I’m a former model that dated and was engaged to male models. Almost every single female, young and old, would try me (and my man). One particular girl was an old group friend from HS. She would always lurk on the fringes and the second my man stepped away to, say, go to the bathroom or run to the bar to get us drinks, she would corner him, alone! I would tell him to watch out for this girl but he was like “baby, she has nothing on you, we’re all friends. We’ve known her since HS” and I would say “of course she has nothing on me and we were friends since HS but she has been lusting after you since HS and is trying to come after a HS friend’s fiancé. That’s not ok. She’s disrespecting ME and our relationship.”… He would laugh it off, reassure me and brush it under the rug. I’m not the jealous type, he knows that so if I’m bringing up that something isn’t right was a female, he needs to move different. Either step back from said female, cut her off or remove her access to him. But he didn’t. He would chuckle, reassure me the like 3 times I mentioned it and then brush it off. All while I see her blatantly disrespecting me and creeping on my fiancé. No problem! I dumped him and obviously cut her off completely and told mutualism she was always trying to roll up and steal my man. Well, now see can have him cuz I’m done- oh, wait, she still doesn’t have a shot! 🙄 My ex-fiancé would crawl back whining and crying about I’m the best thing he ever has (for YEARS after I dumped him) and how this HS old friend did indeed shot her shoot but he “never saw it coming (?!?)” and saying that I was right and he never should have doubted me. Oh well! Too late! You don’t get to keep clowning me and brushing my concerns under the table while a woman blatantly disrespects your fiancé! No, no! It doesn’t matter if “you don’t see it”! The fact is that YOU FIANCÉ does! Her feelings are valid and girls can pick up on girls’ shit. Recognize it. And treat it seriously. Make moves to remove yourself and protect you woman and your relationship. Period. Because that’s what real men do. Any man who laughs off your concerns or ENTERTAINS OTHER WOMEN’S ATTENTION is “the co-villain” and needs a serious convo. If after that convo he doesn’t adjust his behaviour, DUMP HIM! He’s trash and welcoming of this drama. He loves the attention and feeling women are fighting over him. He’s in his divine feminine era. 🤮 Kick him to the curb. I had been blocking my ex fiancé but he’d pop up and mutuals’ events or slide in my DMs via mutual contacts on social media, etc, etc. I had to drop a lot of people who would allow him to still have access to me. No problem. The trash was helping me take itself out. I learned valuable life lessons from this and really saw who my true friends were. A real man and real partner wouldn’t put you in a situation like that. He would have told her to talk to you and removed access to himself. He would have suggested you (Kelly) give your sweater to the friend (Joanna) and he would have given you his hoodie (Kelly). The only person wearing his hoodie and posting in it for weeks would have been you (Kelly)! He would have removed himself from the “close friends” list because she can communicate to him via you (Kelly), no need for that especially if he caught wind of any thirst/attention traps 🪤. He should have asked if Joanna had also brought Kelly a sandwich because Kelly helped with the TV too. He should have told Kelly about it immediately and asked Kelly to pick up the sandwich and eat half with him. But he didn’t because he loves the attention and the drama. Avoid males like this at all cost. They are catty females in what’s supposed to be men’s bodies. They think they are the prize and love all the female attention. They will always disregard your feelings, gaslight you and downplay the issue while eating up all the attention. They are toxic AF and will never have your back. You can’t trust them. I only date very attractive men, so I know that females like this will be throwing themselves at my man but I sit back and watch how he behaves. If he doesn’t shut it down, I get rid of him- and cut off any female “friends” that tried it because they weren’t real friends to begin with. My life is so much less drama because of it and I know who my real friends are. 👏
@MBJean
4 ай бұрын
I needed that, thank you ❤
@NatzTalk
3 ай бұрын
I love this! 💛
@faye_isc
3 ай бұрын
jeasus christ who cares
@linahrae
2 ай бұрын
dated a lot of v good looking people, musicians and models so they had literally groupies. GROUPIES. like idk if everyone understands how your best friend will LITERALLY THROW THEMSELVES at your man. in front of whoever and whenever. it is SAD and sickening to watch. And guess what: one of them just laughed about it and you can tell he just didn’t want the attention to stop. never avoided her, laughed at me, chuckled w his friends about it behind my back, laughed at jokes other people made about her being a stalker of his, doing everything BUT just avoiding her and being respectful to me. now i had another man that when this happened, he actually acted like i existed and agreed that the girl was being awkward asf. so we tried to avoid hanging out with her and when we did it was very platonic.m and one sided on her part. so guess which relationship lasted longer lol
@quinnisbored
2 күн бұрын
Im screenshotting this story to keep and remind myself
@Daevii_wbu
10 ай бұрын
Wearing another girl's boyfriend's hoodie for weeks and posting about it is weird...
@TOMFOOLERY334
10 ай бұрын
Lol "she thought it was cute" 🤡
@Daevii_wbu
10 ай бұрын
@@TOMFOOLERY334 😂
@transitionsnc
10 ай бұрын
Agree.
@melovetolaugh6417
10 ай бұрын
And I really thought it must be a really really cute one but girll its the most basic black nike hoodie that you can buy anywhere 😭
@KM-ne1ft
10 ай бұрын
it was probbaly an exaggeration. I doubt she wore it 24/7 for weeks straight
@susannehuber3996
10 ай бұрын
If he cheats he’s trash anyway.
@catcat9582
10 ай бұрын
I don't think you can steal someone.
@kpopme7327
10 ай бұрын
you can't "steal" someone if they don't want to be "stolen" 😂
@catcat9582
10 ай бұрын
@kpopval7327 right right. I definitely think a lot of us women still believe that the woman has more power over th man and should be the moral mediator if there's attraction and interest from a guy who is in a relationship. I just know most people play by the line all is fair in love and war. I've always restricted myself but it seems others don't do that & it's unfair
@frenchgirl5878
10 ай бұрын
People can not be stolen this but they can definitely be seduced even if they were not initially attracted. I know a woman who was really beautiful and had an average looking shy girl friend. Because the shy girl didn’t have many friend, the married woman decided to bring her along any time she went out with her husband. In the beginning the husband wasn’t thrilled at all and had to be persuaded by his wife to accept her company. Well, that same, average looking, shy girl who didn’t have many friends managed to seduce the husband and break up the marriage.
@ayayouta5698
10 ай бұрын
Yes u can't ever steal someone , they wanted to be stolen 🤦🏻♀️
@crystalclear7453
10 ай бұрын
Not steal but seduce.
@gloss525
10 ай бұрын
this video made me realise my boyfriend’s not just mean for the sake of being mean, but because he literally shuts down everyone for me, even his mum who doesnt like me because of religion. he always makes me feel like i’m his prize and he’ll protect me and his life changed the second he met me, at first i thought he was just poetic but after watching this video, it really opened my eyes to how mens’ brains work. make sure to tell your boyfriend you appreciate him if he’s good to you ☹️💕 much love
@user-lt7ff1tg9f
10 ай бұрын
If he cheats, he isn't supposed to be your man. If he wanted to be your man, we wouldn't mess up the one chance he has with you. He would be smart enough to know that and NEVER take you for granted.
@HiThere-tv2bd
9 ай бұрын
It's always girl vs girl. The guy should also put up boundaries. He gave her the hoodie, he showed up to get the sandwich, he helped her move. Sounds like he was low-key reciprocating whatever flirting she was doing. I doubt she would have done as much as she was doing if he shut her down but he's laying back unscathed probably enjoying the girls fighting over him.
@jayceyallen7745
9 ай бұрын
Idk I think it depends on the specifics, he gave her the hoodie in the begging of knowing both girls when he was single and may have not expected it to turn into something so serious. And every other time he saw the old friend he brought the current gf with him. So he knew to never be alone with her. I don't think he did anything to make the old friend think he was into her but she probably thought he wasn't dedicated enough to the main girl that she could easily convince him to choose her. He must have been pretty sure about his decision on which girl he liked bc there's really no instance of him going back and forth with the girls. Ppl keep saying he let them fight over him but I don't think there was anything he could've said or done to make that girl stop the weird behavior so he made sure not to contact her or be alone with her. For at least good few weeks the two girls were still friends while he was getting to know the main girl so he may have been trying to not seem rude in front of the girl he was pursuing. If the main girl was blind to her friends behavior and he made the wrong move it could've made the main girl think he was a bad guy, esp with the old friend trying to manipulate the situation in her favor. I feel like there's not enough info about things from his perspective to judge him negatively.
@NullPointerException7
10 ай бұрын
Thank you! When this whole thing popped off my first question was "well what was the boyfriend doing? Was he just letting all of this happen?" We can all agree that Joanna was in the wrong for what she did but nowhere in Kelly's or Joanna's stories did either of them mention the boyfriend trying to shut it down. That was immediately sus to me and not enough people are pointing that out.
@crystalclear7453
10 ай бұрын
I'm gonna go with the girlfriend, you can tell from the beginning that the fake friend is gaslighting and trying to justify her trashy pickmisha methods 😂 with arguments that make no sense for anyone with a ounce on dignity and empathy. I had my crush, who I was dating at the time, seduced by my allegedly bff. It was a toxic friendship and that petty action was the straw that broke the camel's back. The guy was low value so she actually did me a favor (my current boyfriend is a keeper) by showing her disgusting true colors for real and also exposing that loser; nevertheless, it's not ok to break girl code so next.
@Tkeqen
10 ай бұрын
The moment I know the man I like has a gf or has a crush on someone, I feel all the butterflies turn off, like wow, the chance to get 100% of attention is gone, even if he turns into liking me, it’s because his attention on his crush/gf was not 100% and he starts sharing it to me. Like I want a monopoly on attention and care.
@maryserenitya13
10 ай бұрын
Joanna was definitely plotting.
@novanoire93
10 ай бұрын
All of the good men are taken. So take the man that's taken. 😂 That's like saying all of the money is at the bank, so rob the bank. And you don't have to take these men, they're usually for the world 😂
@FeryxSuperior
10 ай бұрын
that girl needs to grow so much, if this is what she does to her friends imagine how she is in her relationships
@lilgoldenbuddy
9 ай бұрын
This could not have come out at a more important time in my life. There’s a woman at my job who I had to train who kept talking about how she’s having an affair with one of our colleagues, where she is the other woman. Subsequently, whatever friendship she thought she had with me and the rest of the department is deteriorating. Being a pick me is the death of her connections, so sad she can see that in real time now.
@fyevalentine7670
9 ай бұрын
Let’s talk about the girl who tries to befriend you because she knows you like someone that she likes.
@mirawann
10 ай бұрын
Elle i am so obsessed with your channel, your content, your energy, just YOU!! Could you please make a Q&A video so we could get to know you a little more!?
@NanaHoneyB
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for explaining the significance of getting another man food. Because I wouldn’t want another woman getting my man food or vice versa. idc what anybody thinks about that either. You can have your own boundaries/rules in YOUR relationships.
@larissa-nn8ng
7 ай бұрын
The hoodie thing was so middle school behavior lollll
@shryakale
10 ай бұрын
Girl, where do you get your energy from ? Keep spreading this energy for spoilt girlies❤
@jewelb9433
10 ай бұрын
"Close friends don't mean a lot to me"? Tragic.
@tanya4921
2 ай бұрын
Girl you opened my eyes with your videos. Thank you so much ❤
@manic_girl
5 ай бұрын
My best friend in the world has been with her now husband for 5 years, almost as long as I’ve known her. I get along with him, I stay at their house (they live in a different state), I think he’s great. I count him as one of maybe 5 good men I know. But I don’t even have his number much less have him on my close friends story. Because if I need to contact him, I can ask my bestie. That’s weird behavior, boundaries are important.
@Kate-bi9dh
2 ай бұрын
As a woman who is friends with my married friends husbands there’s a way to not be a home wrecker like that! For starters you do NOT borrow a hoodie for longer than that singular event, and ONLY if you are VERY on the same page with your friend that there is no attraction just a jacket. Second, you get BOTH of them sandwiches, after all it makes him look even better to your friend because his labor also provides for her (plus she’s your friend). Third, list her as a higher tier on your friends list, he’s secondary. Fourth, not mentioned in the video but important to mention: don’t compliment him unless he’s self deprecating, and even then only super platonic compliments and circle back to his amazing relationship to your friend.
@wizards_videos
10 ай бұрын
That is actually a real problem if you think that somebody can steal your real friend or boyfriend. However not real people( *nonsense* ) is not what i am gonna concentrate on ❤
@Je-Vette
7 ай бұрын
She’s correct about people assuming that what we buy is given to us by our man. I earned $70k in day trading so I got my teeth fixed and my dental assistant said,” You are so lucky you have a husband who lets you spend $6k on your teeth “. Omg
@commentsforthealgorithm
9 ай бұрын
Even my boyfriend was like “if your best friend took my hoodie for over a week, I would want that back because a week is flirting. If your best friend bought me a sandwich for ONLY HANGING A TV and not you, that is weird.” So girlies it’s not just the girls noticing. ESPECIALLY because I am almost 100% positive she wasn’t expecting her girl to be there. Edit: a situation where she can buy a sandwich is if she offered people in the group “hey I am going to get a Sammy, does anyone else want one?”. If I say no but he wants one then that is not weird. I try my best to ask people I am with to not be rude (although we would of course pay her up front or when she gets back). Just the sandwich isn’t too weird because I come from an Italian family but everything together is a big no-no
@KitKatze1
10 ай бұрын
16:30 Is a very VERY important message💚
@personified3500
9 ай бұрын
The part about the mother in law got me. I’ve been with my bf for almost 4 years and his mom has said some shit to me. I’d get mad at him for not saying shit to her about it, but what you said put it into perspective. Imma think about it:)
@trashcan2748
8 ай бұрын
I get the giving other people food thing, I have poor social skills and love baking so I like to make tons of muffins and stuff and hand them out to help keep and make friendships! But I do that with EVERYONE so it’s (hopefully) very obvious that it’s not flirting. The hoodie thing though sealed the deal! She was in contact enough with him to have him over to set up her TV and give him food but couldn’t give back his hoodie for weeks? I don’t buy it! I also don’t get the idea that going for a taken man will get you a good one. If he’s willing to cheat or leave his partner for you then he’s clearly not that good of a guy, so you either get rejected and you show yourself to be a shitty person or you win the grand prize of getting with a loser who would dip on his girlfriend for some random chick who wants to be a home wrecker! Either way it’s not a good outcome.
@cyanidepacifier5934
10 ай бұрын
Had a "friend" claim not to like a guy after i asked her multiple times go around and spread lies about me and say it was because she didn't like sharing friends... She made me seem insane. I didn't call her out on it but I distanced myself
@Therezumee92
5 ай бұрын
My grandma always said '' Smart man won't leave me and I'm not holding onto an idiot''. Plenty of shady skanks and friends, worthy man won't give them a second. No one can be stolen. But I'd cut it off fast. Disrespectful. Why have that in your life. She totally liked the guy (even it's only for validation and she did not want to ''steal'' him per se). She totally knew what she was doing. That's no friend. There's the door.
@richapatel
10 ай бұрын
pre-selected mate poachers 🔥😂😂
@TheArisen_
10 ай бұрын
I dont talk to my friends boyfriends/husbands and if i do, i only do it when i meet my girls and they happen to have their partners tag along. Heck, i keep almost 2 meters distance even when giving them my hand for a handshake. Idk why some people think you absolutely NEED to be talking to these taken guys and maintain a friendship. I maintain a FRIENDLY relationship with these men without living in their dms. Its not difficult. But thats just me. Its my belief that being up someones s/o butt is disrespectful. 🤷🏻♀️
@junkonatsumizaka5149
3 ай бұрын
I asked my bf what he would do and gave him no context. He answered perfectly! "I'd only loan out my clothes to you. You'd look cute in my clothes." "I'd ask you about the sandwich and offer to split it with you, or tell her I didn't feel like going all the way over there to pick up a sandwich." "I don't accept friend requests from anyone anyways." (He's not online at all unless it's to answer my dm's!)
@avalonzukowski7571
8 ай бұрын
Id rather go cold than wear a hoodie of a friends potential. A towel or throw blanket is much better options.
@23rdcenturyhobbit
10 ай бұрын
Stealing men is too much work, this story made me tired. There was this girl who always did this to me during middle and high school. She never feigh interest until i said something about a guy. 2 wks Bam! She's dating them, looking back she always had low self esteem and many girls didn't like her, very jealous of others but oh well, the last person i said i had a crush on (i didn't 🤫😂) she married the guy out of high school and found out after running into each other years later that he wasn't kind to her & divorced. She even admitted that a guy been head over heels since middle school was pissed that i dated him after his divorce (i was single before meeting ex husband) Though i was married at the time, surprised she didn't try to get with my ex husband 😅😅😅. Respect girl code❤ cuz really you'll always be the loser in the story. And please the men that are in this aint worth a damn either, both are doing you a huge favor to walk away from drama.
@alicec.6195
10 ай бұрын
I can see gaslighting from miles away.
@kiterafrey
10 ай бұрын
If you can steal him from her, he can and WILL be stolen from you too. So, why try to steal, how wants to collect trash like that?
@Rainbowssugar
10 ай бұрын
My man thought I was going to fight to keep him, wrong!! He found out just how wrong he was after throwing his princess tantrum and realized he was NOT THE PRIZE!!😊 lol
@availanila
9 ай бұрын
This drama reminds me of the saying, "two bulls fight the grass is hurt." 😂😂 That man really benefited from this bullfight, huh? Why didn't he just come out and say no, and if Joanna was so sly he could've been even more direct in the assertions.
@LaceyLou7
10 ай бұрын
“You can stop being a pick me right now” We need this on a shirt lol
@ourhoneymoonx
10 ай бұрын
This can be turned around for men right? They shouldn’t be trying to be friends with your girl friends
@yours_eve2001
9 ай бұрын
the friend that tried to steal the boyfriend is a pick me girl disguised as a care taker. Pleaseeeeee! She wanted the boy to pick her instead of her friend.
@persephrotisv.2655
10 ай бұрын
Love Elle! You’re the voice of reason and also so funny ❤
@LiziBeth000
8 ай бұрын
Good men don't let themselves get taken.
@RummanaMoledina
5 ай бұрын
Nobody can steal an adult human being. If they get 'stolen' it's because they chose to
@goldn909
10 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same.. if my man was equally feeling a way about the hoodie situation and wanted it back I’d feel safer..
@sk-nw9xh
9 ай бұрын
there is no need to be close friends with ur besties man. we have a friendly relationship but we never communicate if my friend isn’t around or the conversation isn’t about my friend lmao. i have his phone number & socials, but i have it for the same reason i have her parents phone numbers & socials-for emergency purposes. i couldn’t imagine just hitting him up or even borrowing anything from him just because 😭 the situation would literally have to be so dire in order for me to reach out to him
@spookyjones6577
9 ай бұрын
I dated a guy for a super short period of time but became super attached due to autism/never dating anyone else, long story short he started dating a “friend” in our friend group and she totally stopped talking to all the girls in our friend group. It was so bizarre But yeah don’t date your friends exes, I wish I could undo that trauma
@queenofhorror29
10 ай бұрын
You can tell that Joana and the people that are defending her and calling Kelly “insecure” clearly don’t have boundaries and don’t know how to love people, not even themselves. They’re the ones that love the idea of love and not what it actually is and what it means and what boundaries need to be placed.
@nataliambenzi7206
10 ай бұрын
Woman betray other woman
@Soorya17-i7c
10 ай бұрын
That you so much...I am a young girl and all the knowledge you give is so helpful for protecting ourselves from all sorts of predators in today's world ❤
@nathaliecarluccio7559
9 ай бұрын
Yes no man who loves you will leave you for another 👍 it always takes 2 !
@yulianarivera7693
9 ай бұрын
Society would thrive if women held these standards on men and money.
@SweetCandy-x4j
7 ай бұрын
"All the good men are taken." Not true, a lot of bad men have finessed their way into relationships.
@schrubber98
8 ай бұрын
There is a way to let a crush run its course without crossing boundaries and its so easy 🫠
@gwslakme
10 ай бұрын
watched this video and this made me wann unfollow all my friend's bfs
@autumnossevorth4270
10 ай бұрын
Girl code, if my bestie likes a man. I want nothing to do with the man. I’ll be polite, but I don’t want anything to do with the man. SHE is my bestie, her man isn’t my bestie and is never going to be. I’m not going to put myself in a position to tarnish my loyalty with my girly, it’s not worth it 💅✨
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
This 🫶🏽🫶🏽
@bascoaful
10 ай бұрын
And send links to things she likes for present ideas😂
@autumnossevorth4270
10 ай бұрын
@@AdriannaMindfreak16 babes, you have to be okay with setting boundaries, they protect you from harm. If your friend means you well she’ll understand. As much as you trust her judgement, you don’t feel the need to meet him. You’re glad she’s happy, and that happiness can be kept sacred between her and him. That’s totally healthy. You love your bestie and love having girl time with her. If she doesn’t get it :/ might have to distance yourself sadly :( because then she’s letting her mans get between you two. We don’t want that
@sawdahrahman837
9 ай бұрын
@@AdriannaMindfreak16 my ex bsf would do this a lot, despite knowing her good intentions of me wanting to be friends with her bf and hanging out together. It was never going to work anyway because of my own feelings and insecurity, I just felt like I was missing out on youthful and milestone experiences of what was and is still is expected of some teenagers. I would never get why she would want to push me to the idea of the three of us hanging out cause THE IDEA felt so wrong. Cause I also knew my feelings towards her bf and I felt like I just didn’t need more of this hatred or jealousy to uprise into wanting, needing a bf because I felt soo left out. It felt as if I could not relate to her anymore because whatever came out of her mouth would be ironic. I don’t know why but I have also had this fear- not only breaking up the friendship but that my friend would disagree of me just existing and her bf would too. I kid you not I was actually scared of breaking up my friendship even before she had a bf, when her bf came into the picture it was like now I can’t say certain things cause they will take each others side and now Who The Fuck Am I Left with. Like there is no one to back my opinions, thoughts and feelings when these fuckers gang up. There was also feelings of embarrassment and regret to losing my friend to like I just want to talk, BUT YOU DONT HAVE TO BRING UR BF INTO IT. I know people want others to take their sides but really it’ is just biased. Like wat BF for once actually doesn’t have a biased opinion and agrees with the friend and is not accusing the bf of cheating and a friend’s loyalty. I had conflicts between myself due to leaving the friendship to because “if I were to leave my friendship, her bf is going to think I am a bitch and she will too bc she doesn’t understand my own insecurities and self esteem issues I have when it comes to being single” and there is this other side of regret of leaving my friendship/ friend group where “if I don’t leave now it’s going to get worse for me cause I’m drowning myself into people pleasing her to maintain the relationship we have of each other and her bf is not going to know where I coming from, as if they don’t know where I’m coming from because if I have been left out in other friend groups and this weird relationship we have with each other. This dynamic is weird, I should leave”
@aaaduccs6667
9 ай бұрын
FACTS. shes mine forever, but men??? no. if u truly valued urself as a person, and actually had self-respect, u would never do that to a friend or even another girl.
@amycimaglia913
10 ай бұрын
I have never bought a random guy a sandwhich and wear his hoodie for a week or two, especially if my girl liked him.
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
Exactly 😳
@thandondlovu5392
10 ай бұрын
Thank you because the comment section had me questioning myself. Because that stuff is weird.
@aqua6613
10 ай бұрын
If I'm wearing your hoodie it means we're...it's kinda like a southern thing about cowboy hats...if you're wearing a guys cowboy hat it means you're up next to stay 8 seconds on the bull. Just saying ❤
@saffy771
10 ай бұрын
Yeah and what the hell kind of excuse is "The hoodie was cute and cozy ☺️☺️". Huh? You don't have any hoodies of your own? A girl wearing a guy's hoodie is perceived as a sign of the girl being into the guy, we know how this works as girls. If I was the girlfriend I'd side eye her for that too.
@SummerSun-sg3wf
10 ай бұрын
Yeah second girl was lying
@alldayHK
10 ай бұрын
she didn’t deny any of her pickmeisha behaviors but had an excuse ready for every instance 🚮
@SaradiaSansaricq-zf1lk
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@SilentTrip
10 ай бұрын
I was willing to listen to her, but that hoodie excuse is so BS lmaooooo 😂 girl bffr
@spacedrifterrrrr
10 ай бұрын
And the hoodie wasn't cute either, basic as hell😭😭
@alexiaasf
10 ай бұрын
Sprinkle sprinkleeee 🧘♀️
@alwaysyouramanda
10 ай бұрын
There's no way she didn't consider how it could look to her friend. Straight to girl-jail.
@isabella09dr
10 ай бұрын
I wear a fake engagement ring sometimes to avoid men, dude wears a real wedding band and attracts women! These dating streets be stupid! 🤣
@novanoire93
10 ай бұрын
I do the same! Anytime I don't wear it, I regret it 😂
@VBoo459
10 ай бұрын
LOL lucky you. I wear mine too and one man asked me “does your man not allow you to have friends” 💀💀💀💀
@novanoire93
10 ай бұрын
@@VBoo459 You should've said: Let me FaceTime him and ask. 😂
@isabella09dr
10 ай бұрын
It's not full-proof but it does the job most of the time- especially at work conferences!🤣🤣🤣@@VBoo459
@LammyHowl
10 ай бұрын
Me too! I wear pretty rings that give "married" vibes, that way men will leave me alone. I didn't realize how much they noticed things like that until I started wearing my favorite ring, and they would actually say it out loud. I get questions and comments like: "How long have you been married?" "That's a big wedding ring." "So what does your husband do?" I'm not married yet, but I love responding to that last one with a quick: "Me, that's what" 😏
@jujubee2903
10 ай бұрын
*Girls, as a person who has seen and experienced this, if he's easy enough to leave you for a thirsty pick me, he's NOT good enough for you and you deserve better!!!*
@jujubee2903
7 ай бұрын
I wanted to add, I just found out my ex, who I was with for almost 3 years, started talking to another girl from his church while we were together. He claimed he didn’t want to date me anymore because he wanted to get himself together mentally. A few months later he started dating her. I’ve already seen her cheating young over him and sending paragraphs explaining herself to him…same thing I was doing the entire time I was with him…..I feel betrayed, however, I am not surprised. As women, we KNOW when a girl is being a pick me towards our boyfriends. Our intuition does not lie. Lean into that and don’t feel sorry for these men!!!!!
@NatzTalk
3 ай бұрын
This💛
@multifandomharlot
10 ай бұрын
They're calling girl #1 "male centered" & "possessive" for clocking girl #2's sneaky intentions & ghosting her. Girl #2 is giving, 'It's-not-that-big-of-a-deal' when she's clearly disrespecting boundaries, I will never be on her side. If you've ever been gaslighted in any way, then you know exactly what girl #2 was doing.
@moonlightgoddess4107
10 ай бұрын
They always say they're not doing anything wrong when in reality, she doesn't even have to come onto her man. But she's definitely trying to give him the idea that SHE IS AVAILABLE if they break up, go through some trouble in their relationship, etc and that's tea nobody wants to really think about. Edit: Because I bet you she never asked her if she could add him to her close story to begin with.
@multifandomharlot
10 ай бұрын
@@moonlightgoddess4107 exactly. she's doing all these little things, micro aggressions, that can be explained away as 'not that big of a deal' if she's ever called out for it. & if girl #1 had actually confronted girl #2 about it, instead of ghosting her, she had all opportunity to gaslight her and make her seem like she's overreacting for calling girl #2 out. She did right by ghosting.
@tessarae9127
10 ай бұрын
Yeah like if you have to justify every action with a few sentences of explanation maybe that’s a good idea to not do that… 😒
@HandleUnclear
10 ай бұрын
Girl #1 is male centered though, just as girl #2. They're just on different sides of the male centered spectrum. One the boyfriend in question is his own person, with a brain and two eyes. He is responsible for setting boundaries with other women...not girl #1. Girl #1 need to learn some self respect and ditch the man too, instead of only blaming girl #2, because girl #2 couldn't get away with behavior if the bf didn't allow it. Girl #2 is clearly male centered, she loves instigate drama to then play "not like other girls". She craves male attention, and enjoys feeling superior to other women. Both girls are wrong for different reasons. I am married, one thing I don't worry about is who or where my husband is. If he's dumb enough to cheat that's his fault, not mine, I would be losing nothing but my time in such a scandal.
@multifandomharlot
10 ай бұрын
@@HandleUnclear you know what, good point☝🏼 I agree especially with the last paragraph. As someone in my late twenties (nearing 30) worrying about where my partner is at or who with, should be the furthest thing from my mind, because they (partner) are expected to have the required self awareness and rebuff advances. At these girls ages though (early twenties I assume), I would expect this level of conflict from them, because they're still fresh in the world-of-adulthood.
@slayfaee
10 ай бұрын
If he really cares and loves you he wouldn’t do ANYTHING to lose you in the first place knowing he only gets one chance with you(as it should be) anyway. It’s always the mans job to make you feel comfortable and secure in the relationship
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
Exactly 🫶🏽
@SummerSun-sg3wf
10 ай бұрын
Yep
@Evanescene8444
10 ай бұрын
True. But the "friend" still needs to be held accountable for HER actions. She showed her true colours.
@hanatirk4375
10 ай бұрын
Exactly, but most women are so comfortable going crazy over the other woman instead of their man😂 it's crazy and embarrassing.
@adreamwell570
10 ай бұрын
truth
@jahsdiary
10 ай бұрын
Homewrecker:the hoodie was so cute The hoodie in question:plain black Nike hoodie
@random_person_on_internet
Ай бұрын
😂 her hormones are making it appear cute She is wearing rosy glasses
@MrsLadyLiberty
10 ай бұрын
I'll never forget the time i was out with my ex at like an adult prom thing, dressed up, looking so good that we got voted unofficial prom king and queen. As a plus size spoiled girly who was in the infant stages of becoming a spoiled girly, this was a big self esteem boost. Wouldn't you know one of the little town Joanna's starte trying to not only flirt with my man but tried to get him to leave with her while i was in the bathroom. I found out because when i came out, he had moved and looked very uncomfortable. I asked what was wrong and he brushed it off, saying he was ok. Then a friend tells me what happened. I asked him why he didn't tell me and he said, "because she's trying to ruin your night and i wasn't about to let that happen". Eric was a sweet man. Unfortunately, drugs. RIP.
@gibsonn2018
10 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss, he sounded so sweet 🥺
@SummerSun-sg3wf
10 ай бұрын
Drugs are becoming such a problem in America
@juliehernandez80
10 ай бұрын
Wow! That took a turn. Condolences. Rip.
@glsssm9575
10 ай бұрын
God we need a better drug treatment program. That young man seems so sweet and the system failed him :(
@dshericemo1144
10 ай бұрын
RIP Eric
@cruiseny26
10 ай бұрын
If he can be stolen, she can have him. Not worth having in the first place.
@ReinaAceQ
10 ай бұрын
One phrase I live by "Don't be afraid of losing someone that's not afraid or losing you." If you friend or romantic partner put you in a weird love traingle situation, ditch em both! They don't cherish you.
@saffy771
10 ай бұрын
I find the notion of "all good men are taken" so weird. Like of course if you meet an attractive and charming guy chances are he could be taken, but are we really gonna act like people never break up with each other or are single for various different reasons other than being undesirable. It's not like good men are born in a relationship and stay so for the rest of their life lol.
@nanomia
10 ай бұрын
lol so true
@TharsisianRegion
10 ай бұрын
I also find this really weird, scarcity mindset at play
@pppf_S
10 ай бұрын
and the fact that he probably "is good" because he have a relationship to rely on and that change his own personality for the better than he can be alone.....................
@Creepystalker102
9 ай бұрын
Not to mention how many bad men are taken too
@violets-for-roses
10 ай бұрын
If all good men are in a relationship then I don't want anything to do with a man. 😂 Where's the logic if I have to make him cheat. Don't trust a man who's willing to cheat! I'm starting to think the woman who said that has mental issues and no man can fix them if he's not her therapist.
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽
@jessitabonita
10 ай бұрын
It's like these unhealed pickmeishas haven't learned, "How you get him is how you lose him," and don't have any regard for karma/sowing & reaping. Like, GIRL: you really want a man who'd _willingly_ cheat or be easily manipulated to leave his girl for YOU, and you don't think it won't happen to you?! 🚮
@daisykisses8803
7 ай бұрын
It sounds like a 12 year old wrote it honestly😂
@fx7105
10 ай бұрын
yea girl 2 is the male centered one, also let's not underestimate women's intuition, that's a big part of this whole thing. i would never wear a hoodie of some random guy, ANY guy, even a friend for two weeks let alone a boyfriend of one of my friends. it gives me the ick wearing someone's clothes like that, there's no excusing that. even when you borrow clothes with your girlies cause you borrow that one top for that one outing you don't just continue to wear it for 2 weeks.
@KoVi-jh6uy
10 ай бұрын
Women’s intuition is so powerful! How many times have women had a gut feeling about someone and let it drive them crazy or let others gaslight themselves, only to look like a fool when their gut feeling is proved right? It’s not even like you can communicate with gaslighters either. Just walk away - protect your peace.
@laurah2831
5 ай бұрын
As soon as I saw girl 2 body language and tone of voice I knew she’d been caught. She needs to feel special in every situation and thought girl 1 was someone she could keep below her, well now she’ll have to find a new one. Re the man - it sounded like this was a very new relationship, maybe he was trying to be polite to girl 2 to make girl 1 happy or felt awkward. If it was a longer term situation then yeah, he becomes more responsible.
@natashadickson4819
5 ай бұрын
They are both male centered. An unbothered woman would have let the guy go. The first girl doesn't realize her own power because she doesn't have to buy sandwiches to get a guy. She is cuter and can literally attract a much nicer guy without "doing the most".
@KoVi-jh6uy
10 ай бұрын
If she wanted to show her gratitude to the friend’s bf without stepping over her friend’s boundaries/possibly disrespecting her, she would have given them BOTH sandwiches or an equivalent treat. I know that the friend didn’t mount the tv, but it would have kept her from making her friend feel left out. This is why I’m not friends with my friends’ boyfriends.
@bribro23
9 ай бұрын
Or she could have just told her friend to come get it and give it to him, instead of trying to meet alone
@NatzTalk
3 ай бұрын
I'm not either. I also told my bestie I DON'T want to talk to you and your bf when I call YOU (HE'D take over the phone call) and to me that's weird af anyway. GUESS WHAT!? MY bf ain't going to be chopping it up with you if the roles are reversed.
@kianarosablau
10 ай бұрын
I hate men who make women compete about them. Also dont understand why women blame other woman and not the man.. You are right about the mother in law "issue".
@corpselizzy
9 ай бұрын
The guy was never doing anything to be shit on it was literally the ex best friend the guy never hit on the ex best friend or made her think she had a chance
@destroyraiden
4 ай бұрын
the bible conditions them first.
@ausetbanks3501
10 ай бұрын
When I was close to my one good friend I would never even think or look in any direction of the men she likes or picked....They might call this girl code but I call it common sense ,self respect and morals ..with other women Im not as close to ,I don't always get that type of reciprocation but if my ties to that man is strong and he respects me ,he will g check any girl that I know that approaches him and come back to tell me all about it ... People need to respect boundaries or sit in their karmic backlash when their bad intent comes back around to them and someone tries their man as they did to someone else .
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
This😳
@anafano1613
10 ай бұрын
Kelly didnt even drop any names, so initially we didn't know who the ex bestie is... but Joana still felt called out and made a response? I think she knew that she had her faults and that tells us enough. I want to know the bf's response tho too and if he was assertive enough to say a solid "no" to Joana's advances, ya'll got to be careful with pick me's and men who love the attention from them.
@Lorynae
10 ай бұрын
That's a great observation! Also, those "men" are pick-mes too. Stay safe out there ladies.
@catcat9582
10 ай бұрын
@@Lorynae also, you do realize the girlfriend title is meaningless to most guys??
@Lorynae
10 ай бұрын
@@catcat9582 Yes I know, it's true and a lot of guys only want sex, not a relationship with their girlfriends.
@aniko7125
9 ай бұрын
I don’t really think it got to the point where there was a real “overt” advance to decline. And that’s why Joanna did this the way she did. With these types of women , they do a lot of seemingly innocuous things that in isolation look like nothing, but in totality paint a different picture. She would do enough to make an advance , but have a dash of plausible deniability. (For example: She added the guy to her “close friends “ list , but she presents the defense that “Kelly is on my close friends list too!”) Then she gaslights the girl once she is suspicious. The next step is making everyone one else believe that the other girl is crazy and jealous and eventually get the guy to believe that as well.
@rosannarichardson7951
8 ай бұрын
She’s a narcissist. Any attention is good attention. Had a few run ins with those types of narcs. They are something else. They just want to show the Kellis that she will always be beneath her in the hierarchy (that’s in Joanna’s head) and out to prove it is so. Any spoils from the fallout is just a bonus
@TheGhostofAbigailMills
10 ай бұрын
If another woman can "take" your man, he was never yours to begin with. And even if they do "steal" him, they're going to lose him the same way they got him. I'm truly bewildered when people shack up with their affair partner, expect unbreakable loyalty and then are shocked when the cycle repeats itself. Or worse, "fight to keep their man". Please. Not even the biggest Joanne in the world can budge a man who stands on his integrity and embodies his purpose. OP should definitely take a closer look at her man's behavior in all this ...
@SilentTrip
10 ай бұрын
"Sometimes the better quality of life comes with not having a partner." PREEEEACH MISS ELLE ❤🙌❤
@chandanavanam1123
10 ай бұрын
that hit me naawww i want a partner😭
@Rosetta-gp9mk
10 ай бұрын
@@chandanavanam1123same 😢
@mae1062
10 ай бұрын
@@chandanavanam1123lol I get you girl...but I think the most important part it to be okay first without a man. That way if he turns out bad you won't be afraid to walk away because you're already okay and content being alone
@Dodo_Airlines
10 ай бұрын
@@mae1062 THIS ✨
@sarahr4231
9 ай бұрын
I think this sometimes and I just got married in September 😢
@sharkizinhanha3317
10 ай бұрын
No the friend is trying to outdo the girlfriend. She’s a pick-me ratchet.
@bodaciousmo
10 ай бұрын
Straight up predator!
@Likelyfairy
10 ай бұрын
Pick me ratchet is my new favorite 😂
@sharkizinhanha3317
10 ай бұрын
@@Likelyfairy 😂😂😂 I went through a similar situation w a girl from the Midwest that tried to snatch up my ex. Believe you, me, she was also a pick-me ratchet…!! 😂🤣🤣
@AaliyahGrady.
9 ай бұрын
imma start saying that lmaoo pick-me ratchet
@RS-007
10 ай бұрын
Yea that friend is one of those girls who purposely disrespects boundaries and needs attention while playing victim
@deebutterfly19
10 ай бұрын
Hey girly! You’d be proud. I finally broke up after 2.5 years with a man who did not appreciate or see my worth. I kicked his ass to the curb! And I did it amicably and smoothly. I still talk to him but boundaries are thick and he moved back to his home state. Your videos have helped me tremendously to put myself first and remember who tf I am ! Thank you. ❤️ For anyone trying to leave someone who doesn’t value you, I know it’s scary as hell to step out on your own. But I can testify that it’s worth it. It’s Day 3 of the breakup and I feel so much lighter, and just have peace of mind that I never had in the relationship. It’s hard but well worth it. 🙏🏽❤️
@advisorywarning
10 ай бұрын
💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@slayfaee
10 ай бұрын
Good on you but trust me, block and delete his ass for good!
@Lissitchka
10 ай бұрын
@@slayfaeeyes, because they are always coming crawling back Please ditch him forever. A New man will come. ❤ and don't forget. Peace of mind is the Priority. I am myself in an similair situation. Stick to your choice. Treat yourself well. Please.
@Lissitchka
10 ай бұрын
My ex still calls me and tries to come back
@goddess_Kate
10 ай бұрын
I left after 7yrs. It's always worth it when you choose yourself 💜🧘♀️🎉
@CassieTranthesuperfitbabe
10 ай бұрын
The worst reactions I saw were people instantly asking what the man looked like as if whether or not he was attractive would justify anything. I don’t care if my best friend’s man is the handsomest man alive or a real life Gollum-Quasimodo hybrid-he’s off limits!
@slayfaee
10 ай бұрын
Lmaoo 😂 this!!
@meganbrooks7370
10 ай бұрын
She is so right. You shouldn't be friends with a man of your bestie. Or any other female friend. Avoid unnecessary drama
@SummerSun-sg3wf
10 ай бұрын
You can be friends without getting close or doing pickmeisha stuff. He can be an aquaintance
@chelsealee6349
10 ай бұрын
I don’t fully agree with this. One of my best friend groups we had a lot of couples & we were all good friends with each other’s significant other & had our own relationships with each other & there was nothing sneaky or negative about it. I think what this convo hasn’t covered is when you have real friends you can trust you don’t need to worry about that. I’ve loved my girlfriends being close to my boyfriends & having their own relationship. I definitely get there are boundaries but just saying your friend can’t ever have a personal relationship with your significant other is just really immature to me. In this particular story I get the suspicion to some degree. I do agree with her that she should’ve gotten food for both of them & I would’ve done that bc it’s like “you had your boyfriend help me so you helped me too.” type thing.
@daisydelarocha3688
10 ай бұрын
@@chelsealee6349Your intentions may be pure & honest. Most people's aren't tho:((. In due time, for, sure there will be unfaithfulness going on by at least 1 or 2 of those couples within that friend group of yours.,(with one another)... It sucks! I know. It's inevitable (I hope that makes sense)? I'm not trying to bring you down in any way. Unfortunately, it will definitely happen. Which is, precisely why, there are "Swingers." So, just beware sweetie. It's life tho. What are ya gonna do😏
@olive4naito
10 ай бұрын
I agree. If he's single or your friend isn't interested sure. But it is not worth the drama to mess with that kind of stickiness. By friends I don't mean borrowing hoodies. That's what you do with girlfriends but there are some things you never do with a guy you have no romantic interest in. There are definitely boundaries you need to keep with male friends.
@chelsealee6349
10 ай бұрын
@@daisydelarocha3688 you’re not bringing me down. We have been friends now for 8 years & nothing like what you described has even remotely happened haha. One of the women in the group did end up cheating on her boyfriend but out of town with a total stranger which honestly I feel is more common. Of course people cheat with people they know & their partner’s best friends even, it sucks, but to act like this is just 100% a given & is going to happen if you have your friends be friends with your boyfriend/girlfriend is just naive & a bit immature, I’m sorry. I just really firmly don’t like this type of rhetoric that is so limiting & suspicious. This is also coming from someone who has been cheated on in the past (again it was done with a total stranger). And saying it so confidently like “it is absolutely going to happen” is just wild. I am 32 have half multiple boyfriends be close to my friends & it has literally never happened or come close to happening.
@KoVi-jh6uy
10 ай бұрын
Also…the hoodie. If Joanna borrowed the hoodie when Kelly and her unnamed bf were not dating and during those two weeks Kelly and bf started dating, why couldn’t Joanna just give Kelly the hoodie? They literally live together. Kelly and her boyfriend, who I’m guessing visited often, could have easily asked for it back at any point. But I’m guessing that Kelly and her bf didn’t want to make a big deal out of it by demanding it back, assuming Joanna would give it back especially now that the two became an item. But then Joanna kept wearing it and posting pictures in it and said she kept it because she’s “bad at giving back hoodies and it’s cute.” Girl, what? I think she was just waiting for either…1) Kelly to get fed up with Joanna constantly posting in the hoodie and not returning it on her own accord. This allows Kelly to look like a pyscho for making a big deal out of “just a hoodie” in such a new relationship. This discredits Kelly and possibly makes her look bad with her new bf, and maybe in Joanna’s mind it makes her look comparatively better. 2) An opportunity for the guy to reach out to Joanna. Joanna borrowed the jacket the night they all met and became friends, before Kelly and her bf started dating. This gave Joanna an opportunity to naturally speak with and connect with the guy if Kelly and him did not click, without making it seem obvious to either the guy or Kelly that she was into him too. Even after they started dating, Joanna still did not return the hoodie. Why? Not because she didn’t forget, but because it still gave her OR HIM an opportunity to speak to him on the DL starting off the convo with returning the jacket. This is just a guess, it wasn’t clear if the hoodie was acquired that same night or another night after Kelly and bf started dating - who knows for sure what really happened. But this is why you should NEVER ask your girl friends to get a guy for you. 1. Those guys ain’t shit. You want someone who wants to put in the effort to get to know you. You’ll be stuck initiating everything important with guys like these. 2. Girls who talk to a guy for their friends are not as kind-hearted as they appear. Crappy boyfriend. Crappy friend. Kelly can do better.
@jayceyallen7745
9 ай бұрын
I just assumed they both did ask for it back but she kept coming up with excuses to not give it back and he maybe thought it'd be easier for the GF to get it back. I don't wanna assume the guy did wrong bc I haven't heard every single detail of this conflict to know how involved he got. From what I heard they both met him at the same time when he was single so adding them both on social media isn't a big deal and I think it's only weird if he still hasn't blocked the old friend. I feel like the only thing I could side eye him about is the hoodie but if they were at his place and she was cold I don't think he saw it something would turn out to be a big deal and was probably just trying to be nice to the friend of the girl he liked. I think it was an awkward situation the old friend tried to put him in where he is trying to make a good impression on the main girl by seeming like a gentleman but the old friend tried to take advantage and swoon him over to her. Which obviously didn't work bc I haven't heard of him doing anything that should've made the old friend think he liked her. At some point men realize they want a real relationship and not just flings and when they find a girl that they want to settle down with will treat them with love and respect so as long as he wasn't playing into the weird behavior at all I don't think ppl have a reason to look down on him.
@queenkahlua579
10 ай бұрын
Wearing your best friend’s boyfriend’s hoodie is grimey and a violation of girl code. Like why would you do that sis?😒
@no.6377
10 ай бұрын
I could excuse her just borrowing it and then giving it back. But she really """borrowed""" it for _two weeks_ and just forgot to give it back? How stupid does she think we are? Trifling behaviour.
@MARISKI-music
10 ай бұрын
For real.. “it was cute” is such a bs embarrassment of an excuse. Go buy your own cute sweater then sis, like tf? It belonging to your friend’s bf should make it instantly not-cute/cringe to wear
@BambiLena666
10 ай бұрын
As a girl that unfortunately grew up with boys, it took me a long time to give up on friendships with men and built friendships with women. It was always very easy for me to talk to boys/men and I realised my efforts to make someone feel welcome were often misconstrued by other girls, even though I have never done anything with a taken man. It made me so stressed out I just started borderline ignoring them and I almost never see or talk to the men my friends date/are married to now. And even in my most stubborn delulu era of men are just people, you can be friends with whomever, it doesnt mean anything dont be weird, I cant imagine acting like this girl described. However, in the grander scheme of things, that "friend" did her a favor of revealing what kind of man shes dating. He couldve handled things VERY differently and he choose to do this. Yeet that man. I was never angry at girls that tried to hit on my partner, it gave me a nice window of seeing how this man handles himself and how he treats women.
@HandleUnclear
10 ай бұрын
Men are in fact just people, and you can be friends with whoever you want. Those are not false much less delusional statements. Mature people understand that boundaries are important and not all friends are treated the same. If you don't know how to maintain healthy social boundaries, and believe all your friends regardless of gender and relationship status should be treated exactly the same...then yes, you will have problems. My husband and I share the same friend group, majority of them are men. We're an online group of older gamers, and even in such a setting I don't hangout with any of the men alone. Most of our irl friends are also married and I spend more time with the wives... doesn't mean I'm not friends with the husbands, as I tend to have more "masculine interests" I just treat them differently, and have strict boundaries. Heck my girlfriends know my husband comes first, I don't care who I offend with the boundary of putting his comfort first. So no girls night out, or girls trip etc.
@BambiLena666
10 ай бұрын
@@HandleUnclear That sounds like a semantics issue. I dont call people im making a choice to never talk to 1 on 1 or cant hangout alone with them "friends". The same way you can have a nice cordial relationship with your coworkers, neighbors or the people at your yoga class, I wouldnt call them my friends. The guys from my gamer group are just that. I wanna say English used to use "pals" to describe people you have a superficial relationship around sharing a space or interest that is more than an acquaintance but less than a friends, but im not native so Im not sure.
@daisydelarocha3688
10 ай бұрын
@BambiLena666.. I'm the same as you, in regards to your comment:).. 🙂. You sound like a good Woman. We could definitely be friends. Lol!
@daisydelarocha3688
10 ай бұрын
@@HandleUnclearYep.
@bribro23
9 ай бұрын
The man did nothing wrong…… matter fact he did everything right. When she tried to meet him alone for the sandwich , he brought his girlfriend as he should. He doesn’t want to be rude to his girlfriend’s friend/ roommate. He didn’t encourage any behavior
@eriririiii
10 ай бұрын
She should’ve bought a sandwich for both the girl and the boyfriend! That’s just common courtesy especially since they live together.
@sunbeam3658
10 ай бұрын
If a girl is able to 'steal' your man, then she can keep him... well atleast for the time being lol 🤪
@riagreen9294
10 ай бұрын
Loving the new addition to the SGSG lingo: Pre-selected mate Poachers 😂
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@Rosetta-gp9mk
10 ай бұрын
These women are going on a safari hunting expedition. Just not in Africa, but LA 😂
@windsey
10 ай бұрын
SHE IS DOING GODS WORK
@therealmanifestelle
10 ай бұрын
🫶🏽🫶🏽
@TheBookishB
10 ай бұрын
@@therealmanifestelleYou go, QUEEN!
@VagabondAnne
10 ай бұрын
Somehow since the day I turned 18 I was relentlessly pursued by married men. I figured it was just an an annoying part of being an adult female AT FIRST, but then after a while it really made me wonder if marriage was all it was cracked up to be, if men were so quick to run off. My Dad has been a super loyal and loving husband to my Mom, so it was hard to imagine at first. So grateful to my Dad to know what it feels like to have a solid man in my life.
@namari9307
10 ай бұрын
that happens to women too: when you get into relationship somehow you become more attractive to other men
@SummerSun-sg3wf
10 ай бұрын
I was lonely for years. After I got a man, all these guys who didn't give a crap about me before tried to get me.
@annara686
10 ай бұрын
Because woman in happy relationship looks happier. Men(and people in general) attracted to happiness
@pppf_S
10 ай бұрын
hell nah, they have this desire to test u and test their power over u@@annara686
@buckyyyb
9 ай бұрын
@@annara686people are just disrespectful as hell. “Looking happy” is no excuse to try and push boundaries and make people uncomfortable. we’re attractive before and happy before. People are just gross when they do that
@annierminx
9 ай бұрын
@@buckyyybYeah. Like I don't exactly feel any amusement over actively spending my own energy on trying to push myself onto people that are already paired with someone else, like...why??
@femininerenaissance
10 ай бұрын
Be careful of the type of friend who would steal from you then help you look for it
@lolitzshelly7229
10 ай бұрын
Loved the plot twist. Loved the accurate delegation of responsibility behind this whole mess to the 2 co-villains in this story. I don’t think we’re calling out the boyfriend enough in this
@hongandy
10 ай бұрын
If Joanna and Kelly's boyfriend were old friends you would get her behaviour but they just met so its obvious that she is trying to get closer. The hoodie thing...wildly weird
@animusanima3094
10 ай бұрын
Every time, when I saw a man is in the relationship with his woman, I automatically register him gay in my eyes. I never feel attracted to a taken man. The universe is very abundant. I onced had my friend's bf adds me on the Facebook, I screenshot & sent it to my friend & let her know I wouldn't accept the request. There is no need to be a friend to any men especially the taken one ✨✨
@KARA.LupinHold
9 ай бұрын
The man is the problem here wtf was HE doing allowing his hoodie being a community service? 💀
@liapatraunleashed
10 ай бұрын
This utmost respect for other women’s relationships is a hallmark of strong virtue & high self esteem. Women who covertly plot to win the affection of their actual friend’s partner is pathetic and quite sad.
@WafflesLover95
10 ай бұрын
The only thing that I found really sus was the hoodie. The rest was fine, but keeping the hoodie for two weeks and wearing it around… that’s a bit much
@nanomia
10 ай бұрын
same
@AshlynnAspires
10 ай бұрын
Not only that the hoodie was a generic black Nike hoodie 😂
@kiterafrey
10 ай бұрын
That statement, they think a man gave it to you, it is SO true. I work in law, I make good money. I didn't growing up though, I was born into poverty. I have a luxury apartment, nice clothing, delicate gemstone jewelry, high-end tech etc. I've had most of these things since college when I started ghost writing while getting my degree. I was single most of college, but people always just assumed I was in a relationship and have a sugar daddy. I'd always be like, Bish, I treat myself, don't be giving a fictional man my glory.
@aurora8749
10 ай бұрын
When I met my ex ten years ago he introduced me to his friends, two of them were very attractive women and one of them clearly there was mutual attraction between her and my now ex. Me and her hit it off and got really close, the closer we got the more distance she put between herself and him. So I only knew this girl for a few months and she chose our relationship over her getting to sleep with a cute boy so it is amazing to me that someone who considered themselves close friends would do that type of stuff. That being said had that old friend had hooked up with him she would have left two months in. I made it ten years. I think he also knew that which is why he never made moves either because if I'm honest she was better looking than me. Idk why I'm sharing. It's show and tell I guess
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