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@Thegardenersclog
3 жыл бұрын
Omg my guy gave me banana bread and a cd on our first date. Brought me back to the good ole days. Sneaky bastard!
@wagendorf31
3 жыл бұрын
@@Thegardenersclog that’s what his goal was. Yes, a manipulation for sure to keep your emotional thinking high.
@constancecoerper1056
Жыл бұрын
Amen on Cares!! Excellent !!!!!
@constancecoerper1056
Жыл бұрын
Amen on C A R E S Jonathon !!! Excellent!!!!!! Thank you for an easy way to capsize an important issue in relationships.
@Ruth-vy1qj
Жыл бұрын
@@wagendorf31 am.k.
@wagendorf31
3 жыл бұрын
Love bombing is going to try and move you fast to a relationship. It also includes gifts, words, and taking up a lot of your time. These are done very early, even before you know anything about each other. It will feel way too good, so beware of these things.
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Excitement can also look the same...
@wagendorf31
3 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay I think love bombing can be determined as well if the time they take is when they know you’re busy. They call or text during work hours or stay on the phone at night when they know you have stuff to do. No boundary recognition. What do you think?
@tinyproject6388
2 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay The guy which is coming on strong, chasing and love bombing, but not truly knowing the girl, is unrealistic and fantasizing with high expectations.. this infatuation condition affords too much adrenalin if it takes too much time and the human Body can not produce constantly so much of it for a long period... there are studies about adrenalin. That's why it's so hard to wait and we all want to achieve our goal immediately.. the studies show that there is a long term correlation with low adrenalin and the risk of developing cancer. The Problem is the more adrenalin is produced the less adrenalin we keep... we should all meditate a little bit more and get less excited... because it healthier for relationships and for our physical health:)...
@AngeLola1003
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@imalimabean6686
2 жыл бұрын
There was a guy that did the possible love bombing for nearly two years. Flower boquet's once a month, jewels, weekend trips, small purchases of items i needed, loving cards and other surprise gifts or ideas about our future life together. He seemed so very attentive and in-tuned to what my heart yearned for, or had never experienced. I thought he was the man of my dreams. I responded to him accordingly. He told me how beautiful i was every day. He seemed genuinely enamored by me. His co-workers were jealous of the wonderful homemade Italian meals i dropped of for him to eat on his break at work. Or seeing our close physical ties, or hearing about our wonderful trips and adventures. He was every woman's dream, every man's nightmare. There were a few flags however; that were easily soothed over or distracted by his sweet behavior, reasoning, excuses. He gave me a beautiful diamond engagement ring. Once i realized he was living a double life after doing private research; he got angry when held to accountability. He wanted the engagement ring back. The return of the ring may have been swift, had it not been for thousands of dollars of debt incurred during the engagement. This included expensive honeymoon plans slated for the Yucatan Peninsula, home improvements to my home to accommodate the hot-tub he wanted for us to have, or the new jeep to pull his upcoming boat. He had a decent job, promised to pay for or contribute toward those purchases. Instead, i sold the ring which no longer sparkled, in my eyes for cash in order to help pay down the debt he caused. His brand new wife; plan 'C' it turns out; was quickly willing to buy him the boat he so craved. They had matching recliners before i knew she even existed. Not only did she have a very lucrative job, but as a bonus had "filthy stinking rich parents"; he later reported. I never bought the life insurance or homeowner insurance he had requested. He married plan C shortly after we split up. Apparently I was originally plan B when we met, without knowing it. I was elevated to plan A after she threw him out. I didn't know about her until much later, learning more after our two year relationship ended. He was swiftly grooming me, moving me into position. By that time; he and his primary relationship; (apparently his former plan A) had ended. I hadn't known about either one innitially! Although the situation was devastating; i learned many things from the situation. Listening to my gut payed off in the end; but it took a while to get there. I've spent years working on personal development. My hope is to better recognize and avoid being groomed or manipulated for somebody else's better pay-out; find balance, learn to trust reasonably
@lizzierose007
3 жыл бұрын
My bf loves to talk with me... If I'm tired and a bit quiet , he'll ask "Baby, why aren't you talking? Talk to me" 🙂
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
👍
@gigi9301
3 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Does Your BF have a Single Brother who lives in the Denver area please!?
@bettyredmond3087
3 жыл бұрын
Question: is it OK to ask before you are into the realitionship are they looking for friends with benefits or a exclusive realitionship?
@bettyredmond3087
3 жыл бұрын
Question: Ok to ask what kind of realitionship they are looking for exclusive or friends with benefits
@kayschmidt4872
3 жыл бұрын
1) Intention; states very clearly from the start he is seeking a long term relationship/exclusive relationship 2) You rarely go 48 hours without hearing from him/checking in with you ( and it's reciprocal ) 3) He makes time for you taking your schedule into consideration 4) He genuinely appreciates talking and being with you, feels good/happy when he's together with you 5) He includes you in his outside life; work, hobbies, family, friends, home
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@kayschmidt4872
3 жыл бұрын
@@JonathonAslay You're welcome. And thank you for the great insight and book recommendations. I read yours in full within 24 hours, couldn't put it down. I'm working on "Eight Dates" now and it's honestly one of the best books I've ever read about relationships.
@annmalone8208
2 жыл бұрын
I was in a 19 month relationship with a man who made time for me two days a week, i met his family, we talked daily and fulfilled 4 requirements as indicated but one. He was looking for a companion and i was looking for a long term relationship. I ended the relationship because without that first requirement we were just two people who were in a friendship with benefits.
@alit4591
Жыл бұрын
3 out of 5, still getting reacquainted since 1983
@vden02
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I don't have an hour and a half....
@heathergust3071
2 жыл бұрын
Johnathon!!!! Connection NOT Intensions!!!! WOW😲this so resinates with me! I’m so glad you have given it a name!!! I’m going to be done ✅ standing back and being passive about my wants and needs. I feel I want to be ME loud and clear! I was raised by a “Beaver Clever” Mother from the 50’s and have always thought when the man has intentions HE will show ME! THIS doesn’t work! Divorced past 8 years and it’s been a trip of on-line dating hell! Thanks for mens side of view!!!
@lauracordoba5888
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jonathon for continuing to post these videos. I got myself into a terrible situation. I got involved with a narcissistic man in a loveless relationship with a woman 10 years older than him. He kept telling me that he would leave her. I stayed with him a year and 4 months, and he wouldn’t end it with her. I did fall hard for him unfortunately, I feel so incredibly stupid. I blocked him and I have really been trying to move on with my life the last 3 months. It’s been very hard, and my desperation and loneliness played a part in me getting involved in this. I am taking responsibility for my actions and learning to chase men no more. Thank you Jonathon
@JonathonAslay
2 жыл бұрын
🙏
@rayc9899
2 жыл бұрын
Never forget he was only an illusion, never the man you thought he was, no moral, no respect, lies and deceits was his true self and at the end you experienced all those emotions. He was an user from the start, my dear.
@lauracordoba5888
2 жыл бұрын
@@rayc9899 thank you so much for saying that Ray.. you are absolutely right. He was using me as an escape.. he was just avoiding his problems with his girlfriend. He never intended on dealing with those problems, just running from them. I should have seen from the start that he had way too much difficulty with the truth. Thank you so much for your kind words and support. I really appreciate it !!
@rayc9899
2 жыл бұрын
@@lauracordoba5888 I drove on the same road than you, he was using me to look good in public, a trophy girlfriend...WOW he make sure everybody new about us. At the end he thought he was going to get better and quest what...his girlfriend his trash the minute you see her...and she was abuse big time with a ex before she met him, sad life. Her father have 24 kids. Allo, no brain...
@margaretjongebloed6386
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong 💪🏼 He took advantage of you being a good person with a good heart!! I hope by now your feeling much better ❤
@Philippines888
5 ай бұрын
The guy I met who is 63 and at first month chatting of us, he was so sweet and a bit of pulling away and said we have to take things slow… I know that he was cautious and perhaps his past experience being with an ex filipina who moved out from his house while he was at work.. so I know he wants to get to know me more before a label “boyfriend/“girlfriend”…
@smores8982
3 жыл бұрын
Response to the woman who had sex on the third date and he said he just wants to go with the flow: YES, that is absolutely a bad sign and a huge 🚩 !! without a doubt! I made the same mistake, had sex on third date and assumed we were in a relationship since we started regularly having sex (once a week) thereafter, only later to find out after 13 weeks, he was still on dating apps. His response: “I enjoy your company and was just going with the flow”That was a huge lesson learned! I will never be this naive again. Like Jonathon said, if the man doesn’t specifically mention exclusivity BEFORE trying to have sex with you (and you naively let him), he will simply continue on coasting. Therefore, you’ll have to be the one to bring it up and get clarity from the man.
@Joy-mm3cz
2 жыл бұрын
I really liked the point that you brought up about having background checks done for “strangers “. My daughter helped me and did them for everyone I was having more serious phone calls with prior to me meeting them in person. So important & necessary today.
@sally-annllewellynartist9362
3 жыл бұрын
Oh god, I'm going to be 51 in November, this is all too much work.... I really think that I'm going to have to bow out gracefully. I've too many other important things to do these days. I've spent decades trying to figure this shit out. I'm done.... I'M DONE! Freedom....at last! ....just not in the way I expected it. New business launch next week, my focus is on that. Just upset that I wasted my best years on awful people. So I've alot of making up to do. Jonathan, your advice is sound, and your book (and recommendations) are spot on. But I am done 🙂
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
I understand how you feel...
@bellakim9404
3 жыл бұрын
You sound frustrated and sad. I'm sorry you feel that way. I hope you find a new companion (possibly a male counterpart 😊 while launching your new business) Sometimes the best ones show up late in life, & when you least expect it. And if for some reason a special man shows up at your feet.. wanting to give you a hand, lend an ear.. I hope you will give him some time to listen to your heart, I hope you will allow him your feminine spirit & knowing there is a silver lining in everything. You're special. Don't give up on love.
@sheilaseniff9338
3 жыл бұрын
I am turned 56 and found the predatory manipulator narcissist. I am healing from the narcissist abuse now. Enjoying all the self-help books Jonathon is recommending. Reading the Hoffman Process all over again. I was reading them as I was getting to know this man. The brainwashing from the abuse pushed a past button. I am more aware of divorced men who have not done inner work being not emotionally available and why she got fed up with his shit in the first place. I am pretty much done and most likely will just love myself and make myself happy. I wish I had done the videoes and work before I met this asshole. Not measuring all men to this guy, I am sure there are good men out there who are not going to throw crumbs. I just know that if in the future there is a possibility, I will interview/vet him like no tomorrow. For now, I am enjoying my peace and building a garden for my mother. Family is more important to me right now. Healing is coming. More books to read cuz it is alot of work. Yet, maybe it's worth it
@janinek9965
3 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to your comment
@janereinhardt4715
3 жыл бұрын
If my boyfriend & I ever break up, I am done too. I have been saying this for years. Not a bad thing. I am very happy alone & enjoy my own company!
@Diabeteslovewithdee
3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon, I have learned to practice Compassionate Curiosity. For Example, I ask my close friend (male) : What are your Fears? How can I support you? I believe in asking deeper questions just like you... Thank You for being real, authentic and vulnerable with us. Thank You for sharing your insights.
@adj5767
3 жыл бұрын
You're in your masculine..
@KaraKahn
8 ай бұрын
@@adj5767 we all have masculine and feminine energy within us- it's all about balance.
@jacobcamerson430
17 күн бұрын
Omg the video was 3 years ago! Where I have been all this time. I could’ve prevented myself from doing stupid mistakes
@glamaz0n
3 жыл бұрын
Ha! I am going to name my next sailboat “Situationship”.
@gigi9301
3 жыл бұрын
HaHa!! Sounds like the title of a Murder Mystery, or Romantic Comedy?
@glamaz0n
3 жыл бұрын
The boat name will be two words: “Situation Ship” to emphasize the pun.
@1HatersSuck
3 жыл бұрын
I like that you allow people to ask personal questions. I used to watch your videos when I was in my roller coaster relationship. I’m out of it now and so much has changed. It’s nice to watch you with fresh eyes.
@lorrainec3673
4 ай бұрын
I agree with Jonathan- I am guilty despite doing background checks: it’s very hard to determine- we can think we’re adventurous and risk takers, but the best info I got was from was from a man’s teenager - he was talking about moving me in, everything solid, long term, etc… but my red flags went up when he focused negatively about my modeling side gigs, school & then his daughter hinted that i could take him on 🥊🥊- hmmm 🤔… eventually I did find him combative and controlling and I was out of there!!! 🏃🏻♀️- he lived five hours away but i always had a good friend who was willing to help me.. always have a safety… always have people who know where you are and when! It’s one thing to be independent and another to be stupid! Taking certain risks are just dangerous…
@sarahcroy6212
3 жыл бұрын
It's really important to talk about religion and politics. I like to get that right out of the way in the beginning, so neither of us waste time. I ALSO wish someone dating my ex husband of ten years would drop me a DM!
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
👍
@janereinhardt4715
3 жыл бұрын
@Jenny G You were not equally yoked. That is a requirement for us Christians, especially if there are going to be children!
@marykellyclifton7930
3 жыл бұрын
I never invited him to MY home in 6 months!
@veronicasmith1332
2 ай бұрын
i meet a man he takes a things slow but everything is good he is very nice i like him alot
@dawnalehenneke2985
6 күн бұрын
So sorry for your loss. I lost my son on Halloween of 2022 he was only 19 years old a FedEx truck 18 wheeler hit him when he was out trying to fix his car on the way home on the freeway that night his name is Ashton
@JonathonAslay
6 күн бұрын
Omgosh... that's terrible and like my son, he was 19. I'm sending you a big hug 🫂 😞🙏
@allinotte4263
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏻 in a LDR for a year and taking it slow but whenever we are together doing all of the activities.
@ileanahope466
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding me that I should not give my power away. 😊
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Amen...
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
@Jenny G maybe cuz they're stupid? I don't know why... makes no sense to me 🙃
@lisasileo3166
3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for that story. I was involved in a text messaging ldr. Even though he was clear about not wanting to see me,I still went to visit him only to be turned away. It was devastating so I don't do online dating anymore.
@kristen8501
3 жыл бұрын
I love your response to the last personal question. We need more people like you in this world ❤️
@imalimabean6686
2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing cheesy at all about writing a poem or song for a love interest in my opinion. Maybe it's just me (since i'm an intense person); but i would consider a personal poem a huge, possibly impressive compliment.
@imalimabean6686
2 жыл бұрын
Feeling "pushed into" physical encounters is icky
@linda__4587
3 жыл бұрын
You say things well Jonathan. I didn't like the swearing but you make a lot of very good points and I'm listening despite the swearing. You recommend right at the beginning of your videos for us to quit watching if we don't like swearing and a variety of other things that will be said, which is good.
@doctorrenee9420
3 жыл бұрын
You are so fun to watch Jonathan and cast such great wisdom! Thank you!
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Awe... thanks
@annarandhawa310
Жыл бұрын
Hi Johnston ! You so right about Talking about scammers online and the importance of doing background and taking precautions on dating sites. I have been hit no one but many times online connections , and I became a pro on how to detect this negative people and so proud of myself for recognizing the patters this people have! Thank you for mentioning 👍
@EllenMartinNYC
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, this sinks in. WOW! Happy belated birthday Jonathon.!! Oh, I wish you every happiness and may you have everything your heart desires.You truly deserve it.
@katarinaj.6830
3 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday Jonathon! You must be a leo then.. I knew you had that fire in you 😉😁 you are so passionate about your work you're doing a great job. Thank you
@michellefootman8077
7 күн бұрын
Absolutely sinking in!!!
@mathidoucanada1964
2 жыл бұрын
Comfortable enough Aware of consequences/bonding Real intentions =/= not being used Exclusivity Safety
@sheilabates8561
2 жыл бұрын
He has no children, he is the only child, and has not yet invited me to his home. We work together but different departments of the hotel. He does work 3 jobs :2 part time and 1 full time job.
@rosemarybrewington8250
3 жыл бұрын
All women should love their selves first before they can truly and purely love a significant partner. Self-confidence I imperative
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
I'm very happy, I have a beautiful life,waiting for the right one,I believe God has a man for me
@JonathonAslay
5 ай бұрын
Wonderful
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
@JonathonAslay thank you johnathon, I've been sharing your dating tips to my single freinds
@debragoforth4738
2 жыл бұрын
FOR "BOTH" PEOPLE!!!
@Healingintohappiness
2 жыл бұрын
I agree!! I’m a healthy healed hell of a catch too!🙌🏼
@sonyacurti
2 жыл бұрын
I just wrote a poem for him lol.... and I was afraid to give it to him. He said he would like to read it.... and now because of this video I'm too nervous to do so. 🤣
@lauranugent9039
3 ай бұрын
I can’t with you so funny like my big brother love it!
@rosemarybrewington8250
3 жыл бұрын
Big giant hugs for you Jonathon 🐻❤️💋
@carlabrotherton7197
10 ай бұрын
My my dude os into me ..we do make time for each others schedule.He says he feels so incredibly happy with me.We talk constantly.We haven't added the icing on the cake and have been dating since August.
@gailfroelich9633
2 ай бұрын
Happy Birthday a little late butt sincerely meant.
@lizzysbeautyshowetc.6895
2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree talking about politics and religion gives you a better perspective on who you are going to be in a relationship with totally totally agree lots of people don't want to talk about that and that can be that they're hiding something
@beverlywilson7210
Жыл бұрын
You have to love yourself before you can truly have a good relationship
@TainaCurrymusic
6 ай бұрын
This guy is funny in the way he presents serious subject 😂 He really keeps my attention in an upbeat kind of way. This info has been very helpful ❤
@JonathonAslay
6 ай бұрын
Awe... thank you 😊
@those_eyes
3 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday, Jonathon!
@maygrantz4426
Жыл бұрын
SIR, IT WAS INSIGHTFUL AND I BELIEVE EXPERIENCE IS A GREAT TEACHER. ANYWAY, I DID NOT KNOW THESE THINGS WHEN I YOUNG BUT ANYWAY IT IS BETTER LATE THAN NEVER. THANK YOU...
@arleenanderson2372
3 жыл бұрын
I was so hurt I poured emotions. And that's what I got
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
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@LasshaLiou
10 ай бұрын
You got it, Jonathon! Thank you! I am getting stronger everyday. Yes!
@gerb3664
6 ай бұрын
I have watched many of these But this one spoke to me the loudest. Thank you!
@margaretjongebloed6386
Жыл бұрын
Wow mine came on so strong for the first 2 months and then the brakes came on and I’ve questioned why for the last 2 months now . This helped it make sense!!
@chrissysfitnessjourney
2 жыл бұрын
We’ve been dating 2 months and I don’t expect for him to let me meet his daughter and I def won’t let him meet mine lol I need to make sure he’s here to stay , I’m sure that’s his reasons as well.
@foxyfilly428
Жыл бұрын
My intent is to be open to the right person when he comes into my life❤ thank you Alice
@monikabennettprestwood
Жыл бұрын
I love how you smile and raise your arms and say I'm so excited! I did that with my babies and still find myself doing that when they come visit!!!❤
@carolynreed451
2 жыл бұрын
My daughters dad was a leo he passed yrs ago he lived with his sister an her husband
@rosemarybrewington8250
3 жыл бұрын
Jonathon, feelings have no gender
@lynnolsen1498
2 жыл бұрын
The book I recommend is 'The Rules of Spiritual Engagement' by Yehuda Berg: I never felt I should sit back in my feminine energy until he 'claims' me. I'm not sure what you experienced to make it such a source of 'disdain' to even think about it.... As I watch more of these videos I have observed that several times and my reaction as a viewer is I wish he could be less reactive and more constructive: less general and more specific. If THERE ARE MANY women out there who feel they should just sit in their 'feminine energy' until the guy 'claims' them... and it's not working for them per say. Mocking that behavior won't help them change it.. What I feel you 'knock out of the park' however is clearing up confusion about things like It takes time to get to know one another even if there is great chemistry, the clarity of not giving in to the pressure of sleeping with a man if he is not actually interested in going through the phases of relationship... ..toward a physical, mental, emotional and spiritual commitment. Now the question that comes to mind... Is there a 'right' time or way to just ask him directly.. what he wants... friendship, friends with benefits, monogamy, and relationship without living together... : Cleary I can trust my own intuition and roll with my own situation but I was wondering if there were any nuances here that should be considered... in general.. as, every person truly is different... and usually I manage to have basic common sense.. :P
@chrissysfitnessjourney
2 жыл бұрын
Also…he’s very emotionally immature 😩☹️ this is the part that makes me feel a way . I feel he’s trying to show something little by little but he’s just moving extremely slow with me😭 my friend actually told me that maybe I need a man to move slow with me lol that actually hit home. I said, u know what ur probably right
@judysmith8725
Жыл бұрын
I agree with basically everything you say. You are so right and to me very clever. Sori to hear about your son and I'm sure he will be looking down on you from above so proud of you and what you are doing.
@elizabethgilbert6000
Жыл бұрын
I actually can’t stand it when a guy wants to text me all day long. Like don’t you have anything better to do than text me all day 😳 check in, we’ll chat a bit, and then do what we need to do.
@purijogarcia2963
2 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha ... you’re awesome! You really say it the way it is. Thank you for all the five things you mentioned - yes, he’s all that into me because he’s been doing all that - I just realized! I’ve been watching all of your posts and learning greatly! Thank you 👏🏽❤👏🏽
@katemchardy542
2 жыл бұрын
Great stuff Jonathan. Thankyou
@stephaniecarlson6689
8 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathan, I've gone back to listen to your previous posts to refresh my memory. You are The Coach, that is why people are listening, asking for direction. . I was a little taken back to hear an expression ie 'you woman are emotionally stunted & immature' wow! Different ways to announce feelings about Woman ie 'You Woman'. Discussing a very serious issue. I appreciate & understand that. You are stating facts that you feel strongly about. You ask us to speak up, that is what I have done.
@JonathonAslay
8 ай бұрын
Noted
@cherbug1197
3 жыл бұрын
i enjoy your channel!💕
@nathaliet197
Жыл бұрын
Great videos Jonathon...I love your no BS strait common sense... Thank you for sharing your gift 👍🏻😌🙏🏻
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@maryannqueen9513
Жыл бұрын
I am thoroughly learning appreciating & enjoying your straight up no bs approqch.. I wish I had learned of your teaching & coaching years ago.
@tarawiselove
Жыл бұрын
Same
@carolynreed451
2 жыл бұрын
I'm now 65 on thy 25 th oct
@Thegardenersclog
3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video thanks!!
@ritadoran5039
2 жыл бұрын
I like a good poem it melts my heart im a romantic person
@janereinhardt4715
3 жыл бұрын
I doubt that a woman who hasn't been to her boyfriend's home in 18 months of dating is having sex with him! They are just still casual acquaintes that this point. That's how I would see it anyway.
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
They saw it a different way
@kerriehew8664
3 жыл бұрын
Peacock yes.....narcissist absolutely not! 😘
@nicolameredith3668
9 ай бұрын
My nan and grandad passed away I am full sad and upset
@alisastrong6438
2 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday!!
@feminineone9610
3 жыл бұрын
Every time you scream “before the penis goes into the vagina”.. it cracks me up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🌺🙏🏽
@tammymalone8148
3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thank you
@JonathonAslay
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@janelupo6023
Жыл бұрын
Comment from what you shared a LONG time ago....you mean that someone actually shares the SAME tastes I do in movies? Guess that means I'm not completely strange! lol Love and best to you Jonathon!
@carolynreed451
2 жыл бұрын
I had my 2 shots then 3 chest blood clogs
@rebeccalafontaine8738
Жыл бұрын
omg my birthday is August 1st also!!!! Love your videos Jonathon!
@JonathonAslay
Жыл бұрын
WooHoo! to a fellow Leo
@capiyulo
Жыл бұрын
What if... a man was unhappy in their relationship because they didn't connect anymore, and as he was ready to leave, the partner was diagnosed with cancer. That man is a loving person, who choses to stay. He made friends with you, and does all these things you are talking about, without expecting any seggs. You can be friends with a man, of course, but you like him too. You don't dare to express anything romantic because he is still in some sort of a relationship. It's complicated
@nicolameredith3668
9 ай бұрын
Jonathan I don't what talk to strangers my family says happy about because they ment hurt to me I am fuilling upset about it
@joygregory7974
Жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday 🎉🎂🎈🎁
@juliefrecker3811
7 ай бұрын
used to be on his beck and call but better timing now
@lc-fu6xy
11 ай бұрын
I don't believe that you have to know someone for a long time to have genuine, romantic feelings and appreciation for them. The problem is that does not equate to LOVE and many people jump to that conclusion. If I like someone, I tell them why they caught my attention. And it comes from a genuine place of love without attachment. I think I got that from The 4 Agreements. Too many times we hide our true feelings when the other person may really need to hear them, because there is an underlying motive.
@JonathonAslay
11 ай бұрын
I agree
@angelfire402
2 жыл бұрын
its was 3 weeks and he started ghosting me. He does not include me in anything. I met his mom but she has dementia. He said she will not remember me in half an hour. He said he is going back to Colorado River in 2 months. He did not invite me. We do not have Sx. Nope. I have been to his house but he can not come inside mine. I am embarrassed it is a cluttered small studio.
@kayesmith8040
5 ай бұрын
Love your advice
@angelmiller5484
2 жыл бұрын
Beginning a relationship, we both are in or 70’s, we talk and texted some 6 wks and met for the first time this week. I’m not sure if I’m his type, but I really like him. What do you think I should do next?
@carolynreed451
2 жыл бұрын
My cup is dark green
@brendarees9404
Жыл бұрын
Oh my God sleeping with someone on the 3rd date knowing it's not exclusive 🙄
@angelamcrae9326
3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant this is a masterpiece that you have developed here the open the minds and hearts I just want to say that I'm a very optimistic person but in most of your conversations or demonstrations it seem to not bring out the unrealistic part of believing and a relationship and I've faced so much of unrealistic people I know you mentioned in one of your KZitem's fantasy I don't fantasize but we run into men who put themselves on a pedestal even though they're not how do you deal with that or you run into men who enter their money more than they are into you but they are always asking you for something how do you deal with them.. it makes me angry and yet I don't want to miss out on maybe this person could be genuine but I just feel that when you meet someone and it's all about his money his lifestyle and what can a woman do for him the minute I meet another man and if he sounds anywhere like the other man and he he and he may be sincere but how do you tell difference if they're all about money I hear the word money and it's like I'm cutting him off I don't have no time to sit there and wonder if he is adequate to deal with reality but they may not be money.. these are not people that you're having sex with but they want that too and I want you to give them money to support them but they don't they don't give you support but they share what they have but not in a balanced way just here I made 90 he's your 30.com that sucks I have a nice day I enjoy your your input.. and it's an experience thank you..⭐
@glamaz0n
3 жыл бұрын
Oh, the woman in the 8-yr FWB wins - I’ve been in one for 5 yrs. We might have broken up though, not sure. I guess I’ll have to call him and ask if we broke up…😂
@marshaellis1951
3 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂
@kimberlyp_shiprocker
5 ай бұрын
I love this so very much.
@lizzysbeautyshowetc.6895
2 жыл бұрын
There are those men that feel if you don't text them enough too you're not into them either that is a total repellent for me Mike
@JonathonAslay
2 жыл бұрын
{Feeling Connected To Someone} It's so much harder these days because of many factors...
@jenniferknippenberg9554
3 жыл бұрын
Jonathan. What if you only have some of these signs? My guy and I have been in and out of each other's lives a few times in last 3 years. Each time we are different people at different places. We always have this comfort with each other. Learning over and again where and who we are. I ask a lot of deep questions of him. Always have. I'm that kind of person. I need to "know" someone. He is more open now than before. Does it just come down to communication? Continual, about what we want in ourselves and from partner. Neither of us wants to marry again. But welcome the idea of having that person. Sometimes, I just get in my head too much.
The guy I'm in love with has issues with embarrassment and that's why he didn't even tell me until Christmas that he secretly wanted me to be his girlfriend. We've never kissed. It's been a year since knowing him. He'll look deeply into my eyes and touch himself. He won't read my messages until I'm in his presence. I'm not sure why he's so insistent for me to travel without him. He once asked me what my biggest sin was, then he gave me absolution, but he's not a priest. He's also very guarded. When we talk, it's like he has a woman inside him that keeps saying, "who asked you." Having a fantasy intead of a relationship makes this unrequited. He likes teasing me about "us" because he likes looking at my facial expressions when we talk about feelings. He loves to make me laugh. Yet, he's too lazy to pursuit me. I don't know how to motivate him.
@tarawiselove
Жыл бұрын
Celia, what's your favorite hobby? Do that instead of spending time with this guy. Don't have a hobby? Make one up. Watch a great movie or show, listen to your favorite music, anything! If you were my own sister, I would do all I could to convince you to block all of the ways he can get in contact with you. Since we're just sisters by default of being women, I'm trying my best here. Edit: Yes, I'm saying stop even being friends with him. He is toying with your heart.
@celiaescalante
Жыл бұрын
@@tarawiselove His demons are just as bad anyone else's are. Even he thinks I don't have anything to do. That's crazy! I think this is more about social pressure. I give a rat's ass, if I seem to be this or that. Image is nothing. I poop on superficialities. Euphemisms!!! Thanks, anyway, dear.
@FrederiqueMiller-g6e
Жыл бұрын
Hi Jonathan Ur so funny and give the best advice.. When is the man supposed to open his feelings and show his house? Meet his friends etc.. 3 months? .. We only see each other once/week.. Thanks Jane
@yvonnelygo681
Жыл бұрын
Do ' Loose Women' in society make relationships difficult for chaste girls who are maybe a challenge for men...??????? Is their lonely experience down to women who give too much........???
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