She wants them to experience there for she turned it into an experiment. Experiments are not always bad. Rember that.
@deziiluv
10 ай бұрын
Tbh dating is an experiment in the 1st place if u think bout it. Each experience isn't the same. Some work some don't. U kinda just go thru different things n find out wht works for u.
@papasmurf9146
10 ай бұрын
@@deziiluv completely correct. There are two types of dating: (1) I just want to have fun, and (2) I want to know if I want to spend the rest of my life with you. Every date that falls into (2) is an experiment to see if you're compatible and can build a life together. As far as "take home to meet my crazy family" ... that's true for everyone that has a family. The only normal people are the ones you don't know.
@sanjuro_493
11 ай бұрын
It's cool that these interviews are actually about actual women. I feel like the internet is really deatatched from reality when it comes to know what a woman wants/ thinks.
@hulklikesnutella7236
10 ай бұрын
The thing is they don’t think😂😂😂😂😂
@earlcollier4119
10 ай бұрын
@@hulklikesnutella7236men don't think either
@jinnxx2729
10 ай бұрын
@@hulklikesnutella7236bruh, another man degrading woman. Nothing new. I would think hundred times before accepting any man into my life.
@MADOUT_VPS
10 ай бұрын
It’s because podcasts are too fixated on interviewing women who are sex workers or women who really treat their genitalia as a door knob and have no self respect so it’s refreshing to interview normal people
@iammar1159
10 ай бұрын
@@earlcollier4119 dudes don’t AT all.
@lmeesgad4823
10 ай бұрын
i admire how she knew what exactly how she feels
@robertbabic80
10 ай бұрын
Well that should be common in people. Especially adults. She is exagerating.
@lmeesgad4823
10 ай бұрын
@@robertbabic80 what exactly is common about that !
@medfibezk8745
10 ай бұрын
@@lmeesgad4823 what isn't common about a person knowing how they're feeling? Lol
@lmeesgad4823
10 ай бұрын
@@medfibezk8745 it's a huge thing to know exactly how you feel and knows how to express that is another thing most of people don't know how to do it ! Am not talking about the expressing part alone , but knowing exactly what is the feeling you are having and how you felt about it when it happened , and how it effects you at the moment at through out your life ; note that every aspect of this need to be expressed and the majority of people don't even knows it has all these aspects if not more ! so they don't know how to answer such a question . so yeah it's not that easy at all !
@medfibezk8745
10 ай бұрын
@@lmeesgad4823 easy =/= common. Bunch of over dramatic nonsense, understanding your emotions is not a feat but after a reply like that I'm not interested in talking to you so I regret starting this interaction 😂
@sydneyboyd615
9 ай бұрын
I can relate as a Black woman. My husband is adoring and I’m grateful for it. But when I was single, I stayed open minded to a lot of races and I slowly learned the harsh truth that many of them just wanted to cross me off the list. It’s a gross feeling.
@wildhalo2769
7 ай бұрын
Sadly, it's very true.
@Claudio55278
7 ай бұрын
People tend to marry with someone similar to them. I'm from Europe and here the Asians and the Indians don't really look for local people. I don't know why, but i guess they found it easier to marry within their race. The africans are the most open to marry an European.
@normant5056
7 ай бұрын
@@Claudio55278 that is because they dont plan to assimilate to your culture even though they moved to your country.
@samwisegamgee1243
7 ай бұрын
@@normant5056not necessarily. Sometimes it's because, as the woman in the video said, is easier for us to marry among our own people who are already familiar with our cultural habits, languages, expectations, etc. Research shows it's also less stressful in the long run when it comes to dealing with parents and raising children. That's not to say other ethnicities can't and don't learn, because there are plenty of wonderful interracial couples who mutually practice the culture together and have peaceful relationships.
@NoRockinMansLand
7 ай бұрын
That would really depend on what part of Africa@@Claudio55278
@jaydunstan1618
Жыл бұрын
This is a powerful woman. Superb self analysis. BTW you are beautiful.
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@thechatterbot
Жыл бұрын
Yeah holy crap
@MeZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZzZ
Жыл бұрын
Simp.
@leehogg4624
Жыл бұрын
She just lacks any self confidence.
@d1andonlydp
Жыл бұрын
She’d be powerful IF she had confidence but sounds like she’s working on it
@amberdavis7481
11 ай бұрын
A lot of people think they are ugly until they move.
@aantaa.7618
10 ай бұрын
This is so true
@QueenOfTheCoast
10 ай бұрын
So trueee
@vernondavis561
10 ай бұрын
A 6 out of 10 in the eastern hemisphere is still a 6 out of 10 in the western hemisphere.
@RachealEde-oh8hk
10 ай бұрын
True!!
@Goodhello369
10 ай бұрын
As white guy who married asian. Dont do it. The cultural differences too much. In the end it doesnt mix well. Too completely different cultures. It eventually comes clear. Whether its 3 or 7 years.
@Metoki-cq2sf
9 ай бұрын
I’m Latina and I’ve never compared myself to a blonde white girl. Don’t really understand why women do this. Please never let yourself feel inferior ladies.
@iryna_u4
9 ай бұрын
exactly, she thinks we have a line up based on a very few high school examples 😂😂😂
@OmaAlkebulan-grace
9 ай бұрын
They worship so call white people they have a inferior mentality and need validation from the Ruling People😮
@mrmillennium2697
9 ай бұрын
Chick just date an Asian dude
@Fr-xp9ez
9 ай бұрын
I love crazy families...I would date her in a instant....
@johnbrown7911
9 ай бұрын
High school is a little different than adulthood but we men love an "exotic" woman. I think what we like more than ethnicity is boobs and booty, especially is high school.
@JesusizLordovall
8 ай бұрын
Your a keeper, have more confidence with your humility; it's priceless.
@abcdef-l2c8t
6 ай бұрын
0 humility. White guys like asian women, but shes just not that attractive. If she were to grow up in an asian nation, she would still not be very popular with the boys. Possibly even less popular. "Boys didn't like me cause racisms" no, you are just a 5/10 with the attitude of a 9/10.
@lmcc0072
10 ай бұрын
I live in California. There’s no such thing as a short Asian girl that can’t get a date.
@-8h-
9 ай бұрын
California sucks because of the people that live there. The Cali dating scene is probably one of the most horrid in the country.
@BM-pt6sy
9 ай бұрын
"I was never the girl that boys lined up to date" yeah and neither was 90% of girls... how is that "traumatizing"? I bet she ignored all the asian guys that would go for her. Apparently people having preferences is discrimination now. Classic South East asian parenting and one child policy victims creating narcissists.
@ariellev9185
9 ай бұрын
I live in California. There’s no such thing as someone with a hole and a pulse that can’t get a date. Period. Lmao
@n_INTJ_a
9 ай бұрын
Statistically, the most desired demographic, in fact. But if you read between the lines, she dated a lot of men, she's just always been suspicious of them fetishizing her because of her race. The common denominator is her -- a racist with bias.
@80sriceman
9 ай бұрын
@ariellev9185 😆😂🤣 Not even that, Chris Rock said "all a brother needs is a crease!" 🤣
@Mita0.0.0
10 ай бұрын
Any minority who grew up in a predominantly white area and went to an almost all white school can relate to this. My parents moved from NYC a to a rural part of Florida when I was young. Going to school was ROUGH! Made fun of for how I looked, called ugly and more. This was done by students and low key teachers as well. Felt like an outsider and tried hard to fit in. It messed me up. I am now older and look back… cringe so much. Honestly, this is why I would never live in an area where cultural diversity lacking. I don’t want that for myself or my kids. It is a bit better nowadays but still…
@amyb210
10 ай бұрын
❤
@funkyfrog4814
10 ай бұрын
Heal, boo. Take ur time & heal. 💛
@kusuoken5687
10 ай бұрын
Right I’m black and was in a predominantly white southern high school and it was literally no point in even talking to any guy unless he was a new student bc everyone only liked white girls. Even the other minorities only dated white girls
@derek4463
10 ай бұрын
Bro what? I’m white and grew up here in Florida and had that shit. Nobody immune
@JacksonWalter735
10 ай бұрын
Sorry bro. I wish we could have been there for you to make things better. We had this Asian guy at my school who was in a similar situation to you, but he came from Hong Kong and spoke British English. I don’t know if you ever heard of Hilliard, FL, but we’re kind of a redneck and white trash town where the greatest thing to ever happen to us was that we got a YMCA. All the 30ish kids in my grade and all the teachers made him feel welcomed and we loved how he looked (I think he’s a Wilhelmina model in Miami now while going to college). It always makes me so sad when I hear stories of what you guys go through surrounded by narrow minded people. We aren’t all like that and I hope this can change for future generations so they don’t have to go through what you went through.
@aeoligarlic4024
Жыл бұрын
She's been through a lot but still managed to be calm and rational
@hehexd9781
Жыл бұрын
Not being picked is going through a lot? Say that to 99% of men 😂
@No-ju9xz
Жыл бұрын
She's like mid 30. Only thing she's been through is too much aging.
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@Ww28sbvf
Жыл бұрын
@@hehexd9781 there are other aspects too. This just the only video of hers
@meghasinghaniahmu
Жыл бұрын
@@hehexd9781 SHE LOST HER MOM TO CANCER!!
@blayzej
7 ай бұрын
What a smart, humble,thoughtful and beautiful woman. Wishing her the best.
@warroom17
10 ай бұрын
I was the girl that guys wanted to date when I got older, but just the same as her, I wondered if I was the token Asian/exotic. Once my dad took notice of the guys interested in me, he took me out for a drive and we had a heart to heart discussion. He was the one that told me I didn't have to put out just because I agreed to a date that the guy may or may not have paid for. He encouraged me to have fun and made me aware that I could say "no" and keep my options open. I had all the innocent fun I wanted and never felt the pressure of putting out because my dad empowered me. For anyone feeling the pressure, you can say "no" and have fun dating. Spending money is not a contractual obligation for intimacy. Choose quality over quantity❤
@Jgjules
10 ай бұрын
You’re so lucky to have a dad like that ❤️
@jetmejia1058
10 ай бұрын
Yea your dad ruined it for the rest of us. He basically said your pretty enough to play them if you so choose to do so.
@middlesys9180
10 ай бұрын
Great Dad! My pops did the same but was a little more blunt and told me to keep my legs closed. 😂😂😮😮
@byoutifulmusic
10 ай бұрын
That’s so wonderful. Wish my dad had given a shit. I think he was too consumed with his own unresolved childhood mommy issues. I understand, but still hurts and affected my life.
@dll7658
10 ай бұрын
❤
@TinaLeder
10 ай бұрын
It's hard to date someone MONOcultured if you're MULTIcultured at the end of the day. It's less of a race thing and more a culturally experienced thing imo
@dollarama5604
10 ай бұрын
True but there's a lot of overlap between the two especially in the West
@AS-kf1ol
10 ай бұрын
I agree, she's literally picking ignorant men. I could never date a white guy who had no friends of color or whose family didn't speak multiple languages.
@morejoy5188
10 ай бұрын
I agree but really - thefear for the guy would be the question: Will you say in Fascist China -Heil Xitler. That said, she's sticking it out in far right America - recently, America is very mysoginist too! Still tho: out of both shit nations I'd choose the one that can have independent newspaper companies - the one where you wouldn't get tortured for just sayingBiden or Trump are nob edz INNIT
@morejoy5188
10 ай бұрын
@@AS-kf1ol I'm doing so, you're allowing those types of subcultures (egAmish etc) to be so insular. Multiple languages? Really????
@kjelle5350
10 ай бұрын
@AS-kf1ol Lucky men, I say.
@Urdadtoo
Жыл бұрын
Every clip I see of this girl she is so charismatic, thoughtful, and most obviously- drop dead gorgeous
@makebayeargins4719
Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts! Would like to see more shorts/ videos from her!❤
@velveteenrabbit542
Жыл бұрын
And where can WE See more of her?
@iloname5007
11 ай бұрын
She is single and the reason is not her family. She is not attractive enough for the one to meet and accept her family. That's a wicked game. Good men are rare
@velveteenrabbit542
11 ай бұрын
@@iloname5007 bruh, Look at ys.....🤦
@scholaroftheworldalternatehist
11 ай бұрын
Yeah but do you want to have children with almond shaped eyes? That's the question
@bobbylee1508
7 ай бұрын
Why doesn't she just date an asian guy if she thinks this is an issue?
@Teddy510in
Ай бұрын
Must've missed the "the childhood wound of not getting picked by them" and the "lotta guys don't pass that test" pointers. It's clear that given she hasn't finally been picked by the white guy she'll be hoping for, who'll simultaneously "survive her crazy family". She remains single until said white guy shows up, rather than move onto an Asian guy. Think about it, if women can move one fast and without delay, she clearly doesn't want an Asian guy, but rather the white guy who finally passes the test and satisfies her ego from the white validation...
@bobbylee1508
18 күн бұрын
@Teddy510in Thanks for your imcorrect assumption amd negative input but I'm an old happily married man with children, a house, and sufficient retirement accounts, real estate, and a happy demeanor. Wish you the best...just be more positive.
@hopwaffles
22 сағат бұрын
@@bobbylee1508she loves white men
@petercurley1649
11 ай бұрын
What a beautiful soul.. I am a Caucasian male engaged to a beautiful black woman in Kenya… It took 5 years to be introduced to her family & overnight her family became mine… It is such a shame many people don’t realise we all 🩸 the same….
@Here4TheHeckOfIt
11 ай бұрын
Dude - you're a rare one. You're golden! 💛🪙🌟 You and your lady are both lucky to have each other!
@danielalbo3781
11 ай бұрын
Where in the Caucasuses? Dagestani? Azeri? Armenian?
@user-fl4vn9bm9r
11 ай бұрын
@@danielalbo3781white peepo mountain
@kp2855
11 ай бұрын
Beautiful testimonial, prayerfully for the best...
@PrayerOfMannesah
11 ай бұрын
@@kp2855it's not beautiful at all there's black women all over the planet they're not just in Africa and the thing you have to ask yourself is why do these dudes always go to Africa to get married and it has nothing to do with culture it's for their land you can't get land in Africa without getting married so I find comments like this disingenuous white men are always putting themselves in a position to exploit people and the women are just desperate I don't find dating women that you can colonize empowering I truly believe that there's enough black women in Brazil and in America that are just as beautiful but they don't have anything to offer them for them to exploit they'd have to lift them up so you are never going to see stuff like that and that is exactly why Prince Harry married and Michael he can show her a palace and stuff and stuff that she's never seen before because she's an American biracial woman they're always trying to be this validation force and most of us know the truth story of white men going to African American women it ain't for no kind of beauty it's for the land😂😂😂😂😂😂 And no it's not because I'm jealous African women African women are beautiful I have a lot of their genetics white men are heartless they marry them for their land😢
@glimm_0809
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I rarely felt so comforted and happy because of a stranger on the internet. A lot of her experiences are really relatable to me, and it makes me happy seeing how beautiful she is, from the inside and outside, while still having this experience. I wish her the best and am sure good things are coming to her. She seems like an amazing, smart and beautiful person to know and be with
@Imaniconnie
Жыл бұрын
💓👌🏾✨🫂💓
@RaRa-eo9ro
11 ай бұрын
Same here.
@temposhop8739
11 ай бұрын
I agree. She seems in touch with herself and reality, and that's reassuring that I and my friends aren't alone in this.
@vannilian2023
10 ай бұрын
Asian are the most kind, love and attractive people on earth this time. Asian will dominate the next 10 year in everything in this world
@NoRockinMansLand
10 ай бұрын
Why didn't you consider dating Asian guys then?
@Me_Caveman
10 ай бұрын
I'm a blonde/blue eyed man who married a black woman from Guyana. She moved to the U.S. when she was young so she has her feet in both cultures and that has made her a more well-rounded and attractive person. I just grew up poor in a large family, which I count as a fortunate thing that has given me much more life perspective. It is not your origin but who you become that matters.
@SvetlanaBraunn
10 ай бұрын
You two can always go back to Kenya! I’m sure it’s LOVELY there. 🤭
@venombanefo7615
10 ай бұрын
Here's shaking your hand! May your marriage be increasingly strong and sweet, in Jesus' Name.❤❤❤from Nigeria
@aantaa.7618
10 ай бұрын
@@SvetlanaBraunn as opposed to Russia? Where'd you come up with Kenya...got the comments mixed up?
@SvetlanaBraunn
10 ай бұрын
@@aantaa.7618 I don’t care which country she’s from. I said Kenya in a sarcastic manner, my point being she’s free to return back to her own ancestral homeland. 😁
@aantaa.7618
10 ай бұрын
@@SvetlanaBraunn I'm sure she knows that. She doesn't need Casper the Unfriendly Ghost to tell her
@JamesBond-jc8wf
9 ай бұрын
Why white men, why not try other options. She closed the door on herself.
@tattoomesam
8 ай бұрын
Exactly, the wall is coming so she will need to “settle” or get cats
@madlaz5795
8 ай бұрын
Desperate black man comment
@James-xd1rf
8 ай бұрын
@@madlaz5795 legitimate question
@zz23-de6zq
7 ай бұрын
Desperate? at least the blck community prefer each other@@madlaz5795
@dominicfaison5889
6 ай бұрын
@@madlaz5795and is that a jealous white guy response? Lol
@mmmmmmmmmmmmingle
10 ай бұрын
She is drop dead gorgeous
@zbridgjpxupzm
10 ай бұрын
drop dead is a bit strong. she looks aight (with layers of make up)
@benedettomolinari4481
10 ай бұрын
You're either blind af or just simping like a dork for no reason lol
@treacherousjslither6920
10 ай бұрын
She's certainly well groomed.
@obi_the_president
10 ай бұрын
Calm down bro she is mid
@icantcook9998
10 ай бұрын
She's lovely I can guarantee there would be tons of blokes that would love to date her
@Arginne
Жыл бұрын
Shes drop dead gorgeous and I mean that genuinely and she seems to have the personality to match. Thats so sad she experienced that they missed out
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@kshitijpatel1360
Жыл бұрын
No tatas
@meghasinghaniahmu
Жыл бұрын
@@kshitijpatel1360 SO?? YOU NEVER KNOW, SHE MIGHT HAVE GONE THROUGH SOME CONDITION!! YOU NEVER KNOW!! SO YOUR COMMENT IS SO VILE AND HORRIBLE!!
@reefacheefa8990
Жыл бұрын
8/10
@jd6331
Жыл бұрын
@@kshitijpatel1360get over it
@Glad2BGolden
10 ай бұрын
When I went to college it was predominantly White and Asian then some Black students. There were so many stories from Asian students about how isolated they felt due to being a minority. It really opened my eyes to the fact that other races of people have similar experiences and feelings.
@thetotaltruth948
10 ай бұрын
As a black-American, I know this feeling all too well.
@jack-of-all-trades1234
10 ай бұрын
There's plenty of friction that exists between different minority groups as well.
@blasiankiki7831
10 ай бұрын
She seems only open to white guys…. What about Asian and Black men or Latinos? Shes making herself lonely
@julzgulz1992
10 ай бұрын
If it’s so horrible being “different” why is everyone pushing migration and diversity? Shouldn’t we all just go live in our separate racial groups again? Why not focus on what makes us similar- so much more unites us humans.
@stevenayare6097
10 ай бұрын
It’s cuz Asians don’t integrate and live how they would do in china
@r3tr0actiongamer24
8 ай бұрын
As a white guy happily married to an Asian over 10 years (17 years together) that's it's such a wonderful feeling. This woman here is beautiful, I wish she would own it more. Respect to her
@BuzziMuzzi
7 ай бұрын
“An asian”
@thalmoragent9344
7 ай бұрын
@@BuzziMuzzi Yep, a broad range for sure 😅
@NAT-turners-Revenge
7 ай бұрын
@@thalmoragent9344 reject white boy detected who originated this post
@dominicfaison5889
6 ай бұрын
@@BuzziMuzziexactly how they think of them and they still date them 😂 lol
@bub6871
5 ай бұрын
@@dominicfaison5889 And when asians speak about white people they dont specify either, whats your fucking point? He married an asian women, she married a white man.
@No--Name04
11 ай бұрын
I'm a 31 years old woman that have never been loved , chosen , interested in and finally approched ! it is a really really hard situation and a hard feeling that can't be explained by words... I'm always lonely inside even when i'm on a group of friends and family it really hurts ..all i want is to be loved and have a partner to share my life with and have children ...my dream is to be a mother 💔
@No--Name04
10 ай бұрын
@@BIGTEX88-tc6ql Thank you for your advice 🙏
@ARS-fn6px
10 ай бұрын
Men cant love anyway. Youre not missing out. Also, you must look way younger than 31 because men literally skc the life out of you. If you want a child, please go to a clinic. Seggs with men is dangerous on many levels anyway and they get way more out of it than you.
@chasingthesky
10 ай бұрын
It always seems in my experience anyway that when you genuinely start to prioritise yourself, focus on you, your hobbies, do your own thing thing and enjoy your own company, that they all start crawling out of the woodwork for you!! Have to fight them off with a stick 😂 keep us updated. Lots of love your way ❤ Btw: totally agree with the above ^ 💯
@cameliap1146
10 ай бұрын
Do what you want. Be yourself. Having a child is not the ultimate goal in this life. It's rather a society pressure on women. And for the love...For sure , it's a wonderful feeling. To love amd be loved. But be honest and look around you. The vast majority of human beings are unsatisfied. Love is not like on Hollywood 🎥- an other big lie, only to put pressure on humans- Not to burst your bubble, but love is soooo overrated. I wish you all the best. Try to please your inner self. If you love yourself enough the others will love you too. Best of luck !
@MarVlas
10 ай бұрын
I want you to completly change you thinking patern. What do YOU want. What do you need. I was like you when I was young, I ended up in a realtionship with a toxic mentally abusve man, they can pick out the girls craving love. You deserve what you need, think about it and let it go. Look for that guy that is like a good friend.
@AlwaysFedUp
9 ай бұрын
Ooof! As a black woman, both the “experiment” and “validation for not getting picked” comments smacked me in the face. I feel that a lot 😢 it takes practice to love yourself regardless of whatever bozo steps to you and realizing you’re worth more than the social value we assign to someone’s color and their attention.
@mrmillennium2697
9 ай бұрын
True but most white dudes want white children at the end of the day. Non- White women can't offer that. Find you a black guy by the way
@ForrestMccroy
9 ай бұрын
Damn this comment section is showing me women of color are obsessed with white men. Nice
@Hope-Dasher
9 ай бұрын
@@ForrestMccroyunfortunately there seems to much documented and anecdotal evidence to suggest that a very large swath of of women of color fall into this category and I’m sure there are many different mechanisms and circumstances that build this mindset in them but I truly think it’s first Economics (they know the financial playing field aren’t always level)and second Psychology of western media that drives these perceptions by creating a mythical version of the white man thus creating a fetish by women of color based strictly on fantasy
@Pastor_Sempa
9 ай бұрын
women live life on easy mode and still complain 😂
@andreD03
9 ай бұрын
@@Pastor_SempaThey are never satisfied honestly bro
@yinx02
Жыл бұрын
I felt that part about chasing the validation you didn’t get as a teen.
@FrshJurassicPrnceYA
9 ай бұрын
The question is did she give Asian men a chance too, because many Asian women don’t. It’s kinda sad really.
@mambi74
6 ай бұрын
The answer is no, she did not. The same goes for any other non-white guy - Hispanic, Black, whatever.. She's going for one demographic and that's it.
@eamush
5 ай бұрын
She did try. Check the other shorts
@thisnthat7760
3 ай бұрын
Didn't she said that asian men DID NOT PREFER HER because they consider her u g l u ?
@G2rtTr
3 ай бұрын
She probably didnt. Average woman moment. Chased for the top 10-15% of dudes who are white and as her words say "am i an experiment" " why i was not getting picked by them" Ma'am because in fact you are dating out of your league in attractiveness. Be grateful that you had your "fun time" with the white guys and he never called you back or cheated on you. Most asian men in the west are treated horribly by women who in FACT ARE ASIAN. Also they never get a chance with white women, but we aint whining like she does. At the end of the day everyone is free to date whoever they want and no one should be forced to date anyone that they dont want. Look how her answer only includes white men,not asian men in the west.
@arnoldnguyen7630
10 ай бұрын
Openmindness is one of the most desirable traits in a partner alongside kindness
@ciamgranda5786
9 ай бұрын
Openmindedness is the reason parents let their kids make life changing mistakes, being kind and being open minded are two very different things a grown person needs to have a filter to filter unnecessary things like you just can't allow in everything the World offers, Earth is a crazy Planet.
@modickens1272
9 ай бұрын
I agree they need to definitely be open minded to cheating, it's a major plus and shows true open mindedness not just the cliche kind
@goprojoe7449
9 ай бұрын
😮
@theofficialmascot
9 ай бұрын
Nah, honesty, integrity and honor.
@calvinstulip
8 ай бұрын
Speak for yourself.
@Im-From-the-stars
11 ай бұрын
A healthy relationship is when two people are vulnerable with each other, and she being vulnerable and honest in this interview, she knows who she is and how she sees herself. She’s absolutely beautiful and very smart ❤❤❤
@Artaxerxes.
9 ай бұрын
Two wounded people don't make a relationship. They break it
@Noah-dh6se
Жыл бұрын
She is a 10 out of 10. Amazing self analysing and self awareness, good priorities and a fantastic smile. She will find someone, i am sure of it
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@archangelempress10
Жыл бұрын
right,when she does he will be the right one for her
@ruskov5685
Жыл бұрын
Ikr
@rodrozil6544
Жыл бұрын
She better find fast. Time doesn't wait for age.
@YULIE-M8
Жыл бұрын
@@rodrozil6544There are those who don't want children in the picture. Some people find their SO in their 50s or 60s, some later than that and sometimes never. People should stop being so primitive "ooga booga children seggs seggs"
@persephone3309
7 ай бұрын
Relate so heavily to the validation/experiment
@Lastjustice
4 ай бұрын
I would never let that linger. People get their foot in the door for a ton of reasons. Whether you stay or not in completely dependent on what you do next. Plenty of relationships start off something completely shallow but evolve into something meaningful if given a chance. Don't waste your time second guessing what could be a good thing. If it fails, let be for geniune short coming, not because you psyched yourself out of it.
@nicjonzu
10 ай бұрын
Wow. She really just articulated my feelings in a way I never could. “Am I really just chasing some sort of validation to kind of heal this childhood wound of not getting picked by them 🤯”
@mrmillennium2697
9 ай бұрын
Date an Asian dude
@TheLastRelevantSage2
9 ай бұрын
Nothing to do with being "Asian". She is flat chested and her face is not pretty.
@korra999c7
9 ай бұрын
Chasing white validation is something so many of us are guilty of and should be talked about more within the asian community. Many asian women even look down on asian men, because these asian women see asian men as lesser than white.
@TheLastRelevantSage2
9 ай бұрын
@@korra999c7Wrong. You lack the experience, obviously. Asian men often treat Asian women badly, that's why they prefer white men. "White validation"??? LMAO!! Your social justice mumbojumbo is useless.
@hanshananigan1233
9 ай бұрын
I don't think her issue is that the boys all wanted white women. It's that she's pretty average, and blended in with all the basic white women. There are tons of Asian women out there who have no problem getting dates. It sucks to not be top tier, but there's no reason to blame it on race when it probably comes down to simple attractiveness.
@flosou9022
11 ай бұрын
As a blonde white girl, guys have never lined up to date me either 🤣
@lolaoliver7929
10 ай бұрын
Stereotyping is a cruel thing to do .
@megasg75090
10 ай бұрын
Asian held those features in high regard, so they feel inferior to those who possessed them. I guess this is where her insecurity of not getting pick stems from. Met a Filipina here who is shocked that those features are just seen as normal in the west. I think you have movies to blame for their stereotype.
@traceymarshall5886
10 ай бұрын
Me too and i went to single sex catholic school - so we definitely were not allowed to talk to boys until University and by then going to girls only school from 4 to 18....you dont know how to talk to men. So ive never been picked by men. But its ok as i bought my own house, farm and ivf
@staedlerok
10 ай бұрын
Exactly this Asian chick is rscist
@Larissa.Schmidt
10 ай бұрын
You need to be beautiful for this to happen
@tonyadams8812
9 ай бұрын
Be proud of who you are . Don't look for validation from anybody. We all sh1t in the morning
@m.935
9 ай бұрын
I'm white as snow, and felt like this all my life because of past family trauma. I never belonged to any group of people, not even from my own culture and race. My advice is don't make it the only thing important because you'll forget to see other red flags that are perhaps even more important.
@elaineder8914
11 ай бұрын
The struggle is real. I’m an American of Chinese descent also. Grew up in a predominantly Caucasian community and went to private school in a predominantly Hispanic & black community. No other Asians around. Born & raised here. Tried dating other Asians, but the culture shock was overwhelming. Very conservative, not Americanized enough. I’ve ended up dating Hispanic & Caucasian guys. Just be careful of the ones who want to fetishize you because you’re exotic to them. Find someone who accepts you for you
@tileavenue6911
10 ай бұрын
wowww such a heart wrenching sob story. No one sympathizes with your privileged life Elaine. "The struggle is real"??! 🤦🤦 clueless idi0t
@LadyEclipse1
10 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@theia1653
10 ай бұрын
Conservative is a misnomer because it is not the same as American conservative (guns, big trucks, country, chicken fried steaks, rodeos) even though there is some overlap like traditional family values. If not Americanized, don't even bother.
@Sainte-adresse
10 ай бұрын
@@theia1653 I've spoken in detail about this topic with one of my asian friends and I'm pretty sure when the commenter says "conservative" in relation to asian men she is speaking about how they may hold old traditional values such as woman is the homemaker and man makes the money, typically mommies boys and very driven by their parents opinions, very quiet, not outspoken, can be closed minded and may have a view of "this is how things are" and don't like to operate outside the box. Like just think in a workplace, that person who is very by the book. Very strict and narrow.
@theia1653
10 ай бұрын
@bria8886 Yes, I know exactly what she meant, more than I would like. I as an Asian guy would not accept anything less than fully Americanized, the exodus away from these values is absolutely justified, and I would even warn my own daughter to stay away.
@amandafrombrooklyn7514
10 ай бұрын
She is so beautiful, intelligent and honest. these individuals are always overlooked, and I will never understand why.
@wolfman231
10 ай бұрын
Attraction is not a choice.
@phantom498
10 ай бұрын
@@wolfman231lol, fr like any particular individual should be attracted to and find beautiful everyone you do, is ridiculous. Talk about close minded
@ICFlashingLights
10 ай бұрын
@amandafrombrooklyn7514. I would say between 70-80% of men are looking for skin deep attraction, the rest are looking further into you and other attractions like your intellect, sense of humour, cute ways, how you sound and whether they can imagine a life long term with you. So basically most men like butterflies rather that the rest of you.. Stupid if you ask me, theres so much more to ppl
@asellandrofacchio7263
10 ай бұрын
No she's not beautiful.
@amandafrombrooklyn7514
10 ай бұрын
@@asellandrofacchio7263 Why isn't she beautiful?
@corithecat6877
Жыл бұрын
Ma’am you’re radiating beauty and your energy is A+. May you find your soulmate and be happy forever ❤
@Autonomous15
11 ай бұрын
simp
@FloridaTrini
8 ай бұрын
As a black woman, I can relate to the experimentation part but not the validation part. Thankfully, we're in an era where the beauty that is shown is a little more diversified, so women can see beautiful women who look like them. I knew that there would never be a point in comparing myself to non-black women (despite dusties trying so hard to use that tactic to put us women against each other) because we all have our unique flavors. The half white/ half Asian guy I'm with loves me for who I am culturally, physically, mentally, and emotionally, and I feel the same towards him.
@arizonaaliasofficial4733
8 ай бұрын
Yeah u sound like a #KKKEISHA Beloved no matter how u try to label BM "dusties" u CAME FROM A "DUSTY" ✊🏿
@Poodle_Gun
7 ай бұрын
I always think Black women look really good in blue and purple. I've had to learn to embrace my look, since my color palette isn't the norm.
@dominicfaison5889
6 ай бұрын
Calling them dusties but yall be birthing them 😂 That says more about you
@kimberly6243
5 ай бұрын
@dominicfaison5889 says the exact type dusty she is talking about. You all become dusty because of your collective mindset and behavior that you share and teach with one another into adulthood as blk males. The whole world sees this, except yall. This is why blk women need to completely disassociate from you and STOP BIRTHING black males at all.
@Sidera17
Жыл бұрын
I love how real she is in the interview.
@JPark118
Жыл бұрын
I understand completely. When I dated Caucasian men, I often found myself questioning whether they were genuinely interested in me or if it was simply because I'm Asian. It's true, cultural differences can present challenges, and I also had difficulty making it work with White guys. Ultimately, I married someone from another Asian background, albeit a different country. While we still face cultural differences, it's comforting to know that we've shared similar experiences growing up here in the United States.
@girisha_laxmi11
Жыл бұрын
That happened me with Indian men i didn't if i was a test they loved me genuinely or had a hidden agenda. I had to discard much men asking money marriage and papers.
@thesunris
Жыл бұрын
That's your own insecurity. That's why you should date within your own race
@xtinkerbellax3
Жыл бұрын
They're insecure because some white men fetishize women from certain cultures?@@thesunris
@rodneuer4600
Жыл бұрын
@@thesunris You just projected yours
@Imaniconnie
Жыл бұрын
👏🏾🫂💓👏🏾 happy for you! That is the easiest, most 'natural' thing, and added bonus there's more likelihood your kids will look like a beautiful combo of you two, representing both of your ethnicities. Happy you found your person ☺️💓
@trob9100
10 ай бұрын
People need to really stop caring about people who don't find the beauty in them. Love yourself and don't allow losers into your life, heart, or mind.
@TheStewie117
10 ай бұрын
exactly, just get on with it and you’ll eventually meet someone
@Marcycat7
10 ай бұрын
Love yourself more and always choose yourself over those who mistreat you.🎉
@chelseabunker2391
10 ай бұрын
While i agree with this on some level, sometimes people have others get so in their face about their appearance and differences that it is hard to see anything other than the things being reflected on you and shoved down your throat.
@xavierstewart5756
9 ай бұрын
Facts.
@AustinLine
9 ай бұрын
My Dad always tried to push me to date blonde white girls and I believe that's why I'm rebellious and date different ethnic groups. Side note: Never compare yourself because you'll lose yourself if you do.
@kourtneyjohnson1557
7 ай бұрын
Did you ever ask him why he wanted you to date a blonde white girl, specifically? That seems....
@Neoyorchese
2 ай бұрын
Probably not a blonde. I cam tell you dating other cultures is a challenge.
@georgebeckons539
11 ай бұрын
A lot of people here don't understand what it feels like to grow up being bullied and ostracized for your race. You look different, act different and this is too much for some people so they bully you and you don't GET to have a vibrant social life. You're always the one left out and last pick. You feel unwanted and wonder if you'll ever fully integrate into the country you've immigrated to or if they will always see you as a weird foreigner. Her being aware of this emotional trauma and trying to make good choices is amazing and wise.
@morticiag
11 ай бұрын
What about growing up in China or Korea? Would you feel at home there?
@gemsxjourneyx196
10 ай бұрын
I may not have been bullied for my race but I was bullied for a lot of other things … how is that any different ?!!! Fuck some of you people in these comments are DAF
@Azmarri
10 ай бұрын
Lol, experienced all this without being a foreigner in my class. Quite the opposite, a foreigner would be a star in our school.
@Navy35
10 ай бұрын
@@morticiagin Asia, as a white dude, it was the only time I experienced white privilege
@morticiag
10 ай бұрын
@@Navy35 It's cause the Asians look up to white dudes, especially the Asian women ... Did you get a lot of Asian pun'an'i 😺, Mr Navy ?
@patriciacasillas312
10 ай бұрын
I definitely related to this one. As a hispanic woman, I felt that beauty was often only portrayed in the form of a blonde, blue eyed woman. Made me insecure for yrs. It took me leaving behind my teen yrs to realize the beauty and strength that so many ethnic women have.
@jays-move8803
10 ай бұрын
It's tons of blue eyed blonde haired hispanics. Especially in Argentina, phew.
@nvmoondevotee28yrsago48
10 ай бұрын
@@user-jj5mp7ib1fGirl what u didn’t notice all the blonde stars back in the day?! Where u even alive in the 90s-early 2000s?😅 Honestly, I think this is something millennials & zillenials went thru because nowadays the actors are all kinds of phenotypes. Also who’s bashing yt aesthetic? Most of these comments are recalling & opening up about their childhood wounds & what it was like to grow up in wyt schools & on top of that with hardly any media representation. It’s understandable how this would personally affect them in some way idk how u think that is “bashing”
@Dylan-bl7xl
10 ай бұрын
@@nvmoondevotee28yrsago48 I'm a late Gen Z (1999) but blonde obsession was a huge thing in my middle school.
@IONov990
10 ай бұрын
I envy Latina women. I still struggle to think I'm beautiful because I'm dark skinned black woman. As I've grown up and lived in different areas I noticed not all men want blue eyed blondes with huge boobs.
@IONov990
10 ай бұрын
@@user-jj5mp7ib1fIt is seen as acceptable to put down white women. I AM NOT SAYING I AGREE . I honestly do not think ethnicity has much to do with physical beauty. Beyonce, Eva Mendes, Angelina Jolie, Blake Lively are all beautiful and different I think the mother from Ginny and Georgia is so beautiful. The blonde named Kristen Frost is beautiful. There are tons of beautiful blondes. Blonde women aren't seen as exotic. Everyone seems to be mad at the white men. It seems like low key a lot of minorities want to be white.
@teresacarroll3926
Жыл бұрын
Too many men in this world are immature idiots. It's truly their loss cuz you are an awesome beautiful young woman.
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@slowboi1688
Жыл бұрын
Could say the same about many women nowadays tbh but yeh I think it’s all about luck and the right place right time
@meghasinghaniahmu
Жыл бұрын
@@slowboi1688 But Men are less emotionally intelligent and more immature than women!
@litttlemama
Жыл бұрын
@@slowboi1688very true. Sometimes I feel like good person are getting very rare and it’s very sad
@PinoyWestLondonBoyEscapes
Жыл бұрын
Who hurt you? 🤣🤣🤣
@geoeconomics5629
9 ай бұрын
She still had more options than half the guys in her school
@uwillnevahno6837
8 ай бұрын
More like 70 - 90%. I think there's a stat floating around that says in effect most guys on Tinder don't have a chance.
@TheDude-yw4kn
8 ай бұрын
Both comments are 💯💯💯facts
@dethklokrocks14
8 ай бұрын
She’s has over 10k matches as we speak on all the apps.
@Normality_9
8 ай бұрын
@@uwillnevahno6837Mass majority people who do OnlyFans are women, and mass majority of the people who watch them are men. This explains Western dating culture aswell. That's why things are like that. Most Western men are f boys and they like wh..... . And there are plenty of western wh.... in West and Western dating apps. Thankfully Asia is different. And this girl should have stayed in China. She is a innocent and respectful woman. Chinese men are suitable for her. I hope she would be happy. She won't be a experiment in China. She will be wife.
@Normality_9
8 ай бұрын
@@uwillnevahno6837Mass majority people who do OnlyFans are Western women, and mass majority of the people who watch them are Western men. This explains Western dating culture and those stats very well. West is full of fboys and wh.... Thankfully Asia is different. China is very traditional and conservative. And yes, Chinese men are very patriarchal but they don't treat women like experiments. They treat their women like wives.
@therealmykag
10 ай бұрын
Yessss she put words to what I couldn’t explain! Most people don’t pass the lingering “are they open minded enough to bring back to the small village I’m from” vibe. It’s really heartbreaking when someone you’re with puts down where you came from and/ refuses to acknowledge cultural differences.
@PartyLife4me
10 ай бұрын
What people forget sometimes is that feeling of isolation, self-doubt, second guessing and insecurity of one's self while in their teen years can shape both positive and negative perceptions later in life. We all go through it, but it's those who learn how to deal with it and overcome it make them a more well-rounded and mature person going forward.
@hamster166
10 ай бұрын
Bro you are interviewing real people its so cool. Everyone that people post nowadays are idiots who the interviewer just makes fun of for being dumb. Interviews with actual substance are super interesting to hear. Keep in up man!
@brians9508
9 ай бұрын
yeah so cool that he is not interviewing fake people. wait, what?
@Doors067
9 ай бұрын
Her: all the guys in my school wanted the blond girls Reality: the top 3 guys in the school wanted the blonde girls and anybody else would have dated you
@fridge3489
8 ай бұрын
Oof 😂. That's probably true.
@TheNativeTwo
8 ай бұрын
Haha yeah probably true. She was competing for the top 3 guys and didn’t make the cut. Meanwhile she cut all the other guys and justified it in her head that they wouldn’t be a good fit to bring back home to china.
@charlieb9064
8 ай бұрын
That's it. The chads always seem to date the blondes. Probably why so many brunettes dye their hair.
@jrose9349
8 ай бұрын
Not to mention that open mind she’s hoping to find in a white man, she may never have if it were a black man
@Stassis
8 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@Petahpaka
Жыл бұрын
It’s funny. Because I’m a typical blonde girl with blue eyes. I would call myself standard attractive? I can count on one hand how many times men approached me or asked me out. I’m usually seen as fun and not serious. Oh and she’s very beautiful. Love her aesthetic.
@emmabhictoriadroll3390
10 ай бұрын
Same here girl, I know the pain.
@minnesotajude8447
10 ай бұрын
Most men don’t prefer blondes. She’s probably referring to the top jocks and viewed the rest of men invisible.
@uphilliceskater
10 ай бұрын
Exactly. Look how perfect her teeth are. She definitely comes from money privilege.
@gregmacklin9758
10 ай бұрын
The Chinese are fairly picky about who their daughter brings home. Same as most cultures. In China, she's already considered Shengnu, or Leftover. Therefore, anyone she brings home would most likely be welcomed.
@Unlimited-D-Works
9 ай бұрын
Yah I’m like wtf. Random women just use white girl, blonde, blue eyes girls as a crutch for why they men don’t date them. It’s either your just not attractive or it’s just that 99% of men are invisible to you and she chasing that 1% man that has no interest in you.
@Drskopf
9 ай бұрын
I take it she is into her 30s or getting close to 40s, so if course in those days(her school days) the beauty standard was blonde (thanks to Hollywood for reinforcing that idea). So yeah times and taste have changed and maybe she hasn't noticed it🤷🏼
@firstname7330
9 ай бұрын
@@Drskopf Also, she has a chest like a bench top.
@ffic4life
10 ай бұрын
It’s funny because as a blonde white girl, I wasn’t what they wanted. They went after Hispanic or mixed girls. I think it depends on the region you grew up for that region’s standards of beauty.
@0711floflo
10 ай бұрын
Yeah I rarely meet guys who aren't interested in me because they just appreciate who I am. First questions is do I like manga lol okay.... bye
@21bluefins
9 ай бұрын
She never mentioned all of the men who sought her attention, and asked her out for a nice date. Yeah, let’s not mention the invisible men of this world!!
@dbuck1964
8 ай бұрын
Suck it up and learn how to stand out. No woman likes a male Vicki.
@Poodle_Gun
7 ай бұрын
For centuries, even in male-dominated times, you would not have been allowed to marry without being able to afford a wife and family. You would also not be selected if you were sickly. So a lot of these "options" are not options. They're just men who want to sleep with her. It was even harder for weak men to score in a patriarchal society.
@_briceysworld
7 ай бұрын
You, and a lot of other people, are assuming a lot here.
@grishawinner6727
Жыл бұрын
Maybe she should have tried dating Asian men too instead of limiting her options only to white men
@winniem1989
Жыл бұрын
listen to her other comments when she dated a Korean guy( he ordered for her and then made her pay the check)and a Japanese guy( he complained about how she dipped her sushi in soy sauce)
@venture.brothers
11 ай бұрын
@@jackie41083 I think her words were "he let me pay" I interpreted that as they split the bill
@beepbop416
10 ай бұрын
Her parents are probably only accepting to Asian and white guys. It’s very common in Asian households.
@rizalwahyu2152
10 ай бұрын
Be careful dude.. Ur comment could be angered by anglo society & aunty lus 🐷🐷🐷
@Mmmhmm_sure
10 ай бұрын
@@user-jj5mp7ib1fshe was asked about wm so she answered, don't try make any one a victim
@pomegranate9892
10 ай бұрын
I totally feel this girl. Despite I have no Chinese roots, but Persian roots, I can fully relate to her point of view. Whenever I've met white guys online or dated, they were at first amazed how feminine, well educated (I study and speak four languages), pretty I am but suddenly rejected because they then thought of cultural problems in the future and I thought at the moment ,,well, I did not hide my Persian roots. Why did you even ask me out if you are afraid of cultural differences?'' One guy even told me his parents might be against dating a Persian girl, as my parents are not from a Western country. I don't wear a headscarf, I go out, I have no brothers, I study and work at the same time, I've spent two semesters abroad alone, my mom doesn't care about a man's nationality and even if I tell a Western man I have German citizenship, I get faced with prejudices. I would not refuse giving a white guy a chance but would be cautious due to my experiences. And I also hate getting fetishized aka how 'exotic' I am. Even other middle Eastern men fetishize me aka 'I love Persian girls. They are so white'.
@voguehaven5154
10 ай бұрын
they asked you out in hopes for sex...as all men do.
@0711floflo
10 ай бұрын
Yeah I understand her and you. Guys don't line up for me. My ex was my first love and an asshole in the end, pretending. I just want a guy to love me for who i am ,and of course appreciate my difference . Not because asian =manga or whatevet
@mohcinerouessi4388
10 ай бұрын
@@0711floflo you are sure that you aren't attracted to only white guys ?
@udontevenwannaknowbruv
10 ай бұрын
@@mohcinerouessi4388 Even if she is, there is no problem with that. Especially if you have grown up in a predominantly white area. White men will be more attractive because that is familiar to you in that case. As someone who is from a Northern Asian country but grew up in an area where most people have blonde hair and blue eyes, my preference is still a man with light skin, hair and eyes. Even if there is a man who resembles my people more (dark hair, olive skin, dark eyes) he will look intimidating and very unattractive to me. But maybe it’s also more because my father has light skin and blue eyes. Because there is a saying that we are often attracted to people that have resembling features to the parent of the opposite gender or something like that…
@space-junkie
10 ай бұрын
Would a reverse situation work where a fellow minority, such as an Indian guy, shows interest in you. Would you be willing to date such a person?
@korra999c7
9 ай бұрын
Something to add… in contrast, a lot of asian men also go through this existence of feeling overlooked, but on top of that, there can be a lot of violent racism from others and even denigration from asian women who sees race as a hierarchy and asian men as lesser than the default “norm” (in their eyes, whiteness).
@michelleobrien6996
9 ай бұрын
I totally agree. In Australia and from the POV of a non Asian person, I'd say men in general have a preference for Asian women and Asian women have a preference for white men. Sure Asian men find partners, but are they anyone's preference as a type??? Not that I'm aware of. AND they are joked about
@Samps76
9 ай бұрын
Asian women do not get overlooked. Asian men absolutely do.
@jonothandoeser
9 ай бұрын
The disparity?
@jingleballs9935
9 ай бұрын
VERY TRUE. Asian women often look down on Asian men. They have so many options.
@jingleballs9935
9 ай бұрын
@@Samps76yes
@Woodstockneverhappened
7 ай бұрын
I’ve done everything that she mentioned. It’s very hard as an American to be accepted in the Asian culture especially Chinese. When I first met her family, I didn’t know whether to bow or shake hands so I did both. And in Chinatown in SF, I did celebration of the dead twice. Were you put a tablecloth and the persons grave with all the food they liked and if they smoked, a cigarette was lit and put on top of the tombstone with their favorite alcoholic beverage. I’ve been in restaurants where I was the only American, but I was well accepted . She wanted me to go back to China but I didn’t. I kind of wish I would have.
@ilonajane2116
11 ай бұрын
I feel you i‘m half filipina and you‘re describing the same childhood trauma . Your words are amazing and you are beautiful Girl ❤
@pleaseimastaaaaaar
10 ай бұрын
Love her style, so authentic
@lunimooon
10 ай бұрын
A self reflection like this is one of the valuable asset one can have !! ❤❤
@Ginoso-c2c
8 ай бұрын
It makes sense that we would want someone with the same culture. And as she said, with her, it goes deeper. A guy would have to accept and learn a new culture
@thomaselliott9485
10 ай бұрын
You are beautiful. Many guys missed a fantastic opportunity to meet such a wonderful soul.
@JustinDiazJokes
10 ай бұрын
i hope she sees this bro
@brandondanner6404
10 ай бұрын
Yeah they're called ugly
@PinkLove7749
10 ай бұрын
Youre absolutely beautiful and you can tell you’re just a down to earth person I hope you find your guy one day 💕
@TiaDang-z6m
Жыл бұрын
No hate and this is a wild guess. But she's probably single because she never considered dating other races of men. I'm sure there are plenty of black, indian, hispanic etc men that would wife her up and become amazing husbands. But to each there own. People stick to their phyiscal preferences even though they limit their options.
@smann7236
Жыл бұрын
She's typical self hating asian but loves white approval...
@rockwithyou2006
11 ай бұрын
well said
@pinkunicorn7426
11 ай бұрын
so white males are not capable of that?
@aeroAdvocate
11 ай бұрын
A traditional Chinese family would NEVER accept her marrying someone like that.
@TiaDang-z6m
11 ай бұрын
@aeroAdvocate That is a problem of itself because it means that her family subscribes to white supremacy. But I wouldn't generalize that with "never" even though it is often the case. Personally, I do see/know Asian women with black men. Though I do not know of them being Chinese specifically. And in Singapore there are many Chinese/Malay and Indian relationships.
@colinlarson9656
8 ай бұрын
What a beautiful and in-tuned woman. I hope she finds a great man who is proud to be married to her. She seems like a total catch and I appreciate how candid she was in the interview. Edit; She reminds me of a girl in school who I thought would not like me for being white. Her insecurities about accepting my family are similar as well. Just proves we all are more similar than different.
@bruceleroy6551
Жыл бұрын
The answer is yes, 100 % unequivocally yes; you are chasing validation because of childhood feelings of inadequacy. You are chasing the wrong things, shallow and hollow goals which will never fulffill you or make you stop feeling those things from the past- and you know it. You realize it as well- but you wish it wasn't so. Which is why you asked the question. "Am i chasing the validation i didn't get before?". Of course you are. Focus on yourself and doing things which increase your value in the eues of a valuable person.
@sairaphilip437
Жыл бұрын
She's aware of her insecurities. That does not mean she chases the wrong things. She's single and not coupled up in a mediocre relationship.
@blue-lotus6943
9 ай бұрын
This is why I chose to be with someone from my ethnic background. I always knew that’s what I’d do because it’s easier and feels like home. I think it’s ok to do so and not feel bad that you’re not being “open-minded”. Don’t care what background my friends come from but I care when it comes to my spouse
@divergentthg7925
9 ай бұрын
Or you just don't know how to be around the right person who is not in your ethnic background many of us don't mind different ethnic backgrounds but it's usually the other person isn't ready for such a thing
@blue-lotus6943
9 ай бұрын
@@divergentthg7925 No I’m also just sexually attracted to my ethnic background. I love my culture. I love people in general and I’m a people person. I find it quite easy to talk to anyone and understand anyone but I have certain values
@divergentthg7925
9 ай бұрын
@@blue-lotus6943 so you're okay with different ethnic backgrounds got it
@jackmayov4877
8 ай бұрын
@blue_lotus Thank you for ultimately proving love is just a choice and not some feeling or chemistry as people try to make it out to be.
@calvinstulip
8 ай бұрын
We should ALL "stay in our lanes." Truth anyhow.
@youngsuit
10 ай бұрын
She said a lot of good stuff... but then it leave off the question of why she won't date Asian men if she wants someone open-minded to her culture.
@MrFLstyle
9 ай бұрын
Man that’s it right there. Dawg she just wants a white man, don’t listen to all the bs women say
@en2336
9 ай бұрын
They didn't ask her that though?
@timfriday9106
9 ай бұрын
she didn't say she doesn't or wont date asian men...you thought that all on your own.Answering questions about dating white men, doesn't mean you don't date other women. You could be asked questions about dating white women...that doesn't mean you ONLY date white women... take the chip off your shoulder brother. you can't blame not finding a woman on this.
@sgtmian
9 ай бұрын
she never said that and that also wasn’t the question, you’re making an assumption based on nothing
@4leafclover243
9 ай бұрын
@@sgtmianshe kinda did.. “that’s why I’m I’ve been single”…
@calvinstulip
8 ай бұрын
She's single but it's the guys' fault. Amazing.
@G2rtTr
3 ай бұрын
I know right. She is literally what women call an incel but in female version. If a guy sat there talking about how women dont want him and blah blah blah he is an incel. This woman had it better than most asian men and still complaining. At least she had the "am I an experiment" and had her fun. Most asian men dont even get that lmao 😂
@kindred3259
10 ай бұрын
There must be 99 asian women who date white men and 1 asian guy who date white women. Should be interviewing white women about their thoughts on dating Asian men
@davida99
10 ай бұрын
Lol we already know the answer to that
@Buttsceatcgee
10 ай бұрын
There’s a lot of asian men who want to date a white girl for sure. I feel like they’re about equal. Both asian men and women want to date a white person
@jauxro
10 ай бұрын
im whitish women and I want to date a Filipino guy 'cause I already have some family over there so I want stronger connections. And then some girls are trying to find Korean boyfriends because of kdramas. I wonder what would be represented in such an interview
@blasiankiki7831
10 ай бұрын
I agree she seemed only open to dating white men and that’s so sad. It’s a world full of beautiful men out there and she only sees white.. Asian and poly men are gorgeous, Black men gorgeous, Latino and Arab men gorgeous… she’s really missing out. Italian men… gorgeous
@blasiankiki7831
10 ай бұрын
@@Buttsceatcgeethat’s so weird to me
@jonathanjacob5453
Жыл бұрын
All the white men in her high school liked blond women. All the Asian guys in her high school liked her.
@freshdumpling
11 ай бұрын
Lots of Asian men like white blondes too
@roseparade_
11 ай бұрын
I grew up in a very white town with an Asian friend. ‘All the Asian guys’ in our school were her two brothers.
@jonathanjacob5453
11 ай бұрын
@@roseparade_ what’s your point?
@roseparade_
11 ай бұрын
@@jonathanjacob5453 What was the point of your original comment?
@jonathanjacob5453
11 ай бұрын
@@roseparade_ the point of my comment is that a lot of Asian women like this one have a no Asian men policy. One of the weirder forms of discrimination if you ask me but to each their own. Hopefully one day that good looking white man will make her like he likes her more than the blond women and fill that massive black hole that she has inside.
@LKCLifer
Жыл бұрын
Shes gorgeous. Btw I'm a straight woman. I've always been told when you stop looking they will find you.
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@ferlyghostess2086
Жыл бұрын
True
@user-fw5fd3pq6m
Жыл бұрын
no one asked your gender
@cryora
Жыл бұрын
That's the mentality that causes women to be passive and let all their opportunities slip away.
@iamsatya7884
11 ай бұрын
On my way to get my eyes gouged out, thanks for the tip 😂😂😂
@donknight9131
5 ай бұрын
I am a white man, and I tend to be attracted to white women. I've noticed that some Asian women show a preference for white men mainly for their skin color, rather than their personal qualities. This woman accuses me of fetishizing her, even though she seems to idealize white men herself.
@aavinashchaliha7810
Жыл бұрын
Normalise being single. We should never short sell ourselves just to be in a relationship. Its not worth it.
@aavinashchaliha7810
Жыл бұрын
@daveh71 Yeah, I knew your mother.
@asiatravel2010
11 ай бұрын
Many men are, and happier, richer and more relaxed for it. Thank you for the advice.
@aavinashchaliha7810
11 ай бұрын
@@asiatravel2010 I was talking about men, but your opinion is still welcome.
@SteezyMcEasy
Жыл бұрын
I’m a blonde white girl and can’t get a boyfriend. It’s not just you 😂
@thesunris
Жыл бұрын
Blondes are my favourite
@RouterSystem-70
Жыл бұрын
The woman in this video is delusional. Numerous studies have shown that Asiian women sre more desired than white women, especially blond.
@cowlico
Жыл бұрын
I laughed but you're probably really cute.
@urkittenmee
11 ай бұрын
see how men speak to you when they find out you're blonde ^^^ that's what we mean lol.
@SteezyMcEasy
11 ай бұрын
@@urkittenmee you want to be talked to like that?
@jcrawford5674
Жыл бұрын
More of her please ❤ she is so good at articulating and portraying secure dating.
@jingleballs9935
9 ай бұрын
I mean I’ve literally been called too short to date as a guy lmao and I don’t let it stop me. Something I can’t control as well. Just gotta push through to meet the right people. I’m always surprised at how well you can connect with somebody sometimes and that always keeps me going.
@dannyarcher9002
9 ай бұрын
You're a guy .... So no one cares. Tall and white only in 2024
@Poodle_Gun
7 ай бұрын
I've always preferred guys around my height. I have a lot of excessively tall people in my family. We exist.:)
@ReeseCup45
10 ай бұрын
As a mixed girl that grew up in a mostly white Midwestern town in Indiana I can confirm that this feeling like never goes away completely. I’ve been treated so badly by my white ex boyfriends. My current boyfriend is the best thing that’s ever happened to me, I met him on bumble 2 years ago and I almost didn’t go on my date with him because he looked “too country” I thought to myself that he wouldn’t really like me but boy was I wrong!!! He loves me more than everyone ever has in my life! 😭🥰
@infintyplus
10 ай бұрын
in the 80s i went to multiracial schools. Every week i would hear someone being called stupid white boy. Many of the kids there had friends in gangs or were gang affiliated and they would always harass the white students. I knew 2 white people that went to the same school i did and would always get harassed. They wound up transferring to an all white school and overnight the harassment stopped.
@infintyplus
10 ай бұрын
you think an indian wearing a turbin or an oriental boy going to an all black school is going to be seen as desirable? He will get his head kicked in on a regular basis unless he listens to rap music and speaks Ebonics.
@Jesusexplorer
10 ай бұрын
She’s so brave. It would take so much to speak about this, so vulnerable.
@Icneumone7
10 ай бұрын
Girl believe me. Getting a good relationship is like winning the lottery. Chances it'll ever happen are slim. But if it does, then you win something amazing that will change your life for better
@gertebert
8 ай бұрын
My wife is Chinese and its wonderful to be part of their family. Her parents would have liked that their daughter married a Chinese man but they also understand that love always wins. They accepted me from minute one. This can be an issue if her parents were very traditional but luckily they are very open minded.
@keithmurray3827
8 ай бұрын
White is always accpeted.
@gertebert
8 ай бұрын
@@keithmurray3827 For dauthers I would say yes, for sons it's a little more complicated in traditional families.
@rosangelaantonicelli4561
7 ай бұрын
@@gertebertyeah you're right, but as a white person currently engaged to a Chinese man, I must say that times are changing. Even foreign wives are appreciated, as long as they fit into the culture and can speak Chinese.
@olafhermans
6 ай бұрын
so the challenge is not so much the openmindedness of the man, as she states, but the openmindedness of her family ;-)
@raven-a
6 ай бұрын
Love always wins 💜
@Nobody91795
10 ай бұрын
She is beautiful inside and out 😍
@citrinehills7131
10 ай бұрын
if you want to date a man of another race, you have to be into each other's cultures. The other aspect is personality and character compatibility.
@jokbok995
10 ай бұрын
She is only limiting herself too find that perfect white guy who is educated, ready to accept her Asian family… If I would be her I would be open to more people but she can’t help what she doesn’t like
@mihangelap-williams9871
Жыл бұрын
She is a beauty
@bethe006
8 ай бұрын
It's so interesting to read these comments shared from different view points as Asian, Black, White, male, female. What has begun to really strike me about a lot of the vids I see of 'Street Interviews' is the lack of appreciation for Asian beauty. I think shenos super attractive. And, I'm completely drawn in by the features of Asian men /women, the bone structure, hair, dark eyes. anyway... In general that look is so unique. I find it beautiful. this is not to say that her feelings aren't valid. I'm simply saying with the planet becoming smaller & smaller, we need to expand our minds.
@huhhuhhuh4069
10 ай бұрын
Emotional trauma from “not being picked” is the default for the vast majority of guys lol
@voguehaven5154
10 ай бұрын
and women.
@0711floflo
10 ай бұрын
Guys are always victim 😂 No women suffer too
@declanmckenna5111
10 ай бұрын
Yeah this chick is passing her ugly kid/late bloomer complex off as a race thing.
@eugeniawilliams8034
10 ай бұрын
I didn’t need anyone choosing me because I always came first.
@urgandma
10 ай бұрын
@@voguehaven5154 I've seen plenty of fat uggo girls get absolutely ran through. A fat uggo dude can only run through a pron-site. Both may be emotionally unfulfilling, but only one is physically unfulfilling.
@MsShellectable
Жыл бұрын
She is wise emotionally, and her clear self awareness clearly helps her navigate potential connections in a healthy way.
@boggo7831
11 ай бұрын
She isn't self aware, she's nuts.
@vivianaBalbuena-Kuras-lt2pm
Жыл бұрын
The right one has not come yet. They say the good things in life are worth waiting for. You are gorgeous and smart. Be patient and pray.
@AC-mp7cx
Жыл бұрын
powerful and self aware about hating men of her own race while pursuing white male validation and complaining about not getting men's attention despite getting more attention from men in a day than an asian male or any male would get in a lifetime?
@rodrozil6544
Жыл бұрын
This is a practical world we live in. It's not a movie or a novel where the everything predetermined. Smart ones know that time doesn't wait for age. Ever heard of, "Heaven can wait, but time can't wait"?
@kaisonlum9957
8 ай бұрын
Coming from a guy that is married to a Korean women, traveled to Korea, met the family, and currently learning the language, there are definitely guys out there with an open enough mind. There just needs to be the desire to travel and embrace the culture of other places. Hope this helps!
@1FaithHopeandLove
8 ай бұрын
As a man who's totally open to Chinese women, all the Chinese women I've met are very close-minded and don't even want to be with anyone out of their specific race.
@dutchylondon
8 ай бұрын
Maybe you are the experiment for her ? Ever thought that
@soundseeker63
9 ай бұрын
I've long had the belief that the unpopular kids at school grow up to be the best adults, while the popular kids often grow up to be really crappy people. This lady is a great case in point. Apart from being very pretty, she seems really nice, articulate, self aware, and intelligent. I have no doubt her struggles and painful experiences have been an elemantal part of forging such a fine character. I think we can all relate to that. She took her life's lemons and made lemonade. I wish he love and happiness. She deserves it.
@brians9508
9 ай бұрын
she lacks confidence and that is why she is alone and will likely remain alone. and that whole thing about "passing a test". administering a test to the person you supposedly love is gonna get you a long trip on the way to forever single
@andresospina1561
8 ай бұрын
you just saw a short clip of her, calm down.
@MrRedwolf1234
8 ай бұрын
Don't listen to those 2 replies - what you said was right on!
@brians9508
8 ай бұрын
@@andresospina1561 shall we base our comments on a longer clip that we have not seen yet? is it your opinion that she did not reveal much about herself during this clip? and by the way, i only made a comment, so calm down
@andresospina1561
8 ай бұрын
@@brians9508 I wasnt even replying to your comment 🥴
@Bee37351
11 ай бұрын
I don’t know how to say this without sounding insensitive, but I am hoping it will help: if you haven’t had the best luck dating one group of guys why not just try dating a Chinese man or wherever you feel comfortable… like you’re a beautiful woman why waste your time where it hasn’t worked before ?
@aslamiyamohamed2526
10 ай бұрын
Yeah i was thinking that too tbh. She still has healing to do
@Beaneabean
10 ай бұрын
She said shes working on figuring out if shes trying to fill that insecurity by dating white guys. Shes figuring it all out
@67y3j3fv2wg
10 ай бұрын
She would have to find a Chinese guy who is as "westernised" as she is and most of them are also chasing white girls actually. I also doubt the guys in China would be a good fit for her she is very Americanised. I hope she finds someone worthy one day. She is stunning and smart.
@IONov990
10 ай бұрын
I thought she should consider Chinese American men too but I didn't want to sound racist
@Aceliious
10 ай бұрын
Cuz asian womem have weird fetish for white guys
@joanofarcxxi
10 ай бұрын
Okay so... She din't get picked in high school by white guys... And guys were not "lining up" to date her. What high school did you go to, and why do you only want to get picked by white guys? Why do you think guys have to "line up" to date anyone? lol The school I went to, many guys liked Asian girls. I mean, many guys still do, just look at the comments. She also talks about "passing the test". So if you guys are interested, not so fast, you have to pass her test. Dating nowadays is such a sham. When I was in high school guys didn't line up to date me either. I didn't expect it. I was not only interested in one color or ethnicity either. And they didn't have to pass any test. It was not an obstacle course for a guy to date me. That is not what standards are about. She needs to work on a few things. Like, self worth and an accurate sense of reality. Good luck.
@gotlos77
10 ай бұрын
Simple. She’s just not that attractive enough for white men (i think it’s her preference) to put up with her culture. Cuz i mean, asian girls are more desired overall (the pretty ones anyway). I think deep down she probably knows it as well.
@saragirma6577
10 ай бұрын
I was pretty much like that. I was a but shy a d quite and boys weren't my concern at that age, period.
@richardv9648
10 ай бұрын
I think she already answered that. White men makes her feel validated in the world we live in. If there is any white supremacy left in the world today, its only when dating Asian women.
@mikemilligan8461
10 ай бұрын
Only sane comment in this thread lol
@scartissuefilms
10 ай бұрын
Good post. I'm 100% sure it wasn't'white guys' that didn't pick her either. It was one particular white guy she was obsessed about and who happened to be dating a blonde cheerleader. Then she made it a thing.
@lancehobbs8012
2 ай бұрын
I did that " experiment " 18 years ago , dated an Asian girl, and im never dating another. Been married to her 16 years now❤
@DP-yu4rr
11 ай бұрын
Poor ASIAN MEN!!!!!!
@ambiven10
10 ай бұрын
This! I bet she is not giving chance to other asian men from her race who are interested in her.
@theia1653
10 ай бұрын
No. I have never and will probably never date an Asian woman, and the only ones I do like are the very few most Americanized ones that are a 9 or 10 so this doesn't affect me other than being an annoyance. This isn't about my pride and it gives me no satisfaction to say it but I actually would not want my daughter to date an Asian boy either because the vast majority still want to be traditional and have a lot of catching up to do as far as assimilating. They're not for us.
@soneashley-wilson9826
10 ай бұрын
I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS ENTIRE VIDEO, CONVERSATION, TOPIC.... As an African-American female who didn't have her first real date until 21 I can totally relate!😊
@infintyplus
10 ай бұрын
would you have been better of growing up in an all black enviroment?
@infintyplus
10 ай бұрын
soneashley-wilson9826 this is what happens with forced racial diversity. nothing new and it will never change.
@brownjaded
10 ай бұрын
@@infintyplushell no .. that’s the worse. They would spit this young lady up and chew her out
@davida99
10 ай бұрын
@@brownjadedWhere does your pfp come from 😂
@davvydivine
10 ай бұрын
Many if not most blk women have similar sentiments on this subject 😅
@James-xd1rf
10 ай бұрын
They don’t wanna talk about this
@infintyplus
10 ай бұрын
you think an indian wearing a turbin or an oriental boy going to an all black school is going to be seen as desirable? He will get his head kicked in on a regular basis unless he listens to rap music and speaks Ebonics.
@thecommentsection4913
10 ай бұрын
I don't think Blk women have this same issue because Blackness is positioned very different as it relates to whiteness. Most Blk women are not growing up assessing their beauty based on desirability by white men which is what she's talking about. Most Black women don't even aspire to date outside of there race. This something that's just starting to change.
@invalidsin5665
9 ай бұрын
She's in NYC. A good majority of her ilk are married to white men, so I don't know where that "experiment" comment is coming from.
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