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@MrBeastboybrown
2 жыл бұрын
While I suck in talking to women in general. My main issue is you always show 1 on 1 Conversations. I can handle that. The issue is when theres 2+ women and I need to try to talk too 1 but dont have a Wingman to helpout. When I use to have my Bro. We exchanged who "Jumped on the Grenade" But now a days. I really have issues with talking to women in groups. Which theyre always in groups. When they walk to the restroom 3 of them. When they walk into stores 3 of them. Hell many times there is a guy there too. And idk which one hes dating either. And I suck at handling things like this.
@MrBeastboybrown
2 жыл бұрын
I think everyone and I mean everyone has run into issues of 2-3 Women being friends. Youre trying to hit on 1. What do you do? I have no Wingman. But women keep in groups.
@d1mcho
2 жыл бұрын
I already use the L-configuration and that helps me a lot .
@DiaeAr369
2 жыл бұрын
In essence, be congruent with your behavior.
@princealmighty5391
2 жыл бұрын
You live in Australia
@roilion8150
2 жыл бұрын
Just be true to yourself, no every woman will like you back. Plus, fate plays a huge role. Believe it!
@RedRumble14
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t take asviceee from fish how to catch fish ask gosherman
@mdabdullah2024
2 жыл бұрын
So basically be a gentleman and talk to her as if you were having a chill conversation with your friend. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us
@zachandmelvie8820
2 жыл бұрын
Great content! Interesting Fact. Thanks for sharing this.
@MartinZanichelli
2 жыл бұрын
8:32 A kiss already on the first date? I have no hurry. I am interested in the girl, not desperate. I am not going to push her so hard. A kiss on the cheek and that´s it for the first date,
@DezRosswess
2 жыл бұрын
All good lady! valid point about being "nice" most women can filter if you're good without having to put that on.
@Theattractiveman
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Thats the biggesst problem with "Nice" guys and they don't seem to understand that.
@jbilotta
Жыл бұрын
I have a laundry list on how a guy screwed up the first date, but I was completely unattracted to him. He literally smelled like mothballs,no lie. He looked older than me, and I was older than him.
@poojamajumdar8986
2 жыл бұрын
Nice update. Find very interesting.
@jonydeep6635
2 жыл бұрын
Brother, I have a problem. When I see a beautiful girl with a sexy body and I like her. Whether I intend to enter into a relationship with her or not, she is around and I act strangely and nervous with her, as if her beauty and sexy body affect me,and I don't like that. What is the solution, for example: should I flirt with her beauty and sexy body in order to relax. If you have a solution, please tell me, and thank you
@jonydeep6635
2 жыл бұрын
Brother, I have a problem. When I see a beautiful girl with a sexy body and I like her. Whether I intend to enter into a relationship with her or not, she is around and I act strangely and nervous with her, as if her beauty and sexy body affect me. What is the solution, for example: should I flirt with her beauty and sexy body in order to relax. If you have a solution, please tell me, and thank you
@keithdick
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know how it appears to others, but the reflection of your ring light in your eyes is very unattractive -- makes you look like not a human. Maybe you should use something that diffuses the light from the ring light, or a whole different approach to lighting.
@karrenjasmine8529
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting Fact!!!! I am really impressed with this research information!!!! Thank you for sharing valuable information!
@SpiritualSpecialForces
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't do any of those things. Did all of the things you said to do. Thought the date went REALLY well. Still got ghosted and disinterested.
@Theattractiveman
10 ай бұрын
We can help with that. Give us a call
@josephpolicastro3149
2 жыл бұрын
Does it really have to be this difficult!?!
@d1mcho
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't know about L-configuration .
@happyfreeky
2 жыл бұрын
"We don't like a nice guy." Great. Imma gonna get in my time machine here and go back to my 20s and 30s and change my whole approach. But seriously, if you're going to make comments like that, please -- for the sake of all the single "nice guys" (not me), explain in detail what the difference is. I grew up in an era where we were told to be a nice guy, with no distinction between "nice" and "kind" - and thus no facade despite your claims). Maybe things are different now, but it sounds like semantic wordplay to me. What if you're actually a kind guy but some women with bad experiences perceive you as your so-called "nice" guy?
@MartinZanichelli
2 жыл бұрын
So all the video is about mistakes that men can make? No mistakes from women? Why cant women take any initiative? Aren´t they equal now with feminism?
@reeshalkumar7758
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. If we don't expect women to be perfect, they should also not expect us to be perfect.
@kaushalkumarshelat3912
2 жыл бұрын
Please fix the eye glare, its creepy
@princealmighty5391
2 жыл бұрын
I tried this I got a slap to the face
@paulwestwood4417
2 жыл бұрын
Great content, I’ve taken away a lot from this, but may I give something back. Your video sound and lighting could do with a little improvement. I can hear there is too much reverb in the sound. Your voice is bouncing off the walls. You need something to dampen the sound, maybe curtains on rails ether side of you. I can see from the reflection of light in your eyes you are using a ring light, my I suggest two diffused lights each side of the camera. I notice at times there is something called S when you speak. Editing software can eliminate this. I don’t know what microphone your using, but a shot go microphone will focus directly on you rather than the whole room. It could be mounted on a microphone boom above your head out of shot. I hope you find these suggestions helpful.
@Theattractiveman
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the feedback. We're planning to record using a new setup so hopefully these issues will get resolved in the next video!
@shreyasn4721
2 жыл бұрын
My God your so beautiful.
@frankboone8380
2 жыл бұрын
Are women on the day too or is it just the man on the date shouldn't she be done things to
@greenwik
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah right, it's not just the man who needs to engage, it's the women's initiative on a date as well.
@Jortiz59
2 жыл бұрын
who are you???
@kc270352
2 жыл бұрын
damm girl, who the hell gave you those eyes
@Leif5592
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like good advise I guess, but where do you get the 99% from? Is there an actual scientific study?
@DavidZMH
2 жыл бұрын
What if you are leading but then she tries to lead you because she is used to being in control? Do I let her?
@Theattractiveman
2 жыл бұрын
Good question. Let her, ONLY if YOU want to. But don't fall into the comfort of waiting for her to lead ALL the time. Remember, dating is about finding compatibility, not "control"
@zero1188
2 жыл бұрын
usually thats a test
@g2292
2 жыл бұрын
So basically be a gentleman and talk to her like if you were having a chill conversation with your friend.
@mattt611
2 жыл бұрын
I hate this "be leading" bullshit. Why do we have to do all the work? Idk, maybe I'm different in this regard but I'm much more attracted and interested in woman who have an opinion on where she wants to go.
@Theattractiveman
2 жыл бұрын
You can always go with that mentality. But I'm seeing that you're not too sure yet - have you tried your methods out and got results?
@arthurAzx
2 жыл бұрын
I cannot understand how a guy can score with a girl ordering Hawaiian pizza
@barrycrump6189
2 жыл бұрын
I have a commitment issue, so I don't do second dates.
@alirezaRahmanikhalili
2 жыл бұрын
matt artisan is the God of dating!
@Lordran__
2 жыл бұрын
A few months ago, I went out of my comfort zone to speak to a girl at the gym. Things started off tremendously well. Her face lit up & we couldn’t stop smiling & looking into each other’s eyes. Not only was her smile incredible but she was very nice. I was hooked. The spark of attraction felt GREAT. I got her number & we did a little bit of grocery shopping afterwards. I walked her home a block away. She trusted me already! We gave each other a hug & she told me to text her when I got home. Wonderful! The next day, we texted for a bit. During this conversation, she told me her mom passed away in the Summer. She also enthusiastically set everything up for us to hang out for the next day. It was clear as day she was very interested. So we spent time together as scheduled. We met up at a Starbucks. She was running late & really wanted me to wait inside because she didn’t want me to be cold. Eventually she arrived & was sweet enough to hold the door open for me & insisted on paying for the drink I ordered. Wow! Things were going well but then they got strange about half hour later…At one point, I decided to put my arm around her as we were walking. She essentially recoiled & asked if we could be friends. I was confused to say the least. She went on to tell me a bunch of things, most of which I don’t remember because I was so out of it. But I do remember her telling me how her dad died when she was younger. She told me about hitting rock bottom as well. Case & point, she opened up to me & I feel bad & have been beating myself up over forgetting most of what she said. About an hour later, I walked her home & we gave each other a hug. She gazed into my eyes as I walked away. The next day, she texted me this: “Hey Luis I think you are a really cool person. But I’m really scared I’m gonna fall for you and I just can’t handle a close relationship right now. Please know it’s not about anything about you or something like that. You didn’t do or say anything wrong. You are pretty perfect. I just am really fragile and I need to take care of myself and I am afraid to get close to anyone. I’m going to distance myself. Please try to understand where I am coming from and don’t take it personally 💕” In another text, she said: “Hey Luis I felt like you were perfect on the day we went out. You didn’t do or say anything wrong or anything I didn’t like. You were great. I’m distancing myself not cause of you, but because I am not in a good place right now in my life. And I know that this is not the right season for me to be dating anyone. I can’t gamble with how I am doing emotionally, if I date someone and it falls apart that could be really dangerous for me mentally and emotionally since I am already struggling and going through a lot. That’s where I am coming from. It’s not about how I felt about you. I hope you believe me because it’s true.” Now about a month later, I asked her if she’d be willing to meet up or at the very least talk over the phone to discuss a few things & that I’d respect her decision either way. To that, she said this: “Hey Luis I am only replying late cause I’ve been thinking about what you said. I’m messed up and I wanna keep my distance. There’s nothing wrong with you and this is not about you I promise 💗 I didn’t want to just say nothing at all and make you feel weird for no reason.” This was her final text to me. Over a month later, we happened to be crossing the same street at the same time. I said hi to her & she ignored me. It felt very cold & weird. I had to know why, so I texted her to find out but I never got a response. I still can’t believe she ignored me considering how sweet & wonderful she was to me! In any case, it turns out she has a lot of issues, including a fearful avoidant attachment style/fear of intimacy.
@vecter
2 жыл бұрын
It's because you acted feminine. You weren't masculine and emotionally strong. I'm sorry it happened to you and it's a painful lesson, but hopefully you'll use it as motivation to learn how to be masculine. It's taken many years for me to learn this, but it's greatly improved my dating life.
@Lordran__
2 жыл бұрын
@@vecter I don’t think that’s what it was. The “experts” like to say to casually touch girl’s on a date. I listened to them by placing my arm around her & it backfired even though she was so into me prior to that. This was shortly after we met up that night. But as I pretty much said, she’s defective. Doesn’t make it hurt any less tho
@vecter
2 жыл бұрын
@@Lordran__ Blaming her is wrong. Women just respond to their emotions. She didn't do anything wrong by recoiling from your touch. If anything, it just means that you were uncalibrated and didn't do the proper physical escalation steps. I never just wholesale put my arms around a girl without first doing a bunch of smaller physical touches. Usually a gentle tap on her shoulder and upper arm. A few of those will build comfort with her and you can gauge her reactions. If she doesn't react at all, then she's receptive to your touch and you can do more touches like your hand on the small of her back, etc. However, just jumping right into placing your entire arm around her is too big of a move. You have to look in the mirror and realize that the mistake lies in your actions. She is not defective. She is a natural woman following her evolutionarily programmed instincts. It is you who failed to understand her emotional state and escalated too quickly. I don't say this to be mean to you or try to put you down. I'm just being very honest with you because I think you need someone to tell you the honest truth. The good news is that once you realize this, you can adjust your actions going forward and escalate in a smoother more natural manner (many small baby steps instead of one big move).
@Lordran__
2 жыл бұрын
@@vecter Fair enough. I say she’s defective because as I said in the post, it turns out she has a fearful avoidant attachment style. Those kinds of people crave love & affection but at the same time have a strong fear of it, which leads them to push people away, physically & emotionally. So it’s either this or she simply lost interest for whatever reason & didn’t want to hurt my feelings, hence the paragraph texts. They come across as genuine & to me would be too elaborate of a lie.
@stevansmith9582
2 жыл бұрын
I bet she found another guy ether more attractive then you or another guy that has more money and can provide her with a better life style she wants. Cause it clear enough that you didn't mess up on your interactions on those dates bc she would just ghost you so I don't think that's it but I definitely do for a couple of those reasons I mentioned. This has happened to me.
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