I am a single 37-year-old woman. My dad died when I was 5 years old. I was raised by my mother who never re-married after my dad died. My mother gave her life to the church full-time.
Relationships have always been a challenge for me. I got married at the age of 28 and the marriage was short-lived only to separate after 4 months. My husband complained that I wasn't meeting his needs in the bedroom.
Last year my father’s brother called my mother and other respected family members to come to his house as he was ill. The conversation was about what happened when I was nine years old. He said that they paid me as risk compensation. Since my father was dead, all his brothers have protected their daughters. All this was on me. We were so heartbroken. My uncle instructed us how to reverse the spirit, but my mother denied saying we would deal with it the Christian way by praying and fasting.
After this happened, the man I had been dating for 8 months married another woman. I was discouraged and felt helpless in my prayers. My mother refused to resolve this matter the traditional way.
I decided to work with my uncle without my mother’s knowledge. A traditional healer helped me last week in my rural area. He instructed me to sleep at his place for 3 days. I am still praying and fasting but nothing has changed. I’m doing both Christian and traditional.
Should I tell my mother about the current situation? I am tired of living a painful life of heartbreaks. I need companionship. Please help!
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