Two siblings in the same house can have two entirely different experiences, Jael being 15 when he was born is definitely enough time for her to experience and remember the abuse without the brother seeing or remembering.
@Ms.NigeriaParker
Жыл бұрын
Agree
@hannibal-elmrs.6275
Жыл бұрын
THATS A FACT! My siblings are 15 yrs younger then me- they got a calm, patient, soccer mom- I got the stressed out young mom 🤷🏽♀️
@Nille0212
Жыл бұрын
@@hannibal-elmrs.6275same!!! I'm 18 years older than my sister and I got the Tiger Mom, while she got the cool mom. My sister thinks that I'm lying about certain things that happened to me. She wasn't physically abusive, but she definitely traumatized me emotionally and mentally. I was seen as an extension of her instead of my own person. We are very similar but she's literally cussed me out about my dislike of cheese. FUCKING CHEESE!!! So I get it. It took my grandmother's dying to really bring us together and we're good now. But it was a 30 yr journey to get there.
@reginabyrd8903
Жыл бұрын
You can tell that those siblings had a different mom.
@alexish4542
Жыл бұрын
Exactly not including the toddler stage which means she was already legally grown by time he could really comprehend anything
@brittanyhunter3331
Жыл бұрын
The son is the golden child, and the daughter is the scapegoat. The daughter has a completely different experience than the son, and the mother is projecting all of the things about herself that she doesn’t want to address in herself. Her mother is trying to control her every move, and keep her under her thumb forever.
@phyliciataylor7226
Жыл бұрын
huh? The daughter made poor decisions and the son chose a different path. How is the daughter the scapegoat when was caught in a lie several times and stepped up for grandchildren. It isn't a figment of her imagination, the daughter was not fit to raise her children and the grandmother showed up. She is controlling to stop her daughter from falling again and her having to continuous bare the burdens of her child's mistakes. I will never help somebody again, people put you in their shit, then blame you for helping. The grandma should fully trust her daughter, but if she messes up again, just don't help. Simple enough.
@t.antoinette2383
Жыл бұрын
I was just commenting about that. I very much so agree!
@rnbsteenstar
Жыл бұрын
That's usually how those things go.
@Shestheman013
Жыл бұрын
Typical narricist, they need one to belittle and pin everything on while rasing up another one. She had 15 years of her mother being whoever she was and being raised by a narricist can give you so much trama and that led the daughter to drinkning and other drug use. The son only saw the good version of mom. He got 19 years of good while the sister got dust and gaslighting.
@Hephzibah_n_beulah
Жыл бұрын
Perfect example of raising your daughters and loving your sons So many toxic mothers out there projecting their shortcomings on their children ESPECIALLY their daughters
@dannblair
Жыл бұрын
so true. i see that happening so much on my mother's side of the family. her sister always favored my cousin (her son) more than her two daughters. to the point where for awhile my cousins stopped talking to each other.
@spattzfeeyaa
Жыл бұрын
@@dannblair not always like that but ok
@Leeleesfiiles
Жыл бұрын
SOMEBODY SAID IT
@Davonciaaa_Tv
Жыл бұрын
Yes this is so true
@dannblair
Жыл бұрын
@@spattzfeeyaa i just said i see that happening in MY family. i never said that it happens to everyone. read the comment before you reply
@liftedenergy3693
Жыл бұрын
The sad part is he will eventually see his mother's true colors and it will make him rethink his whole childhood.
@joybirdine5273
Жыл бұрын
Most likely when he starts dating or gets married
@s_lopez8052
Жыл бұрын
That boy shouldn't even be speaking because this is between the mom and sister and he has no idea of their relationship when he was born when she was 15
@liftedenergy3693
Жыл бұрын
@@s_lopez8052 who silenced you when you were a child?
@MScoachDANI
4 ай бұрын
Probably not, she was probably coddle him his WHOLE life
@briannataylor2964
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but the brother aggravated me. He saying that he “really doesn’t care” about what his sister is saying is ridiculous. He didn’t see his mother’s abuse to her all he saw was the effects she had from the abuse.
@glazzeddonut3317
Жыл бұрын
And that's on enableing gaslighting and resignation... ugh
@ADayWithChelle
Ай бұрын
yea, alot of his opinion and attitude about his sister I believe is due to the mother, sad
@keniasharpe1610
Жыл бұрын
Mama calmed down when she found out her daughter was not on drugs 😂😂😂
@pixelk8261
Жыл бұрын
Oh for sureeeeee. Her attitude switched like THAT bc she was proven wrong in front of an audience
@LovelyyyyyyDove
Жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@foreverANDalways1106
7 ай бұрын
@@pixelk8261I think it was more relief that she was wrong and she can’t use that as a reason. She’s parenting in fear. And like Karamo said. She needs to now let go.
@ADayWithChelle
Ай бұрын
but she did not apologize,mor offer any comfort ( hug) when she seen her daughters emotions and tears
@Jessthebes
Жыл бұрын
To me it seems like the daughter has a lot of trauma that nobody cares to acknowledge. They only see her “problematic” behaviour but they don’t care about why she’s acting like that
@Rriellesmommy
Жыл бұрын
facts i went through a lot of the same things
@kirascullark5224
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, trauma from her abusive so called Mother! She should get counseling and cut ties with her.
@TruthPursuit
Жыл бұрын
If they didn’t care they wouldn’t be there
@phyliciarobinson2056
Жыл бұрын
This is sooooo my life right freaking now 😣
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
Thanks I have gone no contact and my older sibling has reached out and agrees my mom has a personality disorder we just can't figure out why she is so delusional but I do love her and I have tried everything to mend things but there is zero accountability and continued lies and accusations. It's a nightmare. Healing one day at a time tho and I have my kids back 😌. God is good.i enjoy seeing all the other opinions of those who are fooled by my moms perfect act. I'm used to that response. She counts on that.
@TheREALQueenJay
Жыл бұрын
I love the way she articulates herself. You can tell she's done the work. 🖤
@e.l.c.4298
Жыл бұрын
I agree with you. Yes you can tell.
@tammiross6427
Жыл бұрын
Yes 🫶🏿
@battlerudee
5 ай бұрын
I mean being able to articulate can just be that…she is able to
@necee11
Жыл бұрын
The brother needs to just sit down and hush up. He clearly has no idea what is going on ...hes going off his mother's energy. The ending was the best part Lol Karamo says IT TOOK ME SOME TIME BUT WE GOT TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS SITUATION 🤗🤗🤗 Love me some Karamo!
@LoganTaliaferro
Жыл бұрын
Litterally because he said he doesn’t have. Relationship with his sister that’s sad
@pennypillow4445
Жыл бұрын
the brother doesnt want to be the target of his mother's narcissism. he knows the mum is abusive to his sister but he doesnt care, hes too young to understand but im sure hes aware
@VONiiE8
3 ай бұрын
@@pennypillow444519 is not too young to understand abuse.
@Mortis33-o4b
Жыл бұрын
The mom is a straight narcissist just like my mom...she scapegoats her daughter because she hates herself and hides behind her daughters mistakes to cover her own....Karamo I love you so much for this episode!
@prettygirltee8
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!
@sabrina21clark
Жыл бұрын
How does she scapegoat her daughter? By having custody of HER kids? How does she hate herself? She looks well, speaks well, isn't on drugs nor Marijuana, never been in rehab and never left her kids to be with a looser. I'm sorry for what happened to you. But not every mother/daughter problem dynamic is gonna be the same as yours. If you can't open up enough to see the difference here or at least see where the real problem is then you're not fully healed and should refrain from commenting on similar issues until you are. I understand a part of healing is relatability but you're only seeing from a narrow view. Prayers for you. 🙏🏾
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
Also my mom is the pill popper not me she projects CONSTANTLY. I FEEL BAD FOR HER AND IM NOW NO CONTACT.
@andrenemurdock8288
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 you need to stop trying to play victim while slandering your mother. quit while you are ahead. you are just as toxic. stand up lady because this comment mean you are still sitting down.
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
@Andrene Murdock with all due respect I have never said anything untruthful about my mother. You don't know us and you certainly don't know me. I have been on a good path for 2 yrs and my mother still continues to spread lies. Even now recently on my partner as well. My other siblings are now realizing the manipulative behaviors too. It is getting worse. You have never dealt with it so you don't know. I wish you well but please do not judge what you are not capable of understanding. Lying about child abuse is a serious thing and can ruin lives especially when things are made up. Cps did a recent visit with my kids and it came out that SHE is the only one who abuses them and lies on everyone else. WHY? I DONT KNOW AND IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE. She is also keeping my brother from currently going to college she will keep him home and control him as well. ✌️ I don't need you to understand I spoke my truth and I know the facts 💯
@Myshelleallen
Жыл бұрын
Boy bye! The brother is controlled by his mom . Her mom is full of it and I’m not sorry. I loved this so many people hold my pass against me it’s not fair! Baby girl keep doing you and take care of those babies !!
@smustipher
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE how the mother came out and launched into an attack on the daughter. Kept up with accusation after accusation and denied ANY responsibility for the rift in the relationship. And the brother....a classic son husband. Tells his sister that she's "not a good person". Mom demanding a drug test, claiming that her daughter is "not emotionally present". Guess what, it isn't SAFE to be emotionally present in the presence of an abuser.
@krystolyncarpio6010
7 ай бұрын
This!
@nsenloo2685
Жыл бұрын
The 19 years old is a mama boy’s who see everything through his mom eyes. We see their relationship is different the way she behaves when she look at him.
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
I totally get where the daughter is coming from when she tells her brother you do not know mom like I know her. She like the boy has been brainwashed from his momma. I’m sure the mother treats him way better.
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
Im glad some people can see what's going on. Scary shit and I look back and wonder why she do these things to me and then deny it. She would probably deny ever even being on the show🙄
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 so sad I’ve seen these exact same things going on in my family.
@missluxxe6541
Жыл бұрын
Frrrr it’s like they were bullying her up there
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
@@missluxxe6541 she needs to just live her life without them.
@missluxxe6541
Жыл бұрын
@@klove7365 agreed
@carolynwhite9975
Жыл бұрын
I know what it feels like when your parents want let you live down your mistakes, constantly holding your mistakes against you, never seeing the good , the improvements, achievements you have made.
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
It's even worse when they try to secretly turn your kids and your lovers against you because of how they feel about you. But live and let live. Life must go on. Doubting yourself 24 7 can only happen if you allow them to change the way you feel about yourself. And we not doing that!!
@brittanyhunter3331
Жыл бұрын
In reality, your parents hold you to a higher standard than they held themselves, and 9/10 made the same or worse mistakes themselves. I know mine have, yet they are so punitive and judgmental, and won't acknowledge all of the growth and achievement.
@kilambuchapula5955
Жыл бұрын
But we’re all human so you can’t really blame your parents for feeling that way because you’ve been like that. But your parents also need to understand that you’re changing
@theobserver8
Жыл бұрын
@@kilambuchapula5955 what exactly do you mean by that?
@kilambuchapula5955
Жыл бұрын
@@theobserver8 it’s hard for people to understand that you’re changing when all they have seen is how you were. I’m not saying the mom is write but the has the benefit of doubt
@tashacraig4999
Жыл бұрын
I love the fact Jael is admitting to her mistakes. Stay focus love ❣️🌹❣️
@lisapolk9391
Жыл бұрын
And she is right her brother do not know in the last 15 years he wasn't there.
@COURTNEYVCK
Жыл бұрын
Right he needs to sit down, shut up and stay out of it
@melyblazegardens1883
Жыл бұрын
This is the most genuine talk show host I’ve ever watched. He truly cares for his guest and audience. Karamo heals families and relationship’s and gives his guest the strength and tools they need to cut toxic people from their life.
@MimiTthatsMe
Жыл бұрын
It seems as though the mother doesn't want to address what her daughter feels about her.... so she attacks her daughters motherhood
@camsmith931
Жыл бұрын
Very insightful observation!
@krystolyncarpio6010
7 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@carolinekamya2339
Жыл бұрын
boy - golden child - daughter - scapegoat - mom - narc big time
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
Facts 👏
@sandylane5498
Ай бұрын
Nailed it!
@unknownuser7064
Жыл бұрын
I feel like her mom is ignoring how she feels and how she is trying to do better for herself and her kids
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
She has always been like this and it's getting worse. She has made up the abuse accounts as well and I am tired of arguing and trying to prove myself. Me taking back control has caused her to completely lash out and now I'm no contact for my own mental sanity.
@mahoganyshanae6116
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 I been through this as well. I cut my mother and sister out 3 years ago. Go on with your life u can do it
@torronbrown4107
Жыл бұрын
My mom does the same
@britonyabanks
7 ай бұрын
Hang in there Love. You got this. You’ve done the work. We are so proud of you!!
@7Tiffany
Жыл бұрын
I just want to say, if you are a parent who is struggling and you feel the need to contact CPS, do it! There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking for support and resources!
@patricianyandoro5606
Жыл бұрын
Do they allow you to take back your kids when you are ready
@davis5218
Жыл бұрын
I just want to say I definitely agree with your comment and my name is Tiffany Davis also so Hey Girl!
@7Tiffany
Жыл бұрын
@@davis5218 Heyyy 💜
@keepingupwithtristan
Жыл бұрын
I WISH I HAD THE BALLS.......
@Prettypaid16
Жыл бұрын
@@patricianyandoro5606 no it’s gonna take a minute
@pennypillow4445
Жыл бұрын
its not actually about the daughter, the mum is projecting everything she hates about HERSELF onto her own daughter. she sees her missed youth, all the nights looking after the daughter. mothers like this are vile, they know how to act in front of people but behind closed doors they are the most abusive
@zohrabaybay
Жыл бұрын
The little brother needed to stay in a child’s place.
@caramelzz38mmines31
Ай бұрын
Amen!!!❤
@reddalchemy5970
Жыл бұрын
I literally stopped talking to my mother after the very last straw that broke my back. She treated me like crap growing up and never really showed any interest in me or showed any love for me at all. She always treated my brother like platinum and there was always a sense of hatred toward me. I felt horrible all the way into my adult years and a few years ago I finally had it. I Haven't spoke to her in at least 6 years, and have no idea if she is still living or not. During the coronovirus outbreak, and me living in Cali at the time, I did not get one single phone call or reach out from her or my family to even see if I was okay. I consider them to be strangers that I lived with and when people ask me about my "family," I say I am an Orphan. I have had such peace since breaking with them and live a nice and quiet life, with no drama at all.
@mamoonunpretty3439
Жыл бұрын
Hope you doing Well today
@tammiross6427
Жыл бұрын
❤🙏🏾
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate everyone's feedback. Happy New Year!
@sareyah_lxnai
Жыл бұрын
Happy new year!!! I hope everything is well for u and ur family❤
@makaylahenry79
Жыл бұрын
You need to listen to your mother because when she’s gone no one is gonna love your kids like her. You may have been hurt in the past but your mother is right!
@christinalewis3635
Жыл бұрын
.
@AminaBeans205
Жыл бұрын
Why did you leave your kids with your mom if you think she’s toxic?
@anaisjohnson1880
Жыл бұрын
Happy new years and God will Lead The WAY 🙏😇💪
@1tressaht
Жыл бұрын
That was exactly my family. It's actually scary. She was 15 when he was born. Of course he has no relationship and had a completely different mother.
@ClayMastah344
Жыл бұрын
TOTALLY different parent.
@tcrump212IsLmbrJck_t
Жыл бұрын
Jael is giving "FREE" energy. It's the WHOLENESS for me.
@tatiunamatthews9145
Жыл бұрын
SOME PEOPLE TAKE THEIR OWN LIFE AND THEIR CHIDRENS WHEN THEY HAVE MENTAL BREAKDOWNS, This woman is trying and she is healing! Kepp up all your hard work. We all go through depression but brighter days are ahead.
@FRANKIBABI_
Жыл бұрын
I believe the daughter and the son is on his mom's side which means he's gonna move how his mom moves because him and his sister don't have a relationship it's like he don't even know her🤦🏾♀️
@sabrina21clark
Жыл бұрын
The son spoke on he and his sister's absent relationship. He didn't even speak on he and his mother's relationship. He also spoke about having to speak directly to CPS on separate occasions. Y'all see and hear what you want to!
@FRANKIBABI_
Жыл бұрын
@@sabrina21clark no what he did was lie on here about CPS, let mee tell you something if CPS come 3 times you better believe some kind of action is gonna take place what he did was take his mother side.
@sabrina21clark
Жыл бұрын
@@FRANKIBABI_ not true. It depends on the severity of the case. And if there are family members that will help they will let them take the kids.
@thatonepersonyouknowtheper1741
Жыл бұрын
@@sabrina21clark if he talked to cps that much and they still didn’t take her kids then the people calling cps were either lying about the situation or over exaggerating it. It’s super easy to get cps to take action when a mother is actually abusive. Even in cases where mothers aren’t abusive but lack finances they could lose custody. It seems like her mom was making false claims to cps, cps opened a case, talked to family and searched for evidence of abuse, didn’t find any, and closed the case.
@pixelk8261
Жыл бұрын
Also with sons of narcissistic mothers, they are often seen as the golden child that cannot do any wrong. The sons (especially little brothers) witness how disobeying the mother can escalate, and they want to avoid that conflict. It's also EASIER for them to avoid that conflict, bc the mom is usually much more lenient with sons - the mom sees her own self hatred in her daughter, so she projects onto her
@ahearttoascend
Жыл бұрын
Go Jael go! I believe her. I wish nothing but more blessings, more health & healing, more open doors, & more happiness for her and her children. They deserve it!💕
@LifeMyAsJoana223
Жыл бұрын
It’s the fact she call the cps on herself because she was out of control and had nobody else to lean on!! leaving her kids with her mother would be a worst option than leaving them with a stranger!!! That says everything you need to know. Good job on holding yourself accountable! You are strong and beautiful 🌸 you did rehab and got the custody of your kids!!! She is doing more than fine 🌼 mom needs to stop using this narrative to control her. I would quickly move away from her.
@YOUR-WORD-IS-YOUR-BOND
Жыл бұрын
I had to cut ties with a few family members... the generational curses, dysfunctional behaviors, toxicity mindset, gossiping lies, and their thoughts of who we are were uncanny... The grandparents said who we are, but once the generational transitioned, the next generation came up with a whole different story... I can't deal with all of that mess!
@CfrmBr
10 ай бұрын
Life is too short fa da unnecessary bs tbh
@thephoenixrising4614
Жыл бұрын
The minute the Mother said "I never did anything...."- Lies lady. Lies.
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
Zero accountability for anything and never will. I love her but I had to let go and move on. At least now I know she thinks I'm a drug addict liar who abuses her kids. At least I got to hear it straight from her mouth and not other people. Closure was needed.
@334steven3
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 I truly hope you’re at peace now!
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 just hope you don't run off with another man again an drop your kids off with your mom so you can be free
@poohchi6205
Жыл бұрын
Where is the lie? She take care of her kids. Y’all sooooo traumatized adults go see a dam therapist and stop blaming your parents
@thephoenixrising4614
2 ай бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 I'm so happy for you. Healing, growth and closure. We as daughters deserve peace.
@terrencehead6213
6 ай бұрын
Her family is gaslighting her, making her seen crazy, they know exactly what there doing. 😮
@niqueness2988
Жыл бұрын
I believe the daughter and there is no reason for the mom to be saying horrible things behind her back. Why behind her back? Say how you feel to her face. That's shady.
@ClayMastah344
Жыл бұрын
Unsurprised. Treat daughter like shit and gaslight her, treat boy like gold and use him against her, next caller.
@candy123444
Жыл бұрын
This Mom said she's never done anything. She lost me right then. I believe the daughter. She stepped up and owned her mess. Her mother owned nothing. What I will give her is that she took her grand kids in. Mine did nothing for my child, so kudos to her for that, but she needs to face her faults.
@SweetUareDesi
Жыл бұрын
This woman is hella self aware- damn❤. I want a girl friend like her🥇
@Aqua-sm5lf
10 ай бұрын
She say her mom is toxic but I bet no one else was going to step up to the plate to take care of those kids for her.
@t.antoinette2383
Жыл бұрын
If the mother is a true narcissist the son could very well be the Golden Child and have been manipulated by the mother to go against his sister.
@Brook-ct3kk
Жыл бұрын
Karami missed the mark! He never questioned the mother’s behavior
@PrettyColorsDoe
Жыл бұрын
He realized they’re one in the same and stuck to the facts presented to him
@jolonda6961
Жыл бұрын
He always misses the mark! Always!
@fawn4271
Жыл бұрын
He often misses the mark, just like with defending the pink sauce lady
@poohchi6205
Жыл бұрын
What behavior exactly that her daughter going through something that’s why she does not have her children? Bcuz she spoke about the situation? Bcuz CPS had to speak with the family? All I heard was the mother speaks facts. If you want to say inappropriate or rude that she explaining or answering a question …..oh well it’s fact. I would not bite my tongue. The truth is the truth sugar coat it or hide it for what? To protect the daughter feelings???? Did she consider her mother feelings dropping her kids off
@teegreen3909
Жыл бұрын
Yea he is basic
@tracijvanderbilt7552
Жыл бұрын
Whew chile us 80s baby mannnn our parents did a number on us and will never admit to their faults. I'm 37 and gave up on those conversations with my parents
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
Yes they never will admit there faults ,then want to tell you how to raise your children
@dendenne4856
Жыл бұрын
And when you gave up on them, they complain because you never talk to them. This is an endless cycle, since I stopped trying with my mom my life is more peaceful
@tracijvanderbilt7552
Жыл бұрын
@@dendenne4856 Mines is peaceful as well. I love my parents from a distance and nothing is wrong with that❤
@branbranshenanigans1693
Жыл бұрын
This!!!!! I'm 41 years old and still not entitled to my own opinion.
@sss_Shaq1496
5 ай бұрын
This is my mom’s situation. She’s an 80s baby with an abusive mom. My grandmother did apologize, especially when she was on her death bed. But it was too late because my mother still harbored hatred towards her.
@MissTreStar
Жыл бұрын
I never understood how people can “cry” without shedding a tear😳 sobbing, sniffling, blinking yet not a tear in sight. Sure comes in handy when you don’t wanna mess your makeup. Glad Karamo was able to get to the bottom of it though.
@brittbritt6857
Жыл бұрын
BayBee, you did an awesome job getting both of them to agree to respect each other's space & trust each others headspace
@katherineraquelle1930
5 ай бұрын
I need to be on this show and bring my narc mom on it too 😊😂 lmao ❤
@victoriaaa4865
5 ай бұрын
was just tellin my sister we need to bring our dad on here
@angelphilbert1200
6 ай бұрын
The mother came to fight. Even her clothing shows how she wants to be combative. The brother is still living in the home with the mom. He truly cannot speak about things he knows nothing about. Jael should stay away from her mother. When the mother asked for Jael to do a blood test, she looked disappointed when she passed.
@ThatGirlGiGiNYC
Жыл бұрын
We need to talk about the toxic relationships that African American women have with their moms…This is not surprising…I know a number of women who have cut their mother's off because of toxicity! Mothers are sometimes jealous of their daughters…but we dont want to talk about that!
@toombs6287
Жыл бұрын
Story of my life
@ThatGirlGiGiNYC
Жыл бұрын
@@toombs6287 it's so crazy but real!!
@JillianSmall_ChildofGod
6 ай бұрын
Wow that son is full of it. He needs to take several seats. The mother is a toxic narcissist who is accusing her daughter of things she herself is guilty of. Unbelievable.
@sherikaofficial8079
Жыл бұрын
I think there is so much more left unsaid between both parties , I don't think this is properly resolved
@jael-mariewade4510
Жыл бұрын
You're right but half the stuff she had to say about me was the first time I was able to hear it from her mouth to my face so that was good to know she thinks I'm a pathological liar and bad mom. Bc I had only heard those things through other people before. So it let me have closure.
@wentoshiarichards1690
Жыл бұрын
@@jael-mariewade4510 I'm glad you and your kids are doing well ❤️🩹 You hold the power so this doesn't become a generation issue cut the toxicity out(mom, so called friends, siblings, whomever, and whatever) so ur not dealing with this from your children when they're grown I'll keep you in prayer God Bless you 🙏🏽
@insydi0us92
Жыл бұрын
That would take 3 episodes lol
@bgipper4109
Жыл бұрын
There is no shame in making mistakes in your past, owning up to them, and then doing what you need to do to move forward. Mom is toxic, our mothers gave birth to us but that doesn’t make them a amazing mother. There is a difference.
@salemhopson7676
Жыл бұрын
I get so sick to my stomach watching this, but feel so seen. it's very bittersweet. this is the biggest example i can show of the difference in daughters and sons to their mothers.. And her brother has been an ear to all of his mother's grievances, and he doesn't know anything other than that or before him. it makes me so sick how he's been turned fully against her.
@kathysneed4020
Жыл бұрын
I celebrate this young lady for getting to a better place in life. And thanks grandma! I think both ladies have their truths. It’s hard dealing with folks who are on drugs, so grandma had a point. They both will do best by leaving the past in the past.
@SlimBitchBam
Жыл бұрын
Our generation, 90’s kids please let’s be conscious of how we love our kids PLEASE!!!!! We have to break this cycle. My daughter KNOWS I don’t play with her. But I listen to my child, I apologize to my child, I make her know she is a HUMAN and not just MY CHILD! I love her so much and I want her to remember our experience in a good way 😊😊. LETS HEAL!
@helenburke3499
Жыл бұрын
Back in 1977, I joined the women's army back here in the uk, to get away from my toxic mother...watching from the south east of England 🇬🇧
@marierosario2773
Жыл бұрын
I love that he actually gives great advice
@Poptartsthatareplain101
11 ай бұрын
I love how the host really respected everybody in this episode. That is a good man and a good person.
@quianapreston8513
Жыл бұрын
Daughter still looking for mother's hugs
@Kisses2die4
5 ай бұрын
Sadly it don’t happen often
@amsay9688
Жыл бұрын
this video right when I needed it im currently having a headache depressed in my bed.
@pinkunicorn359
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to hear this but keep going and keep pushing. It’ll get better very soon, I promise 😘❤️
@jozey555
7 ай бұрын
SAME LOL
@katherinegruber499
3 ай бұрын
Reminds me of my mom. I recently cut her off. She played the victim the whole time in group therapy. She was crying about how she helped me so much with my kids and did nothing wrong. She also talks terribly about me to other people and is extremely controlling. My mom told me my sister doesn’t care about me and my kids and is jealous of us. Enough was enough.
@1991Meka
Жыл бұрын
7yrs ago I was very overwhelmed by life. I was MISERABLE at my job, behind on bills, and dealing with my child's unreliable father, all while being pregnant. So I was vulnerable with my only sibling and told her that sometimes I don't want to wake up she told me she was going to call CPS on me. Huh? I didn't say I was going to hurt my kids or myself. I said Iife is getting the best of me and I need a break. How about let me take the kids for a few days. Luckily, God held my hand through the storm and pulled it together.
@jvmcghee854
Жыл бұрын
This story hits home now that I am older with my own children, motherhood is hard and no one is perfect- everyone has a past. I like the fact that Jael is standing in her truth and trying to do better. The mom for me has a past too so we don't know the whole story, but you can see that there are scars on both sides and the advice Karamo has given was spot on. In my opinion, cutting ties is never the answer because the trauma & issues will still there. It's all about establishing boundaries in relationships, whether its her mom, brother, her man.... she has to determine what she will and will not tolerate. If its space you need- take it. LOVE IS THE MEDICINE.
@Matilda-re1wm
9 ай бұрын
My mother would never even come on something like this. They act innocent but they know fine well what they’ve done. They’re very aware. They do know what they are.
@dianamosley540
Жыл бұрын
He played around that mother/ brother jealous envious mean behavior I know I'm a mom with a first born man child that treats me this same way due to my horrible past choices in life😭 Baby the struggle is real 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@yve747
Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed KARAMO SHOW..I love how he listens to his guest and how he comes out with the right results..He’s super handsome, so cool, compassionate, soft spoken and, Karamo treats all his guest so nicely and respectful,toward all his guests..Karamo Show is going to be around for a longtime..kudos to Karamo Show keep doing what you doing on your show..It’s helping many people’s..I will be watching all his videos..
@mrs.reeves1006
Жыл бұрын
So, Gmama is SO toxic she abandoned them in her care🤔
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY what I just said
@oceanbella
Жыл бұрын
I've seen this plenty of times, with my aunt for example... they would literally treat the grandkids way better than they treat their actual children it's weird..
@Marina-dl2bg
Жыл бұрын
@@oceanbella true. My mom was not a good mother but she is my sons favorite person.
@pariikayy6472
Жыл бұрын
Yea My Mom Doesn't Love Me . Thats Just How I Feel But She Does For My Children But Me And Her Dont Get Along
@mrs.reeves1006
Жыл бұрын
@Parii Kayy do your children feel the same about you? What dysfunctional characteristics have you corrected to prevent a similar relationship between you and yours? Children emulate what they see, hear and experience.
@veronicawiltshire682
Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of the daughter, when you can see that you need help and make a decision you are going to get it, that is a big plus, your mother did not even congratulate you on getting this far, she is ready to say all the things you were doing, making it more difficult to more dangerous drugs, You are a beautiful person, hold your head high and do not let your mother pull you down if she was as good a mother as she is trying to say she is, she would have stopped smiling with her lies and hugged you for taking such a huge step to change for you and your children, only God knows what you went through as a child with her, she like she never like you. I am rooting for you so continue on this path, even if you can ease off the marijuana do it also....love that you took that step🙏🙏🙏❤
@terrisilaphoenix3695
Жыл бұрын
Jael needs to cut ties with her mother period and her brother. Live her own life. Bye mom.
@nakuro2686
Жыл бұрын
Damn kids born in the late 80s and 90s have been severely traumatized! Like damn!
@georgia1191
21 күн бұрын
I’m so proud of the daughter and I love KARAMO!! PERIODT
@CoffeeandCreamBookclub
Жыл бұрын
I like this show. The host is such a positive light.
@SharonPHolliman
3 ай бұрын
I LOVE HER ATTITUDE FOR LIFE!!!! GOD KNOWS THE REAL TRUTH AND HE WILL AVENGE THE RIGHTEOUS JUSTLY.❤❤❤
@mines5033
Жыл бұрын
Her mom didn't have to care for her kids when she ran off either. They both need help
@papinaomi7808
Жыл бұрын
She didnt but she chose to
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY my point, if her mother was so bad why leave them there
@julianna0404
Жыл бұрын
@@heathab...._-_ Based off all the things going on in that part of her life, i don't think she had the money for a nanny for 2 years . Lol
@Sabrewood13
Жыл бұрын
@@heathab...._-_ she probably didn’t wanna drive off the cliff with them
@ashwiththebash6905
Жыл бұрын
Mothers who did wrong by their children tend to look for a second chance through their grandkids
@onlythebrave4655
Жыл бұрын
my mother is a mess too.all ties cuts.
@alwaysaccurate8725
6 ай бұрын
This boy is not going to see it until he is grown and she rippes all his girlfriends out his life❤❤❤
@latashalogan8502
Жыл бұрын
Your show is so good but so short! Please give us longer episodes
@castrolauraand5588
Жыл бұрын
She's playing in the victim triangle. We all fall in those patterns when our family has been unhealthy, we have been programed to fail in that way. They will fight to keep us acting like that. It's better to separate to truly heal
@COURTNEYVCK
Жыл бұрын
Who’s playing the victim triangle? The mom or the daughter?
@lifeofneacy3891
Жыл бұрын
@@COURTNEYVCK I would said the mother is
@antanaejones7373
Жыл бұрын
She left her kids to run off with a man??
@_bucket_head_bihh9830
Жыл бұрын
She was in the wrong state of mind its a lot of cases of women running off with men, so I understand what she was coming from.
@longbranch11207
Жыл бұрын
Yet she wants to Blame her mother and make her mother out to be this monster while she ran off leaving her kids. Her mother had to take them in she sounds ungrateful to me
@iamidrac
Жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207she acknowledged she was wrong y’all aren’t listening, the mom still did something to her and won’t acknowledge that
@334steven3
Жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207 y’all really dumb asf. She held herself accountable and blamed herself for that mistake. Gtfo.
@yellej3314
Жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207 She said her mom was abusive beforehand, she had to go through something at home to make her do that in the first place. She is repeating her moms mistakes, classic case of generational curses but the point is she changed & her mom keeps bringing up the past when she is doing fine now. She already paid repercussions & seems like shes in a good place now.
@rororidley5829
Жыл бұрын
I thank the Universe for my mother. ❤
@angelicmedrano3032
24 күн бұрын
I'm 10 years older than my only brother. We have the same mom and dad, but a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT set of parents. They did their best with both of us, but 10 years of maturity made a difference
@vivicasmith5376
Жыл бұрын
The mom probably takes care of the brother still so he has no choice but to side with the mom
@toombs6287
Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@klove7365
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Ebony5001
Жыл бұрын
Pathetic typical anyways
@jollymollyramram9702
Жыл бұрын
Her mother is very overbearing - shutting down any attempt from her daughter to address how she feels. Very cold. And the brother, maybe he was nervous, but he came across a bit cocky and may have been fed some lies about his sister to be like this.The daughter seems like a good person I just hope she doesn’t smoke weed in front of her children. That’s unacceptable in my opinion, just as with cigarettes. Always take that outside.
@deliciahudson1529
Жыл бұрын
I feel her.... The grown daughter.
@mayawilkins9365
6 ай бұрын
as someone who WAS the golden child of a narcissist parent, he will realize everything that his mom was telling him was just to divide and accomplish her own ulterior goals. She wants him on her side to vouch and verify HER perspectives based on “experiences” she’s fed him about his sister. like she said she’s had to live and deal w her mom over a decade before him.
@trinityrae409
Жыл бұрын
I thought I loved Steve and Jerry etc and the subtle love yourself advice etc but this man hits different! So much truth in what he speaks.
@reginaharrigan7454
Жыл бұрын
Her mom full of it and her brother seems like a mom's boy good luck with that
@armenthiagarmon
Жыл бұрын
The brother was born when she was 15 a really critical age of a young girl who needs and wants the attention of her mother. What may seem trifling to one maybe paramount to another, especially in a child. Girls tend to be more vocal than boys, emotions can be all over the place. I think mom and daughter needs stop judging each other for the past and in their future come up with a workable plan for their future.
@sueparks-ld4ru
Жыл бұрын
hes amazing and right the mother was just worried for her and the kids,i hope now they can fix all the problems
@angelacleveland75
2 ай бұрын
Once she admitted to dropping her children off with her mom, she lost all credibility. Your mom was so horrible that you left your offspring with her? Miss me with that BS.
@sabrina21clark
Жыл бұрын
These days everyone wants to feel bad for the adult child and vilify the elder parent. And in some cases it's warranted. But this case is quite simple. If the adult daughter thought her mother was so toxic and wants to cut ties with her why does she have custody of her children??? Why are they with her 5 days a week to go to school? How you gonna cut ties with someone who has your children 5 days a week? If the title was at all true she would have come on the show saying "I'm gonna keep my kids at home with me and they won't go back to their grandma's because she's toxic, emotionally manipulative and I'm cutting ties with her." Period! But as we see, that's not the case. Her mother seems quite stable and straight forward, is doing a great job seeing to her grandchildren that she doesn't HAVE to! The adult daughter seems spoiled and needs to prove herself to her children. She's placing the blame of her mistakes on her mother who is bearing the burden of her kids. Ridiculous! Grandma didn't walk away from her kids and run off with a guy. SHE did. We're definitely in the time where people make what's good evil and what's evil good. The Bible says it would happen and children will be against their parents. That's all this is. And she can't in one breath say "you're being controlling and emotionally manipulative and need to take a step back from being over protective or scared" and in the next breath throw up in her mom's face "well if that's the case, you have legal custody of my kids so why didn't you do something, you also have a responsibility to them" bih what??? Now if THAT ain't some emotional manipulation! See y'all don't catch this ish because you're too busy blaming the matriarchs and coddling the self proclaimed grown brats! And to Karamo, how is she gonna back all the way up when she has ALL of HER kids???
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY everything you said
@jamesgibson3716
Жыл бұрын
Whoooooo!!!! You are making too much sense here..the last thing she needed was to become a single mother. It's hard enough taking care of yourself. People gotta make better choices.
@ariamarshall5161
Жыл бұрын
🎉THANK YOU!!!!! I’m reading the comments like are we all watching the same show?
@poohchi6205
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, you said it better
@25stallions15
Ай бұрын
The Comment I was waiting for,we'll said, also there was a video of this girl dropping her kids of with her mother to go be with a man, she was telling her mom that she didn't want the kids and was not phased about it walking to her car. The daughter is the Narcissist and good at it but she couldn't fool me.
@ablacksquare
Жыл бұрын
I was mad confused at first. Karamo hit the nail on the head.
@mines5033
Жыл бұрын
Cut ties? What about when and if she needs her to TAKE her kids again???
@heathab...._-_
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY because it seems to me a man is more important then her kids
@andriajefferson8902
Жыл бұрын
Something about the daughter is not sitting right with me........... I FEEL IT!!! Like God is placing soothing within that just isn't right here. There's something that seems inauthentic!!!
@25stallions15
Ай бұрын
Your feelings are on point, I feel the same
@diamonddb
Жыл бұрын
Whew!! She described my mother! Which is why I cut mine off and refuse to look back.
@bem6344
2 ай бұрын
My mom so toxic! I'm tired of trying. I feel your pain!!
@mariacrouch7109
Жыл бұрын
What matters is now and that what counts and parents aren't perfect they make mistakes they either fix them mistakes or they don't
@truself108
Жыл бұрын
I believe tht the mom genuinely loves her kids and grandkids, but she has probably been taught some toxic behaviors that she hasn't recognized yet. The same is happening with the son. The mom has painted a bad image of his sister. But overall I think they all have some work that needs to be done
@TCA4381
Ай бұрын
I really love Karamo’s advice
@raindrops4284
Ай бұрын
The daughter so ready and happy to tell all her business
@gibsontaxes3344
Жыл бұрын
If she cuts her mom out, does she still want the mom to watch the kids? I'm so confused. Others I know who feel as she does, take their children once their life has improved. She says she is appreciative of her mom, but not really.
@angeldiannah8306
Жыл бұрын
There’s a lot of blame and not a lot of accountability
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