I still think the best way of dealing with bullies is to cook their parents into a chili then make you bully eat the chili. Even Tom could never handle this kind of Petty.
@zuesdaboi2542
2 жыл бұрын
I got to try this 👌
@Matty002
2 жыл бұрын
@lol deimos died sounds like good odds
@gottired2
2 жыл бұрын
I like how Ray Velcoro handled the kid bullying his son. Went to the bully's house and with the bully outside made him watch him beat the crap out of his dad.
@beabea5985
2 жыл бұрын
Not before you cause Radiohead to despise them
@coffeelover0876
2 жыл бұрын
Who's Tom??
@qwerty222999
3 жыл бұрын
Worst part about bullying is teachers turning a blind eye, until the victim retaliates.
@riktrik7013
3 жыл бұрын
Do you know what move the clip is at 0:27 ?
@fernthaisetthawatkul5569
3 жыл бұрын
kid gets bullied: whatever its not my problem kid stands up for himself: oh no you can't do that! *suspends the victim*
@RBMDragon
3 жыл бұрын
@@fernthaisetthawatkul5569 I was sent to the principals office several times because the bullies wouldn't leave me alone during class. I don't know if I were bullied before those 2 1/2 years, but those were like hell. Even the math teacher was bullying me. I've worked my butt off and even though I still have social issues due to a mental condition I'm born with, I've got a masters degree in engineering and a well paying job, while one of the former (5 bullies) ended up in jail. I've not had it anywhere near as hard as many others here, but it still leaves deep scars.
@universpro7741
3 жыл бұрын
When people in my religious school bullied each other, the playground guards wouldn't do anything. And when someone was winning over another in a fight the guard would punish the guy on the ground
@fatdouglas4279
3 жыл бұрын
Lol teachers bully kids more then other kids do.
@renegadeace1735
3 жыл бұрын
It's true that the best way to deal with bullies is to stand up to them, but schools don't really let kids stand up to bullies anymore.
@randomgamer7193
3 жыл бұрын
Exacly. Even when they see you being bullied, it's like "I don't care" You fight back, "What are you doing!"
@organicleaf
Жыл бұрын
yup.. no wonder i turned out to be such a massive pussy who is unable to stand up for himself.. unless you make me *very* mad.. then it turns into a different issue for both parties involved
@nuqjatrh
Жыл бұрын
From what I can see.. folks expect you to fight mentally and psychologically rather than physically. Not many people have the capability of doing this.
@JO3BID3N-is-a-P3D0
Жыл бұрын
that y should get with your friends and jump the bully afterrrrrrrr skoollllllll
@renegadeace1735
Жыл бұрын
@@JO3BID3N-is-a-P3D0 what if you have no friends?
@Aprilbrainz
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like saying "there's something going on with the bullys to make them be that way" is just a way for the victim to feel bad for the bully. Idc if they have a hard life don't take it out on me. Be a good person and maybe then, I would care.
@birb1368
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I am so tired of this bullshit excuse. I had a rough childhood as well but I never even thought about the idea of putting down someone else because of it. There is no excuse for being an asshole. People should stop trying to justify it.
@auggiejaime3820
2 жыл бұрын
@@birb1368 Thank you finally someone said it. Your 100% right bullying and abuse in general should NEVER be excused or justified in any way possible. Even if they have a sad tragic life, it just makes them become the very thing they hate
@creationisntgood942
Жыл бұрын
Nobody's trying to justify it, and it's not meant to serve as an excuse. It's important to know the overall causes of bullying if we want to attack and prevent it, but nobody's supposed to immediately forgive someone who's an asshole because they went through a hard time, it's common sense.
@Hesusingmine
Жыл бұрын
@@creationisntgood942 Exactly. It's common sense.
@DaUziel
4 ай бұрын
And also it's basically not true. A lot of bullying comes from positions of power and privilege.
@joandarc441
3 жыл бұрын
Yep even on religious schools bullies still exist and the teachers would be like meh not my problem unless the parents complained
@xicision2533
3 жыл бұрын
Even then, they don't handle the situation. It is very rare for them to resolve the issue correctly. They will normally just leave it as "you forgive each other".
@spacecadetlostintransit
3 жыл бұрын
@iLoveJackingOn yeah I definitely agree, at that point the sad truth is sometimes people just get used to it, so when they’re shown genuine love by others it’s a bit, strange...at least from my experiences
@chasformer3091
3 жыл бұрын
teachers are either useless or they support bullying.
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot
3 жыл бұрын
It's kinda like some people just suck regardless of culture, religion, sexuality, gender, etc.
@nebbybrush9988
3 жыл бұрын
Bro I was being straight up harassed at my private school and all the teachers said we're "just pray on it" We left it soon after
@diamondgoldsilver9899
3 жыл бұрын
Bullying is just a cycle that doesn't stop naturally
@charmaine7781
3 жыл бұрын
I hope I don't become a bully because I was a victim of bullying in the past
@DDYL4N
3 жыл бұрын
The cycle of hatred
@lj1393
3 жыл бұрын
@@DDYL4N bingo. And its not the only thing in bullying these days.... physical or mental violence is never the answer.
@mapleleaf8413
3 жыл бұрын
a lot of things in life is about ownership. Owning money Owning love and recognition Owning Happiness Owning positions Owning even material things like cars and houses Ownership IS the cycle of life. Since that applies into happiness. but, the amount of happiness is how much you feel. You can be happy even in the darkest times. So i say Own all the happiness and Satisfaction in your life.
@wassassin2318
3 жыл бұрын
Unless someone dies
@Mysteriousstranger6
3 жыл бұрын
Types of bullies.. 1. Sociopath who wants attention in a messed up way 2. Psychopath who enjoys hurting others 3. Peer pressure bully
@r4fa3l59
2 жыл бұрын
@Road Runner No, you got sociopath and psychopath mixed up: Both are terms for APD but they were created in different ages, psychopath (psyche + disease) just meant anyone who had any mental disorder that could make them break juridical or societal laws caused by impulsion and a characteristic lack of remorse regarding the cause. But these were not differentiated from schizophrenia and psychosis as an example, later on, the term sociopath was created for separating whatever by a specific personality disorder that had the same symptoms described above. But modern clinical psychology recognizes an spectrum of antisocial behavior, all of them having impulsion in common, that's why it's named Antisocial Personality Disorder nowadays.
@r4fa3l59
2 жыл бұрын
@Road Runner Also one more thing: I believe that they were referring to dark triad psychopathy, not the old name. And psychopathy trait in dark triad is described to "feeling pleasure from hurting others either emotionally or physically". Therefore the comment is internally valid.
@emcg5112
2 жыл бұрын
You clearly have no real experience in this realm.
@laitdejabot9890
2 жыл бұрын
@@r4fa3l59 It’s being sadist not psychopath.
@r4fa3l59
2 жыл бұрын
@@laitdejabot9890 Generally Psychopaths tend to be sadists, but the latter as a trait doesn't tend to the other.
@elephantweasley759
Жыл бұрын
I used to be a bully. My life at home was fine and no mental illness or anything. I was just having fun getting away with pissing off other kids. Looking back I really owe those people an apology. My point is that sometimes bullies just do it because they can and can get away with it.
@raccoonchild
Жыл бұрын
I came here to make pretty much this exact comment.
@jasonhahn8797
Жыл бұрын
People change. Good on you for recognizing the error of your actions.
@edgarallanpoe209
Жыл бұрын
Well done on making people’s lives miserable
@blueberrycatto
Жыл бұрын
You've recognised yourself, not many people have the confidence to do that and admit it. Nice work dude.
@TheRaZoX
Жыл бұрын
I also liked pissing off others, sometimes I still do, but there is a difference between pissing someone off and making them angry or feel bad for a moment, and between bullying, bullying is constant and recurring, to the point where instead of just being "pissed off" someone is actually hurt and sad beyond the point where its just a bad day, but rather affects their life and psyche, and sometimes people, and mostly kids, do not understand or do not care to see where that line is.
@marcomanis_mlg1067
3 жыл бұрын
if a parent is bullying their child, it's not bullying. it's child abuse which is worse than bullying
@babyvroh365
3 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@bonusbone5118
3 жыл бұрын
It's a grandparent
@letsgetbetterfrank6152
3 жыл бұрын
It cartoon
@faesahl
3 жыл бұрын
@@letsgetbetterfrank6152 It’s a cartoon based off real life.
@dannyboygregory-mccormick9157
3 жыл бұрын
If any adult does this to any child it's child abuse.
@endcensorship874
3 жыл бұрын
I am 54 years old, graduated from High School in 1985, and I only remember four people from that time: my best friend, and the three people who ruthlessly bullied me. I had a period in my life where they were all I thought about, and I wanted revenge so bad. Being bullied almost killed me, in the sense I was so close to committing suicide a few times. It's no joke. What changed? "clean living" I decided I was going to live a clean, decent and honorable life. I started to work out, to care about myself and my body. Like you said, to love myself. I fell in love, raised a family of awesome kids, have a job I love. Not gonna lie, it hurt to think about being bullied. But I'm living my best life, not in fear or searching for revenge, but because it's good for me. Damn, this video nailed it... thanks.
@themessedupminds4976
3 жыл бұрын
im sorry you had to go throught that i think your strong to have survived bullying to that extent and your also strong to be able to talk about it and its effects on you this late in life also if your best freind was one of your bullys there no freind
@endcensorship874
3 жыл бұрын
@@themessedupminds4976 Nah, my best friend from that time wasn't a bully. He was a good guy.
@themessedupminds4976
3 жыл бұрын
@@endcensorship874 oh sorry i mustive misread your comment my apologies
@endcensorship874
3 жыл бұрын
@@themessedupminds4976 no worries.
@BatMan-jd5rc
3 жыл бұрын
That's a really interesting story. I'm glad you're not someone clinging to vengeance. I hope you have a good day.
@timcontreras
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who was bullied and someone who’s ALSO been a bully this episode made me weep. It’s to this day my favorite South Park episode
@slugpastetm7442
2 жыл бұрын
Looking through actual psychology, and as a bully victim myself, I have something to say. Throughout my life, I have had 3 different bullies. First two, girls, last one a guy. First girl to bully me was from a family going through divorce, where her mom didn’t give her attention as she was having a new baby, and her father (popular singer in my country) just used her as “make me look good” material. She was acting nice one second, and then physically or verbally abusing me the next, drinking alcohol and showing off bath pics on instagram. She crossed the line when she grabbed me by the hair and slammed my head against a desk, moving a couple of my spine plates, forcing me to wear a neck collar for 2 months. She was reprimanded by the principal, however my mom requested a simple thing: “Let me talk to her, and I won’t even demand a spot on her record.” Y’know what her mother’s response was? “Give her the mark, I don’t care. She’s going to a hotel school anyways.” Second bully was much more.. “evil”, than the first one, also happening at the same time as the first one. She wasn’t physical whatsoever, however she insulted me, if i was there or not, and actively made sure no one she had her reach on talked to me. Her mother was a known bully in the area we live in, and it’s never been confirmed, but most people think she was abusive to her daughter, or they at least fought often. Even if not, children have the automatic response to replicate the behavior their parents inhibit. Last one? He’s in my current school. It’s a good school, so fortunately speaking to the school’s management had him threatened with suspension, and his harassment stopped, besides occasional trash talk behind scenes. I don’t know much about him. I know his parents are rich, and i know he acts like an asshole to multiple people, not just me. I also know from a friend that his whole reason for not liking me is because I am “fat and dumb” which is why he attempted to execute me from the collective, which is something he fortunately failed at. My point is, bullying happens because of a wide variety of reasons. Some children, or even adults, truly are emotionally broken, or have a mental illness they’re dealing with. However, usually the people with a mental illness are the ones bullied. Anyways, then there’s people who are simply replicating what they’ve seen their parents act like. Other people simply dislike you, and because they’re little mommy’s boy they think that gives them the right to eradicate you. And many other different reasons. The important thing is to not let them get to you, at the core. Ask yourself: “Do i even care about their opinion?” And move on. That only counts if the abuse is only verbal. If it is physical, collect and use any evidence you can find and bring them to the school- if you get ignored, bring them to you parent, or someone you trust. If that fails, theres many anti bully organizations you can try. Just don’t give up.
@brettdawsontheog7336
Жыл бұрын
Still doesn't address the issue
@SavDoesStuf-ve7iu
9 ай бұрын
I know it doesn’t excuse her behavior, but I feel bad for the first one. Those parents need to be taught a lesson, because that just feels like a Whiteout from WoF situation if Whiteout was mean. (If you haven’t read WoF, in the books, it literally says “Father always shows off whiteout’s beauty and then ignores her when he gets home like a necklace being put back on the shelf.” Also, her mother prefers her son over Whiteout, so yeah.)
@GenetMJF
3 жыл бұрын
Tho one big myth about bullying is that all bullies are miserable and have bad house life behind the scenes. That's not the case.
@apolloandwarrior_3229
3 жыл бұрын
One of my bullies ended up dieing in a car crash, she was a minor but some part of me pities how I get to live on while she becomes a statistic.
@nuthin2lose688
3 жыл бұрын
The Extreme ones are miserable but moderate ones are fine.
@ECxTheMaster
3 жыл бұрын
@@nuthin2lose688 untrue
@masondarden2423
2 жыл бұрын
@eric Spencer unless they themselves don’t see the abuse as a problem but just a regular thing
@ITIsFunnyDamnIT
2 жыл бұрын
@@apolloandwarrior_3229 She was a bully good riddance
@berniekatzroy
3 жыл бұрын
South Park doing more than the actual public school system.
@Extremezotako
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Lily-gz3ip
3 жыл бұрын
homeschooled kids kjkjkk
@MB-nb7yq
3 жыл бұрын
It’s true.
@atrophine_
3 жыл бұрын
Doing something better than public school isn't a very hard thing to do
@yunggatz6638
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe that’s a exaggeration, but yeah South Park, although very immature. Does bring a lot of attention to actual real world problems. For example the Tourette’s episode, the pandemic one, and any episode where Kyle does his lil speech.
@absolutearcher3137
2 жыл бұрын
No, most bullies simply enjoy having power over others they see as less than themselves, there is no pain, only gratification, the way of thinking in the video is behind all the useless advice given to victims. "Try to become friends", "Ignore them and they'll leave you alone", and such.
@sebswede9005
2 жыл бұрын
It's not easy to do when you get bullied at work, though.
@kieranmorgan4114
Жыл бұрын
True
@Skoopyghost
Жыл бұрын
I was the bully in high school. I'm a childhood SA survivor. I'm also dyslexic. I had addiction since I was 13. They all got really when I was 15. It started with video games, then went into gambling, and then drinking when I'm using I lack all empathy for around me. I don't want to make this about me, but I have to apologize to the people I hurt while I was using, but when he said talked about empathy for the bully. Just many memories came back to me. I'm more aware how awful I am when my addiction takes over.
@Skoopyghost
Жыл бұрын
@Someone You have a point it was my fault a lot of it, but you're ignorant. You have never dealt with addiction honestly. I have done things that I'm not proud off, but people who are on the moral high ground disgust me. The most hypocritical idiots on the planet. People cope with trauma in different ways.
@AzStaryu51
Жыл бұрын
@@Skoopyghosthave you tried to get help for your addiction and have you apologized to your victims?
@kissarococo2459
3 жыл бұрын
I hated anti-bullying campaigns as a bullied kid. Bullies would always make fun of me afterwards "Hey, they were talking about YOU." and adults would feign to care about me and quickly forget me afterwards.
@Benjumanjo
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of bullies are that way because they enjoy the feeling of superiority, of having power over someone else.
@user12name34
3 жыл бұрын
And why is that?
@Benjumanjo
3 жыл бұрын
@@user12name34 Because humans instinctually seek to enhance their status, and that instinctual desire can become maladaptive, if taken to an extreme. For kids in the school-yard, it becomes maladaptive if the individual holds themselves in high esteem, but this is not reflected by their outside circumstances, or other people do not agree with that evaluation. This disparity creates an unconscious contradiction, which some kids seek to resolve with excessive dominance behavior.
@user12name34
3 жыл бұрын
@@Benjumanjo Thank you for the information.
@cael8450
3 жыл бұрын
@@Benjumanjo bullies are extremely insecure. how can one counter this bottled self-hatred and appear resilient to pain? power. remember there is always a motive behind an action, whether self-conscious or sub.
@Benjumanjo
3 жыл бұрын
@@cael8450 Attempting to think of bullies as insecure is a defense mechanism that allows you to make them seem smaller in your mind, but it has no basis in fact. In reality, those who are insecure are the ones who would be chosen as a bully-victim. Actual bullies are not insecure, they are TOO secure, too confident, they think you can’t fight back
@Dragonette666
3 жыл бұрын
usually bullies are protected by an adult. Perhaps a teacher that likes them. Basically our school system fosters the idea behind out political system : some are protected but not restrained, and others are restrained but not protected.
@xxboonisbadfortnitexx1549
3 жыл бұрын
Yelp
@xxboonisbadfortnitexx1549
3 жыл бұрын
10-4 good buddy remember keep on trucking and keep the rubber side truck driver
@kissarococo2459
3 жыл бұрын
bullies are protected mostly by other kids. They are reluclant to grass on a likable kid that occasionally is mean to the weird kid even if it makes them uncomfortable. Plus there is fear of being bullied instead of the bullied kid.
@Dragonette666
3 жыл бұрын
@@kissarococo2459 my experience it was the teachers. They wouldn't do anything if he hit me but if I resisted I went to the office for licks. So I kicked him in the face hard enough to leave a shoeprint on it for a few days and he left me alone.
@TheDeathmail
3 жыл бұрын
It should be noted that a lot of times, bullies are good at hiding their crimes. Sure, there might be signs of it, but no proof... No proof of who did it, or if they actually did it. Sometimes, victims are sure that everyone knows what is going on... but frankly, that's not always the case... often times, people don't even know the victim exists or barely notices them. There was a guy being bullied in my school for 4 years and I only knew after he graduated. And why did we only find out then? Because the bully got cocky and a teacher finally saw them.
@otsogronberg6193
2 жыл бұрын
"Bullying is a way of releasing bad emotions" I think it is more a way of spreading them rather than releasing. The bully is not relieved of their misery by making others so, they merely find comfort in seeing others as miserable as they are.
@beabea5985
2 жыл бұрын
Not every bully is miserable. The majority of bullies cause you pain because it's hilarious to see you in pain, that's it.
@auggiejaime3820
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, some people bully because that's just who they are and they don't have a sad tragic story to explain why.
@V742
7 ай бұрын
I think it's a trick; it SEEMS like a way to release bad emotions. It's like pornography. Porn has the image of helping you relieve sexual tension, but it doesn't; it increases the tension.
@GetYaWhat
Жыл бұрын
It's actually been proven that bullies are more narcissistic
@ServeraServera0
Жыл бұрын
More like sociopathic I was friends with one, he was a manipulator but at least his brother was ok, then he started bullying me when we were not friends anymore And he m̶o̶v̶e̶d̶ ̶o̶u̶t̶ escaped to the capital and never gave me back these 2 euros I lend to him, fucking bastards!
@emeraldfury2152
Жыл бұрын
Like Homelander
@Ichigo_Kurosaki27
Жыл бұрын
Almost ALL of them are narcissists. They don't care about anyone but themselves in most situations. Whether they are a psychopath or a sociopath is irrelevant and can go either way. It is basically what it is.
@Cruddy129
3 жыл бұрын
My bullies when I was at school did what they did simply because they like me being in pain, and they dont have any tragic background or crap like that, they just like to see misery on others
@Cruddy129
3 жыл бұрын
@Fabian Kirchgessner You'd be surprised by just how people likes seeing negative reactions and inflicted pain onto others, no rhyme or reason Cant just say "He/she has a tragic background story as to why they do it", that crappy excuse is not good enough, I know for a fact that there wasnt anything wrong with the bullies that I encountered, they were a-holes, plain and simple
@hassanalkhalaf1115
3 жыл бұрын
@@Cruddy129 exactly. It's a cheap excuse to make the victim feel bad for the abuser
@PAEz...
3 жыл бұрын
@@Cruddy129 Or just because its funny. Even "good" people can laugh at another persons misery, Funniest Home Videos made a show out of it for years.
@tyleyden8695
3 жыл бұрын
Their background probably fed them off parents that encouraged laughter at other people's misfortune. There is a reason they act that way.
@aj3706
2 жыл бұрын
@@Cruddy129 is that what you felt, or did you have a 1 to 1 conversation with them? Seeing other ''tragic backstory'' isn't something easy. How do you know that they didn't have it?
@edgelord8337
3 жыл бұрын
There's nothing more worst than a bully that takes its aggression and problems on other people who didn't cause it. I've met a lot of bullies in my life and it just never fails to make me remember being bullied myself. If you have problems deal with them and get help taking your anger on others who've done nothing to you just to feel like you have control is disgusting.
@zachthehusky6120
3 жыл бұрын
100% Agree with you, yeah I understand some people may have a rough childhood or something else mentally scaring but that doesn’t mean people should take it out on other people who have any control over it or maybe even potentially help you with it. I was bullied for nearly 2 years in school and no one gave a shit, my friends didn’t care , my teachers didn’t care no one. So one day I was getting tired of it and eventually stuck up for my self by punching one of my bully’s in the face, the result was: I got nearly expelled from school and nothing happened to the bully’s because they played victim. The world is fucked man.
@CluttchSubscribe
3 жыл бұрын
@@zachthehusky6120 you know, I too was a bully, I'm so ashamed of who I was but I'm no longer the same person. I suffered from depression and I was physically, emotionally, and mentally abused when I was a child. On top of that, I was being builled at school. one day I just had enough and just broke, all I wanted was respect and love. And I thought being a bully would help, but no, it made things worse. Eventually I apologized for my actions and I started self-improvement and life has never been as great as now.
@zachthehusky6120
3 жыл бұрын
@@CluttchSubscribe at least you saw what you did was wrong and I respect you for that and I wish you a bright future my friend
@adriantoogenuine
3 жыл бұрын
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@coffintears5821
3 жыл бұрын
@@zachthehusky6120 i slapped a girl in detention because i asked her why she was making fun of me and she simply said "Because everyone else is doing it im just joining in"
@pmb979
2 жыл бұрын
I've always been bullied. I have always been the annoying, loud scrawny kid. I was first bullied when I was 5. I've barely shared my experiences with bullying because I know people will be worried, and put matters into their own hands. This bullying went so far that I attempted to take my own life. Bullies do have feelings and back stories, but that doesn't mean their actions are okay as such. Your video is very informative on what it's like to be a bullying victim. Because of all of this bullying, I have anxiety and it's always hard for me to make friends. I know this is off topic, but one of my "friends" in primarily school bullied me. They would always mock me for the things I did because I'm my anger and grief (swear and yell) but then when she was mad, she straight off told people to DIE. She manipulated me, and I developed trust issues. Bullying is no laughing matter, the victims should be comforted, but sometimes, the bully also needs help. I know this sounds stereotypical but most bullies come from dysfunctional households, or are bullied themselves. They have nowhere to turn to, so they resort to the violence, or verbal assault of others. The worst part, is that the teachers don't care. Not a single teacher cared until I attempted. And when I did attempt, they treating me like a baby. Teachers and EVERYBODY out there. If there's s bullying victim, comfort them. Bullying is always used as a pawn. Make a stand.
@therationalcollection2999
3 жыл бұрын
I was a bully in School. Still feel terrible about it today. I managed to apologize to two of my victims. Maybe it made me feel better but nothing can heal what happened. What I try to do is comfort people in whatever way I can today. I see bullying in workplaces all the time, especially my industry of agriculture. I guess ill just try to raise my children with the correct morals. Regards Eric
@awawawawawea5232
Жыл бұрын
That's good that you've seen the bad on what you did. I'm happy that your changing for yourself and others to have a better life and I hope you have a good day/year.
@melodysafo5437
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you realized that you were a bad person and are trying to be better!
@aCrocodileMan
Жыл бұрын
Traitor
@k.a.4595
5 ай бұрын
I wish my bullies would apologize.
@Loader2K1
3 жыл бұрын
I felt really bad for Butters in this episode because he couldn't tell his parents that his grandmother was bullying him because they obviously wouldn't believe him, and his asshole dad would just ground him because that's all he's ever good for.
@mattgassenheimer
3 жыл бұрын
BUTTERS! ARE YOU TRASH TALKING ME ON THE INTERNET? YOU’RE GROUNDED MISTER
@Loader2K1
3 жыл бұрын
@@mattgassenheimer: My point exactly.
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
His parents are literal Psychopaths. His mom literally tried to kill him and blame it on some puerto rican guy and his Dad killed a woman and made her the food that Butters will eat.
@Loader2K1
3 жыл бұрын
@@Noname-fb1mm: That, plus all the complete and unnecessary grounding.
@ottz2506
3 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t there also one episode were Butters’s dad was about to beat him with his belt?
@Mirrorcomics24
3 жыл бұрын
As much as South Park seems like a silly little show unlike the others it also tells mature lessons even if it’s the worst in maturity Edit:I think some misunderstood my statement when I say “silly little show”I mean with its humour about shit when I say “mature lessons”it’s not the serialised political stuff it’s the lessons they learn like don’t bullying
@xenstarboy
3 жыл бұрын
Its messages are mature, but it's humor is immature, I think that's what makes it so popular
@xenstarboy
3 жыл бұрын
Not that it's humor is bad and they don't tell mature jokes from time to time, but I think this aspect makes it more realistic to people and moat importantly the kids. Though I don't remember how old the characters are
@Mirrorcomics24
3 жыл бұрын
@@xenstarboy yep
@snickthegreat
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@leticiakay6422
3 жыл бұрын
@@xenstarboy they are in 3rd and 4th grade, depending on the season you watch
@Trenchhhj
2 жыл бұрын
as someone who experienced bullying I can confirm that this episode does show what it feels like to be kicked around and have you entire mental state destroyed by a person twice your size. Bullying is a terrible thing a have always experienced in my life in basically every shape or form and its horrible.
@TheMagicPinecone
2 жыл бұрын
Not every bully needs a good reason, just like how someone can truly hate you without a good reason. Sometimes people will hate you no matter what you do to them, or act around them. And sometimes bullying can get severe enough to where no one wants to be kind to you, out of fear of being bullied simply for association. Sadly this was my bullying experience. I was bullied all 6 years of grade school, starting in kindergarten. I never had any friends growing up due to this. For some messed up reason, every person in my grade truly hated me. And those who necessarily didn't were mean to me because "it was cool". I gave up telling anyone after first grade, because no one teacher or staff could change the minds of literally an entire grade, in every class of said grade. I had a miserable childhood for multiple reasons, but this is sadly a primary reason. The most messed up part of bullying is how the bullies themselves never know how much of an impact they have, or if they know they don't care at all. I for one have minimal social skills from a childhood I rarely had positive peer socializing in, have extreme trust issues where I'm always questioning people's motives for wanting to simply be nice, and honestly have a very big bias against people in my age range, for obviously good reason. For god's sake, it was so bad that people made *games* out of just picking on me... I feel like most things that handle the topic of bullying want to so desperately make the bully the more relatable one, the one you feel more sympathy for. That bullies must obviously have a reason related to issues of their own. Most things with this topic that I've personally seen hardly talk about the victim. But they're the *real victim* , the one who's hurt for usually noting they did. They're the ones left with issues directly caused by someone who's entire goal was to bring them down, to hurt them. And it gets even worse if you were stuck like me. When the bullying is spread to everyone, to the point where no one *can* be nice to you, because otherwise you'll inadvertently make them a target too. There's usually a stereotype in any media that features a school setting. I'm sure we've all heard of and seen that one "weird kid" with no friends that everyone makes fun of and goes out of their way to avoid. I was that kid. But I know from being that stereotype that when the bullying gets out of hand, and you literally grow up unable to properly develop social skills, that's pretty much what you become. A socially awkward, shy weirdo that no one likes.... But that just makes an extremely vicious cycle of being "weird", so no one likes you, so you can't properly develop social skills to be "less weird", so no one likes you, repeat.
@zadz2599
3 жыл бұрын
I hate how school make bullying seem like its just cartoony. I've seen so many schools do this and when I got bullied I talked to the counselor and all she said was "oh well". Its like school encourage bullying just to campaign and say "don't bully". Its so disgusting
@ark1476
3 жыл бұрын
did you got over the bullying?
@zadz2599
3 жыл бұрын
@@ark1476 yeah im fine now
@SRosenberg203
3 жыл бұрын
Out of curiosity, what do you think the school SHOULD have done? Like, what's the solution that they just didn't feel like implementing?
@zadz2599
3 жыл бұрын
@@SRosenberg203 I think they should have more competent counseling. Also the teachers talked to me as if I was in elementary school saying "just talk it out" or "figure something out" it was so stupid. Like nobody that worked there cared except one of my teachers.
@SRosenberg203
3 жыл бұрын
@@zadz2599 Your teachers are probably hamstrung by district policy. In my own personal experience of being bullied in school, the best way to solve the problem was to stand up and crack the guy in the face as hard as you can. In my personal experience (though I recognize that obviously we don't all have the same experience), that makes them stop, even if you get in a little bit of trouble. But I would be fired on the spot if I ever actually gave that advice to one of my students coming to me with a bullying issue.
@ponternal
3 жыл бұрын
Bullies are not always miserable people who are suffering. Many bullies go on to live wonderful lives, with beautiful partners, successful careers and die surrounded by people who love them. Just like bullying victims might have awful lives and die alone themselves.
@dctribute9865
3 жыл бұрын
Every bully has a bully trust me on this one
@antenna7002
3 жыл бұрын
@@dctribute9865 nah, some just weren't raised right because they're parents were lenient on them and tolerated they're bad behavior.
@jpeg.600x2
3 жыл бұрын
@@antenna7002 they die with bad moral character, sucks 4 em
@vanhattfield8292
3 жыл бұрын
@@dctribute9865 I agree with you. Talking and drinking with former classmates years after we graduated I was amazed at some of the stories I heard from people I went to school with for 13 years and who I had thought had perfect lives.
@greninjastorm
3 жыл бұрын
I hate bullies like this
@AJ-ut8cz
2 жыл бұрын
The worst part about being mentally bullied is that you think they're just being honest. I could take obvious insults, but the things that have fucked with me the longest are when they seemed sincere. They weren't trying to get a laugh they just came up to me and "informed" me that I was the seemingly ugliest person in the school and that I should really work on that if I didn't want to die alone. It's nearly been a decade and I still hate how I look because they planted that seed, it also didn't help that I had depression and my chosen medication was cheeseburgers. As a recovering fat person I feel like I am qualified to say that fat isn't attractive, which only led to me hating what I saw in the mirror even more. When people say the solution is to love yourself I think they misunderstand what that means, it doesn't mean love the terrible things you've done to your body. It means treat your body like you love it. If you feed your car garbage and beat hell out of it never get it washed or check the fluids would anyone ever say you loved that car? Then how can we do the equivalent to our bodies and call it self love?
@kadendunk5300
3 жыл бұрын
I remember every fight I have been in only one made me actually feel joy, and it was just sucker punching a bully after he literally asked me too he went straight to the ground crying. My PE teacher knew and never told anyone
@G3n10s1TY
3 жыл бұрын
They probably knew what was happening the whole time and let it slide. If they did then they need a raise.
@Joyoboyogomu
3 жыл бұрын
i don’t think we ever realize how bad bullying is until we experience it ourselves. we simply believe, just avoid them, block them, it’ll go away. but it doesn’t. i think, at least from experience, the worst part of it all, is the fear of being bullied again. i remember not being able to eat or sleep for days, in fear that people were waiting to bully me again. and i don’t think they get that they were bullies to me. they believed they were in the right. and that really hurts, when people think it’s okay to call you names, send you death threats, and a bunch of other things. i wish this cycle of bullying would stop, but it simply won’t
@tch6831
3 жыл бұрын
Damn bro i'm sorry you went through that.
@biscuits2463
3 жыл бұрын
i really want to understand how bullying victims truly feel, but i can’t because i haven’t experienced bullying myself. i have been sexually harassed as a child a few times, had my textbooks be thrown out of my reach a couple times, and have been called names based on my physical appearance many times. but no matter how many times those happened, i never reached out properly to anybody about it. i always wonder why it’s so difficult to just talk to someone. i want to stand up for myself, but something always stops me. maybe it’s my lack of skills of talking to people, or i’m just too “lazy”. neither of them are any better than the other. i’ve got a rough idea of what being bullied feels like, but i will not say that it is what it really is because i cant assume. everything bad i’ve experienced has made me feel pathetic and angry for days. so what you’ve been through must’ve been terribly worse. and for that, i’m sorry. i’m sorry you had to go through all that, nobody deserves that kind of treatment.
@Zee-xb9zm
3 жыл бұрын
We should really just start executing bullies no matter the age.
@tch6831
3 жыл бұрын
@@Zee-xb9zm don't say shit like that 🤦♂️
@oxines6979
3 жыл бұрын
Yes. But also the sad part about this is that some people say to hate wars, but some of them make wars against people just to prove how superior they are. This can be the reason why school shoot happen.
@m.khalid334
3 жыл бұрын
not all bullies have a "reason", sometimes they're just cruel, and they go on living a happy life not ever worrying about the fact that they made life hell for someone else 🤷♀️
@coffintears5821
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Made2Express
3 жыл бұрын
Yes That’s how they were raised...
@thedarkgunslinger2869
3 жыл бұрын
@@Made2Express or just is another Kevin
@KingYou2002
3 жыл бұрын
That sounds like psychopathy
@KiTho06
3 жыл бұрын
I've met one of them. They are by far the worst types of Bullies. Best to get the biggest distance between them.
@britsaunders2151
Жыл бұрын
We really should call bullying exactly what it is: Differing forms of abuse of another and those people should be prosecuted accordingly.
@melodysafo5437
Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@guiltyhxc
Жыл бұрын
Yes, prosecute kids (dumbass)
@christopherdaniel5919
Жыл бұрын
I had some bully trouble in my younger years. So I asked my parents to enroll me in some Martial Arts classes. I had many years of training. Took it to heart. From that point on, anyone who fucked with me got destroyed. Also taught me the principles of MERCY & WRATH. HONOR & COMPASSION. & just how much FORCE to apply, when necessary. Those lessons are forever. Nobody messes with me anymore.
@mynameisreallycool1
3 жыл бұрын
I just hate that victims of bullies are told by adults that they aren't allowed to stand up for themselves in any way that's actually effective, but when you tell an adult or even if there's adult supervision around when they bullying takes place, they don't do anything about it either. I've been bullied in front of teachers and even my own parents. I've told adults about what others were doing. What happened? Nothing. Looking back at my childhood, my one regret is that I didn't get even with my bullies. I just cried, not knowing what to do. As I got older, I would just ignore it, and it still didn't work. If adults can't be trusted to handle the issue in a reasonable manner, the least they can do is allow the victim to take matters into their own hands instead of just giving them unrealistic advice like, "Just tell them to stop." or, "Just smile and walk away." that they know damn well won't actually work. I mean, sometimes pretending you don't care works, but it doesn't work for all bullying situations. They say that victims can't roast the bully back. Victims can't punch back. The victim can't say any mean comebacks to the bully. It doesn't allow victims to act as normal humans, and it allows bullies to continue their assault or harassment. It turns victims into depressed cowards and bullies into bigger bullies as they become adults.
@milenak8138
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. Not getting back on your bully is bullshit. You should be allowed to stand up for yourself, but also that alone is not enough. Even if you beat up your bully, that's only a temporary satisfaction, like Butters said. The most important is becoming a strong person yourself, and that's what the adults (parents, teachers, counselors whatever) should help the victim with. Help with building their sense of self worth and their confidence. Even looking at what in their behaviour makes them a target is important (as awful as it sounds), so they could avoid it. Sad truth is that in most cases there's like zero chances that the bully would understand what they're doing is wrong and stop. It's on the victim to end it. That's what my mom taught me when I was a bullying victim, that's how I ended it, that's how I became a stronger person and that's what I now, as a psychologist teach children who are bullied.
@heathbar5406
3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more kids need kids need to be taught how to stand up for themselves and fight back against bullies
@wolftamerwolfcorp7465
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who doesn’t care to fight, I’ve found not acknowledging to work wonders on bullies, might take a little but when they realize that they aren’t getting the satisfaction they want then they give up. It’s the mindset of “just take it” partnered with a complete lack of emotion, don’t give them some form of satisfaction and they’ll leave you alone.
@edessentials3206
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your pain. I was bullied in high school by the local bully (Malik Jackson Elizabeth High School in New Jersey class of 1990). I didn't know him personally and never talked to or about him. I didn't understand why he felt an urge to bother me. I would stand up to him when he did things but he probably would have hurt me badly if we fought. I was taught by my mother to stand your ground. To make things worse, he was a star athlete in football and basketball, so people liked to see him get physical. I thought it was a punk move, picking on smaller people. Anyone can do that. Why not show your physical abilities with someone clearly stronger than you? He was a bully, but not a stupid one. Eventually we graduated and attended the same university (Rutgers University). We were far enough apart that the bullying did not continue. I publicize his name, because he was not ashamed to bully in public. Have a nice day people.
@TheRedRoseofJujutsuKaisen
3 жыл бұрын
@@edessentials3206 that fucking horrible, I’m sorry that happened to you
@rufusmcgee4383
3 жыл бұрын
"There's always a pain hiding underneath it all." Not always, some people need no underlying reason. I've known plenty of bullies who do it just because they enjoy it.
@syntheticfox_real
3 жыл бұрын
@M M Coming from a school where the graduating class was 32 people and I knew some of these people for 9 years in a small sleepy town, shut up. There are absolutely times where you know their history and can pinpoint it simply on their own narcissism or aloofness. Quit being naive and rationalizing it off as “not knowing their history.”
@plarnston
2 жыл бұрын
@@syntheticfox_real narcissistic personality disorder is literally a disorder caused by estranged relationships with caregivers and levels of neglect. someone with NPD may lash out and seek attention to gain what they never had as children, and to fill the empty void inside them. Do not see narcissism and think of a purely extroverted, eccentric asshole. that's not what it is.
@Terrakinetic
2 жыл бұрын
@@plarnston I thought Narcissism was a biological mental disorder where the person's brain is lacking some kind of capacity to either visualize or care about the well-being of others. Or is that just specifically sociopathy?
@Goabnb94
2 жыл бұрын
One thing I wish children's shows focused on more often. All the time, the bully has a troubled home life or something, and can be redeemed if you try hard enough. While that may be true for some, some bullies are just shitty people who enjoy doing it. There is no cause of it, they aren't suffering elsewhere. They can be befriended, redeemed or trusted. You do sometimes need to cut them out of your life completely where you can.
@atticuskoch2965
2 жыл бұрын
They could just be raised in a way that they don't expect consequences for their actions
@Stardusk.
3 жыл бұрын
"Everything we do revolves around giving love, receiving love, and lacking love." Sounds like a naive simplification to life. I've got one too. Don't be a jerk unless you've got to set the lines people shouldn't cross or cross the lines you normally shouldn't cross. That makes just as much sense.
@typho6279
2 жыл бұрын
I (male) remember being bullied by 3 girls in school. They would force me into the bathroom and push their breasts against my face everyday. It's difficult to deal with the trauma of digging up the past, but it feels good to share.
@catherineblair550
2 жыл бұрын
that must have been horrible
@wolfcola6329
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened.
@samanthalassele4890
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that happened that’s more than bullying.
@MakeItWork256
Жыл бұрын
thats Sexual harassment
@arislekabile
Жыл бұрын
And we say that boys are pricks. I know female pricks too
@ZachBoucher
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love your videos!
@Extremezotako
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@ethanliam4312
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@Helicopter7
3 жыл бұрын
E
@taidakun_ig
3 жыл бұрын
Ayo, Zach!
@despairkidd2109
3 жыл бұрын
Broo I love ur Persona rap, my guy
@annabanana7659
3 жыл бұрын
The worst advice I have ever heard was: 'Ignore them and they'll leave you alone!' Bullies will engage MORE if you don't push back because they think that you're allowing their actions. And not all bullies have a tragic backstory. Hell, my bullies came from privileged homes since I attended a Catholic private school and their parents dote on them. The only thing that made them stop doing and saying heinous things was when the main bully, also a girl, said something about my autistic little brother and I finally punched her in the mouth. Sure I got a spot on my record and was reprimanded by the principal and was forced to apologize (although I know that everyone in that room knows that I don't mean it) to the girl but when I told my parents the root cause of my problems, my parents didn't ground or punish me. Best thing? Those b*tches never went near me again because I can throw a punch. And I found out that punching someone on the mouth really hurts your knuckles.
@RenShinomiya121
3 жыл бұрын
the teeth sinking into your knuckles as you punch them in the face is one of worst pain and the best feeling ever simultaneously.
@Norm475
2 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. The only thing I would add is to keep punching until the fight is broken up and the threat is gone. He who hits first and keeps hitting wins the fight, or at least you have the best chance of winning.
@tabathafenton3587
2 жыл бұрын
facts, mine would throw clay at me and every time I ignored it It kept happening so I punched him in the arm and moved my seat away (ceramics class btw) hasn't bothered me since lol
@theplumscrub1627
2 жыл бұрын
That is a freaking badass story! I’d like to add one thing, not all bullies are hurt, of course, you said it yourself, but I do think if they’ve never been taught empathy and respect for others that that could lead them to such horrible behaviour later on. Especially if they’re never told off when they do something wrong.
@gizel4376
2 жыл бұрын
omg, i never appologized for that, i had to figth so many time, getting rid of every bully, one by one, some of them had to be figth multiple time, but in the end, they all stop and i never apologize
@JDWalker495
2 жыл бұрын
I’d like mention that ARE sociopathic and sadistic people in this world that event necessarily molded by a bad home life and abusive parents. While rare, there are people that simply derive pleasure from abusing the weak. It can be a conscious way of releasing dark emotions
@knyghtmordhaus9170
Жыл бұрын
I was both Bullied and a Bully as a kid. As someone who had anger management issues it made me an easy target for being made fun of and also left me as a prime victim for people to antagonize me. Without a shadow of a doubt, hate just leads to more hate, when you feel like life is being unfair to you, you kind of grow desperate enough to find out how to make it fair for yourself even if it means to be unfair to someone else and that simply should not be the case. I think what truly stopped butters and me from continuing to become a bully is when we both stepped back and analyzed our actions in hindsight (like when he realized how he truly felt after he beat Dr. Oz) he realized that the only thing that separates himself from his grandma is that he can come to terms of how he felt about what he did in the present moment, apologize to those he affected and then put aside his ego and truly vows to change. That's what kind of stops him from become a genuine piece of shit.
@GoTouchSumGrass.
3 жыл бұрын
“Never stop being a good person because of bad people.”
@razuledza5775
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah Thank You 💝
@CindyWu1665
3 жыл бұрын
Kindness is the biggest revenge
@gaussiangirl
3 жыл бұрын
I wish i could have stumbled upon this channel and had seen your comment exactly 5 months ago but it's never too late for me to learn.
@GoTouchSumGrass.
3 жыл бұрын
@@gaussiangirl Best of luck to you! Conquering hatred and forgiving those who cause it is a task even the most composed people struggle with.
@dislike_button33
3 жыл бұрын
@Thomas the comment rater That is incorrect, but yes do your best to be good.
@greentea-vc1ny
3 жыл бұрын
i'm a little late but i kinda want to talk about my experience with bullying. i started getting picked on in school at the start of 3rd grade. i remember being picked on by both boys and girls. i remember comparing myself to other girls in my class and wanting to be them. i thought, "wow she's so pretty, i wish i were her!" or "aw nobody picks on her eveyday at school, i wish i were her". the bullying continued up until 8th grade ( when it actually started affecting me) i was constantly picked on every single day. i was made fun of for every single thing i did. sometimes i wouldn't do anything at all (literally just sitting down and doing my work) and i would get made fun of. this is where i slowly started getting extremely sad to the point where i wanted to self harm. the school did absolutely nothing about it. the kids that would bother me would even slap me. one time when i actually stood up for myself (i tried hitting them back) the teacher got me in trouble for it. i am now about to end my sophomore year and be a junior in a few more months and i have to say that the few months (before quarantine started) i spent as a freshman was the first time in years in which i didn't experience some sort of harassment from other students in school. bullying is a real thing and it's something extremely painful to experience and students that bother others don't even understand how much damage they are causing. i would constantly just laugh it off and act like i didn't care but every insult they would give me was a stab in my heart. if you're reading this and have ever experienced some type of bullying, know that you are not worthless and that there is nothing wrong with you. people just like the feeling of dominance and it's disgusting. you are loved
@ITIsFunnyDamnIT
2 жыл бұрын
I was bullied something fierce all my life. School was Hell, and my parents made me to to Catholic Sunday school where I also got bullied something fierce. The teachers do side with the bullies and laugh with them when they make fun of you. I couldn't even catch a break when I got home. My dad HATED me and always either would go out of his way to make me scared of him ( hitting ) my mom had Munchausen by proxy. She loved always taking me to Dr.s for all the attention and sympathy she got. The Dr.s decided that my getting bullied was all just a figment of my imagination ( as if bullying was so rare it never happened ) so I got put in a psyche hospital labeled as crazy for being depressed because of extreme bullying. All they did at the pysche hospital was give me meds that I had No choice in taking and it made me very fat. My mom being the attention seeker she is, made sure everyone, every kid in school who bullied me knew I was in a mental institution because she needed the attention. When I got released from the private psyche, hospital a year later, every kid at the school now had tons of new stuff to bully me for. Now in addition to being ugly and stupid. I was now also made fun of for being fat and cookoo, crazy stupid, fat, ugly retard weirdo girl. I never grew up to amount to anything. Most of those kids have grown up to be successful or at least living a normal life, married with kids, job etc. Only a few of the really mean bullies went to prison. Adults can be bullies too. I got bullied at school, at church, and at home and in the psyche hospital. You'd think I would grow up to be a success story that proves everyone wrong, but instead I got into drugs, and been in and out of jail. I've managed to stay out of jail for over a decade now. I'm still a total loser, just like everyone including my dad said I would be. I am NOT loved. You shouldn't tell people they are loved because that is a lie. Not everyone is, it's just really hard for most people to imagine not being loved. They absolutely can not imagine that, so they don't believe it and think surely everyone is loved, but everyone isnt. In a fair and perfect world maybe everyone would be loved and matter, but we don't live in a fair or perfect world. Life is extremely cruel to some.
@ChickenMcKicken
2 жыл бұрын
@@ITIsFunnyDamnIT man you must have bad parrents that sucks :( im glad to not be bullied yet. i hope you’re ok now :)
@markotik5598
2 жыл бұрын
That sucks 😕 Bullying totally spoiled my time at school. TBH I hate how nowadays it’s not just at school - people can get to you through social media so even going home is no escape. Social media wasn’t a thing when I was at school in the 90s. Everything changed overnight as soon as I went to Uni but it still gets under my skin when I think back.
@mem1701movies
2 жыл бұрын
@@ITIsFunnyDamnIT I read and understood everything you said. You’re right. This video is way off and the only way to stop a bully is with extreme measures.
@BEATmyguest31
2 жыл бұрын
TL DR
@12397bmw
Жыл бұрын
I was bullied constantly in school because of my epilepsy, and no one did anything to stop it. If I’ve learned anything from this is that the best way to stop bullying is to ignore their verbal abuse and eventually they’ll give up, and if they don’t or they get physical then fight back as allowing yourself to get beat up by them will only invite more bullies.
@spuriouseffect
3 жыл бұрын
My class was different. When someone didn't "get the love they needed", we bullied them. It's amazing how quickly people can learn not to take out their problems on other people.
@Casteray
3 жыл бұрын
I know it's all drama and all but.. i think not caring is better than bullying them.
@spuriouseffect
3 жыл бұрын
@@Casteray Not caring? They're bullies who are abusing people. Unless you show them the error of their ways, they'll continue to bully people.
@Bonobo_JoJo
3 жыл бұрын
The best way to stop a bully is to bully the bully for bullying tbh. I was a football player in HS - varsity all 4 years - so safe to say I was a big dude. I found out one of my teammates was bullying a freshman so I didn’t tell anyone...but I made it my job to put him in the ground every practice. He approached me asking why I went so hard on him and I just told him “some people can’t fight back, so I do it for them. You fix your karma I’ll stop reminding you of it”. Not even 2 days later he told me he understood what I meant and he never gave that kid a hard time again. Sometimes you just have to show a bully how easy it is to be on the other end and they’ll understand what they’re doing is wrong. A simple “stop it” never actually stops it.
@josephsmith6472
2 жыл бұрын
I used to throw fastballs at their heads during batting practice😉
@Teglamen
2 жыл бұрын
lovely 👍🏼
@the-man-who-bites-his-tongue
2 жыл бұрын
...and everyone started clapping.
@epshga
2 жыл бұрын
did everyone clap?
@xeno120
2 жыл бұрын
Respect
@lakshmithesussybaka
3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for butters. He's one of my favourite characters
@limeanade9576
3 жыл бұрын
I feel 🛏️ as well
@ronnickels5193
3 жыл бұрын
Sadly how Butters is treated is fairly accurate. The sweet, innocent people of the world are ground into the dust.
@karinarj5154
3 жыл бұрын
I love him so much !!!!
@leangreen2269
3 жыл бұрын
The thing is, he roasts his grandma in the calmest way possible
@90srapfan37
3 жыл бұрын
@@ronnickels5193 yep, and people will deny this fact to their graves just to make the world seem less shitty than it really is.
@MiraculousMilk
2 жыл бұрын
I have to disagree on what drives humans to do the things that they do. Some people are just evil, and trying to appeal to their emotions of love and betrayal is fruitless. Though for anyone that goes through these things, it’s easier to believe that there’s a reason. It makes it a lot more bearable to know why.
@davidriley8316
2 жыл бұрын
The best way to stop bullying at school, is bashing the living crap out of someone (not the bullying). Proving you are unpredictable. This got me through school. Cause remember, in real life, the dark side always wins.
@lolalitofe2955
Жыл бұрын
Edgy
@versjni
Жыл бұрын
@@lolalitofe2955 He's correct though, be peaceful, not harmless, be capable of doing great damage to others, otherwise you're just weak
@creationisntgood942
Жыл бұрын
@@versjni Said the one with the gigachad profile picture
@princeruby9812
3 жыл бұрын
Cartoons tell a lot more about how our world is than what we learn in educational institutions.... and our parents say cartoons aren't gonna help you in life edit: thanks for so many likes!
@firelightyear
3 жыл бұрын
The “it’s just a cartoon” or “it’s just there for entertainment” statements are not excuses.
@unwithering5313
3 жыл бұрын
*Irony increased to 100*
@fanficdaddy
3 жыл бұрын
Depending on what you're watching, of course 👍🏾
@firelightyear
3 жыл бұрын
@@fanficdaddy Well that can be realistic.
@kungalama234
3 жыл бұрын
@@fanficdaddy and the writers and creators too
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot
3 жыл бұрын
Let us call bullying what it really is. Harassment and assault. Edit: stop trying to justify bad behaviour just because they are kids. Teach them that it is bad instead of doing nothing
@maleahj308
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly been waiting for this comment. Bullies should be in jail
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot
3 жыл бұрын
@@maleahj308 I mean, bullying, aka harrasment and assault, is illegal in the workplace, in the home and everywhere else. Why allow it in schools? Some might argue that "the kids don't know wnay better. Well, teach them instead of preaching in favour of doing nothing then! Maybe not jail (depending on the severity of the situation), but absolutely a more legal punishment for bullies, like compensation, juvenile detention, permanent expelling, losing your job, etc. Oh, and 0 tolerance is BS. That just punishes you if you're a bully victim. Fuck that. Punish the bully, Listen to the victim. I must be tired as I am ranting, but I absolutely love your comment
@bluesolace9052
3 жыл бұрын
Well I mean should a kid get jailed for bullying only once? And what if two kids harass each other, do we jail them both? There could be lessons on why bullying happens once a month or something. Butter’s case is the worst honestly since the person harassing him is a relative he lives with.
@BoopSnootAndTroubleshoot
3 жыл бұрын
@@bluesolace9052 i never mentioned jail. But it is time to stop sugar coating abuse between people, regardless of age. Bullying is just a kind was to say "harassment and Assault" depending on what is going on, and it should be enforced a lot more than just "it is BAD!" Why is it bad? Who does it? Why does one do it? What about the victims? These are question the schools juts brush over, maybe States once or twice, but never really teach.
@jhawkshaw
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly! We shouldn't use the word 'bullying' anymore because it trivialises it.
@glennyates2194
Жыл бұрын
The ironic thing about this South Park episode is that no one has bullied Butters more than Cartman, Kyle, and Stan.
@hobbes3451
2 жыл бұрын
I remember when I picked on this kid in 8th grade and my dad said “you want to fight? well fight someone who will hit back” so I was put into MMA and spent the following 3 years getting beating every other day. I finally became humbled and I feel bad for what I did. The kid I picked on ended up becoming 6 inches taller than me and 60 pounds heavier but he came to me one day senior year and sat by me at lunch and talked. We’ve been friends ever since. Thanks dad
@j9_2005
3 жыл бұрын
Why am I so into these vids where people explain something about a show by looking more deeply into it
@fofinha007723
3 жыл бұрын
Then you have to check out the Channel: The Meaning of NERD criminally underrated🙏🏼
@AmonsRealm
3 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@kakashilover9231
3 жыл бұрын
If you don't know who Sage's Rain is, I suggest checking his youtube out (Sage's Rain) he does similar videos
@RobertMan268
3 жыл бұрын
because you like someone to explain a show deeply.
@EtamirTheDemiDeer
3 жыл бұрын
ONE OF US *ONE OF US*
@Rosa-cr7qc
3 жыл бұрын
When there's 7 hours till the premiere and you are trying to think of something funny
@dyna9255
3 жыл бұрын
we'll find that out in 14 minutes my g
@Alexjandro_Garcia
3 жыл бұрын
It's on btw
@mfbloc9549
3 жыл бұрын
SquidTree
@icel8828
3 жыл бұрын
Haha funny joke
@whatchutalmbout
3 жыл бұрын
When it’s 4 hours after and you still can’t think of anything
@pedrocc2624
2 жыл бұрын
I have no experience on female bullies, but for men, I have some tips that may or may not be opposite fron the video's idea. A - There is no "sad background". That's BS. Everyone has a sad story and problems. So the bully's one is no excuse for being a piece o'shit. Talking will hardly make them change. The only one capable of changing a bully is himself. And this will only happen too late in his life. Or maybe never. B - Bullies are cowards. They want easy prey. That is why they always (and mostly): 1-attack in group 2-attack weaker people 3-use fear as a tool So if you don't show fear (being afraid is ok, but they mustn't know that) and fight back, they may reconsider messing with you again. Don't be an easy prey. You don't have to win fights. Just hurt them too. They are human, they dislike pain. You don't have to bully them too. Just hold your own and cause "defensive pain". C - In case of the classic shitty school system. If you know you'll be punisdepunished for defending yourself or others, then make it worth it. Do a legendary beating. Do a show. You will feel better. Your parents may even feel proud. And I guarantee your bully won't forget it. But remember, stay civil. Avoid weapons and hardcore stuff like that. You only want to defend yourself, not to attract police or be the wrong side. D - This is a VERY special experience I had and everyone should know because it is the most important. Psychos. They exist and they have childhood too. It is a little hard to identify them. But they are highly manipulative and don't like to be disobeyed. They lost control easily and get annoyed fast. Have zero empathy, are intelligent and cruel. For those people, you must STAY AWAY. Don't challenge them because they are very strong, vengeful and may try to KILL YOU. Plus, be very careful, specially with your words. Because they are smart and will use EVERYTHING against you. And if things get too extreme, avoid fighting. Try to get backup, try running away and CALL THE POLICE. Don't relay on school system because they don't know how to deal with it. Tell to you parents or responsible and call the cops. Only an adult and other stronger people can solve this problem for you. It happened to me, the kid tryied to drow me in a pool. But the life-guard interveined. Don't mess with them, but keep an eye on them. Because extreme problems require extreme solutions. And the police is perfect for that.
@genshindinthewrongimpact9846
2 жыл бұрын
Female bullies are just like male bullies except they don't kick you in the ass and go physical. This is coming from someone who's been bullied by the entire class.
@MishaFlower
2 жыл бұрын
What a terrible advice. Don't fight back. Ever. Espicially if they are in groups. You will get your ass kicked and they will target you more often.
@pedrocc2624
2 жыл бұрын
@@MishaFlower I know this is shocking, but I must ask you to read my "essay" again. I'm sure I said at one moment that, sometimes, you should call the police. And for a gang beat like that, resorting to the cops is an excellent choice.
@MasterGhostf
Жыл бұрын
@@MishaFlower police is the best because schools don't like when police gets involved.
@kkampy4052
3 жыл бұрын
Poor ol butters. His best friend cartman, hates him. His dad is a total ahole, and most of the kids don't like him. But he is still optimistic. SP is the best social criticism out there.
@coolcatjack7169
3 жыл бұрын
I know right! Butters is one of the few people in South Park that you could actually like if he was a real person.
@supertails0246
3 жыл бұрын
And one of the two people who liked and hanged out with butters is dead
@SmumplytheF2P
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I want an episode when Cartman actually switches parents with Butters.
@felicityarnett4495
2 жыл бұрын
Didn't his dad even sell him in that one episode
@kkampy4052
2 жыл бұрын
@@felicityarnett4495 Yes, to Paris Hilton.
@1Gam
3 жыл бұрын
I was a bully without even realizing it. There was a girl that always tormented my little cousin so Each day I'd make fun of her, call her rude names until my cousin made me realize what I was doing, I thought I was helping her.
@trezjusttrez1368
3 жыл бұрын
I say the girl who was bullying your cousin was more in the wrong
@samiam7327
3 жыл бұрын
You weren’t a bully, you were just doing what was right.
@piemaniac9410
3 жыл бұрын
@@samiam7327 I don't see how having someone higher up on the food chain picking on you would make you stop bullying people, if anything it would reinforce the abusive behavior by proving that you should torment people who are weaker than you to get your way.
@samiam7327
3 жыл бұрын
@@piemaniac9410 I can’t argue with that
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
Nah, you just gave her the karma she deserved.
@nevaehhamilton3493
Жыл бұрын
It feels good to wish for the worst things upon our bullies and abusers. It hurts a lot, but it's so addictive. The temporary happiness we feel when karma falls upon them. It's like a drug.
@Demonetization_Symbol
Жыл бұрын
Then what's the better solution?
@creationisntgood942
Жыл бұрын
@@Demonetization_Symbol Making them suffer in ways Lucifer could not begin to comprehend.
@easeup6968
Жыл бұрын
"The best revenge is to not end up like your enemy." -Marcus Aurelius
@Septic-Hearts
3 жыл бұрын
The episode also points out that adults can be bullies too, sometimes they feel threatened and insecure by younger generations and instead of acting in a mature way, taking responsibility or understanding that we're *supposed* to want future generations to have an easier and generally healthier time with life, they simply take it out on them. I've found this has been the case with some teachers, I'm fortunate in that most of my own are reasonable people, if anything most of them have come to respect me despite however old I was in that I'm a person with feelings and opinions, they actually cared and even asked about them. But then there's the bad ones that say horrible things to students, humiliate and shift blame on them and manipulate other students into targeting one in particular. That's just not healthy and they're the main reason why I think that some people legally shouldn't be allowed to have kids. Emotional/mental abuse is still abuse.
@jujueyeballs
3 жыл бұрын
i agree cuz i have seen it myself. my teacher senior year of highschool actively bullied me: calling me out in the middle of class for no friggin reason just to drag me and even going as far as to email the principal and say she didn't want me in her class. i dropped the class p quickly. thing is i never did anything to set the teacher off? ima p good kid who just wants to do my best. worst part was even the freshman bullied me in that class and it was because they wanted to suck up to the teacher. adults can 100% be bullies and i too think south park did a great job on this one.
@PolarDoc22
3 жыл бұрын
“Threatened” isnt a real thing. Start paying attention instead of regurgitating he exact same things those teachers you mentioned would say.
@jasonvoorheescampblood
2 жыл бұрын
@@PolarDoc22 It is a real thing. Saying it isnt is stupid
@sweetpotatoes9882
2 жыл бұрын
Every teacher is like that in my school .
@PaladinMika
3 жыл бұрын
because of Butters, I love calmly telling old people who cut in lines: "eh, you'll die soon, go in front so you don't miss your funeral"
@Liam-xt5hy
3 жыл бұрын
that's kinda fucked to say that to someone just cause they cut in line
@honjon666
3 жыл бұрын
Today on things that never happened
@PolarDoc22
3 жыл бұрын
@@honjon666 right? How often does that happen? Is he in Anti-Florida?
@naturalLog26
2 жыл бұрын
@FeO2 FeS no not at all lol
@Ceciliaqq
2 жыл бұрын
satan is a big fan
@nataliapola8836
2 жыл бұрын
I 'm 36 & will never forget my first bully. I knew her when I was around 10 when we were in class together. At school she was okay with me without any issues. Than we had summer camp together, started bullying me all of a sudden. At the park she demanded me to get off the swing. I refused. She pushed me off the swing. She called me names & constantly fat shamed me. I still remember it like yesterday. I was overweight at the time. Now that I think about it, she just started bullying me out of nowhere, could of something tragic just happened to her? How hurt was she?
@LunaMinuna
2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad i sat and watched this video. I'm not a bully(I used to be one) but all the anger I get from not being able to control what's about me sometimes gets unleashed to people that don't deserve it or who broke the already collapsing bridge.
@adriancarballoza6149
3 жыл бұрын
When I was in the 5th grade, my mom got word that I was being bullied, so she took me to a judo gym so I could learn how to defend myself, after all that practice, I developed courage, I wasn't afraid of others, and now I'm confident that no matter what happens, I can hold my own in a fight if need be. Being a cowards isn't a bad thing, staying a coward is.
@loop7280
3 жыл бұрын
Not everyone is the karate kid
@TheMichaelMonroeDoctrine
3 жыл бұрын
You going to judo chop your gran?
@SemenSlurry
3 жыл бұрын
Ok so it's the kid that's being bullied fault?that's so dumb some people cant defend themselves because of conditions it's better to tell an authoritative figure that'll stop them.
@havesomegratitude
3 жыл бұрын
@@SemenSlurry I think you should give people the benefit of the doubt, just because somebody has a disability doesn't mean they can't learn some form of self defence. It is not particularly helpful to a child to just tell an adult because in most situations the adults will not actually prevent the bully from bullying in the future. Plus martial arts do give you confidence which is always a good thing
@CaoscapeRevival
3 жыл бұрын
@@SemenSlurry in life, real life, people are born into worse situations than others. People have to work harder than others because that’s the hand they were given
@goopher8407
3 жыл бұрын
This show is so genius. The way they expose the hypocrisies of society, how people can be shitty without realizing because they're going through a lot, or why certain things are done is just beautiful. Not only that, the show is just hilarious. It doesn't use cutaways to form one, they just go with the story and have the main characters act like normal people. Such a good show that I don't think enough people are into.
@52Brickz-278
3 жыл бұрын
This is why south park is a good show it explores the world of kids and takes them seriously!
@pikachu-uk1bg
2 жыл бұрын
Ah yes...I wasn't really bullied until, and I don't believe it either, college. I had someone ask me and the start of every class *Every. Single. Day* one thing. I stood up for myself to report the issue and it was handled. Then, some time later someone else from a different direction (like...I would study to be in the IT, the other person would study to be going to urban design) got my discord tag, added me and I saw they had my IRL face set as thier PFP. I requested them to take it off and the first thing they sent to me was the same thing the bully said. Literally bieng bullied to even torment. I hated that... but I was satisfied when I heard that they found the one behind the account and warned them firmly, as any offense meant they'd be expelled.
@squintohighlights
Жыл бұрын
What did they say?
@pikachu-uk1bg
Жыл бұрын
@I POST HIGHLIGHTS essentially, they asked me to a dance from a game I don't even have interest in (bieng fortnite, with the dance bieng "The hype") At first I simply gave a calm no. Asked a few times more and I asked why I should, as I didn't see any reason to. It honestly felt to me like I was bieng tormented
@dariusthurman8835
3 жыл бұрын
Bullying is about dominance, its not that bullies have trauma that they are acting on; they do it because they think they can get away with it.
@cortster12
3 жыл бұрын
I've noticed most bullies do it because they don't realize they're doing it. Sure, there are the vindictive ones who know they're scum, but then you have the 'regular' kids. The ones who look at the weird kids, and talk behind their backs. The ones who simply don't realize the emotional pain they cause people through gossip. The ones who call people names, and claim they're 'just playing'. I've noticed a lot of people who claim to be against bullying... also fell under this kind of 'soft' bully moniker. And they don't even realize.
@Foxxie0kun
3 жыл бұрын
That's an overly simplistic view of things. Dominance may play a part, alongside power, but there's a LOT of unconscious bullying that takes place. Stan was bullying Butters into participating in the Anti-Bullying campaign. "Do you just wanna get bullied your whole life, Butters?" is in and of itself a malicious use of linguistic bullying, designed to intimidate Butters into simply doing what Stan tells him. Manipulation and coercion are both forms of bullying. Even if Stan's intentions stayed about helping Butters rather than turning a profit, he was still bullying Butters into doing something Butters felt was unsafe or detrimental to his own wellness.
@Sercil00
3 жыл бұрын
@@cortster12 I can attest to that. Aside from being a victim myself, there was a girl who got the worst of it. She didn't socialize with anyone. It didn't seem to hurt her at all when people said the nastiest things about her, while she could hear it. She was probably told to "just ignore them". The worst advice I've ever fallen for. It seemed like she literally couldn't hear or mentally process any of it. It felt wrong. So bullies tried harder to get a reaction out of her. I couldn't empathize with so much indifference from her, either. Nor could I really talk to her, because I had no clue what she was thinking about. Funny enough, I almost definitely looked the same way from the outside. There was ONE time I had a burst of anger and shouted right in their faces in front of everyone, and those guys were much friendlier to me afterwards.
@trashmix2184
3 жыл бұрын
And they get away Scott free because of the school systems and "common sense"
@conors4430
3 жыл бұрын
For me it was both, I was miserable in other parts of my life, one little part of my world I was the oldest and strongest, so I did it because I could because I was unhappy. Some people are just one-dimensional jerks, and for others there is more going on. Doesn’t make it any less of a jerk move, but not all things are simple, no matter how much we want them to be.
@MarceloZ2
3 жыл бұрын
When I was in fourth grade of middle school, the teacher bullied me in front of the whole class consistently throughout that year. She picked quite hard on me, making fun of my myopia, of my haircut, of the way I talked, she even made fun of the size of my nails (and they weren't even long, back then I cut them every week). She also like to ask the class questions like "so, do you guys want me to teach next year too?" because she knew I would answer "no" and she would use that to humiliate me in front of the class. She would even *stop class* if I had any questions about the subject, and treat me like a baby while explaining again, whilst she just explained again normally if anyone else asked. Once, in the lunch break, she grabbed me and said that if I told anyone about the things she did to me, she would've give me 0 in every test for the rest of the year. I ignored it and remember telling my parents about it and some day they went to my school to report it to the principal. Then, later that morning, both me and the teacher were called to the principal's room. I cannot describe the sheer amount of fear I felt when inside of the principal's rolm with her, my parents and the principal. I knew very well that I could've gotten her fired right there, and eventually, I got the word. The teacher's job was in my hands in that moment. But then, I made the mistake of looking at her eyes. I simply cannot describe how intimidated I felt, she looked at me silently, with what I can only describe as murderous intent... And I busted the call. I denied to the principal everything I said to my parents, feeling what was the most amount of fear child me has ever felt in his entire life at that point. And in the next day... It only became worse. In my school, there weren't marked seats, but she marked mine right at the front of her desk. And thankfully she didn't fulfilled her promise of giving me 0. I changed school fifth grade and onwards and the situation thankfully changed, but I still remember being called a piece of shit by this teacher when I didn't quite grasped the concept of fractions in math, or being called a monkey when I accidentally dropped my pen during an exam and it made a loud sound when it fell.
@Lily-gz3ip
2 жыл бұрын
but ur monkey d luffy!
@Harkz0r
2 жыл бұрын
Yet more proof that some people do not belong anywhere near education and do not deserve to work there. I'm sorry you had to experience that, and I hope you took away the lesson that, if ever something similar happens in the future, you pull the damn trigger. Fuck people like her, seriously. It's bad enough people do that shit to adults, let alone children.
@neonzplayz5060
2 жыл бұрын
Why the heck did you bust the call!?
@MarceloZ2
2 жыл бұрын
@@neonzplayz5060 I was a 9 year old dumb kid who was terrified of the look the mean teacher who bullied me for two whole years gave me whe I had her job in my hands. Looking back, I really wish I had the courage, but at the moment I was sweating cold and absolutely terrified.
@caramel9154
2 жыл бұрын
holy shit man
@kickassssnation027
2 жыл бұрын
I had a bully when I was a kid. He grew up working overseas while I grew up as a doctor in our homeland, a pediatrician to be exact, he was toiling on a different land where he was not surrounded by people that cherish him. A few days ago, he had asked me to help his nephew who is kind of like a son to him, he says. He could have asked another batchmate that was also a doctor but she denied him of that help. I don't know why and I don't have the answer as to what her reasons were, but when he turned to me I just didn't know what to expect. I had arranged everything for his nephew's transfer and talked to my colleagues to help. He cried on the phone and thanked me for what I did. It was here that I realized that the best revenge is a life that is worth living and when they turned for help, when you notice that desperation, you don't see monsters, you see people crying. I have had grudges held against him so much in the past but after 15 years of not seeing him and getting away from a shitty school, those grudges disappeared. Far be it for me to forgive his actions, but letting go was an even more satisfying way to end those charades. I'm living my dream and I don't have to care, but when they come around and need help, I accepted it without question.
@TNTspaz
3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately there is a lot of stories of people fighting back and that being the only way it stops. Some bullies don't care if you are ignoring them, especially if they view you as a punching bag as is.
@SocialLocust
3 жыл бұрын
Lets not get too swept up in the sympathy for bullies. They get enough of that already and that is part of the problem. Bully victims constantly get forced to apologize to their bullies and also get told that if they stand up for themselves or refuse to apologize that they are "just as bad as the bullies", which is not true. Being "sad inside" isn't an excuse to be a bully.
@svetlana4121
Жыл бұрын
right
@thedarkheartgacha1456
Жыл бұрын
Bullies do not deserve sympathy at all
@hmunthatongsin2976
3 жыл бұрын
Bully's according to different part of the world Western media: the bully is poor have family issues and is living in a very bad situation Eastern media: bully is super rich perfect in every way while the victim is the opposite Indian bully: Mother in law
@mikoi7472
3 жыл бұрын
Eastern mentality tends to be a lot more correct in the more taboo areas of western views. Our liberal worldview has basically made it so we ignore a lot of the issues and try to look for more Freudian type of things rather than simpler answers being human nature.
@hmunthatongsin2976
3 жыл бұрын
@@mikoi7472 you young man used so much complex word I don't understand idk what to say
@theblocksays
3 жыл бұрын
Steven King movie: Potential serial killer, on top of a supernatural monster on the loose.
@hmunthatongsin2976
3 жыл бұрын
@Yes lmao 🤣
@thiccredgyal3404
3 жыл бұрын
@@hmunthatongsin2976 That's why I'm always afraid of meeting a guy's mom
@brandonjohnson9275
3 жыл бұрын
Forgot the part where standing up for yourself had a good chance of making the bully switch targets cause a bully picks the weakest person to bully, gives you the confidence to do it sooner next time to prevent it from happening, gives you the knowledge you aren’t a coward and gives you a mental break so you can let go of the emotions. Also the sooner you stand up for yourself the less aggressive you need to be to prevent it, either verbally or physically.
@soonny002
3 жыл бұрын
Here's the thing: Whether if it's bullying, sexual harassment, or any kind of intimidation, the root cause of it usually revolves around the need for POWER. The video makes a point by saying the best way to combat a bully is not to let them stop you from smiling or living your life, but it doesn't say how. Bullies feel extremely small and insecure on the inside. Hence, they bully others to feel superior about themselves while projecting their own sense of insecurities and fear onto others. They crave control, authority or autonomy, and above all, respect and admiration. Perhaps they do not feel like they have these things. I know it is hard, but do not fear them. Do whatever you need to do to protect yourself and minimize the physical harm they do to you. But when the time is right, point out to them that they are bullies, and that you feel sorry for them that they have to bully others to feel good about themselves. Point out to them how small they truly are. And note this: Bullies rarely if ever apologize (other than in fiction). They only move from one victim to another depending on their circumstances. Children have a very unsophisticated way of bullying, whereby adults have more nuanced and subtle ways to coerce and intimidate. You will know what I mean when you start working in a large organization where some people will bully others. They don't see themselves as bullies, they only see themselves as 'assertive' or 'confident' when everybody knows they are bullies.
@koohletit1453
3 жыл бұрын
But how do you actually feel those things, powerful feelings without the need for bullying someone? Like nobody ever tells you that too
@soonny002
3 жыл бұрын
@@koohletit1453 That's a great question. Think of life as a video game and everything you do earns you a little reward, provided if you played by the rules. For example, beating the final boss earns you a medal, or collecting a number of rare items in the game rewards you with a special sword. Video games are so attractive to players because it gives them a sense of control, and that is where their sense of power comes from. The same applies to real life as well. Instead of beating the final boss, you might aim to finish top 10 in a marathon instead, or become top of your class. These things make people feel confident hence powerful. Bullies do the same except instead of 'beating the final boss', they beat everyone else up, and their opponents are usually weaker than them. The power that comes from beating a meaningful challenge validates our strengths and talents, and that's why we often don't feel the need to defeat the same final boss twice since we already know we can do it. The power that a bully derives from beating up people weaker than them actually makes them feel smaller and more insignificant, therefore they keep picking on the same person(s) because they can't get the validation they so desperately crave. It is like whacking a broken vending machine repeatedly hoping to get their money back. The bully feels happy in that instant of terrorizing others, but they return to a meagre existence afterwards. Those who 'beat the final boss' will feel a different kind of satisfaction that nobody can take from them. This is the core difference between a bully and someone who is secure in themselves.
@tahraethestoryteller6079
3 жыл бұрын
This seems more like child abuse than bullying
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
They're the same thing.
@thehermit761
3 жыл бұрын
Its the same thing abuse is abuse, victimisation is victimisation and needs to stop, however humanity is secretly evil and always sticks up for the bully. This whole world is all about hierarchy and dominance.
@thehermit761
3 жыл бұрын
@Gray El entrenador Pokémon I guess you have a point, however you cannot deny that the so called "norm" favours the high dominant individual all time. Bear in mind the military is one of the industry's that the psychopaths target.
@thehermit761
3 жыл бұрын
@Gray El entrenador Pokémon wow it goes to show how naïve you are about the world around you. How old are you? out of curiosity.
@krauser9517
3 жыл бұрын
I had a bully, he kept harassing me for years until I decided to stop that. He punched me in the face one day and I simply fought back... I left him blind in one eye.
@ho1832
3 жыл бұрын
Bet you feel good about yourself after ruining someones life, I bet you do, huh?
@capsuled1375
3 жыл бұрын
@@ho1832 he deserved it
@entropino9928
3 жыл бұрын
@@ho1832 If the aggressor ceased hostilities, it might have been something he should have done sooner. It is not like the lives of enemies have value, they should cease hostilities or be eliminated.
@Kirikirikiru
3 жыл бұрын
@Ho stfu bro he deserved it, bullies ruin people’s lives too and it’s people like you who encourage them to keep getting off to harassment and abuse on a repeating basis.
@AlastorAltruistGaming
3 жыл бұрын
@@ho1832 just goes to show you don’t give a flying fart about the downtrodden, the bullied! You care more for the bully than you do the guy receiving pain & punishment for no reason! I pray that God tells you how awful you are & that He changes your heart!
@dwarf9938
2 жыл бұрын
"Just be positive and be happy!" works up until the moment the bully brings a concealed weapon to the school thinking it will be "a funne prank lmao"
@dramaking9559
Жыл бұрын
Someone's backstory can be sad but there's a limit to what they can do. If you treat someone like shit just because you were treated like shit especially to someone who's done nothing wrong then the bully deserves no such sympathy what so ever. It is always sad to hear someone was abused and neglected but the moment you become the very thing that hurt you, you no longer have a right to be a victim because at that point you just created a new cycle of violence and new victims
@Pooper
3 жыл бұрын
Is this the “make bullying kill itself” episode by any chance?
@mitchfletcher2386
3 жыл бұрын
@@constantconstant8943 I remember this episode!
@xxtokyoxx8394
3 жыл бұрын
@@constantconstant8943 wait, I thought this was the same episode.
@goober175
3 жыл бұрын
yes
@MrAtroncoso
3 жыл бұрын
Butterballs
@YumegakaMurakumo
3 жыл бұрын
Yup. "Let's make bullying kill itself" 🎵 🎶 😂 Just that line is Classic Trey Parker and Matt Stone
@FemmeinBloom
3 жыл бұрын
Do not sympathize with abusive bullies, they don’t deserve your love or compassion. Their inner turmoil, is already a death sentence; let them self destruct & rot in the same hell, they’ve spewed into this world.
@daddy8518
3 жыл бұрын
yep.
@alisondye7372
3 жыл бұрын
I think it depends on the bully. Some are just mean and some have a tragic backstory
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
@@alisondye7372 Yes but you have to think if what they're telling is the truth or not.
@FemmeinBloom
3 жыл бұрын
@@alisondye7372 and neither, deserve sympathy. A crappy childhood is no excuse to become a toxic adult. Are we supposed to tolerate their trauma, because mommy dearest didn’t hug them enough? Hell No. Not to mention, being too understanding of people’s issues, is how good folks end up attracting Narcissists. Which is an entirely different kind of Devil.
@durratulaishah3703
3 жыл бұрын
(Ngl, you have thinking a same thing just like me)
@loserwithapc3664
2 жыл бұрын
3:55 i think that this scene show a lot about our society, whether it's the camera and audio equipment being point at the child victimising him and undermining the whole situation by making it all about one person or the sign in the background saying "make bulling kill itself" which in a way is part of bullying, this scene shows the herd mentality of humans and how we interact with everyday things which in this case is bullying, everyone jumps in with support without realising that they are the problem, creating a bigger and potentially worse problem with before
@nadiah3664
3 жыл бұрын
I watched your video and as a person, who has been mercilessly bullied from day one of kindergarden, I dont think that every bully is hiding emotional pain inside. To me it felt like most bullies just enjoy the bullying for the fun of it. Also, not every person, who experiences shit will end up as a bully. Some people do, some not. Its pretty individual. To sum it up, the video felt a bit two dimensional because of the above mentioned points. But of course some of the raised points were pretty accurate and spot on.
@starredcosmos
3 жыл бұрын
And people say that South Park doesn’t have good lessons or messages
@Georgeous42
3 жыл бұрын
South Park taught me more life-lessons than my parents and school combined
@isabelerhart9523
3 жыл бұрын
@@Georgeous42 I agree!! You're getting old and Raisins especially.
@raungelmarlance8208
3 жыл бұрын
Those haters of south park is also fan of goofy and retard simpsons. They don't know what are some lessons of south park that has an impact to us
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
To be honest some of the messages aren't really that good. Like how in one episode where Lincoln talked to Kyle about how ugly people eventually become more successful in life and how popular kids become jerks because they don't have to put in all the effort to make something out of themselves when in reality more popular kids are way more successful than ugly people. I'm sorry but it's the truth🤷♀️
@starredcosmos
3 жыл бұрын
@@Noname-fb1mm i didn’t say or intentionally imply all of the south park episodes have good messages. i meant that a good handful of south park episodes have good messages, and that not EVERY episode is negative and sending mixed messages.
@Fayanora
3 жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the myth that bullies are secretly hurting on the inside or something. Sometimes that's true. Mostly it's not. Most bullies are just cruel because they get off on being cruel.
@mikoi7472
3 жыл бұрын
No. While yes it is a myth that bullies are a victim themselves, it isn't some vindictive cruelty, it's just a tool to climb the social ladder.
@TerranPersoid725
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. One can exhaust themselves for the rest of their life trying to find the “good” and “hurting” in others when it just isn’t there.
@fuav66777j
3 жыл бұрын
If it’s sometimes true, then it’s not a MYTH genius.
@mikoi7472
3 жыл бұрын
@@fuav66777j Studies have shown that only about 10% of "bullies" fall under this category. The Myth is that it applies to a large amount or even most/all bullies. I get you're probably emotionally charged on this issue but some of us use research and others use emotions.
@Fayanora
3 жыл бұрын
@@fuav66777j It's a myth because the way it's worded is all bullies are like that. Most of them are not. In fact I daresay 99.9999% of bullies are simply mean. The presence of a few outliers does not make it not a myth.
@smartassmarties4747
2 жыл бұрын
If you don't want to be bullied you have too fight back, simple but hard
@melovil9199
Жыл бұрын
butters is made out of gold, best character ever i dearly look up to him
@nhernandez925
3 жыл бұрын
Growing up my parents told me several times that I cannot control someone’s actions. Told me I might get bullied at some point of my life so I need to learn how to stand up for myself and put me in a self defense class. I was bullied at some point and thankfully I knew what to do and responded appropriately. That bully never bothered me. Parents need to teach their kids how to stand up for themselves and for others. We need to be strong not weak.
@MrCmon113
3 жыл бұрын
You can't karate-chop yourself out of being systematically excluded. Martial arts misses the point entirely.
@iMThatOnlyBeast13
3 жыл бұрын
These South Park videos are really good and show one of the many things the show does right
@tahaa.
3 жыл бұрын
💯 Agree
@Gonzo7HC
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@mikoi7472
3 жыл бұрын
But this entire video is wrong and actually goes to justify these behaviors more.
@Gonzo7HC
3 жыл бұрын
@@mikoi7472 the commenter is rich
@mikoi7472
3 жыл бұрын
@@Gonzo7HC who
@showcer3101
3 жыл бұрын
I love how he was occasionally showing screenshots of trolls hating on him
@moparftw978
3 жыл бұрын
Start boxing or doing Muay Thai or bjj , that’s the best way to gain confidence in yourself and be able to walk a little bit taller, can’t get bullied when the bullies know you’re not going to be a victim
@lilisofia906
3 жыл бұрын
I had an old friend back in middle school that I was really close to for a while. He started spreading rumors about me constantly, and when I confronted him, he made it seem like I did something to deserve it. He was awful, even gaining a police record for giving a death threat to an autistic kid. After that kid switched schools, he started mocking me for the way I fidgeted, spreading more rumors, and cussing at me daily. He never got in trouble because of something awful that happened to him the year before (trauma doesn’t give you a free pass), and even made my other close guy friend ditch me and join him in his cruel tirade of daily insults. Being someone who suffers with extreme social anxiety, I felt awful that some of my only friends turned on me. I still only have a few close friends, and i might be okay now, but i haven’t trusted many people since. Although I knew he was a dumb kid who only spoke in dead spongebob memes, a part of me was shattered by his manipulative behavior.
@marcohidalgo1101
3 жыл бұрын
That wasn't a friend. That was a bully pretending to be your friend. Trust me, I've been there too.
@thunderblitz9832
3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry someday somewhere, he will get what's coming to him. It might not be tomorrow or the next day after or even a few years from now, but he'll reap what he has sown.
@DaHomieRiz
3 жыл бұрын
Even Cartman who is supposed to be the most offensive character in the show has a reason for why he acts the way he does which was revealed in Season 10, Episode 7 and it's because of his mother's awful parenting.
@tch6831
3 жыл бұрын
@Aiden Hafer And using Kenny's illness to kill 1000 unborn babies to make a resturant.
@Rigatoni.c
3 жыл бұрын
@@tch6831 Jesus, that episode...
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
He doesn't have a backstory. He just does it for fun. Liane Cartman just wants a friend since she's lonely, so she tries to treat Cartman like a friend, but it doesn't work. It's not her fault.
@eltiospike7672
3 жыл бұрын
Ahahha no. Cartman is just a psychopath, don't overthink it too much
@Noname-fb1mm
3 жыл бұрын
@@eltiospike7672 *Sociopath
@Kblmquist
2 жыл бұрын
My mother was my bully. I stopped talking to her 10 yrs ago when she hit my son. I’ve done a lot of therapy in those 10 yrs and she passed this June alone because all her children cut contact because of the abuse. I have 3 wonderful children who I adore and who love me back. I have a career in healthcare helping others. And I have a hobby playing guitar and bass in a band. My life is full and that’s all I could ask for. To those going through what I’ve been through the biggest thing that helped me was realizing it’s not my fault. So please know it’s really not your fault. And I hope you can find your way to a happy life like I have found my way to a happy fulfilling live.
@Fergusonhelper225
Жыл бұрын
Glad your doing better dude
@angrymongoose1
3 жыл бұрын
You did make very good points, and I want to say I do appreciate you for posting this with your views on the matter.
@nikkigallagher163
3 жыл бұрын
“Every bully has a backstory” doesn’t mean “try to understand where they’re coming from”. It just means there’s a multitude of reasons why people are bullies. Mental illness, bad parenting (you can throw racism under this most of the time since parents tend to teach this), jealousy, low self-esteem, misplaced anger/jealousy (eg taking negative feelings about a new sibling out on a classmate), drug use, and occasionally just being born a sociopath
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