The guy just looks like he's having a lot of fun! Everyone loves to be around people who are having a good time.
@AxxLAfriku
3 жыл бұрын
I have fewer than 1 friend in the World. That's right. Everybody disses me for making bad videos. I think they are perfect though. Who is right? My dissers or me? Which side are you on, dear ste
@okay4634
3 жыл бұрын
@Awesome Welles :)
@Heyitzj0sh
3 жыл бұрын
@Awesome Welles you obviously didn’t know him before he became famous
@mrfister1234
3 жыл бұрын
@Awesome Welles nah simu is the real deal. Take this coming from a Toronto boy (simu is also from Toronto). He’s such a nice guy
@variamente6855
3 жыл бұрын
@Awesome Welles all he did all that before he was even known
@paulcaridi4964
3 жыл бұрын
This channel has helped me act like a person more than my therapists.
@JoeSmith-oy3hk
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe your therapists haven't watched enough of the videos to act like people.
@paulcaridi4964
3 жыл бұрын
@@JoeSmith-oy3hk I feel like telling them KZitem videos help me out isn't the most convincing way to tell a doctor that I'm okay.
@paulcaridi4964
3 жыл бұрын
@@ChronicTonic true, but luckily their advice is Broad enough that it doesn't seem like I'm copying from someone. Things like sitting down spread out or making eye contact with everyone in the group when you talk is easy and not clearly copying anyone's persona.
@dfo990
3 жыл бұрын
The "posity energy" is the hardest for shy af people
@paulcaridi4964
3 жыл бұрын
@@dfo990 I find it easier because when people want to hang with me I'm happy. My issue is finding things to talk about, which this channel also helps.
@jaydog9329
3 жыл бұрын
1:26 - He even played it cool when he thought she wanted a hug lmao. Smooth.
@webbers4life146
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t size up the people you’re going to be socializing with, if you mentally start comparing yourself and start focusing on the things you believe are your short comings, with others before the first interaction, you’ve already damaged you’re self confidence and set yourself up for failure. The interactions that come after will be awkward. Walk into a room like you’ve got nothing to prove to yourself or anyone else, and treat everyone in the room as an equal, you’ll feel much more confident and will be instantly more likeable.
@SaraX2024
3 жыл бұрын
As an actress, I know that "entering a room correctly" is part of your acting education. It's what you learn in movement & audition class. So we can kind of say that it's all an act.
@Meta_Meech
2 жыл бұрын
I’m in school for acting myself and I second this motion
@vidu8280
2 жыл бұрын
have you acted in anything yet??!
@michaelzomsuv3631
2 жыл бұрын
@@vidu8280 Yes
@codemiesterbeats
2 жыл бұрын
" all the world's indeed a stage and we are merely players, performers and portrayers. Each another's audience, outside the gilded cage"
@andreakatz6109
2 жыл бұрын
Omg I'd love to learn acting, do they have acting schools specifically for women ?
@transcendreality9065
3 жыл бұрын
Simu embodies a lesson my dad taught me when I was little: if you want to be found as likable and interesting, take the first step and be interested.
@alejandrobonilla4130
2 жыл бұрын
Dale Carnegie said the same thing in his book. But you're dad's right. Just surprised most people don't ask questions or take an interest, but only love to talk about themselves. So be interested in others, but also interesting to them as well
@gametri-eq6lj
Жыл бұрын
exactly the uncle vibe and personality
@JacksonPaulsen
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who has recently discovered that I have some moderate dark triad traits, I love this channel because it helps me learn how to consciously interact with others more positively and in a way that is mutually beneficial rather than creating tension and conflict.
@Snoop_Dugg
Жыл бұрын
But please try not to manipulate people for your sole benefit 😂 It’s usually a slippery slope
@zaynnnnnnnnnnnnnnn
Жыл бұрын
@@Snoop_Duggright bro.. I want to be what actually I am... This is just indirect manipulating. But you know what people are always fake and manipulative in this cruel world. So there's no bad in you being manipulative. Huh... What do you think?
@voltresgaming8402
Жыл бұрын
RECAP OF WHAT I LEARNED: 1. Have a good entrance. Walk into a conversation with positive energy and strong body language 2. Maintain your confidence and always take up as much space as you can (don't force it tho) 3. Make sure to always come up with a unique answer to common questions. 4. Always compliment the person or the setting that you're in. 5. Make sure that you make the person feel like their humour is actually funny. You can do it by laughing as they say something. 6. Compliment your close friends or relatives. Thisll show that you have a great friend circle which also defines you as a person
@tl5404
2 жыл бұрын
Great choice with picking him as an example. I've been watching a number of his interview. He's very charismatic and captivating. I think what comes down to from what I observed is that he is very grounded, present, calm and positive in general. He's comfortable with himself, with being himself and with others. He's also very articulate, which helps. That is an internal thing which shines through and the social skills strategies are the icing on the cake.
@jibarabicha4853
Жыл бұрын
These celebrity examples are great, but I always think of how easy it is to be charismatic when walking into a room, where you know people are already excited to see you (fans) and you are already well liked. This give the celebrity an instant boost of energy due to having that public approval before hand. The key for me is to apply these skills and psyche myself into thinking the people I will interact with already feel positively about me, like the actors here making public appearances.
@tzuyulk
11 ай бұрын
It’s really about how you view the outside voices. I really like Simu Liu but not from the very beginning. While his asian hero movie was launched back then, people in Asia were heavily criticizing him on how he looks. He’s definitely charming, but not to asian standards (not k-pop looking). People on the internet were insulting him so much you have no idea. But then he made a humor out of it. He twitted “am I ugly ? “ just to laugh jt off. No one is going to be liked by all, but how we focus on the good situation instead of bad ones really effect on the outcome behaviors. He is charismatic because he focuses on the positive part of his life experiences. (Not that we should ignore the negatives, but we shouldn’t dwell in it).
@azuranjani
3 жыл бұрын
Just finished watching another video in this channel and was headed to bed cuz it's 1 am, but then I saw Simu Liu in the thumbnail of this vid's notification, and, I mean, how couldn't I.
@billysinge8977
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a fan of this guy for some time now, and admired his charisma in interviews since his Kim’s Convenience days. I’m glad you made a video on him.
@GrowthMindsetChannel
3 жыл бұрын
“Charisma is the intangible that makes people want to follow you, to be around you, to be influenced by you.” ~ Roger Dawson 💪🏻🚀
@fgrimes1946
4 ай бұрын
Most people don’t understand that you need a good enough career to be confident and start learning these steps and socialize, as a 22 years old i can see that the people around me got bored of me, except the few real ones that still have the same good relationship with me. long story short, a person needs to have a successful career and doing something that they really love, it really brings everything towards you, once you’re confident enough you will act authentically and by your true self, I started to think like that because i can’t imagine at least the majority of those celebrities act based on KZitem videos
@schnioula
3 жыл бұрын
Let me be boring in peace! 😂
@anthonykamm1007
2 жыл бұрын
Next time I walk into a church, or the grocery store, or the bank, or when I have to go to court I'll have to do a Simu entrance so everyone will turn and say, "Ain't he a cool dude!!"
@sadadokis2709
2 жыл бұрын
I just imagined the faces people would make when I dance in like that next monday on my job interview 😂😂😂😂
@AhmetKaan
3 жыл бұрын
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
@toheeb07
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Ahmet, I noticed you on Hamza's channel as well. I'm guessing you are on self-improvement?
@AhmetKaan
3 жыл бұрын
@@toheeb07 yes
@moontahakhan4744
3 жыл бұрын
Bro I see you everywhere xD
@txuravity3190
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks I needed this reminder
@maxpbeaumont
3 жыл бұрын
You guys have the best educational content on the internet ❤️
@QuietAsHeimdal
3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy it when you do these Character-study, observational videos :) Simu Liu is a fantastic choice!!
@billyjean311275
3 жыл бұрын
My boss did not appreciate my dancing entrance the other day...
@littlevoice_11
3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or do your videos just get better and better!?
@talalfarooq432
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saying that we don't have to dance in an entry and showing Jack Black's clip along to tell us how we would look.
@jed1680
11 ай бұрын
Simu is JUST being Simu. Just be unapologetic, authentically you. Embrace being perfectly imperfect.
@allisonspears5895
3 жыл бұрын
Do these "First Impression" techniques work when it isn't technically a first impression (e.g. you're visiting family members who typically ignore you and that you haven't seen in about 2 years)? And does the getting bigger/more comfortable advice work for women (since we're often taught to be ladylike, sit nicely, and not take up too much room)?
@Matt-mj1xh
3 жыл бұрын
Interested in if anyone answers the first part.
@Meetmountain
3 жыл бұрын
1. Try it out. It is your family, they cant run away :3 2. Sure, why not? Just don't overdo it and loose your feminity.
@TheSodaShop
3 жыл бұрын
Smile a lot and tilt your head and ask a lot of open ended questions. It'll work out for you
@foljs5858
3 жыл бұрын
They can work, but they have to harder work overcoming the previous impression. If you stick with the new "techniques", eventually people will notice you as changed - same way when you see someone and they appear different, e.g. because they were shy berore and are not now, they were depressed or sluggish and now seem more energetic, etc.
@anicka7742
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! It’s never too late to make a new impression on people. Learning new techniques and applying them into your life is always great. But remember to always try to be comfortable being yourself:)
@motivated_theextrapush
3 жыл бұрын
04:36 Elevate the people around you. Toughest thing in the world right now, everyone looking to be superior.
@inorite4553
3 жыл бұрын
Then join the military. There, you're specifically taught "I succeed when WE succeed!"
@stevenhs8821
2 жыл бұрын
I'll start dancing as I enter a room when music is playing and my entrance is announced.
@grfrjiglstan
3 жыл бұрын
Man, are there any Marvel actors that don't have great charisma? Besides, you know, her.
@TheCuCuTrain
3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@thegoldenhippo7936
3 жыл бұрын
LOOOL
@DigiMyst
3 жыл бұрын
It's funny how we all knew who you're referring to. Lol
@tinaloye2014
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’d be quiet around Brie Larson cause I won’t stop staring at her cause good lord, that’s a lot of good genes 🧬
@caylatesner5739
3 жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo
@brunettezprettyr4296
3 жыл бұрын
I love confident men. 💓 Men with social anxiety who try are so much better than men who just sit there all weird.
@SilverRAM777
Жыл бұрын
“In real life you don’t have to dance as you enter every room.” Nope! This is officially how I walk now, Mr. Commentator! My doctor’s will be quite confused as I arrive for my physical.
@spomusmo2349
2 жыл бұрын
I just love him 😍🥰🥰. When I first saw an interview with him he drew me right in. He is so charming and easy going. But let's be honest being so handsome is a factor too ☺️.
@awwwkitteh
Жыл бұрын
He's a undeniably fun and upbeat dude. Wishing him only the best things
@monbjra
Жыл бұрын
He is an asian guy in Hollywood . The roles will dry up easily. Thats how Hollywood works 😅.
@pavilova29
3 жыл бұрын
The quality of your videos is insane! Every single video is better and better!!!
@Me-tp6ll
3 жыл бұрын
Very Charming.. he can be a Good Therapist too
@diobrando2820
2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I noticed that many of the points in this video were also mentioned in Dale Carnegie's book "How to Win Friends and Influence People." I've been reading it for a class and I think that it's a great book. It's very informative with many real world examples from both famous and powerful people to normal people like cashiers and waiters.
@boogeyratt
3 жыл бұрын
"Once COVID is over"... oh, spoken like someone who's got no idea what's going on.
@JuneLucchesi-v6i
16 күн бұрын
You always make learning feel like an exciting journey!
@tagoresai5789
2 жыл бұрын
Things to bulid a strong first impression 1.make a strong entrance 2 take up the space a bit 3 look for observational compliments 4 elevant the people around you 5 be intrested listner 6 have a great answers for common questions
@willmaster1920
3 жыл бұрын
Man I leaned that I’m doing everything wrong
@pointblank8248
Жыл бұрын
If channels like this exist and keep improving our social skills, therapists finna be out a job!
@adrianafirdaus5672
3 жыл бұрын
if its not too much hassle it would be cool if you could make a video about how to have charisma through texting or mistakes we should avoid,like when texting new people or bosses or teachers esp since we've been in the pandemic and we talk alot online
@danielrana6452
2 жыл бұрын
Have a higher energy level than a normal person would have at this event Me: proceeds to dance my way into the church for aunty's cassia's funeral. Everybody else: 😮
@cso1697
3 ай бұрын
I would think you were awesome and awkward like me 😂
@SeriousGuy
Жыл бұрын
istg i read "NEVER BE BORING ASIAN" in the thumbnail and laughed for a minute
@jainee4507
Жыл бұрын
Simu Liu's confidence comes from his success and good looks. Not hard to be confident when the people around you are gushing over you.
@namansingh1773
Жыл бұрын
Not really. I know a lot of people who are handsome and not very confident in themselves
@animalfun304
Жыл бұрын
Your just finding excuses hun 😂
@charlesbroomfield3362
Жыл бұрын
I guarantee he had confidence before he had success, and I've met better-looking people walking down the street.
@marou.u
3 жыл бұрын
Loving the vid! Would love to see a similar video about charisma for women and body language!
@valentinihring1220
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Charlie, could u please make a breakdown of Daniel Harrison Hondo from TV Series SWAT
@Delekham
2 жыл бұрын
LOL, I remember a time when my PR and H&S people. Asked me "Where am I from?" I answered, "From my Mother! YOU?"
@alizschea
Жыл бұрын
Omg i thought simu liu was going to be the example of how to be boring. How to be boring: make liking boba your entire personality.
@elonloo5890
3 жыл бұрын
Finaallyy first impression video!!! was waiting for it
@tle398
3 жыл бұрын
OK got it *walks through door and cartwheels into a table*
@4263484
3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting stuff 👌🏿
@AfrozKhan-nb8xc
Жыл бұрын
I was just waiting for the next ben10 watch transition in your video
@Liolia22
3 жыл бұрын
Nice video, great example, I didn’t know of this actor since I don’t stay tapped into Marvel’s stuff. Quick note, however, on your use of “false flattery”: The term “flattery” already means excessive or insincere praise, given to further one’s own interest.” So to say “false flattery” may be somewhat redundant, you know? I think many people confuse flattery with sincere complimenting, but it’s not. Just a thought!
@excuseme...2915
3 жыл бұрын
1:02 me making my first impression in the class teacher :come in Me : 🕺
@RoroCoco1672
3 жыл бұрын
Dear Charisma on Command, could you make a video about James Spader
@niceguy6837
Жыл бұрын
Save yourself some time and read this. You are not boring, whatever you find interesting is you. Whatever your reasoning is for trying to not be boring you will chase endlessly because you aren't that person. Just be yourself and be happy with it
@cso1697
3 ай бұрын
Thank you, nice guy 🥰
@Suidalyn2506
Жыл бұрын
I immediately clicked on this video, thinking that the thumbnail says "never be born again". This just proves that I have a reading comprehension
@logical1677
3 жыл бұрын
I've been practising your videos hard. Right now I'm an alpha male but soon I will reach the yogurt male level
@thatsilverguy7550
2 жыл бұрын
This is great. This is also something that can help during a job interview. Thanks bro.
@annahagenharpist
2 жыл бұрын
Would love to see a video on Ali Plumb, the film interviewer for BBC Radio One that you show a clip of here, who manages to make so many interview-sick celebrities comfortable and real. How does he do it?
@trvth4501
Жыл бұрын
*walks in just like Simu* Her parents: I like this guy.
@Improvemypronunciation
3 жыл бұрын
Great tips! Thank you so much 😊
@user-oy5py6wo8q
3 жыл бұрын
1:00. Yea...great idea...I think I’ll try disco dancing into a local Irish bar in South Boston full of dock workers and Teamsters☘️ See how that works out BAHAHAHAHAHA!
@philly111
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, much appreciated!
@The.Ghost.of.Tom.Joad.
Жыл бұрын
Irony... probably unintended since the material's solid. But when Liu says at Comicon, "You guys are the best audience ever," it's transparent audience pandering. Many (most?) in the audience know it. And yet, the narrator says "give a genuine compliment" right after. Ah, well. Regardless, this is a channel with some fun, thought-provoking videos. Though I'd rather see more regular people in regular scenarios than Hollywood elites. They live a life that a simple man like myself never will, and doesn't want. I just want to wow my clients and engage people in my community.
@zameer3621
2 жыл бұрын
Year 2021, 18/11/2021, 8:48 pm IST. I'll train myself for the rest of the year left, and I'll apply this for the 1st 6 months in 2022. Wish me luck. And lets see can you change a person from here.
@carojerezano9689
2 жыл бұрын
You should totally make a video on aurora the singer. An absolute introvert charismatic queen!
@lazyken6468
Жыл бұрын
Hey bro, thanks for coming to the funeral Me:🕺🏼🕺🏻
@zamp7927
3 жыл бұрын
I learnt that it's equally important to make others feel funny Not just yourself
@DemetriPanici
3 жыл бұрын
There really is something about this. When you make the right first impression a lot of good things happen in a relationship, but when it’s the other way around, it’s just not a good time
@M1cha3la_YT
2 жыл бұрын
1. Make a strong entrance. Smile, hand shake, high fives, head up. 2. Take up the space around you. 3. Touch. Don't go aggressive. Hand shakes and high fives. Not everyone is comfortable being touched. 4. Looks to give a compliment. Be honest about your compliments, don't be fake. 5. Elevate those around you. 6. Be an encouraging listener. Smile and eye contact while listening. Point out when someone makes a good question or a good point.
@manuelnahrcolina1306
2 жыл бұрын
Entering to a room: Ramdonly start dancing
@Gk2003m
Ай бұрын
1:06: I have zero desire to “ham it up” when I enter a room. Just is not who I am. I do not need all eyes on me.
@Gk2003m
Ай бұрын
2:40: I won’t do this. Flail my arms around? I’m confident enough that I don’t need to grab all the space in the room. Not to mention that in this age of cellphones, people who talk with their hands are an absolute hazard behind the wheel.
@DMAX_DIY
3 жыл бұрын
Gotta give you thumbs up on this one my friend!! Took some notes.. going to "ATTEMPT" to put them in my videos.. DMAX Motion sim
@SquidandCatAdventures
Жыл бұрын
Oh, instructions to act Canadian. :) j/k, but definitely the humility is appreciated here and perhaps confidence is a little more emphasized in the States than humility.
@harrysinghsidhu303
3 жыл бұрын
1:48 Turbaned Sikh Guy 🔥💯✌️
@agustintettamanti
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I'll try this dancing technique when walking into my next job interview
@rahulisgreat4911
8 ай бұрын
Thanks man
@rannierunsfast
3 жыл бұрын
Loads of charisma on this dude
@audioa41
3 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on John Mayer? He’s so funny and charismatic. Everyone loves him!
@LindormAce
2 жыл бұрын
He was already A legend since 2016 and Kim Convenience store
@adamforgy3390
3 жыл бұрын
Has anyone bought the Charisma On Command course? If you have, was it worth the $600 for 10 hours of content? I've been thinking about getting it, but I would like to see some real feedback on it first, thank you!
@Lena-eo5xx
11 ай бұрын
When you see/hear something like this every time, you’d know what’s fake and real
@ranjanashrivastava7468
3 жыл бұрын
Make a video about Millie Bobby Brown... There is something that makes everyone like her most of the time... Even ME!
@tdk0623
3 жыл бұрын
I think many people find her loud and annoying
@ranjanashrivastava7468
3 жыл бұрын
@@tdk0623 If you don't have anything nice to say... Don't say it!
@yessiwolf
Жыл бұрын
Wow didn't know I did all this already until I saw this now 😮
@ervinmujabasic9047
2 жыл бұрын
All of these are starting to look as "how to behave as a cool human" cheat sheet for psychopaths.
@Derrick_Ham
2 жыл бұрын
Yes he’s charismatic but very self center
@leonweskeradac8239
3 жыл бұрын
I remember watching him on Kim's convenience show, l knew he had so much potential and make it big
@caliberpheonix
3 жыл бұрын
It would cringe me to walk like that 😬😬
@DiscoDashco
3 ай бұрын
Huh, and this whole time Mortal Kombat had me thinking that the surname Liu was pronounced “Loo”.
@yaxa-yb2bl
3 жыл бұрын
Can you do Timothee Chalamet please. He is very charismatic. It would be a great video
@djtdawg87
3 жыл бұрын
Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.
@kuuuueee
2 жыл бұрын
We need a video on James Spader!
@Zainphotography
Жыл бұрын
They are actors! I have bad/crocked teeth and a big belly (even after loosing 24kg). Cherry on the cake is my not so great English language skills. So many things to fix and i am 36 already.
@emonkus
3 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video analyzing Jack Sparrow?
@edwinvasquez6151
3 жыл бұрын
Dr. House!!
@funthings7652
Жыл бұрын
I'm just here to watch simu liu's clip.
@avatar94100
3 жыл бұрын
works for a few minutes but then my battery is dead and I don't want to talk to anyone...
@ceilviolet7590
3 жыл бұрын
Hey charisma on command you should break down CoryxKenshin he doesn't have the biggest fan base compared to others but his fanbase loyalty IS A FORCE TO BE RECKONED WITH!!!💯💪🏿
@drivingclipsdips9826
2 жыл бұрын
Who else is bashing the wall after watching this knowing you’ve done some of these things surely I’m not the only one ?
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