invalidating your partners feelings aint cute. it ain’t a competition.
@bllsht486
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@dairyfairy8010
2 жыл бұрын
@Talsong Kingslayer her feelings are valid as much as his are. If she is having so many problems with him being "lazy" or whatever she needs to have a talk instead of posting about it on the net.
@lemonaid8678
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t act like she didn’t know how he acted before the first 2 kids…
@zaylehman2
2 жыл бұрын
@Talsong Kingslayer Why is it always about the woman? It's never about the man.
@Not_Claptrap
2 жыл бұрын
@@yokiie3544 complaining about others invalidating their partners feelings isnt being a snowflake, its just being a good person
@la.princesa
2 жыл бұрын
a lot of you can’t read, she clearly said she has a job, she’s just working from home.
@ebbiebean9385
2 жыл бұрын
You can’t compare other people’s struggles because their situations, abilities, bodies, and mental states are all different.
@jerryvenable7559
2 жыл бұрын
@JEÑÑY wtf
@cw6795
2 жыл бұрын
The key to an unhappy marriage is competing for contributions to the relationship.
@FaterialL
2 жыл бұрын
as you stay home and he's working 12 hour shifts lol
@nilanjasa007
2 жыл бұрын
She's working from home. It's as tiring as going outside for work. Sometimes work hours exceeds in wfh.
@The_Sapphire_Fox
2 жыл бұрын
@@nilanjasa007 while she works 8-12 hours a day some people like me work 48 hours in one sitting. How's hers as extended as mine?
@nilanjasa007
2 жыл бұрын
@@The_Sapphire_Fox who compared her to you? I'm sure you have a very hectic work schedule. But that doesn't mean the people who work 8-12 hours per day doesn't feel extremely tired too.
@kitty2345
2 жыл бұрын
She’s working 24/7
@bingewatchingintesifies809
2 жыл бұрын
You two need to have a deep talk about this. This issue will rot you both
@davidwethington9320
2 жыл бұрын
Complaining about choices you made.
@j.s.10
2 жыл бұрын
Self accountability!
@I_eat_fried_rice
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe hear me out, parenting and cleaning should be a mutual think in the house hold
@The_Sapphire_Fox
2 жыл бұрын
Look look look, everyone goes through their own struggles, I've got two kids and I'm a full time firefighter, on my off days I spend time with the wife and the kids and we talk about our day, but we don't try to make it a competition of who has it hardest. I don't sleep regularly because of my line of work and the things I go through, which is a win because I help more with the kids, but I'm gone a lot which leaves her with our angels, she works from home, I cook when I'm home, and we try to keep bickering or any complaints out of the house because it sets a poor example for our kids, we both have a right to say "I'm tired" but if we do, neither of us are going to complain about "oh I'm more tired than you" because it's a different struggle, if you make a problem about it then it's an absolutely toxic thing to do and you should both work on eachothers flaws, me and the wife aren't perfect but we get through it, but we don't publicly shame eachother because one of us feels more entitled to an opinion than the other. Grow up.
@trisy8914
2 жыл бұрын
Yes working over 40 hours in a hard job and waking up for a baby and folding clothes is the same thing
@magsteel9891
2 жыл бұрын
I do all that without patting myself on the back.
@ghostpanther7461
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t have kids…simple as that.
@peaches4L
2 жыл бұрын
can we stop with all the hate comments - this lady is just saying she has a lot on her plate, like every other mom. idk why ppl keep telling her to “stop competing, that leads to an unhappy marriage” bc I WOULD BE TIRED TOOOOOOO
@slofloat3184
2 жыл бұрын
Your husband sees this at his lunch break at work... 'yep she posted another video about how hard she's got it' 🤣
@j.s.10
2 жыл бұрын
For sure!
@alyssakittycat3237
Жыл бұрын
Your baby is adorable 😍
@krist29
Жыл бұрын
HAA….Chynna Phillips!!! I watch her KZitem channel. She sings that all the time.🤗
@rebeccaramos3246
2 жыл бұрын
I know this is a joke but it really is OK for your husband to be tired. Why do women feel like they need to one up or remind their husband's that they are "doing more" We have 5 beautiful children ranging from 17 all the way down to 1 week old. I do almost everything in the house and work from home. But i promise I would rather be here taking care of my family so no one else has to AND I get to spend way more time with my children than he does AAAANNNNNDDD no WAY could I handle my husband's factory production job!
@goshine369
2 жыл бұрын
I feel this!! But also I feel like if a wife truly (not jokingly) ends up feeling like what she is she may be feeling just as tired and unappreciated 🤷
@mikeschaffner5279
2 жыл бұрын
I work a blue collar job 50+ hours a week in all weather..on the weekend i do all yard work with no help...I've done all the remodeling to our home..i take my kids(3) fishing, and other outdoor things to teach them life if more then a phone screen..when i get home from work i help with dishes, picking up toys, sweeping, grabbing the laundry(im not allowed to fold) homework and getting the kids ready for bed..these are the videos that..god forbid im tired..my wife sees, and automatically thinks im lazy if i come home a day and just relax
@goshine369
2 жыл бұрын
@@mikeschaffner5279 the difference is some men do not do all that.. men like you who do that and aren't aappreciated are def the ones i feel like this commenter was referring to
@thewondersmithsforge7068
2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, because making it a competition is healthy!
@jeremysanchez8329
2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could stay home all day doing normal things too.😂🤣😅
@Account-xm6vj
2 жыл бұрын
Before you start a family make sure both partners know who is doing what and how you are splitting the work. A mom complaining about having to cook for her kids is like a barista complaining about having to make coffee.
@Account-xm6vj
2 жыл бұрын
@toki xo i will thank you. Is that supposed to be some sort of roast?
@kaitlincrawford4809
2 жыл бұрын
A dad complaining about cooking is the same thing but she didn’t really mention how they split the tasks, if they did
@a_blaze
2 жыл бұрын
Shes complaining about not sharing duties, not doing the chore itself, but it's a joke video. Also, that other commenter got you to expose that you haven't even started a family, yet you want in on this gossip about having one. Hilarious! A bit sad on your part haha. You just compared being a mother to being a batista. Good luck building actual long lasting relations, you will need it
@charleyy098
2 жыл бұрын
Just because the person next to you is in a full body cast doesn't mean your broken arm doesn't hurt. Competition isn't compelling.
@nikitabonita93
2 жыл бұрын
I feel this hahahahaha go mama!
@Natmfe
2 жыл бұрын
Bruh my fiance just woke me up after me getting sick from a the vaccine because he didnt want to put something in the microwave for four minutes for the kids. Jeez.
@faithclyde9098
2 жыл бұрын
"I'll just put this online for everyone to know my husband is total shit and lazy! This is waaayyy better for our marriage than just talking about it! I hope everyone starts hating on him cause he's just a piece of trash! Lol" 🥲🥴😐
@corgimom5626
2 жыл бұрын
Nope… other people can be tired just because you think you do more doesn’t matter
@a_blaze
2 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooo ok Bailey, you know her? No. You jelly even tho you don't? Yess
@mynuggies7482
2 жыл бұрын
Then maybe we can understand you
@tha2793
2 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter how hard your life is, women will always try to one up.
@Dfgjgjod
2 жыл бұрын
Lets get something straight... kids alone are a full time job that’s exhausting. That man is no good.
@n5sdm
2 жыл бұрын
Noted. She has a house. Food. Kids she can take out and do things with while her hubby is being told when he can go to the bathroom. When to eat and only has 30 min to do so. What to do. When to do it. Drive in traffic. Jasmine Adam's is off the dating list and is labeled "do not marry"
@kingnonsense
2 жыл бұрын
Somebody has to make money to pay bills
@abrahambenavidez1006
2 жыл бұрын
Ive been a stay at home parent and Ive been the main provider of the house. Being a parent isnt that exhausting, as long as you play with the kids alot(wich I love doing), doing chores around the house spaced out through entire days are easy. But even when I am the main provider I still come home and help out and as far as my experience it is far more tiring.
@monimoni-ks5so
2 жыл бұрын
The man shouldn't "help" around the house. He loves there. He has house chores too
@redchief3478
2 жыл бұрын
But also, you had time to brainstorm, video, edit, do make-up… so you ain’t that tired.
@glompspfdeath
2 жыл бұрын
She’s not saying she doesn’t have time for things. Just that she’s tired. There’s a difference lmao
@kingnonsense
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@JaheimsStrugglingHairline
2 жыл бұрын
I hope women start requiring their husbands to help with housework more you aren’t a maid
@symone5746
2 жыл бұрын
Or a mother! Cooking and cleaning has nothing to do with gender.
@mandingomilk63
2 жыл бұрын
Plus it never stated what he does so you can't assume it's a unfair distribution of work.
@indiamoore8988
2 жыл бұрын
Ok tell her that part
@vivalachoba
2 жыл бұрын
It is his house and his kids too. He's gotta do his part
@prittykari2809
2 жыл бұрын
@@vivalachoba very true but if thats the case then she too needs to get out there and work too! Its only fair if he is also helping at home and looking after the kids them she needs bring some money into the home too.
@jaybird0312
2 жыл бұрын
She's so tired from doing the basic neccesities that are expected of every adult. Even those who work 8+ hour shifts and are single. While also doing it all under the house and with the resources that man who is tired has spent many days and or nights working for.
@hp2385
2 жыл бұрын
I think this is her telling her husband that he needs to help more.
@Scipio12232
2 жыл бұрын
Um, she said she is also working from home
@YnuiPog
2 жыл бұрын
Umm dear watch the video again.
@jaybird0312
2 жыл бұрын
@@Scipio12232 Also: she obviously has enough time to maintain her body because nobody has a body like that without some kind of dedicated physical activity.
@kitty2345
2 жыл бұрын
@@jaybird0312 Literally that’s a lie. Stop spreading false information. She’s a working mom that stays home with her children. Sounds like they worked on that house day and night together and she seems like a great mom and wife. I’m sure she’s just having fun. It’s not that deep. Lol
@cynthiar7350
7 ай бұрын
The Holy Ghost needs no “activation.” As part of the Holy Trinity, “He never slumbers, nor does He sleep.”
@jamescoombs2569
2 жыл бұрын
Thank God for Mom👍😀
@vsherry7510
Жыл бұрын
✝️holy spirit activate✝️✝️holy spirit activate✝️
@cristinasmith4684
2 жыл бұрын
I mean yes i understand you do a lot, but does that make his feelings of being tired any less valid???
@Kaelyn2
2 жыл бұрын
Because he did way less in that time but he's complaining even though she's been working super hard and didn't complain.
@RAAAAAHGHHHH
2 жыл бұрын
@@Kaelyn2 so with that logic I could be angry and tell someone that, but they say that they've been angry all day so now I am no longer angry as it is impossible to feel the same way even with different circumstances
@Eva-eo8yh
2 жыл бұрын
They still both have to take care of the chores. Shes tired but sucks it up so should he
@a_blaze
2 жыл бұрын
@@RAAAAAHGHHHH it's a joke video, my dude. You all do gender wars immediately, this is about her and her family, something you know absolutely zero about LOL
@gelinbanegas9105
7 ай бұрын
Your baby is so cute I like this video so much😊
@tobias4283
2 жыл бұрын
She has that divorce look on her face
@honeywere6381
2 жыл бұрын
Great laughs. By the way cute baby, love the avocado outfit.
@webster7222
2 жыл бұрын
Bill Burr's bit settles this argument lol
@-p.e.r.s.o.n-692
2 жыл бұрын
My dad has been singing this song all day ahhhhh
@missphenominalone
2 жыл бұрын
I see you’re not actually saying Holy Spirit, 🤔
@bayleajenae20
2 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one that noticed that same thing. Good one!!
@nicolemarie0727
2 жыл бұрын
For sure she’s not!
@tiffanithomas9672
2 жыл бұрын
Awww look at the baby
@venusonfire7606
2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her children
@a_blaze
2 жыл бұрын
They look pretty happy lmfao. I woulda loved to have this woman as my mother, rather her than my literal psychotic one. You just bitter for some odd reason lol
@dairyfairy8010
2 жыл бұрын
@@a_blaze you can't assume what happens behind closed doors. These are the same type of people that exploit their kids for money and views so.
@anderhagea553
2 жыл бұрын
@@dairyfairy8010 exactly!
@kari07tacoma
2 жыл бұрын
Yup, kids are exhausting. Glad I don’t have any.
@CreepahKillahRSA
2 жыл бұрын
Men get tired too
@seals48100
2 жыл бұрын
Ugh....all you judgy people...she is just expressing her frustration....thats a healthy thing
@logcabininaforest
2 жыл бұрын
Once you have a child it's your job to take care of the child....
@randaperry2100
2 жыл бұрын
I mean it's both parents job. But yeah.
@spongebob7355
2 жыл бұрын
Just because you work does not mean he doesn’t. You act like he sits around all day
@Kevin-tq9qp
2 жыл бұрын
They always complain
@deltaloraine
2 жыл бұрын
Comparing struggles will only keep you both miserable. If you listen to each other and help each other out when they are having a rough day, life is so much better
@milanjohnston8956
2 жыл бұрын
She was saying holy shit active
@michaelzola4186
2 жыл бұрын
Pregnancies hit some women hard...
@schangzz
2 жыл бұрын
Yes and he's tired causw he works everyday all day and you sit at home with kids. I have kids it's not that darn difficult.
@creamcheeseandpirates
2 жыл бұрын
Throw the whole husband out 😭 bro ain’t even looking after the kid???
@mynuggies7482
2 жыл бұрын
He's working though
@BassNinja
2 жыл бұрын
Yup then ill be the stay at home dad
@nancyjames9471
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve never such such a rough mother
@tazy349
2 жыл бұрын
Somehow still able to film tik tok videos...that probably took multiple attempts to get "the perfect" shot
@learningtocrash4030
2 жыл бұрын
Imagine complaining about the easiest job in the world, so weak.
@catsrule9238
2 жыл бұрын
I sent this to my mum and step mum lol
@Dragonologist
2 жыл бұрын
3 hours of work spread across 10 hours. It's hard to fill all the gaps and still look busy.
@rabguk
2 жыл бұрын
Why would you need cook 10 times a day? Think there some inefficiencies going on there...
@PixelatedMagikarp
2 жыл бұрын
Just because your more tired doesn’t mean he isn’t validly tired and you especially should understand this
@scarlettkarwoski2383
2 жыл бұрын
So true
@Misfit636
2 жыл бұрын
You wanted to be the stay at home breeder🤣 it’s your job
@fredsavage5300
2 жыл бұрын
Well since you include your offspring on tik tok I guess you are mother of the year material
@coolcat6103
2 жыл бұрын
People like you make me weep for this world
@Hi-sx3uy
2 жыл бұрын
Is she saying holy satan🤣
@rebeccadela407
2 жыл бұрын
Literally me everyday 😩😩😩
@pikabamboo4175
2 жыл бұрын
I would leave the kind of husband
@jaybird0312
2 жыл бұрын
He’d be better off.
@anthonys439
2 жыл бұрын
Oh yeh you guys will go the distance if this is how you validate him. Imagine if he made the same video about you.
@clownrat5759
2 жыл бұрын
“You’re tired from the kids!? Well I work all day and come home late at night! I’m exhausted! I have so much to do while you get to sit at home!” See how gross it sounds? This is the same thing.
@Rob_Nasty
2 жыл бұрын
Her lip is so stiff it doesn't even fully function and she can't even get proper pronunciation. 😂
@markusweinicht9978
2 жыл бұрын
Mother of the year 🤦♂️
@real_smilegamez
2 жыл бұрын
I get you if he is an office worker but construction- or oilrig worker... nah folding clothes aint that energy draining
@curtmantle6554
2 жыл бұрын
This is definitely a healthy way for someone to vent lmao. Strong relationship
@tonymesser9413
2 жыл бұрын
He probably doesn't help you, because of the way you act when he says "he's tired."
@fluffybutt8463
2 жыл бұрын
Is that soon to be single mother I smell? I think so
@kyliejoline13
2 жыл бұрын
This seems profoundly private
@lakishamcghee3154
2 жыл бұрын
I love it
@jeste4187
2 жыл бұрын
NEED ATTENTION, ACTIVATE! AGING BEAUTY, ACTIVATE! BABY WEIGHT NEEDS TO COME OFF, ACTIVATE!
@casandramiedema9849
2 жыл бұрын
Blasphemy...extremely disrespectful
@Egryn
2 жыл бұрын
Awww You had to pull your weight in the house while he worked to pay all the bills?
@omnislash6619
2 жыл бұрын
Shes um not even trying to lip sync the song
@stcorinthianschapter-
2 жыл бұрын
1 corinthians 15:1-4 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day accord ing to the scriptures
@jerryvenable7559
2 жыл бұрын
If you aren't ready to put in the hard work of raising a child then you should not be a parent
@kitty2345
2 жыл бұрын
Although you can’t expect one parent to be a great parent without support of the other parent.
@jameshenrycox8636
2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is she not able to pronounced the "p" in spirit 🤔
@RS-xq4hf
2 жыл бұрын
Please tell me she doesn’t speak English, because idk what words she was saying but they weren’t the words of the background sound.
@darklore7566
2 жыл бұрын
Not must be that tired if she still has time to do a damn tik tok....
@jamie6506
2 жыл бұрын
Divorce if you can't get along smh
@elsienicole5663
2 жыл бұрын
You literally aren’t even mouthing the right words…..🤣🙄🤦♀️
@christineclemens2423
2 жыл бұрын
You have to be a speed reader
@deekk3936
2 жыл бұрын
Everyone copying Chynna Phillips now?
@lostinwonderland6873
2 жыл бұрын
This is so true, my eldest is 18 and is still a fight over him saying he is tired.....ummmmm excuse me moms don't stop
@coffeeaddict1070
2 жыл бұрын
i mean other people can still be tired though
@lostinwonderland6873
2 жыл бұрын
@@coffeeaddict1070 no one said they cant but if you stop to think what a mother goes through for 9months, labor, sleepless nights during the newborn stage and beyond especially when your child is sick, and lets not forget when they are teens/adults going out.
@sillygoose1503
2 жыл бұрын
@@lostinwonderland6873 does it matter tho... everyone gets tired bruh
@lostinwonderland6873
2 жыл бұрын
@@sillygoose1503 Its not the same everyone get tired but when a mother is tired is so much being a mom I know this first hand let me explain a little For 9 months your pregnant and miserable at times, then you go through labor even if you have a csection its very painful, then you take a baby home you get very little sleep while still having to take care of your home and family in the home, if they are sick you will not sleep because they cry non stop, then they are toddlers where they put everything in there mouth, and if they have an ear infection it gets worse at night, if they are throwing up non stop your constant changing and cleaning everything, lets not forget diapers, mothers barley sleep and when they become pre teens and teens you believe things change but no, now they are going out and your worried about them and what can possibly can happen, you are constantly tired
@abthrifts
2 жыл бұрын
@@lostinwonderland6873 we know being a mother is hard; i agree it’s super tiring. but other people can be tired too. working a full-time job and being in school at the same time is also really tiring. people shouldn’t be fighting over who’s more tired, it isn’t a competition
@Alamyst2011
2 жыл бұрын
Done both. Physical labor is far harder than house work.
@Spikewillrule
2 жыл бұрын
Bet he would trade you. Or do you not want a real job and want to keep selling essential oils or your cricut iron on shirt boutique?
@chinapryor4527
2 жыл бұрын
She must not knew how to do it. Can't say words right
@angelsdevils8232
2 жыл бұрын
LOL SO TRUE
@brucecampbellforpresident1393
2 жыл бұрын
What’s the exorcism dance look like.?
@mr.tarkovish2587
2 жыл бұрын
Working 80 hours a week maybe going to work in a mine or a pipeline who knows what type of mud I’m going to have to lay in for the next hour welding shit so you can eat now who’s tired?
@mr.lettuce8287
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like your husband makes all the money though 🤨
@stevedonne9211
2 жыл бұрын
What is this holy sprite active? Sounds like a weird chant from some one whos strange
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