We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.
@starsonapollo2
2 жыл бұрын
Love this! Definitely gonna quote you lol
@jacey6543
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard this before. So true!
@weversonponte
2 жыл бұрын
......."the difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons" this is the second half of the quote and it really puts it all into perspective and makes it all the more motivating .
@site_is_down
2 жыл бұрын
This is really true! That is why it is always important on our part, to at least have done something that will not make us have something to regret for in the future. Disciplining ourselves will always be hard in the beginning, but once we have come to get used to it and have turned it into a habit, it's easier to just live with it.
@rohanjain2738
2 жыл бұрын
By Jim Rohn. It's my desktop wallpaper 😍
@epicuber1351
10 ай бұрын
the fact that I voluntarily searched for this video makes myself pleased
@Theuncletoeticklingtoddler
4 ай бұрын
Same. Tired of being the procrastinating lazy self I am
@epicuber1351
4 ай бұрын
@@Theuncletoeticklingtoddler the comment was 6 months ago, and I've gotten better with discipline recently, a video called 'trial by fire' by Charlie morgan really helped
@lynnmarie6058
3 ай бұрын
Me too tired of being stuck in a person that I'm not
@UnicornWithAGun
Ай бұрын
@@lynnmarie6058 That's such a great way to put it and look at it. I'm not trying to be someone else, I'm trying to become the person I actually am.
@RealJamieBarclay
2 жыл бұрын
This was a very healthy and non-toxic look at discipline, well done.
@shelleydenison
2 жыл бұрын
Agree'd! This is such a good take on self-discipline.
@jeremymunene5304
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah we can't take guys like this for granted
@site_is_down
2 жыл бұрын
I agree, this is really a great content and I hope a lot of people can start practicing this!
@jub7345
2 жыл бұрын
What does a toxic look look like?
@i-never-look-at-replies-lol
2 жыл бұрын
is everything just default non-healthy and toxic now? is that how you automatically perceive things until otherwise noted?
@RyanMak
2 жыл бұрын
My favorite mindset hack for discipline: just have a good enough reason to do it. It was hard to come from a place of self-love back when I was depressed, but making enough money to take care of my family? A little more motivating. Find what pushes you and don't be afraid of material or "shallow" desires if that's what you really want right now.
@prapanthebachelorette6803
2 жыл бұрын
Oh, an overlooked one actually. It worked at the time when I was suicidal. I was like, if I die today I can’t continue this hobby and who’s gonna care for my teddy bear 🧸. Something like this saved my life countless times
@relaxinganimeasmr4670
2 жыл бұрын
@@prapanthebachelorette6803 as someone who was suicidal I can confirm how having hobbies or something that I liked to do has kept me here. I was at the point that I seriously asked myself why I was even living as I didn’t look forward nor wanted any future or anything but then I was like oh well then I won’t have the chance to draw more or learn this language or write so I’ll live longer so I can do those. People have told me I shouldn’t focus on these since there will come a time I might not enjoy them anymore (I highly doubt so. I’m not someone who briefly attaches to things) but I disagree. When you’re a suicidal you have to cling to anything to live
@withlovefrommariah
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder not to be afraid of material or shallow things. I forget it's ok as I'm dedicated to my spiritual growth and development.
@assy368
4 ай бұрын
@@prapanthebachelorette6803definitely, it will keep you alive. Unfortunately, for me, that doesn’t build self-discipline/self-love for me it showed me more reason to be mad at the world
@brandonpetersen5710
Жыл бұрын
The "Just do it" method is by far the most powerful one that i've followed. People forget all the time that life is not always about being comfortable and having fun. (Like when most of us were kids). Once you become adult, you have responsibilities and pressure and you need to perform. If you don't, there's an internal system in your brain that fires up, making you feel all kinds of negative ways about yourself, which eventually leads to depression. A lot of people whince at the thought of going to the gym, supermarket for groceries, work, ect. But also most of those people find that once they go, and they're there, doing the thing they need to do, all the anxiety and uncomfortable pesky thoughts associated with it dissapear. It's like jumping in to cold water at the pool. The first few seconds you jump in, you get washed over with this liberating feeling, because the hard part is now done, you're already soaking wet now, so you might as well swim and enjoy it. This applies to just about everything you need to do, but don't want to. Once you initiate the action, it becomes SO MUCH easier and you actually kind of enjoy it too. And that's a positive feedback loop. You'll remember how it went last time, and that it wasn't so bad. So returning to do it again will be a lot easier from the beggining. You'll level up and those tasks will become automated after a long enough time. Hope this helps :)
@sammig.8286
11 ай бұрын
Reminds of a time I was struggling with anxiety and just not wanting to do stuff, and I thought, "This is so hard!!" Then I thought, "You know, it will be a lot easier after you do it." "Ah, that's right! After I do it, it'll be done! That will make everything so much easier!" Then I immediately jumped up and completed as many tasks as I could as quickly as I could. Wish I could say this always works, but I'm very good at overthinking things, and even switching from thinking to doing is something I often overthink.
@sj4267
10 ай бұрын
Yeah because if we are always being comfortable then it will eventually turn into discomfort because there will be no duality. Therefor doing the uncomfortable things will make the comfort so much more enjoyable.
@harshithasaisarabada9325
2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos so much. Never thought that I can relate with someone so much. Bless the algorithm. In case anyone wanna note it down ❤ 1. Reframe discipline as a function of self love 2. Make discipline part of your identity 3. Reflect this identity in your environment 4. Internalize the threat of no doing this 5. Have a good system to start things 6. Have a good method to sustain things. 7. At some point the only true path is to just do it.
@prapanthebachelorette6803
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@harshithasaisarabada9325
2 жыл бұрын
@@prapanthebachelorette6803 np 😊
@lisalamphier1410
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@harshithasaisarabada9325
2 жыл бұрын
@@lisalamphier1410 you're welcome 💛😁
@borislesnansky723
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!!
@shiny77711
2 жыл бұрын
I have never heard anyone say that self discipline is actually self love before and I think it might just be the most useful piece of advice I’ve ever been given
@FatherjosephEspita
11 ай бұрын
That statement taught me a thought to to consider
@tumage8592
5 ай бұрын
It never worked for me. I can be disciplined im Relation to others but I cant discipline myself and I cannot see myself as someone different.
@yesno6817
Жыл бұрын
i pray all of us can see it through to the end of our lives successful in our individual missions. its never going to be completely smooth sailing. good luck to you all.
@drahrenzy
7 ай бұрын
God bless you 🙏
@mariesdiariesss
2 жыл бұрын
Hello, your tips work really work for someone like me - someone who procrastinates often, gets bored easily, hates routines - to think that I can tie my IDENTITY into someone who's self-disciplined sounds waaay better forcing ourselves to be someone we're not! also, I love the lose aversion tip as well, since most of my motivation surges when I'm close to the deadline, which means that i fear of NOT submitting the work on time. 😂😂 Thank you Campbell, this motivated me to work on my digital art 😀
@mrs.quills7061
2 жыл бұрын
Same here I get bored and frustrated easily and procrastinate bad, and it was so hard for me to accept no life can not always be fun and I do need to do this. But it was more of a bitter and angry self talk than one with understanding and love.
@mariesdiariesss
2 жыл бұрын
@@mrs.quills7061 Ahhh I understand that! As a high schooler whenever I procrastinate, at the end of day near the deadline I'll always think to myself "uGh why didn't I do it earlier" and self-criticize and such 😭 But we should try to turn that self-criticizing to self-love, or else we would feel FORCED to not procrastinate!
@dianeo
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Reframing one's attitude towards the discipline helps to prevent resistance. I instantly rebel against any forced discipline even though it may be the best thing for me.
@KunamaElgar
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for acknowledging those of us with chronic illness. I love self development content and consume it wherever I can get it, and while I take what I can from it and ignore what won't work for me because of my illness it wears on me a bit to feel invisible. It's so refreshing to have someone in that field acknowledge that their advice might not work for everyone 🙂
@LS-vq2or
2 жыл бұрын
agreed! even if I'd love to have tips coming from within our community but I don't know of a person on the internet who does that!( if ever u do I'd love to hear abt them)
@Kazlauskas8
Жыл бұрын
I used to party hard, use drugs. I continued that into my early mid 20s. I had to make small changes of course but what really helped me was “playing the whole tape through” to me that meant remembering how I would feel the next day and/or what would follow in the coming weeks. Just remember to “play the whole tape through” in every aspect of your life.
@uselessweirdo
2 жыл бұрын
"who would I look like if I was disciplined? If I did the things I said I was gonna do, who would I be?" well, that fucked me up on a whole new level.
@matildefantacci3286
2 жыл бұрын
was going to write a long comment on how you've helped me feel more comfortable with who I am and how you've pushed me to become a better version of myself, but I think this will do as well: thank you.
@nahbruvv238
2 жыл бұрын
This came at just the right time, I've been really struggling to stay (my idea of) disciplined ~ That part you said about toxic self discipline making you feel guilt and shame and drained really struck a cord with me - I think that's where I am now - i don't let myself rest when I'm not working because I don't want to be stuck here forever but i think I'm self sabotaging by not letting myself rest and my self care takes a hit from it - it makes me feel awful and I don't even benefit from any enhanced productivity lol usually I'm so drained, it has the opposite effect! ..but today I woke up and took my multi vitamin, I've eaten a good meal for breakfast and lunch and have got a healthy plan for dinner ( no skipping meals today!!! ) I snacked on some hummus and veg instead of crisps AND I haven't forced myself to do anything work related, I've just let myself rest :) i think these basic things will be hard to keep up with on work days but its a start, I'm so glad I have seen this video, theres a lot in this I can work with! I didn't realise self discipline doesn't mean i have to work like a machine all the time,
@Arissiah
2 жыл бұрын
I am awful at procrastination and have been trying to find a method for me. Out of all the "get motivated" "how to be productive" "organize your life" "start a habit" etc. style videos I've seen, this is the ONLY one that resonated with me. All of it.
@hihelloitsmo
2 жыл бұрын
step 1 to self-discipline: watch this video every morning
@lavasteve5863
2 ай бұрын
Agreed
@CYRUSVILL
2 жыл бұрын
Discipline is one of my pillars for this year - I’ve meditated on it (after filling out my Year Compass that you so graciously shared), I’ve written the word down all over my apartment, and NOW you’ve just made a whole video about it making it even easier to digest and implement into my life. So my question is: are u hiding, listening to my thoughts, and if so would you like a coffee?
@ShojiPanda
2 жыл бұрын
Firstly thank you for another great video. Recently was able to get a copy of your book and love it! Re-watching this video and taking notes, just wanted to add a personal note to step 2 for myself and anyone else with chronic illness: when answering the questions about what a disciplined version of you would be like, make sure to include allowances for any illness, because that illness isn't going to magically disappear and let you be a non-chronically ill person. And that doesn't mean you can't accomplish things. I find it helpful to look at examples of other people with similar struggles to mine who are accomplishing something they wanted to(for me specifically that includes chronically ill artists as I would like to start an online art shop). It's refreshing to see how they take their health in to consideration so they don't burnout and exasperate their illness. Sometimes only seeing examples of healthy people can be discouraging because it is all too easy to fall in to the trap of comparison. Be kind to yourself peeps.
@ardancreates
2 жыл бұрын
Your videos are clutch & practical. You give real-life experience with dope vibes 🤞🏾🔥
@jackbird3907
2 жыл бұрын
Hats off to your editor. That shitty screen peel transition right after you said you’ve gotten a new editor was fkn class
@AmeerCorro
2 жыл бұрын
Dude! You're honestly one of my favourite creators on KZitem. I love your editing, your candor, and your vulnerability - you bring such a refreshingly honest perspective to this scene and you inspire me to embrace authenticity in my own videos. Thank you for all that you do!
@shanaynay333
9 ай бұрын
As an addict who's been sober for 5 years. This video is amazing. All of it. Delivery, method, perspective...we need more of this content.
@TheJiamy
2 жыл бұрын
I gotta say, you’re my favorite self help guy i’ve ever found. So many people who have fixed their lives (more or less) and try to give advice try so hard to let the listener know that they started out in the same place, or worse, but youre the first person i’ve felt really sees the viewer as being on the same level of person as them. Idk how else to put it.
@MindNow
2 жыл бұрын
*I prioritize on the foundation* 🙏❤️ Eat right, sleep tight and exercise alright! 😄
@somosagricultura
Жыл бұрын
"Discipline is an act of self-love". Really love this point of view. Thanks for sharing.
@eko7030
2 ай бұрын
I baby sat once and I realized that I gave the toddler cut grapes and watered down grape juice and made them home cooked foods that's portioned out. I cared about the baby more than I cared about myself.
@millionpassions227
2 ай бұрын
That how it works. You caremore about others than yourself
@madebylora
Жыл бұрын
I like the idea about removing friction. I’ve already been trying to do this for a while but I’d been thinking of it more like “making things as easy as possible for myself because I’m lazy” but removing friction is a much more positive way to think of it.
@CohanRobinson
2 жыл бұрын
Giggling away while getting some self improvement in. Love this channel.
@FreddotheWheelchairGuy
2 жыл бұрын
As an avid fan of your channel, I am so stoked that you’ll be uploading more often, and I’d like to say to your editor he’s doing a great job, but sometimes less is more 😉
@Lunabee834
2 жыл бұрын
I agree the music was loud and distracting in the middle.
@pooterpan8075
2 жыл бұрын
Gotta say, love the "heads up" at 0:56
@sana_saurus
2 жыл бұрын
you are going to become so successful - the value you’re providing is out of this world amazing
@cerendevrimkarabulut1225
2 жыл бұрын
i love how he always acknowledges these things can be hard for people who have chronic illnesses etc
@malikupton7108
2 жыл бұрын
Aye man keep up on making these videos I’m 19 year old came from a hard past like most people but your videos are really helping me look at life, from a better perspective, I’m a complete stoner and want to change my life for the better and your one of the people with words that help people think. So thanks man for the advice haven’t had anyone in my life to tell me these things and open my mind up
@SwaggestNico
2 жыл бұрын
Man living on th Pacific coast in the us I always love waking up to these videos. They make me feel so motivated for my day! TYSM!!!!
@irene2752
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. I've read SO many self help books but this is probably going to help me the most. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO!!
@stephaniemurray3771
2 жыл бұрын
I do a similar thing to the "write about what you hate" advice. I'm in academia and it doesn't matter how much I love the topic I study (which is social insects, btw), I still don't feel like writing much of the time. So I just write it really begrudgingly sometimes. Calling the ants stupid, talking about shitty results, etc. Then I can clean it up later once the words are on paper. Great video!
@user-di4js6xw9n
2 жыл бұрын
the fact that i started to discipline myself almost a a *week* before, using the *EXACT* same methods you mentioned in this video, is so eerily amazing to me omg lovedd this video!!
@camilledamore4332
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for laying the groundwork so people like me can learn from your experiences! You’re like the Sparknotes, blueprints, and living beta-test for self-help advice rolled up in one. Much love 💛
@stephaniepaints
2 жыл бұрын
Someone wrote this below but I wanted to second the thank you for recognizing the challenge of doing this when you deal with chronic illness or other limitations, or kids, etc. Doing the disciplined actions associated with those challenges zaps your energy sometimes and depletes it over the course of the day. So thank you.
@yaguabina
2 жыл бұрын
I have a playlist named "this is how", where I add actually useful (as opposed to motivational) content. It has more of your videos than anything else. I don't have a formal diagnose but I experience strong symptoms of ADHD and CPTSD, so all the typical "be successful" content has been pretty much useless to me. Today, thanks to you and my therapist I am closer than ever to living a life I love and making myself proud. Thank you so much! Sending you love and light ❤️
@endlesslinesbyally
2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or do other people take Campbell's videos and turn them into massive journaling exercises lol. This content is so helpful for thinking through yourself as a person and figuring out what the heck is happening in our lovely brains. ❤
@surrayaa.8466
2 жыл бұрын
I’m doing that exactly lol
@PhillipJordan
2 жыл бұрын
Me now lmao
@rellecauthorn9214
2 жыл бұрын
I legitimately JUST did this. I made the "Who is disciplined Me?" a topic with the questions as lead points!
@kilmouski4220
2 жыл бұрын
His videos are what helped me to streamline and focus my journaling. It has been wonderful.
@VincentLui-kt7dw
6 ай бұрын
I am quite surpirsed by the first advice. Most if the time, I tell myself to be self-disciplined but it losses every soon because there is no reason that keeps me going. But when I tell myself I am the person that I love, you become more protective of yourself becaus eyou treat yourself like a person that you love.
@adrianoncenewme4756
2 жыл бұрын
How the hell do you keep making the exact videos i need at the exact time i need them? --- No but seriously love your work!
@HIT029
2 жыл бұрын
omg you have reached half a million....cool. i came across your video while searching for how to open a burger shop...lol...and this channel was only 2.3k....beleive it or not after years of planning, i am open...this channel always brings a smile and a good feel to me
@lciav
2 жыл бұрын
I think starting small and building on consistency is what helps me with discipline. If I imagine myself doing a massive amount of work I freeze up, but if I tell myself I’ll do five minutes bare minimum I’ll often keep going after those first five minutes.
@merylkleiman3930
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This is wonderful. You've given me the missing piece I needed to permanently stick with radical dietary changes due to going with the flow of an illness, that self-discipline is self-love. I was on track, off and on, but couldn't articulate this to myself until now. This is an epiphany for me that I will carry every day of my life. You've changed my life at 71.
@WoolyPronto
2 жыл бұрын
God damn, you just don't miss.
@debgwilliam8756
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve just started watching your videos after a KZitem recommendation…. I love them! They’re well thought out, informative, helpful, entertaining, fast paced enough without being exhausting they aren’t overwhelming and are totally relatable! Brilliant! Thank-you!
@markkut
2 жыл бұрын
Just came across your channel, and I'm blown away by what you're saying in this video. I have been processing this the past month and have never heard anyone talk about it this way which I was discovering on my own. Incredible.
@TheRyanLamont
2 жыл бұрын
Really valuable insights, steps and examples here - thank you! Love the reframing of self discipline to self love and the steps around making your disciplined self key to your identity
@welcomingbooks
Жыл бұрын
The first step of making discipline self love is so simple but it feels like it just rotated my brain a few degrees
@jasminer117
2 жыл бұрын
Being early I just wanna drop by and say I really appreciate how much you go into detail with your tips and how genuine you are with them. As an Autist who totally burned themselves out last year from being too rigorous/overestimating, it's i.e. really helpful and motivating to have that acknowledgement and some concept for a follow-up plan. Alone for the sake of knowing that it's not a one-way road, but possible to find a balance, regardless of individual perspective and grey areas. Thank you!! And congratulations on becoming a father!☺️
@raylingomen2562
5 ай бұрын
So I do have chronicle illness.... and 5 kids which I homeschool (half of them at least)..... and I'm going to school (only part time though).....😅 not playing easy mode! But structure and self discipline is not a steering suit of mine and that needs to change! I love what you said about self discipline being self love, and about having a 9-5 "job", that is the reframe I think I've been needing, having a job that is literally 24/7 has left me without parameters, but saying I have to get specific things accomplished within set hours gives a framework to follow. Thanks for your videos!!!
@diegodematteis9917
10 ай бұрын
i watched so many videos about discipline ,self improving , procrastination but none of them made me feel ready to act on any of my intentions and limits like your videos....thanks for you been you!
@AhmetKaan
2 жыл бұрын
*Pain of regret is so much worse than the pain of discipline.*
@Shibil9594
2 ай бұрын
😂😂
@NoiseDay
2 жыл бұрын
A note on loss aversion- one of my aspirational routines is grooming my cats. This past weekend, my cat had a medical scare. Not related to hair or anything, but directly related to stress. I told myself, "If I want my cats to be happy and healthy, I must take proper care of them." This is an obvious fact. While I can weave my way around saying they can survive with the care I've been giving them, and really grooming them is more about keeping the house clean, which isn't really an emergency etc etc etc, I can also go the opposite way. Not taking care of myself and my living environment has an impact on my cats' stress, which has a direct and tangible effect on their physical health. I almost lost one to the same complications a couple years ago which was a traumatic experience for me. Even a taste of it happening again is enough to scare me out of my bad habits.
@AhmetKaan
2 жыл бұрын
*"If there is no struggle, there is no progress." - Frederick Douglass*
@Becoming0ne
2 жыл бұрын
So much truth in this one little video. Two related behaviours that have really being working for me for several months are, 1. Telling myself that I just need to ‘turn up’. I don’t need to do the task to perfection or for a long time, I just need to turn up to the task. Inevitably, the consistency creates impact. 2. Unexpectedly, COLOURING IN while listening to fictional audiobooks relaxes my mind and body better than anything. I believe it has a similar effect to mindfulness meditation but is so much easier to do, and for longer periods of time. I find historical fiction allows me to use this time to be learning something but is relaxing enough that it doesn’t engage high level processing like planning and analysing that non-fiction books tend to do.
@zuzu_1
2 жыл бұрын
This is why I love your videos Struth, the timing is always perfect, you share your real experiences, and even if you’ve had slip ups you keep going!! It’s really encouraging 🙌🏾!
@KimbieGarcia
2 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful to have come across this video. I took a self pace course online and have been slacking on finally taking the final exam… and It’s been weeks. Lol I wrote so much of what you said down and I’m going to put it next to my calendar and work space. Good luck to you on your own life journey! New sub!
@clement_legacy7657
11 ай бұрын
I watched your video about 7 things you wish you knew at 20 just minutes ago and now that I'm watching this one I realized that there is a recurring theme. START NOW. I had said I was gonna push aside my laptop and draw something but then i saw this video and clicked since I realized I needed discipline to enact the decision I made after watching the other video. Now I am really going and even start treating my drawing as a way of showing love to myself. Helpful to my twenties self.
@bruh-yp7pf
2 жыл бұрын
i love how you put challenges and exercises in almost each step which makes me more motivated to build my self discipline!
@BeccaSnowflake
2 жыл бұрын
It's funny you release this because I was just looking through your channel for self-discipline advice earlier this week. The world is a funny place
@Redo-it
9 ай бұрын
I'm just lazy as f..... Nevermind it worked
@sammygitongar9262
Жыл бұрын
With all the useful gems Struthless drops for us, I can't help but imagine how great it would've been if he was Struthful. Much love from Kenya.💚
@RealJamieBarclay
2 жыл бұрын
I used to procrastinate in school all the time, then I tried starting a business and I procrastinated on that all the time. These days, while I certainly still procrastinate from time to time, I generally just find myself working without even realising it because I actually enjoy what I do. That thing you're doing in your spare time, maybe should be the main thing instead.
@jorgleiger
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another upload! I've been postponing starting to work on my photography website for a while now and started today. In the first 5 minutes this video popped up (when looking up something website related) and I managed to not click on it and actually work on the website for 1.5h Not watching it there and then was my discomfort training for the day lol. I've obviously seen it now as a reward, and off to the gym we go! Love your content, thanks again for making amazing videos :)
@Trombonesteak46
2 жыл бұрын
I'm really so glad that you started with Will Smith and self-love. I realized that imperative about a week into classic new years resolution productivity toxicity, which coincided with a school project on the late bell hooks (R.I.P.). Her 40+ books of scholarship particularly on black feminisms and her unique and beautiful Buddhist Christian Love Ethic, developped under all sorts of negative forces trying to keep her down are a testament that a deeply rooted praxis of self-love is a key to true productivity. I stopped worrying about schedules and lists for a few days, being mindful to exercise and eat and talk with friends, but I also churned out 30+ pages of pretty good and creative academic writing, and have been sober since Jan. 5th. It was so awesome to have that validated by this video. There's tons of research out there on why its true, but your aesthetics and take on it, your authentic expression of it, it such an amazing part of the conversation. Thanks for your gifts to the world!
@bperez8656
2 жыл бұрын
This is lovely and healthy outlook rather than just “the enforcer”
@tlcoops1
2 жыл бұрын
I have yet to watch one of your videos and feel like it wasn’t worth my time to watch (and even revisit). Honestly you’re my favorite KZitem channel and your videos are so encouraging (without being cheesy which is perfect). Thank you.
@ricdeh
11 ай бұрын
I'm a Stay at home mom and I plan on stop smoking weed to be more productive and I love the way you coralated discipline to self love thank you thank you thank you you've gained a subie
@Axgho
Жыл бұрын
The best thing I find is start small and you will eventually build a habit of whatever your trying to discipline yourself
@catherinemccormick6002
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much so few people who talk about this stuff recognise other people might not be in the same position (medical condition, carer etc)
@hayleyhawkins
2 жыл бұрын
yes!! identity is everything. if you don't identify as a person who accomplishes the things you want to accomplish, you won't take the necessary actions. bathe yourself in the identity of that person
@KARLA.T.
2 жыл бұрын
Dear struthless, Your experience is relatable. Your explanations are moving and practical. This video of has helped me logically come out of an overthinking and self sabotaging mindset with simple tools (more than once). Thank you for doing the work on yourself and having the courage and self love to share it with anyone willing to listen. You are an example of the greatness that happens when someone believes in themselves and follows their passions. I’ll be back to this vid during my next challenge with self love. For now, it has served its purpose well. Cheers, Karla Talamantes
@gmenezesdea
2 жыл бұрын
The great Brazilian writer Guimarães Rosa described his starting system like this: "when the text comes to me, I get naked, roll on the floor, fight the devil in my study, and only then I start writing."
@DrPatrickKingsep
2 жыл бұрын
HI, Patrick from Mind LIfe Flow here - great video and content on building self-discipline - something many people struggle with!
@akhilachanta2819
2 жыл бұрын
The 🐐 is back. Congratulations..about to be dad.
@mihireteabhadera6691
2 жыл бұрын
Who is here after will's slap😂😂
@gemmahaggerty6859
2 жыл бұрын
Hello as I moved into my own self discipline journey I wanted to start a wellness blog- as a way to stay creative and talking about something that I work towards and enjoy. Your content is much like what I hope to achieve and I love to watch! You’re very engaging and the addition of humour is a HOOK. Keep it up dude you’re livin my dream
@doggoboii
2 жыл бұрын
remember that 70% video? you’re now at 110% with these videos, cam goddaaamnnnnnnnnn!!!!
@bleupencil
2 жыл бұрын
I just bingewatched a tonne of your videos (you're welcome). You are adorable and awesome and have learned everything I've been trying to understand in all the wrong ways. Thanks for speaking plainly and bless your little cotton socks for just existing ❤🙏
@BataraKado
Жыл бұрын
"self discipline is self love" - - cant believe struthless quoted mitch hedberg.... sooooooooooooo awesome he was the best comedian to ever walk the earth..
@terinskyweaver
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your disclaimers/inclusivity of people with chronic health problems, disabilities, etc. Much appreciated!
@lilycarone5116
2 жыл бұрын
Self discipline I think is the most important thing to have!!
@Sanisgillon
2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t expect to see Mitch Hedberg 😭❤️ that really brightened me up.
@cutelittledevil88
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping in mind that not everyone is like you. In my daily life people brush past my disability so fucking often. I love your energy
@ummumami
2 жыл бұрын
nobody else on the entire internet breaks things down as dope as you do. thanks for the positive impact u have made on my mindset and life. I hope you are having an amazing day.
@noelleista
Жыл бұрын
this just cleared my brain fog and helped me regain my fleeting motivation...and now I have ways to rely on self-love for discipline rather than something temporary - like motivation. subscribed!! ty for a succint, inspiring, quality video :)
@agabrielhegartygaby9203
11 ай бұрын
From a shrink / psychoanalyst who understands behaveior therapy this is one of the best expositions of the basic and effective application I have ever seen - man! you do not know how many BORING LECTURES I have had to sit through where they tried to do what you have just done gracefully seriously under 20 mins....Love to see competence in action G
@ericathefae
2 жыл бұрын
Dude, thank you! You're the first actually relatable person I've found who talks about these things...
@rebekahatwater3918
Жыл бұрын
I love this guy. I pretty much exclusively listen to his content because of his authenticity and sense of humor.
@camillawolf7536
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. Ive always had a hard time being disciplined. I lost a lot of jobs because of it and it caused me to not be able to do even the easiest things. I want to become a better person.
@natasha-wp2pg
Жыл бұрын
Your existence is a blessing😭
@user-xh8eu4kw5y
8 ай бұрын
You may have just changed my life… doubt you’ll see this but thank you so much.
@DRakeTRofKBam
2 жыл бұрын
That editor trick is actually creative for your circumstance
@ozziethecat649
Жыл бұрын
Saved my life bro!!! Loss aversion as motivation to take action and also become disciplined so we don't lose the future good things that could occur in our lives...WOW!!!! Thank you man!
@raisinnn3650
Жыл бұрын
I can't help but to admire the flow of videooo i mean the editing, transition, is smooth af
@nicolecanete6780
10 ай бұрын
Thank you sir, I am now so ready to live my dream life with discipline as an act of self-love!
@kyrgiosuhhhh5617
2 жыл бұрын
The part about rebuilding your self identity through relating back to your “hometown self” was unexpected for me on this list, but it’s a very true concept. I’ve found myself doing it many time going back home, and usually it helps reset some clutter in my head that was keeping me from being a more determined person, in a way. I think this talk in particular benefited from your humorous delivery lol. It somehow lets us all down easy so that these hard truths about discipline are light on the ears and mind. Great stuff 👍
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