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@noonelooksatusers
Жыл бұрын
Hi
@alexanderarebalo58
Жыл бұрын
Wassup
@Crowvensno1fan
Жыл бұрын
Hi
@han_pann
Жыл бұрын
yippee
@Marshmal-
Жыл бұрын
Hello
@whippedtm8145
Жыл бұрын
I love that the 'elegant' hobbies are either stereotypically female or rich people activities, this trend is so classist its sending me
@elisecode2212
Жыл бұрын
it's like, out of a jane austen novel
@dieandereamanda7599
Жыл бұрын
@@elisecode2212 yeah and even then, Jane Austen was making fun of proper ettiquette 😂😂😂 it's like these people desperately wanna go back in time
@davidtaylor142
Жыл бұрын
They're all like "have hobbies like skiing or polo." Bitch what if I live in Detroit?
@weirdcatkid
Жыл бұрын
@@davidtaylor142 idk, become human then?
@davidtaylor142
Жыл бұрын
@@weirdcatkid I hate you for reminding me of that God awful overhyped game
@scorchinglizard
Жыл бұрын
Love that a "ladylike bobby" includes being an art enthusiast but not being an artist itself. Yeah you can LOOK at the art but if you pick up the damn pencil you will be smited down
@imhappy7632
Жыл бұрын
tbf artists are the most sleep deprived people ever (speaking from experience). Also not the most cleanest hobby then again gardening made the list.
@stumbling_
Жыл бұрын
Of course not, women can’t be creative. They might think they can have opinions and read…
@klara7204
Жыл бұрын
Ladylike Bobby
@tealpineapples
Жыл бұрын
@@imhappy7632 being an artist also makes you have severe neck and back pain.. horrible posture isnt the most ladylike. then again, im not a girl
@hannahspinney6823
Жыл бұрын
It's because painting is for boys. There are no great female painters after all, right? A woman wouldn't dain soil her fingers or clothing *eyerolling so hard I can see my brain*
@k_rodeo
10 ай бұрын
As a *male* equestrian, I can confirm galloping around trash cans on a 1200+ pound animal without dying or getting bucked off is the most *ladylike* thing.
@teathesilkwing7616
8 ай бұрын
You must be saying that you are a male horse, we all know only women can ride horses
@Stardropzx
7 ай бұрын
@@teathesilkwing7616 😭 I will worship you for this comment forever
@katrinam6795
5 ай бұрын
As the daughter of a long line of farmers and gardeners, gardening done right is definitely getting your hands and fingernails and clothes dirty as fuck and sometimes cut and loving it.
@megaem3844
5 ай бұрын
Best coment yet💀
@sophi3345
5 ай бұрын
As a female equestrian I can completely agree, skinning a large part of your back is oh so very ladylike.
@Jo-dk9my
10 ай бұрын
As a former ballerina, I can confirm that immense pain, body-shaming, tears, slamming pointe shoes into the wall to break them in, and hair loss is super elegant!
@-cat_in_space-
6 ай бұрын
dont forget the *_f e e t_*
@Jo-dk9my
5 ай бұрын
@@-cat_in_space- oh, of course, can't forget the mangled toes 😍
@genesisofthebetween
4 ай бұрын
_h a i r l o s s ? ? ?_
@JenCruz.
4 ай бұрын
what people get from eating little and stress@@genesisofthebetween
@_.z33._
3 ай бұрын
@@genesisofthebetweentypically from stress and how slicked back your hair has to be
@BerserkerRaupe
Жыл бұрын
"When I was growing up, being ladylike seemed less about getting well-mannered and more about adults having an excuse to yell at you over things that boys could get away with" jeez, how could you describe my childhood THAT accurately
@bunster8129
Жыл бұрын
I got in trouble for laughing too loud.
@peteryeeterson5766
Жыл бұрын
Dang, guess I’m lucky then. Got muddy all the time as a kid, never got in any more trouble for it than my brother. Although, my parents also never got upset when my brother wanted to join us girls playing and got his nails painted, so maybe they were just good at avoiding gendering children’s play.
@pokaay3163
Жыл бұрын
@@peteryeeterson5766 your parents sound cool as hell
@LoreCatan
Жыл бұрын
@@peteryeeterson5766 It should honestly be the norm. Let kids be kids, you're just having fun.
@deckogecko2008
Жыл бұрын
Wow, she just described me and mom's relationship, especially my grandma, my mom's mom.
@emmap124
Жыл бұрын
As a former horse girl, I can confirm getting dirt all over my clothes and falling off a giant animal because it saw a leaf is the most ladylike thing you can do 😌
@Nionivek
Жыл бұрын
As someone who has gardened once in his life, and never want to do it again... It is also a very ladylike activity to be covered in mud and sweat, wearing disposable clothes.
@ellamurray4924
Жыл бұрын
And mucking the stalls. Very ladylike
@Eden_Nine
Жыл бұрын
And ruining a white shirt because it got covered in horse saliva because your horse decided to rub its head on your shirt is very lady like
@smfreij
Жыл бұрын
@@ellamurray4924 oh but if you are a RICH lady then dahling you pay the help to do such work. Heavens could you imagine?!
@kibble1105
Жыл бұрын
as an equestrian, i entirely agree. i’ve especially gotten many compliments of how ladylike i look while trudging through knee high mud and manure to fetch my horse from his field, knowing full well he’s been rolling in his own filth 🥰
@ozarksasmr2202
10 ай бұрын
Life hack: When excusing yourself to go to the restroom, simply state, “Pardon me, I’m going to go sit and think.” Then, you are not only ladylike but you are also the most elegant philosopher that ever existed
@equally.marketable
9 ай бұрын
“The Thinker” but with more bathroom sound effects. 10/10
@partlyart
9 ай бұрын
personally I prefer to squat and think so my ladylike butt does not touch the same porcelain throne other commoners have sat on
@ozarksasmr2202
9 ай бұрын
@@partlyart you have reached ladylike supremacy
@ozarksasmr2202
9 ай бұрын
@@equally.marketable Therefore, you are “The Thinker” and “The Entertainer”
@Widdekuu91
8 ай бұрын
To posh people you say sit and think. To friends you say shit and stink.
@Tokyo-eg1wf
10 ай бұрын
“Being lady like seemed less about becoming well mannered and more about adults being able to yell at you for the same thing boys do” is so real
@bakageyama222
2 ай бұрын
Facts
@Marla-vi1vc
Ай бұрын
𝓨𝓾𝓹
@mr.duck1248
Жыл бұрын
I was surprised when she didn’t mention sewing as an “elegant” hobby but then I realized rich people probably pay others to sew, and never sew themselves
@lizardasslick
Жыл бұрын
I'd imagine the same with baking, but there it is in the list
@starrnichols6436
Жыл бұрын
So embroidery is an elegant hobby but sewing isn't.
@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494
Жыл бұрын
Needlepoint is ladylike. Practical sewing is the work of seamstresses, who as we know are all likely to have to resort to compromising their virtue in order to make a living anyway, and will inevitably die of consumption.
@dngrjeans1113
Жыл бұрын
And I'm confused as to how gardening can be ladylike 😭 like you're on your knees digging in the dirt
@soyborne.bornmadeandundone1342
Жыл бұрын
@@lizardasslick lol funny. Worked in food and now I sew for a living. And I've learned that most rich fux can't do these things at all lolz.
@gentlesandladymen
Жыл бұрын
As someone who danced for 13 years, actual ballet classes are FAR from elegant 😭 we spent most of our time with a teacher slamming a cane on the floor with the sound of a gunshot to get us to keep beat with the song, and sweating our asses off. Ballet is not all classical music and dainty arms, it’s a grueling sport that takes a lot of hard work and dedication.
@lulusobel8643
Жыл бұрын
Indeed !!!!!!!
@Pa5an1
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I’m a martial artist but watching some ballet documentaries was almost scary. Ballet dancers are so metal
@verycoolwhaleshark
Жыл бұрын
gerard way
@MeowMeow_95_
Жыл бұрын
Ugh but you get such AN AMAZING BODY!!!
@gentlesandladymen
Жыл бұрын
@@MeowMeow_95_ I don’t know if you’re a dancer or not but that’s. No. Ballet dancers are often stick thin mainly because of the beauty standards of the industry; eating disorders were basically expected. The so called amazing body was from skipping meals and trying to live off of water and ice.
@celestialharmonies44
9 ай бұрын
Love how baking is considered elegant. Yeah, you don't have to tell me I look ladylike when I'm covered with flour on every inch of my exposed skin, burn marks from the oven, and I'm swearing at the pastries for daring to not look like the recipe. I already know.
@Widdekuu91
4 ай бұрын
I am Dutch and I mainly curse when I have to, but when I do, I do it well. A while ago I made caramel (or tried) and a spatula decided to roam free and I got the caramel on my fingers. I swear, I hadn't screamed like that in a long time. Shortly described, I howled; "Goddamned-typhoid-tubercolosis-shitty-bollocks-cunt-mess!" and then just the F-word in a row for the following half-hour. I sucked on my hand, which caused me to burn my lips as well, so I just jumped up and down and cried as the caramel was oozing across the stove and (where it splattered across the) storageboxes with food, the wall, the floor, the refrigerator, the cabinets and the counter. The burned smell, the hardened caramel, the sticky mess, the wet blisters oozing woundmoisture... I can assure you, it was the most feminine I've ever felt.
@DETROPY
3 ай бұрын
@@Widdekuu91that sounds tedious to clean up :/
@Widdekuu91
3 ай бұрын
@@DETROPY It was, but I felt very feminine while I cleaned it.... ..okay I can't keep this story up, yes it was shit xD Especially when it half-hardened and scrubbing it with a sponge just made the caramel get plastic-hairy (from the sponge) and I had to soak it with wet cloths everywhere.
@soaringspirits2267
2 ай бұрын
@@Widdekuu91good God is that awful, but so real.
@chaosdisembodied5483
2 ай бұрын
So real, baking makes me so ladylike With the mild burn scars on my fingers cause I grabbed a pan without an oven mitt. Or when I got brownie batter on my face and looked like I had been bleeding
@hannahbeach5318
5 ай бұрын
Gardening is so elegant especially when you're digging in the dirt, pulling weeds, finding bugs, lifting mulch bags, and sweating under a hot sun.
@Kikiwithamachinegun
Ай бұрын
Smoking weed is so lady like 🥰
@Midnight_glitch603
29 күн бұрын
@@Kikiwithamachinegun um- yeahhh... 😅
@taylorg2320
Жыл бұрын
Any time I've ever said "excuse me, I'll be right back" and didn't specify that I was going to the bathroom, everyone was concerned that something had upset me. When I got back I got a million "IS EVERYTHING OKAY". Very sweet of my friends to care, but definitely drew a lot more attention than I would have if I had just said "brb bathroom".
@catelynh1020
Жыл бұрын
Plus, "brb bathroom" gives them an idea how long you'll be gone and where to find you if they need you.
@dashycorn
Жыл бұрын
Meanwhile I just yell "Gotta shit!" no matter where and with who cause I dont give a shit. Haha unintentional pun.
@QueenZiana
Жыл бұрын
Plus I’ll also know the last place you were or are supposed to be incase you go missing or an emergency happens. Anything can happen in todays world that’s why I always tell people where I’m going even if it’s for 2 minutes.
@austinluther5825
Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing!
@lettuse6099
Жыл бұрын
I’m way to shy to even speak up so whenever I need to leave a room I just run out of there at top speed without telling anyone, everyone understands not to ask me anything when I get back because I’ll run away again
@domeatown
Жыл бұрын
I had an ex that made fun of a gal for grocery shopping in her pajamas. I said to him "have you ever thought that perhaps she does not care what you think" and he looked shocked, like he had never even considered it. Now I grocery shop in my pajamas whenever I can.
@yaaassbitch8704
Жыл бұрын
Men 🤡
@domeatown
Жыл бұрын
@@yaaassbitch8704 ah men are fine. And increasingly so, I think. But there are certainly times and places and people that refuse to use their good logic
@britishningguang3933
Жыл бұрын
Good thing he's your ex
@artdeco777
Жыл бұрын
@@yaaassbitch8704 the appropriate response
@solus8685
Жыл бұрын
Men think we do everything for them lmfaoo
@Peachiipop
10 ай бұрын
“Dress for the occasion” alright I'm getting in full armour with shield and sword for my D&D game then
@wigglinbrow
29 күн бұрын
*Female Larper bowing before you in squire's garb*: “My queen! Thou are exquisitely dressed for the occasion of rolling the dice! Dare I say it: like a TRUE lady!”
@jackjill2394
10 ай бұрын
Lady tip # 27 😊😊😊 Never turn your back on your enemies. Make them fear your name.
@ghostofyou9721
17 күн бұрын
This comment is sending me---it's so accurate.
@zephyrmasterstormforger8687
5 күн бұрын
Half light grindset
@Ashiicatt
Жыл бұрын
The most ladylike thing you can do is break all your bones and show to your friends how you were so delicate and fragile as a lady that you shattered into pieces
@catrinacoons390
Жыл бұрын
glass bones and paper skin be so ladylike rn
@crossmirage
Жыл бұрын
you joke but people did that with footbinding and such
@user-yr5hb3nb3s
Жыл бұрын
I'm ladylike, I didn't know that..
@himanbam
Жыл бұрын
A true lady when she feels a cool breeze
@80YearOldWoman...
Жыл бұрын
My thumb shattered liking this comment
@alicethemad1613
Жыл бұрын
The idea of gardening being an “elegant” hobby absolutely sent me. Yeah I bet sweating in the 90 degree summer heat with your bangs bobby pinned back and face covered in patchy sunscreen, covered in dirt and dressed in your absolute least fashionable clothes is super ladylike and poised. I know I look so elegant when I’m crawling under stairs to weed poison ivy and swearing at the plants for having the audacity to exist.
@Nionivek
Жыл бұрын
I had the same thought.
@xen0bia
Жыл бұрын
But really, the type of classist people who would be talking about etiquette and looking elegant would be rich people who don't really do the hard work. Horse-riding? You bet your a$$ they only show up to ride the horse and then leave the manure shoveling, feeding and cleaning the horse, etc. to the stable lad. Gardening? That probably means frolicking in the garden smelling the floors and not much else... The hired gardener does the work.
@Lenlon703
Жыл бұрын
They probably think gardening is watering plants elegantly from tiny cute watering cans and moving an already potted plant into a beautiful outside container without getting any dirt on them and finishing it off by sitting near the plants elegantly or stuff. Other stuff is actually done by the gardener, the way elegant (aristocratic) ladies acrually do back then
@alicine-sims8988
Жыл бұрын
I have a feeling their gardening is much more, choosing where in the garden the rose bushes and lillies are going to be planted, and handing a detailed plan over to their gardener. Just like with the equastrianism, buy a horse and house it at the stable, come ride it and brush it's mane sometimes while the stable hands are the ones carrying bails of hay and shoveling poop out of pens.
@nothankyou7979
Жыл бұрын
Pretty sure it‘s from the time where rich ppl brought home exotic ferns in edwardian cases from their ‚explorations‘. And yes, women were only allowed to keep ferns as any other plants were deemed too „phallic“ for them…
@yoyomagique
10 ай бұрын
I feel like being ladylike is just another way of making women NPCs in men fascinating lives.
@van_ol1056
Ай бұрын
This but they also shame other women or poorer people while doing that
@MiraAchaiah
Ай бұрын
Forcing yourself to align your hobbies, and interests with an image is like the definition of being fake to your core
@primcasiha
11 ай бұрын
Hearing parents regularly sigh and asking you, "how are you gonna get a husband?" whenever you didn't want to wash dishes or sit in a way that un-ladylike when you were literally children is CRAZY
@vivi5771
11 ай бұрын
Bonus points if they are divorced and ESPECIALLY if there's a history of abuse (be it in the family or communities everyone is familiar with) and wonder why their own kids aren't interested in getting married.
@lemsavage9473
11 ай бұрын
ME TOOOO
@zejra
10 ай бұрын
Frrr 💀💀
@SimCatsie
10 ай бұрын
My father would literally say to me (rather, scream to me, with full pure hatred in his voice), when I was 4 or 5 years old: "You're a DISGRACE of a WOMAN!!! Nobody will EVER love you!!!! You will be a divorcee!!! No MAN will EVER want YOU!!!". So... I did listen to him in the end. I didn't marry a cis man and we've been happily together for 20 years and counting.
@jl4260
10 ай бұрын
I got told no man would ever want me because I was good at debating - by my own father no less.
@corbiepayne
Жыл бұрын
Important etiquette rules for a lady: 1. A lady does not shit in the restroom, a true lady shits on your scrapbook. 2. A lady doesn't dirty her hands eating cheetos, instead pour the contents of the bag directly into your mouth. 3. Put cyanide in your husbands food to make it look like a heart attack, be so consumed with grief that you never marry another man and spend the rest of your days with your handmaiden in your deceased husband's expansive estate.
@Deteriorated_Kitten
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will use these. I’m sure everyone will appreciate them and their ladyness.
@thewizard555
Жыл бұрын
last one seems toooo interesting
@RawMayonnaise
Жыл бұрын
This is true I can confirm
@elizabethification771
Жыл бұрын
Finally, true etiquette.
@grandpretredesalpagas4665
Жыл бұрын
Fun fact : if your husband already has heart problems, you can use a beautiful purple flower called digital instead of cyanide
@chaimahfood
Ай бұрын
As a former equestrian I can confirm that being thrown into a T-Post and nearly dying from getting trampled because the horse saw a leaf is the most ladylike hobby
@charliehatch288
Ай бұрын
Gardening is super ladylike. If you only have to lightly prune some flowers in a sundress, while your paid gardener does all the work in the background
@AshleyxVlogs
Жыл бұрын
Being “Ladylike” or “elegant” is like the art of looking aesthetically attractive to men 24/7.
@ClaraWeirdoMiss
Жыл бұрын
which I don't give a shit about lol
@TheQueen-sw4th
Жыл бұрын
I do it for myself not for men
@missbimbeaux
Жыл бұрын
@@TheQueen-sw4th ditto lmao
@stellanewton7656
Жыл бұрын
thats gay bro
@ptero93
Жыл бұрын
Except that it isn't honestly. If I saw saw an actual person doing any of this crap I'd just be confused as hell. Efficiency is attractive
@jarvis
Жыл бұрын
not cool. i lost my family in that toilet
@thenotsoamazinggracetnsag3463
Жыл бұрын
What is the infamous JJ doing here?!?!
@ringer1324
Жыл бұрын
It shows a major flaw in our society how it took Me this long to find the Jarvis Johnson comment.
@carynn3496
4 ай бұрын
RIP family
@user-ih7cv1if2r
4 ай бұрын
Sorry ma'am🖖✋👇🖖🖖🐖🐖🐖🐗
@meptune0335
3 ай бұрын
@@user-ih7cv1if2rbro found out what emojis were
@sezentutum9870
9 ай бұрын
The one about “things elegant ladies never do at home” had me WHEEZING as I was watching the video in my cluttered kitchen wearing a bleach stained shirt drinking soda out of the bottle. Literally checked all the boxes 😂😂😂😂
@idontlikehumansthatmuch
3 ай бұрын
hey, me too.
@kafed656
7 ай бұрын
There's someone I follow on youtube who talks a lot about lady-like behavior, but she ALWAYS makes sure to say that being lady-like isn't a necessity, and that if you don't want to be traditional feminine, you still deserve just as much respect, and I love that. I hate being told that acting like a "woman" is the only way to get love
@ophilianecr
5 ай бұрын
Yes, agreed, many don't "need" to act this way. But the thing that irked me the most about this video is the covert way in which Chad Chad just doesn't acknowledge that these are videos for WOMEN, who CHOOSE to be more ladylike, not for kids. Instead she's twisted the whole thing and its like this is meant to shame women who like the idea of etiquette or embrace traditional feminine rules of social presence. The whole time, she just made crappy, unfunny jokes instead of thinking critically beyond Cristian upbringing and patriarchy.🙄😒 How can women say they "support and uplift other women" when they have this gross rhetoric that anything "hyper-femenine" or "traditional" is inherently bad? Not to mention there's PLENTY of trans women who embrace hyper-femenine mannerisms as part of gender affirmation. So too can cis women choose to feel gender affirmation by choosing to behave like this.
@kafed656
5 ай бұрын
@@ophilianecr thank you, couldnt have said it better myself. the whole part of uplifting women INCLUDES uplifting those who desire a different life than you
@Outcast115
4 ай бұрын
@@ophilianecr How does it feel to embrace misogynistic social norms? Because that's what these are, oooooops.
@Pugkin5405
3 ай бұрын
@@ophilianecrSay you missed the point of the video without saying you missed the point
@ophilianecr
3 ай бұрын
@@Pugkin5405 sorry, girl. Some of us can think critically when we consume media and we don't need creators yelling us how to think and feel🤨. Tell me you feel personally insulted because i had a criticism, without telling me....🙃
@jesscastro4183
Жыл бұрын
Ah yes, as an avid gardener, I fully agree with her list of hobbies. I’m out here in no bra, messy bun, dirt/cow s*** caked under my nails, dodging wasps and covered in mosquito bites, all with a runny nose because also…allergies. So graceful, so elegant 👸
@turqussy
Жыл бұрын
Omg bridgerton irl 👁️🫦👁️
@salmonella7993
Жыл бұрын
I think the biggest question is: why do you have cow semen caked under your nails? Like just pick it out with your teeth like everybody else...
@justinwatson1510
Жыл бұрын
By gardening, I think they mean supervising the help to make sure they don't steal your tools. Lol
@jalepeenus
Жыл бұрын
@@salmonella7993 oh
@turqussy
Жыл бұрын
@@salmonella7993 girl.
@Ashton8844
Жыл бұрын
my grandma used to tell me i wouldn’t get a boyfriend because i wasn’t ladylike enough, it always upset me that she cared more about me getting a boyfriend than how i felt
@Abra_Dabra
Жыл бұрын
Lol. Little does she know that not all guys like lady-like
@mavis.lahar2001
Жыл бұрын
@@Abra_Dabra most guys like whores and sluts though, they loooove strippers XD Grandma didn't know.
@Ashton8844
Жыл бұрын
@@Abra_Dabra YEAH EXACTLY my boyfriend could literally give less of a shit he also likes even tho i’m a trans dude so that tells a lot too
@Abra_Dabra
Жыл бұрын
@@Ashton8844 Oh, yes, explains a lot. My brother is trans too and no family member knows cause we were sadly born into a transphobic family and it bothers me that she calls my brother ber "daughter". Me personally, I'm just a boy who likes crossdressing🥲👍
@Ashton8844
Жыл бұрын
@@Abra_Dabra i would literally never tell my family im trans it is so terrifying, im sorry ur family is like that too, rlly sucks that people are more willing to be hateful than to accept others
@bblowfishie
7 ай бұрын
The “riding horses makes you lose your virginity” is kind of true as it can break your hymen, but like that literally doesn’t matter at all lmao. Literally like falling or hitting your crotch on something a little too hard can break it too
@princessaeolian1350
3 ай бұрын
Yup . Besides some women retain their hymen even after their first intercourse . So the presence of the hymen is a very bad criteria to decide if that person is a virgin or not , and being a virgin shouldn't even matter.
@zuzannanowicka6348
13 күн бұрын
You know that your hymen isn’t supposed to break at all ever? 😂😂 Hymens don’t break, they are thick af and stretchy, nothing breaks during the intercourse…
@slartybartfast
6 күн бұрын
@@princessaeolian1350 Also the fact that some women don't even have a hymen in the first place
@princessaeolian1350
6 күн бұрын
@@slartybartfast I wasn't aware of that info , but thank you for telling. I stated the above based on what was in my textbook lol .
@worstusernameintheworld9871
3 күн бұрын
exactly, stretching/doing yoga and riding a bicycle can also apparently break it as well, or using tampons. It's not a clear indicator of who's a "virgin" or not tbh
@Haikavehismycomfortship
10 ай бұрын
As an equestrian I can confirm that chasing after my horse, picking up horse poop, getting dumped off of my horse when it spooks, and grooming my horse are very elegant. I often wear a white ballgown and glass 8 inch high heels. 😌
@van_ol1056
Ай бұрын
How do you afford horse riding? Isn't it a wealthy people thing? I had a friend who did große riding and they spend like 100 bucks a month on this hobby💀
@Haikavehismycomfortship
Ай бұрын
@van_ol1056 It's true that horse riding is really expensive, especially the more advanced you are, but that's true for basically any hobby, especially sports. Like, off the top of my head, my friend does competitive cheer, and she'll have to spend over 200 dollars on the uniform alone. It's not just for rich people, and as you advance, anything will get really expensive. Just because it can be expensive doesn't mean it's glamorous. Even just stepping into a barn will get you dirty. Horses are animals and are living beings who live outside, so of course, it's dirty. It's not for everyone, and if you want to do horse riding, you have to love everything about it, mucking out stalls and all. I will admit that it is one of the more expensive hobbies, but practically anything that involves another living animal is quite expensive (lessons, tack, gear, cleaning tools, boarding, vet bills, etc.) I would say it's worth it, though. 😂
@van_ol1056
Ай бұрын
@@Haikavehismycomfortship that makes sense, you have to actually care for the animals and even a cat can get pretty pricey once you go to the vet. I think you can call sth a rich people hobby without it being a negative thing. Bc those hobbies are more accessible to people with financial stability or kids who are lucky to be born into such families. Having a normal middle class income will make you less likely to actually go to advanced levels, it's not sth most people can do. Doesn't mean that people who do those don't work hard on their hobbies or anything. At least where I live it's a thing for privileged people to deny their privilege or normalise it which is odd bc usually poor people are frowned upon so I kinda don't get that 😅
@hutchj27
Жыл бұрын
genuinely envious of how well she kept those books on her head and also how clean that kill was, truly a pro lady
@ezraclark7904
Жыл бұрын
With an outfit and skills like that I'd say she's probably around a level 6 lady
@Medusa_The-Bard
Жыл бұрын
@@ezraclark7904idk she seems like a level 7.5 lady to me
@dungeaterfancam
Жыл бұрын
@@Medusa_The-Bard I agree, it looks like at least 65 one-handed and 80 in archery, she must be at least level 7 and that’s if she didn’t level light armor
@Medusa_The-Bard
Жыл бұрын
@@dungeaterfancam yes agreed
@Delphis-strawberry-service
Жыл бұрын
I love how archery is considered a “ladylike hobby”
@helenaraytray3427
Жыл бұрын
I mean… worked for Kaguya
@Followthecat893
Жыл бұрын
How is ARCHERY considered a lady-like hobby? They keep saying “Women have to be dainty and elegant.” Yet archery is the exact opposite of dainty and elegant.
@eli-drache4933
Жыл бұрын
Most of those hobbies I honestly wouldn’t consider “ladylike”. Because I assume “ladylike” as a hobby means “sit still, look pretty, be polite, and make good conversation”. Also, don’t ever show to anyone you are a human being with bodily functions who can experience strong emotions.
@joandarc441
Жыл бұрын
Both genders can do that tbh.
@hoveringvan9961
Жыл бұрын
@@Followthecat893 There's elegance in archery
@camilla8129
10 ай бұрын
I remember last year I was obsessed with aesthetics and it was so stressful to keep up with looking good all the time. I still have that style and I like to dress up, but you should see me when I'm late for my musical theatre classes or when I'm exercising (actually it's nice to have a passion that makes me forget about my appearance). We women tend to forget we're humans too :(
@Iizzzzzzz
10 ай бұрын
Remember, you're dressing up for you, not other people.❤
@Iizzzzzzz
10 ай бұрын
However, the simpler you dress, the less worried about your appearance you'll be.
@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736
4 ай бұрын
First world problems
@snkybrki
20 күн бұрын
@@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736Indeed, but problems nevertheless.
@CUOL_Official
10 ай бұрын
As a guy i can confirm that i dont drink water. I dont know how am i dead all i know is that im not gay.
@arrianah3890
Жыл бұрын
Wow she actually kept those books on her head pretty well. Chad Chad is a pro at looking expensive and fancy
@JustMeAri
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. That was impressive
@macularius
Жыл бұрын
I was not expecting the books to stay on while she was standing in the tree
@jaaykaay
Жыл бұрын
Super fancy
@jollop
Жыл бұрын
@@maculariusstanding in a tree? Did you not see her running full speed with a stack of books on her head?
@macularius
Жыл бұрын
@@jollop I was kind of assuming thru most of it that she had something helping the books stay on her head, but at the tree part I was like "wait, this seems like it would be difficult regardless"
@andystellar
Жыл бұрын
As someone who practices multiple of those "ladylike" hobbies, I laughed out loud when I saw them. Skiing. Baking. Elegant. You've got to be joking
@jimjimson6208
Жыл бұрын
fr bro. And gardening? Gardening lmao??? I doubt this person has ever picked up a shovel in their life
@VibingMeike
Жыл бұрын
And equestrianism?? One of the hardest and most dangerous sports ever? Be fr
@fbiagent3998
Жыл бұрын
Like baking seriously? why not reading or knitting lmao
@Kat-il4gg
Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! Skiing is nowhere near “eLeGAnT. “ And same with baking.
@itz_lexi_6453
Жыл бұрын
i bet these ladies will faint as soon as they see the posture and clothes itself that we need to wear/maintain during skiing, also i always kinda thought of skiing as a bada$$ sport
@landonkam6727
Ай бұрын
It literally took me 11 months to get that the hologram at the end was a Hunger Games reference. 💀
@MCeeEscher
10 ай бұрын
Holy actual fuck Chad crouched goblin mode in a bush trying to draw a toy bow and arrow while the books come tumbling off her head at 10:14 launched me entirely into a geosynchronous orbit of the planet.
@cowboys846
Жыл бұрын
i love that she ends every video with “i’m gonna call it there guys” befor the video colapses in on itself and becomes a black hole. she truly is shielding us
@justanothernpc5419
Жыл бұрын
because she did not specify if she was going to the bathroom ,thus causing concern😢
@kr_sh_
Жыл бұрын
Why did i read it as edging us
@TheAbigailDee
Жыл бұрын
This is so performative and I can't even imagine how exhausting it must be. Even when you're home alone, or engaging in your hobbies... It would just drain me to thinks of these roles 24/7. I feel like people who live in this world need a hug.
@christinesmith1827
Жыл бұрын
I can't imagine the stress of thinking about how I appear to the world while I'm gardening or eating dinner at home with no guests!
@morestereo
Жыл бұрын
“performative” is the perfect descriptor for this! reminds me of the feminist studies on the subject of femininity as a constant performance. it’s heartbreaking tbh
@sitoe9858
Жыл бұрын
Just in case it wasn’t clear, this performance of elegance is for men. It’s to increase your chance of getting picked. And the fact that it even extends to hobbies and time in private just expresses how the pick-me mindset goes beyond just performing in front of men to be picked - it’s about existing that way even in their absence because we don’t exist for ourselves, but for them. You can’t behave or dress or like what you actually like even in private because the male gaze should occupy your mind even then. Because you exist FOR them. Crazy that this has been a thing for so long
@Zectifin
Жыл бұрын
yeah this is like peak fake.
@NotThatMaryElizabeth
Жыл бұрын
@@sitoe9858 I'm curious, where did you get those ideas from? In certain parts fo the world etiquette may have been traditionally associated with women, but the truth is that both men and women of higher class and nobility were expected to adhere to proper etiquette. It's not just about putting on a performance to attract a partner - it's always been a way to demonstrate one's social status and educational background. These Tiktok videos, while entertaining, don't provide an accurate representation of what the real etiquette classes look like.
@badidea5949
10 ай бұрын
Imagine you're date just gets up and walks away with no warning or explanation whatsoever
@revolvertaco7493
2 ай бұрын
Imagine?
@xavierreed9697
5 ай бұрын
I had some guy tell me drinking from a straw is gay 😂
@Kat-gm9bx
5 ай бұрын
🤣
@qstionblomens6138
Жыл бұрын
Ah yes, the elegant hobby of digging in the dirt, bending into uncomfortable positions to make sure the seeds are at the right depth, lugging watering cans around, wearing stained gloves, and fighting insects. ✨ Ladylike ✨
@JockeSohls
Жыл бұрын
Obviously she meant rich people gardening, not actual gardening, which involves telling the underpaid servants what to do in the garden while you faff about on a horse, or whatever else it is rich people do with their time.
@jesusheals3799
Жыл бұрын
don't forget getting mud all over your face, hair, AND body, tripping over the tools and hose, getting dirt under your nails. truly elegant ❤
@jesscastro4183
Жыл бұрын
Literally just typed out a very similar comment…then scrolled and saw this 🤦♀️😂 But yes…nothing says elegant like dirt and cow s*** caked under my nails. So fancy!
@jesscastro4183
Жыл бұрын
@@JockeSohls yes, she absolutely meant lawn decorating, not actual gardening.
@ghostlyhousehorrors
Жыл бұрын
@@jesusheals3799 and nails. You really have to dig out the dirt out of the nails to clean it. No regular hand washing is getting it off in one go.
@avawillman4221
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad we have someone to look up to for lady advice … someone like Chad Chad
@afellowpotato
Жыл бұрын
All hail Chad Chad!
@cristaldotexe
Жыл бұрын
True chad behavior
@calamityheh
Жыл бұрын
Very true
@germ1e
Жыл бұрын
@@afellowpotato sis xz
@iiheartt.prtty_grlz
Жыл бұрын
Oh yes indeed.
@rabbit7261
Ай бұрын
hobbies, uh? I remember, around six months ago, where I told a friend of mine that I like to write small stories in my free time. He then told me that he is not impressed and that I should find more suitable hobbies for myself because writing apparently was not only out of my league and hard, but also a sign that I wanted attention. I still write stories, I think I got a little better, and I don't speak with that friend anymore
@beidousimpd5309
Ай бұрын
If it’s alright with you, could you share some of those stories? I’d love to read it :)
@rabbit7261
Ай бұрын
@@beidousimpd5309 well I don't think I'll ever actually publish them, I can tell the plot (I took inspiration from "The Owl House & Amphibia"): a girl is teleported in another world along her friend, but they separate. Her goal is not only to find her friend, but also go back to earth. During her journey, she finds out that not only she's not the first person to come in this world, but that she was actually summoned, though the guy who summoned her wanted to call someone else. Anyways they go back to earth, eventually the guy who summoned these two girls goes back to the other realm (he comes from earth as well) and frees the world from the emperor, who wanted to use the grimoire this guy is currently using to do stuff, to invade other universes. Before the final fight against the emperor, he discovers that he was summoned by an higher being to restore balance, so he's basically fulfilling his destiny. The two girls then come back to the realm and receive powers by this being, together they defeat the emperor and come back, but since the world is about to collapse (this was the emperor's last curse before d34th), the boy decides to stay and sacrifice himself in order to keep the portal open, so that his two friends come back to this world. The only thing he asks is for them to tell his mother he loves her and he's sorry he's left her. The story ends with the two girls going to the guy's house and deliver to her mother the message. Now the story is pretty summarized, I skipped the developing parts of the characters and the week they spend together on earth, the part where the guy finds the "higher being", but I hope I did a good explaining (I have two more but they're longer, plus another one I'm currently working on).
@rabbit7261
2 күн бұрын
@@beidousimpd5309 I just realised that I wrote the plot of one of my stories in answer to your comment but it did not register so there's actually no answer
@philm94
9 ай бұрын
"Do you ever get to take a break?" No, that's the point. It's origins are subjugation and control
@dedel1303
11 ай бұрын
This is literally just : how to get social anxiety 101 Step 1 : Always worry about your appearance and how people think about you Step 2 : Review every single one of your actions to keep this appearance Step 3 : Do it inside your own home to have even more anxiety !
@alexeigimenez
9 ай бұрын
Wow me!
@Nikkikillas
9 ай бұрын
Me af
@Kat_dragon
7 ай бұрын
Lesson: don’t be ladylike( if you don’t want to).Be you. Edit: if you enjoy being ladylike, be ladylike. What I’m trying to say is be you.
@vecxio8070
6 ай бұрын
It's disingenuous to say that the 3rd one is bad, the advice is essentially "be clean and tidy" (though the one about drinking out of bottles is odd I must admit), but that's a useful piece of advice for anyone, it's scientifically proven to be helpful for a clearer and happier state of mind, and it's not something that only women are told, men are told that all the time too, it's one of the main things Jordan Peterson talks about. I understand that some people don't want to do that and want to relax at home, which is fine too, but belittling legit information doesn't seem right to me.
@vecxio8070
6 ай бұрын
@@Kat_dragon Some women are going to behave ladylike and others won't, both are valid.
@EarlyOwOwl
Жыл бұрын
Shoutout to all the little girls that ended up with insane internalized misogyny for years because they were scolded by their teachers for being "unladylike" and had to learn to define womanhood for themselves in their later teen years without any parental guidance! You're doing great sweetie
@pentagrin4157
Жыл бұрын
Grew up in the Deep South and had "lady lessons" from a status obsessed aunt. I only use the book balancing thing as a party trick (its a lame one too) and I'm basically the complete opposite of what she was aiming to make me lol.
@lxvezaya
Жыл бұрын
@Highest In the Room boi pls do a favor in society and stfu
@Green-cactus.
Жыл бұрын
having standards is not wrong but too much is neither goof
@VoltaicFox
Жыл бұрын
And the scolding from parents! Don't forget that! 🤗
@ligoodberry6794
Жыл бұрын
@Highest In the Room You're just mad that she's right clown.
@finnintheowlery
12 күн бұрын
can i just stress my appreciation for the “chAD time” thing in the corner whenever there’s an ad so i know how many times to fast forward and how long the ad’s gonna be?! like thank you that’s so helpful no one else does that and also nice pun
@Art-With-Me-UNITY
10 ай бұрын
5:20 … this is a huge problem for me because I like the cluttered/maximalist look 😭
@zerotohero14
Жыл бұрын
I legit took etiquette classes(at my grandmother's behest) so that I could have a debutante like she couldn't afford for her daughters. I did it to make her happy but even the instructor made it clear, "no woman is forever perfect, but please do your best in public". These women are trying to delude themselves into being princesses.
@christinesmith1827
Жыл бұрын
That sounds like my grandmother as well. She always makes comments when we're going out in public or when guests are going to be around, but mostly leaves us alone at home unless we're doing something particularly unpleasant to her (i.e. slurping the last drops of a drink through a straw or something 😂). Feels like the only way to realistically live with the "elegance" pressure!
@greenolive44777
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. And I don't have a problem with it until they start trashing other women who aren't "ladylike" in public
@fatcat1414
Жыл бұрын
I took etiquette classes myself as a means to help my poor social skills due to autism. I didn't and still don't understand the reasoning behind half the stuff I was expected to do, but it does make one feel oddly powerful when you can make someone warm up to you by sitting or speaking a certain arbitrary way. I think these ladies have fallen for their own illusion.
@sadwasdead5065
Жыл бұрын
and trust me, real noble women from a few centuries ago lounged without underwear in their rooms too
@obiependragon9660
Жыл бұрын
Is your name Serena Van Der Woodsen by chance?
@AmethystDraws.
Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad TikTok gave us this opportunity to learn how to be perfect ladies by none other than our perfect lady, Chad Chad
@Zectifin
Жыл бұрын
Chad Chad quality editing is peak elegance.
@Ur.local.dip.shipper.Esther.
2 ай бұрын
I love how she listed “art enthusiast” as a hobby and coming from an artist myself, having your hands covered in paint and pencil led while you also have the most cluttered desk due to how much paint there is and getting splatters on your legs while having some of your clothes ruined in the process is super elegant
@robocalico419
8 ай бұрын
I hate how they wag their finger at the screen. It just. It fills me with so much rage.
@deema4220
Жыл бұрын
One time my science teacher scolded me for eating a banana in the hallways and she told me it wasn’t “ladylike” and it genuinely affected me and made me feel uncomfortable eating bananas at school
@sunnchilde_
Жыл бұрын
something similar happened to me but with corn dogs :(
@TimeTravelingFetus
Жыл бұрын
Holy shit. That's literal 3rd grader mentality.
@siilverREAL
Жыл бұрын
@@RamenAddict369 a real lady has vitamin deficiency
@malachitemalice
Жыл бұрын
@@RamenAddict369 Real Ladies Have Scurvy And Type Like This!
@peteryeeterson5766
Жыл бұрын
If you’re still at this school, deepthroat a banana while staring directly at her to assert feminine dominance.
@allie6152
Жыл бұрын
I think there's an important distinction between "art enthusiast" and "artist." Being an artist is messy, certainly un-ladylike, whereas being an enthusiast means you just have to sit back and determine what is "good" art and what is "bad," and especially which pieces to decorate your super classy and tasteless home with. Another commentor mentioned that gardening is really hard, dirty, messy work, not just deciding which plants you want in your garden and hiring someone else to do it.
@josefstalin9678
Жыл бұрын
The difference between the architects, civil engineers, and interior designers vs the carpenters, stonemasons, and construction workers.
@Fortu-nate
Жыл бұрын
People who hire prof. gardeners often don't even specify the plants. They just say what kind of style and maintanance level they want and if it should be producing food or not.
@zakosist
Жыл бұрын
Having been part of a communal garden myself, I just took it for granted gardening is kind of "dirty" and wouldn't even assume other people dont get it. But I dont think its directly gross. Im also an artist like actually paint on a regular basis and have even had my artworks at small scale art exhibitions a couple times. Painting creates a lot of mess and spilling on your clothes is almost certain to happen at some point, so its recommended to not use the nicest clothes you have (which is were it would get "un-lady-like"), but you can if you want. People restrict themself way too much if they can never do anything you wouldn't do in fine clothes
@zhumin3557
Жыл бұрын
@@josefstalin9678 would say it's slightly different. The examples you've mentioned is forming a plan and executing said plan. The difference between artists and art enthusiasts is that it's planning/executing and simply supporting the projects indirectly by being a big consumer, respectively.
@user-dd5eh5lu3o
Жыл бұрын
I was a Master Gardener for a few years and it is a lot of work shoveling soil and propagating plants and transplanting seedlings and planting, digging etc. All outside in the sun with bugs. :) My mother in law used to just have a gardener come do her front yard then talk about "her" flowers. Meh.
@LongLostInideQueen
10 ай бұрын
I just discovered you and I ma so inspired for my own channel You're so unique and hilarious and authentic. You running while holding your dress during the "High-Lady Hunger Games" killed meeeee. And the exchange of the stature creating versus scrapbook making had me straight hollering. Thank you for your content!!!
@ktt9724
2 ай бұрын
9:49 😂😂 “please don’t 😟” 😂😂😂
@antjewhipple3853
11 ай бұрын
as a former ballet dancer i can confirm we are all so elegant and our studios 100% do not smell like feet and we definitely always have perfect posture and we never fall, it’s obviously the most ladylike thing you can do
@arielgalles2107
10 ай бұрын
The amount of back and core strength ballet dancers have makes me think it's the type of sport where you go home and die on the couch after every rehearsal.
@deepcrab
9 ай бұрын
I'd assume this is neglecting the whole "your big toe nail can fall off" thing
@estay.azimullah
7 ай бұрын
haha i like ur sarcasm
@gentlesandladymen
7 ай бұрын
THE FEET SMELL OH MY GOD 😭 so many studios smell fucking rank
@rookideetrainer1635
6 ай бұрын
OwO smelly feet you say? Joking, but you can take this as you want lol
@juliafelicione2667
Жыл бұрын
The “ballet class is elegant” thing killed me given that i rolled up there today in like four layers, oversized tshirt and sweats as the top layer, and *gasp* sneakers. The only thing i ditched to start the class was the sneakers. Performing is elegant af and rehearsals require leotards and skirts and such but for class most of us call it a good day if our clothes match. Also we sweat something awful regardless because ballet is HARD.
@coldramen8620
Жыл бұрын
Especially if you take adult classes. I did ballet all the way through highschool and we had a dress code. I picked it back up again recently as an adult and they don't give a fuck what you wear anymore.
@domeatown
Жыл бұрын
I mean, that's true for most of the things she listed. They are hard and require a great deal of skill and work. I think what's happening here is the packaging of things that are actually totally fine in infantalizing wrapping paper because society has to denigrate the things that women like
@novemberblake9505
Жыл бұрын
That got me, too. No actual dancer is that TikTok ballet core stereotype. She has so clearly never performed any of the hobbies she listed in the video
@dawnriddler
Жыл бұрын
You're lucky, we all had to wear the exact same thing, black leotard and white stockings, if someone wore something different, they'd make such a drama out of it and kick you out of the class.
@CYFIOinc
Жыл бұрын
My ballet teacher always used to say she couldn't tell if we were using the right technique if we didn't have just the basic leotard and tights on, though we were allowed to wear a sweater if it was cold. Don't really miss doing classes, though quitting cold turkey did fuck my body up a bit lol
@SpookiestSoup
10 ай бұрын
4:22 she clearly has never heard of the legendary Bend and Snap™️
@Imvery_tired
10 ай бұрын
I do horse back riding and can confirm mucking stalls and falling off isn’t very elegant at least in my opinion
@felitareed7780
Жыл бұрын
The main thing I took from the multiple etiquette classes I was put in is that etiquette is supposed to be about making the other person feel comfortable. So the whole tiktok trend just seems excessive and an excuse for mean girls to put down other women.
@fixsationon7244
Жыл бұрын
Yeah its weird
@embroideredragdoll
Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jala618
Жыл бұрын
Thats what made me dislike the Real housewives of potomac. Even for someone who grew up poor, most of their "rules" are just common decency lol
@Mel-nw2ko
Жыл бұрын
Tiktok does that to a lot of things sadly.
@dismurrart6648
Жыл бұрын
I'll never forget when I realized I, a country bumpkin, have more class than my rich family(i wasn't raised with them, long story). Tldr, I did something embarrassing on complete accident at a wedding. Every last one of them fled the table and made me sit alone embarrassed. Imagine my shock when I took etiquette classes and realized my instinct to help someone in that situation is considered classier than this "everyone makes 6 figures and wants for nothing" family.
@180thislife
Жыл бұрын
every time I’d hear the word “ladylike” as a kid, it’d usually be followed by “no men will want to marry you” so glad I live in a whole different country now away from them
@ironicallyormaybenotsadgir9589
Жыл бұрын
jesus christ I'm Algerian, it's literally most my interactions with older women
@acleo1421
Жыл бұрын
Being Jisoo's wife is far better anyway 😆
@purplepapos1460
Жыл бұрын
My mom tells me that she's Mexican 💀
@itzmehDevi
Жыл бұрын
Haha sucks for them I DON'T WANT TO MARRY MEN EITHER
@user-cl6jp8ps4c
Жыл бұрын
@@acleo1421 Hahahah frr
@jakubmikoajhyrnik4676
8 ай бұрын
Savior Vivre is actually extremely strange by itself, and with all the additions that women must face, it's like a hell on earth.
@Skwigglez_alive
9 күн бұрын
Funny thing is, I have style, and I wasn’t born in 1672
@starstorm1267
Жыл бұрын
Ugh, all the memories of my mom telling me to be more “ladylike” for being myself. The more she said it, the more tomboyish I became lol.
@avourrito1819
Жыл бұрын
yay me too. I'm still young so the rebelling has ended up with me having pixie cut hair for 3 years now
@commandercorl1544
Жыл бұрын
legend has i,t this is where trans men came from.
@undercoverdontjudge1576
Жыл бұрын
literally what ive been doing for so long and its amazing 👍👍👍
@uzytkownik15
Жыл бұрын
Funny how this works, my mom pays a lot of attention to „ladylike” looks - the result is I wear metal band t-shirts and yoga pants, and my sis exlusively male coded clothing
@RealAryanGupta
Жыл бұрын
@@commandercorl1544 absolutely not. There are plenty of men who love tomboys. I dated one when i was 14. We're both in our early twenties now and she still hasn't transitioned into a man. Just because a woman isn't traditionally feminine, doesn't mean she'll become a man😅😂
@carolinet7021
Жыл бұрын
The only one of those hobbies I could MAYBE afford is baking. Also, she does not care about being ladylike. She cares about looking expensive. What she means by ladylike is upper class, e.g. hobbies the commoners can't afford. As another comment said, a true lady keeps her guests comfortable, not feeling inferior.
@ao3x
Жыл бұрын
affordable gardening
@cattherat-ss4kv
11 ай бұрын
@@ao3x as in being able to afford somewhere with a garden
@justaperson4656
11 ай бұрын
@@cattherat-ss4kvpots
@cattherat-ss4kv
11 ай бұрын
@@justaperson4656 you're getting free pots?
@justaperson4656
11 ай бұрын
@@cattherat-ss4kv a good dumpster dive gets you a lot
@user-cw3wm9lx7w
10 ай бұрын
5:33, absolutely I wear a kilt at home. I can only wear a kilt like in public like 3 days a year. and the Kilt is more comfortable and i haven’t yet developed the courage to wear it outside all the time.
@SimaNotNice
10 ай бұрын
you gotta tell me what you use to edit your videos 6:13
@your_local_human9738
Жыл бұрын
so she dislikes athletic wear but approves ballet? i think she should observe a class
@whatadistinguishedgentlecat
Жыл бұрын
Exactly, ballet wear is usually consistent of leotards and skirts, but athletic wear can also be allowed in certain ballet schools (ours doesn't allow it unless your leotard reeks of sweat and you don't have anything else to wear), because the fabric is flexible. Doing ballet in "ladylike" clothing should be considered a goddamned torture, since you're going to spend so much time with itchy clothing and inflexible fabrics that can break upon any stretch or combination the ballet teachers give you.
@Rettequetette
Жыл бұрын
Yes, and how am I supposed to work in the garden without ever bending over or getting my clothes dirty? Also, a fancy dress wouldn't be very practical, just like in ballet class.
@jarjarthebredloaf
Жыл бұрын
Bro stop existing, it's not ladylike.
@your_local_human9738
Жыл бұрын
@@whatadistinguishedgentlecat exactly, i couldn't even imagine doing a pointe class in fancy "lady-wear", its already tortuous enough in a leotard and tights
@rycoreco633
7 күн бұрын
Only discovered this channel recenly. the edits at the end are top tier lool
@vikaziza1506
Ай бұрын
"Don't turn your back and back out slowly when leaving." Are we visiting a pack of wolves or what?
@tabsterg
Жыл бұрын
I like how all the lady like hobbies are just "be rich" like there isn't a single one that doesn't require having more money than you need to survive
@anzaia2164
Жыл бұрын
All of those require having more money than more money than you need to survive. If you have a bit of money left at the end of the month, that can be enough for a lot of hobbies, but not for any of these
@windy8544
Жыл бұрын
@@anzaia2164 i dunno gardening can be cheap if you already have a yard and you're growing potatoes
@anzaia2164
Жыл бұрын
@winny Yeah, real gardening is cheap in money (not in time and energy, haha) I just think that is not what she is talking about
@chequeplease
Жыл бұрын
@@anzaia2164 baking is cheap af, it's cheaper to beak your own bread than to buy it
@madisonl893
Жыл бұрын
to be fair, being an art enthusiast is basically free
@mcboingboingsister6258
Жыл бұрын
as someone who has been doing ballet for 11 years. the only time we are ever ✨eLeGaNt✨ is when we're on the actual stage. Theres nothing aesthetic about sweating and bleeding so much you could fill a swimming pool, getting bunions and blisters, dancing on top of your toes with little padding and moving in ways humans aren't supposed to BUT making it look easy, eating disorders, and verbal abuse from teachers.
@sofastuffing
Жыл бұрын
Bleeding??
@mcboingboingsister6258
Жыл бұрын
@@sofastuffing from blisters, other toe injuries, and falling :)
@heilli
Жыл бұрын
@@mcboingboingsister6258 oh yes and ofc The beautiful fully fallen out(ripped out) toenails during practice and then The taped nailless toes, continued practice with toeshoes is My favourite ✨aesthetic✨and sorry of My writing errors im little in hurry ( and dyslexia+ english is 3rd language)😭 ❤️
@sofastuffing
Жыл бұрын
@@mcboingboingsister6258 oof
@katie4165
Жыл бұрын
My pinky toe nails still don’t grow in normally after like 8 years since I quit it’s gonna haunt me forever 😭 I still miss being on stage though!
@marlenezoet
8 ай бұрын
Keep loving your humor and edits, cracks me up every time 😂
@artisteye204
10 ай бұрын
I've heard some say art or painting is an elegant/ladylike hobby. And as an artist, that's just hilarious! A big majority of us are stressed tf out, mentally ill, live off of coffee or energy drinks, and can be heard loosing their shit over that one pencil that just keeps breaking.
@rybat2000
Жыл бұрын
i love that this whole culture of "ladylike" etiquette came about so that women would look better for potential husbands... friendly reminder that women do not exist to please men
@FATEHAA
Жыл бұрын
true!
@ariannarivera8254
Жыл бұрын
Literally
@azudemttila
11 ай бұрын
They do
@azudemttila
11 ай бұрын
Nah we actually do😊
@berserkagain7976
11 ай бұрын
@@azudemttilatroll man detected opinion rejected ❤
@izzyiguess13
Жыл бұрын
baking is so elegant especially when you have flour all throughout your kitchen and blow up some cookies because you didn’t put flour in them (true story). especially when you are practically dying laughing because of how burnt your cupcakes are. so elegant guys
@Plusboyserpremacy
Жыл бұрын
This comment is literally me when ever i try to bake 💀
@danielasarmiento3101
10 ай бұрын
Or when you're entirely covered from head to toe in flour as your face itches, and you can't scratch it because because your hands are covered in bread dough
@jenkathefridge3933
9 ай бұрын
@@Plusboyserpremacydon't you learn from your mistakes when it comes to baking?
@Plusboyserpremacy
9 ай бұрын
@jenkathefridge3933 I do yes, and I've gotten better but my oven doesn't always work right and will get to hot, or not hot enough so even though I've learned what to do and what not to do I still end up burning something. And my comment was meant as a joke so I exaggerated how often I burn stuff, It isn't literally when ever I bake
@jenkathefridge3933
9 ай бұрын
@@Plusboyserpremacy As long as your improving that what matters
@Fizzymilkshakee
6 ай бұрын
Whenever I drop anything I squat to get it, you can never be too safe
@HannahKayW
10 ай бұрын
I laughed to tears at the home alone etiquette 😂 girl I come home from work and glug down a bottle of beer in a huge oversized shirt and eat dinner watching Star Trek and if that means I’m not a lady I don’t want to be one LOL
@courtneyfaithmis
Жыл бұрын
So I fell into a major depression and couldn’t bring myself to shave consistently. I felt like I didn’t have to always been perfectly shaved and the guy I was dating at the time knew I was struggling with depression yet made a fuss over me not shaving because it wasn’t ladylike. I dumped him soon after.
@Anonymous-54545
Жыл бұрын
big yikes. i don't shave because i just don't feel like it. if my partner was rude about it i would find that bizarrely controlling. totally classless
@once.upon.a.time.
Жыл бұрын
That's really awful, I hope you didn't take his jackassery to heart. Glad you dumped him!
@twistytoast5533
Жыл бұрын
Shaving is such a modern eurocentric concept, don’t sweat it hun. Less than three centuries ago no one woulda gave a shit if you had some hair. And if you think about it, that’s only three long-lived people ago. Most of your ancestors were out here hairy and continuing the bloodline regardless.
@FiddlebirdBlue
Жыл бұрын
So glad that you dumped him! You deserve so much better and I hope you're ding well these days
@love13f
Жыл бұрын
Glad that hes an ex
@juliasutton8634
Жыл бұрын
as an autistic lady, I will absolutely never take any advice from these women. Also the hunger games bit at the end made me laugh really hard, love you Chad Chad
@michelleh.5225
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I am autistic as well and I read American Girl books as a kid instead. Those are so much healthier and less toxic.
@justabout6979
Жыл бұрын
Just curious, why'd you include that you were on the spectrum? Do you mean" it's hard enough socially, I don't need more rules"?
@juliasutton8634
Жыл бұрын
@@justabout6979 that's a great question! lots of people on the spectrum have specific preferences on clothing, almost always removing shirt tags and anything scratchy, wearing only soft clothes that feel comfortable and don't cause sensory issues instead of choosing clothes based more off how they look. I couldn't believe the tik tok lady said no baggy clothes EVEN AT HOME, I'd go insane! The whole vibe of deciding everything you do based on a stereotype is just so toxic, true self expression is really important for everyone, but especially neurodivergent people
@likewise7mercury7
Жыл бұрын
@@juliasutton8634 on a related note, as someone also autistic, I was pretty much the golden standard for lady-like as a child (well for how young I was at least) my need for things like quiet spaces, soft clothing, not wanting to participate in rowdy activities, not talking unless prompted... it aligned me with a lot of things expected of girls and women. And I just happen to do those because of sensory issues, not at all because I was trying to be that way or look down at others. (I WISHED I enjoyed being rowdy! they looked like they were having fun! but I just got overwhelmed) I think this especially made people surprised (and usually irritated) when I would Not align with lady-like things. I can only assume because either; it broke the illusion that I was this perfect kid, or that if I was lady-like in most things, then I should know how to be in all aspects.
@embroideredragdoll
Жыл бұрын
@@justabout6979 I’ll be honest, I find that most etiquette is a lot easier to learn than regular social cues. Only problem is that a lot of these etiquette accounts aren’t necessarily teaching etiquette to be a better, more considerate person but teaching women how to some haughty ass “high value” woman. We don’t want to be subservient to some guy with a Ferrari, we just want to be polite and graceful for ourselves and the people around us or at least I do.
@AMO3BA_
5 ай бұрын
"You are *not* a jar of peanut butter, so *STOP.* *SPREADING.*" Favorite quote from this video.
@layna9672
4 ай бұрын
I have severe social anxiety and honestly this type of mindset has got to be just so exhausting, especially when you’re purposefully trying to think that way.
@djsierra777
Жыл бұрын
These ladies on tiktok radiate so much "business lady traveling back to her small hometown for the holidays in a Hallmark movie" energy
@Aster_Risk
Жыл бұрын
Thankfully, those characters usually end up realizing it's okay to be messy, imperfect and a regular person.
@silverlining7112
Жыл бұрын
@@Aster_Risk right after they meet a handsome vineyard owner
@Amy_Dunn
Жыл бұрын
Super ironic that she says wearing yoga pants makes you look less "expensive," when women who are actual Billionaires wear yoga pants out in public... regularly. Lmao
@wyndle9228
Жыл бұрын
literally
@solaris5922
Жыл бұрын
Rich people dress down when not at a extreme event, you’ll be surprised they own money. Which goes to show people making these videos don’t know what they’re talking about. I had a teacher in middles school that had about half a mil in stocks and you couldn’t tell. 💀
@LadyMFUnicorn
Жыл бұрын
Most dress like us, these women are living a royal life. With strict rules
@RaptorFromWeegee
Жыл бұрын
Dah-ling, you ah mixing with the wrong billionaresses. Like fathah always said, "be careful who you park your yacht by"
@anunknownperson4018
Жыл бұрын
@@RaptorFromWeegee its true, wealthy family don’t brag about their money bc most know they are wealthy. These ppl don’t have high status, so they have to show their wealth and tell.
@serendipitychipdip
Ай бұрын
I thought this thumbnail really said 'Elephant Women' instead of 'Elegant Women.' And I didn't even question it.
@slartybartfast
6 күн бұрын
This just sounds so incredibly exhausting and draining.
@GoddoDoggo
Жыл бұрын
I love how "proper etiquette" girl is telling you you should want to look "expensive"; people of actual wealth nearly always prefer the opposite. If you're a person worth knowing, people will know who you are regardless of how "expensive" you attempt to make yourself look. Also love Lady Purple Dress at 6:30, attempting to demonstrate how to walk down a staircase in a "proper and ladylike" fashion whilst wearing what are "politely" referred to in "High Society" as Hooker Heels.
@TreesNotBeach
Жыл бұрын
Golden "hooker" heels with a dress that is so flimsy, so 'elegant.'... Not to mention that next "elegant" lady will tell that, no, you actually can and need to hold on to the railing. Also, have they seen The Queen walking down the stairs? I mean, the lady was sort of an epitome of étiquette and elegance. Or Duchess Catherine. They don't walk down the stairs looking like a Disney movie high school queen b.
@DragonriderEpona
Жыл бұрын
Lol xDD I've always found this kind of videos (I got some recommended some years ago) a bit weird because some things they say and do are quite the opposite or not quite the thing wealthy people do. And why do so many of them have obviously made their lips? Doesn't it contradict what they're saying is elegant?
@ps1hagridoufofcharacter
Жыл бұрын
also, she looks goofy af lol. not ladylike at all
@Nugget_0verlord
Жыл бұрын
Celebs are the oone who made yoga pants trendy lol
@superfreq7378
Жыл бұрын
not to mention that "looking expensive" sort of just sounds like she is a sex slave.
@Detective_asparagus
Жыл бұрын
The thing about "sitting ladylike" drove me INSANE, and still does now because my mother still goes on about it. Her reasoning was "boys can look up your skirt or stare at your crotch!" Which freaked me the hell out as a kid. I ended up being horrified of men, because I was given the impression that everyone around me was a huge creep that was just WAITING for me to open my legs a little bit. Nowadays, I don't care about it and just sit how I like. I haven't had a situation where anyone's looked at me at all as far as I'm aware. Thanks mom lol Edit because I remembered more: my mom has always been very paranoid about creeps, so I couldn't wear anything "revealing". However, the pants thing stuck with me the most, because I had to change how my legs are naturally, when I sit down they naturally either spread out or do that "criss cross apple sauce" thing lol
@kitcat2449
Жыл бұрын
I remember my mom telling me the same. I didn't quite like skirts back then and I used to sit in weird positions (still do). I was really stubborn so I retorted something along the lines of "then they can look, for all i care." I didn't see what was the big deal especially when I was wearing stocking underneath.
@AM-tl1xi
Жыл бұрын
I’m almost 30 and my mom still wants to annoy me about how I sit. “Adults don’t sit like that”, is the new version and guess what, I’m an adult and I do. I’m a short adult who doesn’t like to have her legs dangling off a chair,. Only disadvantage is that it’s not very comfortable for cats, only cats will make me sacrifice comfort for a bit.
@shohanwilks
Жыл бұрын
see my mum told me to sit like “a lady” even while wearing pants all the time😅 but never explained why, so it was always confusing to me, I think it’s actually fair enough for parents to worry about perverts, but it’s the others fault, not the child. I also had a boy in class poking girls between the legs with a ruler under the table (they all had skirts on) I snitched on him but it made me glad I had pants on and made me question why on earth a boy would think to do such a thing.
@JK-ml2rc
Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's why I hate skirts now. Because to me wearing a skirt/dress means I'm gonna have to hold up to a certain etiquette and I don't want that. So now I just wear pants. Tho recently I've started to wear maxi skirts which are also comfy and I don't need to worry about flashing someone.
@ceoatcrystalsoft4942
Жыл бұрын
I'm sure some might look, but it's rarely intentionally seeing what can be seen. Perverts make up a relatively small percentage
@Blossom793
Ай бұрын
Okay, is no one gonna mention how good at balancing books on her head she was?
@rosebowe9228
6 ай бұрын
I losted it when she said "how are we gonna show the restroom? I thought we couldn't talk about it"
@electricmagnetic
Жыл бұрын
Sitting in my onesie, eating jam sandwiches, chugging soy milk from the carton, watching this on my phone while taking a break from sorting my yarn which is all over my floor. Nailed it.
@annoyingkid48
Жыл бұрын
Sounds like a great time tbh :)
@queerantine69
Жыл бұрын
I...I'm doing the same but it's soda not soy
@sjsomething4936
11 ай бұрын
And likely immensely happier to not be trying to comply with someone else’s ideas of what is acceptable. Enjoy!
@quinsnyder3403
11 ай бұрын
Dog fur covering me and my yarn balls while I watch this and ice my wrist(because I crocheted too much with my yarn balls) and I eat Mac and cheese from the pot
@mrmrfahrenheit9127
10 ай бұрын
This sentence has a sick beat to it
@s9ftie
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely hated being told to act more “ladylike.” The more I was told that, the less “ladylike” I became lol.
@dream_walker9726
Жыл бұрын
Hence why I’m non-binary lmao
@s9ftie
Жыл бұрын
@@dream_walker9726 me but I’m gender-fluid 😭
@raine_rainegoaway
Жыл бұрын
SAME BUT IM FTM
@LobsterMobsterTheCrispiestLoaf
Жыл бұрын
Luckily I've never been told that, but I am very proud that I am the exact opposite of "ladylike".
@s9ftie
Жыл бұрын
@@raine_rainegoaway AY AY🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
@Leyxoxo122
Ай бұрын
I can’t find any other KZitemr this entertaining 😭🙏
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