My breakup of a 14 year marriage after a new baby was my BIGGEST BLESSING. It did not feel that way at the time, but once the storm passes, the rainbow appears in your heart. Give it time and be thankful for the things that don’t work out. Rejection in ANY form is 100% ALWAYS God’s Protection!
@hawaiigirl8089
Жыл бұрын
Agreed ❤Amen sister
@vaughn7130
Жыл бұрын
Very inspiring and heartfelt
@judithpatenaude3566
Жыл бұрын
Well said Mam!!! 🙌🏻🌹
@kall_me_krazi
Жыл бұрын
@@hawaiigirl8089 💜💜💜
@kall_me_krazi
Жыл бұрын
@@vaughn7130 my channel says it all. I’ve been to hell and back. I let it make me better, not bitter. I’m thankful for everything that went wrong because it got me right with my soul.
@dharmon8798
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes the breakup protects you from going to prison
@BeautifulOnes876
Жыл бұрын
😂 Truth! 💯
@BeautifulOnes876
Жыл бұрын
This comment should have way more likes if people get brutally honest. Bad relationships can turn dangerous for a woman whose been pushed too far to the brink for too long. Hence the tv show of true life stories of these women called “Snapped”.
@JSmedic1
Жыл бұрын
@D Harmon Ahaha! You are right. Lol
@crazytracy71
Жыл бұрын
Oh u have met my ex? Lol
@librascales579
Жыл бұрын
I’m at that point
@ZombiGhostGirl
Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago and it’s a roller coaster of emotions. It’s so hard but going through these videos and hearing and reading stories of other people’s break ups helps me remember I’m not alone and things will get better. Thank you everyone ❤️
@NaeK188
7 ай бұрын
Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and it’s been hard. How are you going now? Love hearing updates of people healing as it’s fuelling my hope moving forward.
@khaliladnan9351
6 ай бұрын
How are you now? I had breakup after 9 years, feel sad but he's on point, it was 9 years of struggle trying to reconcile after a cheat didn't work, we had happy great memories but overall not working.
@mariyastoyanova9116
5 ай бұрын
Not at all
@JobanRandhawa-m9x
5 ай бұрын
@@khaliladnan9351same thing happened with me
@derek5827
5 ай бұрын
Girlfriend of 5 years just left me without giving me a reason. Just a few weeks if space and bam we’re done. I hope you’re doing better now
@grumpyoldlady_rants
Жыл бұрын
When my 1st husband left after seven years, leaving me to raise two little boys, it was rough. But, In the long run, it was the best thing that could have happened. I met my second husband about 3 years later. We married after dating about a year and just celebrated out 38th anniversary.
@01splitpea
Жыл бұрын
Point made. Congratulations!
@crazytracy71
Жыл бұрын
Now THAT is a testimony if I have ever heard 1. I know there is a beautiful life coming my way. N u just reassured me that my life is about to soar into something beautiful. Ty for sharing something so awesome for those of us who r a cautious about what happens next.
@devinabharat8965
Жыл бұрын
😇😇😇😇😇😇😇❤️♻️🙌
@emilyrivera9219
Жыл бұрын
I'm happy for you and yours
@cindyking1778
Жыл бұрын
Good for you. I just separated from my husband and I feel so liberated and free
@pahatsathit6635
Жыл бұрын
Steve is right. If the relationship is a bad one, the breakup is a blessing. If you have had bad years with that person, why on earth would you want some more bad years with them ???
@DarkAngel-cj6sx
Жыл бұрын
It is always a blessing if you have done everything you supposed to do and nothing changed
@ValeriaVargas0617
Жыл бұрын
Omg yes💪💪💪💪
@doreensmall3921
Жыл бұрын
And I did that
@pahatsathit6635
Жыл бұрын
That's right.
@cindyking1778
Жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@mikedavis3393
Жыл бұрын
Yes Yes Yes
@lorrainedalton9823
Жыл бұрын
Breakup was the blessing because It was a bad relationship so I did have a new start. God has blessed me in so many ways!
@AnaN-if2ep
Жыл бұрын
Hard to get and accept, but so true... Thank you Mr Harvey 🙏 💜
@kimberlyjoseph673
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯 happy I found this video
@jomazelle2777
Жыл бұрын
I’m extra Happy about my break up 😁 its a blessing to get rid of someone who doesn’t even know you or take the time to listen so yay me I’m free 💜✝️💜
@doreensmall3921
Жыл бұрын
Me to
@doreensmall3921
Жыл бұрын
Me to
@pahatsathit6635
Жыл бұрын
Same here.
@cindyking1778
Жыл бұрын
Exactly mine ex never talk to me either
@karenhughes-l2e
Жыл бұрын
I'm dealing with that right now. Please keep me in prayer 🙏
@jacquelinegibson6181
11 ай бұрын
3 yrs. With a guy, My Mom diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and as I'm her rock, had been HIS rock, the night before I have a appt.with my own breast surgeon he sends me a text, " I swear to God I never want to hear about feelings again. I'm not the MAN for you. Bye Jackie." No argument nothing just had a 5hr.conversation with him Fri. And he told me bye through a text msg. IHe never checked to see if I was even alive. The most painful experience I've been through. I'm trying to heal physically, spiritually and emotionally.
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@kellynorvell5714
27 күн бұрын
Men are heartless, the majority will leave a woman for any reason at any time and often they leave when you need them the most (seriously) 🙏
@awaneepatel9690
7 күн бұрын
Power to you ❤
@gkay5141
5 күн бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MMAAQQ123
2 ай бұрын
Sometimes a breakup forces you out of your comfort zone. I got really comfortable in my 7 year relationship. I focused on him and invested all my time in the relationship rather than myself. The relationship and all its problems was a major distraction from the fact I had no ideas what I wanted to do with my life or who I was. I was 20 when I met him. Our relationship was so toxic and I for some reason wouldn’t leave and then eventually it all came to a blow. I had no choice but to be alone and focus on myself and finally invest the free time I had into bettering myself. I hope all you remember you need self love more than anything ❤
@sarajohn6855
5 ай бұрын
Very simple and yet profound. Love him. He’s like a big brother every woman should have. ❤
@51shoty
Жыл бұрын
Agreed l stayed 6 yrs ,when after the first year I knew it wasn’t working
@stephennedumbally3298
7 ай бұрын
Same 😅❤️
@MMAAQQ123
2 ай бұрын
Same. It was easier I think to focus on our problems in the relationship instead of confronting my own personal failures.
@tammiemiddlebrook531
Жыл бұрын
Indeed Steve, after 17 abusive years I left and now am better. Kids grown and we have 5 grandkids! Praise God...
@fisayofixzy1928
Жыл бұрын
Perfect
@vandareid6236
Жыл бұрын
Power to you sis
@fisayofixzy1928
Жыл бұрын
Naija lol I fear una
@cindyking1778
Жыл бұрын
Our kids are 26,21 and 19 The 2 youngest are with me in my house and the oldest is on her own
@carlanisbett2928
Жыл бұрын
Big facts!!! Everyone else is all sad about how long I been with my ex but babbbyyyyy… I know God is at work… I’m a little stressed, mentally, emotionally and even physically because I’m human that’s just my body reacting but I’m staying as calm as I can and I’m thanking God every minute for deliverance.
@karenhughes-l2e
Жыл бұрын
Why are you allowing him to destroy you in all ways? Get out while you're able
@ShaShaLuva414
Жыл бұрын
My breakup was definitely a Blessing. Living and Loving a Narcissists is hard. Them narcissus can make you crazy if you don’t recognize it early enough to, walk away with all of your marbles 😅😂
@lindasanford8823
Жыл бұрын
I never saw it....but he definitely was one
@lindasanford8823
Жыл бұрын
I never saw it....but he definitely was one
@nellethejumperguy9344
Жыл бұрын
I lost everything I worked for
@christinaalexaaa
Жыл бұрын
I knew it wasn’t gonna work out in the first moment I met him. But I stayed because I was afraid of being alone. I had a lot going on at the time and he was a distraction. So many red flags and I stayed for a whole year. Eventually when he wanted to break up, I already was there emotionally. Now I’m learning what it means to be happy alone.
@greenacid9140
Жыл бұрын
Same...
@joycefiore2721
Жыл бұрын
Same
@MzTinkerbell
Жыл бұрын
@Christinaalexaaa...thanks for sharing. This is currently me too😢
@ri3rb
5 ай бұрын
how did you learn to be alone? i relate a lot
@MMAAQQ123
2 ай бұрын
Girl I stayed for 6 😭
@christinespiers-wy9kr
Ай бұрын
Love Steve Harvey! My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!
@eulawinfrey5948
Жыл бұрын
This has a lot of hidden pain for him too. His eyes tell a story. It hurts to be loved for your money and not for yourself.
@bethanywilhelm4451
Жыл бұрын
I love that perspective! Sometimes things do need to be freshened up! ⬆️ ❤
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@BrentwoodBergmann
10 ай бұрын
Agreed
@prisillaspace
Жыл бұрын
How did I not know about your show!??!!???? Thank you Mr. Harvey!!!!
@QueenKekana-t4s
10 ай бұрын
You nust always comfort yourself there is no other way,you go man
@dulcemarianamendozagarcia7344
3 ай бұрын
I think that the essence of grief after a breakup is realizing with time the blessing of that separation. While you discover it, you suffer, but you also learn about yourself, you grow up emotionally and become a better and stronger person. Everything happens for a reason and, even if it’s difficult to accept it at the very beginning, you end up saying “Thanks god I’m no longer with that person”.
@its_eboni
Жыл бұрын
A 2 month relationship. Felt more like 2 decades. After the last argument my head and my chest hurt. The first night alone felt long, long, long, long. But the day after, it was pure joy. And the following night I prayed and affirmed some things to myself. I had a moment of clarity and I'm glad.
@karenhughes-l2e
Жыл бұрын
Men suck
@truetomyself2741
Жыл бұрын
Amen brother preach brother preach
@soeurettestfort7512
Жыл бұрын
Amen amen and amen because I had 19 bad years. I agree 1000 percent sometimes the break up is the blessing in JESUS name. ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@dharmon8798
Жыл бұрын
Breakup after years of marriage was my blessings and I never went back. Thank God
@miaknowles4896
2 ай бұрын
Very well said! Outstanding outlook and viewpoint. Stay strong ladies. When the storm passes, keep praying, and life will get better 🙏
@margogay662
Жыл бұрын
Amen! And amen! Blessings!
@Smile-m8x
Ай бұрын
Breakup is the blessing because you can’t keep waiting for the same person over and over again
@denisewilliamson4749
Жыл бұрын
Amen! You have to wake up from a bad relationship and move on to heal from a toxic relationship to find a new man who would be a blessing for a new start! Thanks Steve! 😊
@nsofwapetermuma2008
Жыл бұрын
You’re telling the truth Mr. Steve. Good advice indeed.✌🏾
@TheUltimateBreakupCoach
3 ай бұрын
The thing that keeps us stuck in this gut wrenching heartbreak for so long is not accepting the break up. We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
@Robertperez-kn3dm
2 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful angel 😇 I must confess I love your smile 😊 I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through. Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
@oragoodwin1626
Жыл бұрын
Amen brother amen I agree on that now I am fully healing inside and outside praise God amen
@naminyenyahecter30
Жыл бұрын
Im getting stronger and i know its ablessing for me now😊😊
@gladysmwaura32
Жыл бұрын
Waoo thanks to you Mr Harvey I Saw myself as a failure after 14 yrs BT now I do feel Soo flesh n free
@rosendogonzalez9475
Жыл бұрын
If Steve broke up ,he has his millions to comfort himself
@BrentwoodBergmann
10 ай бұрын
I just need someone we could always talks things out and be very good to each other I know we learn everyday I need someone to teach me what I never learned
@LienetteCrawn
8 ай бұрын
Hi
@SelahMae-n5x
6 ай бұрын
You have a big heart, Mr Harvey. 🌷
@ashiastewart7694
Жыл бұрын
THE BREAKUP IS THE BLESSING!!!!! WHICH IS SO VERY TRUE!!!!!!
@elle9633
Жыл бұрын
The breakup is the breakthrough onto something better. 🙏
@hereisneema
7 ай бұрын
God is faithful! I believe he will deliver on ALL of his promises and one of which, a man and marriage better than I ever imagined or prayed for ❤️
@cuttinupwithcrystal5484
Жыл бұрын
I was getting beat up for the last 5 years! Routinely… and still thought it could get better…it didn’t 😢… I think God for my life!! and a brand new start!!
@elizabethaguilera4002
Жыл бұрын
😊so true. It was a blessing to me. But not for my kids. 😢
@melissasmith3333
4 ай бұрын
Thank God for you Mr Steve Harvey ❤
@Robertperez-kn3dm
2 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful angel 😇 I must confess I love your smile 😊 I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through. Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
@edayigodwin2646
5 ай бұрын
Three things you should never break: Promise Trust And Someone's heart ❤️
@ciarao1133
4 ай бұрын
I swear I just looked at myself in the mirror differently after hearing this
@Nicole_cherise
2 ай бұрын
Today my bf and I of 1 year broke up. He loved using me to better his life and his home when I visited, but he never once told me he loved me. No amount of gardening, cooking, cleaning, gifts, favors, or beauty will make a man love you the way you need to be loved. They just do or they don’t. Not spending another day with this emotionally unavailable man is a blessing. Getting angry at every conversation about the future is not the reaction of a man who loves you. Explaining to him more affection and quality time would make me validated was thrown back at me as me starting an argument. It was insane. I was just supposed to shutup and sit there content while he drank and gambled on sports everyday and only made small talk with me about his work and his dog. I can’t eat or sleep from the heartbreak nausea and anxiety but I know feeling it now will help me heal faster. Like you know they’re a loser but it still hurts.
@sherylgregg3586
Жыл бұрын
Do you want the nxt 10 years to be like the first 10 years. Our divorce ended 34 bad years. I got a new start. My son and his two older bros were blessed w/memories after his Oct 7 funeral. They no longer have another 10 bad yrs. God blessed them us to start a new start. My son was promoted during this .His wife is a dynamic career map. Her blessings elevated from the District Attorney to being in house atty for a major insurance company. Thank you for laying it all on the table.
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@penelopemitchell191
Жыл бұрын
Keep it moving forward and up!! Good things are coming without a doubt!!
@Simmy_esihle
Жыл бұрын
Uncle Steve knows best!🙌💖
@colleenmorrison9539
2 ай бұрын
That is so true I am a testimony for that thank you Lord
@tatendam5637
3 ай бұрын
Thank you uncle Steve!
@bugingoamable5465
Жыл бұрын
You're right Steve it teaches the biggest lesson that you've never tought by your parents,let me tell you something man I 've never had chance to see my parents in my whole life till I'm 'bout 30 years old but you taach me more than I thought ....
@glitterrose1810
Жыл бұрын
It’s all about PERSPECTIVE 🙌🏿
@sharonettesheltontaylor-nb8dy
Жыл бұрын
Hallelujah Steve ... A Man' ( men ) Once Told Me I'm Stealing His' Years ... Years Of Badness And He ' Never Man' Up ... When He' Left Me That's The Blessing I' Needed. Homeless And ALL. Amen ❤🎉
@tanyabrown4919
Жыл бұрын
Amen! ... thank you! Uncle Steve 🥰🍁😇🙏🏼
@nancymckernan2160
2 ай бұрын
My breakup was truly a blessing. The hardest part was finding out he'd been with me AND another woman at the same time. What a "POS"
@FredrikaSimpson
19 күн бұрын
Yes Yesca break was the was the best thing in my life. So I can life my best life for something real and new. Faithful one one my life. I had to freshion up my life
@amelieremp8749
Жыл бұрын
And I spent the last twenty years hoping he comes back.
@ved3113
Жыл бұрын
I’m hoping he comes back too after 1 month of break up
@lindaowiti5636
Жыл бұрын
Mee too...when he came back,after 10years,I was and I'm still begging him but I realised, its not worth it, he's not making any attempts for us whatsoever, it's like a one way traffic...and I'm kinda getting fed up
@PatriciaR.E.
Жыл бұрын
@@lindaowiti5636 If he was your Soulmate; he would not have left you! The Lord has someone better for you. He’s not worth anymore of your life. Ask Jesus to help you to move on & be happy. One day you’ll look back & say, “Thank You Lord!” Love & Prayers, Sister Pat Also, remember to never give into a man because he’s charming & romantic, because men have a tendency to turn it on & off like a water faucet; until they get you. You literally have to say, “if you truly love me, put a ring on my finger & marry me first!” 💓👏
@user-z6p4c
Жыл бұрын
wow I'm so sorry to hear about that I'm sure there's someone out there for you. I’ve been married for 32years I was 24 and she was 20. She got cancer in 2020 I was totally lost without her. She took a major hit the treatment was horrible for her. I could do nothing to change any thing so I felt helpless.. I miss her everyday. Mothers are the glue that holds everyone together.
@susansanchez1629
Жыл бұрын
Does not change the hurt. Acceptance might be the last stage of grief.. but it’s still hurtful
@reneika7771
4 ай бұрын
Facts 💯
@jahmwahn691
Ай бұрын
My wife broke up with me today after 10 years. It was ten bad years but we loved each other dearly but fighting and arguing was always constant... im hurting but thanks to harvey for a uplifting message.
@agirldownunder9299
Жыл бұрын
Took me til age 40 but I decided no more bad investments but invest in myself instead
@beverlygilmore4592
Жыл бұрын
Love Steve Harvey!! So wish I could meet him
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@kellymcginniss959
Ай бұрын
My break up was such a blessing, the relationship was very one sided and my ex treated my wants and needs like they didn't matter and like everyone and everything in my world wasn't worth his time, every time I tried to communicate with him he would either ignore me, change the subject, tell me what I wanted to hear to shut me up, roll his eyes or turn everything back on me, I was absolutely miserable, I remember one day sitting there in tears and thought to myself do I really want to feel this way for the rest of life?? HELL NO!! I left and I've never been happier
@SelinaKagiso
7 күн бұрын
My partner broke up with me few days ago. It's hard i won't lie but reading such comments gives me strength that it shall pass.
@TwikirizeAllen-k6e
6 ай бұрын
It's a blessing for sure
@bobbysilver272
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes though the other person desires the breakup after you thought and did everything to build a great marriage. When someone decides to leave a marriage after 30 years it can be a real, real shock to the person that didn't want it to end and was also loving and kind to the person that chose to leave...
@ririsharon4652
11 ай бұрын
Can't believe I'm back to watching these kinds of videos again. I had a break up, he came back and left again. At this point, all I can do is laugh at myself.
@GOTHICMAMBA35
7 ай бұрын
Mine was a blessing because he was trying to change who I was and what I wore
@mariamedel3114
Жыл бұрын
Yep yep i was BLESSED beyond after, i went to school got friends ,enjoyed my life, 8 yrs later foung a great guy GOD BLESSED one God is good
@beverlywideman9076
Жыл бұрын
AMEN, AMEN AND AMEN!!! Thank You Steve!!! HALLELUYAH!!! 🙏🏾 🌈🤗💝🧑🏽🎨
@Trish4175
Жыл бұрын
There's something so valuable to be learned.
@AhmedAli-ue5wk
Жыл бұрын
Break up didn't come from the lover's side always break up comes from the others side because others are jealous & this is the main thing & the main purpose Heaven convert into heal 🎯
@01splitpea
Жыл бұрын
From the Almighty, straight to your heart, Steve Harvey. I don't know what else to say except, thank you. Yet again.
@saoussenbourk6038
3 ай бұрын
I was the one who messed up that’s why I can’t forgive myself and I can’t move on I don’t know what to do
@Gothgameinggirl
3 ай бұрын
I want to appreciate Dr OBIBHUNU for the restoration of my marriage after 1years of separation with my husband, with the help of , my husband return home and now we are happily together for good, once again thanks Dr OBIBHUNU. I think you need to meet Dr OBIBHUNU for your help
@angelicaguzik1531
Ай бұрын
Crazy how selfish we all are!!!! Isnt there more to worry about in this world than crying over a person! Cuz breakups arent that bad... they are almost always a positive thing
@superviewfootball315
Жыл бұрын
Hard to get and accept Thank you Mr Harvey
@s.lemonaideforall
Жыл бұрын
You should know that, everyone knows how they want to be treated
@softlifesoftliving7532
Ай бұрын
I broke up from a 2years old relationship and im finding it difficult to move on but i now believe the breakup is a huge blessing thank you steve❤❤❤
@ginakocevar8751
Жыл бұрын
Agreed, it may not feel like it at the time but sometimes it’s GOD’S way of giving u a new start n sometimes it’s the right person, just not the right time ❤ there’s a lot of healing ❤️🩹 and growth that needs to be done ✅
@RenaePina
2 ай бұрын
Cleanliness is next to godliness
@yahoo0000
Жыл бұрын
Steve get a refresher get rid of the old! AMEN❣️
@KiranPandey-f4t
2 ай бұрын
I agree Obviously life is change
@MinBrightMusic
Жыл бұрын
The break up is the blessing. I gat that now!
@Ghadaazzam-d2h
7 ай бұрын
I hope you see my comments Mr Steve you are really like good moslem thanke you Allah help you to whright side
@RoseWilliams-iv9og
4 ай бұрын
Steve is full of wisdom
@kellymariehall1236
7 ай бұрын
I put 16 years in my relationship and got nothing for it .he shown is female friends more respect and there for them and spent time with them also stayed at their houses and never with me
@ricardolee461
11 күн бұрын
I wasted five years 3 years and 9months the 9 month relationship i really love that woman but I didn’t start to receive my blessing once I left woman alone success is the best blessing I have so I can build and bring worth to the next lady I meet in the future
@hollyj2925
Жыл бұрын
I definitely agree a blessing for sure 😊
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@cleokhor3987
Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video.
@doreensmall3921
Жыл бұрын
Amen I was in it for 17years it's over now 🙏
@KendrickDonaldson
10 ай бұрын
Hello ❤
@RosalynKelley
9 ай бұрын
The break up the blessing, steve Harvey, l agree with you 100 percent. l say today thank you, Jesus, so who the son has set free is free indeed ❤🙌 🙏
@Lisa-k5o2n
7 ай бұрын
Thankyou uncle Steve, needed to hear this
@IshaKeister
2 ай бұрын
I totally agree 👍
@gloriareyes6556
3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@renildasy5328
3 ай бұрын
❤this is for me today..thank u
@tb8810
8 ай бұрын
Not a steve harvey fan but this was a great message.
@knightwalker8321
2 ай бұрын
If God moves people, places, or things, be glad because God knows best. He saved you from things you could not see.
@lorrainedalton9823
Жыл бұрын
I sure didn't want the next year's to be the same! When it's time to go it's time to go!
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