It's so true that people are really impressed by others who can cope with typically awkward situations! It's one of the easiest ways to be impressive!
@Michael_Kelsey
8 жыл бұрын
+Subscriber Nation I agree. I have been telling people that I have been walking up to random stranger and striking up conversation. And They tell me that it takes a lot of guts and they might not be able to do it. And these are people who I thought were more outgoing and confident than me. So its great motivation and enhances my confidence even more
@hallaskjerah
7 жыл бұрын
Subscriber Nation with Brighton West
@mTrader1
2 жыл бұрын
Soo true
@hectorg362
Жыл бұрын
I self isolated myself for almost10 years after having anxiety issues all my life. I'm barley starting to learn how to be 'human' and I wish I found these videos a long time ago
@Noland08
3 жыл бұрын
Going through these videos after basically not interacting with anyone new since quarantine. Thank you
@GetMoreConfidence
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's been difficult hasn't it?
@mohaglade4892
8 жыл бұрын
what you said is all true and the first thing everyone should avoid is that thought repeating itself in the head saying what am i supposed to do ,it's like a message to the subconsious that i am not worthy and i am unable to do this avoid the " what am i supposed to do " thinking
@AlekNik1994
8 жыл бұрын
It's been long time me not communicating with people and friends and i lost the skill to talk to people. I got very bad, so shy, couldn't even watch people in eyes walking on the street, Getting angry but this video could help. Now i am giving to myself a task in next 2 weeks i will start approaching and facing the fear, I hope that i will come back in normal state as i was before. Talk to you again ! :D
@Jake5537t
7 жыл бұрын
Aleks N. I have the same problem
@lesryglrhfohser
6 жыл бұрын
did u improve
@spong2
5 жыл бұрын
How'd it go??
@hannashbelledelosreyes4767
3 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time so new people are literally my favorite. I can talk to someone for 10 minutes and then boom were friends! Im introverted tho so I can be quiet when I want to but talkative when I want to
@GetMoreConfidence
3 жыл бұрын
You're a multitasker! :-)
@sequoia7128
10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video!! Even if this is 7 years old it still matters a lot to me today
@thebaronvingrimm
8 жыл бұрын
the only problem with the thought process of acting like I do with friends is that I'm a complete good with friends. I act like a total idiot with friends.
@loud4life920
7 ай бұрын
Thank you, I needed the confirmation that I wasn't wrong about that
@breakthroughmoment1647
8 жыл бұрын
Awesome vid!! I would love it if you made a video on how to find the right balance between being too outgoing and too reserved in social settings. I either go into my shell or I talk TOO MUCH, which can also be a turn off. I just want to be myself. Thanks Dr. Aziz!
@846524162
8 жыл бұрын
3 Aziz videos in last few days, is there anything better? :) This technique helped me a lot when I started new job few weeks ago. I acted like I know my coworkers already or should I say, I was more relaxed and friendly then the guy who also started on the same day as me. Cant imagine how I would handle this situation a year ago or without watching your videos for the past year, they helped so much its hard to put in words. Always looking forward to new week, new videos from you, to get better and better.
@EricWW2
6 жыл бұрын
"Be around people like you would your good friends"... I don't have friends
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
It's time to change that if you haven't already.
@mylescrawford4426
8 жыл бұрын
Brilliant and Awesome! Assuming approval and familiarity makes life so much easier. Thank you Dr. Aziz!
@stormythebohemian1880
4 жыл бұрын
There we go, I got it. I do see everyone as friends but I don’t talk to people I don’t know as I would a friend if I’m thinking too much about it. Thanks for helping me think this out! :)
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@oldoldaccount421
5 жыл бұрын
*Approach don't avoid* Im puttin myself into the dating world
@GetMoreConfidence
5 жыл бұрын
Go forth!
@Tsekerynic
2 жыл бұрын
I'm excited to meet people it's just when I go to groups to meet them I freeze up and stand in a corner
@GetMoreConfidence
2 жыл бұрын
Keep reviewing the points in this video and apply what you learn things will improve.
@axgell8343
2 жыл бұрын
This has such an impact oh myyyy thankkk youuu
@fordy5261
5 жыл бұрын
You know when i watch these videos and the person assumes i can have a normal conversation with people i already know like its easy, i start to freak tf out! lol
@GetMoreConfidence
5 жыл бұрын
Try this daily exercise to increase your skills and confidence: kzitem.info/news/bejne/ka6Lu3mNkGOTlI4
@zackroller5936
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@catherinerose6737
8 жыл бұрын
Exactly what wat i was having trouble with i Pushed to meet strangers but then again I am 16 and I don't know how to speak or coversate with random students but everytime i wanted to talk to them i tell my self i need to push but my head says no you can't do it so this help a lot but I need another vid on how to start coversations
@amjreptx1
2 жыл бұрын
1. Allow yourself to make friends/ be friendly. I think i could do that we will see.
@GetMoreConfidence
2 жыл бұрын
How is that going?
@amjreptx1
2 жыл бұрын
@@GetMoreConfidence I suppose the confidence is there. But my brain doesn't know how to communicate. My mind is blank most of time when I'm speaking with somebody, and can't seem to hold a conversation.
@mTrader1
2 жыл бұрын
@@amjreptx1 it’s the opposite for me, I’ve lack of confidence but can talk in flow once a conversation starts
@siniorepapito1685
2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful 👍
@GetMoreConfidence
2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@im_dieggoyt2853
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@EricWW2
6 жыл бұрын
5:47 all to evaluate you to. That's why she wasn't there at the beginning.
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
Possibly.
@daydreamproductioms2826
8 жыл бұрын
this has been good for me I bean feeling a bit down and a bit of relapse of my shelf steam skills you see this time last year or two years from now I stating going out and meeting new people own I got a good few mates and a job and some where to go when bored but then I stated to stop trying to meat new people. And is deals had again I I try sometimes but it's go as well as use to I want give shelf credentials for that but still sad a times but feel could use this thank you
@FordFemboy150
5 жыл бұрын
You remind me of Joey from F.R.I.E.N.D.S
@GetMoreConfidence
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks...I think?
@OpeLeke
6 жыл бұрын
Great Video Dr. Aziz, Liked and subscribed
@GetMoreConfidence
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you and welcome!
@Mikau-gb8uo
6 жыл бұрын
I have no problem to talk to people I don't know but have a hard time talk to people who know I'm shy and awkward.. :) kind of strange isn't it? :)
@GetMoreConfidence
6 жыл бұрын
Not strange at all! These people you know, they a LOT about you. It's more intimate speaking with them. Does that rink true?
@drali64
2 жыл бұрын
I draw a blank everytime
@GetMoreConfidence
2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes preparation is the key.
@Debiru667
7 жыл бұрын
Great vid bud
@moizm.a5572
8 жыл бұрын
awesome
@matethegreat1221
6 жыл бұрын
Nice jacket!
@GetMoreConfidence
6 жыл бұрын
LOL Keep...or burn? I'm not sure I even have it anymore. LOL
@GOTDRAGONS
4 жыл бұрын
You look exactly like Slug from Atmosphere
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
Thanks...I think?
@honestlykachow5948
3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely cannot imagine them being my friends because i act really sus
@GetMoreConfidence
3 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure what you mean here?
@honestlykachow5948
3 жыл бұрын
@@GetMoreConfidence what i mean is if i acted like they were my friends them i would be touching their butts, calling them really fruity things, and humping them
@sssparda9065
Жыл бұрын
@@GetMoreConfidence sus means weird basically
@USMC_BABE38
2 жыл бұрын
How do I talk to strange guys in church I noticed a guy who was in the band at the church I visited today he was checking me out during the service this morning I want to be confident in talking to strange guys that I want to try and get to know and be social
@hp2546
2 күн бұрын
If it is church, all you have to do is offer the handshake and say hello. I mean it is a church after all. That is part of a custom in church. That environment would want everybody to walk up to strangers where it is more like "Hi" "Bye". That right there will give you an excuse to approach. That guy does not get to call you creepy because this is how everybody greets in church. All you have to do is say hi my name is USMC_BABE38. Then that guy in the band will introduce himself using whatever name he has. Then it is time to go back to your seats. Your pastor will have to tell the audience to greet one another which means you can greet whoever you want. You don't have to make friends with any of them and you don't have to invite. You don't even have to be part of their life.
@momosyabi
8 жыл бұрын
👏🏻🤓
@kybradshaw965
8 жыл бұрын
Bad Ass
@f_mexandres683
2 жыл бұрын
ik u never pulled in hs
@aishakhan817
8 жыл бұрын
you are awesome :) thanku ... are you Pakistani ?
@mayte986
8 жыл бұрын
I think he's mixed white and.........
@Jake5537t
7 жыл бұрын
mayte986 White and dots? What 😂
@BlunderBuns
4 жыл бұрын
You are dying inside but you do a good job of faking it
@GetMoreConfidence
4 жыл бұрын
No faking, practice!
@mTrader1
2 жыл бұрын
Hey I want you to make a video on something, where can I get your Instagram or something
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