I learned that the right man will provide an environment that will make being feminine easier. My ex was broke, indecisive, passive and in turn I was in my masculine energy more. A woman glows when she is being loved right.
@Mz_akua_
2 ай бұрын
this Is so true
@anyamiranda9452
7 ай бұрын
Most of us literally don't have a choice, since masculine men who are willing to protect and provide are nothing short of incredibly rare nowadays.
@lakeishasmith3569
8 ай бұрын
I started presenting masculine qualities at year 5. I was already helping him, working two jobs, overwhelmed, overworked. ❤After I started to ask him what specific goals because we are not engaged or married... We've been having problems every since! I realize now , I was raised by a single man, and he was raised by a single mom, During the relationship, I noticed he was always so impatient and critical, use profanity all the time ; so the dynamic of our background is totally different.. He's more feminine than masculine, and I am more masculine due to my overall environment , my dad taught me survival. We recently call it quits after 7 yrs going no where. I'm so happy because I gave it my best and now I can really learn to love myself. I got to get to the bottom of this trauma. ❤❤
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
I pray for your healing in Jesus' name 💕
@Heyu7her3
8 ай бұрын
He's not "feminine" -- that's an insult to women! And you're not "masculine," just adaptable & resourceful which all organisms must do to survive regardless of gender. However, definitely leave after Year 2 if your goal is marriage & there's no proposal. Good luck!
@danilaroche1156
2 ай бұрын
I pray for your healing as well. If my man was too passive, feminine and wouldn't marry me. I'd leave after a year. As women are time is limited. Men can have children at 80. Not us.
@PoshwithPurpose
8 ай бұрын
Ladies, I’m currently reading a book called: Be The Prize by Kim Postell. This book isn’t for the weak and might be a bit triggering but I think all of us can take a few things away from it - Highly recommend! ❤ this was an excellent video and so on time with the climate of what is going on today with modern women. Great Job Ms. Daf 👏🏾🤗 I think all of us needed to hear this in someway shape or form! God bless you ladies on your personal feminine journey’s 💕✨
@Ofureee
8 ай бұрын
Hii do you have this in PDF? Could you please share? I'll share my email
@latoyaowens6759
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the info!
@glowwithsandra
7 ай бұрын
I’m reading getting to I do and it’s spot on. Written By a psychologist that got thousands of women married 🎉✨
@imandalton4227
8 ай бұрын
This is totally off the subject, but I just have to tell you how gorgeous you look, your hair pulled back is so elegant, your skin is glowing and motherhood and womanhood period, looks amazing on you 😊
@TheChristianCollegeClub
8 ай бұрын
I was very feminine but he left because he was feminine as well… I married a counterfeit.
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that. You do need that polarity for harmony in romantic relationships 💕
@TheChristianCollegeClub
8 ай бұрын
@@drmichelledaf Dr Michelle I started watching you when I was about 21, I’m 25 now and I’ve learned alot. I appreciate your ministry, as it has blessed me in a way I never would’ve been exposed to in my family. One day I was on the phone with a customer service rep that kind of had the same tone as you and she gave me some great advice so I mentioned your channel and low and behold she was a subscriber! I’m in Texas, I’m not sure where she was but you are very impactful and definitely are helping daughters of God across the world. I was wondering if you could consider speaking on choosing a counterfeit and how to recover or signs of a narcissist and how to recover from narcissistic abuse if you already haven’t? Thank you for all that you do! God bless you beautiful 🤍
@EarCandyAsmr
8 ай бұрын
this is true! opposites attract, I’ve seen feminine men who want masculine women. it’s a toxic unbalanced relationship
@niki-mars955
8 ай бұрын
Oooh, Lord. I'm sorry, Sis.
@user-nk2ub1hd2p
8 ай бұрын
It’s not okay she’s blaming women because you’re right. Too many men are feminine, and they don’t pair well with a feminine woman. So they go find a masculine woman. Or a man.
@ayushmitachakraborty3414
8 ай бұрын
This is such an important video. I'm actively trying to work on some of these areas. And by the Grace of God I've changed so much. I love being a feminine woman. Femininity is my strength. 💗
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
That is wonderful! May the Lord continue to guide you on your journey 💕
@annie-qc9wv
8 ай бұрын
I would’ve hated you a couple of years ago, I found you at the perfect time and you’ve healed me
@Christimony222
8 ай бұрын
Wow. That glowy makeup you’re wearing is perfecttttt. Love it.
@AchemySoul
8 ай бұрын
“You’re too masculine” that has been super triggering as of late. Mainly because no one has ever told me this… is it is subconscious for me, so its gonna take some deep inner healing to undo it.
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
It will take inner healing and God will help you. Watch my series "Fiercely Feminine". It will do wonders for that part of you 💕 Thank you for watching ✨
@Heyu7her3
8 ай бұрын
Everyone has all these traits, just at different strengths. Forget the gendering & find your balance. 😊
@melanatedgem_
7 ай бұрын
You look amazing Dr Michelle!!!!❤❤❤
@chanukahsingersforyahuwah7104
7 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks so much for your honesty. We need this! I would add that a woman who struggles with control needs to check herself for trust issues. It was definitely part of why I fell into that problematic way of thinking/talking
@drmichelledaf
7 ай бұрын
So true! Thank you for watching!
@SpiritualDevelopmentCorner
4 ай бұрын
I haven't been left and I am in a quite happy, loving relationship. The thing is, since I have started following your channel and practicing your tips, I have been very surprised to see how many more doors have been opened for me just for being soft, feminine. I am watching this video to see wether my relationship is safe, and I am so happy to see that I have made so much progress. There is only one thing it seems I still need to heavily work on, but the fact that everything else you said in the video is not something I would do anymore, and the fact that I know that just one year ago I would've done at least half of the things you said... I am just so grateful for your videos, and so proud of my growth! Thanks Dr. Daf!
@buggeyed139
7 ай бұрын
‘The man is thinking of you as a compilation of every interaction’
@LipstickLady
8 ай бұрын
I’m working on this! I didn’t even realize this until recently! My husband brought it out of me in the beginning 🥴 I had to always be in defense mode! Our marriage has since changed, but I still fell that I am carrying these traits!! I also feel like I’ve subconsciously picked up some of these things from watching reality tv growing up. Yes the women look nice, but they are very masculine and disrespectful towards men!
@Maggs3
8 ай бұрын
Reality TV will have you hyper masculine. I had to cut it out.
@Heyu7her3
8 ай бұрын
We're in defense mode when we're attacked by patriarchal standards.
@candace5705
8 ай бұрын
Wow.…thanks for the example. I was thinking something has to be wrong. 😃 Determined to change…it’s not just for your partner, but the area you live in everyday too. Keep walking in your gift and many blessings!!!
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
You're so welcome love and thank you so much 💋💋
@andorrabastien
8 ай бұрын
You look absolutely radiant and stunning 😍
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much darling 💕
@vivickawilliams
20 күн бұрын
I used to be very masculine I come from a masculine who is now a crack addict. Over the last 6 months I’ve been drowning myself in femininity I still struggle with certain things like cussing but each and every I’m getting more feminine. My problem now is instant gratification I want to be better now and I beat myself up. Your videos have helped me stopped smoking weed, to get closer to god, and just be feminine over all. I watch your videos while I cook work out or shower sometimes they are very therapeutic and helpful. Thank you so much I will continue to watch you and share your videos🤞🏾
@drmichelledaf
20 күн бұрын
@@vivickawilliams I am so touched that you shared this. God is so good and I am thankful to know that He is healing every part of you. No need to beat yourself up. You are loved and it takes time to internalize it all. Sooner than later you will be able to see your complete transformation. It is a beautiful journey. You are so welcome love. God bless you 🩷💋
@savon5499
8 ай бұрын
How i love all this beautyful colors matching together! 😍 I dont even know how to call the color of your dress? but its so pretty! 😊Is it pearl or champagne..?!
@NadiaPink
8 ай бұрын
My breath is taken away. You are radiating,glowing and stunning.🫶🏽💕
@KDADDYSGIRL
8 ай бұрын
I was told by my ex I was masculine.. but he was very feminine. He left most of the planning and decisions to me … I DID NOT WANT TO MAKE ALL THE DECISIONS. All of the planning…everything down to providing directions and always having to be on my ps and qs for both of us! He was always so passive and never took control which kept me in that masculine space he was complained about.. it just wasn’t a match but when I called him feminine and challenged him .. he didn’t like that either. ATP I’m better off single.
@joycub
8 ай бұрын
Needed this reminder, thank you ❤
@MsWillita8
8 ай бұрын
Sadly, because of my husband’s upbringing, he doesn’t listen to me when I use a soft voice. When I brought that to his attention, he acknowledged that his communication style was forcing me to act masculine 😢.
@kimF499
8 ай бұрын
Yes. When I'm soft and express my needs, I'm ignored. If I'm direct I'm being mean. I've just learned to avoid having certain conversations, which is just as unhealthy
@Heyu7her3
8 ай бұрын
@@kimF499 they don't wanna hear from women at all
@FoxxySAB
8 ай бұрын
How do you do this and still have a voice in the relationship? Sometimes it feels like you’re pushing this down just so he can be comfortable but you become mute? Great video!
@Heyu7her3
8 ай бұрын
This is why gendering behaviors & traits doesn't work, especially since women face oppression at the interpersonal & systemic levels.
@torianichole831
7 ай бұрын
I think that all depends on the relationship you’re in. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and have been both masculine and feminine and everything has gotten so much better once I got more into my feminine. I don’t feel like I don’t have a voice. He asks for my opinion on many things and respects it, but it’s just my opinion and he chooses what to do with it. If there’s anything I feel I need from him, I let him know and he listens and does the best he can. We work together in our roles. I have also seen the opposite where women don’t feel they have a voice and the way their man “puts their foot down” is very belittling. I think these are toxic men. Just be mindful of the relationship you’re in because you can very much be in your feminine and use your voice. It’s just all in how you use it. Like with taking the trash out for example and this is only an example. You could approach in a masculine way and tell him he doesn’t listen and never takes it out or you could go about it more feminine and say baby I know you have a lot on your plate and maybe forgot, but could you please take the trash out? Or simply could you please take the trash out? I hope this makes sense
@FoxxySAB
7 ай бұрын
@@torianichole831 thank you for that example. It was very clear. I working on trying to get more into my feminine, he responds well to that bc the tone is more pleasing but I still get what I want/need, I.E. the trash is taken out
@aajefferson1545
8 ай бұрын
Cursing does not necessarily mean one has limited vocabulary or lack articulation. It is one’s style of language. I don’t curse by the way.
@takera7
8 ай бұрын
Good afternoon, in the beginning of the video i was like ummm this is not how Dr Daf usually speaks lol but I'm glad it was a lesson that was learned. It was definitely some triggers especially with the "you should " stuff. Also thank you for not overwhelming us all in one video but we may need a part 2 and 3 lol
@BlackberryTitties
8 ай бұрын
Girl bye and good luck!!!! Listen to her if you want! I’m being serious!
@aliceyalenga7267
8 ай бұрын
Dr. Daf honestly speaking you helped me a lot because I was raised as a masculine girl till I came across your channel and started evaluating myself ❤😊 and saw that truly I had no feminine qualities 😊
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
Hi sweetie I'm really happy to hear that you are growing and learning. God bless you 💕
@niki-mars955
8 ай бұрын
This is really helpful. I've been cognisant of this as I've begun dating. I'm taking notes and starting to implement immediately. It's so hard to remeber it all, v but I'm going to need to pray about this too.
@telaijbarnum8554
8 ай бұрын
The intro got meee! loll I was like OOP ok then! haha that was a great way to put your point in to perspective for sure
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
LOL! 🥰 yes girl!! Thank you for watching 💕
@missladybug73
8 ай бұрын
I have to work on my poker face. Lol! Thank you for your videos. I just love learning from you. ❤
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
lol! It takes practice but you will get there. Thank you honey 💕
@RumiLoves
8 ай бұрын
Thank you, Doc. Always need this reminder 🙏🏽♥️♥️
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
You're welcome love 💕
@annaloza103
7 ай бұрын
Amazing content as usual. You are my favorite! Thank you so much for all you do. If you ever write a book, I am sure it would be life changing!
@lens8714
8 ай бұрын
Great information I’m taking into 2024.
@aajefferson1545
8 ай бұрын
Great topic.
@tannaz9147
8 ай бұрын
It was AMAZING❤
@karenmupondi2659
8 ай бұрын
Beautiful content as always ❤. And the look 💯💯
@Christy_Shongwe
8 ай бұрын
Good and useful content as usual. 🌸🌸
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
Thank you sweetie 💋
@glowwithsandra
7 ай бұрын
I Loved this! Please do more ❤
@GracefullyMe82
8 ай бұрын
I needed this, thank you so so much!! ❤🎉❤️🎁👑
@niki-mars955
8 ай бұрын
I thought this was an unconventional intro. For you. 😂. Great content, as usual.
@missybrown4863
8 ай бұрын
This helped me a lot Thank you
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
You're so welcome babe 💋💋
@make_emfall_inlovee
7 ай бұрын
Guilty .. guilty.. guilty
@drmichelledaf
7 ай бұрын
You can change and that is what makes life beautiful! Thank you for watching love!
@user-qo4qu8ne9v
8 ай бұрын
Beautiful video❤
@latoyaowens6759
8 ай бұрын
Great video!!!❤
@PINKIV
8 ай бұрын
I loved this video ❤thank you !!
@gemmini8389
6 ай бұрын
And this whole competition in relationships, what do you do as a woman when your man is never happy for your achievements? Eveytime he is critical or negative on the accomplishments i make. We work the same field but still its soooo frustrating
@QIKWIA
8 ай бұрын
🙄 These men of today...🤦🏽♀️
@goodneighbour1280
8 ай бұрын
He left because he wanted to ladies.
@TiffanyA837
8 ай бұрын
A very masculine man will not want to be in a romantic relationship with a woman that is very masculine herself. It's easy to say he left because he wanted to, but sometimes we chase them away with our behaviour and we have to hold ourselves accountable and change these things.
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
@@TiffanyA837 Precisely. This channel is for women who want to better themselves and take accountability in areas which need growth. Thank you 💕
@danilaroche1156
7 ай бұрын
I agree.
@Nitabita_
3 ай бұрын
Thank you…this is a very fairy tale man who is reasonable.
@Wynter84
8 ай бұрын
My problem lol
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
It won't be forever. Thank you for watching love 💕
@Cami-lb9qp
8 ай бұрын
I miss the feminine rehab series
@noname-tj3rp
8 ай бұрын
I’ve recently tired so hard to be more feminine as no guy wants to date me. I now wear pretty floral dresses, press on nails and wear cute jewellery and make up. My face is kinda ugly - is there anyway around this? I’m 34 and would love to meet a man to marry. I have an awesome personality and am interesting.. I just don’t think guys can get passed by average face feel attracted to me
@djlivvy46
7 ай бұрын
What kind of men are you attracted to?
@fluffedsquirrel
7 ай бұрын
Watch Vikita Trevedi "Get hot by becoming your own beauty standard". That will really help with stopping feeling ugly
@noname-tj3rp
3 ай бұрын
I like kind men, who enjoy life, slow to anger, considerate, funny and are educated. Someone from a good family is a huge plus
@tealakimseu-faris1633
8 ай бұрын
I’m on my journey to growing closer to God. And I genuinely want to know if you know the actual birthdate of Jesus Christ? Everyone says it’s either Christmas or April/September? I genuinely want to know so that I can celebrate his birth 🤍
@doll.ov.poetrii4682
8 ай бұрын
Hi! There's no command in scripture that we're to celebrate the birth of Christ at all. Bible scholars have found that he was not born in the winter though.
@Cami-lb9qp
8 ай бұрын
please please make a video on developing empathy or direct me to a video that you have on that already
@Femgems4u
8 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on image do you think as women it’s important to protect our image especially WOC ?
@jucxox
6 ай бұрын
Please god help me.
@natashachisenga9524
8 ай бұрын
At the same time have seen men who date girls who are masculine and they love them that way so I don't know 😂
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
That's a complication subject but I'm specifically talking about men who operate in their masculine energy. Those men will be put off. They may date them for various reasons but rarely will they happily marry them.
@rgrandberry1234
8 ай бұрын
Good morning!!!! Thank-you for the great work!!! You're a wonderful leader!!! "Leadership is the capacity to influence others through inspiration generated by a passion motivated by a vision birth by a conviction produced by a purpose" Dr. Myles Munroe. I love listening to him !! Deeper faith about God's Kingdom. Thank-you for speaking out about the truth!!! xoxo Have a great day!!!
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
You know he is my favorite! Thank you so much honey!
@Iamnayhall
8 ай бұрын
Needed this ❤
@drmichelledaf
8 ай бұрын
I'm thankful to hear that. Thank you for watching sweetie 💕
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