"If patience is beneath you, love is beyond you" that's good!
@Jasmyne444
5 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
@ForessaAnn
5 жыл бұрын
Yeeeees!!!!! That caught my spirit in a chokehold! 🤣Glory!🙏 #Helphimmeethisassignment
@htrimmm915
4 жыл бұрын
You guys are soooooo good😍😎
@whitneyc5909
4 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!! That’ll preach!!!
@marnaesmith2247
5 жыл бұрын
“You can’t help people that you’re not assigned to” TRUTH💯
@MsDee-xc8uc
3 жыл бұрын
"You need patience to do life with people"....I felt that. I need patience to go to the grocery store.
@servantofchrist5085
3 жыл бұрын
Hahah yas sis😂👌🏾💯
@wandasantillo1678
6 жыл бұрын
We are not to be unequally yoked. Don't marry someone who does not put Jesus#1 in his life.
@heliaalves9062
4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! God will bless you for obeying Him.
@queenlanderson9052
4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@virtuouswoman7554
4 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@emefaamadah6319
5 жыл бұрын
Lord help me to be suitable for my husband and a helper
@DevineLoved
6 жыл бұрын
I actually do have patience this time around because I know what I want so I’m praying and developing my relationship with God first
@msdeej538
4 жыл бұрын
Akua,,, Amen Sista'
@servantofchrist5085
3 жыл бұрын
Amen sister!
@swpministry
8 жыл бұрын
Another great video guys!! One thing I've learned as a single woman is that we have to grace men to grow. Also, we should practice in singleness what we want to perform in marriage. If we're not patient women in singleness, we won't magically become patient when we get married. We can practice patience now with the people already in our life!
@lotusflower1030
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you... This resonates with me.
@shalanathomas7751
5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!! We ought to practice patience in our singleness👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@KMBrown-ro7dh
3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@servantofchrist5085
3 жыл бұрын
Word
@nadinegomez8858
3 жыл бұрын
It’s not the way things are supposed to be though. Men are supposed to LEAD. They’re just choosing to be lazy
@kendrajohnson8255
7 жыл бұрын
"if patience is beneath you, then love is beyond you" #GoodWord
@m.katrinafox795
8 жыл бұрын
You all are saying what I try to tell women all the time. Women don't really and truly grasp what they're saying when they say they want to be married. So glad I found your channel! My husband and I pour out all the time so we are looking for wise kingdom couples to pour back into us.
@ramonaturner401
5 жыл бұрын
Everything you say is exactly what I need to hear in this season of my life...
@HeatherMrsBassDrum
7 ай бұрын
This just humbled me. Been married 4 years and didn't realize my words carry weight. I said something real hurtful to my hubs because I was becoming impatient with him. I have to accept him in the process and help! Whewwww wee thank you! God bless you.
@stacymclain5149
5 жыл бұрын
I will help my man through his process.I will work with him to walk out becoming his best.
@corlisschristopher3616
4 жыл бұрын
Omg!! This was sooo good!! I needed this reminder to continue to encourage my king while God is working on us!!Thank you!!🙏🏾🥰🙌🏽
@JemiBee
4 жыл бұрын
Women have the characteristics of the Holy Spirit : The Helper, The Comforter. God the Father, The Holy Spirit, The Son : An imagery of a family - reflected on his creation - Us humans.
@cindyaa2664
5 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this video and it's like God lead me to this video - I have been struggling with a man that I am seeing and what is holding me back in making a decision if we should marry is that I feel like the guy is not at the "level" I want him to be spiritually but this taught me I need to be patient because this man does love Christ and is willing to grow in his faith so I need to be patient in his walk and I can't judge his walk with Christ because each person shows their faith differently but I feel that he can take the reins and be the spiritual leader - I just have to be his helper and give him confidence and not tear him down with demands.. :)
@pytchrissy4536
5 жыл бұрын
You guys have blessed me so much! I'm a single woman & have been in the "wait". The knowledge & wisdom that you both have shared has opened my eyes, made the wait easier, along with providing clarity. Such an empowering couple! Blessings to you both**
@hadarahbatyah
6 жыл бұрын
That was good. I need to memorize that patience quote. "If patience is beneath you, Love is beyond you." That's the truth right there. 100 per cent.
@teepepalightup4783
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This was very informative! I don’t think I am ready for a relationship at this time! No patience or willingness at this time! Thanks for this for sure
@embraceiturbeautiful
4 жыл бұрын
Ooooh that’s good!! “If Patience is Beneath You, LOVE is BEYOND You!”
@gracecosta1042
3 жыл бұрын
U2 are the best of the best. Thank you so much
@alicemutuma15
4 жыл бұрын
We are called to be their cheerleaders
@1908prettylawyer
8 жыл бұрын
I would love to hear yall's thoughts on this same issue from the opposite perspective. I hear/read so much about how patient a woman is supposed to be and how much Christian women should basically "put up with"...but where's our help??? Where's our praise, encouragement, and unwavering commitment??? It just seems to me that more often than not, women have a natural desire to love, serve, and assume the Help Meet role, but where's the reciprocity? Please don't get me wrong...I actually AGREE with the underlying message of this video, but if a wife is doing all this for her husband, two questions come to mind: (1) What is that husband doing for her in return, and (2) What left does that wife have to give to her children & other loved ones? Because all that helping (which often feels more like dragging/carrying) often leaves a woman depleted. ...And another question (sorry, yall really got me thinking today! LOL!)...Why are women constantly told that we should accept a man that isn't quite there yet, but a Christian woman has to already be at her full Godly potential for a Christian man to view her as his potential bride? I guess this litany of questions all boils down to: WHY THE DOUBLE STANDARD???
@Beredefined
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂 we did do a Webisode from a different perspective entitled "The Ephesians 5 Man" check it out kzitem.info/news/bejne/o5t-rIWVa2t-Z2U
@Beredefined
8 жыл бұрын
Also we did a Webisode called "Can You Lead Her" check that one out too, some webisodes lean more on men and others more on women, over all we seek to always be gender balanced! Here's the link to "Can You Lead Her" kzitem.info/news/bejne/mKuZnaGGbWh9q6g
@1908prettylawyer
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Have to re-watch those & get out of my feelings. LOL! God bless! :-)
@Beredefined
8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Yes!!!!, it's alright we understand, that's why we addressed it too. Blessing to you as well!
@charmingcharlie011
7 жыл бұрын
REDEFINED TV I watch all of you guys videos! Love, love, love what y'all are about! My question is, for this particular topic, where is the line drawn between being patient and helping him to making him a project? So I assume that the man should at least have some type of knowledge of Christ, some desire for a closer relationship with Him...Is this about helping the man who you know that God has purposed in your life as a potential spouse or are we to help and be patient with all men (the ones we date and it goes nowhere )? Again, is there a line drawn between patience with a man...or woman and turning them into a project? Thanks! +redefinedtv
@ramonaturner401
5 жыл бұрын
You two are beautiful!!
@sheenasong
4 жыл бұрын
I have this friend and I was bothered so much thinking about him. He is not a christian but he has a quality of a man that I always see towards him. But he leaves me when I said something about him so bad and after that he didn’t communicate. I don’t know about relationship, how to handle it that’s why I hurt people so much. I always think about myself and view a relationship to be perfect and whenever I saw a guy who does bad things that I don’t like, I end things up. I prayed to God so much and my acts was exposed that I realized the problem was all about me. I heard all your advices and it convicts me so much. God chastened me. I hope to be a woman God wants me to be and be a helper to a Man in which that is a quality of a woman. It’s not too late after all to begin again and I thanked God for the two of you❤️ You have been a great counselor to me🙂
@kymmerialucas2379
4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Love this topic!!! After watching this it just made me smile and encouraged me to lift my husband up and to be positive around him. Thank you so much. - Kym Lucas
@lashondras1
5 жыл бұрын
"if patience is beneath you, love is beyond you." PREACH!!!!
@servantofchrist5085
3 жыл бұрын
I just love mr and mrs flowers man what a blessing! I could listen to you guys all day👏🏾😍🥰
@eudieg4035
4 жыл бұрын
This is so timely!!!! Yes! Even after 3 years 😊. God bless you guys!
@louisefallonengobikond
5 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha, "did you all get toilet paper?". That was great.
@ladyt9169
5 жыл бұрын
God timing is the best..
@chizetteparlor887
Жыл бұрын
4/29/22....i am looking forward to hearing TESTimony from GOD ORDAINED MARRIAGES....i have been single YEARS....i have zero potential in my life..... THANK YOU LORD fir blessing individuals with YOUR ORDAINED MARRIAGES to bring glory to YOU LORD and helping others heal and showing THE LOVE OF GOD 🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏼🔥🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏼🔥HOLY SPIRIT CONSUME
@princessgobah4622
8 жыл бұрын
Wow already have me thinking this early in the morning....I'm single but thanks for reminding me that it is more than just being a bride...thanks for letting me realize that he does not have to be a finish product when he arrives...I also can't believe how fast your page is growing...God bless you both, your marriage and family!
@lotusflower1030
5 жыл бұрын
Amen... I love to see the process of progression. It's awesome to watch nature: how a plant can move from a seed, into a bud, next a flower and then in a few yes it becomes a full on tree... What an amazing journey and transformation. If I can appreciate that then I definitely can appreciate the process God will take my future husband thru as well 😇
@Mssweet25
Жыл бұрын
All this amazing knowledge, and wisdom while I'm in my single season🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾.
@LonjeMarie7
4 жыл бұрын
Just now in my backyard getting a little bit impatient ,I told myself I’m sure that God is preparing me for something, so stop and have praise and appreciation. Gratitude goes a long way.
@itsjustnecole7211
8 жыл бұрын
love, love and love this message. thank you
@BLouieMusic
5 жыл бұрын
I felt this with my entire being! Lol Anointed Wisdom y’all are giving us.
@ForessaAnn
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for helping us! God bless your union....it blesses my soul! I won't settle for anything less than God's will & God's best. "If patience is beneath you, love is beyond you"......that's a WORD! #worththewait
@GyvaniaTheGodmutha
7 жыл бұрын
My goodness this video hit home soooooo hard I'm in 😭 tears I know my husband is my Ephesians 5 and we went from worldly to saved to young adult pastor and wife. God has moved so much with our ministry and life but I feel there is so much between us relationship wise that needs to change little did I know it's both but mostly me. I need to stop assuming the role he is lacking and encourage him to be in position. Because if I keep doing that and looking at him like why you not doing it, I'm out of order next thing you know I'm wearing pants that don't fit me. And I feel less of a woman because I'm to busy being the boss man, but then fight him because he is being the man to. This just made my heart sink into my stomach. Yiu no that feeling of conviction when the Holy Spirit says yeah I'm talking to you. 😭😭🙌😫
@caywamaedwards-cottle2789
6 жыл бұрын
ModelbadTV I feel you... I am struggling with the same. I am recognising more and more how much I need to grow.
@gabicreighton7885
4 жыл бұрын
Break_Free, I absolutely admire your transparency. I pray your relationship with your hubby has improved by now.
@janeg1575
4 жыл бұрын
Timely. Thank you 🙏🏻
@keyluv1765
6 жыл бұрын
I have to say,each time I tried to help the few guy friends I did have or generally encourage them.. they begin to think I was there wife. #Counterfeits.. Which consisted of them trying to convince me that they were the one. I know for a fact God will confirm in my spirit whomever my Kingdom man is. Being sad, It's to the point I had to end friendships. One in particular is still persistent. I feel he is a good guy,but not for me. No matter what I say, some where in His fantasy land ,he thinks I'm just challenging him for the wait. I have said countless times the best relationship overall is to first establish an intimate relationship with God and do his will and not for the sake of me. and He'll be able to find his Queen. After all of the frustration, though he is a good guy,I'm honestly thinking about disregarding him aswell. I felt I was called to help him grow in wholeness, but he doesn't want to accept me as a friend. I truly want the best for him.. However i may be sad for the moment to not speak to him moving forward. But it's as simple as this...If no one can respect my movement for God then I have no problem removing what could potentially be toxic. Either I will cut him off or My Father will. If he doesn't know how to stay in His lane.# I don't care for confrontation and quit frankly he's becoming a headache😫
@lakristenbenton5214
8 жыл бұрын
I love y'all and everything the two of you have to say 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I'm here in bed and my mind was all over the place I didn't know why my phone went off letting me know a new video was up and everything y'all said spoke to my heart thank you so much❤️ And I just sent this message to like 10 of my girlfriends married and unmarried
@kaiflowers7429
6 жыл бұрын
I Love you guys oneness. Your Spirits just match. You are truely platforms for such a time as these we are in to be a beckon of light and encouragment to the masses. Im Godly grateful that you and your wife are allowing God to use you in this capacity. Brother I can tell that you dwell with your wife according to wisdom just as the bible calls you to do. You 2 have a sister in christ in me. Sincerely" Kai Flowers
@elmyra.jackson
4 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!! The wisdom in this video is at mountain level!!! Thank you for teaching what God taught this old girl years ago!! God bless you!!
@lisam1259
6 жыл бұрын
love you guys tremendously! amazing how you both just flow together...I can feel the Holy spirit leading. ty🤗
@lelovejackson953
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys so much I have literally watched this video 5 times only because GOD kept takin me back to it & I was getting frustrated because I couldn't understand why he kept taking me back by this time as I sit and type this with the tears flowing down my face I heard the Lord say he has me right where he wants me because I didn't just view the video but I listened and heard it too so Glory be to God for you both being so obedient and transparent Wow !!! Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Love you guys
@latashiawashington7378
8 жыл бұрын
A Webisode worth sharing on so many levels. Thanks for helping me understand from both perspectives on this issue. Marriage and engaged to me married is a challenge. I am learning more than it is just from being a bride. This is something some of those that have been married for over years time can get lost as well.
@designzbyjulez9838
4 жыл бұрын
Blessings!!!!
@hersoultalk6354
4 жыл бұрын
Y’all are the bomb🙌🏾🙌🏾 thank you lord for the vessels
@mjfortune1
7 жыл бұрын
The wisdom shared by the Flowers is priceless. When I listen, there is deeper and deeper revelation. Thanks to you guys. I see you guys producing and directing movies based on these principles. The world needs this😉
@ToEnlightInLove
5 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video 30+ times over the last year and the Lord keeps revealing more and more to me through it. At this point, this was my final confirmation about my male friend.. God already told me my assignment is to help him, but I was still expecting a finished project, instead of appreciating how God is using me and the things He has delivered me from to help him overcome those very same spirits ❤ glory
@kelvinpotter1775
5 жыл бұрын
Hey, Jerry and Tanisha! I’ve just stared watching you guys on KZitem, and I really like your Ministry! You two keep it 100, and the Wisdom of God coming from you two has really blessed me in a short time! I am getting in place to soon receive my Help Meet, and you two have really given me some good truth to build on . Keep following your Kingdom Assignment, and I look forward to seeing you more and more!
@Dd-po2ij
5 жыл бұрын
That's right when a woman walk's in the room help show's up. Lord. I love this TRUTH.
@msdeej538
4 жыл бұрын
Hallelujah!!!!! Teach!! this is Sooooooooo G👀D... ✋
@lungilekeithmakhubela9928
4 жыл бұрын
1 minute in and I'm sold😂😂😂. I can't wait for the rest of it❤.
@doramilaje9750
5 жыл бұрын
I truly hope I am blessed with a Man of God for a husband. I have had to deal with abandonedment my entire life. I have never imagined a man caring and protecting me like God with the church. I put my faith into action.
@Patrizia4Christ
7 жыл бұрын
OMG ~ guys you are preaching the Truth. Bless you!
@tesfamerid6443
7 ай бұрын
God bless your ministry ❤
@tyraresilient2812
4 жыл бұрын
So true. Wow amen I waited for him for 39yrs.
@QueFranklin-fn4pj
4 ай бұрын
Yes this made me smile.
@cicihenderson9044
7 жыл бұрын
A guy recently pursued me and he spoke as if he were saved. We no longer speak anymore because I felt like he didn't understand boundaries. For instance, I always had to say don't touch me because I don't belong to you. He went to church and bible study, but I just didn't feel like he was truly following Christ and I made that known. Was I wrong for stopping that relationship if he was trying? Before I clipped the cord I had 1 million conversations and nothing changed, in my defense. I just didn't want to have to recover again over not being sensitive to Gods word and his way.
@missshantae24
6 жыл бұрын
Cithrah Henderson You were 💯%correct sis! And don't look back! God is Faithful and True!
@ladydignity
4 жыл бұрын
I am going through this right now! I tried to cut the guy off,but he tries to pursue me anyhow!
@DUHORIGINAL007
6 жыл бұрын
i dont have patience... thats why i dont have relationships
@amaryllisbrooke8098
4 жыл бұрын
Patience my friend.
@samiam12blessed
2 жыл бұрын
Loud and clear
@sa-vb7zi
5 жыл бұрын
😊👍👍🔥🔥🔥🕊. Thank you! Patience, yes, is key 🙏🕊.
@wenterrenee3005
8 жыл бұрын
As always right on time...thanks for giving me a different perspective on God's purpose for a help mate. God bless!!
@renren5685
8 жыл бұрын
looll what about the lotion? you know y'all ashy! thanks again for a very real talk!
@lashondras1
5 жыл бұрын
These talks are amazing. Thank you!
@mstramaine
8 жыл бұрын
Yall have been on POINT these past few wedisodes! Wow!!! I have lost out on good men being inpatient. smh........ Wanting him to march to my drum beat instead of encouraging him right where he was. If God gives me another chance, I won't make the same mistake again. Thanks guys you're awesome.
@downtownon7thavenue
7 жыл бұрын
I need to just quit playing and subscribe 😂. New subbie. Now back to my marathon of all you alls videos 😂😂😂
@designzbyjulez9838
4 жыл бұрын
This is Good!!! Open my spiritual mind even more.
@KeepHealingSis
4 жыл бұрын
God I thank You for this mighty powerful and on time word. He knows my true heart and covers every step I take in this process of becoming. Thank you both for your incredible ministry and for allowing God to use you in such a mighty way. You’ve helped to change my mindset about many things concerning marriage and relationships. Many continued blessings to your ministry. #TOTALsurrender 🙌🏾
@taramunroe9065
7 жыл бұрын
Very good stuff indeed! This really helped a friend of mine and even me in my own marriage. #Godbepraised #providence #keepitgoing
@jeniffermeyer568
4 жыл бұрын
So now my question: how do I know that I'm assigned to be the helper of this particular guy? How to know if I'm wasting my time on a counterfeit while I really should be waiting for what's assigned to me and vice versa?
@estherngongi3977
4 жыл бұрын
Ouch... - You might not be suited to be their helper- took me 19yrs to figure that out... Painful but as they say your struggles are there for a lesson to be applied at some time... Am holding on to this reflection for dear life... Trying to be still and not act on my own understanding so God waiting in my single season... Stay blessed y'all 😊
@themindofchrissy
2 жыл бұрын
This video was so much confirmation thank you for it!
@godschild9932
7 жыл бұрын
YES GOOD FAITHFUL SERVENTS OF GOD YALL IS GOD FRIENDS YOUR NO LONGER HIS SERVENTS BUT HIS FRIENDS
@lesleyaddison1999
2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!
@LonjeMarie7
4 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely correct right before I clicked on this video there is one area right now where I’m being impatient .Even though it had nothing to do with relationships ,it still appliesI. told myself stop ,it may feel good for the moment but I’m blocking my own blessings. I needed this video thank you. Although I am a work in progress I definitely can see my progress
@josecastillo3923
5 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen Amen Thank you Jesus.
@paulaferguson1256
11 ай бұрын
Redefined TV has redefined and transformed the way I was looking at things. It's a pleasure to support you.
@byhisgracemarriageministry
4 жыл бұрын
Aside from the Bible, you all are helping me prepare for the marriage God may call me to 💕
@antonettewambani805
6 жыл бұрын
a timely message
@Miriam84Akizimana
5 жыл бұрын
I tried for 3 years with the wrong dude,and he looks exactly like you which makes it even harder to watch your video but , you are truly man of God like your wife said ,it is just he looked like you physically not spiritual and emotional
@shyvondapritchett8637
2 жыл бұрын
I NEEDED all of this!!! Thank you both!! 🙏❤️🙏
@db4419
4 жыл бұрын
These two...😂😂🙏🙏
@gloriarobinson6820
4 жыл бұрын
God is taking him thru the process right now and Im patient
@alliestarkweather
4 жыл бұрын
Loved this one. I just gotta day, I really do enjoy your videos and man I take heed to every word God puts in you. I don’t like to rely only on videos and so I need to seek God to the point you guys know him. I love the wisdom and the word you two share. You really help a sister in Christ out!!!
@LovelyPeach40
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you I am learning so much from you too esp the Men part. I have give my love for Husband that didn't appreciate me.
@jmichel1
7 жыл бұрын
Men need help. Wowowow! #helpmeet
@carrissapowell120
6 жыл бұрын
Wow rich word I see help meet in a whole new light I don't know I came across your channel...all i say is ....Thank God I did at this appointed time
@lydiarugh6471
3 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy. im here at work and want to jump up in this office and do a dance.
@ritamuraguri7367
5 жыл бұрын
Wow!
@SterlingChris-tion
Жыл бұрын
THIS IS GOOD!!!
@kajekaje1432
6 жыл бұрын
So what is it? Should we settle for a man who is trying to change or a man who is changed and shows the fruits but still needs work? Ppl who say they are trying to change can say they are trying yet never change. That’s wasting your time?
@joyricherson4570
4 жыл бұрын
The last guy told me he loved how organized I am. He said he really loved how I loved God.. Well that lasted about 2 months. When I tried to help him be more organized by little things like the importance of a calendar to SEE you how you spend your time. Or tracking your finances to SEE HOW YOU'RE SPENDING. Or even something like cooking a big meal on Sunday so you can take some Monday and Tuesday so you won't have to eat fast food EVERY.. SINGLE... DAY.. THEN .. COMPLAIN... ABOUT.. YOUR.. WEIGHT. Well he appreciated my help.. As long as it didn't change him! Confused🤔😕
@minimalassembly7893
4 жыл бұрын
Those are wife activities, he did not deserve all of that. Save that type of help for your husband.
@byhisgracemarriageministry
4 жыл бұрын
I love love this video!!! I will absolutely be a help meet to the one God has for me
@gracielasalinas7635
4 жыл бұрын
Awesome word I needed this message guys" thank you God Bless you
@brahmabkitty03
4 жыл бұрын
My friends and I appreciate y'all!!!
@queenlanderson9052
4 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord!
@vacollegeboy09
3 жыл бұрын
This is great
@joyricherson4570
4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! I understand that I'm the one to encourage, uplift etc... But who gives that to me?
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