But doing what was thought! Loving our wives brings peace in the home!
@ScottLaPierre
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I do agree that loving our wives as God commands brings peace to our homes. The saying goes: a happy wife makes a happy home :-).
@emmanuelchukwu8331
2 жыл бұрын
@@ScottLaPierre you have a good marriage experience pastor
@nicklo8800
4 ай бұрын
You rock! One of the best talks I’ve ever heard on marriage and I’ve been married 11 years.
@ScottLaPierre
4 ай бұрын
@nicklo8800 That's great to hear. Thanks for letting me know. God bless!
@JLight86
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for these series brother. I am learning a lot through it.
@ScottLaPierre
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. I'm blessed they minister to you.
@jenniferwhiten1884
10 ай бұрын
Best marriage advice I’ve e er heard ❤
@ScottLaPierre
10 ай бұрын
@jenniferwhiten1884 that blesses me. Thanks for letting me know. I hope you listen to the other messagse!
@suebotchie4167
11 ай бұрын
Terrific sermon, thank you.
@ScottLaPierre
11 ай бұрын
@suebotchie4167, Nice to hear from you. Thank you for letting me know. I'm blessed my sermon ministered to you!
@michelleyb.9709
Жыл бұрын
You are describing the ideal husband, but unfortunately most would rather just play golf. Any suggestions on how to turn this around?
@ScottLaPierre
Жыл бұрын
I don't know what percent of men would rather golf then pursue being "The ideal husband." But I do know from the marriage conferences I have put on and the men I have gone to know in my church, that many of them sincerely pursue being godly husbands and to give up many things (I suspect including golf) to do so. With that said, even though I don't enjoy golf, I wouldn't say that just because a man plays golf that he is compromising as a husband. The issue is whether a wife feels like second place to an activity, whether it is golf, video games, or poker night.
@ctedone
11 күн бұрын
Weak Men create hard times. Fortunately, the age of strong men will replace guys like this guy, and restore peace, and good times.
@ScottLaPierre
10 күн бұрын
@ctedone I'm not sure I completely understand your comment. Are you saying I'm a weak man? If so, what did I say in the sermon that made you think that?
@praisemasterjesus6058
7 сағат бұрын
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@BK-im8lr
Жыл бұрын
How should I act as a wife if my husband thinks its okay to be harsh with me? He says its my fault for upsetting him. I apologized for the way I acted because him upsetting me isn't an excuse to get an attitude but he continues to be harsh and tell me I am just too sensitive and need to be less emotional. I don't expect him to be perfect. I at least want him to acknowledge that the way he treats me when he's upset is wrong and make an effort to do better. But he doesn't see it as a problem. I have prayed about it but what do I do in the meantime? What if he never changes? Do I have to just suppress my hurt? Do I still force myself to give him sex even though I feel unloved, used, and violated?
@ScottLaPierre
Жыл бұрын
Hello @BK-im8lr, I am sorry for ways your husband has mistreated you. It is always hard for me to respond to messages like this without hearing the other side. It is hard for me to counsel people from a distance like this. I feel like the support you desire should be provided by your church elders. Can you reach out to them for help? They can provide counseling and hopefully one of them can come alongside your husband to disciple him.
@BK-im8lr
Жыл бұрын
@ScottLaPierre Thanks for your response. My husband doesn't want to seek any sort of counseling. He doesn't think there's a problem that needs to be fixed. But I have sought out advice and most people say that he's correct in that I shouldn't be burdening him with my emotions. Thanks again.
@ScottLaPierre
Жыл бұрын
@@BK-im8lr I appreciate your humility in seeking help from others and being willing to receive it, even if it is difficult. Although your husband might not be open to counseling, perhaps you would be open to one of the elders in the church taking him out to coffee. I would still encourage you to reach out to your elders so that one of those possibilities might take place.
@susanhaines7358
7 ай бұрын
As a wife I feel your pain. I really struggled with this and looked at women in the Bible vs today and realized God wants a wife to be holy no matter how her husband acts. 1 Peter 3. And a good book that will stir up emotions that you can take to God is. THE CARE AND FEEDING OF YOUR HUSBAND. also a good KZitem to rifle feathers to help you is The Happy Wife School here on KZitem. A triggered response by you is where you work on that and take it to God for healing and understanding. The bottom line is we do not get a free card when we choose a man to marry. We still are to be a godly wife. God sends the rain to the just and unjust. God is still good to all. We are to be good wives to poor husband's. But you just might learn to be stronger emotionally by working through your belief system that I will be good only if he is good to me. Does he still provide a room and food? Be thankful for that. Then see other things he does. Listen to him and be stronger emotionally if you feel he is too harsh. God bless.
@williambock6328
6 күн бұрын
The bible says what reward is there if you only love those who love you follow gods word which says.love never fails what do you trust your feelings .your own counsel or God the word of God is God talking to us we have to trust God or we can't go on with him ..how can 2 walk together unless they be in agreement does what I'm saying make sense cause this is a very serious matter blessings. Bill Bock qld Australia
@jennr8235
3 жыл бұрын
Why did Jacob keep having children with Leah?
@ScottLaPierre
3 жыл бұрын
Jenn, Good question. I'm not really sure, other than to say that she was his wife. The polygamy we see in the Old Testament was descriptive versus prescriptive. In other words, the Old Testament describes that it happened versus prescribing us to do the same. God's plan was always that a man would have one wife for life. But even in Jacob's situation, because of Laban's trickery, Leah was his first wife. If there was one wife he should have relations with it was her.
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