As a man who uses self deprecating humor I feel personally attacked lol
@zombathinlostleghackercat5233
Жыл бұрын
🤡
@quentinhans4755
Жыл бұрын
@@zombathinlostleghackercat5233…
@blurryluigiphoto8569
Жыл бұрын
same
@umaiman7752
Жыл бұрын
Bro same
@Fox101st
Жыл бұрын
Nah bro if you think you're attacked Just remember that I exist.
@sightlylime1149
11 ай бұрын
The idea that someone outside of family could say this kind of and actually mean it is inconceivable to me
@mindfulmessasmr
11 ай бұрын
No one should be mean to themselves, everyone is beautiful!! :3
@HeroGhost
Жыл бұрын
“You deserve to see yourself the way I see you” I’m trying every day to get there. I’m so grateful you’re here by my side when I’m struggling in the depths of my doubts. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested! An important message is woven into this beautiful audio. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I hope you are also doing well!!!
@shadowdevil126
Жыл бұрын
That was a nice 10 minute break from the loneliness to bad it hurts a little more after it ends
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!
@SlutForCynthia
Жыл бұрын
You either cry about it or move on. There's so many factors when it comes to loneliness. I recommend working on yourself. Stuff like working out is your bodies natural "no depression" pill. “He who has a why to live can bear almost anyhow.”
@themarinefan
Жыл бұрын
"Don't be mean to yourself" Me and my variant about to start a lethal fist fight: cowabunga it is.
@DubbleOboyz
Жыл бұрын
As someone who struggles with self worth. I NEEDED THIS! Thank you asmr girl
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope it helps!!! :3
@chrisholland2016
10 ай бұрын
Wow this touched my 10 year emotional wound bottled up to myself. When it comes to having autism it gets extremely difficult and scary to express how I'm feeling. Wish I can have a girl's shoulder to cry on but I feel like a burden and such a waste of time when I do that. And of course I end up getting brutally hard on myself at work everytime I make a mistake. IDK I just beat myself up way too much. But this is one of the types of audios I needed to hear.
@mindfulmessasmr
10 ай бұрын
I hope you're doing okay!!!
@Embersofthedark
5 ай бұрын
I understand, as I, have a brother who has autism and have helped him with it I thought him how to talk, but I had to learn an entirely different language he now calls "dumbass linguistics" P.S. he's my twin so we can read each other like an open book
@calamoron1117
6 ай бұрын
You gotta thug that shi out🗣‼️
@halfeatenapple0903
2 ай бұрын
real
@Just2Comment789
Жыл бұрын
As an Insecurity Officer, I see this as a quality product of your effort 👏 thank you, miss
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I do what I can :3
@rudyflorestheswitchblade4462
Жыл бұрын
"Hey, don't be mean to yourself". Me:🥺 *hugs
@Bucket0rocks.
Жыл бұрын
Man, this video showed me how badly I needed reassurance like this…and probably a hug too. Thank you so much for the audio mindful, and previous audios too while I’m at it since I don’t comment often. …I don’t really know how to wrap this comment up so have a smiley face :)
@HeroGhost
Жыл бұрын
I know a virtual hug doesn’t help much but I hope you’re doing okay and that things get better for you!
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re okay!!!
@Bucket0rocks.
Жыл бұрын
I’m better, thank you both. Without getting into sob stories I’ve just moved a bunch and I guess constantly losing every friendship over time got to me. I promise I’m fine though, really. Not in the pretending to be fine way, I’ll honestly be okay. That probably doesn’t sound convincing at all since it’s difficult to convey tone over text and now the comment is just getting really long… TLDR: Thank you both for the concern, I’ll be okay.
@HeroGhost
Жыл бұрын
@@Bucket0rocks. That’s completely understandable. Wishing you all the best. Take care and I hope things get better.
@gL1TCHrr_
Жыл бұрын
:))
@heisenbergpinkman2265
Жыл бұрын
I actually did mess up some stuff pretty bad at work...... and I just felt bad. this video helps alot with that. Thank you ❤ I'm getting teary now
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Awe, I hope you're okay!!!
@bendalymckenna6271
Жыл бұрын
We all have days where we just need a kind voice to make us feel better. If people use a stern voice telling us to not be mean to ourselves because they love you.
@arcwiz
Жыл бұрын
It's hard to not be insecure tho
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, I hope you’re okay!!
@iluv_lyfe
3 ай бұрын
Ik it’s hard bro but focus on the things u can improve about yourself and trust me it helps
@churchilltank659
Жыл бұрын
This is the first of your audios I’ve ever listened to but it was nice it was very chill and you’ve got a great voice for it it’s 3am and I still can’t sleep but this made me a little bit more sleepy even if it didn’t help my horrible self esteem so thank you for that oh and happy new year too!
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year!! I’m sorry it didn’t help you’re self esteem, but I think you’re wonderful!! Being human is hard, so I admire people who can get through the day
@churchilltank659
Жыл бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr thank you for your kind words
@Boogieman23905
4 ай бұрын
solid cry , ill rate it 6/10
@zombathinlostleghackercat5233
Жыл бұрын
Sounds nice!
@bill6
Жыл бұрын
Trees that smile? Sounds spooky
@leeryarch3523
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. First cry to an ASMR, and for a long time in general. I really needed this.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad it was helpful!!!
@justaforklift2155
Жыл бұрын
I am a forklift that has left mayoral office, and has since written a best selling autobiography!
@nitricacid2516
Жыл бұрын
Man this hits close to home
@justhuman963
10 ай бұрын
I always set unrealistic expectations for myself and then destroy myself if I don’t reach them.
@mindfulmessasmr
10 ай бұрын
Oh no!!! It's okay to not reach certain goals/expectations, life can be difficult :3 but there are still so many wonderful things to enjoy!!!
@christofferthorsson607
Жыл бұрын
Feel like we could all use these kinds of people in our lives. I know I would
@SuperSpike47
Жыл бұрын
Wonderful audio. I hope you are having a great day 🐰
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I hope you’re having a great day as well!!!
@JP5150_
5 ай бұрын
People need to understand that low self-esteem is not a bad thing. It shows that even though I put myself down I am actually ensuring everyone else around me is elevated higher than me. It's just truthful statements disguised as insecurities, personally I don't think its wrong to have low self-esteem. I have lived with it for 20+ years and even though each day feels worse than the last, at least everyone else is better than me. And that's not being insecure, its admitting my own flaws and acknowledging that I am meant to become lesser than so others feel uplifted, truthfully that makes me happy.
@mindfulmessasmr
5 ай бұрын
Uplifting others by putting yourself down is not healthy and can hurt your overall wellness. I hope you can find someone to talk to about this!!! There are ways to make others feel good about themselves without harming your own self-image!!!
@zzqqz4331
2 ай бұрын
You have very peaceful voice like an angel ❤
@mindfulmessasmr
2 ай бұрын
Awe, thank you!!!
@pizzam4nn
Жыл бұрын
Cool char design.
@dudepop1456
2 ай бұрын
I wish I could have a girl's shoulder to cry on,but I would feel like a burden. I have been going from video to video crying my eyes out listening to people tell me that it's okay. So thank you
@mindfulmessasmr
2 ай бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@SansAU-ef2rb
8 ай бұрын
As a guy who got bully when I was little,I got bully from elementary school to high school,sadly,I also had Tourette Syndrome,this audio saves me😢, You are a kind guy Hope you have a wonderful day.
@mindfulmessasmr
7 ай бұрын
I'm a girl, but thank you!! :3 I hope you also have a wonderful day!!! I hope you have someone you can reach out to and talk about this with
@maskedherophil5405
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for always being here with me. Your kindness has touched my heart with comfort and warmth. As you cuddle me in your arms and kiss your forehead. Hold me tight as I rest my head on your shoulder my loving sweetheart.
@Antonio-is2cn
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for looking out for me!
@sveninatorsw
3 ай бұрын
You made me cry 😢
@mindfulmessasmr
3 ай бұрын
I'm sorry!!!
@bright1359
Жыл бұрын
All I do is be mean to myself constantly and it is gonna take a hell of a lot to change that but this helps, even if its just a little it still helps.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re okay!!!
@bright1359
Жыл бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr I think I'm ok for now. Thank you for your concern, it makes me feel as though someone actually cares lol
@odin0707
Жыл бұрын
Very nice
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!!!
@eds7012
8 ай бұрын
As someone who *_L O A T H E S_* themselves with absolute *_CONTEMPT_* ,this helps me through the harder times
@nather5509
7 ай бұрын
Woah... I am seriously rethinking my anger issues and social problems now thank you
@Akiduy
Жыл бұрын
I am dumb! Almost 3 Years ago I lost my scholarship cuz I can't maintain high grades. And I hate myself cuz deep inside me I feel like I intentionally fail some tests. I feel stupid, I was stuck, I just can't... learn anything even tho I study everyday. I was tired. At that time I didn't think anything of it. And now I regret it so much. That was the first time in my life that I failed something and probably dissapointed my family. I still cry whenever think about it to this day. It's one of the reasons why I'm still unemployed.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Please find someone you can reach out to and talk about these feelings!!!
@artratengo3685
Ай бұрын
literally me failing my hs graduation both times, couldn't learn to speak the nation's language because I've been enrolled in minority language speaking school all my life and had no friends outside the school, who i could practice and gain understanding with.. and to use the school's diploma in electrician field i would have to know the language and the technical stuff in it too..
@Strawb_milk5
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@crazedbutcher6672
4 ай бұрын
Am I broken to have heard this entire thing and to still think that I'm absolutely worth nothing and don't deserve anything either?
@mindfulmessasmr
4 ай бұрын
I hope you're doing okay!!!
@crazedbutcher6672
4 ай бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr I'm really not but that's okay
@endergem957
2 ай бұрын
Hey! I use self deprecating humor to cope with my internal self deprecation.
@mvt289
Жыл бұрын
some people are really selfish. so there is this friend that i told I'd help him do some (absolutely not important it's just some bs) things, then the next day i got a call that i had to be at school because of a test and that was the same day i was supposed to go to my friend's house and help him with that thing, the same day i fell sick, i had to skip school and told my friend i couldn't be there, dude gets mad because i just ditched him like that, dude didn't even care i was sick he just straight up started yelling at the phone, although it lasted 2 minutes, that truly took a toll on my emotions, this happened yesterday and since yesterday my whole brain has fogged up, literally couldn't even have lunch nor dinner, it's 10 am in the morning and I haven't ate since yesterday. some people really aren't worth it and he's one of those people, small words do big damage :(
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@humor_n
Жыл бұрын
I have a creepy image of a smiley tree in my head, naah ty fam.
@Hotmustard69777
Ай бұрын
Thank you. I feel asleep for the first time in 30+ hours listening to this. I hardly ever get a real break that's not just me feeling like crap for the time I have off. I don't think it will ever end but it's nice to get a break from the insecurities and the loneliness for a while.
@mindfulmessasmr
29 күн бұрын
I hope you're doing okay!!!
@Hotmustard69777
29 күн бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr Thanks, made it this far
@TiT0.
Жыл бұрын
🖤✨
@lelouchv6052
Жыл бұрын
💗
@wavezics
7 ай бұрын
IVE HAD A FUCKINTG TERRIBLE DAY THANK YOU FOR THIS VIODEO I NEEDED THIS
@mindfulmessasmr
7 ай бұрын
I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING BETTER!!!
@wavezics
4 ай бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr i love you.
@angelw1ngs_
Жыл бұрын
“your not stupid” my dad doesnt think that 🥲
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re okay!!!
@angelw1ngs_
Жыл бұрын
trucking along also i live your audios they make me very happy 😊
@CassieAngelica
7 ай бұрын
Thank you❤ I have been coming back here for some time now. You’re just generally amazing.💖❤️🩹💐
@mindfulmessasmr
7 ай бұрын
Awe, thank you!!! x3
@dragonjames4500
Жыл бұрын
Don't be mean to myself... It's not easy but it never hurts to try.
@JyrTheCrumbling
3 ай бұрын
WE ARE STARTING TO BREAK APART WITH THIS ONE 🗣️🗣️🗣️📣📣🔥💯‼️💯💯
@mindfulmessasmr
3 ай бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@epicsandvich014
Жыл бұрын
As someone who uses self depreciating humor often and has self worth issues, I’ve heard a lot of things somewhat similar to this from some people I know.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing okay!!
@epicsandvich014
Жыл бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr thank you, it means a lot to hear. I’m managing. A lot of the negative things I hear about myself and say about myself have really just become things I believe, but I’m trying to work through it with some very good friends of mine
@AdderoYuu
Жыл бұрын
This morning I was having some sort of dream about being locked in a house with someone and they were talking to me and reassuring me, I don't even remember what the circumstance was but it was your voice because this video started playing while I was asleep
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Cool :3
@JakeSm4sh
Жыл бұрын
If M were to reply what would she say Thanks for bringing my idea to fruition here since you did my idea here this is for you🐰🐰🐇🐇 and you did it in my favorite voice you high-pitched one yay I'm excited
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I do what I can :3
@JakeSm4sh
Жыл бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr I'm glad you do what you do to make us happy
@-Lucifer__
Жыл бұрын
Amazing idea, and amazing person 🫡
@JakeSm4sh
Жыл бұрын
@@-Lucifer__ Awww you flatter me too much Lucy
@HeroGhost
Жыл бұрын
The idea turned out beautifully! Great suggestion!
@RaidFlint94
Жыл бұрын
❤️👍
@varsame
5 ай бұрын
Sweet lord how down bad am I
@lostsoup
4 ай бұрын
Oh trust me I have already hurt my own feelings way to many times......I know everyone messes up sometimes but the biggest mistake anyone could of made was having me.........
@Ghillie_Dhu_
Жыл бұрын
I dont know what happened, I was going really well and then things messed up, I thought I knew the solution but I'm sure I've made it worse.
@leosamurai1910
Жыл бұрын
No offense or anything, but the fact that i needed this video shows how messed up and lonely i am. Anyway, still, good video, im glad you are helping me and other with it.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@JosEngel-po7js
16 күн бұрын
Everyone was rude to me in the past and now it beacame worse my friends dont play i dont see them so i got no friends and i feel like that i hate my self like my stress is so bad and depression too that i dont know what exitment and love and comfront and attention feels like and i never feel these 😐😢
@mindfulmessasmr
16 күн бұрын
I hope you have someone to talk to about these feelings!!!
@venom890
Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺
@a.r.5604
Жыл бұрын
It's an interesting paradox - people don't like me because I don't like myself and I don't like myself because people don't like me. Those words you say about the listener being wonderful, beautiful and all that - no one has ever said even remotely to those words to me. I'm trying so hard, but people have rejected me over and over again, not to mention girls have avoided me in a wide arch for as long as I can remember. In 23 years of my existence, no one has ever shown a sliver of interest in me. I mean, how could they? I understand I'm ugly and unattractive. Still, knowing that doesn't make it much easier. Acknowledgement can be liberating, but it can, and in most cases is, very frustrating. A good job on the audio regardless, it was an enjoyable recording even though I cannot really believe what's being said in it to the listener.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! And you have to be nicer to yourself!!!
@sgtforcenico
13 күн бұрын
How do i find a girl that is even close to being like you?! ❤🥺
@Juany1985
9 ай бұрын
😢
@peanutman2784
4 ай бұрын
I'm such a fool🤣 I hate myself too much to believe this
@mindfulmessasmr
4 ай бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@halfeatenapple0903
2 ай бұрын
real
@Omixity
Ай бұрын
Same
@m1xxx3r
Жыл бұрын
Dont You dare being mean to Yourself! 😠 Or i may go there and put some sense into You with some aggresive affirmations or in most dire situation even get physical with some headpats. Of cour trees smile, especially when there's more of them. As Bob Ross said "everyone, even a tree, needs a friend" ❤❤
@sogeking4541
Жыл бұрын
Hey M i hope yor doing alright Recently I've got this feeling that ... I'm not a good person, and the more I think about it the more I see the bad guy in my personality I don't have someone to talk about this with him Soo that's why im commenting this Im not saying that I'm going full villein mode, but the fact that im a bad person is just annoying me.i don't wanna take your time with a reply ,You reading this is good enough for me 💙 I just wanted to talk about it to get it out of my head . :)
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you’re going through this, I hope you can reach out to someone who can help and talk about this with you
@Tulf42
7 ай бұрын
I can relate at 5:23. One time I made a mistake, I'm not sure if I should say on here about specifics, but I acknowledged that it was my fault and was okay with it, but my Dad was so p***ed off that he really made me feel guilty as if I had committed murder or thrown a fortune away, and he refused to lose the argument even if I said it was an accident with the little breath I had left before I had to cry in my room for the rest of the night.
@mindfulmessasmr
7 ай бұрын
I hope you're okay!!!
@Tulf42
7 ай бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr I'm better now than I was at the time, thanks, but I find it hard to look at the broken family antique whenever I walk past it.
@pauloackerman2003
Жыл бұрын
Like 😊
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Yayyy!!!!
@presleynotalt5530
Жыл бұрын
Like at this point I'm good at being insecure. At least I finally did something right in my life 😆
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Oh I hope you're not being mean to yourself!!! Everyone is absolutely wonderful :3
@vormic
Жыл бұрын
"Close the door and pretend it's not there" as the old ones say "out of sight out of mind" If M where to say what are her favorite 6 words of the day?
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
The wind howls very loud tonight
@Embersofthedark
5 ай бұрын
As a man who thinks mistakes make me useless, i feel attacked by you (im not upset its funny to me
@TheGreatMcPain
15 күн бұрын
I'm at the point where I just assume that people don't want to interact with me. Even if someone tries to get my attention I just assume they're talking to someone else with the same name. I do get compliments sometimes, but I don't take them even if they slapped me in the face. Even videos like these don't really do much for me anymore.
@mindfulmessasmr
14 күн бұрын
I'm sorry, I hope you're doing okay!!!
@topoo-kw8zr
6 ай бұрын
Listening to this makes me feel like validating my inability to do things. I'm talentless, worthless. Man i hate my mind.
@mindfulmessasmr
6 ай бұрын
No one is worthless!!
@lonewolfgamingplus379
Жыл бұрын
As a guy who complies his existence every day, and has the lowest self-esteem, and self-worth every day. Thanks, I guess. I'll just go on to going into the shadows as I always do.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you’re okay!!!
@spidergalva
Жыл бұрын
But being means easier than being nice!
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
True, but nice is nice :3
@-Lucifer__
Жыл бұрын
👋.
@JakeSm4sh
Жыл бұрын
👋
@benmoore4697
2 ай бұрын
But what if i dont deserve to be positive about myself
@mindfulmessasmr
2 ай бұрын
It may seem that way, but I'm sure there's something positive or happy or even just pleasant that you can admire about yourself!!! :3 We are our own worst critics, so you may see yourself entirely different from how others see you
@JosEngel-po7js
16 күн бұрын
Actely people where alot mean to me and now worse so i feel like um ugly and trash and i never smile
@mindfulmessasmr
16 күн бұрын
I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!
@lol-2247
Жыл бұрын
Hello there,
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
Heyo
@halfeatenapple0903
2 ай бұрын
I just want someone to talk to
@shaferhilke1193
Жыл бұрын
If mindful was to respond, how would she feel if she was the Lorax?
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I do care about the environment, but I wouldn’t like being the Lorax xD
@shaferhilke1193
Жыл бұрын
@@mindfulmessasmr xD
@G.S.Productions
6 ай бұрын
I’m hoping you’re not talking about the one voiced by Danny DeVito.
@somedragondood7884
16 күн бұрын
I feel like every day my relationship with my girlfriend worsens. We argue a lot and I do so many things that I know irritate her. She barely lets on but I know she's getting tired of me. I don't know what I'm doing, I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing, and I don't know how to do it right. I feel lost and alone, but I don't know if I can turn to anybody. I feel like a walking disaster, and I seem to make everything I do worse. I just don't know anymore. But who cares fuck it we ball 🗿
@mindfulmessasmr
15 күн бұрын
I hope you have the chance to sit down with your girlfriend and talk to see what's going on!!!
@banana_pancake7171
Жыл бұрын
Eh, too bad, I am not willing to change myself enough to feel promptly satisfied, so I just excuse myself in my own little pity party of pathetic excuses to keep my ego down instead of dealing with the fact that I just hate myself and changing for the better. I am not willing to be a better person, I find comfort in the familiarity of Sadness and the shallow praise I receive from putting the bit of effort others are not willing to so I have something to boast about to myself. No, I was not a good student because I really put that much effort, nor do I do well at my job because I am particularly smart or charismatic, I am just functional, and that seems to be enough for most.
@banana_pancake7171
Жыл бұрын
Oh man, that's embarrassing.
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I hope you have someone you can talk to about this!!!
@banana_pancake7171
Жыл бұрын
My therapist.
@donkay.9928
2 ай бұрын
But fucking up too much is not normal
@mindfulmessasmr
2 ай бұрын
To some people it is, there isn't really such a thing as normal :3
@ajthegamingrookie2367
Жыл бұрын
This didn't help
@mindfulmessasmr
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I hope you're doing okay!!!
@absbee98
4 ай бұрын
No one would every feel like this towards me , I'm done of trying, my loneliness is done. Thank you for the asmr.
@mindfulmessasmr
4 ай бұрын
You can find your person one day!!!
@mylife8806
4 ай бұрын
Real
@Sammus_Miner
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I'm mean to myself cause I deserve it!
@mindfulmessasmr
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No one should be mean to themselves!!
@Sammus_Miner
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@@mindfulmessasmr it's not that I'm try to make myself believe I'm stupid, it's that I am stupid
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