Leslie I cannot tell you how thankful I am for you. You give biblical wisdom that Christians have tiptoed around long enough. You provide decades of counseling into 5 minutes. Through your podcasts, God has answered my prayers. Thank you thank you thank you for understanding and telling it simple and clear.
@dande19
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Adela, curious to know if you’re willing to share: by “God has answered your prayers” do you mean you had the courage to leave a dead marriage? Or, by putting to practice Vernick’s teachings and advice, was your marriage restored to a healthy place?
@adelarodriguez2173
Жыл бұрын
@@dande19 Leslie helped me identify the problems in my marriage. I never wanted to accept obvious facts that everyone else saw but me. I really believed it was the "Christian " thing to do, to stay married regardless of the circumstances. But Leslie helped me discover biblical truth that brought everything together at the perfect time. God has given me confirmation after confirmation to leave for a time so we can both heal. Not sure if I will return or what will become of us, I only know that it is time to walk away in faith and into an exciting new life of freedom.
@namlee4386
Жыл бұрын
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@dande19
Жыл бұрын
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@gramadidi
5 жыл бұрын
I felt like you were speaking right to me. 44 years of marriage and my eyes were opened 5 years ago, not taking any more emotional abuse we are, as you say, going through an in-house separation. Your videos and your book are helping me to find my voice and put my emotions into words.
@Keleia4Jesus
3 жыл бұрын
If you get this notification, I would like to know how your in-house separation worked out or??? I'm currently in this situation, but we are still struggling. I just want to be at peace; but interacting with each other is difficult... now the holidays are coming.
@brightpage1020
Жыл бұрын
For me, there are still things I can do and habits I can develop... I'll focus on that for me and see what the response may be. We are soon coming out of a season of little children constantly underfoot. I see a light opening at the end of a decade tunnel. I can strengthen myself during this time to prepare myself for that one. Thank you! Bless you!
@JoyBouter
6 ай бұрын
I wish I could like this twice! I'm so thankful for you, Leslie.
@brightpage1020
Жыл бұрын
Oh wow you said "in house separarion". I did not know that was a thing, but I know a woman who I believe might be going through one of those without formally verbalizing that. The house analogy was so key and spot on. Love that this video too for the fact that the choice is ours. We can chose to "leave well" or "stay well". We don't have to further damage our marriage or family in order to take better care of ourselves.
@natashabhattacharya5244
3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are very insightful and speaks to my soul. I am very blessed by your messages. They just hit the bulls eye directly. I thank God for you❤️
@beautyforashesministries6257
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Your 3 choices really brought clarify and simplicity to such a agonizing choice I have to make
@maishap4010
Жыл бұрын
I love you LV!! I just found you recently. Thank you for your ministry and showing me how to emancipate myself from an unhealthy situation.
@ashleyjeanarseneault6232
Жыл бұрын
Wow Leslie I really needed this. You have no idea. Thank God for you and your minsitry and all you do. ❤️
@faithfulservant200
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, at this point now after 16 years, currently going through seperation and he is Not Happy about it
@ughhdule7892
5 жыл бұрын
Please pray for my wife she filed for divorce we have 5 old son please jesus save my family amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@rogeranders5696
5 жыл бұрын
Praying
@joyceadams1926
3 жыл бұрын
Well, what did you do. Praying works but one also has to take responsibility for their words and actions
@MadQueen772
11 ай бұрын
You are so wise. Thank you.
@masterpeacetherapy221
4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss, I’m over here looking at this shamble wondering when it’s going to fall on me. 😔
@DARKhorses73
3 ай бұрын
SMH! Speaking to him doesn't work. Hardening of the heart 💔
@lucerochavarria1532
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos 💜
@angelasturn
3 жыл бұрын
Really good, I’m now separated a year due to physical abuse in a 20 year marriage, he’s not made any steps to change and I’ve spent a year changing growing in God getting counsel now it’s like we are unequally yoked plus he is now worse then he was (lots of sin in his life) divorce is where I’m headed
@roxanapio1412
3 жыл бұрын
Leslie you are truly God send. Thank you.
@MegaPerson012345
3 жыл бұрын
I really like your analogy. Brilliant!
@unitychampion2747
2 жыл бұрын
This was so powerful thank you 🙏🏻
@lucerochavarria1532
5 жыл бұрын
I'm going through a hard time with my husband I'm exhausted of only me trying to fix things just now I was just laying here crying I open up KZitem and your video pops up how weird is the?? Is god trying to tell me something??
@jenniferclemente1516
5 жыл бұрын
Definitely. God talks to us in things He know we will hear(or see) ask for the truth no matter what the cost. It's been opening my eyes and helping me take steps towards healing.praying for you, muchloven Godbless🙏❤😄🌹
@lucerochavarria1532
5 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferclemente1516 but isn't it bad to leave my husband in God's eyes?
@jenniferclemente1516
5 жыл бұрын
@@lucerochavarria1532 if there is abuse or unrepentant sin then no, you need to keep yourswlf alive and sane
@rogeranders5696
5 жыл бұрын
Praying for you
@divinelychosen5554
5 жыл бұрын
God hates divorce bcos of the pain it causes however he hates abuse much more. Read emotionally destructive marriage by Leslie Vernick. God led you to this channel for a reason. Ask for godly wisdom and spiritual discernment.
@srsmithali
3 жыл бұрын
This is how I feel, been married almost 11 years. I have finally decided to leave with my kids. I feel like I am stressed out and mentally devastated. I think we are bad for each other. We have both hurt each other. We cannot seem to get it together. He wants to hold on and I am trying to hold on to my sanity. I have lost so much time, I have lost a sense of who I am. I am going to move out I see that we cannot fix things.......because nothing changes if nothing changes.
@rachealflorian8112
3 жыл бұрын
Hello if you need real and sure solutions, I can refer you to the man that worked for me
@mchristr
4 жыл бұрын
It's important to make the distinction between indifference and abuse. Indifference results from lost intimacy, which is a constant battle in every marriage. Abuse is much more serious and calls for separation and/or intervention. Not feeling loved by your husband doesn't qualify as abuse. At that point he probably doesn't feel loved/respected by you. Get some counsel.
@beautyforashesministries6257
4 жыл бұрын
Hibitual indifference can be completely destructive from a spouse. and a form of emotional abuse/ neglect
@mchristr
4 жыл бұрын
@@beautyforashesministries6257 Yes, constant indifference is very destructive because we begin to feel devalued and unwanted. But every marriage is susceptible when little things, perceived offenses, are unresolved and become bigger with each mental rehearsal. Yet when each spouse chooses to believe the best of the other, irritations and even hurts don't become unforgivable. Can we humble ourselves and say "I was wrong, I'm sorry, please forgive me"? That's the recipe for a great marriage.
@lisaharper7185
3 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you Leslie! Wow
@steveborkowski4330
3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic!!!
@joeface448
2 жыл бұрын
I love your heart in making these videos. Your wisdom is God given and is really helping me to get the help I need to leave my abusive spouse. However, please, I beg you to use gender neutral words for your videos. I have been the plaything of a narcissist for close to 6 years, and she’s a woman. Please stay neutral. Thank you
@monaperry2635
9 ай бұрын
I feel that anxiety. Is it wrong to have expectations of your spouse to do their work of self growth, accountability and change as i am doing exactly that.
@renearosser1466
2 жыл бұрын
Does the last choice included divorce?
@karenpaige1186
3 жыл бұрын
This helps
@abutterfly7975
Жыл бұрын
I don’t think that’s the definition of insanity. Its not doing the same thing over and over again…….It’s doing the same thing over and over expecting that you will get a different result. 😊
@nr1785
5 жыл бұрын
What about when you getting a divorce just gives your husband what he wants: that he gets to be with his adulteress.
@christianone6611
4 жыл бұрын
Lucky you, you'll be rid of his selfishness and those two will deserve each other. If you really want him, watch the movie "War Room" and pray your guts out.
@franwilliams4306
5 жыл бұрын
Feedback observation: the sun shining on Leslie's face is distracting to me. When she leaned forward or otherwise moves the reflection of the light moves and makes it hard for me to watch. I like and need the video, but the message is somewhat lost in the distraction. Hopefully future videos will take this into consideration. Thank you for your work.
@ICU2B4UDO
2 жыл бұрын
All by "Herself"??? ...I've seen plenty of marriages torpedoed by women...Just saying...
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