitras9223
2 жыл бұрын
We all know Helen's that kid in class who reminds the teacher about homework.
@bentonrp
Жыл бұрын
Helen secretly hates her life because she's filled it with an endless cycle of meaningless good habits.
@miss_nohemi
3 жыл бұрын
Barbara is my grandmother. She went to star in four commercials afterwards. Married at 23 and had 4 children. Her youngest daughter, Miranda, is my mother. Fun fact, the actress who plays her mother is in reality her aunt, Patricia. P.s. I am lying
@JustAPrayer
2 жыл бұрын
Barbara’s actress, Judith O’Dea, actually ended up playing another Barbara in the zombie movie Night Of The Living Dead, 14 years after she filmed this short
@faith9196
5 жыл бұрын
“Bad manners are still bad manners no matter what you call them” STOPPP THEYRE JUST PERSONALITY QUIRKS OKAY-
@faith9196
3 жыл бұрын
@Aurora O. i don’t remember writing this but i’m almost positive it was a joke haha
@chrislivingston1939
4 ай бұрын
I watched this video in middle school back in the day and it left a real impression. I started hanging my clothes as Helen did. It was a good way to rotate my outfits.
@cUser691
2 жыл бұрын
The toaster on the table while Helen’s family ate breakfast. 🤭
@jimmeven1120
2 жыл бұрын
Trip hazard!
@Dasheens
4 жыл бұрын
Wow who could believe the habits of the 50s still apply for today’s teenagers as they said a good habit takes time but worth it 👍❤️🇺🇸
@paulascott5701
Жыл бұрын
So many comments about Barbara having ADHD. Developing routines is absolutely life saving for someone with ADHD. It doesn't come naturally or easily. Learning how to organize so that your day goes smoothly and you don't have to make decisions under pressure is game changer. It isn't about "conforming" and destroying Barbara's spirit, it is about giving her a lot of free time to do enjoyable things rather than panicking and rushing around stressfully while never catching up and feeling miserable. Don't ask me know I know. lol
@saminaneen
Жыл бұрын
@paulascott5701,, Man, you sure are ignorant. There is NO SUCH THING as "ADHD", the doctor, that invented the term, did it as a joke, and to get a lot of money, from the "Medical Industial Complex", true fact, look it up, and don't be ignorant, your whole life.
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