Hey Fam, thoughts on ‘purity culture’ as a whole? Were you raised in it? ‘80 S*x Questions And Prompts PDF’🔥 www.thepaulandmorganshow.com/
@tannerdefelicis4356
Жыл бұрын
The worst form of purity culture is when a Christian woman is violated by an allegedly "Christian" man, and then the church blames the victim saying "You were asking for it based on the way you dressed." That kind of crap, as a Christian, makes my blood boil. I can never understand why a church would justify such criminal behavior.
@LithoCat
Жыл бұрын
I grew up with abstinence-only education and our purity culture was horrific - we had to do things like write essays on the "value of our virginity", and play games where our "value" decreased with increased numbers of partners. The girls were also told how painful and "bloody" losing our virginity was. Scare tactics do not work, and that is what so much of purity culture is - scare tactics. It also makes your virginity an idol, or a major part of your identity. So much so, as others mentioned, that when its time to lose it (in marriage), there can be a real struggle to transition into a healthy sexual relationship that is enjoyable for both partners. I think that the fact that many Christian influencers such as yourselves, Girl Defined, etc. are shifting to these sex discussion-style posts and marital sex program content proves that Purity Culture was a problem - there's an entire generation of couples suffering from bad sex/poor sexual communication BECAUSE of purity culture and a lack of healthy sexual education, and a reinforcement of "shame" associated with talking about it that, unfortunately, transfers into marriage.
@PyroGymnast
Жыл бұрын
I was sexually abused as a child. I never got a chance to choose. I was 3 when it first happened. I was put in foster care and abuse was the norm. Then I got adopted. Then I went to Christian school and was constantly told that purity was something to value and something to save for marriage. I had to write a paper on it in middle school Bible class. I lied, because I felt so much shame for losing what made me “valuable” and pure. I felt that God could not love me, because I was too dirty. Then my adoptive dad sexually abused me as a teen and being as I was taught that I was responsible to not cause any man to “stumble”, and I felt that I was to blame for what had happened to me. So I blamed myself and didn’t tell anyone. I’m in therapy now. I still blame myself at times. I don’t think stating that God wants people to save themselves is marriages is inherently wrong. I just think that people should be aware that sadly some of us have had our innocence stripped away from us and being reminded of that is painful. And healing is painful as well. We do not need to feel an extra layer of shame and guilt.
@siblingtime5803
Жыл бұрын
This is what they should be paying attention to. If they could think for a few minutes to realize the issue is saying sex before marriage is dirty wrong etc when there are so many who had no choice. Read the room? Also Christianity is just awful but really like take a second to think about that. Shaming for doing what your body was made to do but if you don’t have a contract then tisk tisk. So small minded it’s sad
@beetothetee
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry they did that to you. 💓💓 thank you for your incredible bravery and vulnerability in sharing your story. I hope that time and therapy can help you heal and truly believe that NONE of that was your fault. 💓💓
@pantaleimona
Жыл бұрын
Fiery Phoenix, I am so very sorry this happened to you. I know the pain of such abuse, but not the added agony of being constantly made to feel like it was your fault. It. was. not. Shame on people who call themselves Christian and shame on the church for blaming you with the barrage of ways they can make kids and teens "know" that grooming and sexual ab*se and r*pe are your fault AND your responsibility. It's extremely unfortunate that Paul and Morgan aren't yet developed and mature enough to see how their words or attitudes might hurt another. Hopefully in time, they will develop a sense of empathy. Their protection from this type of harm does not mean their experience was common or the norm.
@Star-dj1kw
Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for what you suffered. Thank you for adding your perspective.❤ It doesn't seem like the young people in this show offer a very nuanced view of how broad the impact of the shame from PC has had on women from vulnerable backgrounds.
@lubel9750
2 ай бұрын
But you never willingly put some effort to it. You did not chossed it, so you are still pure ❤ it is different when a person play some part in it, but otherwise it is like it did not happened if you was not present with your will. Through Jesus you can be born new again. I am praying for a people with such an experience +
@lornatw
Жыл бұрын
When addressing a topic like this it's always important to acknowledge the very real and valid damage that has happened to a large number of people in some areas. And also others/we should acknowledge that not one story fits all.
@hannahjenee
Жыл бұрын
I know that different people have had varying experiences with purity culture and that some have had it a lot stricter and worse than others. However, the sheer large amount of traumatic responses proves that psychological abuse definitely happened. The abuse that we are referring to is not based on hypothetical ideas or feelings. We have real-life physical symptoms that can only be explained as results of purity culture teachings. Many young people are now coming forward and admitting that they have dealt with sexual dysfunction in their marriages, traumatic medical conditions (research vaginismus), and even have emotional/mental symptoms identical to those of childhood sexual abuse! Maybe you do not know these details because you have never asked someone about their personal experience. Do you maybe make assumptions about their claims of abuse without knowing the details? The messages of purity culture have been pushed for so long, that most people don’t even realize the harm that they are causing. That is why those of us in our late twenties are just now coming to the realization that these messages are the culprit of our perpetual shame, fear, and disconnection between our minds, our bodies, and our sexuality. I know that parents and leaders who pushed these messages had good intentions, but we can not ignore the fact that a large number of people were hurt by these methods of teaching during their formative years! Now that we know this, it is even more harmful to ignore it. If we imply that people should just “get over it” and we continue to push the same harmful teachings of purity culture, then we are saying that our intentions are more important than the pain that these people have endured. If you have good intentions but hurt a lot of people in the process, then is the outcome truly good? Or is it harmful/toxic? If this many people have come forward with such traumatic responses, then I think it is time to take a pause and reevaluate the system. You can not continue the cycle and expect the results to change. If we do not do anything different, then the next generation will continue to have the same traumatic responses. My goal as a survivor is to spread the word about the harm that it has caused, to give people the opportunity to reevaluate the system, and hopefully to encourage people to repair the brokenness. We should not be dismissing those who were harmed; we should be working together with them to establish a better system for the future, in which the topics of purity and modesty can be discussed without causing harm. Our goal should be to locate where it went wrong and why it caused these traumatic outcomes, and then use that information to repair the system! When we defend the system whilst ignoring the trauma that it has directly caused, then we are failing. Honestly ponder this- is it considered productive if we succeeded in our goal to protect youth from sexual sin but in the process we enslaved them to constant shame, fear, disgust, misunderstanding, and disconnection with their own bodies? As a fellow Christ follower, I agree that we can not throw out the entire idea of purity & modesty, as we know that they are of God and Biblical. However, the method in which they are taught plays a huge part. I believe we should all try to be more understanding and compassionate regarding this topic. My prayer is that God will help us distinguish between the man-made law that causes shame, guilt, & fear versus His ultimate design & purpose for our sexuality that brings healing & freedom to our lives.
@mikaeladonegan2430
Жыл бұрын
I actually taught a 'purity' class at my church. I wanted to incorporate the biological information and the spiritual information all together. It went okay. My main goals were teaching the why of waiting biblically without shaming language like 'chewed up gum'. I didn't want them to think their value as a person or a Christian was derived from if they waited until they got married or not.
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
That sounds really cool!
@siblingtime5803
Жыл бұрын
They really want us to feel so small and dirty. Chewed up gum?!! Sick religion
@sophiereneev
Жыл бұрын
I just wrote a paper for one of my classes about teen pregnancy, and I'm glad to hear you guys talking about sex education programs!! Teens who aren't educated about sex are much more likely to engage in unsafe sex and get pregnant!!
@speechbubbletruth
Жыл бұрын
Christian parents need to talk about these things with their kids! I find it very damaging to leave it to the school system
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Agreed🙏🙏
@karlal4574
Жыл бұрын
Kicking out a 16 year old is not legal… and I don’t think we need to rely on a law to tell us it’s not right
@taybay5090
Жыл бұрын
Growing up in the church I do think has left me with some strange body issues. I’ve worked out a lot of it but I’m 27 now and still have a lot to figure out
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Oh sorry to hear that
@melonhead122908
Жыл бұрын
This is unrelated to the topic- but don’t EVER use the phrase “shepherd the flock” again. Ever. EVER. As a Christian, I hate that metaphor. If your pastor is not encouraging you to do your homework, your own research, interpretation and thinking for yourselves, THEY are wrong. We are NOT sheep, and we should not blindly follow the leader. God blessed us with the ability to think and it’s scary to see how many conservatives just flat out don’t. Women and Men alike - do your own homework. Look to GOD - not the guy at the pulpit. More on topic, purity culture hasn’t done a thing to my marriage or sex life. Why not? See above - I do my own homework, and as a result, purity culture becomes entirely irrelevant.
@bellekprincess
Жыл бұрын
I grew up with not too much talk about sex and strongly encouraged to be modest - but it wasn't damaging or shaming because my mum always framed it in a way that my body was so SPECIAL that I got to save it for my husband by dressing modestly and I had decided myself at 10 years old that my first kiss was so precious to me that I didn't want to kiss until engaged. This was such a healthy perspective to grasp rather than ending that conversation at just cover up because I had to. As I started dating and then got engaged, I was able to have more in depth sex conversations to prepare me and so the transition was really seamless and I was able to step into marriage with confidence in my body. I am so grateful to have parents who were so invested and able to have really open conversations at the appropriate life stages.
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
That’s awesome to hear!🙌
@johannastromberg1224
Жыл бұрын
This sounds so healthy. That's just awesome, really great! Thanks for sharing!
@johannastromberg1224
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I'm not a fan of purity culture. However, people tend to want to throw the baby out with the bath water. Purity is a Godly thing, and obviously biblical. We should strive to fashion our hearts after God and His law. Our actions will follow suit if our convictions are grounded in the word. This doesn't mean we will all have the same dress code or conduct while dating.
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the comment, Johanna😊
@saribrown7156
Жыл бұрын
I think it is healthy to explains to kids (at a certain age) how we reproduce and birth children. Maybe use an anatomy book. I would then also add that is how all mammals reproduce, not just humans. When children get enough proper information, it won’t be something weird to them. I don’t know how biology and human anatomy etc is taught at schools in America, but where i live in northern Europe, we get a specific education on that at school.
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the comment😊
@Ronsstudios_YT
Жыл бұрын
This Should’ve Went Viral Awesome Topic Keep Going
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@Ronsstudios_YT
Жыл бұрын
Y’all Deserve To Blow Up 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@dominicadrean2160
Жыл бұрын
Please pray for our brother in Christ David wood He is a big Christian apologist that is spread the gospel and saved many Muslims over the past 20 years and he was best friends with Nabeel Qureshi ex-muslim the spread the gospel to Muslims during his time Nabil sadly passed away in 2017 you might have read his book seeking Allah finding Jesus he has two sons that are very special needs. One of them sadly passed away at the age of 15
@jamiefragoso1593
Жыл бұрын
My mom worked as a nurse so she basically sat me down and said so this is coming up in school and I’d like you to know what everything is and does ( everything was very medical lol) so I think it felt odd because my friends all said like “ding-a-ling” or cooch lol but she also talked about the importance of naming things and being educated about it. As far as purity culture ( my older sister had a baby out of wedlock) And when I started dating she sat me down again and had a different discussion about not having sex before marriage “biblical” reasons to be holy and set apart… but then talked about practical reasons STDs and pregnancy- which I vividly remember she said look if you have sex and get pregnant you need to tell me- I’ll be honest, I’ll be upset I may yell- but I will always love you and I will tell first then we will figure it out together- because abortion is not an option. But we will handle it together, as a family. You will still have a place and a family… so any questions??? 😂 My only additions would be to say don’t continue to make bad decisions in hope of hiding or “fixing it”. Cuz I later had sex with a man who said he wanted to marry me - 5 years later still not married- so I decided to marry a non believer to say I only had sex with my “husband” but I should have never married him! Lol now happily married to a Godly leader and we have beautiful children! ❤
@FairlightChristianna1Cor318
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, the switch into being sexy after years of being a "good girl" is a interesting thing to work through. Y'all should really read The Great Sex Rescue. You might not agree with it all, but it's great for some perspectives and thought provoking conversation.
@waluiginumberone4962
Жыл бұрын
Charles Neal Here- As someone who grew up in a household that practice Liberal progressive Christianity and now connect's with Evangelical Christianity I feel that no one ever talks about how damaging having little to no standards for modesty has. When you have absolutely no standards and do the opposite of "purity culture". you get what is happening to a lot of young boys and more recently especially girls identifying with transgenderism. On a less extreme end the spectrum from my experience being fairly open about these modesty standards having no problem seeing fairly graphic sex scenes as a young teenager. As well as a female family friend in her late teens who didn't like wearing anything on the top half of her body and there was a culture that that was fine where I was at the time. And it confused me sexually. I thinking as a young teen the best thing to do before I got married was to sleep with a bunch of woman Which turned into should I even have kids which also turned into when I started getting into my atheist phase should I even get married it's just a piece of paper. Once I got into my late teens I started identifying as a-sexual saying that I'm never going to date or get married. Once I opened up to God and got saved I realized where a lot of that stemmed from. If you read this whole thing thank you for reading. God Bless
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Wow, appreciate you sharing. Crazy testimony🙏🙏
@lenin1949
Жыл бұрын
Umm, don't really care how it affects your sex life, not relevant information to others.
@cora_99
Жыл бұрын
I did not grow up in a Christian home. When I was 6 I found some of my mom's maternity books, they had very anatomically graphic pictures ( I presume about the details of fertility and conception, but I couldn't really read yet 🤷♀️ ) at which point my mom found me with them and explained anatomically how sex works and that it makes babies. I was HORRIFIED, and ran around the room screaming. Don't explain it to your six year old. That was WAY too much too early. I was so grossed out. I didn't even want to play with my baby dolls anymore ( they used to be my favorite toy ) because knowing " where they came from" and HOW, totally weirded me out. Too early, is TOO EARLY, and it's not a good thing. That's my two cents 🤷♀️
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Haha yeah 6 is quite early😆
@737tech
Жыл бұрын
There is a KZitem video of a water birth. A 5 year old was helping deliver the baby. She seemed very happy.
@EnjoyitMusicMatt
Жыл бұрын
great content as always! i think purity culture is dangerous, BUT like all things, i think it varies based on ones upbringing/church attended! I do believe we need discernment because it CAN be horrendously PTSD inducing emotionally for some believers. on a lighter note...can you both please release a fragrance called "Purity" By Paul and Morgan! someone's gotta do it !!!!! lol
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you weighing in bro! Bahaha honestly love that idea😆 Purity by Paul and Morgan
@shelbiecarson2843
Жыл бұрын
I haven’t finished the video yet. I just want to say I love you guys and appreciate your vulnerability and your content!! Keep it up 😃
@erikt1713
8 ай бұрын
Let's appreciate for a moment that this same culture allows people like Morgan and Paul to discover their sexuality together in the safe space of marriage and love. They admit that intimacy was a bit of a challenge for them at first, but they found their way together. I cannot imagine this would have been better with a string of short-term partners despite all the "experience" this would provide.
@elphieglindie3285
Жыл бұрын
As a survivor of CSA. And the damage purity culture caused to my mental health because of it, please do better. People rarely claim this has happened to them when it hasn’t, and it happens a lot more than one would think. Because it tears families apart.!It took me years to finally tell someone that would help me, I tried talking and was shut down at 16. At 20 I told a therapist, and finally my partner. Purity culture was still hurting me, I was ashamed of everything. When none of it was my fault. I confronted my abuser but had no chance of legal action at that time. (Now with new laws, I do) Now I’m eight years in with that same partner, deprogrammed from religion and purity culture, and living my best life. But it made the beginning of my adult years something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy and I’m lucky to be alive.
@pantaleimona
Жыл бұрын
I agree. It takes a great deal of courage for victims of CSA to speak up in the first place. I'm very happy that you've found joy and a good, healthy life, Elphieglindie ! 🤍
@lydiam3161
10 ай бұрын
I grew up in "purity culture". Maybe that's why Now as an adult I feel genuine pity for people who have sexual feelings. To me sex is basically on the same level as other unpleasant urges such as having a bowel movement or vomiting. My ex and I talked about sex a number of times. I wanted to be honest with him so I told him I had no personal interest in sex and I found it unpleasant due to bodily fluids. However I was willing to have sex and try my best for him after marriage because he enjoyed it and it was important to him. I thought I was being super generous but he didn't take it that way and now he's my ex 😂 😂😂
@politereminder6284
Жыл бұрын
As usual, Paul and Morgan are not addressing the issue . They are not engaging the actual arguments of purity culture's critics. They have made ZERO effort to look into the _actual_ research done by Christians like Sheila Wray Gregoire. They are in denial and they continue to be vague. Morgan is obviously describing a negative effect, but she's in denial. Paul clearly got hooked on porn, but he's afraid to say that out loud. Morgan has the _nerve_ to call anger "insane" and Paul mocks the word "deconstruction." This is bad guys. Giving up pruitt culture doesn't mean you abandon Christian sexual ethics. Y'all are speaking in fear and y'all are saying nothing at the same time. 🙄
@milkenobi
Жыл бұрын
As a sex positive person, the way you just start talking about particulars of your sex life is really without flagging it first, is really not okay. I know there's a lure as a christian to be all cool and contrarian by talking confidently about your sex life, to try to be a bit shocking and out of the box compared to the reputation of religious discussions abotu sex. But, consent, yo. It's something that fundamental christianity has really struggled to process and handle, and the lack of consent on display here is tangible. There's really respectul and consenting ways to openly invite people into listening to explicit details about your sex life, and it starts with safety and consent.
@marylunga4989
Жыл бұрын
For as long as I remember, I just knew that sex was wrong until marriage. My parents taught me this, and they taught me to fear God in every aspect of life, including purity. This was the same teaching in the churches i grew up; they also taught to not date a bunch of people, because u are giving a part of yourself to every person u date, and then u dont have much good left for your husband. They did not talk about sex or how amazing it is in marriage at all. I did sign a paper when i was younger with the title "True Love Waits", and i did wear a true love waits purity ring. But my fear of God is what kept me pure in the end; these were just reminders (i don't think there is anything wrong with these, as long as people have the fear of God in their hearts!). All this to say, i did not feel that any of this was toxic or unhealthy. I felt that I had a great upbringing, and I felt that the church did good overall; especially at camps I attended, older women taught the younger women to be pure. I also don't feel that the purity culture i was taught/grew up with affected me negatively in my current marriage. Praise God, I believe that if we seek God and trust Him in this area too, He can give us beautiful sex lives in marriage, even though we were not taught anything about sex before we were married. However, I will say, I do wish that the church prepared people more as they get closer to getting married, or when they are engaged; I wish they taught us more about sex in marriage and how it can be amazing, but also what might be some challenges to overcome or conversations that should happen around this topic with our significant other before getting married. I do wish I was more prepared for sex in marriage before I got married. But I can't say I was taught anything toxic or negative.:) May God give wisdom to every church and pastor how to address this topic in a healthy way and prepare people for marriage! God bless u two for addressing this topic and encouraging others! :) Also Francie Winslow is amazing on this topic, and i deffinitely recommend her too!:)
@linzdelauder8417
Жыл бұрын
Hey guys, I have been following you on KZitem for a bit now and really love your content. You guys remind me a lot of myself and my husband with a lot of similarities. I believe that God wants Christian couples to redeem the social media space and start having real Conversations that open up the eyes to not only believers but people that have yet to no faith in Christ. I’m not sure if you would be willing to share any tips on what type of equipment you guys used to start your KZitem channel or even possibly make a video on this to help prepare fellow Christian couples that are wanting to follow along in your footsteps. I think you guys are paving a way for a revolution of healthy, practical and real marriages under Christ and more people need to see healthy examples of sinners who choose to follow Christ and challenge themselves to turn away from their flesh and respond to what God says when we feel misunderstood or offended in our marriage.
@dreammingpoetry
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't kick my kid out but I would make them pay rent or some bills like electricity or gas.
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
😊
@genasseeceline
Жыл бұрын
Pic at the end - Tiger or hippo yes. MAYBE bear. NOT alligator 🐊😆😳🙅🏼♀️
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
😁
@johannastromberg1224
Жыл бұрын
My parents over all did a great job. My parents could have been maybe more open about sex
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
😊
@seekingtruthandcompassion1707
Жыл бұрын
I think acknowledging that the lord desires us to wait for marriage for many beautiful and important reasons! And sharing those reasons with people is great ! And sharing some of the down sides to not waiting ! But ultimately telling people it is there choice weather they wait or not! And they will not be told they are worth less to God if they do have sex before marriage as unfortunately, some people teach this and it isn't biblical ! And being treated badly by the church if they make a mistake
@seekingtruthandcompassion1707
Жыл бұрын
Because let's Face it we are imperfect humans !
@ellianna.keller
Жыл бұрын
Growing up in my family sex was viewed in a very positive light. Even at homeschool groups like the teacher of my worldview class encouraged the sex is good and perfect and beautiful within a marriage and that it should be something to look forward to. Same with my parents like they went through with us what sex was and all the stuff and focused more on sex within marriage and how there are benefits to following God's plan rather than focusing on the bad and the negatives
@pantaleimona
Жыл бұрын
Anyone who truly believes that teens are so very weak they cannot be expected to control their hormonal desires while dating, was likely unable to "wait till marriage" themselves. Such ideas are rooted in fear.
@stephaniemontano4805
Жыл бұрын
I agree with Paul, I had the same expirience of knowing nothing, and found out on my own later on. I think it's good to encourage kids to ask age appropriate questions.
@Alexander44665
Жыл бұрын
Dear Paul & Morgan, I'm from Michigan. I have always wondered-is Kentucky southern or Midwestern? I know this is a bit of a lighter topic than the subject of your video.
@missxealaneous7713
Жыл бұрын
We don't have to be naked to be sexy. We lose the beauty of modesty when we equate it with shame. We ought to equate it with value. Women can exude oodles of sex appeal without being overtly sexual. I guarantee a secure man will find a fully clothed, well maintained, confident, intelligent, nurturing woman extremely sexy. I hope we can all agree that sex appeal is much more nuanced than simply showing skin. This is the truth that women of God need to know.
@nancydroge7682
Жыл бұрын
Your excellent content was so well said & deeply appreciated today! The ‘conversation’ with our children begins when they are very young. (The material Morgan mentions sounds very worthwhile.) Your children will sense your feelings around sexuality wether it be an ongoing developmentally appropriate conversation or a life long avoidance of it! “Fearfully & wonderfully made… “, we are! P.S. “Go Team!” Makes me laugh… every time!
@melissacalderon1515
Жыл бұрын
Hey guys so I need you guys to help me so I had somebody in my past that I met in 2014, that instantly had a connection with. He broke up with me because of his religion, we both weren’t mature Christian’s in that time and when he broke up with me, it hurt so much. It was the most traumatic breakup, that it was hard because after our breakup we had to go to the same church together 2015-2017 and it was hard seeing him because I still like him, it took me forever to get over him. in 2020 I was so overwhelmed with my emotions and feelings and I told God about how much I loved him and I care for him but idk if he’s the one or not, god spoke to my heart and told me “Would you be willing to wait if that’s the person I prepared you to be with?” And idk specifically god was talking about him or another guy.. but I decide to move on from that year. I haven’t found anybody and yet , and for some reason I feel mysef back missing that person again and I thought have move on, now is 2023 And I miss him and honestly I don’t know what God meant when he ask me that question
@celesteessel4500
Жыл бұрын
In the post-live, what @Konami said about not wanting to know about parents --i agree, scarring af as a kid to hear that blahhh
@zachr.ingram5889
Жыл бұрын
Bummer, ran late
@hannahmcdowell7440
Жыл бұрын
This is a great conversation! I grew up with some teachings from ati that made it more difficult for me to open up sexually after marriage. I thought my husband’s pleasure was more important to me than exploring my own. I felt ashamed over my own sexual desires and didn’t know how to express it. It was hard for me to feel sexy or even know what to tell my husband. It’s taken time and having kids right away has also probably contributed to that. But I’m thankful my husband is willing to learn and explore. When he was finally brave enough to share it fantasy with me it actually made me feel super free to start leaning into my sexual side. Almost 5 years in and I love it that we can explore together and it only gets better!
@PaulandMorgan
Жыл бұрын
That’s awesome to hear, right on!
@nebmaatrah
Жыл бұрын
That were some really interesting thoughts, but i cant stop looking at that huge tattoo. You ever talked somewhere how you as a christian woman can disfigute your body like that and not even care to cover it up. Seems strange while you two talk about modesty
@Star-dj1kw
Жыл бұрын
Rude
@nebmaatrah
Жыл бұрын
@@Star-dj1kw yeah she is really rude
@sarai637
Жыл бұрын
i would choose purity culture over the sex positivity movement that is harming young men and especially young women … ANY DAY. if there is any negative effects from purity culture, there is a million more from the opposite side. i can’t believe we live in a society where saving yourself for marriage is shamed when it’s the most beautiful thing.
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