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@malakwael1506
6 ай бұрын
Your tips so practical. It's not just tips, it's real life experiences. That's what I love about your coaching.
@sshabavaa
Ай бұрын
can’t wait to use this first day of school (help i don’t wanna go)
@rowancc
Ай бұрын
vibesss
@ItsKennedyDarling
6 ай бұрын
This is the kind of social intelligence that comes from knowing thyself 🙏
@fierceandflawed
6 ай бұрын
Growing into my authentic self. Once I cut out people pleasing, I’ve realized I am nonchalantly balanced naturally… when I feel the need to please others or shelter myself I become unbalanced.
@iamacoffeemonster
6 ай бұрын
Ariel, could you make a video on how to stay balanced and conserve your social energy while working a customer service job or just dealing with customers/clients? I've utilized the tips you offer and they've changed me so dramatically for the better, but I find it so hard not to exhaust myself and fall into a state of inferiority when serving customers at my job (where I'm kind of supposed to be in an inferior position to the customers because it's my job to serve them). I get really nervous around intimidating customers and I think sometimes they can sense my nervous, off-balance energy. Your videos have genuinely changed me, thank you so much :)
@Anonymous__S
4 ай бұрын
I'm not nearly as knowledgeable as this person, but I would like to share my theory (I can't try it out myself). Unless you've found a video already, in which case, share? Since you're falling into a state of inferiority, maybe you should try to compensate it with trying to get into a state of superiority. Not on a literal basis, but on a rational basis (if that make sense). I can't explain it better right now, so I'll just give you a few examples. - Instead of thinking that it is your job to serve them, think that you're choosing to serve them. Yes, it is your duty to serve them because it is your job, but it's a job you chose to stay at (I know sometimes we get into jobs we don't like for major reasons, but try to believe it still, talk to yourself about it). - Think of your own service as an act of kindness. On customer service you have to show a good face, but bad impressions are far more memorable than good ones, which means you shouldn't put so much effort on making a good impression anyways (people will notice when you're trying too hard). As customer, the best services I've received are simple, straightforward, where I get my answer right away and where the person has shown patience when I didn't understand anything. So as long as you're getting involved and answer properly, I don't think you need more. In summary, instead of being intimidated by them, try to remind yourself that THEY are the ones in an unbalanced energy and feel sorry, pity and/or compassion for them. Might sound safe entitled or something, but this is happening inside your mind and people can't hear it anyways. Sometimes, tricking our own hearts is the only way.
@arrow2sun
6 ай бұрын
As a triple air sign, these tips have been very useful to implement and also help make sense to some of my situational temperaments.
@Saffron777
6 ай бұрын
This is intelligence! I'm so happy your content came to me ☺️
@CynthiaMurillo-w3q
6 ай бұрын
Wow this is great. I feel like topics like this aren’t discussed. NOONE I know talks about stuff like this
@on3trackmind
6 ай бұрын
Your work is masterfully nuanced, empathy at an extremely high level. Tapping right in 👏
@emilycruz4887
6 ай бұрын
As someone with multiple complex chronic illnesses I find myself still wanting to be a people pleaser and I think even more so now that I now have many limitations and feel as though I have nothing to offer. So I feel like I overcompensate by being in my “soft” wayy too much. This has caused people to think I’m not really “sick” or have a lot more energy than I say I do. So thank you for this content. Really gives a different perspective
@Rhyspieces3678
6 ай бұрын
This is amazing. I really like how you explained the combination of sharp and soft and how the energy behind our words works during conversation. I want to have better conversations with my friends and I think this will really help.
@ravegringa
6 ай бұрын
Just found your channel a few days ago and it’s been such a great experience to learn more about balancing. Thank you for what you do :)
@henlohenlo689
6 ай бұрын
what works for me i get better reaction from people is i talk to them like they are a baby or a friend or a parent but without being obvious i am doing so, and keep a generally respectful vibe, sometimes i deliberately make myself more awkward sounding to try to put at ease the other person but it usually works. what usually doesn't work for me is talking to people in a mean tone, for some people aggression works it's how they manipulate people but for me it's never worked very much. but i am not aiming to manipulate people. just to mainly have positive interactions to have less resistance we rely on others to some extent. also it gives people less reason to slander and libel me behind my back if they never seen me even be the slightest amount aggressive. sometimes people want to discriminate and looking for that opportunity that little moment of the victim being aggressive to then justify in their own minds the discrimination. so that is another perk of the route i take. i actually risen intoa decent job from this methods, but i eventually threw it away and fell back into the mediocre range of jobs within my profession.
@venuskissed
6 ай бұрын
Girl ur hair is fabulous omfg
@aki.wanders
6 ай бұрын
Love your content topics! Good to know many others resonate with the notion of eye-level energy and how that affects our day to day communication with others. As a chronic people pleaser it's not easy to shift the energy but I shall keep practicing ❤ love yout MediVibe playlist too. Thanks for sharing 🙏
@ArielNiuViews
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much ♥️ and love how you’re medivibing!!!
@cushystrawberry
4 ай бұрын
anytime, i just say “comfort” inaudibly n just feel a lil more comfortable or other times I use “easy girl” to take things easy.. both almost work the same but i prefer one over other depending on the situation c:
@D35p3r4d0
3 ай бұрын
I have been a practicing Stoic for quite some time now, and oddly enough I have only recently thought about acting nonchalantly about life. Perhaps that is an indication that I have been doing wrong, or perhaps this is merely the next stage of that journey. Either way, I was very happy to have found your video. Lots of great advice. Thank you.
@theetravelhippie
4 ай бұрын
your content always hits
@deborahdominguez4689
6 ай бұрын
brooo i love your videos they help me so much when im at work and not sure what to do😮💨🙏🏼
@goldenari295
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, for your wisdom & your realness. You’re such a breath of fresh air ❤️✨
@CDCarmen
22 күн бұрын
I find that when I am inferiourly or superiorly attached it's harder for me to learn from that moment after the fact. It takes such a load off when I am at peace when I've treated a person neutrally or balanced, instead of being reactive, and then I can analyze what I can improve about myself.
@lyzschmid678
6 ай бұрын
Thank you soooo much ❤❤❤❤
@wilwad
3 ай бұрын
From Mars indeed
@ORIGINALJRL
6 ай бұрын
Fun to watch this channel evolve and get more refined. One thing I wonder about: is the purpose of being nonchalant to please yourself or others? I liked how you talked about feeling unauthentic with others. I've been there lots... I find the secret is to not care what anybody thinks of you. No matter what.
@ArielNiuViews
6 ай бұрын
It's both. When we please ourselves with confidence and grace, it pleases others to see. When we please others, we please ourselves. In your act of being authentic with others - doesn't it also include them seeing you in your authenticity? We live in a world of relationships, everything is connected and interconnected and people are mirrors and reflections of us. So it's very difficult to 'not care about what anybody thinks of you' - that's why it's balance. You care and don't care. You do you AND you observe your surroundings and feedback, and you decide whether that feedback is helpful.
@------6ampoems
6 ай бұрын
@@ArielNiuViews this is a really lovely , highly nuanced response , ariel ... thank you -- i really enjoy your ability to find nuance where so many others are happy to just run where the road is already paved ! ... yes , nuance & nonchalance ! -- w / love & gratitude -- mark - in - northern - california - w / heart - space - open
@iMoosker
6 ай бұрын
How about, "We have to see things from a Niu view"? Lol
@Eastwardhell
3 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@maribreeze7560
6 ай бұрын
Could you make a video about how to check in with yourself before making commitments to other people? I often find myself over committed and frustrated that I didn’t see it coming that I would be overwhelmed, simply because I was so eager to do the thing or participate, which leads to a lot of guilt when I need to cancel or rearrange plans.
@startpage717
5 ай бұрын
That haircut looks cute on you...
@TheHighCouncilOfTheChosenOnes
6 ай бұрын
Keep up the good work..and you're so sweet.
@sana-gq2ur
3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@Kerrpy
2 ай бұрын
Now I just need dreads
@s-chanel6836
21 күн бұрын
Is this a real person? I cannot tell, looks animated or Robot to me. Good content tho.
@acedickyy
2 ай бұрын
yapping for 14mins is not nonchalant i dummy💀
@jlo803
6 ай бұрын
I need this Ariel, im so glad i found your IG account and then your channel
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