You and Dr. Heather while both excellent individually have an amazing synergy together.
@jeffowens4926
Ай бұрын
My wife and I have been enjoying the HOTWIFE deal for about 2 years now. It is spectacular. We were close before but now we are even closer ❤
@mwh3227
Ай бұрын
My wife and I have had the same experience. Having just a few mfm experiences has made us a lot closer! I know that it doesn't make sense, but with us, it's a fact! She likes men about half her age and gets to have these experiences! Good for her! I love watching her! It seems to have eliminated any jealousy that was in our relationship! Sharing your wife with other men wouldn't work for everyone, but it did help us a lot! Be upfront and honest with each other! Always!
@Nicholes-Dad
14 күн бұрын
Exactly. My late wife and I became even closer because of the lifestyle.
@noodlecompany8123
9 ай бұрын
This is growing in popularity and there's something I could never tolerate. I don't judge those who participate in this but I've recently dropped two women in the last 3 years for bringing it up
@shivamsson
9 ай бұрын
Lul my woman has cukd me after being the one to bring it up. It's honestly made us feel even closer
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
But you're watching this and that's ok.
@ShivaShaktification
2 ай бұрын
I think it's growing in popularity because men don't want to take so much responsibility for being everything to a woman anymore. It's too much to expect of anyone to live up to the impossible standards of modern women
@xxthepoppaxx
2 ай бұрын
@@ShivaShaktificationthat’s a hell of a comment. Interesting.
@hv3115
Ай бұрын
@@ShivaShaktification somewhat true. This is becoming more popular because wom en are more s3xually empowered and liberated now and usually have been with lots of men and have had experience with well-endowed men with prowess who were able to satisy them in ways other men can't. So they know what they are missing now and are the ones now demanding and wanting open relationships where they can get all their needs met.
@ziggyjohnston5302
Жыл бұрын
You can get rid of the term "Alpha" and "beta", but you will always have words that describe people who are better than you because hierarchies are written into the fabric of existence. You can't get rid of them
@shivamsson
11 ай бұрын
Hence why we should embrace our cuckd status if necessary. No shame in it
@kbanghart
11 ай бұрын
But better than you, how?
@aNaturalist
9 ай бұрын
I fully agree. Alpha and beta seem particularly well suited to mating dynamics within a group. We can do some language gymnastics to get around using those 2 words, but they are a good shorthand.
@kbanghart
9 ай бұрын
@@aNaturalistmating... Hmm ok. Maybe, I suppose, I'm not a biologist. But too many people use alpha and beta as words to describe a whole range of behaviors, and so many of us don't behave in a simple black and white manner.
@cameronthomas578
7 ай бұрын
And no doubt created by people seeking to label themselves “alpha” to everyone else’s “beta”. They’re pathetically simplistic terms for the shallowest among us without the life experience or education to understand the nuance and unique individuality of human beings.
@SpottedBullet
Жыл бұрын
I think the cuckolding experience induces a type of controlled-jealousy that just builds up inside and results in a release of pleasure.
@NothisisPatrick-oe9fv
8 ай бұрын
Exactly right. I took an abnormal sexuality course recently that went over this. Eroticism of trauma usually a previous affair or fear of one.
@juanvaldes2458
3 ай бұрын
@@NothisisPatrick-oe9fv exactly how i accidentally discovered that the jealousy pangs and anxiety i felt at the thought of my wife with another man was actually getting me more and more exited sexually. Once I accepted the fact, i eagerly welcomed her infidelity.
@Catnado5000
13 күн бұрын
@@NothisisPatrick-oe9fvit is a roller coaster of emotions beinging as soon as she says she found someone interested
@threestars186
10 ай бұрын
For me, it's purely intense Voyeurism.
@bavariancarenthusiast2722
Ай бұрын
For you maybe? Did you try? Its much more deep and multifaceted
@NothisisPatrick-oe9fv
8 ай бұрын
psychologist Stanley Siegel has researched this the most. If anyone wants to understand why or to get past it. He has a website.
@1twistedcpl6575
9 ай бұрын
When you talk, in the first 5 minutes or so, about the wife comes home after her "play" time and then has sex with the husband and he enjoys that aspect...the "she came home to me" (im the last one etc) is referred to as "reclaiming."
@Em_Dee_Aitch
5 ай бұрын
That’s only one of many terms, and it’s decided upon by the man who feels whatever he specifically feels.
@littermonks
9 ай бұрын
Super informative! Thank You!
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
Hmmm You both got me thinking. I have been practicing this for over 45 years. Now hotwifing has come to the scene. I'm starting to think I'm a hybrid.
@mmmcdaniel7
Ай бұрын
This is pretty decent. But it seems like two women, opining about what men who are interested in this are driven by--and through the questions you ask--showing that you don't know, leaves this somewhat incomplete. Perhaps better would be to have you two asking a man or men who are into this lifestyle questions and getting their response to complete the picture and have some first person descriptions of what's going on. Otherwise it's just people talking and not really having answers because you clearly don't have the answers you're just guessing on much of it, and neither of you is particularly qualified to make those guesses being at least in this situation not the ones who have these fantasies, certainly not from the perspective of the man you were discussing. The use of statements such as, "I feel . . ." "Maybe . . . " and "I think . . ." highlight the problem here. For future episode maybe bring in people who have more of a first hand to understanding, do a little bit less guesswork on the platform.
@jackgrayson132
Жыл бұрын
Please discuss why so many woman prefer black men as bulls. Is it simply the much larger penis size or is there more to it. Thanks!
@Bill_Kramer4vets
Жыл бұрын
Once you go black you never go back.
@samartht3072
Жыл бұрын
it's the size, taboo, sometimes even the contrast too which are the reasons.. you have had some experiences?
@ziggyjohnston5302
Жыл бұрын
"black men" is so dehumanizing. Race has nothing to do with it
@kevindaniel9924
11 ай бұрын
From someone who has a black bull that fucks his wife its a bit more than that. On average (not a stereotype!) black men have on average more dominant and rough way of fucking and you can even see that in amateur porn where its not porn industry acting. Which is why many women, particularly white women who are with with cuck white guys prefer black guys. Because black guys fuck in ways those ladies husbands dont. The penis size is a bit of an unrealistic thing because on average, dick sizes between races are almost the same. There are different and varying dick sizes but its irrelevant of race.
@stanspb763
10 ай бұрын
@@ziggyjohnston5302 It appears to be very human in that many women want to experience a partner who is larger that they associated with black men. So race is part of it. My gf wants to have a black girlfriend because she had a college friend from Africa as exchange student and found her skin was very soft and made excuses to be in contract with her for innocent seeming reasons. We live in a country where 90% of the blacks are students with full load scholarships so we make contact with black girls we see randomly in a store or on the street and have lunch or attend a cultural event. She has not escalated with any more than kissing in greeting or departing. So race is an element in her attractive and that is very human. She has not tried to seduce one but only because she is a but concerned over the possible reaction.
@bigcirkus306
10 ай бұрын
In my oppinion the thing is rather simple. We humans get bored by everything after a while. Then starts a search for excitements. Even cuckolding becomes boring with time. That is why we have those discussions and analyses. The same process we see in music, painings, coockery, ......First we listen to children songs and after some time to uggly jazz.
@dimitrisjim1216
9 ай бұрын
Same thing with drugs. After a while we dont get that rush
@Gretsch0997
29 күн бұрын
I actually agree with this
@TroyMountain
12 күн бұрын
And "entertainment" also. "Creatives" so lazy they remake rather than labor to dredge up _something_ new.
@patland1762
6 ай бұрын
Every time I here talk of this I am surprised by how it just doesn't seem to fit with my past personal experience. For me I think sex is great fun and I also beleive I don't own anyone. When my past partner hot wifed I was just glad she got to have some varied experience and felt it was good that she enjoyed herself. It didn't seem to have all these other variables you mention for me personally.
@DaRyteJuan
10 ай бұрын
If the female partner tries to introduce some weird practices and the man goes along with it, there won’t be any problems. But if it’s the guy’s idea, it’s probably not going to go well. Best off just keeping it to yourself. She will no longer trust you. Also, as a man, to maintain attraction, you have to be something of a black box to your female partner. Once she figures you out, she will lose interest. Just remember, if there’s anything at stake like kids or a house, she has kept an exact accounting of every transaction, and if there’s a breakdown in the relationship, everything you’ve ever opened up to her about will be used against you. If that happens, and she’s able to engineer your suicide, then it’s “mission accomplished.” She takes everything with no strings attached.
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
Lol
@sarahalderman3126
8 ай бұрын
Dude..
@jansmit4690
8 ай бұрын
Me and my hotwive are happy for more then 10 jears in a cuckold relation and it only makes the relation stronger. Much respect to all hotwives and there partners. Go for it lady's enjoy❤
@stevewilson397
10 ай бұрын
My wife experience a black guy a while back, she was introduces to him by her current bull I never knew she was planning this , so she meet him and her current bull for coffee and soon ended up back at our place.I knew she had a 3 some but nothing mentioned he was black , she never mentioned his race until a few weeks later .her bull videos it and send me a clip and I was taken by how much she enjoyed the sex with him over he regular bull. When she did tell me more about this guy she made it clear was the next level of sex
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
Damn that's hot. Do you think you'll never get to be in the same room with them?
8 ай бұрын
I am sad that a man can make himself this smal , you must be traumabonded to this narcissistic women 🤮
@Nicholes-Dad
8 ай бұрын
That is very likely to happen. Most of the couples I have been with eventually led to the cuck watchimg me with their wives. The cucks seemed like they couldn't get enough of it. I have had several cucks deeply kiss their wives while my load was still sitting on the tongue of their wives.
@Catnado5000
13 күн бұрын
I had a simular experiance with my wifes first Bull, who shared my wife with his roommate, it kinda crosses a line as I wasn't told until well after, but kinda hot at the same time. It started feeling like a controlled affair and less of what it was supposed to be.
8 ай бұрын
This is how bored people are , that sex and even watching and being humiliated is better then their emptiness… sexual narcissism is just sad . And only 7% of open relationship survive, if it was a cancer diagnosis one would prepare to die 😂
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
7% Where did you get that stat ?
@paulahartzenberg6619
7 ай бұрын
Where did you get 7% ?
@patland1762
6 ай бұрын
My first wife who did hot wifing died of cancer young, so whats your point with your empty judgement of others?
@Bill_Kramer4vets
Жыл бұрын
I like what they said about. Kink
@vampireslayer1989
10 ай бұрын
Committed relationships inducing third party participation rarely stand the test of time.
@mr.anderson9938
10 ай бұрын
Yeah didn’t work out for ya? Sorry to hear that
@stanspb763
10 ай бұрын
But other studies rate swinger couples divorce at much lower rate than vanilla couples. The only highly religious have lower rates of divorce.
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
@@mr.anderson9938yeah I guess it didn't work out for that person. Has worked out for me so far
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
Then it wasn't committed
@dilanalexsander9332
11 ай бұрын
Hello doctor I can know more details about this . personal . hope you can little help me 🙏
@tommac21
3 ай бұрын
Nobody can help you but yourself
@nightworks11
11 ай бұрын
I have become old and can't get it up but I love to kiss my wife but she doesn't.
@YOUAreTheSecretToLife
6 ай бұрын
Awe that's kinda sad. I'm sorry 😕
@user-mf7ll4nm4n
5 ай бұрын
Nope.As a hetro male it's not about being the most virile etc I don't enjoy watching my partner having sex with another man.I feel cheated. I was glad when I broke it off.I respect my self and I'd p rather be alone than be punished etc.I wonder why people get into and stay in these relationships. As hard as it might be and it's very hard ( I've been there) leave her guys. You do not deserve the pain.And I mean this sincerely.
@Shaun.is.typing
14 күн бұрын
Playing Skyrim but only to explore the worlds and not doing any of the missions
@rogerledoux4741
10 ай бұрын
All of this sounds great, right up until you realize your wife has fallen in love with someone else and says I love you, but I am no longer in love with you, goodbye." The truth, according to DR David Buss, which very few want to talk about is 79% of women who have sex outside their marriage will fall in love with one of her sexual partners. 80% of divorce is filed for by women. Men almost always get the short end of this stick. Most women will lose respect for their husbands because their will come a time when the wife will view him as weak. She will realize she doesn't need him as a sexual partner in part because he asked for it. Do as you please, but realize you are playing with fire and are probably going to get burned.ŭ
@stanspb763
10 ай бұрын
But more credible studies reveal the divorce rates of those in the LifeStyle and very religious have the lowest divorce rate and highest self reported mate satisfaction. Adding a couple or individual to a good marriage seems to be a strengthen factor.
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
@@stanspb763nice
@JamesFaust1722
7 күн бұрын
This is all true
@vladdyydaddy
2 ай бұрын
When i was younger my partner suggested it. I said hell nah, but was really turned on but i couldn't bring myself to it. I think its super hot but i cant do it
@Catnado5000
13 күн бұрын
I had the same thought, when she suggested it to me, then I was curious of who and what other men wkuld be attracted to my women
@DaRyteJuan
10 ай бұрын
14:18 Unless the female partner is a narcissist, she probably doesn’t derive any real pleasure from “cuckolding” her husband. In fact, by putting her on a pedestal, he’s just objectifying her. Assuming the female partner is not a narcissist, if she’s getting anything from having sex with another man, she probably has to block out the idea that he’s even there (watching). On average, most women aren’t actually kinky. They’re just more into the sensory experience they’re having. If any of them are into BDSM, then it’s probably more about receiving any ‘punishment’ than dishing it out because that takes real effort. A female narcissist on the other hand would be an expert at dealing out punishment and humiliation and any man who went along with it would end up feeling hollowed out. People are fooling themselves if they think these habits are going to blow up in their faces one day.
@richardcasey7521
9 ай бұрын
Heather is fun to listen to…
@kellyrafferty7792
5 ай бұрын
I was just looking for a sex therapist to help me figure out life / sex after bladder cancer and my losses
@tommac21
3 ай бұрын
Why would you be asking her. She knows just as much about this as you do ? People have to stop being so naieve and believing that people like her are experts on sex or relationships or especially intimacy. There are absolutely no experts on any of these. Its just their opinion. And you can get that from anybody !!
@LouisLombardoJr-ed4rm
10 ай бұрын
i notice this and what i see is that it is mostly young people who talk and endorse this kind of thing, This was not tolerated back in the day by good men back in the day-i am 67 and this was not happening back in the day. I would never ever tolerate any woman who did this kind of thing, I see women who do this as well i think you know the word i want t use-they were women who we called w. i leave it at that.
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
Of course people did it back in the day, they just didn't talk about it
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
Yes. When I was young in my 20s I did this kind of thing, and continued off and on for the next 45 years. Now 72 , I still do this kind of thing. My now wife is 45.
@YOUAreTheSecretToLife
6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry my friend, you've just admitted to us all that you've been living under a rock for 67 years. 😬 Plus, "W's" are fun 😉🤭😁🫣 you have definitely missed out. For 67 years.
@patland1762
6 ай бұрын
If your wife had three kids back in the day the probability is one was not yours.
@Gretsch0997
29 күн бұрын
Many? Or too many?
@Bill_Kramer4vets
Жыл бұрын
Talk about the movie 7th Secret
@johnmaddern3519
4 ай бұрын
What about a Man having sex with other Women and having his wife watch or telling her about it
@BjornMesson-fi9gc
Жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about small penis humiliation? I need a clear explication 😅
@mr.anderson9938
10 ай бұрын
Yeah for a friend 😅
@gjm456
8 ай бұрын
👍@@mr.anderson9938
@Enoch940
7 ай бұрын
My penis is small. I enjoy when my wife places her large toy next to it and laughs at it. I like that.
@anul6801
5 ай бұрын
Im that friend who needs to get this explained to me.
@winstonstrange6732
10 күн бұрын
I want my wife to do this I would love to watch I was trying to let my friend but it didn't work out for him I wish he could have
@hedge1417
4 ай бұрын
If you look at wolves, Lions or any pack animal, there is an alfa and he gets to procreate. So that is not a fallacy.
@hv3115
Ай бұрын
But human beings are not wolves.
@ZINCO33
11 ай бұрын
❤
@Spectre2434
29 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@MarioArroyo-uc2fc
Ай бұрын
Yes I am baby
@arbaabsheytaan6723
8 ай бұрын
Left wing neo-liberal women ...
@farricco1
6 ай бұрын
Yep!!!
@Catnado5000
13 күн бұрын
True, my wife is a left wing feminist and I'm a conserative c u c k, the theory is our type are so worried about providing, that it has weaked our sexual intergerties.
@Emanuel_carey
7 ай бұрын
Nah
@jamesipock3669
Ай бұрын
🤮
@DaRyteJuan
10 ай бұрын
Maybe “hotwifing” is for all those tubby partners where neither one of them is anywhere near hot. The fact that _anyone_ else would have a go at this dumpy woman gives the dumpy husband reassurance that his wife isn’t as bad he was thinking, sort of like a broken down car that still has at least SOME market value.
@kbanghart
10 ай бұрын
Don't be jealous bro
@donnielee5331
9 ай бұрын
I don't think he is.@@kbanghart
@patland1762
6 ай бұрын
Okay Ken wannabe.
@mario1819
Жыл бұрын
Too many husbands today would like to watch their Hotwife with a Strong Black Bull!
@tonya8984
Жыл бұрын
Not me.
@shivamsson
11 ай бұрын
Fact
@Istilllove
11 ай бұрын
Not enough in my opinion
@kevindaniel9924
11 ай бұрын
True. My wife and I tried it few times, we actually had such a good time. If thats something couples are into or have a fetish for, I would highly recommend it.
@krishnamurthy-jk5us
11 ай бұрын
My wife if cuckold me that with white bull alone i like and not black person as bull.
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