Girl! Thank you for the sound advice to the young lady! When I read the title I was like what did I miss! Did she get divorced because he didn’t like her surgery? But I’m glad I hit play! 😂
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Heyyyyyy!
@kwannasmith
Жыл бұрын
Now I don't feel as bad cause I was like wait what 😮
@phy_b
Жыл бұрын
Lol very much click bait lolol SM marketing at its finest
@denitatucker-washington2697
Жыл бұрын
Whew thought it was just me I was like Ik he didn’t 😅
@perke1cannon
Жыл бұрын
@@denitatucker-washington2697 😂😂 Right!
@taliahmonae7337
Жыл бұрын
"Yeah he's my baby, but he's still a person" I love that response!
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@suneegrl
Жыл бұрын
Nah….. keep that baby off the internet. Protect him and ignore nosy people lol. Seriously, I understand the desire share more, but parasocial relationships are not worth disrupting your family’s privacy. I think privacy may become the new currency in the future because people overshare so much. ❤
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
I agree! If I show him, it’ll be extremely limited
@nicolehunter5927
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@tarshajno-charles8142
11 ай бұрын
You are An amazing by person. Keep on going beautiful lady.
@nikiedmonds6236
Жыл бұрын
I'm sending the part about the 10 year relationship and no marriage to my cousin cause chiiiile 🤦🏾♀️ that was great advice 😁
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
I hope she takes heed!
@nikiedmonds6236
Жыл бұрын
@FayeInTheCity I do too lol
@aprilray8111
Жыл бұрын
I put my baby in daycare around the same age that champ is now for the social interaction. I was a nervous wreck the first week. Now he loves it and looks forward to going everyday
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
This comment actually brings me comfort!
@tonyapearson3074
Жыл бұрын
Girl you gon make me cry!! Thank you so much for answering my question!!
@CurlsofaCPA
Жыл бұрын
It’s Champ praising the Lord in the background for me 😂
@taijhaie02
Жыл бұрын
Faye the advice you gave that young lady was so wise and heartfelt. I love you so much and pray for your continued success!!!
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@tboykin13tb
Жыл бұрын
I Thank U Personally Faye(CHILE) cause I am there & needed that AdVice RgT Now!!!! 💯🤩
@tbev58
Жыл бұрын
I knew the title was a Catcher 😂😂
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
You already know. We can talk about other peoples business all day but y’all know I’m never going into mine! 😂😂😂😂😂
@Gabrielle-xf3ex
Жыл бұрын
Single mom? How many chapters did I miss 😭😭?
@larketahollingshed561
Жыл бұрын
I deserve a marriage. I’ve been with mine since 2013. It’s 2023 now. Not married at all but I’ve got 2 of his kids. I can’t keep dealing with him only 2 days out of a week. I know my worth and DESERVE what I want!
@BL3SSed-Bliss
6 ай бұрын
I hope you have shifted into the love~life you deserve. 🙏🏽💓
@R0yALtyS
6 ай бұрын
Why only 2 days out of the week? If u don't mind me asking...
@meloz1203
Жыл бұрын
That comment about how people treat you hit home. I lost 72 lbs and the difference in how people treated me was so evident and hurtful. I was getting hit on by guys I’d been cool with for years. I told them I’m the same person so if you didn’t like me then, don’t like me now😂 Well, I lost my brother and had some fertility rollercoasters that affected me mentally and physically and I ended up gaining it back and the comments now are so disgusting and rude. Girl, I know you didn’t gain all that weight back, is the comment I get most often. The even sadder part is that family is the worst😢 Thanks for your encouragement and constant transparency.
@princessloulou4809
Жыл бұрын
Don’t hate me but for evolution men’s basic instinct is procreation so when you’re a certain size you become more appealing to most. Also people won’t say this out loud but when they see someone overweight they think that person lacks self control. I gained 40 pounds during 2022 and I was lucky my friends nor my family didn’t even blinked, no one seemed to care but I noticed I did not appeal to the same amount of guys. Anyway I lost over 20 pounds and again guys are noticing. My point is, sometimes being overweight shows you people true feelings versus the fakeness but it can be very tough on a person psyche.
@R0yALtyS
6 ай бұрын
@@princessloulou4809 facts
@0625harmony
Жыл бұрын
I love a warning pause while I get the EarPods. And I’m back!!
@bisaandttslifetreasures2752
Жыл бұрын
Nice video thanks for the encouraging words ❤❤
@missladyanonymity
Жыл бұрын
I noticed the ring removal months ago. Prosper, muvva. Prosper!
@cynti504
Жыл бұрын
Girl I’m 35 with a 1 year old and I’m going through a similar situation to the lady that posted the question. Although I’ve always known…hearing your advice with such empathy really struck a nerve. Thank you ❤ love from the UK 🥰
@LiveANoursishedLife
Жыл бұрын
Same! I'm 58 so this was in my 20s when I lost over 50lbs and suddenly ppl (men) were looking at me diff and I became very recentful. Of course I gained the weight back and looking back to then and where I am now (302-204lbs) I realize, for me, if you aren't ready to make an overall change in behavior, eating habits and food choices, it probably won't be sustainable. Also it has to be for the right reason. The reason to be healthy in your body. Not to get a partner or social standing, etc but for your health and realize it is for life and not just a "diet" it more than likely won't last. It's the unhealthy eating,, etc that caused the weight gain, and whatever other health issues. When I realized that, the process was a lot easier. Do I still miss my donuts and pop-tarts, heck yeah! But that got me to 302. And the whole "moderation" when it comes to "sweets" is not a thing for me. So I have to find alternatives that even if I decide to have a fudge it day ;) I won't feel guilty afterwards bc what I chose to eat ok for my body and not filled with unhealthy carbs (I'm Keto.) Cutting out a lot of processed foods helped a lot! If I can't pronouce the ingrediants it probably means I don't need to be eating it lol.
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
A WORD!!! I totally agree!
@LiveANoursishedLife
Жыл бұрын
🥰@@FayeInTheCity
@tamitriawalker
Жыл бұрын
Wait sis, I've been gone for a minute. We need to chat friend!!! The caption just caught me off guard
@autumnstoptwo
Жыл бұрын
i love the way you respect your child. so many people treat their kids like property or profit and its wonderfully refreshing to see you respect his autonomy as the human being he is, even as a widdle itty bitty 🥰
@ivymerritt7577
Жыл бұрын
Even though I want to know every little thing about our Internet nephew, I respect your desire to keep your son out of the spotlight. There are some very sick people in this world, and less he's exposed the better. 😍😍😍😍😍
@cheshiredj
Жыл бұрын
Great talk! You definitely want to protect your baby; people can be scary because they "think" they know you.
@Kaleepha
Жыл бұрын
What did we do to deserve all these videos? I'm so excited.
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Hey booski!
@LaShumbraBatesAuDHD
Жыл бұрын
Girl, your title temporarily gave me a heart attack. 💔🤨 😂😂😂
@mightystrong5484
Жыл бұрын
I'm telling you NOW,you're going to cry when your baby goes to daycare 😢 be skrong 💪🏾 lol 😅
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
I’m…Going to be stalking the day care cameras and watching him all day!!! 😂😂😂
@mightystrong5484
Жыл бұрын
@@FayeInTheCity YESSSSSS LORT!PLEASE DO 🙏🏼
@CrazyNaturalPrincess
Жыл бұрын
Great advice Faye! Enjoyed this video❤
@whitneybrown4067
Жыл бұрын
This is Gonna b so Insightful Faye🔥🔥🔥👍n Heyyy Happy Sunday😀….
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Heyyyyy!
@deb8911
Жыл бұрын
Girl I saw #GRWM… and thought you went live. I WAS FINNA SWING ON KZitem AGAIN! 🪑 but it’s a regular video 😂 #FAYEBAYE
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
LOL!!! This reminds me that I need to go live soon!!!
@monaekirksey3852
Жыл бұрын
listennnnn!! you look soooo beautiful with the natural look 😍
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@mightystrong5484
Жыл бұрын
It's crazy ppl treat you like trash because of the way you look or don't look 😢😢 this world is crazy ,help us here LORD
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
I agree
@keishasamuel5651
Жыл бұрын
Love these videos. Great advice & inspiration. Also, always love your makeup ❤
@carolyndye2615
Жыл бұрын
My good Sis is giving us looks with these wigs!!! I'm here for it
@adaziasearcy6142
Жыл бұрын
Love you down Faye!!!!
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Love you back!
@1LocWonder
Жыл бұрын
You forgot to mention “He innocent” when telling us about Champ🤪
@ItsJasDarling
Жыл бұрын
Ooo just in time 🙌🏾😊
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Hey, booski!
@DRedd-xl4ko
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always being 💯. You are beautiful inside and out. The negative people will always be there. The only thing we can as individuals is put your best foot forward and do you. Each day is a new day to be the best version of yourself. People will always talk, but you don't have to ingest what they say. Thank you for all you do. Stay blessed ❤.
@lalacity22
Жыл бұрын
Your honesty is priceless 💯😉♥️♥️👠👠
@charleneduncan1508
Жыл бұрын
Hey Faye! Great wisdom❤
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Chet_p762
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the wisdome❤ and it’s the craziest thing when I watched your videos befor the surgery and after I’m like you’re still gorgeous with a phenomenal personality and spirit. It amazes me how human perceive you just because of looks 🙄. Nevertheless keep winning sis!!!🙌🏾
@valerieholmes9409
Жыл бұрын
Faye, you gave sister girl very sound advice about her man wasting her time.
@ominouscherub
Жыл бұрын
I understand the need for privacy everyone deserves to have moments and life experiences for themselves I know faye knows how to protect herself and her baby because she’s a MAMA 😊
@cheryls.booker3336
Жыл бұрын
I love your candor and insight. You are so inspirational! Love your videos. ♥️
@shelleyforest2877
Жыл бұрын
Faye, you are so beautiful 😍
@JustShara4
Жыл бұрын
Hey Faye! 💛💛💛💛
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Heyyyyy!
@veniestagourdine3881
Жыл бұрын
Faye you have been here before. You are so wise beyond your years.
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@starmaxx4
Жыл бұрын
Great video/advice 🥰💙.. thank you so much for always sharing your truth! 💙..
@ericayoung3957
Жыл бұрын
Hey Faye ❤ good advice
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
💙💙💙💙
@naturalshatara9559
Жыл бұрын
Share so you won’t get sued, this man sued his wife and won cause the kids came out ugly and he was bamboozled
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Oh, definitely tell before you get to the altar!
@tinaclark1975
Жыл бұрын
9:20 it doesn't take a man long to know if they want to marry you. They are actually sure before we are! My husband shot me down the aisle 8 months after meeting me so they know ladies.
@thesoloalliance
Жыл бұрын
First we are related!!! Idc idc… but yes ma’am I loved the questions and answers.. so we doing this! OK OK!❤❤ this my post, that is all. NEXT! 😂😂😂. Edit: and you gave facts Sis. This journey is not easy after WLS. It’s such a mental journey.
@Mrs.CryssieJ
Жыл бұрын
It's crazy that people would like you more and accept you more because of your new body but that's the world we live in its sad and like you said disheartening your beauty from within and out is the strength God has given you Faye Love you 😊❤ continue to be you transparency is beautiful i appreciate you . Also I wanted to know what is the meaning to the phrase you say at the end of your videos .
@ashkeniasims1840
Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I Love This! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@alwayskrazy
Жыл бұрын
I disagree with your surgery advice simply because any lie or omission of the truth typically ends badly. If someone knows that the person they are with doesn’t like surgery and that they’ve had surgery then it’s better to be upfront and give the person the opportunity to walk away versus it happened down the line upon engagement or something. Also it spares the heartache and the partner questioning what they have and have not said.
@modernchocolatechristians1908
Жыл бұрын
Yes, that lady needs to leave because he doesn't want to marry HER. If she doesn't leave, he won't either because he's comfortable. There is no way you should spend 10 years as a girlfriend.
@Meliecaandkids
Жыл бұрын
Great advice God bless ❤❤
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Meliecaandkids
Жыл бұрын
@@FayeInTheCity you're welcome ❤
@lalacity22
Жыл бұрын
Great honest girl talk ❤❤❤❤❤
@aishalong9735
Жыл бұрын
Hey Mrs. Faye.. these questions are kind of off the wall. Yeah we miss Baby in the city. But we respect your privacy when it comes to your family. Thanks for being your beautiful real self
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Blessed2Bme73
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you on your son
@jeanninegorden8142
Жыл бұрын
Day care will be great for Champ! Just build up his, you and DJs immunity ASAP!! Cuz dem daycare germs ARE NO JOKE!!
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
That’s the scary part!!! My mom had me ramp up his vitamins but I know I can’t fully protect him. I’m hoping with him only going half time, it won’t be as bad but I know kids are gross so there’s no telling 😩😂
@jeanninegorden8142
Жыл бұрын
@FayeInTheCity make a bath after school a part of his new routine. Start wiping down his car seat and diaper bag (& supplies) on the days he goes. Unfortunately, the germs good for his immune system but it's a rough ride!
@charlisimone4045
Жыл бұрын
how tall is faye? sorry if that’s random it’s just you were talking about bmi so i was curious
@bryanadunn4919
Жыл бұрын
Wait so did you and hubby separate?
@jewellemason4614
Жыл бұрын
Love your advice so true
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
💙💙💙
@GAPeachSSBiz
Жыл бұрын
Hi Faye, the stomach is flexible tissue. It is definitely possible to stretch after weight loss s.urgery. The issue that many have after not changing their eating habits completely. Just as you said, initially you won't be able to eat as much at one time, many choose to still eat the same portions but once they have room for the rest. Which in turn, your stomach would allow you to consume more and more if start eat more and more even though you're food. A lot of weight loss patients choose to return years later to get an adjustment.
@dawndf1527
Жыл бұрын
wha is that you spray on your face?
@mightystrong5484
Жыл бұрын
FAYE YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL 😍 🤩
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@skizbees
Жыл бұрын
Never lose the gut check of the side eye. 😊
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Facts!
@thaniya0201
Жыл бұрын
❤beautiful look and I’m the same way Faye I don’t like my son on social media too much I myself have similar values and yes boyfriends don’t get husband privileges. 🍵
@constanceellerbe829
Жыл бұрын
❤
@tolanwilliams3443
Жыл бұрын
Hey Faye.
@FayeInTheCity
Жыл бұрын
Heyyyy!
@nykia007
Жыл бұрын
Not me checking in after being gone for a while and finding out we're single! Wtf... I've missed so much... I hate that for us 🫶🏾
@mdatx2012
Жыл бұрын
Faye, I can so relate to going through a lot in my private life during and after pregnancy. I started therapy as well and working out and it really helped me. I hope more people take that advice.
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