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@jaylexis7705
3 жыл бұрын
Please hw do I get to talk to you I really need ur help
@randomchannel83838
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message I really needed to hear this 🫶🙏
@DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN
4 жыл бұрын
Walk away when he say he doesn't want a relationship. No benefits! no nothing! Walk away!
@tyrajenkins9665
2 жыл бұрын
Yess
@dishappywithlife2556
7 ай бұрын
Yup - no contact from the day he told me
@joycenash8271
5 ай бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth. I went around about way saying "I respect your request all the way." But read in between the lines, sir. No rights. No privileges. No favors. No feeling, touching, kissing or smoozing next to me. Nothing. And if I hug you, it will be a "side hug" like I do with some of those men in the church.
@annemarie7203
3 ай бұрын
And no friendship either!! 🙌🏻
@joycenash8271
3 ай бұрын
@@annemarie7203 that too.
@tranquility9325
4 жыл бұрын
He's not ready for a relationship but ALWAYS ready to pull his pants down.
@rachelepierre-louis8224
4 жыл бұрын
That's why we have to walk away
@blessedchildofgod9112
4 жыл бұрын
Lol they always ready for that
@jackierumph6963
4 жыл бұрын
Respect your self and walk away. Most importantly, keep your legs close. And get to know him . Lastly, if he walks away during this time ... he wasn't the one for you. The one for you will see you for more than sex. A woman can go a long time without sex than a man.
@tranquility9325
4 жыл бұрын
@@jackierumph6963 I've been celibate for quite some time so I'm good. I have never met a male who has sexual self control. They act like they will literally die if they don't get it. They can get it from someone else. There are way too many narcissists in the world, both genders. I have had more than my share of that too. Just tired of ppl in general. Had to fire so called friends for being narcs too. The world is a dark, ugly place and there seems to be very limited space for those of us who are not predators.
@tranquility9325
4 жыл бұрын
big time.
@mrsloveluli
4 жыл бұрын
He told me he wasn't ready for a relationship and the next thing I found out, he has another relationship, lmao
@jessicabarlow7412
4 жыл бұрын
Ugh it always happens like that.
@KatieAJ
4 жыл бұрын
So hurtful...they should just be honest
@Trynnagetmydegree__
3 жыл бұрын
He hella friendzoned me a year after being in love and getting all the benefits. Now we're in an awkward friendship 💀
@tracywright6437
3 жыл бұрын
Yup that part
@makhaliacharles58
3 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me and I'm really trying honestly to deal with this
@ramonvillaster609
4 жыл бұрын
REJECTION is protection. If they don't want to be a part of your life, it simply means life is trying to protect you from this person. Let life happen by letting them walk away. Nobody can stop you from being a loving person even if they don't want you.
@user-rp5lm8yn5t
4 жыл бұрын
💯
@QueenRonny
4 жыл бұрын
💯
@dmcbrwn37
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words of enlightenment.
@barbarabrown2277
3 жыл бұрын
AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!
@MsKmac44
Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed this.
@GayleAshleyPatrick
4 жыл бұрын
Whenever i hear a man saying they aren’t ready for a relationship the “with you” is silent.
@bettyabbey1239
4 жыл бұрын
so good!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏
@user-rp5lm8yn5t
4 жыл бұрын
💯
@jobrondajackson953
4 жыл бұрын
Powerfully said .
@Menique3000
4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 girl fucking PREACH!!!! They never tell the WHOLE TRUTH🙄
@amab1853
4 жыл бұрын
Facts! A guy I cared about said that to me, and claimed it had nothing to do with me. I told him, you don't want me. Their actions let you know they mean the "with you" part. Some of them say other excuses or sugar coat it. But it all boils down to, they don't want a relationship "with you". They hurt lots of women in the process. I learned the hard way.
@lovepink7804
4 жыл бұрын
If he's not ready for a relationship ladies move on! Don't let him waste your valuable time. And he definitely don't need any cookies if you know what I mean. Keep loving you and a good man will come alone. You're beautiful 😍🤩
@lovepink7804
4 жыл бұрын
@@CherrellMishelle Absolutely! I agree with you totally. I've been there before and it's very frustrating when you have gained feelings for him. So now that I'm older and I experience this before it made me much wiser. But keep in mind love you're the prize and his loss!🥰
@BeautiDefined
4 жыл бұрын
Love Pink yes I need to remember that I deserve better
@Lily59265
4 жыл бұрын
Vice versus for men
@lovepink7804
4 жыл бұрын
@Paul Hogue I've never said that all a man want is sex. In this video I was under the impression that he was talking about men not being ready for a relationship. I'm saying don't let him waste your time and reap benefits that people do in committed relationships. If he's not ready and she is then why is he even wasting her time?
@lovepink7804
4 жыл бұрын
@@Lily59265 absolutely!
@Breanne_M
4 жыл бұрын
When he says he doesn't want a relationship, believe him! U can't change a man.
@2611Lover
4 жыл бұрын
Ladies move on once he tells you this. Men will keep you as a place holder if you allow it. They will reap the benefits without a commitment.
@UhHuhReedsy
4 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE ONE!
@GodsGiftUnleashed
4 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@asill.6668
3 жыл бұрын
Yep!!!
@vvc_551
4 жыл бұрын
If he's not ready to give you what you need then stop giving him what he wants. Ufff Stephan!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@KPAM07
4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Use this time to build and work on you. If it's meant to happen, it'll happen. Go to school x start a business, write a book, mediate, get closer to God during this time.
@rositareyes8583
Жыл бұрын
Thank you my Friend. I was just told this last week. I’m gonna get my mind busy working on myself. Thank You ♥️. I joined a church group also
@mrnmrn1628
Жыл бұрын
..... and besides building on yourself, be open to dating other men (do NOT still wait for him to cone back. Let him go).
@charlita25
4 жыл бұрын
These guys out here often have a good thing in front of them but always come back when it’s too late.
@D878D5g7
4 жыл бұрын
Oh woman do the same. Trust.
@daphneycandy810
4 жыл бұрын
I had to take a look at myself and run from these serial baby daddy who have nothing to offer me. Value yourself.
@SR77736
4 жыл бұрын
@@D878D5g7 yes of course but this video is for women, so of course shes gonna speak about the woman's perspective.
@D878D5g7
4 жыл бұрын
Shin true. But I do think if woman were more self aware and understood that they do the exact same thing they wouldn’t take it so personally. We all pass up on good things. That personal simply wasn’t where they needed to be in life to see that you were a good thing. But I hear you.
@Infamousjas
4 жыл бұрын
They come back when they’re not even on your mind anymore and by that time you’re already moved on and doing something totally different in your life
@queenofthesouth4205
4 жыл бұрын
Put on your track shoes and keep moving Ladies.....you are not the one for him.
@therealsouthernbelles
4 жыл бұрын
RUN
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Cruel.
@kimberlyrandolph5306
4 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t want a relationship with you. Most times it’s a blessing that allows you to be free.
@blusapphire660
4 жыл бұрын
ive been dealing withe this "im not ready for a relationship" for the past 9 months.. yet we act as if we are together... vacations, trips, meeting family, traveling... I've already fell for him after 6 months of dating.. the 5 times i brought up the topic of wanting to build and have a relationship, it leads to an argument 🙄 im so fed up with excuses of him saying he left his 6 year relationship a year ago .. im seriously done with waiting... thanks to this advice i think its time to let him go
@adavlora3801
3 жыл бұрын
Any updates? Lol sry for being nosy
@blusapphire660
3 жыл бұрын
@@adavlora3801 i continued to talk with him.. its been over a year and its the same thing. he not ready.. just yesterday i broke it down and told him ima start dating others and he should take the time to figure out what he wants to do and hopefully if he figures it out, ill still be available.. but until then we need to distance ourselves... he seemed very upset and shocked
@Non_Anya
3 жыл бұрын
@@blusapphire660 he seemed shocked because he wouldn't have full access to you alone no more and you realized your worth👏🏽👏🏽
@ddanielle9182
2 жыл бұрын
@@blusapphire660 any updates ?
@blusapphire660
2 жыл бұрын
@@ddanielle9182 sadly he was messing around with another person while we were *talking* I did find out.. nd cut him off.. he was extremely apologetic because he realized what he lost...he decided to show me that he's trustworthy and ready for a relationship.. We've been together since August last year.. everything is amazing.. we live together and we are working on a future together ❤️
@ericakane53ify
4 жыл бұрын
I’d rather the men who say that than the men who say they’re ready for a relationship and really aren’t
@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223
4 жыл бұрын
You such a Class act. Most ladies giving testimonies about how they wasted their time is because most of you ladies like to be lied to.I know this might sound off but I once asked my female friends if they would appreciate a man who walks up to them and Tells them They liked them and would love to have sex with them and no relationship than a man who plays goodie goose and still ends up doing what the Former suggested. You will be shocked with the responses I got. Bottom line as a grown up man I have learned to say what I feel and not please a lady just because I don't wanna hurt her
@barbararichardson2747
4 жыл бұрын
@@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223 Met someone with your mindset years ago and consider him honorable.Few people give options and so few appreciate honesty.If one can choice to either play or walk can't get more honorable than that.
@daluckyprincess
4 жыл бұрын
At OBI's Gym maybe I’m a little different because I would prefer for both examples to just not even approach me at all.
@kina8103
4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Oreo I actually Kinda agree with you I’d rather neither one approach me. But sometimes let’s say it’s someone you know or y’all seen each other a few times or on social media. And y’all both feelings each other in that case I’d rather the guy tell me he just wants to have sex so I’ll know to not look his way anymore 😂
@K2Publications
3 жыл бұрын
If they aren't 'ready' he shouldn't be dating or getting with women period.
@tonyacanada
3 жыл бұрын
Right !!!!
@richardharper2348
3 жыл бұрын
So a woman can date casually but, a man can't? You sound dumb.
@shawnellmcqueen268
3 жыл бұрын
@@richardharper2348 different strokes for different folks bro. And they scream that equality crap like gospel.
@sammies5446
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! And man, do I know this.
@cuixinshi
3 жыл бұрын
@@richardharper2348 tbh in society standards, tell me society treats women in their 30s the same as men in their 30s.
@cindylindyluu
4 жыл бұрын
I’m just tired of attracting this same situation over and over again. It’s always the same thing, “ I’m not ready for a relationship” how do I attract someone that is !!!
@jessicabarlow7412
4 жыл бұрын
Feels!
@whenunouknow8879
3 жыл бұрын
Great question!
@Non_Anya
3 жыл бұрын
same I'm over it..I am fully mentally ready, grown, healed but I keep attracting nonemotionally guys, or I am not ready guys I am tired it's not fair
@cindylindyluu
3 жыл бұрын
@@Non_Anya yes i feel you girl !
@ryanmcdaniels5014
3 жыл бұрын
Most men aren’t, and the few that do have no choice but to only pick one lol
@SheelahA74
4 жыл бұрын
The truth hurts but it is what it is. You rather hurt now for a sec vs. later on when you've invested more time and emotions. We can lie to ourselves trying to make something out of nothing. Believe what he says and LET IT GO!!!😊 We have to value ourselves more, self love is key, don't settle. We don't settle on shoes, clothes, car, house etc. So don't settle for the sake of having a man.
@BeautiDefined
4 жыл бұрын
Sheelah A oooh well said, I never settle with anything else in life but for a toxic man I somehow become so weak. Not anymore. It’s been five days since I walked away and I hope to have the strength to NEVER look back!
@SheelahA74
4 жыл бұрын
@@BeautiDefined Good for you. You can do it. God has more in store for you😊
@canudiy4006
3 жыл бұрын
If he's not ready to give you what you need, then you don't need to be giving him what he wants.....man that hit hard.
@kymmichanel
4 жыл бұрын
This happened to me today. A guy chased me for two years and when i finally gave him my number , we talked and he started saying shit like “ how i was gonna cook for him and etc “ i asked him what exactly did he want from me . This fool said Just a vibe . I vibe right off the phone lol
@manifestationhappiness705
3 жыл бұрын
“A vibe right off the phone” 🤣🤣
@nanou4273
3 жыл бұрын
I’m DEATH here 😹😹😹 good move sis
@therealsouthernbelles
4 жыл бұрын
This is why I keep my legs closed until consistency is shown over a few months
@beebeemotsumi
4 жыл бұрын
@EnJoy Life And Smile 🤣😥
@SR77736
4 жыл бұрын
That doesn't always work bc they can act right for months until you give it up and change.
@kieraholmes3828
4 жыл бұрын
@@SR77736 No, cause most men who just after that one thing; will fall off eventually. Women give it up like it going out of syle now
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Consistensy can be broken. Ask my ex. He was all in, especially in the beginning, until poof, things changed for one dumb reason or another.
@Dragonfly_magictarot
3 жыл бұрын
That second part, and "YOU still gotta leave his ass alone!" yup. The friends shit doesn't work. It's a trap. Don't do it. Just move on, block his ass, so he doesn't play with your heart strings. He will call you private, email you or show up at your door when he is ready. If that day never comes, at least you moved on. "Either way, leave him alone" !!!
@amypiliposian5908
4 жыл бұрын
Who else is single and listening to him preach???? After watching all your videos I think it’s safe to say I know what I want from my future relationship/marriage. Thank you!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@pattianndonovan8730
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Idaology
4 жыл бұрын
I actually cannot believe the timing of this video in my life.... I already knew everything you said in the video myself but to have you upload this now and hear your words I feel like is a sign from God telling me to let go
@krafteddolltv
4 жыл бұрын
Same situation ☺️🙌🏾.. God is definitely always on time
@solebeauty6762
4 жыл бұрын
Ditto! 🙏🏽❤️
@Melissa_M720
4 жыл бұрын
Same wow
@amab1853
4 жыл бұрын
I agree. It came when I needed it the most
@pamelabrown2028
2 жыл бұрын
Gods timing is perfect...not always what we want or when we want it...But HE knows and sees what we don't!! Listen to the song by Riley Clemmons ...YOU WILL NEVER STOP FIGHTING FOR ME... This song says it all, much love to u all ♥️🙏👑
@charlita25
4 жыл бұрын
Yes the friend zone is a trap. That’s why I cut ✂️ them off cold turkey 🦃
@BeautiDefined
4 жыл бұрын
He told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship then a few months later he said he was thinking of moving things forward with me...his words changed but his actions never did. I think he’s bread crumbing me 😔☹️
@letrice2892
4 жыл бұрын
Time to exit i was in the same situation and when i finally said i had enough he really said oh youre not going to wait i said hell no im not waiting nor trying to convince any one to be in a relationship with me then he tried to spin it as im giving him an ultimatum smh i said walking away isnt an ultimatum its an ending and i havent looked back nor regretted doing so
@BeautiDefined
4 жыл бұрын
Letrice Lynch I like that “ walking away isn’t an ultimatum, it’s an ending” I needed to hear that. Thanks
@kheriphillip878
4 жыл бұрын
Let him go babygirl. Make peace with the red flags.
@accesstotheredcarpet
4 жыл бұрын
I’d tell him “fuckboy, you’re yesterday’s trash. I’ve moved on up Next!” 😂
@kimberlystephens2424
4 жыл бұрын
I think he's lying. Period. Crumbs or no crumbs. Crumbs are for bums. You're not a bum. Let him keep the crumbs. Bars! Lol!
@BajanPana
4 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, I learned this the hard way but I'm glad I walked away. Thanks Stephen. 🙏🏾❤
@Honeypepper.
4 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone with that😩
@rolandedwards1777
4 жыл бұрын
The same thing happened to me.move on..
@kismeteats682
4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😫
@lwhite474
4 жыл бұрын
The purple shirt looks very nice on you!!!
@lwhite474
4 жыл бұрын
Stephan Speaks your welcome!!
@ashantiprince9797
4 жыл бұрын
@bigjayking24 that so true i been hurt by this guy tell he dont want relationship he going true some issues with is self and he say can get over is pass and trust issues
@valerie4912
4 жыл бұрын
An ex came back into my life a few months ago. We were 100% behaving like we were in a relationship BUT, like he told me 15 years ago and again now in 2020 he does not want a relationship. I realized I’d hate myself a year from now if I let it carry on. Stung like crazy to let him go (again) but I heard him. I believed him. We haven’t spoken since. Let. Him. Go!
@keepthechange1
4 жыл бұрын
You didn’t let him go. You never had anything with him. All of this seems much too simple.
@sweetangelbas3385
4 жыл бұрын
Im in a similar situation...he left n came back now with a child...its crazy...it hurt me even more... im not tolerating that at all.. He had his chance,,thats it for me.
@valerie4912
4 жыл бұрын
Keep The Change Touché
@keumamelanie5602
2 жыл бұрын
Gurl you did your thing
@bethking5086
2 жыл бұрын
Why did he leave then come back 😭
@corina6772
4 жыл бұрын
It means that he’s just not that into you. Period
@Slaymayas
2 ай бұрын
Even if he tells you u are beautiful, and loves your personality lol.. oh and gets you flowers snd wants to hang out with you 😂 are people crazy
@chrissyqueen8407
4 жыл бұрын
A man or woman will tell you what they really want if you just listen, pray and pay attention.
@charlita25
4 жыл бұрын
Peaches N creme yup
@touchpoint4christministries444
4 жыл бұрын
True dat
@humblewarrior7593
4 жыл бұрын
It's just that simple
@INOUCIT
2 жыл бұрын
Yep and make sure to pay attention to the inconsistency between actions and words.
@kikikiki3216
2 жыл бұрын
Home truth
@krystalh8445
4 жыл бұрын
After years in this relationship it goes from love, then the next week he doesn't want a relationship....Hurting
@blessedchildofgod9112
4 жыл бұрын
He not ready ladies love yourself respect your self you deserve better rejection is God's protection 💦🤔
@tiffanyjolly6634
4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@airickaw8791
4 жыл бұрын
Yup! After being in a 6 month relationship, where in the beginning she wanted the relationship, then she pulled away and then said, "I'm not ready for a relationship right now. You deserve better". My only response was, "thank you for your honesty, I do deserve better, and thank you for realizing that that isn't you"... and i walked!
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
3 ай бұрын
Wow, reverse that and that was MY situation 😡 sorry you dealt with a non-committed asshole.
@SlimSmil3y
4 жыл бұрын
“Let’s see where this goes “ is a sign , most men from the start know what they want with the woman they are dealing with
@rae13bsgirl
4 жыл бұрын
Is this equivalent to “lets take things slow” but doing everything like yall in relationship .ex( calling everyday, seeing multiple times a week, wants to be around your child but your against it unless yall are committed” he was dating me for 4 months and I learned long ago men know quickly. He wanted the bond but didn’t want to provide the title. I said to him from the beginning what my deal breakers were and being uncommitted in month 5 or 6 was a no go. He was still stalling but said he was exculsive to me. Um no sir this is not a situationship. You gone give me both the bond and title and not one with out the other. I bounced in month four and he is now blocked. I been through too much men will not waste my time. If you not ready by month 4 of dating 4-5 times and its like we in a relationship just without the title you are wasting my time and you need to move out the way so the man for me can find me. You either put a title or I move on no ifs anda or buts
@Menique3000
4 жыл бұрын
Yes been there done that. Means the exact same thing “why you trying to rush things”, “let’s just go with the flow and see what happens”, “ I just got out of a 10 year relationship”, “I mean I don’t like to share, so if you sleep with someone else I’m done”, “I just can’t be the man you need me to be right now”, “I just want to be selfish right now”, “ I love you, I’m just not in love with you”;...........need anymore lines?!? Anything that sounds even REMOTELY close to any of those DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME!!!!! I’m just warning you baby girl because no one ever warned me. I even waited to give him the cookie and still wasted a year of my life I can NEVER get back. If he’s not convicted or consistent with what he says. His words or actions don’t match, it’s a red flag to just leave him alone. You will find your lifetime partner, just be patient🥰🥰
@leez123x4
4 жыл бұрын
Yes queen 🙌🏾
@sabrinalar3111
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I could walk away it’s hard
@malo3002
3 жыл бұрын
Well if a man says that just let him go. I mean when a man says he’s not ready that’s exactly what it is he’s not ready. There is no trying to change his mindset or else. It’s a waist of time you’ll spend more time proving that you’re worth a change of mind than actually being in a relationship with him...just let him go...
@bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239
4 жыл бұрын
Yep! He done told us ladies.. we who have ears let us hear!
@SolesofImagination
4 жыл бұрын
Fellas just be single until you know she is the one. When shes the one then make that ONE time commitment. Don't over commit before you get married. That's a double commitment. Just find the ONE to do it ONCE.
@tonyacanada
3 жыл бұрын
Agree to
@curleneslifenyc
4 жыл бұрын
My current situation I’m mentally exhausted given too much and got nothing in return
@bobhussain9775
4 жыл бұрын
A man doesn't lie when he says that he isn't ready for you.. It means he isn't mature enough and wants to behave like a kid or a loser.. Let it go
@studyingeducation8438
Жыл бұрын
Some of us are just not ready and we healing from a past relationship, so we saving you from out internal issues we dealing with and it's out of respect to not waste your time.
@agnes8679
Жыл бұрын
@@studyingeducation8438that's understandable if the man keeps the distance from the start, but if you are the one keeping the distance, saying the obvious (your divorce is too recent, you're not ready yet), asking to keep things platonic and not flirt, and the man still goes after you for 5 months, flirts heavily, jokes about marriage, to finally say "I'm not ready for a relationship yet" once you start letting your guard down (we never got physical, not even a kiss), then it just seems mean. He even seemed sad that I don't believe that he really likes me but simply isn't ready (his words), and I simply believe he doesn't like me enough. Either way it doesn't matter.
@chloeanaisblanchard2158
3 жыл бұрын
This is the one of the best video I have seen, letting go is the most peaceful thing ever. Not just physically but mentality accepting it and move on.
@csimms7766
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, this just happened to me. I finally just ended it. He would always say, he not ready for a relationship; but his actions would show differently. I told him “no more” and I meant it. Now, I’m just praying that whenever he calls; I will have the strength to not even respond. Right now I’m strong, but in two weeks and beyond; I’m hoping this strength will still be here.
@BrooklynBaby100
2 жыл бұрын
What happened?!? Updates?
@csimms7766
2 жыл бұрын
@@BrooklynBaby100 Girl! He’s blocked, I never looked back. It’s all about your self worth at the end of the day 💚
@AlonaBallardBuckeyeJeans
3 ай бұрын
I needed this message today. I got the “not ready to be in a relationship” text last night
@heyitsmel1310
4 жыл бұрын
This video is GOLD and came at the right timing. Just decided to walk away from a guy who said he didn’t want a relationship right now. His response was “ okay, sounds good” If he really wanted me he wouldn’t have let me go.
@alexisalford735
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan!! We got to stop fooling ourselves....walk away completely...
@rukyruk7654
4 жыл бұрын
This was God speaking to me through this video
@br0wn3y3dcuti3
4 жыл бұрын
I agree! He sent this video at the right time.
@bernadettekiper8048
4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@claudetteyoung9011
4 жыл бұрын
Same for meeee 😉👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@brodtxx
4 жыл бұрын
He asked me to focus on his actions. I did. In the end, I broke it off after he said again that he is not into relationship. His parting words, I'm going to miss you terribly.
@bdalesworld277
4 жыл бұрын
Enjoy you in the moment and the BENIFITS you provide... Either way let his AZZ GO!😳 ALWAYSSSSS exceptional and on point! Thank You... @Stephanspeaks
@kerryanderson3060
4 жыл бұрын
It still hurts, But with maturity, and prayers, we can move on. You will be fine, and there is your purpose out there.
@paulettebrown80
2 жыл бұрын
He said to me,"You will make a great wife or girlfriend for another man one day"!.....Those were his exact words......Crushed my soul because in that your saying I'm just not good enough for you......Thank You Stephen. This has really broken me.. I have had some failed relationships and I always give my heart away to those who are so undeserving of it... I have decided to remove myself from the dating world. Put my guard back up. Practice Celibacy and heal....I really have some healing to do....
@Hotgurl53
3 жыл бұрын
Wait he said “ you still have to leave his ass alone” 🤣🤣 I wasn’t expecting that....good one🤣🤣
@ricabassinger9599
5 ай бұрын
Lol that took me out. I wasn't expecting that either he made sure and said that quickly.
@kendrickcd
4 жыл бұрын
I just recently got a divorce from my high school sweetheart of ten years. We grew apart and i am now navigating the dating scene. I use the “I’m not ready for a relationship” line. Even though I am not lying what Stephen said is %100 correct. If a woman is looking for a relationship and your not just leave them alone fellas. There are some women who are just looking for a good time.
@chrissyjoesph6641
4 жыл бұрын
This was for me today. Lord I thank you...
@kimberlystephens2424
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! And yes! And when I let him know that I clearly understood his position, his response was "I TOLD you that I really LIKE you." (After admitting he still dates other women) It's been 8 months, sir. Boy bye! Thanks for the confirmation, Spirit.
@ReneelovesGod
4 жыл бұрын
What if he says “I am the one for him”, but he is not ready for a relationship right now... I let go.. I know there are issues he needs to address.and that he is not prepared To give me anything right now.. .. my issue is I’m emotionally invested like you said. However, I’m not bothering him. I don’t see him or anything.. my focus is on me and God but I keep thinking about him.
@megtheetiger
2 жыл бұрын
So glad I came across this message confirming that I made the right decision in walking away from a man who, after nearly four years of showing him what I offer, tells me he's not ready for a relationship but wants to continue having sex. It took a little while because I had gotten so emotionally wadded up in his misleading behavior and the sex that I believed he was lying when he told me that. I eventually did wise up and walk away from him and have been laser-focused on my own personal growth & spiritual development. I couldn't be happier.
@payalpatel3163
3 жыл бұрын
As soon as the words I’m not ready for a relationship leaves his mouth make a run for it ladies! Not worth the heartbreak, confusion , pain and depletion of self esteem which is what will happen if you decide to stick around
@carlylebigby645
4 жыл бұрын
Bro I love love love ur work...u've taken me away from a dark place and would love to thank u for that...so powerful and tru..thank you...👊🏿👊🏿..please keep up the good work...we need it..
@carlylebigby645
4 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks in a very big way....
@keepthechange1
4 жыл бұрын
What is it that you LOVE about his work? I’m curious. 🤷🏽♀️
@carlylebigby645
4 жыл бұрын
@@keepthechange1 a lot of things I was over looking in healing myself. I hated love and hated the feeling of falling back into love. Felt vulnerable an weak. He broke it down to me in a way where i understand that the person was the one that hurt me not love...love don't hurt people do...and from then I understood...
@keepthechange1
4 жыл бұрын
carlyle bigby Bless your heart. I totally understand. Once we learn and accept how Love truly works, and that Love is action, it’s smooth sailing. Prayerfully, you will not allow anyone to cheat you out of the Love that was designed especially for you. It’s out here, and waiting to make your acquaintance. I promise. ☺️ God bless you. 🙏🏽❤️
@carlylebigby645
4 жыл бұрын
@@keepthechange1 thnx. I know
@namara598
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan. I went through everything. Being told he is not ready. Even trying to be friends which was a mess in itself. Thank you for the confirmation.❤ Right now I am focusing more on me, my relationship with God, with friends and my career. It has not been easy emotionally but it has been worth it.
@ianbetts4435
2 жыл бұрын
Just keep away from Chad who just wants to pump and dump or smash and dash.
@thatsbull9211
Жыл бұрын
Thank you I know exactly what I need to do now, I watched this video yearss ago and a few days ago I thought about this video, then today I was going through playlists I’ve made on KZitem and deleting what I never look at, and I found this video again exactly when I needed it. I really can’t be friends with him in the mean time, it just hurts so thank you so much
@aliyahcathey
4 жыл бұрын
I have been watching these kinds of videos since I was in high school. Word of advice: If you are 25 and under girl just relax. Let go and let flow. Live your life to make you happy not spending time trying to get things you want outta people (i.e commitment). People (not just a man) will gravitate towards you for that. Some of you are so unhappy because you’re not watching these with the intention to weed out what you don’t want. You’re stuck on trying to manipulate and make a square peg fit into a round hole. He’s not ready? Believe him. Now either relax and enjoy it for what it is or leave.
@Strawberrysunset23
Жыл бұрын
If he’s not ready to give you what you need then you don’t need to be giving him what he wants
@touchpoint4christministries444
4 жыл бұрын
Yes Stephan you could not have said it any better ,this message is confirmation for a current situation I was dealing with a week ago . Ladies we must move on and get back to Magnifying God ,loving self and building character ❗️
@natnat0576
4 жыл бұрын
Dealing with this right now! All happy in a relationship then out the blue I don’t know what I want, like WHAT??? He’s not the one for me!
@vonnababeimyamansfantasy8436
4 жыл бұрын
Everything this man said "dont do" I did smh #PlayedMyself
@valeriesandoval8453
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan for bringing clarity and confirming my intuition.
@sisisisi9388
4 жыл бұрын
What if he says this but claims it has nothing to do with you?? How do you really know??
@caribbeanqueen6107
4 жыл бұрын
I was believing that this person wanted a relationship with me I was falling for it giving him all the passion he wanted...I asked him what he wanted he told me he didn't want a relationship so I had to let him go I really loved him but if he didn't want a relationship with me and all he wanted was my passion I didn't want a any kind of relationship with him either.
@nwr477
4 жыл бұрын
Damn, these videos are so f******* honest. You got my follow!
@Honeypepper.
4 жыл бұрын
Sir thank you for always keeping it so real with us. LADIES you gotta listen to him when it comes to relationship advice *no truer words have ever been spoken* How do I know? Everything he said I’ve experienced verbatim in this video recently. It’s a hard pill to swallow but please ladies you cannot take it personal. Look at it this way “A mans rejection is God’s protection” because it very well might be. You haven’t been rejected, *you’ve been rescued!*
@Nisi.Dominus.Frustra
Ай бұрын
I had a guy tell me he NEVER wants a relationship, so I turned around and walked off. He came after me saying “well, maybe”. LOL……no thanks!
@MsAngel182
4 жыл бұрын
Sunday night pep talk 👊🏽
@kerenstar13
Жыл бұрын
I love how you include God in your advice. It's the best! Thank you 😃🙏🌻
@LatoriaCamille
4 жыл бұрын
This was perfect and very palatable. Thank you.
@giftedone2day725
4 жыл бұрын
Just had this happen to me. A guy I've know since 2017. Has told me he looking for companionship. But had just left a toxic relationship. So I walked away from him. Am not ready to give time and energy to anyone but God.
@PrettynCleanASMR
4 жыл бұрын
A good man can still not want a good woman. You guys just aren’t for each other. Cut the ties. No need to be friends because there is no reason to blur the lines. Focus on yourself Ladies and Gentlemen. It goes both ways. Just because you are two good people doesn’t mean you HAVE to be together romantically.
@bananarae9207
11 ай бұрын
This is very hard to hear but also necessary. I was in a situation where he decdied to leave it alone, we went no contact even though we work together, but he talked about me all the time around the office, even told 2 of my friends he wanted to marry me TWICE (I guess he knew itd get back to me), also with the fact that I continued the no contact when he wanted the contact back, but after a year. He now wants to make googly eyes after I heard he wasnt ready and he still can't face me like a man. I cant understand it but i dont need to bc ive moved on and now im talking to someone who actually communicates with me like a man so 🙋🏾♀️👋🏾😁💯 Enjoy your life. Im still praying for you so you can find the love you deserve and STOP the self destruction! 🙏🏾 (Edit: I've enjoyed walking away and around as we still work together, after the tears I cried bc they made me stronger. I now know I'm one hell of a woman who needs one hell of a MAN! 💪🏽)
@rbillustrations
4 жыл бұрын
Yeahhh.. I learned this the hard way. I’m just glad he respected me enough to let me go, instead of keeping me there and being toxic. Doesn’t make it any easier tho.
@sharonjohnson3288
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being real and straight to the point.
@mefme8442
4 жыл бұрын
Unless your in a committed relationship at this time, its not a good idea to entertain or lay down with no one! Unless you want the Covid or an STD...the choice is yours!🤣
@sunnatural1272
4 жыл бұрын
I agree! It's hard making appointments trying to go get a STD shot or prescription. Doctor offices are closed and the hospital is charging $6000 to cure an STD. I would not lay down with anyone that you have not known AND are married. Never trust a man and his dick unless you can keep track of him at all times.
@mefme8442
4 жыл бұрын
@@sunnatural1272 Exactly! Keep those legs closed!💯👏🏾
@tdf4142
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not ready for a relationship and I don't want to be in a relationship. it's not her fault but I just can give her all my time and I have other problems that I don't want her to be a part of, but after reading all those comments, me telling her this makes me look like the bad guy here. but still, I'll tell her I don't want to waste her time.
@lillie
4 жыл бұрын
You are 100%!! stop dealing with him. Shut it down. Cut off contact of needed so you can heal. It doesn't matter why he is not ready.. the point is he is not for you.
@supriyasingh-gi4bg
4 күн бұрын
He says Im stubborn and that's why he doesn't want to have a relationship with me! I'm ok with that...but he wants to keep me as a friend. Should I completely ignore him! And yeah he says he likes me alot!
@margarita2511
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed to hear this today..
@catalinatorres9526
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I was waiting for what I need to do for the second reason why he is not ready for a relationship… he said he is not prepared and he need to address some issues 🥺 and i deserve to receive his 100-% not some part …. you said let him go 😖… what a hard situation
@beckyanna7287
2 жыл бұрын
十𝟮𝟯𝟰7030894892⏯⏯⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup he can help you too via whtsap
@cocoleluz
Жыл бұрын
I was talking to a 56 year old man, (I’m 48) and he was the one saying I was not ready because I got divorced a year and half ago. He is divorced for 9-10 years now and he had a bad divorce. He told me twice I was the one but kept saying I wasn’t ready. He never asked me out so it wasn’t about sex. It been over a year now and he kept saying I’m not ready so I let him go. I told him how I felt and we stopped texting . This was about a week ago.
@CaribbeanVibes254
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Message
@davidvilatotv3726
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 14 and not ready for a relationship and I understand what it's like not being ready in my case I don't feel like I have the confidence to start one
@melissalitus8879
4 жыл бұрын
Men know what they want & if he isn't committing to you or making you his gf or wife then you're not the one! We have to pay attention and focus on what's in front of us. Time to level up ladies ✨
@e329
4 жыл бұрын
Stephan!! Can you make a video on how to find your purpose in life??
@MARIARODRIGUEZ-xb5cb
4 жыл бұрын
DUDE THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO FOR SINGLE PEOPLE DATING!!! OMG I NEED TO SAVE THIS VIDEO!!💜💜💜 SUCH WISDOM!
@sirenxo
4 жыл бұрын
God sent me to your channel and this video at the perfect time. Thank you for the reminder. I've found myself, after being single/abstaining from sex for 6+ years, to be back in the same situation. I would have much more respect for you if you were honest and upfront about your intentions. I'm not here to fill a void you have or play house with you without a commitment.
@trustjas
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you for sharing this. I had to make the decision to walk away from a guy who told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship very recently. I truly believe he just wasn’t ready, but I still decided to end all ties with him. I really liked him but I didn’t want to waste my time.
@LilyMillerofficial
5 күн бұрын
Already done ,you just have to say I'm not ready ..respectfully it's goodbye ..
@QueenIZA
4 жыл бұрын
Dodged a bullet just now with an old friend. 🤦🏾♀️Whew Chile! If you let someone talk long enough they will tell you all that you need to know about them! 🤷🏾♀️😂
@tyrarice7318
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this video.
@guiciecortez
4 жыл бұрын
GOD sent you right in time to bless my life BRO! i've been following you on instagram and listening and reading your messages for a couple of months , and I've been so amazed! thank you with all my heart for living your purpose STEPHAN !!! GOD BLESS you and your beloved ones infinitely!
@reneebcc
4 жыл бұрын
Great advice! Women should keep their options open without attaching themselves to men. If men are serious, they will put in the work and seal the deal
@cjsingh28
4 жыл бұрын
Purple is your thing oh wow 🤩
@TheKrista5
4 жыл бұрын
I was told that last year where I made the mistake of falling for a coworker. I've known him for three years. I express my feelings and he said he wasn't looking for a relationship. I told him fine I'll find someone else sorry for wasting yours and my time. Haven't talked since and he's mad that I moved on and don't give him the time of day. Oh well
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