She made him quit college. She made him sell his horses. This woman is so insecure. Its quite sad.
@janet5846
Ай бұрын
Can you imagine the uproar if a man did this to woman? Curfew and bed time?! He'd probably be arrested for abuse
@masellosethusha4947
Ай бұрын
@@Gothiclovesick she's just a spoiled selfish brat
@travisreed4070
Ай бұрын
@janet5846 that's the damn truth
@jordanbarker3854
Ай бұрын
@@janet5846 sexist
@jordanbarker3854
Ай бұрын
@@travisreed4070 sexist
@angela3196
Ай бұрын
I'd never ever get rid of my pets for anyone! Never!! Period!
@SarahSherman-di7ku
Ай бұрын
Same. My boyfriend had to adapt
@SuperGigi06
Ай бұрын
The same would never get rid of my cat
@nutellabrot9047
24 күн бұрын
OMG I Love my dog so much
@perfectlyimperfect9129
22 күн бұрын
@@angela3196 Same here!!
@jacquiclarke8069
21 күн бұрын
Never marry a person who didn't love animals. Poor guy.
@cheryleaston6820
Ай бұрын
She really has no friends and expected him to fill all her needs.
@reynaolvera7526
Ай бұрын
Scary. She kinda scares me. Psychotic behavior.
@Onxy1976
Ай бұрын
She has no friends for a reason...she is so obnoxious and just unlikeable!
@thefutureisnow7300
Ай бұрын
I think she wanted the marriage, expecting him to fulfill every one of her needs. She never learned how to be an independent adult. Probably a spoiled, rotten daddy’s girl they got everything she ever wanted.
@nancysteen9111
Ай бұрын
Jeremy, RUN, RUN, RUN!! You married a child
@debfox
Ай бұрын
People should have friendships and hobbies outside of their spouse. No person should meet all of your needs. She sounds codependent.
@cheyennasandlin8840
29 күн бұрын
I think she is the very definition of codependent
@nikkid4890
Ай бұрын
How can she possibly love him and simultaneously strip him of everything he loves?
@vivs3189
Ай бұрын
exactly!!
@SarahSherman-di7ku
Ай бұрын
Bingo
@tessmurphy1367
Ай бұрын
How can he let her
@_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_
Ай бұрын
Cuz she loves herself and her needs more. Pathetic.
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
@@nikkid4890 exactly that’s not love. You love someone you want them to be happy and you love what makes them, them!
@anastasiamarkova6134
Ай бұрын
I found Tamarra and Jeremy online. They’re still married, have 4 kids now, and she recently got a masters in special education. It looks like she has a job after getting her masters. I hope they healed!
@marina7592
13 күн бұрын
Wow, she actually got a life and learned to do things on her own.
@Doinko-u2z
12 күн бұрын
4!!! Americans multiply like mice
@jovanajoestar7173
12 күн бұрын
@@Doinko-u2zfr we need to chill
@user-dh7cr1fk7l
6 күн бұрын
I'm in Australia and I have 6 kids 😬
@briar8855
5 күн бұрын
@@Doinko-u2z that isn't typical, the birth rate is below replacement levels 😅
@KC1up
Ай бұрын
Why are they giggling? This is weird. She is throwing red flags all over the place. I hope the 1st guy got out of this marriage
@markieell2560
Ай бұрын
I agree-she’s more than clingy! She’s controlling!
@terricunningham6810
Ай бұрын
@@markieell2560 yes she is both
@mamatried925
Ай бұрын
exactly, if this was a guy being “ clingy” towards a girl, he would be a dictator or controlling. i think either man or woman acting this way would be psychotic
@jodiealverson7791
Ай бұрын
They're laughing because it's uncomfortable 😅😅
@Lindseyisloony
Ай бұрын
@mamatried925 Being clingy and being controlling are MAJORLY DIFFERENT and anybody who doesn't know that is a walking red flag. Men really don't get criticized for being clingy. They DO get criticized when they are being controlling. People who won't refer to things as what they actually are are not interested in truth though.
@elizauksamad304
Ай бұрын
Tamarra needs to get her life, 24/7 want husband, get a pet, hobby too, also a job
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
Also, two words: crazy eyes.
@wonipowa7542
Ай бұрын
Yea she doesn't have a life outside of her partner. She needs to get a life of her own, hobbies and a job - and let him have a life. It's not normal to require this much interest from your partner.
@Waylons2ndMama
Ай бұрын
Right, if she had a job, I'm sure a lot of these problems would exist. She's made her whole world and identity based on her relationship
@user-vx9bn1wc5b
Ай бұрын
She could be a flight attendant and travel.
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
@@user-vx9bn1wc5b NOOOO cause then she wouldn’t be able to see her hubby and control him 24/7
@sharondykes4338
Ай бұрын
I think he should have divorced her before he got rid of his horses. She's selfish and insecure. She shouldn't be surprised if he resents her and doesn't want to be around her.
@@sharondykes4338 he should have divorced her before he dropped out of school
@rhondajones9241
Ай бұрын
She's selfish and controlling!!
@CC-qy5ux
Ай бұрын
She's not clingy. . . . .she's selfish and narcissistic
@cheetahtfk7274
Ай бұрын
And controlling!
@vlucidity
Ай бұрын
And he is to feminine and childish
@vlucidity
Ай бұрын
And he is too feminine and not manly enough for her and extremely boyish and childish and that's why he allowed her to do all those things. She needs an alpha male not a feminine male he is not strong enough for her
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
@@vlucidity maybe so. He certainly needs to stand up for himself. Not feminine but definitely childish and cowardly.
@Onxy1976
Ай бұрын
Guy thinks it is funny..he is embarrassment to men. In front of millions of viewers he looks like a joke
@KLF-1057
Ай бұрын
This couple should divorce. No biggie. Bad match. Happens all the time. Huge red flag: she told him to get rid of his pets (horses). Never, never, never.
@jamijenkins3507
Ай бұрын
She told him to get rid of his entire lifestyle.
@grammar4341
Ай бұрын
As a woman, I agree. Couples need separate activities to be able to refresh themselves. My husband and I have been married 27 years. We are now retired. I encourage him to go do things outside of the house.
@Machinu5
Ай бұрын
Don't most women love horses?
@Undomaranel
Ай бұрын
@@Machinu5 Talk about stereotyping. No, most women like the beauty of horses but not the money, land, time, vet and farrier and breeding bills, etc. The "horse girl" is known to be crazy and obsessive, and cowboys ain't no different beyond plumbing and wiring.
@RabbitAndTheLabBestFriends
Ай бұрын
@@Undomaranelstereotyping? Seriously? That is ridiculous most humans i would think love horses so relax stop being so sensitive
@HighSierraDawn
Ай бұрын
How could you get rid of your animals for someone? Ughh What a witch!
@user-pm8iy4rg6q
Ай бұрын
Strong no!
@croach2194
Ай бұрын
These two have nothing in common. One is active, the other is sedentary. One has hobbies, the other expects to be entertained. One is bossy, one is passive-aggressive. One works hard, I do not know what the other does if anything.
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
She doesn’t do anything.
@jennylynfujioka
Ай бұрын
@@mssophiad03😂😂 yesss
@karenoconnor4180
Ай бұрын
I was going to write a comment like this , but I couldn’t put it any better myself.. l totally agree with you 100 %
@mamatried925
Ай бұрын
she needs a J.O.B
@paulaalbrecht2304
Ай бұрын
She needs hobbies, interests and friends.
@janet5846
Ай бұрын
And a job!
@Lindseyisloony
Ай бұрын
I think it's a little effed up of you to wish the company of THAT on anybody
@tammywright475
Ай бұрын
Yep and she needs a Job 😁
@RabbitAndTheLabBestFriends
Ай бұрын
I can’t believe she made him get rid of his horses I would never ever do that
@alanaadams7440
14 күн бұрын
That's not love
@momonie4
Ай бұрын
HOW IN THE WORLD DID THESE TO EVEN DATE LET ALONE MARRY EACH OTHER OMG!!!!!! SHE'S BEYOND CLINGY & BEHAVES LIKE A BABY!!!
@MyComment2024
Ай бұрын
She’s clever enough to make herself the victim without him realizing till it’s too late.
@sandyr9081
Ай бұрын
Classic Manipulation at its finest!!! He is so hesitant to even speak without having to look at her first for approval.
@mamatried925
Ай бұрын
she is a manipulative baby
@vondahe
Ай бұрын
Yup - it’s a mismatch but people hiding their true self is very, very common. They were both guilty of that to some degree. He had endless time while courting her. Two important statements: The only thing he mentioned about falling in love with her was that she was pretty. “It’s hard to be passionate with someone you’re fighting with.” Pay attention to that, ladies. That goes for all men! If you want his passion, give him peace.
@maxinebulldog7095
27 күн бұрын
Tamara is a control freak, he even looks at her for approval befor speaking.shes aftr a lapdog for a husband...its quite vomit inducing listning to her. Being jealous of his horses is disgusting. Divorce her.
@alex-dm3sn
Ай бұрын
Lots of comments saying Tamarra is essentially a bad person but all I see is someone that has an unhealthy need to depend on someone else. She reminds me of my brother's dog that cried when my brother wasn't home, spent it's whole day waiting for my brother to come home, and got jealous when my brother was spending time with someone else. It's not that she's a bad person. She's just been living a very sheltered life and that has stunted her personal growth.
@kathystorer9514
Ай бұрын
This woman must get a few hobbies so they can each have alone time doing what they enjoy even if they don't do it together.
@Kei_sey
Ай бұрын
Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence
@countryboundgirl7424
Ай бұрын
She has weird separation anxiety 😬 I couldn’t imagine wanting to spend that much time in my house with someone 😂
@tiegz9770
Ай бұрын
More like anxious attachment
@Lindseyisloony
Ай бұрын
Um no. Separation anxiety usually comes from something valid. She's literally just insufferable and knows that getting someone else to put up with her would be very difficult. That mess probably follows him when he goes out so he can't ever get a head start running away.
@aheartforhealth
Ай бұрын
She needs to build her own life.
@jewels964
Ай бұрын
Is this chick for real????? She lucky he hasn't already bailed. Like what is she kidding . He needs to put his foot down and they both need to grow up. 😂
@marceejohnson4113
Ай бұрын
Jeremyy doesn't want her. He needs to discover his true self. He is trying to follow societal norms.
@cherylhaugen1897
Ай бұрын
46 years married, and we only met 3 months before our wedding! He is the most wonderful man and a great father. Life is not always the perfect, but without him, it would be much harder!
@Bartebodil
Ай бұрын
That’s so wonderful to hear. I’m a youngster in comparison whos only been married for 15 years, but couples like you hand your husband is very inspiring. God bless you both❤
@aliciacarstensen7904
Ай бұрын
After having been married 25 yrs I will never marry ever again
@susanmoss9706
Ай бұрын
Hiya congrats, I met my husband at the end of November 1979, we got married March 8 1980, 44 years and counting.... there's no staying power now, throw away society.
@stephaniecrespo650
Ай бұрын
That clingy chick is crazy . He didn’t know she was like this before marrying her
@denisehall4818
Ай бұрын
This bride is selfish....Leave the guy alone, Girlie.
@philomenaquinn1158
Ай бұрын
She should get a job
@_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_
Ай бұрын
Yeah she’s a freak
@Thecrimsonninja_
Ай бұрын
OK, going to work is not your“personal “time because you have to get up at crazy hours and work for usually eight hours. It’s not like he is going out drinking with his friends or riding horses in his case he is working.
@femalephobia
Ай бұрын
Omg, I couldn’t even be her friend. Sir, run for the hills! I couldn’t tolerate this at all😩
@NinjaOutfitInTheWash
Ай бұрын
She’s so selfish and immature and unlikable. I don’t know why he even married someone like that. She sucks at being married and isn’t grown up enough to be in any relationship. Toxic
@deborahklinlger8565
Ай бұрын
In hindsight we should of never married. Very sad😢.
@themlj1
Ай бұрын
My wife works 60 hours a week lol. And I never complain. This lady is so annoying
@user-cy4vw1qj9m
Ай бұрын
I bet you don't she is bringing in the money.
@themlj1
Ай бұрын
@@user-cy4vw1qj9m I own 2 businesses. Lmao. You tried it tho
@aliciacarstensen7904
Ай бұрын
My boyfriend is a lead detective. Talk about long hours away from home. But I have a life. Yes I miss him but I stay busy. I'm retired but my life is full. He's talked about retiring early but he is passionate about his career. Don't do it for me. Do it cuz you are ready to. How is she so babyish at her age? Ick
@LynASullivan
Ай бұрын
Wow how many hours do you work
@Onxy1976
Ай бұрын
@aliciacarstensen7904 you are a good supportive gf..
@gf3011
Ай бұрын
The first woman isn't clingy, she's controlling. If she were a man we'd probably call her abusive. She seems to have no job, no friends, and to do nothing except watch tv (maybe she cooks and cleans) and wait for hubby to come home. I'd be a lonely basket case too. But it's time for her to get a life, almost literally. Trying to give her grace, that maybe she's had some trauma that makes her live so abnormally, but she's got to come to terms with it whether they stay married or not
@SarahSherman-di7ku
Ай бұрын
I'd call her abusive
@AkitaLover1013
Ай бұрын
The clingy wife is not all there! She is definitely a narcissist! Poor guy! Married 43 yrs. and if you keep it up you'll be divorced ASAP!
@shawnschell
Ай бұрын
Maybe it's just me, but the way she says the word "clingy" is grounds for divorce 😂
@sallgr
Ай бұрын
Lol....I have a friend that says "hanGer" the same way! 😄
@shasta1730
26 күн бұрын
That’s how they say their g’s in parts of Texas. I have a friend who says it the same way
@alanaadams7440
14 күн бұрын
Did she ever think he works overtime to get away from her!!
@sherrimoore9668
Ай бұрын
My husband and I are the same way but we both see things the same way. We want to be together all of the time. We go to bed at the same time, we are best friends and we have the same interests. That’s the key, find someone with the same interests and life style. We’ve been together for over 30 years and look forward to the rest of our lives together.
@purgatoriprytania5382
Ай бұрын
First dude: Run for the hills.
@moniqueengleman873
Ай бұрын
As fast as he can.
@rcg1111
Ай бұрын
This guy did not take the lead in the marriage. He should have said no multiple times and put his foot down.
@iluvmusic375
Ай бұрын
The first lady, if the roles were reversed and it was a husband preventing his wife from leaving the house, socialising, making her give up her horses, going to school etc it would be domestic violence via coercive control.
@janet5846
Ай бұрын
Yes! Can you imagine the uproar had it been the other way round?! And I have to wonder, why does she not a have a job?! Is she busy scrubbing floors and windows? I think not...young, healthy, selfish and spoilt ! I would've like her parents take on this behaviour
@ss021070
Ай бұрын
We met, got engaged in four months, married a year later........33 years later...guess we are lucky. But we communicate very well, I don't mother him, he doesn't father me. We are equal.
@sheilabishop-cn6ey
Ай бұрын
The second couple, it's sad that all she wanted was to stay in the hotel on their honeymoon.
@vivs3189
Ай бұрын
🤩 Lot of Bridegrooms would NOT have a problem with that!
@MrShank12u
Ай бұрын
She Needs a JOB!!!
@karmaleenash2841
Ай бұрын
Together 43 years. We each have our own hobbies and friends, but also love spending time together. We can talk, and joke, and also just be quiet together. He is my rock, and I am his. It takes both people putting the other first. 💥
@Clairski3
Ай бұрын
I think there is a huge double standard. If a husband was demanding all his wife’s time, not allowing her to connect with her friends or have any sort of social life, people would see it as a huge red flag. Isolating her, controlling her curfews… he would be made to look like an abuser. But just because she is bubbly blond girl, they just laugh it off. Run, dude!
@mariebernier3076
Ай бұрын
Agree completely
@Onxy1976
Ай бұрын
Great point. But this guy has as big a spine as jellyfish!
@goremagon00
Ай бұрын
I just want to take a moment and put my husband on a pedastool here. We have been together for 14 years. Just had our 14th anniversary on July 4. While our state doesn't acknowledge common law. We do. This means he and I have been married 4 years. We recently hit a huge bump in the road this year. I had a second round of clots in my aorta and common illiac arteries. This caused me to lose the ability to walk. It was extremely painful. Like a bad cramp you can't work out. They were reable to restore blood flow to my legs and I woke up in the ICU. You would think the horror ends there right? Nope we just getting started Hon. A few weeks into recovery I had 2 cardiac events and while the doctor was looking at the latest event my right leg went ice cold out of nowhere. I already had sever reduced sensation in my legs but that icy cold feeling will forever haunt me. I knew exactly what happened and I slowly started to freak out. One CT scan later revealed the horror I already knew was there. A clot, this time in my femoral artery. They tried for 12 hours to restore blood flow and they failed. They presented me with 2 options. 1) I could do nothing and my leg would rot off and I could die from sepsis. Or 2) they take the leg and I live relearning all the basic functions. I chose the second one. I've been in and out of hospitals for about 6 months. I'm finally home and hopefully for good this time. My husband has been my rock through this whole thing. He is the best caregiver a woman could ask for. I am bed bound at the moment but I will walk again if I have anything to say about it. But my husband and I have grown VERY close through this. There isn't much else we could know.
@hellowendy1029
Ай бұрын
Aww what a great husband! I hope you recover and get to walking again soon!
@misshamilton
Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing ... May God bless you with love healing and laughter
@aliciacarstensen7904
Ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing Hon
@sarahnaidoo2953
Ай бұрын
Thank God for this gift of a husband. 🙏🖐
@ilikenachosify
Ай бұрын
Pedestal
@gypsyrose-qq9nz
Ай бұрын
He should take her camoing ,hiking , horse back riding etc...get her out of her comfort zone . Dr phil should tell her she has to do it and find more out of life
@troubleinthevalley5884
Ай бұрын
She's asking how do they find a compromise where he spends time with her and has everything he wants to? The thing is is she spending time with him? She wants him to stay home and watch movies and be a homebody and he does that for her but does she offer to go horseback riding with him does she go on a hike with him? Sometimes marriage means doing things you don't necessarily want to do or aren't interested in but you do them to be there with your spouse because that's the thing they like to do or are interested in. Then a lot of the time people find that they end up looking forward to that thing because it means quality time with their spouse and they have a good time. As she's going now she's just going to end up getting fat and lazy. Then he'll really be resentful.
@barbie3139
Ай бұрын
She also needs God to fill her emotional needs. A marriage can't fill it alone, nor can a job.
@kellypolfleit3942
Ай бұрын
She’s isolated him. That’s a red flag for abuse. There’s more ways to abuse someone without being physical
@carolb29
Ай бұрын
There is no way I would have gotten rid of my horses! Get her out there and see how great they are, take a ride.
@cherylhaugen1897
Ай бұрын
First has no life, she is a child and doesn’t want to be an adult!! She needs to get a job and learn to grow up!
@christinapotter8526
Ай бұрын
You’ve got that right
@alanaadams7440
14 күн бұрын
He married a child
@donnacaldwell3267
Ай бұрын
This gal is codependent with severe abandonment issues. She reminds me of myself in my twenties, before I found recovery in AlAnon. I hope she gets help too.
@TheFaithAlexander
Ай бұрын
I pray for the husband’s faith. He should’ve been honest. God has healed my husband and I or we wouldn’t be married. ❤. We’ve been married 29 years and have six beautiful kids( four are ❤🎉adult children)
@pawpower1023
Ай бұрын
My husband would never take my horse away. He knew how important getting a horse was for me and last year for my birthday we found a rescue horse for free. I had a talk with him because she was costing us a ton of money and asked if we should sell her and he said absolutely not, that he would never do that to me.
@barbie3139
Ай бұрын
The first lady needs a full time job.
@LynnSchaufelberger-jj3oi
Ай бұрын
When I had problems in my marriage I told my family Dr. who was my Dr. since my youth. He said this and I remembered it all 60 yrs of my marriage. Bottom line..learn to cope or get out!! My hubby was bipolar and did get on meds, when the good ones became available. That was a life and marriage saver!
@masellosethusha4947
Ай бұрын
This girl needs to get a job and a hobby. She must have her own life outside his. She's too needy
@thatlisagirl71
Ай бұрын
Not sure if it’s codependency because it’s on her end….but her neediness is off the chain. I know I wouldn’t be able to handle it…that’s too much.
@DIANA-gc4zv
Ай бұрын
Don't have children!! Get a divorce!! Narc
@Bex-rg8pj
Ай бұрын
Jeremy I would run!
@rasheenamansel5311
20 күн бұрын
The fact that this guy was willing to give up everything for, it blows my mind. I don’t understand how you can give up your entire self just because you love someone.
@margys1426
Ай бұрын
OMG, so absolutely stifling.
@christinecatt8039
26 күн бұрын
I've always said.."it's better to be miserably single, than miserably married"..😢
@Bartebodil
Ай бұрын
Marriage is hard. It’s hard job and compromises all the way. Being this clingy will tear him and the marriage down. I see a lot of people say:” “Just get a divorce” like it’s not a big deal. I’m of the opinion you do what you can before you divorce. Marriage should ideally be the one time, of course if it can’t work and they just make each other unhappy, divorce is an option, but I understand they want to try therapy and help first. Bless them both. They probably married too fast and too young. Not everyone is ready for marriage this young.
@alanaadams7440
14 күн бұрын
She is smothering him. He'll be gone
@Bartebodil
13 күн бұрын
@@alanaadams7440sadly I’m pretty sure you are right.
@purplequeen1727
Ай бұрын
I was like this when I was younger. I was very insecure. No one person can meet your needs. Years later my husband (we met in our 40s, both our second marriage) and we both have many different hobbies and we both have friends we spend time with apart. We also spend alone time apart. We did not consider marrying until we had been together for years and knew we were compatible. This is easy to do when you are secure with yourself and with your relationship. She needs to practice being comfortable spending time alone or with family/friends away from hubby. She can work this out. ❤❤❤
@user-vx9bn1wc5b
Ай бұрын
I think the woman in the first couple should become a flight attendant and broaden her horizons. She should not demand things from her husband, she needs to be way less available and not wait for him to get home.
@linda_dc2379
Ай бұрын
She has the wrong idea of what marriage should be. He will leave and that’s what she is trying to avoid.
@alanaadams7440
14 күн бұрын
No wonder he wants to leave
@nadiabrstak5646
Ай бұрын
Married for all the wrong reasons...only want a wedding not a marriage..no wonder there is so much divorce😂
@ellimae1548
Ай бұрын
She needs a network. Friends, job, hobbies ect…seems bored
@rosacontreras6161
Ай бұрын
To the wife, pray pray and pray, prayer moves mountains
@cherylhaugen1897
Ай бұрын
Living together is not the answer! You will try to impress and not be yourself?
@tiffanynicole5920
Ай бұрын
If your partner isn’t your best friend then don’t get married
@laurenb6160
Ай бұрын
Any update on the couple? Did they stay together?
@scrapped5494
Ай бұрын
I doubt it!!!
@lisasmith6000
Ай бұрын
Would be interesting to know. I wonder if she can even let go, she probably extremely insecure.
@onlychas
Ай бұрын
He's working to get away from you. His free time away. Sir, get you some backbone and put your foot down!!!
@steveguti6452
Ай бұрын
I would appreciate it Deeply if anyone could pray for me I'm very Sick suffering with chronic pain from long time illness please pray for me I'm Suffering praying for Everyone everyday God bless you all
@patriciagrillo1843
Ай бұрын
God Bless you Steve and I pray for relief for your pain..
@audreym3777
Ай бұрын
@@patriciagrillo1843 he’s a known spammer on YT…I’ve lost count how many kids he has in urgent condition, or fake missing kids he begs for help on
@sheiladiaz7794
Ай бұрын
@steveguti6452 Can I help in any way? I’ve also got chronic pain from a spinal cord injury, so I understand. I’ll pray!
@sharonlinville261
Ай бұрын
God. Bless you
@cheryl5994
Ай бұрын
@@user-ru7tv9he1m YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE BORN AGAIN IF YOU’RE A BELIEVER FROM THE START.
@user-vy1fi4jf5t
Ай бұрын
Dude…….leave her. She’s not that hot.
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
Well he says there’s some things he loves about her. I wonder what those are. There’s obviously more to women than looks.
@debfox
Ай бұрын
Seriously, would you say that if it were a guy? Probably not! This may come as a surprise to your shallow brain, but sometimes people actually love each other for different reasons. I know, shocking that most people are t as shallow as you!
@ffgggkok
Ай бұрын
@@mssophiad03 fr, like people in the comments are acting like they know the her better than her husband.
@mssophiad03
Ай бұрын
@@ffgggkok she does seem crazy for sure though 🤣 my first thought was crazy eyes 👀
@janet5846
Ай бұрын
@ffgggkok I think they do though...she's a very skilled manipulator , he clearly has no idea who he married Fact she made him get rid of his horses, is all I need to know about her...he needs to run
@Scubidu-ni6ny
25 күн бұрын
I’ve been married for over thirty years. If my wife acted like that clinging vine it wouldn’t have lasted a year.
@kristinaandthegerman4554
Ай бұрын
Together 20 tears and married 18. We have known each other for 30. We encourage each other to have time apart with friends. We accept we don’t agree on all activities. He likes to camp. Me? Nope. So I get a hotel near campsite to visit but usually go back home after a couple of days. I like shopping and museums when we travel. He puts in a bit of effort then finds a pub. He adores the beach, but I don’t. So we mutually love deep sea fishing and do that. We find happy mediums that work for us. It’s called compromise. We discussed it BEFORE we wed. Are there disagreements? Absolutely! Then we agree to disagree and motor on if it is something not life changing. We can vacation together and spend time apart without upsetting the other. We also agree wholeheartedly to not go to bed disgruntled. Works fir us. We are a couple with a complete life both with one another and solo. Makes and keeps us happy and not missing out.
@melissacummings8981
Ай бұрын
I don't know much about horses, so I'm assuming here. But, wouldn't it feel like getting rid of a family member? I would feel resent as well.
@sheerayb
Ай бұрын
Before I got married, I attended a lesson where I learned that 1. It's hard to know while you're dating what questions to ask and what to look for. It's like being a tourist in a town vs. being a homeowner. You see things differently once there's commitment. 2. The first year should be spent together, building the foundation for the marriage. Not to the extreme that Lady A wants, perhaps, but definitely making the effort to spend most of their free time together to begin with. In the case of the first couple, they apparently just went with the fantasy version of romance without asking any of the right questions and with building no healthy balance or boundaries, so now she doesn't know how to ask for affection, and he just wants to get away. No communication. Very sad.
@andreajones886
Ай бұрын
I believe that an angry atheist,&& a vegetarian ABSOLUTELY go hand-in-hand!🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
@lanalou77
Ай бұрын
Good point!
@pamelalansbury94
Ай бұрын
How did they meet and why did they even want to do a 2nd date?
@carinaejag
Ай бұрын
I feel so sorry for the guy not allowed to do anything. His wife is ruining his life and he will grow to hate her in the future. All she cares about is herself. She is sitting there laughing at everything which tells that she just doesn't get it and she will never get it. What he want has no relevance, it's all about her. She need to get friends and some hobbies so he get some time to do things he likes to. She is suffocating him.
@Mynamestartswithk
25 күн бұрын
I’d bet $1,000,000 that his family told him not to marry her and now it’s too late.
@kathykubina2743
Ай бұрын
She is basically smothering him.. she made him give up a job.. 😱
@tck3041
Ай бұрын
Guaranteed she thought of getting pregnant real FAST. Run mate RUN........FAST. She isn't normal.
@donnakoz4787
Ай бұрын
I think they are both immature . Every one focused on her but she intuitively knew on the honeymoon he had regrets , felt him pull back and that can make someone clingy and extra insecure. She said he gave her lots of attention before the marriage and everything changed after that . He needs a woman that rides horses and has a black belt. She needs an academic book reader that hikes. Good luck to them both.
@SuzanneQuew-vc4us
Ай бұрын
I always say who wants to be married, it’s difficult. If there wasn’t a wedding, most people wouldn’t be married…it’s not fun.
@kjl6039
Ай бұрын
They do not have to have things in common. They need to support and care about who the other person is. My husband is a country boy and I am a city girl. He loves seeing me thrive and I love seeing him do the things he loves to do. The wife needs to have a different perspective. The husband will love her more if she allows him to thrive with who he is and what he enjoys.
@shanbanan7414
24 күн бұрын
The way he keeps looking nervously back & forth to her while answering questions is a huge red flag
@kellydean9373
Ай бұрын
No one wants to be with someone that is stuck up their butt 24/7
@Irish-Triplet
5 күн бұрын
My husband and I fight about good things. "You made me dinner last night, it's my turn to make it for you !", "Is there anything I can get you?" If I want the toilet seat down, I put it down. I suggest he hang with friends and go golfing when he wants. If we have angry words, we apologize quickly and are happy again soon. It's about selflessness.
@williambertone332
Ай бұрын
I love spending time with my wife but she is also my best friend !!! She is my ROCK !!
@kryssiicat
Ай бұрын
The first young couple, the young man is speaking of severe alienation of friends, the things he loves, no privacy & telltale signs of a controlling partner, at the minimum. If this was a woman, Dr. Phil would be yelling how he's a good ol' Texas boy & how the newlywed husband belongs gone or in jail. Why the role reversal, why not warn this young man he's going down a dangerous DV road? Exactly, why I stopped watching!
@Wulfyr
Ай бұрын
He's too old and he's been unlicensed for years and years. He's just a TV presenter now. He's stretching the truth by still playing at being a psychologist.
@kasapbandy1776
Ай бұрын
Where do all these women find horse-men and why do they choose women that don’t want their lifestyle? It’s just not fair
@AfterMidnightTales
10 күн бұрын
People don't take relationships seriously, getting seriously involved with another person means paying attention to their behavior, the way they talk, how they get angry how they show love and how much they take and give...just because you both like each other doesn't mean you're gonna have a good relationship for the long run
@anneshirley9560
Ай бұрын
It sounds like they got into a really bad cycle. It sounds like she was shocked that when they got married, that he started paying less attention to her, which caused her to get clingy and complain, which caused him to to pull away and resent her. They really need to both stop being selfish. He needs to forgive her and let go of his resentment and show her affection, and she needs to back off and give him space. He probably is really busy and needs to be more present in the relationship and she is clingy. I really don't think any of these people are bad, I think they just got into a bad cycle and need to just work it out.
@mackenzieedwards5165
17 күн бұрын
I would never marry anyone who doesn’t share my faith
@cg9616
Ай бұрын
Checked out after giving up friends, horses, judo, hobbies and even choice of his bedtime 😅😅
@weneedjesus9188
Ай бұрын
Don't be selfish; don't try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don't look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.
@JLa7257
Ай бұрын
Straight from Scripture, amen. ♡
@LavernBrown-im5ws
Ай бұрын
Bible words ❤
@vickyoli
Ай бұрын
8 years married here! You need to know everything that is important and a deal breaker to you. You always will learn new things. Now, I learned that picking up the underwear on of the floor, is not important and it is more important to focus on other things. Also, communication:) and learn each other love languages, to make them feel loved and important. Finally, give yourself your own space! Tamara, you will saturate him.
@absatwell8163
Ай бұрын
Do NOT indoctrinate your children. Teach them love and compassion. I was raised in the church as well. I allowed my child to make her own choice. She went to many different churches with neighbors and friends growing up. I sent her to “Jesus camp” in MS, because she was interested. She was able to make her own choice. She later came to me crying and said, “I know you no longer believe, but thank you for showing me the groundwork to being a loving and caring Christian that I’ve decided to be. You’ve showed me through your kindness to the homeless, your volunteering that I want to be like you, I just am going to do it through Christ”. I cried as well.
@marieborges-boldt7019
2 күн бұрын
This woman is so unfair to her husband. She doesn’t deserve him.
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