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@jonathanc4166
2 жыл бұрын
The key is to control your emotions not be emotionless.
@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
3 жыл бұрын
This is pretty easy to do when you feel dead inside
@kenny6942
3 жыл бұрын
You are everywhere, is that your job?
@extraordinaryside6368
3 жыл бұрын
you are everywhere wth HOW
@poggersbutthole8444
3 жыл бұрын
This is the most unexpected video to see you on
@levantinedoomer2317
3 жыл бұрын
How in the fuck did you end up here?! Lmao
@angelicodacara4576
3 жыл бұрын
How the hell did u got here
@kagura9859
3 жыл бұрын
I want to be emotionless and cold because I am too empathetic towards others that I have been neglecting myself this whole time. I want to give back self-love to myself that I have never been done before. I'm also the kind of person that always do good for others but for myself nothing, and I can't decline invitations. I usually can't say no and if I do I really feel bad and I just become emotional. This is why thank you for this video. Update (05/10/22) How's everyone doing? I happened to pass on this video again for the same reason. I'm still lost, but I've noticed some changes in me. I can control my emotions than before that it just overflows out of nowhere. I realized some things, being emotionless, cold is different from being expressionless. Now I'm torn between the two. Being expressionless is just that you still feel emotions inside but you it just doesn't show on the surface, it still means good but has its cons too. I believe being expressionless is harder, because you still feel strong emotions but you just can't show it/stopping yourself. You don't lose the good part of you. But on the other side, you're gonna be way hurt. The way of your venting out option was removed on your system. It's like you feel bad towards others and you care for them so bad, but you can't express it or make look like you sympathize with them as expression, voice and actions are what people look at if they know that you actually care. I know this and have felt it because one of my friend say that they care but they don't show it any forms, neither on their expression, body language or even words. Without that, I just can't believe that they actually care. So that's that.. Meanwhile being cold and emotionless is like the hardest thing that a person managed to do or at least had been through to became like it. It just means you don't feel any emotions, feeling sad towards others, caring, joy. It will be gone, but it's gonna help in a way that you feel like no one's gonna stop you from achieving things, it's just you who matters to yourself. You lost the care for others and I think you become logical as well so you can keep going. There's a lot of difference between these two.
@senmonkashonen5875
3 жыл бұрын
Please listen, being emotionaless is not the answer it's a desperate attempt to feel happier, i was always an emotionalless person, i didn't and i still not care about people too much, when i give advice i give to lecture, trust me it's not an easy life, for me i hated people so much because of all my memories, bullies, fighting, surviving, humiliation, ect her in africa is no joke, i got heartbroken when i was 9 months because my mother stop breast feeding me, i never thought I have emotions i just suppress them automatically i don't care at all, because of that I lost meaning in life i became nilist , but now I'm recovering, pls don't be an emotionalless person, be balanced
@kagura9859
3 жыл бұрын
@@senmonkashonen5875 I know and am aware of that, but it still pushes me to do so as if like I'm being forced and I have to do something like coping up with a desperate feeling. I've been the opposite of you and it has been hurting me. I just want to give in to what myself has been needing to. I already mention that I never give love to myself, I'm so lost. I couldn't think of anything better than being cold and less emphatic. As of I am now, I'm too far from being cold because like I said my personality has been the opposite of it, but lately I could feel that I'm changing slowly, and thanks to this video. Don't worry that hurting others will never be my intention. I'll just have to put myself first until I gain what I need and then, I'll find my old self again. You said that you were naturally one, so maybe you hadn't cared too much and didn't always put the others first. Even with this, it doesn't mean yourself comes last, for me I just totally forget about giving some to myself or worse I just couldn't.
@senmonkashonen5875
3 жыл бұрын
@@kagura9859 bro what you need is self confidence and healthy boundaries, a slap of reality not to be emotionaless , you gotta understand being emotionaless is just escaping emotions, not having no emotions. Pls understand that
@Someone-wx7pb
3 жыл бұрын
@@senmonkashonen5875 I'm tired of being that good person who always cares about other people,here,nobody cares about anyone,those are the rules,i want to become emotionless and cold hearted towards some kinda of people,but deep inside,i still feel emotions,which is kinda sucks to be honest,i know being emotionless is not always the solution for some people,but for me,i think this is the only way to achieve my goals in my life,also life is sometimes hard,so i hope you're doing okay,also stay safe.
@niharika5836
3 жыл бұрын
@@Someone-wx7pb same
@yourgaybigsister1945
3 жыл бұрын
I just wanna stop laughing when children fall/ get injured
@juuzousuzuya4583
3 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂
@0subscriberswith0videos28
3 жыл бұрын
That’s the hardest part tho
@avaxcrooks
3 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment 🤣
@abxjth710
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Sadcandy461
3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@evolvetebawk
3 жыл бұрын
*dealing with toxic parents,to show no emotions and stuff please make it bro😓* 💜
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
I am planning a video on how to be more heartless... I will include examples such as toxic parents 💪🏻
@evolvetebawk
3 жыл бұрын
@@Meninfluencer *🥺I am eagerly waiting,love you bro💜✨*
@fw.a1
3 жыл бұрын
i feel u bro🤧
@evolvetebawk
3 жыл бұрын
@@fw.a1 hello🧸
@whenyousmileismiletoo5419
3 жыл бұрын
same
@legokvng7350
3 жыл бұрын
having a routine for cleanliness, education, religion, and working on yourself will help you achieve greatness
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely 💪🏻
@thundermx6464
3 жыл бұрын
Needed this
@ilovefood1682
3 жыл бұрын
Idk about religion
@vaideswarana3223
3 жыл бұрын
Being religious is stupid. I don't not believe in God.
@Red-ed2lq
2 жыл бұрын
@@vaideswarana3223 Haha same, i am a nihilist/rational egoism, and that is the real confidence and not religion ☯️ This is my opinion so no offense
@pixelatedGdominion
2 жыл бұрын
In a word, caring too much is a threat to ur future self... Keep urself first always, care less, and fck everything else
@aljd5600
3 жыл бұрын
guys: *becoming emotionless is NOT bottling or ignoring them, its letting them flow without drowning you* that took me YEARS of therapy to understand and i just don’t want anyone else to go through this, i know that its extremely counterintuitive concidering the video im commenting this on, but seriously, don’t let the joy of the present take away your future, don’t let the moment influence your decisions
@اميرة-ر5ظ3ل
2 жыл бұрын
You are really amazing thank you I will try
@nooch5lover
2 жыл бұрын
that’s only a half truth. if you are emotionless, dry, matter of fact to begin with and you withdraw from these certain things you are already in a negative emotional space for everyone else and therefore yourself. If you are over emotional then this will make sense if these emotions are having a negative effect on your life. If you are slightly emotional and take it away, who are. you really helping? Nobody. Having emotions is one of the best things to have and show on earth, just control them as best you can. Nobody wants a robot, or a complete emotional wreck. Just be yourself and adjust when things become too much. Once they become too much you communicate with them and just not fall off the face of the earth like you never knew that person.
@اميرة-ر5ظ3ل
2 жыл бұрын
@@nooch5lover It's really a painful pill, but it's a fact that I ignored. Thank you anyway
@clementineevernight
2 жыл бұрын
@@nooch5lover yes I completely agree. Having overwhelming emotions is exhausting and stressful but feeling nothing for anything just takes the joy from life it’s better if we find a balance:)
@lauralu9265
2 жыл бұрын
Great comment, thanks.
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
If you have future video suggestions, please let me know.. I wanna help you :)
@Amusinghumour
3 жыл бұрын
How to be happy
@adamkumar5336
3 жыл бұрын
100% true bro
@iragary8787
3 жыл бұрын
InstaBlaster.
@JaysDomain777
3 жыл бұрын
Yo god bless you man for real.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@AvHanda
3 жыл бұрын
Brother 2020 ... I was way too available and way too emotional towards a certain person who I thought would be the same for me .. but just ended up destroying me ... Your words in this video have helped me so so much ... thank you my brother for releasing this and helping me and so many others facing this problem
@leefelix0325
3 жыл бұрын
*Reason why I need this:* I cry when I'm really happy, sad, excited and grateful. I cry when I witness something amazing, listen to a really beautiful song/voice, watched a thing that amazes me. I cry in almost everything.
@jaspoayzzz8111
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@opeoreo8412
Жыл бұрын
Same
@opeoreo8412
Жыл бұрын
But not exact
@arthas640
Жыл бұрын
I sometimes wish I was more like that. I've been to a handful of funerals and didn't cry. Once had to have a procedure done where they took a biopsy of my shin bone that involved drilling into the bone with a small hole saw, I'm functionally immune to novacaine so I had to have it done without anesthetic, aside from gritting my teeth I didn't react. People think if you're not crying or showing emotion you don't feel pain or you lack empathy.
@Rudelherz
Жыл бұрын
You are either hurt(ing) or you were born a high sensitive person. That would make you awesome. Even though it is not always easy - learn how to handle your outstanding gift and channel your energy and love the right way so it will not only bless others, but you as well❤
@jereythegundamluna4539
3 жыл бұрын
Tbh I’m doing this so that nobody misses me when I die.
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
I will 🥺
@existentialcrisis6236
3 жыл бұрын
@@Meninfluencer is that an emotion I see
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
@@existentialcrisis6236 maybe
@methlord76
3 жыл бұрын
i have a very vivid and creative imagination. I can almost live in my imagination because of how real i can make it seem. so when i want to become emotionless or depressed like, i imagine being bullied my whole life and not being loved by anyone. i dont know why but my brain just automatically believes any lies or fantasies i make up. so yeah dont do drugs kids 😃
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
That’s what you call emotional memory... very cool trick to “manipulate” your feelings :)
@mimitsuki6277
3 жыл бұрын
Same. I don’t even know when I do it sometimes , it’s just after a little while I realize what I did. I don’t even need to think about it ,just see it or read it somewhere I feel like am the person and the situation. And ppl around me find me annoying say am just a crybaby don’t want to deal with me... but it hurt
@ashblatt
2 жыл бұрын
I don't want to "look like emotionless to other people" i just wanna be emotionless inside. I don't wanna feel like angry, sad, happy or being obssesed about things i hear from other peoples about me. So i can work more careful and more efficient. When there is no place for emotions there would be more time for useful things. At least i think that way.
@ashblatt
2 жыл бұрын
@I-A-Leen Maybe you are right. I didn't think this through. I just kinda wanted to be kinda like a working machine.
@Fideowo
Жыл бұрын
You wouldn't be human then. The only perfect thing is imperfection because it stays always the same, imperfect. Humans are perfect for being imperfect, emotions make us take the right choices and the wrong ones too, but these last ones are there to teach us which would be the right choice next time. Don't suppress your emotions, just listen to them and learn how to work altogether like one individual. You''re doing just fine and you'll be great, keep moving, you got this! :)
@newt387
3 жыл бұрын
I wish I would be emotionless because I really don't care what others are thinking
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
I understand
@existentialcrisis6236
3 жыл бұрын
why do people think being emotionless is cool or helps when u have depression, I had depression but I've ignored it for years and now I don't feel anything and I genuinely don't understand emotions, it's not fun, sure I don't feel sad anymore but happiness also isn't there, it feels like there's just a black hole with nothing going into it and it just stays there
@R1le06
3 жыл бұрын
I already dont have happynes so i want to remove the saddnes too
@zachrayy288
3 жыл бұрын
You have alexithymia?
@wubzlol6476
3 жыл бұрын
i don't really think it's cool, it just helps me not drown in my feelings but instead flow with them, being nonchalant isn't cool or badass but caring less about some things helps you flow better with your feelings
@gabrielguzman6018
2 жыл бұрын
It's not cool but it's not something that you can rid of if you been through some shit
@clementineevernight
2 жыл бұрын
I completely agree feeing nothing all the time takes away the fun in mundane everyday life. Without emotions everyday is just a grey repeating cycle. I think it’d be better if we find a balance and what we feel for instead of completely killing off everything
@Hhhhhh8888A.
3 жыл бұрын
You're really working hard . Thank you soo much keep it up 😊
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for noticing :)
@firdevsakgunpehlivan9093
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, i was tired of my emotions that makes me cry everytime now i dont have any pain
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️
@flashlinestudio5669
2 жыл бұрын
Being HeartLess makes me happy 😌 if no one ever respect me why should I respect others and life 😂
@Ellie-fd3ni
3 жыл бұрын
I’m just done with life so when tiny bit of emotions slip thru it annoys me
@nickodelacruz2920
3 жыл бұрын
I wnt to be completely emotionless And cold hearted thanks for this advice ut helped me so much while im dead inside
@joshuadelange5404
3 жыл бұрын
The most effective way to become emotionless is to lose everything and everyone you love horribly and then get revenge by torture and then you'll be emotionless 😐
@kim._.rowman8554
2 жыл бұрын
True
@finlandball1939
2 жыл бұрын
Family *TROLLED*
@islamiira
2 жыл бұрын
i want to be emotionless because my dad just told me he doesn't like me.. and i care about everyone more then myself!..
@lorddiofrogpower8161
3 жыл бұрын
Im already emotionless but for some reason i am watching this
@thursdayplurbonym-boyporri8921
3 жыл бұрын
you don't feel any emotions..?
@twicejjang8815
2 жыл бұрын
I'm the type of person that is cold and doesn't show my real emotions. I'm loud and cheerful kid before, but when I grew up and faced the reality and many problems...it disappeared. My family barely see me smile. I got hurt easily but I don't cry cause I'm used to it.
@nooch5lover
2 жыл бұрын
so listening to someone tell you to be even more emotionless than what you already are now would be a terrible idea. Things like emotions is not a cookie cutter fixer upper idea yall. We as humans have every single kind of emotional combination there could be, meaning from 100/100 of emotions to 0/100 emotions and everywhere in between and certain things for certain reasons these emotions are at different levels. Nothing is cookie cutter when humans are involved
@scarasbf
2 жыл бұрын
that's me but I still show emotion maybe not my real one but still I show them it's mainly anger and sadness so I wanna be able to control those so no one can read me
@georgiafrancis9059
9 ай бұрын
So........Simply care less...... you do not have to smile all the time, besides smiling gives you wrinkles. Did you ever see a Lion smile?
@dustyfn7321
2 жыл бұрын
Tbh I’m done with emotions because people just take advantage and destroy me emotionally and I’m done taking their bs
@celest2_80
2 жыл бұрын
same now i understand, my only 2 friends, maybe they dont even actually care abt me they only want me for their benefits coz im a "softie" that always gives in and cares too much, ending up going all the way out for them and prob taken for granted rn. i wanna be emotionless and learn how to forget them and be alone
@ceciliacantago1555
3 жыл бұрын
I just want to be emotionless
@finlandball1939
2 жыл бұрын
It’s societal topics like this that make me want to set the world on fire. It’s things like this that make me wish we could all be engulfed in nuclear hellfire. Everyone is human and emotions are a human being. Being emotionless is completely inhuman and most of you don’t understand that. The most important thing is to control those emotions. Unfortunately, modern society wants us men to be completely emotionless and I cannot mentally take that fact. I don’t know if I even want to exist anymore, as I don’t want to be an emotionless husk. It’s it really Beta thinking to desire someone who loves you back for the genuine person you are, not for being a distant man or just because of looks? Someone who you can actually share things with once in a while? Someone who genuinely values your existence and you don’t have to worry about constantly trying to replace you just because you decide to share a simple thing that has at least some feeling to it or for displaying genuine, meaningful love? If this is life, than I curse god and want out of it asap. Apparently a majority of men agree with me. Why else would the male suicide rate make up 2/3 of those in the entire country? I am not weak, but I *AM* human. Once again, feelings and emotions are 100% natural and come with the fact that you are a human being. Suppressing them has only been scientifically proven to worsen mental health, increase the chances of suicide and physical abuse, and make you die much younger than you otherwise would’ve.
@anush3420
3 жыл бұрын
Eren Yeager and Ayanokoji: *am I a joke to you?*
@taz4635
3 жыл бұрын
I wanna be like captain Levi 😒
@trachiosauras
3 жыл бұрын
I wanna be like light yagami 🤍🖤from death note
@firestorm4357
3 жыл бұрын
Ayanokoji is just on another level
@domainexpansion6554
3 жыл бұрын
How to be distant from others
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
noted as video request :)
@reopadilla8360
3 жыл бұрын
I kinda act no emotion but i kinda laugh when i hear a funny joke
@taeswinterbear6218
3 жыл бұрын
I just hate being to nice to everyone lol
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
I understand..
@taeswinterbear6218
3 жыл бұрын
@Danjotir Najatar easier said then done
@memetemplateswala
2 жыл бұрын
I am becoming expressionless (facial) please make a vedio
@Ana-ll4th
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro i need this because when im very angry i cry and i wanna change that
@Meninfluencer
2 жыл бұрын
Bless you ✨
@MINTy_swe3ty
2 жыл бұрын
I'm too emotional, I cry at everything,get angry easy,and overthinks everything, just like now , I'm crying at how hurt my father's words insult me and scold me, and just get betrayed by my grandmother , I feel like everytime I get emotional I feel useless
@dark_nightwing_xl2797
3 жыл бұрын
What if sommetimes your mom is lashing at you? because sometimes I walk away but sometimes it seems weak because I don't like disrespect bro
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s better to acknowledge that you share different views based on the way you perceive life... This way you understand why she is reacting in such a way :) She means well, but expresses in a different way than you would like it to... I understand that you may get upset and feel that she is disrespecting you... but do you think she is lashing at you to feel better about herself or because she actually cares about you? ♥️
@dark_nightwing_xl2797
3 жыл бұрын
@@Meninfluencer that a good question sommetimes she doesn't agree and then she lashes out and I'm 19
@Miestro121
3 жыл бұрын
@@Meninfluencer wouldn’t that be a form of empathy, rationalising the why to her cause?
@lauronava4341
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve already mastered not showing emotions now I just want to kill my emotions I am already dead inside
@lauronava4341
3 жыл бұрын
And I mean in this in the least suicidal way possible😂😂 I just don’t wanna feel anything anymore and I feel like I’m getting close to it
@shahzadasiddiquee1391
3 жыл бұрын
@@lauronava4341 being a extrovert is worse fate then death
@aljd5600
3 жыл бұрын
ok, listen bud, i have an idea, instead of killing your emotons, why not control them? let them flow in a safe environment, dont kill them, let them be, but CONTROL them :)
@georgiafrancis9059
9 ай бұрын
Normally when I'm insulted I have been laughing at the person for being so foolish...... I think I'll start being quiet and just look the person up and down, there's something powerful when a person's eyes travel head to toe when they are looking at someone who is annoying.
@dark_nightwing_xl2797
3 жыл бұрын
And bro I put myself first and I don't talk all day with people
@ally0103
2 жыл бұрын
I care to much apparently and I don’t wanna help, I have no motivation and just nobody cares, only need me when they wanna talk.
@shifakhan4399
2 жыл бұрын
Him :- stay away from toxic people Me :- wtf I live with them
@shizennokaze2240
3 жыл бұрын
Love this channel... learning many things 👊👊
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it... wait until 2021 ;)
@arthurkansinally8582
3 жыл бұрын
@@Meninfluencer hey bro nice video what's the name of the instrumental at the end
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Better days by lakey inspired
@amruthameruva2220
2 жыл бұрын
How it feels to be betrayed by your own best friend..whom you've trusted for years?
@Hunk456
3 жыл бұрын
Do what exactly the mission requires , with no regards to anyone or anything else
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
exactly!
@R1le06
3 жыл бұрын
Like not helping the woman and child in metro last light in that one tunnel
@redomerveil799
Жыл бұрын
..I mean y'all have those reasons.. I just want to feel bad ass tho.
@Red-vy3nk
3 жыл бұрын
I am very emphatetic, because of it i always appear weak to other people which makes it easy for them to bully me. Whatever i do to control my emotions, i still end up crying and getting bullied again.
@victoriathegreat1311
3 жыл бұрын
Is hilarious 😄 I feel better focusing on my myself people are disturbances lol 😄
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
You're great. Keep it up!
@dvghf123
10 ай бұрын
I am woman on meninfluencer, seems like I also want to be emotionless
@garimasen3371
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips. I need to clear out a lot.
@CallOfDowson
3 жыл бұрын
great video! 😊 I enjoy it and it’s useful
@danielscheuer939
2 жыл бұрын
Non of this is my problem I've just given up on humanity altogether but I'm not crazy I just don't want to feel anything at all I'm only halfway there but I can still feel my emotions trying to get out and I want to put that to a stop
@Aloksharma-oe1gm
Жыл бұрын
Same
@gaukhar4518
2 жыл бұрын
I came here to be cool in school 👁👄👁👌
@DeanRendar
3 жыл бұрын
it nevr made sense to me why crazy making individuals and the main stream media consistently inflict me to feel constant emotions other than the ones I already felt, as if it were their life source to frustrate, sadden, offend, or threaten. There litterally nothing in it for them, but through time I realized those entities and the feelings from me get recycled somewhere else into content for entertainment, and its manipulative decption at the toll of my mental health, I council them,p show patience, and over apoligize for their own rush to incite panic and it never changes thats how I know no one admits everything is faked to manipulate my emotion because that is priceless and now I have had enough of them using me like a utility with pretend issues. Thanks for this, my sanity is sacred and other false lives I know don't seem to care.
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to hear about this. Stay strong! 🙏🏻
@orekikun6245
2 жыл бұрын
Me watching this because of my family. They always get angry when I started crying whenever they're telling me harsh words and hitting me.
@gixtuh
Жыл бұрын
i can't live without being emotionless
@tequilachanel7312
11 ай бұрын
I don’t want to feel anything at all.
@beluwuga0575
3 жыл бұрын
Omg you're actually right, I so wanna try this... Mentally hard but ill try my best...
@yunii_yoshiichan7590
2 жыл бұрын
Is this permanent? Id rather have no emotion tbh
@tbanna0161
2 жыл бұрын
I wanna look as unaprochable as possible
@ame3374
3 жыл бұрын
sometimes you just don't wanna care about anything
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
mood
@yearoldChineselove
2 жыл бұрын
everyone has this dark deep reason to become emotionless and here i am just to stare at them blankly when they tell a joke
@jackle2766
3 жыл бұрын
I want to be this way because i want to be not scared of deaths of important people in my life
@victoriathegreat1311
3 жыл бұрын
I am so positive I attract these physcho paths really ruthless people. I like a medium. Love my carefree attitude. I don't give a fuck about anyone or anything. No contact is better. Find people want to latch on to me try and copy me.
@osmanshorts7169
3 жыл бұрын
I would say that U r telling the truth
@Meninfluencer
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@vqkpoc
3 жыл бұрын
Great video, keep up bro! 🙌🏻
@gamingclips9318
2 жыл бұрын
1:08 eeeemmoootinooo damage
@caseyrodriguez2002
3 жыл бұрын
I have left my cavity untreated so I want to be emotionless till that day comes
@Starkesea
2 жыл бұрын
When you want to be dead inside, but not dead is the oddest thing I've ever felt. But here we are
@3xorcism.m
3 жыл бұрын
I have family issues
@MrPatrickslima
2 жыл бұрын
What a amazing video 👏
@victoriathegreat1311
3 жыл бұрын
They can't give me the same back. I go solo. I'm a Taurus. It's not emotional I cannot stand people talking. Most are negative.
@JD-xd4sy
3 ай бұрын
Also: Know your emotions. Our emotions is like a map, guiding us through life, giving insight to what is good for us, and what is bad for us. If we numb our emotions, or ignore them as if they don't exist, we lose our map and directions. But knowing our emotions does not mean reacting to them, simply observing them. Some people use meditation for this, others physical exercise - for me, acceptance and surrender has been great tools to simply be with my emotions.
@roxiethecockapoo1138
2 жыл бұрын
"Perhaps what I am about to say will appear strange to you gentlemen, socialists, progressives, humanitarians as you are, but I never worry about my neighbour, I never try to protect society which does not protect me." -Edmond Dantes Do as you wish. People will say it goes against your health perhaps, or the general morals of or world. But how are morals determined? The biological part of our brain that allows us to feel emotion? And what is supreme mental health? You must have morals to be happy, you must feel happiness? If you are in a depressed state of mind and you wish only to get out of it, why not settle for relative contentness? In it's true form, this is called nonexistence, but in a subtle way, it can be found by separating yourself from the world in any extreme way as you wish. Go ahead, disagree with me, but then you would be stating that all people find happiness in the same way--by others. I recall a time when I was in 8th grade, sitting at lunch away from my table enjoying the peaceful quietness when a teacher appeared and asked me why I was sitting alone. A fair question, as many people alone are generally said, but I told her that I simply wanted to. She asked me why I didn't hand out with this certain friend anymore, whom used to be my best friend. I, as a personal person, didn't provide much into it. The truth: That particualr friend had done nothing wrong to me. I had distanced myself somewhat from her simply because I could no longer relate to people. I no longer wished for the responsiblity of providing for someone else's drama, for someone of anything. I can understand people, I see what they hint at, and I'm tired of carrying the burden of providing for them what something that has no meaning to me or the rest of the world. And yet, we're all meaingless anyway, so I suppose it doesn't matter, but then, so doesn't my actions, if you comply with that argument. It's not wrong to distance yourself from others simply because you wish to. It's not wrong to be alone often, when the whole world. You are no burden to the world, you are free from your providence. So many people think (subconsiously), "Well if they're my child they provide me happiness," and they own a child for happiness. Or a friend for happiness. Which is't wrong--and because I wish for this to be as factual as possible, I state being 'wrong' to be of society's own standards of morals. But if we didn't exist, the world would go on. We could either exist and have an influence or not exist and have no infleunce or...perhaps..exist without an influence. And I don't mean no influence at all, I mean not the influence society wishes for and the one you wish not for. What's the difference? Why should society feel as if your existence means an influence on them because of some universe of obligation that is unaplicable for all stances of free will? Why try to live the healthiest life mentally if you cannot over settling for relative contentness? It genuinely annoys me at the comments that state that this isn't the 'right answer.' Are you placing all people in a specific group of what shall make them happy? Now I understand the intentions, and to the extent of mental health, they are correct. But notice, this only benefits certain values. People have come to decide that certain values are more infleucne over others. Or perhpas not. Becuase notice that when people attempt to be objective, they create a more/less rule with values. More values/less higher quality ones. For instance, stability/love. Love is subjective and will allow you happines depending on your value of it. Stability is a generic 'objective' (I quote objective, to be referenced later) idea that will provide more out of it. Notice that simply because love is subjective and stability CAN be objective, Stability greatens love. And, by the way, I use stability/love as an example, not of my own opinion. However, notice, it can be objective, but stability can be subjective! It seems to be grown into mankind that if it's subjective, it's subjective, if it can be both subjective and objective, it's objective. And so head/heart is unnaplicable, used only for certain rudimentary unnaplicable rules such as more/less (or less/more depending on the scenario). And notice these rules do not determine subjectivity or objectivity. And in case you're wondering what in the world this has to do with distance from the world, it is simply that you cannot factually state a value based on this rule, meaning you cannot state the importance of distance from the world pertaining to biological health or any other values because it will only matter to the person whether they take a subjective or their own personal views of an objective perception on it. I've completed a test run and suppressed my emotions for a year. I felt no sadness, no stress, no worry most of that time. I had difficulty crying or showing any emotion on that. It's also suppose to negatuively influence your physical health. But my life was awful, and to me, I decided to risk those values. And everyone I've spoken to about it says it's bad. Because of the more/many rule. Because physical health and moral is more benefit than contentness. And for those who agree with this, I respect you. But if you have nothing to lose in life, live how you wish, based on your own standards, and consider what you will risk. I can go on about the truth of how society is actually heartless, but I will not because I believe I've already shared enough that absolutely no one will read this. For now, here's a (paraphrased) quote: "The one who walks with the crowd will likely go no farther than the crowd. The one who walks alone will find themselves in places never seen before."
@amiraaliyu2246
2 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for this video. I care so much it drains me and I put myself last. I thought it was just my personality but it’s because of actions and decisions I’ve made. Going to care more about myself at this point.
@Meninfluencer
2 жыл бұрын
Good self-reflection! I am sure moving forward you will drain yourself less :)
@rozhinrozhin8622
Жыл бұрын
The title is just sad 😂
@RayRaeNonbinary1
3 жыл бұрын
I'm currently having to live with an narcissistic parent and they know I'm a people pleaser so if I'm nice or slightly open up more they want to walk all over me and expect me to supply them with their narcissistic supply with me emotional response... So if I'm emotionless they might not try to play so many mind games...
@ishaqhalimi5296
2 жыл бұрын
“I’m not say saying” Yes. That’s exactly what I want tho
@morrisontheoverman7335
3 жыл бұрын
So I came here to learn how to be emotionless and find out I already am. Wow how weared is this, so now I'm changing my goal, now I want to a little more cold
@trillatrills3586
3 ай бұрын
I need to do this. 1 because im a man and were not allowed 2. You cant be to happy or to sad or even the opposite you either not happy or sad enough 3. Please everyone else around you 😴😴 getting tired of life atm
@LCruz-kj6yy
2 жыл бұрын
I just subscribed
@srirangarajans8535
11 күн бұрын
I just wanted to be born emotionless and be cold hearted person is because of accursed reality of life
@Unknown-wo9ls
2 жыл бұрын
Tip: be depressed
@OziCastle
Ай бұрын
What am I doing watching this video? I need to learn empathy
@hyperlynxvfx1613
Жыл бұрын
I came bcs I want to lose my emotions bcs I realised I'm just a replacement ill always be a backup friend
@varunsolanki527
3 жыл бұрын
i life is mess
@invisible6843
Жыл бұрын
I wanted to be emotionless cause my emotion hurt me everyday but my dream is to learn acting where showing emotion is everything so i am in trouble
@joshuapowell7485
2 жыл бұрын
On point 🎯
@addy-r8z
Жыл бұрын
i dont want to show emotion anymore because im done with caring about it bc my mom hates me and my brother does to so to show them im done with their shit i wanna become completely emotionless (around them)
@themightytie951
2 жыл бұрын
The thing is i have no emotion.. All i feel is jelosy and anger,, dont think i have ever been happy in my life
@merkthepog2964
3 жыл бұрын
I’m too mean to people so I just want to stop. I mean just stop it with my emotions I can’t take it anymore.
@kaziahsan_habib
2 жыл бұрын
You came here, means, you are good human, but the world is not
@_chelly_hd
2 жыл бұрын
✋☠️My problem is just that I laugh at everything even if it is sad I actually feel sad but I can't help myself and laugh ... yea and more
@X378-d6y
3 жыл бұрын
This is pretty easy to do when you feel dead inside
@manu8098
Жыл бұрын
Pov you turned to cold hearted person☠️like Tommy
@Doomslayer634
2 жыл бұрын
My friend said that I have pussy hands cuz I can't do a right push up.
@barclayhhuga654
2 жыл бұрын
Hey if you are reading this.. WE GOT this!
@nitesh7052
2 жыл бұрын
Thanku broo l am only 17 yrs old and want to be emotionless please help me out.
@yangyui446
3 жыл бұрын
Hey, I can read by your eyes... You are hearted also... (_ _)
@santiagofamily5200
2 жыл бұрын
I don't show emoshin 2 times aweek I just don't wanna show it at all
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