I hate going to the doctor and being asked if I have a history of some medical illness. I always have to explain
@coralineparmentierpianist
6 жыл бұрын
OMG Same this is stress me out since ever
@shabanafelix449
5 жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad I come from a biological parents and don't even know mine I'm serious
@uditatj
5 жыл бұрын
same
@ruthruthy421
3 жыл бұрын
I hear that
@sierraroseee3
3 жыл бұрын
Same dude that shits annoying
@raisotope
5 ай бұрын
I was adopted at birth as well as grew up an only child. Right now I am 18 struggling to adjust to adulthood. Both of my parents sheltered me as a kid and didn’t tell me much about my birth family. Sometimes to me this all feels like DLC i have yet to unlock about my life.
@faithemmavaz6311
5 жыл бұрын
I'm here because I wanna understand my best friend
@Anonymous-mp3wb
3 жыл бұрын
so true....im exactly doing that only.please help me out too, i will help u out too
@dylancallow1783
2 жыл бұрын
Good on you, I’m adopted and when I told my friend all she did was tell me that my parents sent my real parents, she didn’t try to under stand me and what I go through. Good on you for trying to understand ur friend. That means your a good friend. Well done
@shawreelol
2 жыл бұрын
Iam Adopted but the people who i leave with are not my race so its very uncomfortable
@TonyBurke100
Жыл бұрын
I'm 70 and being adopted really sucks, broken marriages addiction alcoholism etc but if I had the knowledge that I've learned through the internet at a younger age e.g. my preteens life would have been much easier.
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
im adopted, my step dad is abusive my step mom is dead, and i meeting my new family in 3 days... wish me luck!
@hahahahaha315
3 жыл бұрын
How is it going? :0
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
@@hahahahaha315 umm... it is a huge improvement actually! I was finally able to come out as trans and was able to live a normal life! Chase (my step bro) is really supportive and I’m so glad I have him for company... overall it’s so much better, it’s hard to forget the past but I think I will soon
@hahahahaha315
3 жыл бұрын
@@geckowithamustache3146 I'm glad to hear that! And I think it's impossible to forget the past, but we can work to get a healthy relationship with it! ^^
@heliosash4675
3 жыл бұрын
@@geckowithamustache3146 Congratulations!
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
@@heliosash4675 thank you!
@x8bitam3l1agamer5
6 жыл бұрын
I'm adopted was a orphan but then adopted when 1. People at school don't know I'm adopted but say your adopted as a joke.. what's wrong with being adopted tho???
@milkymochi8001
6 жыл бұрын
well others think you're a rebellious person cause you're adopted and i hate it when you got to fill up paper about where you got laboured
@sophiarivera7973
4 жыл бұрын
F
@ruthruthy421
3 жыл бұрын
@@milkymochi8001 im adopted too. I dont like it. It sucks
@BingCK
3 жыл бұрын
omg this is happening to me now
@sameenzahin1255
3 жыл бұрын
nothing is wrong with it's just different then normal people so remember your strong to be an orphan at such a young age and blessed with a family your unique
@michellemanookian9773
4 жыл бұрын
People dont understand that being adopted is not always as happy as they show in movies like the hurt we feel never goes away and they always time heals but its really just u pushing your emotions down. Im adopted and thats what i do is push my emotions down and when they build up i finally let them go but i feel like no one ever listens and cant relate because unless you were adopted u can never relate to a adopted kid thats just how it is.
@subyashin
3 жыл бұрын
Cheer up. Always think about the memories that brightens your day 😊 Don't forget that you are awesome
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
@@subyashin nothing cheers me up... Im contantly thinking about my dead step mom and my abusive step dad doesn't help with anything. i usually just sit in my room and cry for hours so ya. i dont think anything will cheer me up... thanks anyways!
@ddaniyamir2898
Жыл бұрын
Truth
@josephjames4423
Жыл бұрын
same
@C00LESTJEDI
11 ай бұрын
I hate everything about me because i feel im not like the rest
@eileenbrougham9238
3 жыл бұрын
I've had an identity crisis all my life being adopted. My Christian name was changed at 4 very confusing for a child and then my adoptive mother emotionally abused me in many ways. I am angry at my birth mother for giving me up. She did not want contact when I finally found her after research all my life... All I can say what have children done to deserve this?
@ajrwilde14
2 жыл бұрын
Nothing. It's just that some people don't want to be parents they just want sex without consequences.
@dexie3849
Жыл бұрын
Banning abortion in usa on top of this is going to make thousands of more children like these. Two alcohol addicts are gonna have sex, give birth and throw the baby away. Idk what pro lifers are thinking.
@DezaRay24
Жыл бұрын
@@ajrwilde14 notice how you only talked disparagingly about his birth mother, but said nothing about his abusive adopters. This is why it’s so hard for us adoptees to speak out against adoptions that don’t fit the societal norm
@lifedagame
9 ай бұрын
@@DezaRay24Exactly!!! Some of us get adopted to bad families.
@pinkeyvideos6520
6 ай бұрын
i was super young when i realized i was adopted i cried in silence, (meaning i would cry when no one was around) it also made me feel unwanted, i was a depressed, sad lil boy
@unsmartasian4454
5 жыл бұрын
The best thing you can do for an adopted person once they tell you is that....you act the same. They don't want to feel different. Of course if they are down about it help them but don't treat them different better or worse. You might think ur helping but ur only making it worse
@leehollis9297
Жыл бұрын
Both of my daughters are adopted. Both don't care about being adopted. We brought them up as our own children. We didn't make a huge big deal about being adopted. Eldest daughter is 35yrs old and youngest is 30yrs old Both beautiful women who were beautiful children. We love our DAUGHTERS 🎉🎉
@jaceyarlene6154
5 жыл бұрын
something you can not put into words 🙏🏽
@trevormunster235
6 жыл бұрын
I was adopted by Maddie and it was good home for me and my new brother and sister I love them so much
@Elyhhk
4 жыл бұрын
Thats cooool!!..
@K1jaxkson
6 жыл бұрын
Am adopted and it is fine I think we are all a family together and we should take this opportunity to show the world that it is not that bad like people say it is
@lii114
4 жыл бұрын
I'm adopted but it really eats me up the older I get . Me and my adopted family always fight . They are always right they will never try any of my ideas . All I need to do is say yes and obey but the older I get the harder it gets . I just don't wanna be here and I cant stop the anger and confusion in my mind . It's like every thing we can't agree on . I feel like a tennis ball getting tossed in a store room full of stuff trying to find the exits . Not knowing myself loosing myself more and more
@fsketchdesignsfengmei3762
4 жыл бұрын
I am also adopted, however I feel as though this is more of a growing up thing than a specifically adopted related thing. Yes, your adoption may be adding pressure to it and fueling it, but it sounds like this is more of a growing older issue than anything. It's sounds like communicating is the main issue that's causing all of this. You're not alone. The best recommendation is just to sit down and speak with them. If you can't handle a face to face conversation, you could try writing a letter to them and placing it on their bed or handing it to them.
@subyashin
3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Hai zhi. I'm not adopted but there was a time when I used to argue with Parents and felt they can never understand me. But that is phase. It has nothing to do with adoption. Talk to them.
@subyashin
3 жыл бұрын
Many Ppl are trying to adopt kids so that they won't be alone and can share love, effection and their life with them.
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
@@fsketchdesignsfengmei3762 i hate my family... im adopted, my mom commited suicide from my step dad, and hes abusive.. i dont even bother to talk to him.
@fsketchdesignsfengmei3762
3 жыл бұрын
@@geckowithamustache3146 I won't go into details of my family, but I sympathize. Someone who is arguably quite abusive is living in my household rn.
@joelbohlin537
5 жыл бұрын
My older brother was adopted by our parents and I wouldn't change it for anything!
@N-A-uw5fp
7 ай бұрын
I have two adopted daughters from birth. I have been completely open with them about their unique and special story. They don’t think anything of it. Now that they’re 15, I think they’re slightly aware that they stand out because they are adopted. I just recently explained to them and the kids that are not adopted can’t comprehend what that would be like. It can be an unconscious threat to their stability to imagine it. They can’t imagine being without their parents. They don’t understand that to my girls, my husband and I are the only parents they know and love. They feel very stable. Adults usually respond, how wonderful ,when I say they are adopted. Infertility is much more common and much more talked about these days. I think it’s different when a child is a foster care. I know who their biological family is and the trauma that caused them to be taken away and put into foster care
@remix808haaaiian6
6 жыл бұрын
Honestly it’s fine that I’m adopted I always get to win a parent age game. I love it that I was adopted.
@shawreelol
2 жыл бұрын
It feels thankful but also hurts the feelings
@hannablake1885
3 жыл бұрын
I was adopted I love my mom so much I just get very embarrassed because she is white and I'm Hispanic we have no dad and I have adopted sister I love her so much. But I feel bad for always yelling at my mom I can't control it.
@iv_oreos
3 жыл бұрын
Always remember guys. Relations are to be made by heart. If you accept someone from your heart it would not matter if you are adopted or the biological child of the person.
@dexie3849
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Snakefinger1000
Жыл бұрын
It's that easy is it?
@MustyUnderboob
Жыл бұрын
@@Snakefinger1000 Thank you! 😂
@sarahg3396
6 ай бұрын
Guessing you aren't adopted
@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800
4 ай бұрын
You are telling people how they should feel. This is rude. This is a major problem with being adopted. People will lecture you about how lucky you are, you should be grateful. Your mother was probably a … name whatever negative idea is on their mind. And so on.
@HarypietJulfa
3 жыл бұрын
I get called adopted as a comeback but I don't feel offended its calm so don't worry about shit people say its calm
@snowyuan1650
6 жыл бұрын
I get the same questions as Caleb and I'm adopted I am even bullied for being adopted its hard talking about my history because I can't be like everyone else and fit in so its hard to go through being adopted
@laylenhope9327
6 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel. I have the same problems. I am left out a lot because people think I'm weird for being adopted and I get mean comments about it and I never talk about my past because of that. I just hope some day it will go away because it is hard to watch all these kids having big groups of friends and there's me with out anyone to be friends with. The only time that I ever get a friend is if they are adopted to and that has happened twice. Both times they moved to far away to see each other. And the only biological sibling I have that I can see once in a while is my 11 year old brother( I am 13) and he still lives very far away with his adoptive family and I hardly ever get to see him. The last time he came over was when I was 10. But when we do see each other we are always happy to be seeing someone with the same blood as us. I get asked a lot what it is like to be adopted and I just tell them that it feels normal like you are like everyone else but I know that is not true.
@snowyuan1650
6 жыл бұрын
I so understand I'm turning 13 and I have to pretend I'm somebody else for people to even like me so I became popular for being somebody I'm not and everyone talks about there parents it just discourages me and its hard because we're both different from others
@cool_kid103
2 жыл бұрын
It was never a big deal for me untill this year when I found out my biological dad died. It really struck me that one of the people that gave me life is now dead.
@m00thegamer
4 жыл бұрын
It's a whole lot of stress
@ruthruthy421
3 жыл бұрын
Yes it is for life
@ruthruthy421
3 жыл бұрын
Hard to date
@DeadOrcherd
3 жыл бұрын
Being adopted for me is the best/worst thing
@TommyCiios
2 жыл бұрын
I’m here cause I was adopted and didn’t know bout my parents till after high school 💔
@sophiarivera7973
4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking about getting adopted because my family just always play
@MrRobmac1984
4 ай бұрын
I came from an orphan from the Virgin island I was n foster then I got adopted It’s been very hard
@onceyoujiminyoucantjimout483
5 жыл бұрын
im adopted and super super jealous on my cousins and all and i dont go in our reunion because i dont belong to them my mom says that im adopted when im 7 years old and its so hard for me growing up knowing that your parents blood is not flowing inside you im depress
@jaiverse_9190
4 жыл бұрын
Family doesn't requires blood it requires love Actually I'm adopted too,i haven't seen my real parents yet, if i would meet my real parents i dont know what to do 😫
@subyashin
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, it is not correct. Children are children, biological or adopted doesn't matter.
@vickyandersen8660
3 жыл бұрын
Blood or not, parents still love you. My husband isn’t the biological father of my 2 oldest but he still loves them the same. He even defends them from his sister that doesn’t like our 2 oldest.
@malayaspurpose7499
6 жыл бұрын
I don’t even know my dad , but I know and have a relationship with my Heavenly Father and that’s all that matters too me 🙌🏽🙏🏽
@impeachjoebiden2215
3 жыл бұрын
I was adopted it’s hard especially when kids tell you haha you don’t have a mom or dad your parents didn’t want you it hurt s
@dimebagdio4204
5 жыл бұрын
For me, I have so many opportunities now since I was adopted and I have a better life than I could have in Guatemala but It hurts worse than anything else not knowing who you parents were or why they gave you up. All I know is that my dad left before I was born and my mom threw me out at 3 days old. It's caused self esteem issues and it's contributed to one of the worst choices ive made in my life. I've grown up not feeling like my adoptive parents are real parent figures, its more like they're aunts or uncles that took me in but I've never had a parent figure.
@thallwin5130
4 жыл бұрын
I am lucky that nobody adopted me I am still now in orphanage with the owner of that orphanage 🙂
@subyashin
3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you all happiness. I hope adoption process becomes simple.Proccess is bit complicated, hope I well learn the adoption process soon.
@taliacoletta8776
5 жыл бұрын
Omg I am adopted too I am trying to be happy it can be hard to be happy really I love that I get adopted bye my parents how love me I should be happy I really want to be happy it is not easy to except it so far I am trying to except best I can to be happy I will make another video of how to be happy they are adopted and stuff
@ddaniyamir2898
Жыл бұрын
It’s really hurting me so much after knowing that i am adopted but I am not sharing my emotions with anyone I am killing myself from inside bcz I am hiding everything I love me family so much but sometimes they hurt me So much it’s hard to explain I need my fathers love the most but he is always busy in his doings 😭
@Pactadopt
Жыл бұрын
Hi d daniya Mir, if you're looking to talk with other adoptees, Pact offers an adoptee support group for BIPOC adoptees. You can email us here: adoptees@pactadopt.org. If you are a white adoptee, you can check out adopteesconnect.com/ Be gentle with yourself. Adoption is a complicated, life long journey and there are many of us out here connecting through support groups.
@blickiminjaj9162
3 жыл бұрын
I was adopted at birth. My parents now r horrible. Good luck all y’all
@blickiminjaj9162
3 жыл бұрын
My birth mom kept my bro she had a year after me. :/
@gowherqayoommir6977
2 жыл бұрын
My life is being with worst by it, not because of my parents they love me a lot, but society understands me very down and sometimes I felt bad destiny in it ! I am depressed having suicidal tendencies plz help me out I need love my frnds cheated me a lot
@ahmadaligaming4903
Жыл бұрын
Same condition
@helloxeniaaa
6 жыл бұрын
I felt that so much 😔
@dontmindme.imjustafraidofe9327
5 жыл бұрын
Why do they say am adopted like it’s some personality trait or adjective that describes you? It’s a verb.
@nabeelahmedchaudhry
6 жыл бұрын
Im adopted and my mum is a heart braker
@nailmechanic3559
2 жыл бұрын
I'm here because I wanna adopt I have no kids
@oliviaerin9333
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been adopted from birth, my mom cut off all contact when I was 4 I just got back in contact with her - she blocked me
@7lool125
4 жыл бұрын
ohh :(
@geckowithamustache3146
3 жыл бұрын
thats really sad... im so sorry to hear that... my parents died from a car accident when i was 11
@cherrymetha3185
3 жыл бұрын
There’s a family on You Tube . They are all white Americans . They have 3 young boys then adopted a 7 year old girl from India . She was the only girl in the family . Then the mother had a baby girl . The 3 boys cried when they held their baby sister . The adopted 7 year old girl didn’t . She’s loving and sweet towards the baby but the boys had a bond with their baby sister that the adopted girl didn’t have . I also find that the mother is not that close with her adoptive daughter as she with her sons and biological Daughter . But the father is very close to his adoptive daughter and cherishes her . Y I wonder what will happen as all the kids get older . The little Indian girl is the only child that isn’t biologically related to her parents and siblings . I wonder when she hits her teens if she’ll feel left out .
@jcryptogoldsilv2826
Жыл бұрын
I was adopted. The women of my adoptive family treat me same way. The men treat me just the way you describe. Very interesting.
@architecclp2647
5 жыл бұрын
I honestly don't care about how I looked like as a baby (I was adopted when I was 1)
@sophiarivera7973
4 жыл бұрын
I mean fight
@mihirrao9537
3 жыл бұрын
okay i have a really heavy question... my indian friend is adopted by their indian parents... good upbringing. luxurious lifestyle barely .5 % of the indians could afford. studied very well, stable career (but not to sustain the lifestyle she is used to growing up with). now their parents are old mother is old and unable to do the housewife related jobs..my friend has to now be the "housewife" of the house and take care of her ailing parents... her work doesnt allow that time and energy for her to give to her parents although she tries. AND the lifestyle she and her parents are used to, cannot be supported by her she either can stay home and take care of her parents and not provide for the lavish lifestyle (also unlearn and totally rethink of a new career)... or work super hard and not be there for her parents....her parents are kinda unreasonable since they pretty much said that they did so much, gave her so much, and now its her turn to return the favour(this happened during a fight i tried to subdue)... they are progressive but not progressive enough in the field of getting profession consultation... I want to help since i have been around this family for three decades.
@neelanjanachatterjee4857
3 жыл бұрын
I am not adopted but an only child. I was also a single parent by the time my parents needed help. I arranged for caregivers to be at home during my absence while I was at work. Filial responsibility does not increase if you are adopted. Be expressive about the concern , take care of them to the best of one's ability but not at the cost of one's own life. And most importantly one should try not to be bullied to agree to anything by the extented family well wishers . Best of luck to your friend.
@Virgo-zx3ez
4 жыл бұрын
That last girl was the most believable! The rest were reading from their internal scripts that they’ve been taught to recite. “I’m so lucky..”
@TsarOfRuss
2 жыл бұрын
America needs to fix itself first !!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Snakefinger1000
Жыл бұрын
Lousy
@alicesanderson1459
Жыл бұрын
2:09 That's 11 year old Rue
@adrianmartinherrera4213
Ай бұрын
Fake fake fake I’m adopted at 6 so sorry you don’t know what’s it’s feels to be abandoned I am still waiting to my mother to come back Think about that
@Ana.K.Rodriguez
Жыл бұрын
I can’t have kids of my own and i wanted to adopt but my husband says adopted kids are ungrateful and dramatic and unhappy so after seeing this i actually agree with him now 😢😮
@jenebamartens4627
Жыл бұрын
Then maybe you dont deserve them anyway😂
@MustyUnderboob
Жыл бұрын
Get a hobby.
@jcryptogoldsilv2826
Жыл бұрын
Please don't damage innocent children. You are a POS so is your husband
@Ana.K.Rodriguez
Жыл бұрын
@@jcryptogoldsilv2826 that may be true but how is adopting harming them
@jcryptogoldsilv2826
Жыл бұрын
@@Ana.K.Rodriguez good people with empathy should be adopting children. Unfortunately I don't think you two should adopt with your mentality.
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