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@njjj3338
2 жыл бұрын
Went through the same scenario but mine has been ups and downs ever since. I'm not sure if you truly recover but learn to live with the betrayal. Also, finding a replacement is a bad idea and you are just diverting the attention and there is a good chance it will happen again.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
"Finding a replacement"? I don't think I've ever EVER said that. I say date, have fun, live, experiment but replace? Nope.
@hellodia8038
Жыл бұрын
I hear lots of men say it’s her decision but they neglect their wives emotional needs and don’t contribute any of the household responsibilities. What do they really expect . Its 2022 women aren’t personal slaves or doormats .
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
And yet you still have the upper hand in divorce. You should watch my domestic violence video. From the sounds of it, you'll laugh. Thanks for you comment.
@chadbrown4136
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks to Rene Sance's videos, my mourning period was short and I could use these videos to help myself climb onto higher ground. I really felt he put into words a lot of what I already knew. I already have a decent network that helped me through, or I definitely would have hired him. Turns out I didn't even need a coach, but his videos were enough. My mourning period lasted a few months. I'm not exactly sure how fast as I had highs and lows, but this program works! I highly recommend you get help through this.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
I just read this so my apologies for not responding sooner. Thank you for your endorcement. Hugs my friend and glad you found a support system.
@rickboiardimindshiftingaca6975
2 жыл бұрын
Ton of truth in this video! The panic, shock, etc.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Rick, I hear and see it all the time when working with men. It's horrible. "Dread" is probably the work I can associate the most during this perior
@jamiewarne9066
2 жыл бұрын
2 months in, after her telling me it's over after 20 years and 3 young daughters. So far you are spot on. The only bit you missed is the added pain of finding out she's been cheating for 9 months and already in love with another married man.
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Jaime, I brought that up on many of my other videos. For me it was 2 years. It actually made me feel much fucking better.
@jamiewarne9066
Жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach I have watched many of your videos now. Your positivity is a boon to me. Thank you. I am still stuck in denial, and wallowing in self pity, hating that she is happy simply waiting to get her hands on the money. I fear I will never be happy, not being able to get her out of my head. She tried me out before she left. I saw her all dressed up in leather with a butt plug, after years of nothing. Now I know what the boyfriend is getting.
@malaysuon
11 ай бұрын
I’m going through now, it hurts
@mattlofty5884
Жыл бұрын
I made a huge mistake by isolating myself . Feeling sorry for myself . Developed some weird social anxiety that I never had before . Boys DO NOT ISOLATE. That’s not to say you don’t need some time alone to process , but don’t over do it
@5678plm
Жыл бұрын
same
@tomboyle7901
2 жыл бұрын
Rene thank you. You said everything I am going through.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Pleasure is mine. How is the FB Group going? Is it helping? Lemme know what I can do buddy. We're a team here.
@user-qf5mr7nl8d
2 жыл бұрын
Every word is straight to precisely what happened to me. Shit. Cannot be any more precise. As if it was my story.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brother. There was a lot of research done here. Glad you agreed.
@mgu1N1n1
Жыл бұрын
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
Spike. Thank you very much for this comment. I couldn't agree with you more and good for you. I hope you get the opportunity to watch the video I'm attaching. It's one of my favorites but because of its sensitive nature YT has put a restriction on it. kzitem.info/news/bejne/wKyHxYKBgWKThoo
@toniwilliams9203
Жыл бұрын
True video, thank you for this video
@michaelwilliams5006
Жыл бұрын
What you're saying is exactly what happened to me 17 years to kids hit me from the blind spot I am having the hardest time getting through this it's set off my PTSD
@Mensdivorcecoach
Жыл бұрын
The other day I got a message from the very first guy I interviewed as I researched the subject of divorcing men. His story was worse than mine. I mean, I got screwed so having someone telling me how bad they got screwed put it all in perspective. He begged for her back and got her back. That was about three or four years ago. I couldn't believe this guy would return to him. She cheated on him multiple times, had a baby with him and lied saying it was her lover's thereby denying him his right as a father, the works. It was bad. His recent message to me was that she did it again. That she got breast implants (17% do 6 months before leaving you) and left him with the bill. His words were "I never saw it coming". I couldn't believe he said that to me. I don't fuck around as a coach and told him there's some self awareness issues here. NOT saying that's your case but often, if others could see it, we should be able to see it also. Who knows, maybe it's cognitive dissonance. Join our FB Group. Guys who join our group from YT have a tremendous success rate in their recovery.
@albertvanderford1351
2 жыл бұрын
My husband abandoned me and hurts bad
@5678plm
Жыл бұрын
stay strong
@cryptoroseaz
11 ай бұрын
I was never the head of state. That's part of the problem.
@kleindavis550
Жыл бұрын
bingo! going through it now!
@eddie_pesosdvggaming8885
2 жыл бұрын
Rene I'll be calling soon brother
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Have you joined our FB group? Seriously, it helps.
@eddie_pesosdvggaming8885
2 жыл бұрын
@@Mensdivorcecoach yes sir! I was accepted this morning.
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Great. In that case, I know exactly who you are. Check your DM.
@pastrami00
10 ай бұрын
If I join the Facebook group, will it show up on my Facebook timeline? I don't want everyone to know...
@Mensdivorcecoach
10 ай бұрын
Good question. First I can tell you're in the paranoid phase and believe me so was I. The answer is NO. No one would know It's a private group so only group members would see you. Second. when requesting to join, make sure that you put that answered all the questions and say that you asked this particular question, that way I know who you are and accept you right away. There's a waiting list but guys from the channel are put first so you jump across everyone else. Now do that and make a one on one. You need them.
@user-li5xz7uk1q
2 жыл бұрын
I like hearing/seeing stories of women cheating on their husbands, or women filing for divorce after so many years, the husbands are so usually so devastated and distraught. Lmfao!! 😂
@Mensdivorcecoach
2 жыл бұрын
Someone really must have hurt you. Truly, you either have a lot of growth to do or you're a sociopath. Either way, please refrain from commenting anything like this on my channel or I will have no choice but to block you from watching any of my videos.
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