I just asked my wife of 21 years How Can I Love You Better Today…..her reply was: Go clean your mess in the Garage ……and here I was ready to make out….I’ll try it again tomorrow and see if I get better results….though Friday is trash day 😂
@DeRocco21
7 ай бұрын
those are honeydew things. tasks. it has to be deeper. you should ask how can i better provide what you need to feel safe to be relaxed around me, ppl confuse love with a feeling instead of how to relieve the issues that cause anxiety leading to avoidance, do you feel safe around me enough to not have to avoid certain things, and if not what do you need from me so i can help you feel like you aren't anxious, made or resentful about something.
@wildestdreams_b
7 ай бұрын
So did you clean the garage?
@selfmaderish4690
7 ай бұрын
Sounds like you have a funny wife 😂
@ryaneverett830
8 ай бұрын
1. Don’t stop going out/doing nice gestures. A lot of couples get complacent after marriage when they have kids and get busy. Set aside some time usually once a week to take her out on a date. get her flowers. That kind of stuff. 2. Earn as much as you can through your profession and be wise with money. Financial struggles lead to many divorces. 3. Never a day without I love you and a kiss 4. The most important by far is handle conflict well. It’s really easy when someone is upset at you to get on the defensive, but fight the urge and just let her talk bro. Pride has no place in arguments. Always have the mindset that your relationship is more important than who’s right and wrong. Congrats on your marriage dude 👍🏼
@sanitary103
8 ай бұрын
That’s solid advice.
@MrDilbert86
8 ай бұрын
That’s great advice I’ve been a long time truck driver and divorced a couple of times money and being gone all the time are hard on a relationship
@asdassdgfdf7509
4 ай бұрын
Wise words
@madamoisele1
8 ай бұрын
Not an expert, I've only been married a few years, so keep that in mind. Here's what works for us. Respect, respect, respect. Treat your spouse with respect, all the time, every time. -WHEN- you mess up, fix it quickly (there's a saying - don't let the sun go down on your anger). Practice being kind. Take time every day to express gratitude for the gift you were given (inwardly, to God, to yourself - just express it somehow, be mindful and thoughtful and deliberate about it). One other thing. I accept my husband as he is, flaws and all. I communicate, I don't try to control him. That wouldn't be respectful. :)
@signalfire15
8 ай бұрын
This is great advice. Wishing you a long and happy married life.
@nancyt6895
8 ай бұрын
Serve each other.
@gsdkid182
8 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the small things, be vulnerable. And most importantly love yourself
@ronniepemberton1942
8 ай бұрын
Hope they call back in 10 years to let us know how they are doing
@samplautz5586
5 ай бұрын
The Bible says “wives submit to your husbands”, but no one ever mentions the next verse that says “likewise, husbands submit to your wives”
@ciscothekid1111
6 ай бұрын
Make her goals your goals and work together and uplift her no matter what! Listen and never rush an anger let her vent and be her safety zone
@DeRocco21
7 ай бұрын
its not accountability to a list of things, people change its that they changed with YOU
@vicp99
6 ай бұрын
I know what my husband will say if I ask him how can I love you. 100% make me tacos lol😂🎉
@FromTrash2Treasure
6 ай бұрын
Don’t stop being affectionate- kissing, hugging, complimenting etc. I’ve been married for 2 and half years and I have learned that you tend to get comfortable and stop doing those things that made you feel the butterflies early in the relationship. It takes work to keep the fire alive.
@sarahsincerely2.0
8 ай бұрын
Congrats 🎉
@tanyamilewski5700
8 ай бұрын
Honeymoon phase 😂
@dabd8175
8 ай бұрын
Dog mom 😭😂
@tomnohmy1273
8 ай бұрын
I just got single about 10 years ago
@raymondjames2590
8 ай бұрын
He's putting her on a pedestal oh boy oh boy he is going to be in some pain down the road.
@makenziedeniss754
8 ай бұрын
Put God first read your Bible!!!!! He is the founder of marriage .....
@zacay5717
7 ай бұрын
Ding! Ding! Ding!
@suzannecamp1777
6 ай бұрын
Do things without being asked it’s you home too do the work alongside your partner Dishes laundry children do the things don’t ask how to do those things.
@sw6155
8 ай бұрын
If after 12 months my husband asked me that EVERY DAY TWICE A DAY I’d slap him, honestly… 😅 Don’t judge, I’m Brazilian, very physical and touchy… hehehe… 😜 That’s good for the first 6 to 9 months… But once you get into the rhythm of married life, just start to rely on the history built together and follow the blueprint… Then you’ll just have to ask when something out of ordinary comes up… Or there’s a major change like pregnancy…
@jcstuart6978
8 ай бұрын
put Jesus in the center
@diggernash1
8 ай бұрын
She deserves you, nothing more. If that isn't enough, she needs to evaluate why she agreed to marry you.
@wicklander855
7 ай бұрын
"We want the best marriage of all time" Well...prepare to be disappointed, Because life and marriage does not work like that.
@neisci
8 ай бұрын
John and his wife hehehehehe,yes Shella thinks she's the smartest person in the room. We saw that on the interview, however to say out loud, to your spouse, out of all people it's so unnecessary. They have a curious marriage dynamics, if it works for them.. And to John maybe you are smarter than her you have just being conditioned to believe otherwise.
@mariealmon4137
4 ай бұрын
You always put Jesus fast and tell her that I love her all the time give her lots hags and kiss all the time tell her that I'm you say your soon all the time
@MrHCify
8 ай бұрын
Haha this kid is in for a RUDE awakening 😂
@Colley_co
8 ай бұрын
Texas feminist 😂😂
@twebb200
8 ай бұрын
Kudos to the premarital therapy buuuuutttt you'll both inevitably ruin it. Repeat.
@diggernash1
8 ай бұрын
My answer would every day would be, "make more money so I can retire sooner." I can't think of anything else a woman can do to bring value to my life at this point.
@morgandawn6413
8 ай бұрын
The right woman can accelerate your success
@diggernash1
8 ай бұрын
@morgandawn6413 Agreed. But it would be even better if she brought enoughbmoneybto retire us with her...lol. I'm drawing a decent pension at 48, but will have to work atleast 10 more years to retire fully.
@morgandawn6413
8 ай бұрын
@@diggernash1 It sounds like you are incredibly driven. Full retirement by 58 still sounds pretty darn good. I pray you find someone that can share your drive and passion and that brings you both combined wealth and success. God bless you!
@dabd8175
8 ай бұрын
Yes female must submit
@mikedelgado8460
8 ай бұрын
Nah, Hard pass on that one.
@samplautz5586
5 ай бұрын
You should look at the verse that comes right after, because it says “husbands, submit to your wives”
@Juliussmoothie
8 ай бұрын
You’re in the wrong place buddy, if you read any comments research Kevin Samuel’s and Andrew Tate, thank me later.
@raspberrykissable
8 ай бұрын
So the male feminists? They hate feminism but they act the same as they do. Hateful.
@ethan4048
8 ай бұрын
That’s a lot of words for “I’m an incel”
@boston312
8 ай бұрын
He will learn the hard way once the divorce courts get to him 7 years from now. You cant argue against statistics
@dabd8175
8 ай бұрын
@@ethan4048u said it in less words 😂
@ethan4048
8 ай бұрын
@@dabd8175 lol guessing your mom abandoned you. bet she wishes she had that abortion🤣
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