“If you chase butterflies, they’ll go away. But if you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And even if they don’t, you’ll still have a beautiful garden.” My fav quote ever.
@user-qq4qp1lo7m
6 ай бұрын
After reading this, i now have a favorite quote too. Thanks:)
@aemfor204
6 ай бұрын
Wow
@ettaaa
5 ай бұрын
same wow
@breakfist6364
5 ай бұрын
it's a good way to deal with life basically the key way
@Hannah-bg1ur
3 ай бұрын
Im putting this in my journal rn❤
@bri6840
Жыл бұрын
“god will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you” ❤
@lottalove5674
Жыл бұрын
can you explain what this means? ❤ im not sure if i understand it…
@happyannie1498
Жыл бұрын
@@lottalove5674 It means one day that the people that hurt you will be get Back into your life they come in front of you and at that time you will not anymore triggered by them, you are neutral
@lottalove5674
Жыл бұрын
@@happyannie1498 thank you for explaining
@moreadventure3627
11 ай бұрын
This is what I want to witness for myself
@Harijukuxbri
11 ай бұрын
@@moreadventure3627 same
@haritikaverma881
9 ай бұрын
"Let go of the things you want, to get what you deserves" that's the affirmation I'm doing
@Jayy1K.
Жыл бұрын
"God will put you right back together in front of the people that broke you" wow thats beautiful. God bless you liz!
@saff.4933
Жыл бұрын
i love how she references God. honestly she's the only person on the platform who got her head screwed on
@xelliex2151
Жыл бұрын
she's muslim btw
@ZdravNaukKJV
Жыл бұрын
Her god is satan. Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14) kzitem.info/news/bejne/saav0ol6hKR5mKA
@saff.4933
Жыл бұрын
@@xelliex2151 I'm Muslim too
@saff.4933
Жыл бұрын
@@ZdravNaukKJV shut up
@eeeccc3562
Жыл бұрын
"Disrespect is a response". Love that. Us women need to love ourselves more, when actions speak, we don t need to ask for explanations because nothing excuses disrespect. We just need to shut the door.
I was broken up with 1 day after Liz uploaded this video. It's been more than half a year now and just want to say that her video speaks the TRUTH. Cry, cry, cry, pick yourself up and move forward. I wasn't able to do it in 1 month but I did it. Life is amazing outside of that relationship, that heartbreak, those doubts. The love you poured into another person who didn't want it, pour into yourself because you are the most important! All the things Liz talked about it, it's not an overnight transformation but slowly you will get it as long as you choose to. Don't let one heartbreak destroy you, you are more than that Edit: it’s been more than a year now, I’m living my best life and it was all thanks to truly love myself. Never look back, you got this kings and queens!
@reemabdelazem9002
10 ай бұрын
That was so nice of you to say, thank you
@chanellove3482
4 ай бұрын
🙌🏾
@smallypuppy22
4 ай бұрын
Yes! One month since we broke up and I feel so much calmer and at peace
@camilac3346
4 ай бұрын
do u have any tips? Wish I could get over it faster, im still dealing with so much resentment over what happened even if i dont miss them anymore@@smallypuppy22
@ronaldnock9666
3 ай бұрын
Liz is awesome!
@lyvieyra
4 ай бұрын
“was she really the right person or did you make her the right person?” wow
@hilldoll01
Жыл бұрын
I don’t know if anyone has mentioned this to you. But the fact that you never have ad reads or sponsored posts while you teach us this is actually so authentic and refreshing…
@Big_Impact_Historics
Жыл бұрын
Rip I’ve been getting ads though? Like there was a Swarovski x viva shampoo advertise (idk if I spelled the shampoo brand right but defo involved v’s lol)
@meaning-mcmeaning
Жыл бұрын
I just had 2 ads but idc the advice is golden and she deserves every penny of that ad sense dough
@Miniflower25
Жыл бұрын
What is wrong with Ads? We just spend few secs to watch Ads but she might have spent hours to make video and edit she deserve money for her work, and sponsorship if they are genuine products or service then nothing wrong again.
@dominoxheartsyouxnot
Жыл бұрын
if she wanted to she could, let her get her bag🎉
@tk567
Жыл бұрын
@@Big_Impact_Historics sometimes KZitem automatically places ads on videos even if the creators doesn’t put them.
@amoraisonguyo9618
Жыл бұрын
When she started saying "You are strong, you are strong", I almost started crying because it's not often you hear things like that. I love you always Liz
@yashpreetkaur1690
Жыл бұрын
I send you lots of love and hope 🌺🌺💓💓♥️✨
@fabricia7861
Жыл бұрын
I cried at this moment! I needed to hear that
@Xerneas23
Жыл бұрын
Same
@tyi3749
Жыл бұрын
lol same i started crying when she said that bcuz my uncle used to smd when i was sleeping and shi made me sad for the rest of my life man i needed to hear that
@trinityberry3901
Жыл бұрын
same!
@ceci2691
Жыл бұрын
not ironically after my last heartbreak i joined the gym, started to study harder and put more effort at college, started doing skincare and eating healthier food everyday... i was a mess for a whole week, but after that week of crying and self pitty, i just started living my best live, living everything i deserve, owning my own future again❤️
@Anananana24
Жыл бұрын
Proud of you ❤️❤️
@rosear4064
Жыл бұрын
that sounds amazing! It's been about 3-4 weeks for me and am still in the healing process. I've been trying to occupy my mind with things such as exams but at times when i got nothing to do, all I think about is him and it's pretty bad.
@LA-cm9uo
Жыл бұрын
You know what's funny? When I'm in a relationship I take my skincare, studying, and humming seriously so I changed nothing since breaking up
@LA-cm9uo
Жыл бұрын
Gymming*
@gummyloo8353
Жыл бұрын
@@rosear4064 going thru the same thing luv. sometimes i put my values first and forget abt him but then the resentment hits and i start missing him again and i get so sad and nostalgic.
@nio731
11 ай бұрын
Has anyone felt like they are BETTER when they aren’t in a relationship? It’s like expectations of someone else to rise up brings you down if they don’t meet it.
@bee.bnt11
11 ай бұрын
Me
@helloitsdevon.6947
5 ай бұрын
omgggg crying my eyes out over the quote "god will put you back together again in front of the people that broke you."
@kaiara111
Жыл бұрын
for everybody here going through a breakup... every person that comes in your life serves you a purpose, and when they leave it means you must let them go, especially when they didn't fought hard enough for YOU. I always come to this video when I'm feeling nostalgic or like I've got to be forgiven or forgive people that did me dirty, never ever second guess the absence of somebody
@aayshaaaysha3069
Жыл бұрын
In my case.. He told me that he dont wanna hurt me... And thats the reason for leaving!! But i dont understand what to say or what to do...
@iammellisa_
Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this, thank you ❤
@albiorixan5111
Жыл бұрын
what purpose did it serve tho? he treated me right the entire time we dated and one day just backed off because he convinced himself that he wasn't good enough for me because yk he's not good at studies and we live in a third world country where education is crucial to help us live comfortably. i try to look at every situation from a positive point of view but when it comes to the break up there's nothing good about it. I'm sorry for ranting.
@PrettyPriincess
9 ай бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear this
@minjee3985
8 ай бұрын
@@albiorixan5111 You need to be with and deserves to be with someone that is 100% sure about you and the responsibility that comes with the relationship,you were saved and now there's space for someone better to come your way,someone that knows your worth and will work hard to provide that lifestyle that you deserve and both of you want If you and your ex stayed together he would possibly start arguments or fights in the future about financial related stuff and will blame the stress on you And if you two are truly meant to be you will meet again once he's financially stable enough and sure he can provide for you For now focus on yourself and love yourself,treat yourself the way you wish to be treated ❤ i hope you're healing
@RealSSTELLA
Жыл бұрын
when Liz said “maximum a month” I definitely felt that lmaoo when I had my first heart break after a month I started thinking **okay that’s enough babe, let’s get going**💀😂
@bellsalazar7769
Жыл бұрын
Mine was 3 years and than 2 years after he passed away and I said that’s enough.
@lovelikeasunset1
Жыл бұрын
no, bc sameee!! for me, I postponed feeling the heartbreak as much as I could. I was distracting myself with work. A year into ignoring it, I was on summer break and I was like you know what? I'm just going to feel it until I can't anymore. I cried for like 2-3 weeks and then forgot it. Fast forward like a year later I was like ohhh??? one day I literally woke up, didn't think about them, and just resumed life as normal.
@Cc-dq1lq
Жыл бұрын
its been 4 months LMFAO still crying
@hahahahahahahahab
Жыл бұрын
@@Cc-dq1lq it's been 6 months for me 😩😣 and every week within those 6 months I swore I was done ☠️🤡 I HOPE TODAY IS THE LAST DAY SAYING IT AND I ACTUALLY DO IT CAUSE THIS BITCH GOT ME ALL THE WAY FUCKEDDD UPPP LOL
@Cc-dq1lq
Жыл бұрын
@@hahahahahahahahab REALLL ngl i stay listening to his fav songs and everything reminds me of him.. sometimes i even watch his fav show. kill me cuz im still so obsessed like he was so good and scrumptious come back pooksie .. this is why im not over his stinky ass
@Laura-jj9lp
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been listening to Liz lately I’ve started doing skincare, drinking more water, doing healthy habits, being more feminine, looking at solutions for my problems, reading, being more confident in how I look while still making changes, thank you Liz ❤ Edit : I’ve been working out! Thank you Liz
@Cara.s1place
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been going through some downs too.. And honestly, Liz is really helping me. It’s true, the best revenge is becoming your best self Let’s do our best together :) 💖
@Laura-jj9lp
11 ай бұрын
@@Cara.s1place i just love how her channel is like a safe space for us to be the best version of ourselves :)
@peepepepep3847
11 ай бұрын
@@Laura-jj9lp i know right! I love how everyone is sharing there stories so comfortably on this comment section. And all the girlies are supporting their fellow Queens!!!
@Laura-jj9lp
11 ай бұрын
@@peepepepep3847 even guys are learning how to better themselves through Liz’s channel! It’s so amazing how she gives advice for everyone and everyone is comfortable with her
@peepepepep3847
10 ай бұрын
@@Laura-jj9lp yes thats so nice. I wonder how much pressure does Liz 's boyfriend have to be a perfect boyfriend 😆
@mila4740
10 ай бұрын
Today marks exactly 1 month and 1 day since the break-up, and here's my update. The beginning was tough, I felt lost and lonely. Since day one, I started journaling and kept believing that one day I'd feel better. I let my emotions flow freely, crying when needed and allowing myself to be angry. I also started meditating occasionally when I felt like my thoughts became too overwhelming. I made sure to go out of the house at least once every day because I know it's good for me personally, even if it was just for a walk or a trip to the supermarket. I met up with friends from time to time and visited family, even when I felt like complete shit while being with them. I preferred that to being home all the time. Suddenly, after sleepless nights, there came the first small moment when I didn't think about it at all. That's when I realized things were getting better. And it has been improving since then. Today, I can say that I'm doing well. I still feel a bit down in the mornings, but once I start my day and start doing my thing, that feeling fades away. I wouldn't say I'm completely over it, but it no longer dominates my daily spirit. I've reflected on the situation and learned more about myself and how to approach certain things differently in the future. I've set new goals for myself and I'm actively exploring and discovering more about who I am. I look forward to a bright future, and I hope the same for all of you. Remember, everything will be alright, just don't give up :)
@adeotiosifeso859
7 ай бұрын
Proud of you💗
@Zuriii03
6 ай бұрын
How are you now? I’m a month and 4 days in, I’m still sad, but I’m okay with the fact that they gone, we weren’t meant to be and that’s okay, still hurts, so how are you now?
@mila4740
6 ай бұрын
@@Zuriii03 I'll give you an update once more :) I think it's been almost 5 months since the breakup. I've been believing every day that I'll eventually feel better, and it happened. I think after 2 months I actually got over it, and I'm genuinely doing great. I've built a pretty busy life for myself, made lots of new friends, and I am putting a lot of energy to my education. Occasionally, I still run into my ex since we share mutual friends and attend lectures on the same campus. But, encountering him doesn't stir any emotions.I don't feel sad or angry. I'm completely at peace with the situation, and I don't find myself thinking about or missing him at all. Keep going you're doing amazing. Stay focused on your goals and on what brings you happiness, and you'll reach where you want to be :)
@gracie4394
5 ай бұрын
Did you find that no contact was the best option?
@eliana-mp6dl
4 ай бұрын
@@mila4740 Im currently going through a breakup and its only the first day and I just want to thank you for sharing your story. It gave me alot of hope. Ive never had a really true breakup before like the one im currently processing so I'm a bit scared for how it'll be. I hope to be like you when I come out of my sadness. Thank you.
@amrowski
Жыл бұрын
You're not "rude" you're not "arrogant", you're just straightforward and genuine. It's just that people becoming too sensitive. Thank you for the video you're literally becoming our therapist. - Update: that doesn't mean I don't disagree with things she says.
@sarah-samir
Жыл бұрын
exactly.
@euuutopia
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! If you’re expressing your feelings with no sugarcoating or insults, it’s absolutely valid. People just don’t know how to deal with being confronted with the truth because they’re probably not mature enough to appreciate honesty.
@That.Capricorn
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Some man on yt could have the same delivery style and be praised for it ...
@That.Capricorn
Жыл бұрын
@@amrowski I agree with you so much Viewers can sense when a KZitemr perceives their videos and their audience as a pure business opportunity and only gives when they can receive sth back, regardless of what their channel is about (be it vlogs, beauty, fitness, personal development, etc..) I think this is why most of us who watch one video of hers stick around for so long, we can sense the genuineness in her work. Her channel is a labor of love, and her content doesn't stem from a need for recognition but from the idea of sharing abundance
@enasswhida1221
Жыл бұрын
@@sarah-samir ولا
@aidenlondon
Жыл бұрын
Remember that you don’t attract what you want, you attract who you are. So focus on love. Focus on happiness. Focus on feeling fulfilled and like you already have everything you’ve ever wanted. Focus on gratitude. You are a powerful source of energy. When you do this, you will get what you want because you are in alignment and focusing on all you have instead of a lack. Just know you have everything you have ever wanted. It’s already yours . Be joyful! Sending loving energy to you all. ❤️
@stevemike2541
Жыл бұрын
Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. kzitem.info/rock/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
@milanan.3171
Жыл бұрын
So beautifully said, thank you for your words!
@stevemike2541
Жыл бұрын
@@milanan.3171 Hello I pray the universe grant your heart desire. By making your partner loving you unconditionally with more care and dedication though the powerful love manipulation of him. get his WhatsApp number on his last video, kzitem.info/rock/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA. And restore your broken heart!!
@slaaaaay2536
Жыл бұрын
I partly agree with this, in terms of ‘people’ I don’t think you always attract people who are exactly like yourself…
@stevemike2541
Жыл бұрын
@@slaaaaay2536 Hello have you been claiming and nothing is happening reach out to him, and get your ex back, he does all kinds of spells. Check his last video and get his WhatsApp number. kzitem.info/rock/FISUB9Vm5SuyhoEGrGuuUA 👆👆👆👆 on the video here
@applejacks25
Жыл бұрын
Four months ago I got broken up with and felt like shit. I remember thinking I thought I found "my person". But I was wrong and watching this video (back then) made me find comfort. Fast forward to today... I got a new job, healing, and been traveling. It's crazy how everything changes for the better
@Itsacamlife
9 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your journey and healing! ❤
@smallypuppy22
4 ай бұрын
So glad for you ❤
@jik7724
3 ай бұрын
Oh yess baby God bless you sis Jesus loves you and he will forever be with you ❤
@Mellownjazzy
2 ай бұрын
❤❤
@iamklaudia
Ай бұрын
9 days since our breakup. I can't wait to come back here in a year feeling healed & happy.
@iceyshmicey1214
Жыл бұрын
THIS is a real friend. As women we start to realize this the more we grow up, this is literally the truth, no sugarcoating. And that is the highest form of respect and love we can give ourselves is the truth!!
@mafer_mv
Жыл бұрын
❤️ Timestamps 1:59 - Ask the person/yourself why this happened 4:14 - Realise the emotions you are feeling are normal and not bad and feel then deeply 6:57 - Write a letter to the person that hurt you or to yourself 7:37 - Practice shadow work 8:22 - Focus on what you can learn from the situation and how to move forward with it 9:58 - Remind yourself of what needs they failed to meet 10:43 - The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself 13:41 - Combat your limiting beliefs 15:41 - Trust in the higher plan for you 16:20 - Time will pass and this won't be as big as a deal anymore 17:32 - Don't make decisions in an emotional state 18:25 - Have trust in yourself and your abilities 19:35 - Talk to friends that won't judge you 20:52 - Try to make new supportive friends 21:25 - Focus on mentally evolving 22:00 - Watch videos on KZitem on healing heartbreak 23:20 - Ask others how they have dealt with heartbreak 23:48 - Spend more time doing things you love 24:57 - Take care of your physical appearance 25:47 - Listen to healing/self love meditation 26:09 - Repeat powerful affirmations to yourself in the mirror 26:41 - Keep practicing and don't quit 29:07 - You will be okay and wiser despite what happened
@y_eehaww
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much!!
@Nikki-dr2ic
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mafer!
@allurized
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much! i really appreciate it 🤍
@operator_dnb
Жыл бұрын
9:58 is toxic as fuck
@dollifiedk1ss
Жыл бұрын
People who do this in comment sections deserve a life term full of happiness
@onepiecewajitsuda
4 ай бұрын
It's been 6 months now, I love this guy so much. But he doesn't, he is a Playboy he wants to explore options. I don't want a guy like that. But he had the ability to love someone. He had been hurt in the past that's why he is afraid of commitment. I'm trying to move on from him. Hope he finds a partner he wants. Maybe I was not enough for him. But ik I'm amazing myself. I just wish by any means he receives the message that I actually love him and I don't want to play with him, nor do I want to waste his time. But it's okay I'll move on. I'll leave this on God 🙏
@smellydonut5088
Ай бұрын
This video genuinely changed my life. My gf and I broke up amicably a few days ago and I was absolutely shattered. This video was EXACTLY what I needed to get out of my slump
@CariJanee
Жыл бұрын
I started crying when she said “you will find love again” 🥺Liz u have no clue how much your videos help me heal, and help me hope.
@HEHEalokananda
Жыл бұрын
Hey,i might be a random person on yt, but listen i used to victimize myself, that maybe I'm the problem, that i should Better stay away from love as it breaks me . But after watching this video , my mindset changed- like- Hey my mindset is not the world. There is so much to it. Let's heal together and have hopes . 🦋🦋
@zainabfatima6186
Жыл бұрын
"You didn't waste those years" 😭😭😭 I lost 4years of education to depression and did nothing. I really needed to hear this. Thankyou liz. Sending you hug 🫂❤️
@lenanath9228
Жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much. What matters now is that you are doing better in the present moment. Even just watching this video is taking you to your highest potential.
@ArredondoJairo
Жыл бұрын
same 😪
@HamzaAli55659
Жыл бұрын
Same here jobless for 4 years and dealing with depression gonna be successful one day 🙂
@naveedladha4211
Жыл бұрын
@@HamzaAli55659 Salam from another world Depression happens Known one thing your time will come You will be happy and in peace One dayyyy
@lizzygrant89
Жыл бұрын
same ❤
@nott.txxira
2 ай бұрын
I'm 15 years old and for these past few days I have been feeling lost and have no will to do anything. I have listened to all your videos and everyday I woke up I still try to implement what the highest version of myself will do. You have helped so much. May God continue to bless you with unimaginable blessings. ❤
@komalrehan6154
Ай бұрын
Hello. Glad you are applying all the things she said. I am a certified relationship coach who help people to take out the best version out and helping to get into healthy relationships. Would you like to have a small session free of cost?
@laurab9518
2 ай бұрын
I had about 34 jobs in my life and I’m in my late thirties. I now had latest job over 2 years, and make decent money part time, low stress, debt free and successful. I could be making a little more money at least and plan to later. I am a walking, talking failure. But I still made it. Most of my family (not all) still think I’m a deadbeat bum loser. Everyday I’m getting closer to owning my place though. And my few friends believe in me.
@salisawardani8315
Жыл бұрын
honestly, i've watched this video before, but now that i had a heartbreak, watching this video again hits different..
@algiab.7296
Жыл бұрын
Same, I did not even finish watching it last time because I'm scared that I'll manifest it. But I'm here and actually trying to heal now.😊
@hibzzy1845
Жыл бұрын
Same, I watched it before but I didn’t need too. Now I need it💔after so much effort nd love I put. It’s painful
@czimku
Жыл бұрын
@@algiab.7296 YEAHHH dude i was the same! I thought that every video on yt, a situation in a book, a conversation with people who were hurt by toxic people would open my eyes. It probably would have happened, but I was very afraid to finally admit to myself that my partner really is, was and will be toxic. Before, I was afraid to finish this video because I was afraid that I would have to go through splitting up with him and heartbreak, but now that it happened yesterday, I have the courage and the desire to watch the whole thing.
@sakinaali7566
Жыл бұрын
Same
@alicealdaa
Жыл бұрын
When she said “I want you to cry your eyes out” my eyes started tearing up 😭😭 I’m in the process of healing and it is hard but I know great things are coming and I’ll be fine
@textmeattelegramatemilydob9769
Жыл бұрын
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@shammiofficial8807
Жыл бұрын
Wtf🤣
@mahimapatel8706
Жыл бұрын
same :( i paused the video to just cry because i was crying so much
@alicealdaa
Жыл бұрын
@@mahimapatel8706 she helps us so much and I have managed to become a stronger person because of Liz , I’ve been doing better on protecting my energy and respecting myself more
@lizzygrant89
Жыл бұрын
god bless you. you'll be fine
@honvstly_rosa
Жыл бұрын
I was once In a really dark place after a breakup from a “situationship”. And even though I needed to heal, I knew that I couldn’t lose anymore self respect and break no contact… So, I told myself: They don’t need to listem to you pour out your heart and get a reply from them, all you truly need to move on Is to be able to forgive yourself for having allowed that person Into your life and going through that. And that changed my perception of getting attached to situations that don’t necessarily end with closure
@elainecelinaa
4 ай бұрын
„god will bless you, he never fails“ thank you Liz.
@anjalichakravarty4344
Жыл бұрын
NGL I literally teared up when she said " you are strong"
@tianaconliffe9337
10 ай бұрын
Saaaaaame 😭
@sushibguts
9 ай бұрын
same lol.
@tanishachakma7624
8 ай бұрын
samee when she said you picked yourself before now also you can
@fauziah_hair
2 ай бұрын
sameeee
@oshitae5201
2 ай бұрын
Same
@SaturdaySupermodel
Жыл бұрын
I love how Liz always resonates and addresses the thoughts we have in our heads.
@NordwinterMihlberger
Жыл бұрын
is liz from the UK?
@linaasia8674
Жыл бұрын
@@NordwinterMihlberger from her house setting it seems that she lives in the US
@pineappletea9063
Жыл бұрын
@@NordwinterMihlberger is it some kind of joke because her name is brit
@mika.8063
Жыл бұрын
@@linaasia8674 no she lives in dubai, but nationality wise i think shes albanian
@linaasia8674
Жыл бұрын
@@mika.8063 bro im albanian and from her attitude and place of living i don’t think she is. albanian don’t live in dubai. i suspect her to be muslim tho. i dont think she is balkan but thats rlly random you can’t rlly know plus her accent is more like an arab. idk she gives me kurdish vibes for some reason
@arzhb.4471
5 ай бұрын
It's been more than a month after our broke up. It was difficult like I cannot stop crying every day. It feels so heavy. I even lose my appetite, but as time went by, I felt a little bit better. I thank God every day for giving me strength to go on. Your videos help me a lot too. Thank you
@lauramt309
11 ай бұрын
I’m listening this during my evening walk and I’m 1 month post breakup. Literally wish I watched this video when I was at my lowest because your advice hits home hard! The heart break glow up is so real !
@yvonnetang9080
Жыл бұрын
I never had an elder sister present to guide me. For 21 years, I had to do it on my own- I faced every heart-ache alone. Thank God for your existence. You helped me a lot. I wish I’ve come to known this channel sooner. + Happy to be able to share your wisdom to my younger sister! You’re the best, Liz!
@chocalatecake9143
Жыл бұрын
Trust me ur life is better without a elder sister
@Esathaq
Жыл бұрын
@@chocalatecake9143 can I know why I don’t have one either but just curious why it’s better without?
@bitchfightme2259
Жыл бұрын
@@Esathaq in my experience , being the youngest out of 9 siblings was and still is not good. none of my older siblings (except one) are mature and when they do something foolish , you're blamed and punished with them as well . i usually have to take accountability and the blame for a lot of things they do . when i start a fight with them , i'm punished . ok , seems fair . but when they start a fight with me , nothing happens . i honestly wish i didn't have any older siblings , but i guess the best thing about having them , to look on the positive side , is that i get to observe their mistakes and see to never do that in my life ! ... what a great perk .
@iamkarenleigh
Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear you don't feel alone anymore! If the Internet is good for one thing it's connecting and sharing like this 💖
@sassyqueen9739
Жыл бұрын
@@chocalatecake9143 that’s just you I’m grateful for my older sisters and I will always be grateful that they are with me they helped me and guided me a lot I love them sm even if we fight they will always have a special place in my heart even my lil sis has a special place in my heart and I will help guide her too!😊
@Raach1
Жыл бұрын
I just got broken up with last night. Your words are helping me through this. Thank you Liz.
@neta4768
Жыл бұрын
it's been two weeks. girl get your big girl pants on he is worth NOTHING or she u are a queen
@lojaeennofal6591
Жыл бұрын
Always remember, there is someone better coming to u so pick yourself up cus that bitch does not deserve ur time anymore
@aldiemeggie2206
Жыл бұрын
same.. stay strong
@your.therapist
Жыл бұрын
How are you ...?
@Hehee008
Жыл бұрын
More strength to you
@lex7938
Жыл бұрын
You didn’t waste those years. You chose to get out of it and become better. I needed to hear that 💖
@shreeyabehera3204
Ай бұрын
thankyou so much liz. youve healed parts of me, thankyou so much for being there.
@saniyahuja
Жыл бұрын
Shadow Work Questions given by Liz ✨ 1. How did I evolve during this situation? 2. What needs of mine were failed to be met? 3. What could I have done better in this situation? 4. What would the best possible outcome have been for myself? 5. If I could do this again to myself with the knowledge that I have now, how would I approach the situation? 6. What would a person that really love themselves would do now? How would they handle the situation? How would they treat themselves now?
@angelclark7015
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@lily-102
Жыл бұрын
tyy
@alexberea4775
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, i needed it ❤
@max-kx6ig
Жыл бұрын
thanks bb
@claudiacarrara7191
11 ай бұрын
Thanks, I really needed it!
@arohaaldekoa3735
Жыл бұрын
she really is the older sister that everyone needs, a truly gift from the universe
@sheetalbhati7132
9 ай бұрын
i am facing the heartbreak right now ... and i cried through oyt the whole video .... i feel so alone but there is the feeling deep inside that i have liz ... i have liz like a bigger sister who will teach me .... i love u so much liz!!
@samariiz6557
Жыл бұрын
Girrll...you are so young yet SO wise. You've literally helped me see a new light and path for my life. Just been through a very difficult breakup. Can't thank you enough. Please keep posting. Love you💝💖
@victoriaa777
Жыл бұрын
"people are afraid of you seeing your potential" this is WAYYY too true. people who are happy within will be happy for you but when you're in a toxic environment they will make you feel crazy and guilty for shining your light and will see you as a threat. im gonna shine, glisten and sparkle regardless !
@princesslacson6291
Жыл бұрын
I cried. Thank you
@justsomeone5660
Жыл бұрын
Liz is like the elder sis we all need!! thank you Liz, I finally took myself out of the pity cage...I'm working on myself and my dreams, your videos helped so much! I know I can and I will. ❤️
@youngwolf1009
Жыл бұрын
Girls what do you think about starting a discord channel to encourage and communicate between us? Share our improvements, goals
@desislavadimova5921
Жыл бұрын
@@youngwolf1009 sign me up
@zarraclaire
Жыл бұрын
@@youngwolf1009 me too pls we need it
@ninanegedu
Жыл бұрын
@@youngwolf1009 would love this🥺❤️
@shannyS45
Жыл бұрын
@@youngwolf1009 I'd love to.
@Swearm9
Жыл бұрын
Writing this firstly to thank you Liz...you really saved my life...thank you so much! Secondly, I'm in the week 2 of this heartbreak. I wanted to give up cause so many other bad things has been happening too but I decided to stay strong. I know that they don't deserve me. I know my worth and I AM STRONG. So, I'll come back to my comment after a month and hopefully I’ll say that I have moved on :,) I know that I can. To whoever reading this: you are strong too…don’t give up 🤍🫂
@elen3512
10 ай бұрын
@Swearm9 How have you been feeling? After a lot of difficulties the last years, I also experienced a broke up with a person which I loved, some days before. Sometimes I think that I am so tired of trying. I know that i can get through this and those videos do help a lot but it is hard
@missilovemyuke12
2 ай бұрын
How are you guys doing??
@iamkaysandiego
Жыл бұрын
I watched the video this morning upon waking up, and a few minutes later my ex contacted me after three months of ghosting. I managed to ask ALL of my questions, and I feel so much more clarity and peace now. Thanks Liz 🙏🏼
@CandaceCordeliaSpeaks
Жыл бұрын
“So many people are afraid that you will get to know your power.” 👏🏽🗣️👑 I’m so happy I found you on this platform Liz! Keep up the powerful work! 🫶🏽
@abishekchris
Жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian & when you take the concept of God it really touches me, though your a muslim you tell 'God' without bringing your religion into it using universal term. there are few people who don't take advice from them if they are Christians/Muslims/ Hindus etc... I think religion isn't a barrier for this At the end of the day we all need love, kindness & we all are humans... doesn't matter which God we serve Love you Liz! God bless ♥️
@THEE_JOYBOY
Жыл бұрын
If you do t mind me asking how do you know she’s muslim
@dwight_schrute1
Жыл бұрын
She mentioned in one of her videos
@fangirlinneverland6335
Жыл бұрын
She does brings her religion into it just uses universal term :) which is very considerate
@fangirlinneverland6335
Жыл бұрын
@@THEE_JOYBOY she mentioned multiple times in videos,tt and ig
@abishekchris
Жыл бұрын
@@fangirlinneverland6335 'UNIVERSAL' you got me, that's what I said Have a good one! ✨
@moonlightrbae
11 ай бұрын
When I feel sad I watch the wizard Liz and even by seeing her I just light up and become more motivated and confident,her aura is something I can’t explain. I love her.
@maristeodoro
Жыл бұрын
i was in this situationship a year ago and i genuinely liked him and thought he felt the same. he would tell me sweet things all the time while we were texting and would make me feel like the only girl in the world. however, he wouldn’t start any conversations with me irl and would walk past me like i didn’t exist. it hurt me yes, but i pushed it to the side bc of excuses i made for him. then one day, he told me he was talking to other girls the entire time when i thought i was the only one. it hurt so much, but i knew that the best thing for myself was to leave so i did. i erased every part of him from my phone, social media, etc. the next few months after that were full of healing and it wasn’t easy. sometimes i still think about it but it’s not like before. i take it as a lesson. now a year later, im in a much better place. im focusing on my education, going to the gym, eating better, and spending more time with loved ones without worrying about a boy. i’m grateful for the lesson that situation taught me :)
@Heyblondie7
4 ай бұрын
Same, he was taking me out on dates, I met his entire fam, he said he loved me. Then suddenly he told me he was seeing someone else. Then hit me with the “we were just friends”.
@andreead2615
Жыл бұрын
Liz has become our therapist at this point! Thank you for all the videos.
@karolsjourney
Жыл бұрын
Literally
@skyesoto9029
Жыл бұрын
I think that even tho it sucks when people use and betray us, at the end of the day we usually get over things we never thought we would a month or a year ago. We constantly evolve as souls on this earth and like tbh she’s right if I never went through betrayal loss death or abuse I wouldn’t be as knowledgeable or grateful for things that I have in life. Hardship brings mental and spiritual growth.
@tk567
Жыл бұрын
So true. So much learning and growth.
@thespideyman100
3 ай бұрын
i've been getting more and more into your videos. your point at the 31:30 mark saying "atleast you realized, atleast you are trying to change now" is so real. so glad i found your tiktok. you're a blessing liz
@fantakonekouyate4239
Жыл бұрын
Icl when I was wasting my time for that one person I wasn’t even thinking about myself and that made me even realise that that wasn’t a good thing I should be more focused on me and not be giving to that one person who don’t even value me or respect me thanks for you you had opened my eyes you don’t know how much this had served me.
@Juna067
Жыл бұрын
I though this idea was weird in the first place but I wrote a letter to myself like you suggested in your video, and it was such a relief. For those who tend to be really empathetic to others but not to yourself, please, try doing this. It will force you to write as you would to a friend. You know, the love you naturally give to others because it's obvious they deserve it. You deserve that love too.
@Lili-fy4ue
Жыл бұрын
Thank u im doing this rn
@mahtabn.b5230
11 ай бұрын
Ive been doing this since I was a little girl. I write letters for when I'm sad, angry, jealous... As if I am writing to my best friend. It helps me stay mindful of my reactions and become my own bestie. Highly recommend
@sswanheart
10 ай бұрын
stupid question but she said to burn the letter after writing it, do we also burn the ones that we write to ourselves??
@lailaj3020
Жыл бұрын
I was so broken over my last break up but after being depressed for 5 months I decided to take action and glow up. I never looked back ever since... that heartbreak was really a blessing. I feel empowered now.
@eramfatima8191
Жыл бұрын
More power love nd strength to u sis!!
@theophiluss
Жыл бұрын
aw im happy for you !!
@lailaj3020
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@christinashuker6202
Жыл бұрын
Proud of you
@rubygrijalva392
Жыл бұрын
Did they ever try coming back? And if so how did you respond?
@qemtry_2497
5 ай бұрын
My bf jus broke up with me im watching this
@Mellownjazzy
5 күн бұрын
How are you doing?
@zoehere379
3 күн бұрын
🥹
@seniimonroll
3 ай бұрын
Inshallah everyone realizes there is SO MUCH more to life than the person who “broke” our heart. I’m finally on the other side, but just know healing is a consistency thing and you WILL HEAL. every circumstance and characteristic of ur life is SUITED for your souls purpose. Our souls CHOSE to undertake this physical experience in order to heal itself. As Liz once said “we’re SUPPOSED to be getting our heart broken and learning”. Do life in wisdom, love, and joy. 💋💋And stop worrying about the “symbols” in the 3D. Before manifesting anything make sure ur manifesting good mental health, living life in connection to the true reality/soul, because what material/sp will matter if ur not feeling the source of what ur really chasing such as stability, safety, health, comfort
@janaaleksic6413
Жыл бұрын
You changed my life to the better and I am so thankful for this❤️
@Sara_cy
Жыл бұрын
After getting my heart broken for the 1000th times, this was exactly what I needed to hear.
@lulanim1
Жыл бұрын
Hope you're okay
@Corligno
9 ай бұрын
After my heart break I got a great job at another country, moved, made amazing friends and am living my best life. Thanks to my heartbreak
@hollyjellybi
3 ай бұрын
I know I need this. I know my own worth and I won’t settle on the same level as him, he’s such a jerk. He cheated on me and lack of sex discipline. After he broke up with me for like 3 days? I guess he went out and hook up with some other girls out there💀 I laugh at that now instead of crying like mannnn I’m so lucky that I can get out of his life. Right now, it’s nearly 3 weeks but I’m doing really better than I was before. I love myself more, I spend time with myself to get to know me better and I’m truly believe that I can get over this within 1 month (I give limit to myself) Shout out to our Queens here, I know we can do it, We’re STRONG. Just give yourselves some time and love yourself the most. You guys can do it💖💖💖 Thank you so much Liz, it helps me a lot.
@vannamarie8430
Жыл бұрын
I am on month 4 post heartbreak, and still depressed. BUT, in these 4 months I also became sober and leveled up. My life has improved, I guess now I am grieving. Your videos are very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻
@Maetaaaaaa
Жыл бұрын
You got this
@afrahshaikh6804
Жыл бұрын
She actually became a helping hand for me to become a better version of myself 💗lots of love ❤
@HH-yj1gf
Жыл бұрын
@Not gonna lie no don’t watch this is a clickbait y’all
@haifaaldakhail
28 күн бұрын
I don’t see you tough or so, I see you enthusiastically advising & couching & this so nice of you & authentic
@sn0wy180
11 ай бұрын
Liz, I just need to say that I am so grateful that you exist and are making these videos. seriously, you are helping me so much right now, i don't even have the words to express how much you're helping me. Thank you.
@Anna-yw8yg
Жыл бұрын
I never understood it, all the years of suffering. All I was thinking was, "Why me?". I remember crying on the floor years ago thinking if God exists then he doesn't love me. Now I understand, that my suffering was a blessing in disguise. It truly made me understand that it needed to happen, to elevate me into a person that I never thought was possible. I still continue to grow and the self love continues to pour out. The more I love myself, the more I love others. It's truly amazing. Whether you believe in God, the higher self or the universe, what Liz says is true. Life is a game and a test for you to reach into the highest loving person you could be. Meditation truly is key ❤ Thank you Liz ❤ More blessings to you and your family 🙏
@browngirl6011
Жыл бұрын
Going thru breakup currently.. It hurts soooooo badddddd i swear it hurts.. Typing this with tears in my eyes...but i hope i won't need this video one day in my life and i will come here to remind myself how i get out of this and will see this comment of mine and will realise how far I've come.. INSHALLAH!!!!
@soniya503
2 ай бұрын
Hi hope u r fine now ❤
@browngirl6011
Ай бұрын
@@soniya503 hey!! Yea i am doing great, ive changed, the pain is gone and i no longer experience stupid love i just turn of my emotions towards this thing i am at peace now Allhumdulilah.. Thankyou for asking
@tn0861
7 ай бұрын
Even I needed someone to talk to me the way you do. Thank you for this channel and everything.
@haze7561
Жыл бұрын
You're such a blessing to me, Liz! Thank you for this video. 😭 Please keep doing these! We love you, too! 😭
@tami4501
Жыл бұрын
I broke up with him and blamed it all to myself. I desperately try to work on me but then I feel as if I don’t deserve it. I feel like I don’t deserve to be happy all because I cut connections with my toxic ex. This video made me realize how much I should be proud of myself. I’m not weak, I’m working on myself and I dropped the relationship because I had the courage to. Thank you so much liz for making me realize that❤. I deserve better, I’m moving on, we hurt each other but we learned from it. It’s okay. I WILL love myself and I am proud of myself for taking the step forward first.
@anniepiantino3970
Жыл бұрын
I can absolutely relate to you right now, the same thing is happening to me. I’m here with you!
@pri9678
Жыл бұрын
us, going through the same thing.
@zenitadacruz6458
5 ай бұрын
I feel like my heart been ripped out my chest and I’m literally about to die…This hurts so bad Thanks Liz
@TamilarasiLavanya
5 ай бұрын
All will be alright ❤
@juanjodelgado5753
8 ай бұрын
I attempted to become a musician months ago and I put all my time and effort on that. Dealing with frustration is hard but remember that failure is only failure if you decide to not learn from that. I believe in you, continue
@ratuastiarkandini586
Жыл бұрын
Recently broke up and still struggling with the sadness. My best friend sent me this video, and she said, listen to this. Replay it as much as you can. I cried alot. I will try my best to heal! Good luck you all guys too! X
@user-dv9if7et8l
Жыл бұрын
I felt like my own mom was talking to me, with so much care. You're so kind. Thank you
@madiherr555
Жыл бұрын
i appreciate how blunt and straightforward you are it’s much needed and you’re not mean at all ♥️
@sophiaherrera4852
Жыл бұрын
my boyfriend broke up w me monday and i truly thought he was the one. I wasn’t accepting that I needed mental help throughout our relationship and he wasn’t as ready for a relationship as he thought he was, especially with somebody battling bpd. but honestly this week i’ve connected w the true friends that have stuck w me through this and after letting out all the hurt I can say this is probably the best for both of us. I’m going to my home country on vacation most of March and I think w this new positive mindset and finally reaching out to a therapist and practicing dbt and using your advice will heal me :) THE BEST REVENGE IS CREATING A BETTER LIFE FOR YOURSELF! i love u liz thank u for everything
@bruna_361
7 ай бұрын
how are you doing now?
@breakfist6364
5 ай бұрын
@@bruna_361i hope shes ok and you're too
@a.naomibazan3073
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, every single thing in this video is so true. I've been going through a heartbreak (the 2nd one this year lol) and I think that it's important we keep doing bare minimum things while going through pain. I don't fight the pain anymore; I'm giving up being ashamed of it. What I do now is keep my workout/work/study/hobby routine *in spite of* it. Happiness and pain, nothing is permanent. There's that David Bowie song what says "turn and face the strange". It's easy to keep healthy, consistent habits and a positive outlook on life when everything's ok. Challenge comes when everything is falling apart. Focus that you're still here, you're still alive and breathing. What I'd say is the bare minimum - exercise and eat well. Even if you're not able to do anything else during this period of pain. As time goes by, start adding more and more - creative hobbies, breathwork, cold showers. You'll get there. And I'll be here cheering for you (and for myself as well) every step of the way :) We'll get through this!
@sabxx
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment. God bless you :)
@coconutisland3634
10 ай бұрын
What an incredible comment! So helpful, so insightful and empowering!! Your words really resonated. This is also my 2nd breakup of the year and all these things are just gold dust. We got this, we deserve better, we are meant for more!! Thank you for your comment and I wish you all the best. I hope you’re truly happy in life xxx❤
@irlmae
Жыл бұрын
i literally started crying, thank you so much for this, you're so incredible
@joanna-222
Жыл бұрын
Since I watch your Videos, I am more happy and motivated than ever. You're saying the things I needed to hear much earlier. You gave me that kick to begin my healing journal. Sending much positive energy🤍 I am so thankful for you
@l1zziel1z
Жыл бұрын
you literally save me from falling into trap every time im going through my roughest. thank you liz
@devyanibhosalee
6 ай бұрын
Just one week ago I ended the toxic friendship (boy best friend)the bond of 4 years. I felt unwanted, unworthy, unloved. Before ending the bond I tried everything to make better but nothing works, so I came to that decision. I thought this friendship will last forever but....Ended ! It's better to be alone rather than being in toxic friendship. Slowly, I'm accepting the reality and liz videos are helping me out 💙🌸🤝
@bellemaria4116
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Liz 💕 I have been still struggling with my breakup, but everyday I am getting better slowly but surely.🙂 as with my life, I’ve been quite emotional with a lot of things in my life, but I know I will find my way. I always have hope.
@anjalichakravarty4344
Жыл бұрын
Never felt so powerful, self aware, loving myself after my heartbreak. Started to reading good books like 5am club, atomic habits they literally changed my mindset in healthy way...started doing skincare and taking care of my body , being body positive , journaling, working out regularly and man life never felt so sorted out before. Previously i used to curse at my ex for making me go through hell but now i literally thank him because if he won't have shown how shit things can get i won't have been this stronger and more self aware about myself ✨ so i strongly agree with the phrase God takes you in deep water not to drown you but clean you so trust it trust the process and everything is lesson take it and move on💖
@breakfist6364
5 ай бұрын
Mikasa is always strong keep ur head held high
@Jewelsessences
4 ай бұрын
Thank yourself not ppl who dont care about yoy
@k_siluni4101
Жыл бұрын
I can do this alone. this video really gave me strength. I will get over this. this is the only life I have. can't spend it suffering. thank you Liz and the comments. y'all are supporting me sm 💗
@skyelynn333
7 ай бұрын
I don’t know where I’d be if I didn’t find your Chanel, you’ve truly helped me shift my mindset and I’ve grown so much
@yiseniawong2902
8 ай бұрын
thank you so much Liz! I could not stop crying while listening to you talk, what you say really resonates with a lot of people and this has changed me so much, and the way I perceive hurtful situations
@samirarahman770
Жыл бұрын
Im literally crying in heartbreak as i saw this video come online. So ya... and started listening to it. Pray for me everyone...and thank u liz..
@sahanadsouza2869
Жыл бұрын
"There's something bigger and better out there for me" this made me think that I deserve better in my life You are truly a healing therapist for me thank you :)love from india
@evavrnr
Жыл бұрын
Your content is genuinely so helpful, you’ve made me realize a lot more about myself and my own potential. Thank you ❤
@SupuMangrati
15 күн бұрын
Yk what you're like a big sister to us. I needed to hear this today because I was so mentally drained and exhausted..thank you for that and I'm praying for you that you may get more success and happiness❤
@susheetofu
Жыл бұрын
thank you liz for making me gain self-respect again after love blinded my senses. i couldn't thank you more. this will be another lesson learned!
@freeziafan6296
Жыл бұрын
liz can you do a night time routine, or a full list of habits that you suggest us to take care of ourselves and become more confident? I love your kindness and I'm forever grateful for all of your advices.thank you so much.
@Esathaq
Жыл бұрын
That would literally be amazing!!!😊
@suhaniagarwal5909
Жыл бұрын
thank you so much Liz! right now am going through same situation and I feel much better and a clear vision of what to do next. loneliness is something which I have always been scared of because of which I let the other person degrade me as much as he can..but now I realised my worth..rather u helped me to that's why I took this step n today am alone..but I know am a strong woman n will get thru this! thanks for making us believe what we deserve..n I hope here all the ones who are trying to find solution their pain soon get healed and do better in their lives! lets make this world a more beautiful and happier place! love ya
@thekossanova
Жыл бұрын
This video made me cry tears of joy and comfort and warmth. Thank you Liz❤️
@angell8632
Жыл бұрын
Honestly this year for me has been the first year I’ve gone through real heartbreak and lost someone I really cared for. I allowed my own trauma to become me and because of that I pushed a genuinely decent man away. After months of feeling sorry for myself, self sabotaging, and never allowing myself to grow and change as a form of punishment, I began to pull myself out of my rut. I analysed why I did what I did, made amends, stopped blaming others and for the first time in years, put myself first. I’ve failed a lot along the way, and probably will make more mistakes, but I know that the one thing I can always have in my control is my attitude and belief that things will work out okay.
@lenanath9228
Жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me for the same reason. It is so hard to live life without him, but I know that it is for the best because I have a lot of healing work I need to do. In the future it may work out again, or there might be better in store. Keep your heart open and continue to get to your highest self. Sending you so much love
@angell8632
Жыл бұрын
@@lenanath9228 I’m so sorry to hear about your ex, I know how awful it can feel. Your right, if it’s truly meant to be it’ll be. Thank you and same to you ❤️
@lenanath9228
Жыл бұрын
@@angell8632 I appreciate you so much :)
@nicole3299
Жыл бұрын
Whew this hit home
@_CL
Жыл бұрын
Hey, how long would you say it took you to not feel sad about losing him? Going through a similar thing right now, it's been 2 weeks and I'm scared it's gonna take me a whole year...
@ariangelic
Жыл бұрын
Currently going through one of the worst heartbreaks I’ve had. He’s a good man and we loved each other very much but timing wasn’t right. I’m finally learning to love and trust myself after years of relying on other men. I needed to hear all of this and will continue watching your vids. Thanks Liz 💕
@sidrazaheer5988
10 ай бұрын
Me too I always rely on men and yesterday I broke up with him I let him go because he was cheating on me God knows how I'll recover
@mahipriyadarshi8458
9 ай бұрын
Same to my situation, we both loved each other, everything was perfect but just not our destiny. Hope I will heal too.
@bruna_361
7 ай бұрын
how are you feeling today about😊 that?
@frozensoul903
4 ай бұрын
R u okay now
@Viooooo-nn5lv
3 ай бұрын
oh, same me huhu
@zozol1718
Жыл бұрын
I litteraly cried at the end. Thank you so much, its been so hard for so long. But I'm still standing, everyday.
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