Recently my fiancee came to me and said that she felt really guilty about a situation that happened in her past. She was friends with a guy that would do things for her, trying to win her over eventhough she had made it clear to him that she was not interested in anything more than a friendship. Long story short, he kept doing things for her and she later realized that he may have an idea that she was using him. That was the thing that caused the guilt and she wanted to give him his money back. She doesn't want to be viewed as a user or a bad person. However all I heard was, "I want to give a man that likes me some money" and I reacted in a negative way. Because of the way I reacted, she decided not to go through with repaying they guy.
A week later a similar situation happened to me, where I felt guilty about something that I had done and I was reminded of something that I learned in the past. Guilt is God's way of letting you know that you messed up. Everybody always tells you to talk to God about your problems, but they never seem to speak on how he talks to you. I firmly believe that this is one of the ways and when it happens, you need to ask for forgiveness and/or make some changes in your life so that it never happens again. Guilt comes from your conscience and I believe that God uses your conscience to guide and speak to you in different ways. Needless to say, I felt bad for standing in the way of my fiancee clearing the slate. So after I had this realization I felt that I had to apologize and let her know that I support her decision.
I know this video is a little different from what you're used to hearing me talk about, but I just felt that it was a good lesson in this situation. I hope you understand what I'm trying to tell you.
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