I also realised once you let a man know you don't work and you have problems they run away or just use you.But once you let them know you have your life together they treat you differently,some find you extremely interesting and some become insecure and intimidated by you.
@joymboya3867
2 жыл бұрын
Lol. My ex husband had serious problems with me working. He finally told me to choose between the marriage and and my job. I beat mazematiks ile shida nilipata in search of education ndio nikuwe na my own money...I said NO!
@jomurugi3385
2 жыл бұрын
😆😆u beat wot?? I like that
@mercymwangi9395
2 жыл бұрын
that one was a narcissist
@glodieglodie919
2 жыл бұрын
Am proud of you.. after YEARS SPENT IN UNI EXACTLY we can't deny our parents sacrifice for a man
@pierrawanjiru3216
2 жыл бұрын
She can challenge the Man(Has her own skills,has depth while engaged in conversations) -She Knows how to handle issues Logistically -She has high people skill standards -She Knows the pinch of earning -She can get her personal things(small monies for her and her people) -She Has a disposable capital(she can request in times of emergencies)
@ayotadhiambo
2 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed to watch... Thank you Benjamin. When you are busy in the area of your gifts and purpose, you become a person of depth and you connect better with your spouse.
@Bee-wd4mh
2 жыл бұрын
This show cracks me up so much! I literally died when Bramuel said “water”😂😂😂😂. Water sir, that’s what we enjoy, water and sunshine.
@rispergeke4181
2 жыл бұрын
Woow...as a woman am inspired to work harder.Thank you Benjamin.
@Jojo.kazumi
2 жыл бұрын
The accuracy 💯💯💯💯💯 Ladies! Your own money, no matter how little... That's your security!
@saudah1783
2 жыл бұрын
Benjamin telling men that they should look for ladies who are working, tell them also not to look at our money and borrowing 😑😑they don't want to pay back
@tsitsichipenzi1381
2 жыл бұрын
*Side note* Bramwel is glowing BZ is such a good mentor
@faimaally7329
2 жыл бұрын
Marry a woman who knows the pinch of earning
@eunicechebosaieunice
2 жыл бұрын
Girls, ladies, single mothers come let's gather our answers ♥ are here..
@janewanjiku7585
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, either a job or a profitable business.
@essiemofficial1002
2 жыл бұрын
My job my first husband
@irenesalvatory5272
2 жыл бұрын
Wealth of wisdom here❤️❤️❤️
@Mkisii612
2 жыл бұрын
Waaoh the whole reason why a woman can’t just be the table but bring at least,SOMETHING to that table 💪👏👏👏WOMAN,Develop yourself before you demand that TALL,DARK,HANDSOME and FINANCIALLY STABLE man,right?
@kagoyaasinati578
2 жыл бұрын
Let me first laugh before I watch the Zulu show"it's what are men looking for in a woman for me 😂😂😂😂"🙌🙌🙌🙌。
@jeannekaze560
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sir Zulu it’s also women following men because of money,searching job and building your future is better than what they have.
@Nancytitu603
2 жыл бұрын
You guys you inspire me always big up 💖👏👏👏
@Americanlady_4665
2 жыл бұрын
Aii....just raised my shoulders high..thank you!
@estherwendot6712
2 жыл бұрын
Powerful presentation.i love it.kudos!
@christinemuritu9347
2 жыл бұрын
👍looking forward to hosting your best half here 😊
@inalumieresonia9677
2 жыл бұрын
The laugh is so contagious
@patiencemagoola101
2 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@hellen5940
2 жыл бұрын
Just needed to here this...sure ladies should be independent...you look attractive when you are independent...
@annnjoki4734
2 жыл бұрын
God help us to cultivate the wisdom of your Man into our lives
@christinemuritu9347
2 жыл бұрын
Great presentation and true...keep it up👍
@christinemuritu9347
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best presentations... looking forward to more
@MdawidaMdawida
2 жыл бұрын
Am inspired indeed by the wisdom.. Great job there
@blessedmum7317
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin
@judykemboi1580
2 жыл бұрын
Work is important that's the key thnks sir for your show
@wendymkhwanazi9862
2 жыл бұрын
Great session 👌👌👌
@fredrickkoech8396
2 жыл бұрын
best teaching
@fatmanasir6691
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm in that single mothers group that throw stones,LOOOL, but I'm working class,phew!! Benjamin is right, men also look for high value women to lean on. No wahala,so long as they also pour&invest in me¬ just a leech. I know the pinch of earning, and as much as I love a man to lavish on me, I feel bad to just misuse someone's money. Preach, a woman needs to have her own money, you are not at the mercy of the man, gives you dignity
@liliankimani9524
2 жыл бұрын
Good discussion
@vainesmwacharo6484
2 жыл бұрын
Wow B.Z great mind, nothing but the truth
@bridgetteirene8228
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Am 22 yrs old have got the best advice ever before marriage
@Aaliyah.SK.1993.
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the show for real.its challenges
@arriwintress3087
2 жыл бұрын
For a broke man ... a man that got money don’t care about your job .. it doesn’t impress him
@missachieng.179
Жыл бұрын
You’re clearly missing the point !
@mundialishebo2981
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is really great.
@peninahmwende368
2 жыл бұрын
Pure truth 🙏🙏
@kagoyaasinati578
2 жыл бұрын
Performing chores can't change the world ✍✍✍✍👂👂👂👏👏👏👏。
@milnerkaisa642
2 жыл бұрын
Well said .
@agnesndumia1713
2 жыл бұрын
21st century advice, I treasure this, sio calling bae ' nitumie pesa ya kiberiti'.
@kimulirebeccapriscilla1149
2 жыл бұрын
Wow wow perfect time for me to come across this show thanks Benjamin🙏
@IjeomaJudithIheanacho
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I liked even before watching
@godsfavour5665
2 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this👍💞💞
@carolinemutegi1056
2 жыл бұрын
It's the laughter me.. Hahaaaa.
@mtotowababatajiri
2 жыл бұрын
"They have cat skills"....nimecheka karibu nianguke. Yawa Benjamin
@nyasuba_jaber_dolly
2 жыл бұрын
Logical is the word 😊
@eunicefreetime1280
2 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening! Setting us women straight.
@rosemushelle82
2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video
@darlenesworld9909
2 жыл бұрын
Word💯
@anthonymirriam2128
2 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin Zulu What if you have business together and you are operating that business together and you'r not paid by your dominating husband . ??
@ckb7878
2 жыл бұрын
As long you are acquiring property together, bills are gathered what else do you want ? Ama pocket money
@yolz555
Жыл бұрын
Have a conversation with him . You should also ensure your name is on every important documentation. As you are legally a partner on that business and contributed
@yolz555
Жыл бұрын
Have a conversation with him . You should also ensure your name is on every important documentation. As you are legally a partner on that business and contributed
@bridgettehondo2899
2 жыл бұрын
#You can't change at world staying at home. Obama could have never been president with a housewife. Proverbs 31 woman has learnt people stills. Amen
@primmycooks884
2 жыл бұрын
I currently dont work because i live in a foreign country with my husband. And i cant work here because im on a spouse permit . Now im feeling worthless
@clotildah2821
2 жыл бұрын
The most important thing is doing what you both agree on and not putting pressure on yourself, im sure u take great care of your husband now thats a very important job in itself.
@emilywanjiku9139
2 жыл бұрын
You can try online Or craft .....
@wanjirukarago9308
2 жыл бұрын
Then am about to get unattractive 😂😂😂 cz am quitting and becoming jobless but guess what,even with my joblessness i still won't no shit from any man.
@UrSoLovedByGod
2 жыл бұрын
Money is a protection. There's a verse to that effect. Been where you're headed, done that. I know you'll probably not listen, but let me hope against hope, that you will rethink it.
@annsitymakena2382
2 жыл бұрын
I need a job again
@florahnemaorani3492
9 ай бұрын
What about a business...
@janekanyiha5480
2 жыл бұрын
Mmmmh I tend to disagree.....I have a job and men see me as a threat 😂😂...They fear challenges or I'm I meeting the wrong bale???
@ckb7878
2 жыл бұрын
It's only you are in the wrong place, go where your standards are
@stephenmaithyatalkske
Жыл бұрын
Low-value/Low-quality men are intimidated by independent women. Take note of this.
@janekanyiha5480
Жыл бұрын
@@stephenmaithyatalkske wowwww...I really needed to hear this
@pierakarwitha9345
2 жыл бұрын
Poverty wewe ... Will fight you for better generation
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