The more I listen to these questions the more I'm glad I've waited until I was 1000% sure I had total self confidence and love in myself before I even think about dating.
@NiqueTheSneak1
2 жыл бұрын
Love that! You did as you should! That will save you a lot of hurt
@Rooted_Locs
5 жыл бұрын
Ooh baby, what is you doing?????
@garryjohnson4578
5 жыл бұрын
miniimufin Lol!
@soboogee7818
5 жыл бұрын
Okkkurr.. she might get her feelings hurt popping up to Houston unannounced .. Chile get u a puppy, a bird, a 3rd job, just stop popping up before u set ur self up for disappointment & heartbreak..u trying way harder than this dude is..let it go..taper off, block his number u doing too much and u looking needy and desperate
@videohog100
5 жыл бұрын
She's playing herself. Next question.
@lorrainebanath-yasharahla9561
5 жыл бұрын
Nakama4Life : EXACTLY 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯FOR SHO 😀
@jenniferhill8776
5 жыл бұрын
She playing herself expert level. She's the posterchild : don't be like this woman. I hope Steve's advice, helped her 'a little'
The audience though 😂😂😂😂😂 especially that one that reminded him how many times they broke up. I want a girl friend that is that attentive when am speaking.
@mr.richard3109
5 жыл бұрын
The flag is so red, it started bleeding.
@ninaleyda2213
5 жыл бұрын
Mr. Richard I agree
@lorrainebanath-yasharahla9561
5 жыл бұрын
Mr. Richard: SHO YOU RIGHT 💯💪
@nianiah2212
5 жыл бұрын
So what will he do with his wife or girlfriend for new years? Cause he has YET to invite her. Does he really live in Texas?
@juliasmith2271
5 жыл бұрын
U kill me 🤣🤣😂😂
@misskayeleigh4378
5 жыл бұрын
she need a good kick in the ass!
@daamazinfatb0y752
5 жыл бұрын
Man I love how real and down to earth Steve is. He just tells it like it is and gives really good advice.
@CourageDearHeart316
5 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say, I love Steve's raw REAL advice to people. Even though he jokes, it is a funny joke. He is that person you laugh at his joke and listen to his serious advice at the same time. That is not easy to to do. 😂
@jesusisalwayshome5658
2 жыл бұрын
That is just how I fill!😁
@Cheyenergy
5 жыл бұрын
The audience’s commentary is THE BEST PART of this video 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@trigreeng450
5 жыл бұрын
A woman should never invite herself into a mans space...never buy yourself a ticket to see him or even go across the street to see a man if he didn't invite you...
@nianiah2212
5 жыл бұрын
Teach ....
@shamisha10
5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Like why is she pushing herself to be all up on him.. he has to be the one to offer up everything
@sweetbeauty2153
5 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@maryluvsmusic9298
5 жыл бұрын
trigreen g, I smell a relationship already goin on with that guy. He tellin her he luv her so he can “get some”. She’s in denial. She better leave him where he’s at.
@VintageAfro91
4 жыл бұрын
exactly! I don't even call or text first. I let him initiate everything.
@DD-ol1pq
5 жыл бұрын
She sounds like she’s 16 and she got kids in college! How does she know he’s not married.? Her question was on the mark though. He’s not playing her... she’s playing HERSELF!!! Ladies, if it smells bad, it’s rotten!
@rochellesmith3948
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao Steve's audience is the best 😂
@joyjoy5689
3 жыл бұрын
Ladies and gents, it's better to be alone than to be where you are unwanted. Don't force yourself on people
@hello1721
5 жыл бұрын
Girl you are just lonely and you found someone. You want it to work, but its not going to. You seem like a nice person and you're FINE. I'm sure there are a few good men in Kansas City.
@terrygreen3553
5 жыл бұрын
THERE IS AND I'M ONE OF THEM!!!!
@shelitawilliams4235
5 жыл бұрын
I refuse to date anyone in Kc I’m far from lonely honey he and I have made plans to see each other I’m not going down just to be going down
@SultryNeoSoul
5 жыл бұрын
“And I’m ready to do this”... do what ma’am you’ve only seen him once and booked a trip😂😭 I cannot hahahaha... and hear Steve: “Lets just walk this dog together...” 🤣
@Africaqueenz
5 жыл бұрын
"They broke up 4 times" 😂
@marvinskyz3455
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha Steve always try to bring out our hidden tactics to the ladies for em to more careful, very nice one thou uncle Steve... Much luv from 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
@user-zx5xw4yw2e
5 жыл бұрын
"We kinda sorta ended up in a relationship" :/
@AlitaQuinn
5 жыл бұрын
Dazzling Jewel Yeah like what does that mean?!
@lorrainebanath-yasharahla9561
5 жыл бұрын
Dazzling Jewel: She lying - He do not want her as in --- RELATIONSHIP. SHE WANT HIM MORE.
@chriselguerro7234
5 жыл бұрын
That’s a typical HoustonMan Response. “Cool” lol maybe cause I’m in Houston 🤷🏻♂️😂
@brenita60
4 жыл бұрын
Chris El Guerro Right?! We don’t give a damn 😂😂
@tcalvin4196
5 жыл бұрын
Baby first of all get that hair out of your eye because it is clouding your judgement, look here save that money you are putting on a plane ticket for a "BOOTY CALL" and send your Son's a care package for Christmas and let him come to you.
@jenniferhill8776
5 жыл бұрын
T Calvin listen if his situation not rite he's gonna be happy if she moves, cuz he can live we with her & be a kept man
@tcalvin4196
5 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhill8776 My Dear PLEASE do me a favor and reread what you wrote and see if it makes any sense, correct your spelling of the word "rite" which should be "right" and get back with me with what it is you are trying to say. Oh and the word "cuz" is it supposed to be "because" or "cousin". I am not understanding your grammar.
@jenniferhill8776
5 жыл бұрын
@@tcalvin4196 well I'm sorry if you don't understand English bc 90% of the population uses simple vernacular like 'cuz' & 'rite' esp in online forums & texting bc it's easier & faster for typing. So maybe you are geriatric to not be able to 'understand' the last message I wrote. Also it's 2019 and if u don't understand what bc is or geriatric is, yet u are on online forums, I will pray for you. I was agreeing with you & adding my point in my first statement, not denouncing or criticizing your statement as a lie. So how about you reread that. If you still have complaints afterward like your sorry retort above, then u can step back foo' (as my friend Mr. T likes to say). and it's all good because from your previous admonition you don't even understand what foo' is.
@tcalvin4196
5 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferhill8776 I feel sorry for YOU young lady and your parents. At 72 years old my Dear I thought about what I would say to you but all I am going to say is I feel so sorry for you. I will say this, young lady if you don't STAND for the RIGHT things in life, you WILL FALL for ANYTHING, and you have fallen for anything. You don't have to be a FOLLOWER with the 90% of people who YOU say uses bad grammar, why not STAND with the 10% of people as YOU say who uses correct grammar.
@jenniferhill8776
5 жыл бұрын
@@tcalvin4196 yes vernacular is bad grammar. I feel sorry for you as well unable to comprehend the generality and use of simple vernacular used by 90% of the population perhaps except less so by ooold people. You have underscored the fact you are geriatric so its understandable. The sad part is you are putting yourself on a high horse by attempting to not understand simple vernacular a toddler could understand & to 'correct' me. The world does not need correction for vernacular on public, casual online forums such as this. I feel sad for you too b e c a u s e it must make difficult for those under 40 to connect with you & have a relationship with you since you have an imaginary high horse of English grammar. Let's not forget, my 1st message I was agreeing with you & adding my points which you MISTOOK for me saying you were wrong & so decided to "go after me" including grammatical corrections as a result. Yes let's overlook the Fact I was agreeing with you but that most important point has GONE OVER your 70+ year old head. Ain't nobody got time for your foolishness. Enjoy grammar, old person. Enjoy scrabble, Sudoku & crossword puzzles too. And what's more interesting, is Steve Harvey is known to speak in vernacular alll the time, on his show! Particularly when he makes short, off the cuz remarks & quips in response to his guests & audience's issues! So u just called yourself out dummy So should just get off his channel if you don't understand it. Otherwise you have 'selective vernacular understanding' thus are a hypocrite. Since you do understand the vernacular Steve Harvey is saying which is not correct grammatical English. .if you want to correct my grammar then: write to Steve Harvey or be a guest on his show in order to correct him & SEE how that goes. If not, get off his channel hypocrite. He is known for not speaking 'Correct English Grammar' at times in every episode, demonstrating his frankness & desire to give folks down to earth understandable suggestions for their situations. But we already understand what Steve would tell you, if you don't like his speech & are inclined to correct him all time, you can just watch another show instead, cuz Steve a million dollar man, ain't changing for you. Keep yourself entertained with Scrabble & crossword puzzles where you can maintain allll the correct grammar you want. & Since you are the correct English grammar Princess, you wouldn't understand what BOOTY CALL is, as you put it, bc booty is spoils, plunder according to the dictionary & the other meaning was only incorporated as SLANG which you don't understand. Booty call would literally mean butt call which does not directly translate into sex, but perhaps like a mere catcall. There are alot of reasons to feel sad for youth your selective Slang use/ approval, but desire to correct others hypocrite. Try Correcting Steve Harvey, bye Felicia 👍👍✌️✌️
@eskedarr6656
5 жыл бұрын
“See how long it will take till the 5th time !” 😂
@cccc-rz5qf
5 жыл бұрын
''How hurt was he?'' Hihihi
@Jackiluv777
5 жыл бұрын
4 minutes and 38 seconds of my life which I will never get back.
@DigitalDiaries268
5 жыл бұрын
steve is so funny! lmao
@wuiblidluub
5 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful😍
@thesixthsnakecanceradventu5862
5 жыл бұрын
The true blue suave mr.bruce wayne very
@shelitawilliams4235
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you that was me on the show
@dfillmore1036
5 жыл бұрын
@@shelitawilliams4235 you are gorgeous I would love to talk to you
@dfillmore1036
5 жыл бұрын
Are you single?
@dfillmore1036
5 жыл бұрын
@@shelitawilliams4235 I don't know if you are still seeing that guy or not but if not I would love to get to know you.
@palesacaesar9933
4 жыл бұрын
I honestly think Steve should have a night time show
@kaliselashae7373
5 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey is such a good man
@TF-gf3fs
5 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@nayaabannor5418
5 жыл бұрын
She has two kids in college and one would think she would be matured but hey
@SoLiTaRyBoNe
5 жыл бұрын
Maturity isn't measured by age. A woman needs to feel wanted and chased after especially at that age
@yawdankwa1903
5 жыл бұрын
Its called loneliness
@keino111689
5 жыл бұрын
Naya Abannor you know what...I applaud her. At least she sent her damn kids to college so we at least know she’s not a worthless woman but she’s been single for nine years and now she lonely and needs companionship. It’s perfectly normal and for a woman her age, she needs love and affection. It’s easy to get caught up in the feeling when you’ve been lonely for a while. Steve gave her the right advice. She should just go enjoy that booty call for now without too many expectations and if it turns out that they both are in love with each other then they go from there. I think, if she holds herself to height standards and absolutely does not want to give herself up to a man unless he’s looking for something serious then she should have a talk with him and then wait to see if he’s the man she’s looking for before she give it up. Other than that she’s quite alright. Everyone has a little weakness and hers is a bit of loneliness....doesn’t mean she’s not mature.
@shelitawilliams4235
5 жыл бұрын
PROTOSTAR thank you for your comment that was me and I’m very mature for my age and yes I got 2 kids in college and I’m really ready to live my best life
@2dasimmons
5 жыл бұрын
WHAT do YOU consider mature?
@Kennyarnold16
5 жыл бұрын
c'mon ladies! some of this stuff is common sense!
@jaredarroz
5 жыл бұрын
good for steve for getting on the crowd for their reaction to her
@JuanitaMichelle
5 жыл бұрын
She kinda ended up in a relationship and has never seen him? And booked a ticket to go and he didn’t respond well? Yet you’re thinking of moving? I’m lost.
@iMsOiNsO
3 жыл бұрын
That’s desperate and a little crazy lmao
@san22931
5 жыл бұрын
Let it gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.....
@JaspertcrustyAnimatronics
5 жыл бұрын
Love takes time! He says he loves you. Then acts like he could care less if she comes to visit Or not. thanks Jennifer
@innerpowerup
5 жыл бұрын
She answered the question,when she asked it. Am I playing myself?
@nianiah2212
5 жыл бұрын
She appears happy about it.
@generalsaufenberg4931
5 жыл бұрын
I love you... yea, don`t sing it, bring it!!!
@flowergirlpower1991
5 жыл бұрын
He don't care about girl. Stay where you are. If he wanted to be with you really bad, he would have been in your city. Coming to get or be with you.
@StrongnBeautiful
5 жыл бұрын
True. I've experienced both sides. If they want you, they'll constantly be inviting themselves to your house.
@Xoxo-hd9pk
5 жыл бұрын
Girl no... that is not it.... long distance booty call.... 💯 He love you- girl bye
@monicalabelle953
5 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@ms.randoms4
5 жыл бұрын
I love your suit, Steve!
@julianasweetiesarfo2932
4 жыл бұрын
This woman is beautiful, her laugh😁 and yeah she knows the answer to her question 😁
@christianjohn1121
5 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between "cool, you coming to my city" and " i want you to come visit me." Don't pop up in his city. Better expect excuses & flakes cuz he don't want you there
@sallys4474
4 жыл бұрын
Desperation makes people do weird things.
@holdupnow2326
5 жыл бұрын
The man said "Cool" when she told him she was moving to Houston. #Big Dummy
@justruthb
5 жыл бұрын
Not moving.... Visiting
@eb4478
5 жыл бұрын
Visiting* ...pay attention
@soboogee7818
5 жыл бұрын
Chile u gone learn sbout that Popping Up in Houston Unannounced. You will get ur feelings damaged!!! And Did he respond, Cool???Imma need waaayyy more than that for a major decision like all these expensive flights and trips then she relocating her life to Houston. Seems like she set this up in her mind to be way more than what it is !!!!!!! They can't even get along on Face Time? Is it that lonely and dismal in Kansas city that u doing this much for a dude who is showing very little interest..Gurl go look into getting a puppy. He'll be there every night jumping up & down happy to see walk thru the door.. you'll won't be doing a 3rd of what u doing now..
@monicalabelle953
5 жыл бұрын
Am sure he has a girl there with him
@shelitawilliams4235
3 жыл бұрын
Again you the fool cause that’s not what was said
@LibraLife47
5 жыл бұрын
The desperation for love is sad but I feel her pain..I wudnt move but go see for yrself its wasted money
@DavidStylz
5 жыл бұрын
I honestly thought based off of the title that Steve had flown the guy down to see her. Good thing it wasn't cause halfway through this I was getting nervous haha.
@pamelabethea8877
5 жыл бұрын
Steve is so patient!
@floram3722
6 ай бұрын
RUN!!! Don’t look back!
@vickisears6702
5 жыл бұрын
Love Steve💕
@Mike-lj2mw
5 жыл бұрын
Lol... you “break up” with me four times in a long distance relationship you’re either blocked, or I’ve moved on. Either he genuinely loves you or it’s just lust, no man can fall in love with a girl over FT.. Especially if you played with my emotions four times. Hell no😂
@shelitawilliams4235
5 жыл бұрын
Mike Breeden he interested if he wasn’t I would not still be communicating with him
@fantymorfa7592
5 жыл бұрын
Talking about desperation😂
@anthonyword6914
5 жыл бұрын
Tread softly in the beginning of ANY relationship. Especially in a long distance relationship. I'm sure theirs some things u both have to get in order. Maybe that's why he haven't openly invited her. As mature adults. We have to aspect some set backs. Guard ur heart and use common sense. Who knows,it could be a good connection.
@dutchesscarniegegordon56
4 жыл бұрын
@Anthony Word .Have you ever been in a long distance relationships? Just asking..
@anthonyword6914
4 жыл бұрын
@@dutchesscarniegegordon56 No! I don't believe in long distance relationships. But I've had my share of relationship UP& DOWN'S Been married three times.
@dutchesscarniegegordon56
4 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyword6914 Thanks for your response Anthony
@joemartinez9010
5 жыл бұрын
He wasn't ready🗣🗣🗣 lol
@tommywilliams8170
5 жыл бұрын
Red Flag written all over this situation. Keep it moving. What guy who is really interested responds with "Cool" when you tell him I booked a ticket to come and see you. There are to many other guys out here to be selling yourself short for a man that doesn't care about himself enough to care about you.
@jasminerobertson4913
5 ай бұрын
Also, why are you guys acting like he's at fault here?
@abigailgarcia3599
5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha “and then see how long till y’all break up for the 5th time” Exactly what I think would happen.
@bobosims1848
4 жыл бұрын
Damn, she blew it!
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
Bless her heart. We have all been there. Age don't play a factor. She being open to love from the wrong source is the issue. I don't think it was bad for her to want to surprise him in that way per se. It's unfortunate that people don't want to be honest when it comes to dating. Prayerfully she is okay.
@jenniferhill8776
5 жыл бұрын
She got 2 adult boys in college looking like she's not a day over 21
@idoflawlesshair
5 жыл бұрын
It's really sad that this young lady is so naive.
@shaynaloveswiss1
5 жыл бұрын
He's got his guard up I think
@dr.majidahsmith9006
2 жыл бұрын
Ain't nobody asked yall nothing 😄🙃 is my favorite part...girl you trippin
@ramonaharris920
3 жыл бұрын
It’s always so easy to see things clearly, when it’s not u.
@dejajoyner9888
5 жыл бұрын
im watching this n can only think about french fries
@frankagbaka3446
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 those two ladies though
@aleekaalexander3861
2 жыл бұрын
Steve checked them one time 😂
@minervagalvez5937
2 жыл бұрын
HE DON'T WANT YOU LADY!!! WITH HIM AND IN TEXAS!!!
@wombatgirl598
5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm sounds sus... don’t do it Mama.. walk away.
@81nilufer
5 жыл бұрын
I think she’s just desperate after 9 years of being single ....... that’s about it. 🤷♀️
@shelitawilliams4235
5 жыл бұрын
Nilufer Yaser naw honey far from desperate where yo man tho lol exactly
@nianiah2212
5 жыл бұрын
So sherlita, did you go? Did u have nice time.?
@zora99ny
5 жыл бұрын
N. Ray NYE is still a few weeks away
@Dicts33
5 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@nianiah2212
5 жыл бұрын
5 times is a charm
@Jay-fi8ru
3 жыл бұрын
She makes my home town. Houston Texas
@melissaberry8810
5 жыл бұрын
Don’t play that game: Long distance relationships are imaginary 🦄 make it real or let it go
@youhan9460
5 жыл бұрын
she looks so young
@adrianwong5166
4 жыл бұрын
Hey, Steve. Steve: Okay
@necopolk2955
5 жыл бұрын
She’s a beautiful woman, but she should take some time out to get to know herself. Her kids are finally off to college; she should take time to know her adult self.
@mrs.a
5 жыл бұрын
Neco Polk I think since she’s been out of the “dating/relationship” game for so long. She’s like a kid in a candy store. Jus all over the place anything goes. I think this guy is like the first hump she needs to get over and then she’ll be fine.
@SoLiTaRyBoNe
5 жыл бұрын
I find it absolutely insane that Americans often use the phrase "take time to know yourself" like have I not known myself all my life? Lol what do you mean like go to the mountains and discover me? It's so illogical.
@mrs.a
5 жыл бұрын
SoLiTaRyBoNe 😂😂😂😂
@keyarrahrayford8460
5 жыл бұрын
Neco Polk I mean 9 years without dating is a very long time to get to know yourself 😂 I think she just isnt use to dating so she doesnt know what to do in the situation.
@necopolk2955
5 жыл бұрын
SoLiTaRyBoNe you could’ve easily kept scrolling with your ignorant comment. Apparently this is something only us Americans understand 😒
@tktkentertainment
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@shelitawilliams4235
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ladennayoung2939
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree with Steve.
@MrsBungle78
5 жыл бұрын
She has adult children? Get the heck out! She looks 25!!
@marymesk577
3 жыл бұрын
that sister with the long hair at 1:30 is gorgeous
@petittall557
5 жыл бұрын
Just get married before you move in with a man, he'll respect you 4ever.
@christian_person5058
5 жыл бұрын
Petit Tall she didn’t say she was moving in with him. She said she was thinking about moving to his city. Two different things. She doesn’t know if this man is married or already in a long term relationship, but is willing to relocate her whole life to another city? That’s ridiculous!
@gloriamutoni5137
5 жыл бұрын
She has kids in college? Looks so young
@flowerjade5938
5 жыл бұрын
Desperate. Next caaaaaaase!
@barbilove1698
5 жыл бұрын
She is doing inappropriate things on FT - and she is paying to go see him? She is beyond playing herself
@thelandballin747
5 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this guy even know that he is in a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship.
@tamyasanders4072
5 жыл бұрын
That’s my aunt Shelita...😂😂😂
@msamsa7706
5 жыл бұрын
Tamya Sanders ...... REALLY.? How old is she?
@Christglobalministries816
5 жыл бұрын
My boy . . . She fiiiine as wine!!!!!😭💯
@larhondaodomph.d.4614
Жыл бұрын
He just saying something!
@moimeself1088
5 жыл бұрын
girl looks 25 talking about she has grown children!! damn! looking good!
@roseaddo6103
5 жыл бұрын
lol black don’t crack I guess
@msamsa7706
5 жыл бұрын
Pink rosado ..... no it doesn't.
@preciousjewlz284
5 жыл бұрын
She’s sooooo GREEN😩
@Suzyfromtheblock
5 жыл бұрын
I like the skirt the girl is wearing who is holding the mike it’s gorgeous girl ❣️💜👍
@sophielove7896
3 жыл бұрын
Her situation is so confusing..
@westendcory7469
5 жыл бұрын
She good for her age dammmmn
@magical.tinkerbell
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my I thought she was 19 , I was shocked when she said I have to adult boys in college 😂😂😂 .
@florencecooke8883
2 жыл бұрын
She definitely not 19 she looks mid 30's
@tomellis5168
3 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful to be single so long
@independentc4348
5 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a beautiful mom. Can’t believe that she has two adult kids. Come to Canada.
@independentc4348
5 жыл бұрын
Raffy Allal is your comment meant to be useful/edifying? It’s ok to confess your sins but you should do that with your priest.
@NasDesignOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
Long distant relationship is hard.... Just don't worry... I agree woth steve
@bodeankit
4 жыл бұрын
Madame NO NO NO !!!!
@KayJay79
5 жыл бұрын
Don't do it Cora! Don't do it!
@damnation3236
2 жыл бұрын
steve should have included shay as co-host, that way she gets to interect with the show's different segments, like meeting animals, cooking, panel discussions, rates can go higher too that way, conan did it with sona.
@perisndirangu1018
5 жыл бұрын
Women take off your Binders ..or windshield ..and see the truth ... staring you in the face
@EdLife11
5 жыл бұрын
Steve Harvey for President. How come people like Steve don't go into politics....
@demetriusdavis95
5 жыл бұрын
“I considered moving to Houston” “I don’t love him” Lmao women forever making stupid mistakes they’ll never learn
@koolsmoothfan
2 жыл бұрын
ikr, she being played like x-box
@quincylockett7846
5 жыл бұрын
Even if he dont work out You would love Houston its December 4 check our Weather!
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