I'm fairly young, I never expected to learn so much from just one book, this is world changing
@aurelienyonrac
3 жыл бұрын
"Sorry to buy forgiveness" I totaly saw that too. "I'm a horrible person" = guilt, your sense of self is altered. Soul wound. "I feel sad" = true apology. Actions are not confused with your being. 😍 10 billion likes 👍
@jakekempen4400
3 жыл бұрын
@5:39 "You know, the way I talked to you, I feel really sad. It doesn't meet my need for respecting you and understanding you." I felt that statement preserves self-dignity while acknowledging discomfort. I think it would prefer to hear the "giraffe" mourning than to hear the cheap "jackal" apology that you're a bad person.
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