(this is) Part 1 ❓, Would captions on screen be better or would you be ok with turning on the CC if you wanted to follow along? (they aren't auto generated but manually edited for accuracy)
@jay5345
Ай бұрын
cc is fine
@Lexington-Felix
Ай бұрын
This guy is so in love with himself already, he doesn't have the room for anyone else nor really want,or need it., in my opinion. More power to him lol.
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Give it a full listen and see if you feel the same. Not saying you won’t but lol 😆 give him a chance to…idk I’m trying man
@Lexington-Felix
Ай бұрын
@@ThatAutisticBlackMan YOUR RIGHT, MAYBE I DIDN'T PAY AS CLOSE ATTENTION AS I SHOULD HAVE. I PROMISE I WILL GIVE HIM ANOTHER GO. YOU'RE A GOOD MAN, THAT AUTISTIC BLACK MAN. 🙂
@Lexington-Felix
Ай бұрын
@@ThatAutisticBlackMan MY BAD. YOU'RE RIGHT, I WILL GIVE HIM ANOTHER GO, I PROMISE. MAYBE I DIDN'T PAY AS GOOD OF ATTENTION AS I SHOULD HAVE, And WAS To QUICK TO JUDGE. YOU'RE A GOOD MAN, THAT AUTISTIC BLACK MAN 🙂TAKE CARE!
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Thanks. Sorry for the delay. KZitem saw something wrong with your comment and flagged it (weird)
@Lexington-Felix
Ай бұрын
@@ThatAutisticBlackMan LOL NO WORRIES 🙂TBH I WAS GOING TO DELETE IT MYSELF LOL. TAKE CARE, LOOKIN FORWARD TO THE NEXT VIDEO ✌
@teelle3500
Ай бұрын
16:20 Yo the keys to the kingdom had me confused too 😂
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
glad I wasn't the only one lol
@shadygrady8162
Ай бұрын
Whoa buddy. This sounds like he was trying to make a fit where there wasn’t a match. I question though if one comes with so much unconditional love and were in relationships beforehand, then what are the conditions they fail to see we all have? It also sounds like he doesn’t really know what he brings to the table.
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
You make great points. Hope you return for part two. Thanks for watching
@EmpressEmpathic
Ай бұрын
Suggested read: Commitment and Healing: Gay Men and the Need for Romantic Love by Richard A. Isay
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Th🙏🏽nks for the suggestion. Glad you’re here.
@jay5345
Ай бұрын
Loved this
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Th🙏🏽nks, Part 2 is up now
@tylerperry5751
Ай бұрын
Oh the delusion, it's givin personality disorder
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Give it time and I’ll check back with you.
@samwheller
Ай бұрын
Relationships these days feel so transactional. Was romance just a story we were told, and it was always really this way?
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Haven’t they always been though? Lol sure now it seems so on the nose and not so subtle but it’s always been an unwritten contract between those involved that so long as their requirements are met they will continue to show up in the manner they have. Should things change then the contract is up for discussion and things are either honored or dissolved.
@samwheller
Ай бұрын
@@ThatAutisticBlackMan Do you think good faith can accumulate? Or are we only as good as our last paycheck, or fuck, or kink play?
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
in some ways but what you did "at your last job" doesn't weight towards your current position though it may influence it's pay/the treatment you get from said employer. It simply tells one what your patterns are and your shown potential but does it mean you'll be good here? not really. Does the universe reward you for "doing good"? as someone in the music industry, yes, you are only as good as your last which is why a Grammy nominee from 1986 will still be stamped a Grammy nominated (artist/writer/composer/etc) meaning no one cares about what you did yesterday if it doesn't peak what you are known for. Sorry semi autistic derail
@samwheller
Ай бұрын
@@ThatAutisticBlackMan < Something must have happened to my last comment. Can't see it anymore. > I think I was more so talking about the good will within the bounds of one relationship. I feel the bleak though Brother. I think maybe the sheer number of possibilities for potential romantic encounters skews our relationship organ. We compress the crazy amounts of data available to us in our head into something flat and manageable. I mean, what is less arousing than statistics? We try to make logical conclusions rather than feeling. And also, the vast amount of opportunity takes away the sense of urgency that I think fuels our primal coupling urge. Maybe things got so transactional because we lost our NEED for relationships. And so we risk less. We invest less. I personally feel like on the whole, you're going to face a full set of relationship challenge with each person. That full set is the same for each person, the individuals (and dynamics between them) just flavor the stew in their unique way. Yeah, mint doesn't pair well with peanut butter, but if you hold your nose, you'll be sustained, and it will all come out the same south end of a north bound human. I'm hetero, but what I'm hearing from most of my gay friends and this video feels pretty similar to the existential questions I'm feeling too. Thanks for the responses Brother. It's appreciated.
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
youtube flagged your last comment. I see it in the studio app but not on youtube which is odd cause it looks like im just replying to myself even your last comment. Weird. but thanks for your questions, they actually require thought lol check out part 2 and leave a comment letting me know what you think: kzitem.info/news/bejne/2Z57r518iWphoYI
@teelle3500
Ай бұрын
😂 he’s a talker did he let you say much?
@ThatAutisticBlackMan
Ай бұрын
Some of the best interviews are when you let the other person talk. Space gives way to further conversation
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