What has your experience have been with hypersensitivity?
@tommoss43
2 жыл бұрын
One of the up sides of hypersensitivity is connoisseurship, the uncommon ability to perceive complexity and flavor in wine, coffee, food etc. Things like abstract painting and elegantly executed engineering. Some days being an infj sucks, others, it really, really doesn’t.
@DearYoungerSelf111
2 жыл бұрын
My experience with hypersensitivity - overall I realized that I have at times absorbed others negative emotions and reacted to them as my own - but realizing - "I'm not angry right now - such and such is" - Being an emparh and HSP - Thank God I now know , that I must 1. Learn what I'm feeling and stay tapped into that- and 2. Understand that at times I am absorbing and reacting to feelings that are not my own. Thanks for the video Wenzes
@simovtransportmedia1137
2 жыл бұрын
A question as old as the INFJs themselfs. My situation look's like this. I have friends whit whom I have totaly perfect relation's, but when it come's to people who come to me for help I begin to feel like this person can fill what I feel like the biggest hole in my soul and what happen's next one-sided relationship and doorslam at the end and then after some time I begin to think did I make it right, could it be other way now. Yes of course it can be done differently. I am pretty much asking my self what will be if an INFJ find's his/her dream partner in life. Could this make less one-sided relationships or not? I mean that we always looking for that perfect one for us. Could the descovery of this person stop an INFJ from fall into one-sided relationships.
@lindateuling7862
2 жыл бұрын
@@DearYoungerSelf111 Hey, Brittany! This is good, rational sense. 🙂
@TheParez
2 жыл бұрын
@@tommoss43 Yeah, definitely. It "kinda" tries to balance things around but actually it doesn't. Rest of the effort has to come from ourselves so that we don't burn out.
@interludemediasg
2 жыл бұрын
we really mean it when we say “we see people.”
@lorraine8962
2 жыл бұрын
I’m no longer tolerating neg energy from relatives that I’ve been exposed to for years. The projecting and dumping. I finally called someone out, and she flipped out, screaming and yelling in my face. Pointing her finger in my face. Trying to get me to join her shame party. Living in the past. I refused to participate and that made her even more angry. I’m not letting people unload their stuff on me anymore. I’m healing. They don’t listen and still have the same problems without an effort to get better. And I believe they are jealous because I’ve moved up and on. I’m a glass is overflowing type of person and it triggers them. I’ve healed my childhood trauma and they are stuck. I’m trying to be an example and they are constantly rejecting of my ideas. But I’m the one who comes to check on them, not the other way around. Thanks for letting me vent.
@feiwaan
2 жыл бұрын
My hypersensitivity has made me develop trust issues and the decision of being on my own. I also observed that unconsciously I don't expect friendship or a relationship with someone else. It takes me a while to realise that that person has been displaying weird traits because they like me or want to be around me. To them they want friendship, to me it's just another passing moment with someone else, and am distracted by the next thing to do on my mental to do list. My hypersensitivity has also made me careful and conscious about the way people feel. Or would feel. But then, it has made me defensive in the past years when I used to be in toxic circles.... Anyways all of these I write, is before watching the video. Back to the video
@TheParez
2 жыл бұрын
I unfortunately kinda still feel like this but I have started to heal again so I can stop overthinking too much and just focus in the moment more when meeting others. You can do it, it just takes time for each and everyone of us, the time it will take is up to you. Remember, you control it, nobody else. I wish you all the best and good spooktober (if you are into that kind of things :P)
@joshuastark7426
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always been able to read people’s emotions very well. If someone walks into a room, I can almost always pick up if something is out of the ordinary. I took a personality test early this year and said I was a “INFJ-A”. I found it remarkably accurate, almost uncanny, so now I’m trying to learn more about this personality type.
@brotherpaulbrake656
Жыл бұрын
Any time the room is full of people with the same immediate goal as you have, it can be a supercharge to draw on their emotions. Gyms, churches etc. Your best workout will be in a gym full of competitive lifters and bodybuilders. But, you will know how serious your room is, because when you open yourself up to it, you will instantly feel whether the people are goal oriented, or wasting time there. A lackluster room will drain you fast. When you are preaching to a crowd that is pulling on the Word, it is amazing. When they are against what you are bringing, even one guy in the room, you will feel that too. The battle can be rough. The other thing about helping people, is that they have to first acknowledge that they have a problem. Alcoholics Anonymous stresses this fact. If they think they are just fine, then they will take your attempts to help them as an insult and an unwelcomed intrusion. You will be a back seat driver to them. But when they do come for help, it is amazing how much help the empath can be. I have had grown men in tears in my office, and by the time they left, they were new people.
@davidbigd9047
2 жыл бұрын
I definitely set up my strict boundaries for who I let in my circle back in 2003 when my “friends” left me for being American. When I help others, I don’t expect a gift or reward as “gift giving” isn’t part of my love languages as an INFJ.
@lindateuling7862
2 жыл бұрын
This was definitely the story of my life for a long time. As time went by, I began to work out ways to make myself less vulnerable to this whole dynamic. Much of what I did was similar in both theory and practice to what you shared here, but these were my pre-myers-Briggs days. Listening to you was good confirmation that I did make a lot of correct decisions! 🙂 As time goes on, I'm much less vulnerable to this, but it doesn't hurt to be vigilant - through wiser choices of attitude and actions.
@mykulpierce
2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Definitely feel like I put a ton of energy into those I want to be close to and end up not getting the feedback I expected/wanted. Sometimes I feel like I can be overwhelming to people and that ends up getting me opposite results. Dialing things back sometimes gets better results.
@lynnroots7556
2 жыл бұрын
This will lead to HEALTH !!!!! With the work required !
@vickie6662
2 жыл бұрын
You're very wise for your age. I wish I'd known all you teach when I was your age. Thanks for sharing.
@jf8468
2 жыл бұрын
I love these vids paired with the other self help vids. People who have the tools you got teach you how to use them to do you better.
@DanielleAbigail
2 жыл бұрын
It feels goooooood to say hahaha I have completely STOPPED working for free!
@johno9921XC
2 жыл бұрын
@6:34 Is what I'm working toward now. When I get there, the satisfaction of being able to help others improve their lives will be worth the effort.
@kgrayston
2 жыл бұрын
Do you have any thoughts about how this concept plays out as a parent of little kids? Some level of being able to protect yourself from having all your empathy used up and focused onto your children’s feelings in a way that seems kind of co-dependent in an unhealthy way?
@MimiBigCat
Жыл бұрын
Very good, I'll have to be very conscious of this tendency to reverse the situation , so counterintuitive!
@annadw6086
2 жыл бұрын
You say people learn by what your doing not what your saying- and mostly that rings true - there are always exceptions to the rule like My granddaughter sees her grandparents working hard - she hasn’t leant from our actions - so learning from example doesn’t always work -
@lucid2184
2 жыл бұрын
L😍VE this information!! Thank you Wenzes!!!
@ritaora3426
2 жыл бұрын
Hey wenzes I love the content you make 💜but if you would only shorten your videos 5 min 3min you will gain alot of views tbh most ppl find it hard to open a video of 11min and over💜💜keep the great work
@gaborendredi8161
2 жыл бұрын
Hi! Thank you for the videos you made. I have been learning a lot from them. Could you please make a video about what does love means to an INFJ and how an INFJ falls in romantic love?
@mr.goodwrench8273
2 жыл бұрын
What has my experience been with hypersensitivity ? It's something that I used to utilize at times earlier in my life, yet, not so much nowadays. I've not been married since 2007. I live alone. Plus, at work, I normally stay out of my co-workers personal business. It's something I know that I can do well. Yet, for me I most likely won't be exercising this capability until I begin having a relationship with a lady & her having a need for my hypersensitivity.
@sayusayme7729
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@emilioigodera536
2 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to figure out"people".. studying phycology..to learned about you &ME...
@emilioigodera536
2 жыл бұрын
Iam blessed"INFJ 💯!!!!
@silvixlite
2 жыл бұрын
I have to save this video cause i need these kind of help
@dorotaem6621
2 жыл бұрын
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@ralphstruexperiencesolutio8472
2 жыл бұрын
HEY WEN HOPE EVERYTHING IS WELL!!!! UR VERY INTERESTING & woULD LIKE TO TALK WIT U ON A ONE ON ONE! GOD BLESS!!!!
@bobevans5282
2 жыл бұрын
Really good video and I have a question that I have studied and had done hardwork a lot but I didn't get enough marks to get in my dream/goal college but I am still hoping that I can get into it because you know bubble reality doesn't wants to breaks it but I know I have to move on and go to another college Is it right?
@Watchmen1100
2 жыл бұрын
A chick with a infj fullness . that's terrible news add in PMS 😱 no !
@Watchmen1100
2 жыл бұрын
In need for Jesus ? Why cause these where just crazy so we need Jesus because of it
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