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@wd2001
Жыл бұрын
For the first time in many years I am watching five strong, amazing, smart and insightful women talking and sharing their view on these great questions. My grandmother was like this. I miss her very much. I am so grateful that I got to experience a person like her.
@jefflay8515
Жыл бұрын
10k is enough? Mary is my hero! Shay is correct. Being “just a housewife” is not the proper terminology. My mother was a housewife. Her day started at 4am and ended when everyone went to bed. I’m so grateful for growing up with my mother being a housewife/house manager.
@steveperyer4850
Жыл бұрын
A wonderful group of Beautiful Ladies, with lots of truth to what you are looking for. Exactly how much is different for each lady😊
@crocodiledundeee
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video, thankyou leah , watching the bond of friendship growing in your group is refreshing. Bless you and the gang for inviting us into your lives ❤
@asjka67
Жыл бұрын
Hello Leah, Congratulations for this video. of course, there are the sincere and informative answers from your guests. But there is something I noticed in this video: The joy these women have. They laugh, the atmosphere is good, they can be serious, but not for too long. It is this joy of living that attracts me to the Philippines. Thank you for sharing this moment with your friends.
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
The people are resilient, if you’ve been there you’ll see most don’t have much but they always find reasons to smile
@asjka67
Жыл бұрын
@Cons2911 yes it's true, i can see that on my every trip in the PH.
@Traveler-po3oe
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm a cynic. What I am hearing is a lot of modern western women's attitudes. I will be very cautious when I am in the Philippines.
@darren5835
Жыл бұрын
No need to worry, they have they're priorities right. Go, you wouldn't regret it!
@FRANCISPOLLARD-r3p
Жыл бұрын
Pesos vs dollars. They are talking pesos.
@adamwelch6217
Жыл бұрын
They're just asking for adequate provision for a family, not Gucci bags and all that crap.
@FRANCISPOLLARD-r3p
Жыл бұрын
Any women in a normal state mind does not want a man who has no job, no cash, or iis a bum.
@FRANCISPOLLARD-r3p
Жыл бұрын
I would take the last one on the right, if l was younger.
@mywayisfun2412
Жыл бұрын
Hi Leah, Great video with some very funny, smart,beautiful,strong women today...Love all you guys! The topic is really important and you had the perfect balance of personality 's to cover these topics. Well done!! There is one comment from Shay that really struck home with me was " JUST A HOUSE WIFE " If a husband had to pay out of pocket for everything that a wife/mom does in the course of a day it's a fortune! Wife, Mom,Nurse,Cook,House Cleaner and of course be the glue that holds everything together with a smile and happiness!! Thank you for the content.
@Road_Rash
Жыл бұрын
I do like how they seem to value the person over anything he could provide for them...& as an American who would love to have a Filipina, if I had one, & she wanted to continue in any career she chose, she could persue whatever makes her feel happy & secure in life...as an American, I believe a person has the basic human right to life, liberty & the persuit of happiness...if she's happy, she'll be willing to make me happy... I like that...that lady in the red dress is a knockout!
@kaioki2390
Жыл бұрын
Ohhh waooo you guys are so funny, specially the one in the middle has a contagious laugh 😂
@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment
Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video.. my LDR Filipina is an amazing housewife I support her and my step kids.. I am very proud of her I don't just support her financially but emotionally aswell and she supports me 💯 emotionally as well as physically 😁 syempre 😁 she is the definition of the LIGHT OF THE HOUSE she just seems to know instinctively what to do in every situation.. we have been together for 5 years she hates to ask for money even if she knows I have money and when I do give her money she is so good at prioritising what the needs of our family are.. you know ever pesso counts and she really makes every pesso count.. she works hard cooking for the kids and keeping the house clean making sure our kids have everything they need and making sure they have a good happy childhood 🥰🥰🥰 I am so lucky to have such an amazing woman in my life I am forever thankful to God for giving me the chance to have the love from such an amazing woman and to feel her soul as part of my own... I now fully understand why people call their partner.. the other half.. or the better half .. Kasi.. we are both just half of a full l.. she is a part of me and I am a part of her and that kind of bond is so strong it can never separate 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
Ha, you have bits and pieces of Tagalog already haha, nice. Those alone will have people’s smiling when you talk to them
@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment
Жыл бұрын
@@Cons2911 syempre alam KO conti Lang tagalog pero minsan Hindi LAHAT maintindihan 😁
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
@@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment haha don’t worry, and making mistakes is part of the fun. And when people laugh, they’re not laughing at you, they’re laughing with you, people actually appreciate it when you learn their language and mistakes are welcome.
@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment
Жыл бұрын
@@Cons2911 oo alam KO Yan 😁
@brianscovern68
Жыл бұрын
It's says it all when the ladies talk about love and respect before money. Wow.
@roymcleod2514
Жыл бұрын
I love the clarity that the ladies brought to the questions. Being a housewife is a very noble and difficult job. And a good man would appreciate that. And most men do not mind their wives going out and working, but the main factor is. You cannot forget about your household when you go out and work. But again the ladys borough great clarity.
@buffalo.blackk
Жыл бұрын
Working a career makes women masculine. And a woman cannot be a great mother and a great employee simultaneously. One will have to give. That’s why the best wives do not work outside the home.
@Pcbdude82
Жыл бұрын
Here's a crazy idea. If she wants to work. Support her. Instead of being a lazy piece of 💩 also, support her by helping out around the house. Me. I appreciate my girlfriend not for what she does. But who she is. If her working makes her happy, I'll gladly cook dinner a couple nights a week. I'll run the vacuum or whatever else needs done.
@lorandmagyar
Жыл бұрын
In nearly every relationship I have had... I did the vast majority of the cooking, cleaning, laundry, running her kids to sports, social stuff. I had the time. They worked hard. I was thrilled to care of her, her house, kiddos, and my homes. I am fat enough ! I need the laundry folding vacuum workout 🙂
@jspice-kl2wc
Жыл бұрын
That was a video with great questions and answers. Thank you. 🙂👍👍👍🙏
@philippinefamilylifewithle2673
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Joe!
@gregsarah430
Жыл бұрын
Money does not buy Happiness , but it makes life easier ! Everyone has a different lifestyle ! Everyone has a different idea of comfort ! Women need space also ! They need to feel they are contributing , so why not a career ! Give and take ! Excellent content ladies ! Hope you all have a great week !
@carmelaelliott227
Жыл бұрын
That's so true, it is important that a man can provide if he wants a traditional wife. Living in the Philippines and not live like the locals, $3,000 is good and comfortable!
@davidbraxton6600
Жыл бұрын
LEAH ❤ THIS VIDEO IS EXCELLENT, GREAT CONTENT!, HILARIOUS AND VERY FUNNY ❤
@TruthFinder7839
Жыл бұрын
It was good to watch and listen and learn from your guests who all gave great answers, and had very good time together. ❤🙏
@markmcvey9347
Жыл бұрын
Bravo!!!! As a country boy in the USA, i am impressed that there are women in this world that are conservative and old school. Most and and I say "most" women in the States are self absorbed, FEMINIST, and unrealistic in their looks and appeal. Great job. BTW love the chickens in the audio background.
@Pcbdude82
Жыл бұрын
And I'd say you're an idiot. Most western women want the same things these women do. But I mean. You're a hick in a town of like 29,000 people. I'm sure you've met most of the women in the US. So I cant argue with you 😂
@lonniewade7804
Жыл бұрын
Great topic Leah, I enjoy filipino women they are so real and open minded.
@MarcBrown
11 ай бұрын
All great girls, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I wish you great happiness in your lives.
@coffeebotography
11 ай бұрын
Expectations vs reality: if you love someone, you’ll find a way. 😊
@loneranger668
11 ай бұрын
Very interesting. The ladies were very interesting and extremely honest.
@brucedavis6244
Жыл бұрын
I like Lady frist talk thank you All for you're houest option
@philippinefamilylifewithle2673
Жыл бұрын
Our pleasure!
@jimbohi3648
Жыл бұрын
The most noble profession is being a loving wife mother housewife
@GaryBuckingham
Жыл бұрын
Another great video my love ❤
@KevinKerrigan-b8u
Жыл бұрын
A real man will love you for who you are, he will never burden you!
@globalnomad450
8 ай бұрын
Refreshing to hear these 5 lovely ladies…way different from western women… good luck ladies 😊
@mrmadborg
Жыл бұрын
According to the Pea expats should not make the Filipina partner stop working . If the relationships fails later and she can prove he stopped her from working or her career in court , then he will be liable for huge costs to her. I think its wise to let the Filipina carry on working as she will need income after the older expats dies anyway. Everyone ends up on a pension no matter how small it is, if you can survive on that with some savings as backup everything else is a bonus and no reason not to date. Wouldn't rely on youtube or any other platform to earn money either, doesn't take much to get shut down or bad PR to destroy your income.
@squashingRumors
Жыл бұрын
how. can the court make a guy pay money to a girlfriend when they dont make fathers pay support for kids
@mrmadborg
Жыл бұрын
@@squashingRumors If she has witnesses and documented proof that a guy stopped her from working during their relationship and now she has no income then a court will jail him. No doubt you can buy her off before it got to court in some cases but its the law there. Watch the filipina pea vlog 3 months ago titled- AVOID THIS MISTAKE WHEN LIVING WITH A FILIPINA - Legal Talk With Attorney Gracey. To save you time its talked about from 22.44
@WaynesWorld12
Жыл бұрын
My favorite ladies ♥️💙🇵🇭
@philippinefamilylifewithle2673
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@WaynesWorld12
Жыл бұрын
@@philippinefamilylifewithle2673Very welcome ❤
@stevethornbrugh1742
11 ай бұрын
I love that laugh from the woman in the middle 🤣🤣
@timothybush9633
Жыл бұрын
Hello Ladies, I'm an American who was coming to the Philippines before my stroke and I was a Musician many years ago then got married then divorced, it was my decision because after 20 years she cheated on me too many times, so as a Musician I didn't save or invest money😔but I'm a disabled Man with a monthly check which now I'm spending on rent, which is $1800 a month here in America and groceries that takes much of that $$$
@mkmobilegaminginthephilippines
Жыл бұрын
The amount of money is not depending on the Filipina but on the westerner and how much comfort they want. But if you can afford a 1200-2000 usd a month apt in the U.S. you can afford anything in the Philippines
@ivankamau2846
Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏 for your time and providing this content. Very good information for me to consider…I will visit there soon! Respect ❤
@ericeengel2446
Жыл бұрын
Hi Leah this fun and serious topic, i like to see the men in a video answering question what they wsnt or expect, filipina think always of food that make me laugh 😂
@AZ_Bill
Жыл бұрын
If a good man loves you, he will support and encourage your passion.
@Leonard369C
Жыл бұрын
I believe the lady in the middle is the most traditional the most honest and would make the best wife, the two on the left appear to have been influenced by western thinking. They seem to think that being a good mother and housewife is something you can do part time after you satisfied your career, they only have to look at western culture to see how well that's going, however if you do choose to be a mother and a housewife over a career you better make darn sure you choose the right partner.
@CHRISTOPHERSMITH-ct4ku
Жыл бұрын
Nice Video , You Are All Sweet & cute , Gladys & Shey are super cuties!
@ronprince1478
Жыл бұрын
Being a good wife, mother and keeping a home is the most important thing a person can do. A good husband will protect and provide for this family, this home with all his might be because the most important thing to him is his wife, kids and the home. The kids look to their parents for everything including their own self respect and education. Mum is the centre of all this, her job is the most important job of all.
@wanderingdevildogadventures
Жыл бұрын
What a wonderful video. Five beautiful, intelligent and well spoken women from the Philippines. It’s videos like this. That makes me want to leave for the Philippines today. I can’t wait to get there.
@gotaplay
Жыл бұрын
Of course Mary is the first to speak in the intro 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wake up Shay
@RedHorsePoker
Жыл бұрын
Oh Sure they always say they don’t care about the money…..UNTIL…. You can’t afford too pay for their Rice addiction!!! 😂
@napoleonmdusa8877
Жыл бұрын
LOL--if a guy can't afford to pay for a woman's "rice addiction"--he's broke!
@albertbowens6289
Жыл бұрын
Hola to you all beautiful young lady i enjoy you all i will be watching for the next video i 💕 you all
@jasonhedley9435
Жыл бұрын
Wow the first and second ladies answered the questions perfectly for me
@charlesc.9572
Жыл бұрын
Excellent discussions.
@fcruz43215
Жыл бұрын
Interesting video ladies!
@erwinzado1515
Жыл бұрын
WoW !!!
@georgefair3244
Жыл бұрын
Gladys is Just like My Filipina Fiancée Lucy. Beautiful on the Inside and the Outside. Take care.
@ericbeckersr4431
Жыл бұрын
With my Filipina wife right now I like her home taking care of our daughter but once I get to the Philippines to live she wants to be a teacher so I'll send her to college so she can teach it will be the love of teaching not for income ❤❤❤❤
@briangreer8463
Жыл бұрын
Instead of housewife, call it a family engineer
@timhnc75
Жыл бұрын
She can call it sacrifice or you can call it compromise... Either way, if you don't know how to compromise, you will never have a successful relationship.
@robertnunn3015
Жыл бұрын
Its wonderful to see these beautiful ladies that care more about the man and the relationship and not about the money and possessions. WOW certainly not like that here in the US. Will be moving there next month and looking forward to being away from the toxic relationships.
@Bobc308
Жыл бұрын
What I hear is MORE about SELF and not what is BEST for the FAMILY. GOD is first then FAMILY not CAREER. What would God like for you to be for your HUSBAND (KING)?
@AnthonyCataldo-b2q
10 ай бұрын
I like the one in the middle. Balance is important...maybe work part-time as homemaker, but still do career things you enjoy. I would be a good husband and still do the career stuff I enjoy. BALANCE! Try to understand, I enjoy helping do dishes and making meals and doing gardening and home improvement projects. I am, of course, retired.
@sgtusa90
Жыл бұрын
I THINK >>> ALL U Girls Are a 6-8+ And Would Be HAPPY to Have a GF Like Ya'll :O)) GREAT VIDEO !!!!!
@Danno_A_Jyd
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies! For the first time since I began watching the pinay vlogs I heard women actually describe what love it. I swear that Filipinas have a 'love' guide book that they read from, but not this time! For once I did not feel like someone was trying to pick my pocket. Being 'rich' enough to hire outside help is a bad idea in my opinion. In what World is bringing other people into a family situation a good idea? Think about it ladies. You KNOW what the uniform we men like to see maids dress up in looks like, right? I'm sure you girls have a few ideas about the dress code for male help too. Tsk, tsk, tsk. Even if Mary wore rags heads to toe she would be a solid 8. Why do you ladies troll for compliments? Consider them offered. The content was great and my thanks to the ladies who played, 'Peek-a-boo pussy cat'. I look forward to watching part 2.
@buynsell365
10 ай бұрын
LOL. This was a great video.
@do7696
Жыл бұрын
Ladies,you're correct:Money is only good for financial reasons.😂😂😂
@Buildsolarhomes
11 ай бұрын
Women (of any culture) are VERY security minded. A good heart don't keep the lights on...... money does........ including EVERYTHING these ladies desire.
@Bigpapatravels
Жыл бұрын
who could a man not fall in love with Mary! my god what a funny and fun woman she must be, oh and by the wan, I'm single and looking oh and Mary $90K lol lol lol it's NNE Brian
@marcprobin1659
4 ай бұрын
If your truly in love, it should not be a problem if they continue with what your doing. Being a vlogger, it will not be forever either. People change jobs all the time.
@alekstufa1026
Жыл бұрын
I heard all of your lady's opinion about the money.......and you are right money it's important yes indeed we all know that......and you are right relationship it's the most important coz if you are not happy then money dose not solve that problem.......loving and caring for each other and family that first before anything Al's.....I would look for future life partner soon and I know that a lots of philippina don't mind age difference and make you comfortable even you are a lot older the her .....hope to meet someone soon.....when I come for visit to dumaguete
@Awesome_Force
5 ай бұрын
Since they wouldn't understand how much money it takes for certain things in the USA or other countries that a potential foreign mate would come from and possibly take them back to, and that money doesn't go as far, maybe try asking what size of a house would they be satisfied with, what kind of clothing and how much, and how often they expect to be taken out.
@davidhelfert7249
Жыл бұрын
I loved it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@godfreyvonnordeck2056
11 ай бұрын
Me I would be extremely happy to find a woman who likes gardening, has her own career I enjoy growing my own vegetables and I’m very happy helping out around the house if my wife wants to continue her career.
@Flights-gq8po
Ай бұрын
The lady with the long, grey pants seems professional, that is great...I like that, I am a Retired College Professor. Maybe I would like to meet both, the grey long pants and the red dress. Maybe from knowing them one may share my feelings.
@KevinKerrigan-b8u
Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly looking to relocate in the Philippines , I will have more then enough monthly to support myself as well as the woman that finds me !
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
Unsolicited advice sir, take your time, no big decisions, I mean due diligence goes a long way. There are lots of good partners out there (you’ll see).. if you find a good one, you’re in for a surprise, she’ll probably treat you better than anyone. Of course there are bad ones too, so be careful
@VonBluesman
Жыл бұрын
Professional career or not, staying at home and taking care of the house, raising 1 or more children, grocery shopping, paying bills, doctors appointments, etc. is a full time job with very limited time off and long hours. It’s easier to have a full time job outside of the home. It takes 2 to make a baby, surely GOD’S intention is for both parents to help raise the children.
@Pcbdude82
Жыл бұрын
Kinda ironic. These guys say it's the "man's job to provide" yet your traditional housewife works 12+ hours per day, 7 days a week. What kinda of man makes his wife work that much?
@Flights-gq8po
Ай бұрын
As long as she can cook chicken curry, pancit, adobo then we can eat...I can cook too.
@colenichols3580
11 ай бұрын
They are all so cute❤❤
@TruthTeller-e7h
Жыл бұрын
I am in my 50's, earn 14,560,000 pesos / year and have 165,000,000 pesos in the bank. I wouldn't tell any lady in the PI any of that information, including the women in this video. I honestly don't understand why this topic keeps being brought up. Is it supposed to get foreigners thinking that if they only bring love to the table and some meager earnings / savings, that they will be able to develop a relationship with a woman who is much younger and / or about their level looks wise? This kind of video encourages men to let their guard down and reveal things about themselves or put their livelihood at risk in a country where desperate people do desperate things. I just can't wrap my head around the value of this conversation. Yes, we all know that some women think / feel the way that you SAY you do. We also know that there are plenty of those who SAY they do and then things change, drastically, when they are not on a KZitem video.
@UdonFarang52
9 ай бұрын
Home duties is an honorable profession...!!
@timsn4346
Жыл бұрын
Hi Leah and ladies. If I were to live in PI, it’s not much but I earned 135’000. Pesos/month without working. However, I would be interested to find a responsible woman who wanted added future life value opportunities.
@timhusk2913
Жыл бұрын
Tim never lead with digits my Pinay asawa doesn't know the full amount I make without having to work either. I only told her 2.5k monthly into PNB account and the rest stays in my US account and she didn't find that out for many months after we got together
@grizzlymike85
11 ай бұрын
I would love to do videos with these wonderful women
@Pcbdude82
Жыл бұрын
So basically what i am hearing here is the same things 90% of the western women would tell you. They want someone who can provide a comfortable lifestyle. They want the option to work. Especially if the man isnt rich, so they can contribute financially. Makes perfect sense. They want balance.
@Vllencia
Жыл бұрын
Well, if he is going to get a nice young wife, he should be able to provide for her a little more, even though both can contribute to the pot. Sure chemistry is important, and heat, but these men go there because they like the old fashions values, so they should make a point to exceptionally care for their lady. These ladies usually taken care of the man they have, so that is more than reasonable.
@mosaton
Жыл бұрын
Older women are practical and want money, younger women want love and passion. The middle woman is mature and practical and so more transactional, and the one on the left is more idealistic. There's nothing wrong with any approach There is no "right" answer but there is a risky answer.
@geraldwilliams8189
Жыл бұрын
When watching this video I was confused about the “desired amount of money” the ladies would want their partner (or both combined) to earn. The average seemed to be 40-50k per month. This seems to be an extremely low figure to have even a reasonable lifestyle. Even in a province, much less a city. As long as we are being honest about this, shouldn’t the number be at least 100-150k. Jerry in NH
@nomadpack4050
Жыл бұрын
Think you missed the point, they said it's not about the money as long as they can put food on the table.... 10k monthly will be enough to put food on the table in province. Depending on the size of family of course. It's something that is difficult to discuss if you're thinking of family needs vs lifestyle achieving, Point is they all said its about the person making each other happy and working together as a team, family unit. That's what I took from that 🤔 you are talking lifestyle and the women are talking of basic needs being met and again it's all relative to combined household income/family members
@TomScott__
Жыл бұрын
I agree Gerald. Only one lady actually answered the question and the rest answered a question that was not asked. As for your comment about 50k being too low.... 50k is about $1,000 USD. $1,000 per month in the Philippines is good money. Doctors usually make $1,000 per month in the Philippines. Nurses and police officers make about $500 or $600 per month. A construction worker might only make $10 per day at the most and if he or she works 30 days a month that it still only $300 per month. This is the reason an exact number is important to hear from these ladies. The only one that answered started out with the low at $400 a month and said $1,000 a month would be so much better. That is a proper answer to the question asked and I respect her for her honesty. Her answer suggests that she wants a man providing income at least in the middle range but like all women and men for that matter... the more the better. Honesty is refreshing.
@geraldwilliams8189
Жыл бұрын
50k is @$880 US. I have an apartment in Pasig that costs $264 per mo. Nothing really fancy. Add food, transportation and utilities. $880 does get us bye, but no trips or parties.
@TomScott__
Жыл бұрын
@geraldwilliams8189 Yes. I always use 50 pesos to the dollar for easy math and the good exchange rates of today won't last.
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
Personally, I’d say 100k is ok
@hambone5547
Жыл бұрын
No money. No honey. If anyone ever tells you something different, it's bula bula.
@goatman3828
Жыл бұрын
I would think that if you love someone you wouldn't make your partner chose. Ok, you are starting a family, then the conversation may change. But I'm assuming I fall in love with a woman part of that is what she wants. Would a guy just quit his job because she said so? Doubtful. An older guy that is retired or something shouldn't expect her to just drop her life so he can be entertained. If a woman wants to raise a family and that is her priority then she would probably be wanting to be home with the family. My mom was a "housewife" and my father knew he had the easy part of going to work every day. A woman that gives all for her family is a diamond that is just as rare and should be admired as such. Just my opinion.
@Pcbdude82
Жыл бұрын
Problem is a lot of these guys are older men. And they just wantva young, hot Filipina to wait on them hand and foot. This is why they are moving to Asia. Time has passed them by. (Not all of course) But I agree 100% i will encourage my future wife to do whatever makes her happy. Ifcshe wants to work, great. She wants to start a business, i got her back. Wants to start a youtuve channel. I have 30k in gear. She can use any of it. I make more then enough to provide us with a great lifestyle. But if she still wants to work and needs me to help around the house. I'll gladly do so. If she wants to cook and clean while I work, great.
@goatman3828
Жыл бұрын
@@Pcbdude82 yes. Regardless of how much money the guy may have, that isn't the point. If she loves her job expecting her to quit so you can have a nurse maid is wrong. Hopefully the gal would realize this and walk away. Things will probably only get worse from there. I'm in my later 50's and can't understand why, as an adult you would expect someone to walk away from their life for you. IF she wants to then she would probably say so. But to even suggest it...then sign over everything to her first. Are you comfortable giving up everything for her? If not, then don't expect to her to do it either.
@kentpengelly9896
8 ай бұрын
Housewives are the best 😁
@joshuarizalforeman816
5 ай бұрын
Of course it is about cash. My Filipina wife owns PP30 Million in property, that I have bought her. She has an income of PP80-100, 000 pcm. I met her when I was 48 and she was 37. We have a family and live in the Philippines. BTW, I am very fit. I have boxed since I was a teenager and have always participated in sports. Unfortunately, she has had too much of a good life over the past 10 years and seems to forget where she was when I met her.
@fantasynovel5357
Жыл бұрын
This one is a bit of a loaded question. Much would depend on the westerners requirements for a happy life then add a bit for family on it. 24x7 ac, large house, eating out all the time. If she is ok with a small unsealed shack getting water from a well eating rice and dry fish that will cost little. Bringing her standards up to yours will have a drastic change to perceived basic costs. In the west the women just wont accept less then a six pack, 500k 6 foot tall and darn good looking. That is unless she really finds him hot.
@Awesome_Force
5 ай бұрын
The one on the far left is correct. Not neglecting your partner and responsibilities at home matters. One of the main problems with American women is that they think if they work they shouldn't have to do very little or nothing at home, while still using her money only for herself so they often bring no value to the relationship/family.
@Awesome_Force
5 ай бұрын
Being a stay at home parent, taking care of a house and kids is easy, especially much easier than working full time.
@stefanhansen5882
Жыл бұрын
Is 50,000 PHP a month really a lot in the province?
@Melvin-cd1oy
Жыл бұрын
Yep
@stefanhansen5882
Жыл бұрын
@@Melvin-cd1oy That's less than $1,000. Maybe I'll move to the Philippines and settle in the province. :)
@trick_treat
4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the answer but to say we will live of love is not how most filipinas think. They want want money or ask for money early. Pay to play girls❤
@walterbrown2071
11 ай бұрын
The young lady in red has a good point now the lady in blue she need to get a better prospective of life.
@lorandmagyar
Жыл бұрын
I can't even fathom telling my partner what she can or cannot do relative to things that are fulfilling for her like work. If I told any of my Western girlfriends that they couldn't do what they enjoyed doing they would fall down on the floor laughing. Heck... I had a girlfriend who had a fans only channel. She performed at my house in the evenings. Crazy stuff ladies ❤️
@jeffrt3893
10 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but I would never choose a performer as a partner. My lady's body is for my eyes only, and vice versa.
@thebigmann81
11 ай бұрын
I'm curious when do Filipinas typically ask guys how much they make.
@wifegrant
Жыл бұрын
compare this to American women that think most men earn $300 000, at 25 years old, on average lol. The average American man makes $50 000 a year.
@ericbeckersr4431
Жыл бұрын
When I help my Filipina family, I alway ask if they are working I never ask how much there income is
@darransumpton7385
Жыл бұрын
What house husband and wife works
@vlogcritter
Жыл бұрын
I would advise you to keep your career
@timbaze5207
Жыл бұрын
you should ask them how much of that money is going to us and how much is going to the family lol ... excluding emergencies like if her mom is in the hospital , ive heard horror stories about if you are a foreigner a filipina will want you to provide for her whole family lol
@Its-Just-Si-Entertainment
Жыл бұрын
It's not a horror story at all... And really it's if you can afford to... I know it might sound weird cuz you don't understand the culture there... But think about it.. if you are there with your wife or girlfriend and kids living together you have all your needs covered and your not worried about how you will feed your wife and kids for the next 2 weeks.. then your mother in-law gets sick.. maybe there is a bill for £80 or something and maybe you need to help her mom and dad with an electric bill Kasi they been sick and couldn't work for a few weeks... Like why wouldn't you do that? Why would you not think that is an absolute priority??? If her brother brakes a bone and can't work maybe you need to invite him to stay untill it gets better so he can eat... So he's not sat without electricity... Would you not accept it? If not then why?? It's the family of your girlfriend or prospective wife.. so basically it's YOUR family... Ofcours you will take care of them when they need help.. it doesn't mean they will all take advantage of you.. especially if your girlfriend is a good Filipina and explains that altho you have more money that them it doesn't mean you are rich you have a lot of things you have to pay also... They will understand.. I think the stories you have heard are from clinical people maybe those unlucky in love where something didn't work out.. but after all if you accept a filipina you should also be ready to accept her culture and learn not to be so wrapped up in your self and expect her to bend to your every want and need without comprises.. if your looking for something like that you best look somewhere else cuz Filipinas are sweet loving women and not just there for a bit of fun
@reflectioninthesnow7953
Жыл бұрын
I could see helping out the girlfriend or wife parents, if you have money left over after you take care of yourself and the girlfriend or wife......but not the cousins, nephews, brothers, sisters, second cousins and fifty other family members. That is just plain used and I believe if you don't put your foot down from the start, you will be bled to death over time. If your Filipina girlfriend or wife does not respect your decisions.......you are in going down a rabbit hole that you will never get out of. This is my opinion
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
Depends on the situation, of course you need to assess if you being used or not. Don’t be overwhelmed, keep a level head. If everything is genuine and it’s not much..personally I’d help out. Of course if they don’t help themselves then you should not be helping as well. But if they are very nice to you, why not help A LITTLE? Of course it’s not your job to provide for them, but helping from time to time is ok. As always talk to your partner
@evildisaster8149
10 ай бұрын
You will if you are not cheap and broke as f.
@evildisaster8149
10 ай бұрын
@@reflectioninthesnow7953then go somewhere else, because if u were the brother, I would sell you by kilo. You cheap, selfish pug.
@Flights-gq8po
Ай бұрын
Leah, I like the lady in Red. If she is 40 or older....I would like to meet her .....and yes, if she is with me she, her son and I can eat every day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@wetcrow_com
Жыл бұрын
Love the video. Nice job.
@mikedv7954
Жыл бұрын
Basically, if you can contribute with roughly 1,000 US dollars a month, they will take care of the rest. Wow!!!
@Cons2911
Жыл бұрын
Usually you can sense if they are just using you for money. But if you found a good one, you’ll probably be doubting yourself if all of this is really happening bec they will treat you right.
@ericbeckersr4431
Жыл бұрын
Should the question be, would you date a man that didn't a job or work not work
@Flights-gq8po
Ай бұрын
I would like to meet Giselle....
@timothycartet8278
Жыл бұрын
just dating he's not obligated to anything pertaining to your financial situation, what does love to have to do with just dating or courting? that takes time, what? you're in love with me 5 mins into the conversation? BLOCK
@col.cottonhill6655
Жыл бұрын
I make over that 50k a month. And its not really enough to keep my Filipina woman happy. Lol. (We live in the United States)
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