What if the protection order was given on false accusations
@jacobelrod6099
2 жыл бұрын
No contact is honestly stupid. I broke my wife's phone and broke it after she assaulted me. Of course I went to jail and now she can't take care of are kids because she doesn't work. I can't give her money or do anything for her. Are landlord gave her a eviction notice. She needs and wants me back home. Paid $2000 for a defense attorney and have took 7 anger management classes so far. She did her safety classes and nothing. Nothing is getting done. It's crazy how she could get physical with me but I brake a cell phone that I paid for and pay the bill for and go to jail. The court is rigged trying to get money from us.
@jacobelrod6099
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly it's more of a punishment for her then me.
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
@@jacobelrod6099 We agree it is a very frustrating system. Sorry you have to go through this. Thanks for watching.
@zorailynmartinez9769
2 жыл бұрын
It's understanding your frustration but I can see you haven't learn anything about anger management. I can tell you are a controller by saying you pay for this and that..... poor woman, I hope she can get back on her feet, make her own money and take control of her life and run away from you.
@jacobelrod6099
2 жыл бұрын
Well we are actually back together now. I paid up all the bills she didn't. Just remember what I said she literally was drunk and put her hands on me before I broke her phone. I called the cops because I was being assaulted. I still went to jail. I don't see how it's abusive for me to pay her bills. I even got her a new phone after I came back.
@jacobelrod6099
2 жыл бұрын
The reason she doesn't work is one I make enough, two she doesn't want to work. If you ask her she will literally tell you that she wants to stay home and watch the kids. Me and her have learned a lot. biggest thing is not to call the law they don't help.
@LuciixLucci
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making these types of videos! 😣🙃
@kiankriv6210
3 жыл бұрын
He is awesome
@juannunez1839
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your help
@TheLanceLawyers
8 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment!
@tailwind12
Жыл бұрын
this gentleman, mr. fryrear, seems articulate, well phrased and intended. like so many "laws" once published and passed...ms. or "mr" attorney takes over to make money and they "explain" the law to you or defend you in court. again..for $. my cousin a retried sergeant major (E9) was presented with one of these in florida. his "crime" of stalking. giving a rose to the clerk (female) at the gym he was a member at. then a respectful, maturity properly phrased holiday card. nothing threading, basically happy holidays. does the gym manager speak to my cousin? nope. the gym manger and all knew he was retired military with repeated deployments in iraq. did they care or try to "head off" anything? nope. gets the subpoena with a 21yoa "sheriff" at his front door with neighbor gawking and watching. typical classy "legal" america, at work. she claimed in court; she was "terrified" that my cousin might come to her university campus. of which, he never once stepped foot on, ever. yes "terrified". my cousin, never arrested and more medals on his chest than joints that the victim smoked in college. the elder male judge dismissed the claim. which was proper. this was almost 3 yrs ago. my cousin , within 5 months, sold his home, condo, belongings..after 25yrs active military. moved to the philippines. bought a condo, beautiful 29yoa fillipina wife and yes, a dog. wore on the graves of the women and men he lost in iraq (and he served in afghanistan) that he would never, ever spend a penny in the US again or step foot on the soil here. society gets radical, vague and "female" orientated laws of basically whatever they (female) says in lies or truth is takes as gosel and society lost the presence and respect of a man (or "respondent" as he was referred to as) forever. my cousin states every day outside the US is paradise and each penny of his US earned pension spent outside the US is his was of being "reflecting" on him being dragged into court on the frivolous and groundless claims of "a" claimed victim. though the victim was female so "must" be telling the truth. fortunately the elder judge saw through the social "bs" and ruled differently. do not "buy" this blanked DV laws folks...do not think they are balanced, fair and appropriate-especially to adult males. don't. but if it happens to you. there will be a lawyer, somewhere, for revenue and profit to "defend" your rights against the government and society.
@jesusruiz7717
3 жыл бұрын
Very Helpful!
@a-wood4203
Ай бұрын
What do I do if I have no evidence to defend myself and she has messages of me read out of context ? And also false statements accusing me of things I never done
@MANTOWNCRIPCUZZ
24 күн бұрын
What if the petitioner didn't show up to hearing does the defendant need to show up?
@codycook3748
Жыл бұрын
My son's mom refuses to agree with dropping the no contact order meanwhile she has no income no job no car and I can't help out at all just am allowed electronic contact basically just texts calling email video chat but nothing else and my son needs transportation to and from daycare and she's struggling to keep up with bills and clean up around the house and my son is constantly crying for daddy. I am going through dv mrt classes and she still wants a no contact order to make sure I finish them
@xiaojunzhu6680
3 ай бұрын
Am I allow the serve petitioners attorney the declaration while I have restraining order on me?
@elizabethortiz5144
2 жыл бұрын
I went to speak to the clerk and I was told the defendant had to remove the protective order not the victim (me). What do you recommend?
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Elizabeth. If the proactive order is only a sentencing condition, that could be the case. If your matter is in Washington State feel free to call the office to see if we can point you in the right direction. Thanks for watching!
@elizabethortiz5144
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheLanceLawyersUnfortunately I am in California, but I do appreciate your response as it was part of the sentencing. I was unaware that was the reason, the clerk and victim’s advocate explained who had to remove it but failed to provide a reason why. Thank you again!
@PlatinumHustle
2 жыл бұрын
What happens if I don’t show up for the order of protection hearing? The lady that is putting this case on me, moved like 3 months ago and I don’t even know where she is and not interested 🤦🏾♂️ she claims I stalked her, even though we were sexually involved for months, then broke it off before she moved
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the question Platinum. You may need to call our office for specifics. In general, in Washington State, if a Respondent fails to appear, and a Petitioner appears, the Court will grant a default order favoring the Petitioner and restraining the Respondent. Your situation may be different so this is not legal advice, but general information. Thanks for watching.
@PlatinumHustle
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheLanceLawyers would I go to jail if I don’t appear? I’ve already moved out that state lol
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
@@PlatinumHustle Typically if someone does not show up, the order gets issued. No one gets arrested unless they are accused of violating an issue order.
@PlatinumHustle
2 жыл бұрын
@@TheLanceLawyers thank you
@a-wood4203
Ай бұрын
@@PlatinumHustleso did u go
@hayleegarrett9529
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@TheLanceLawyers
Жыл бұрын
@Haylee Garrett: You're welcome
@christopherbrown7510
3 жыл бұрын
What do you do then when the person that put the restraining on you or the order of protection has mental instabilities such as schizophrenia manic bipolar dementia and has a split personality
@TheLanceLawyers
3 жыл бұрын
Christopher. Thank you for your questions. That is a hard one. You should likely get an attorney to help you file a response so the Court can be aware of those items in determining credibility in deciding what happened. Thanks for watching.
@christopherbrown7510
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheLanceLawyers I have the medical records for it
@strnglhld
2 жыл бұрын
sounds like the order isn’t a bad thing then
@danelledonahue1274
2 жыл бұрын
I am in the same situation. My sister is bipolar and got a restraining order against me. What happened with your case?
@hayde7604
3 жыл бұрын
How can I drop it if he violated it ?
@stink1721
2 жыл бұрын
How did things turn out?
@hayde7604
2 жыл бұрын
@@stink1721 I didn’t drop it and now he’s in jail serving time for other stuff he did
@tryn1687
2 жыл бұрын
@@hayde7604 L female
@alexbekkala1718
3 жыл бұрын
Hello lance. I have a question. Me ex got an order of protection granted off of she said he said case. Nothing ever happened. Judge still have her an order of protection. 3 months later she texts me and apologizes for lying and exaggerating in court to get the order and her attorney told her to make stuff up. We are in fily court now. Can I use those messages in family court and can I potentially try and get it dropped.
@TheLanceLawyers
3 жыл бұрын
Alex. Thanks for the question. We would argue that you are allowed to use text to you in court about her lying. If you responded, you could be in trouble for violating the order, however. Be careful. Also, you may be able to bring a motion to terminate the original order based upon new evidence. We would suggest consulting an attorney for the best course of action. Thank for watching!
@alexbekkala1718
3 жыл бұрын
@@TheLanceLawyers thanks for the response. So I did reply to her text messages. Also I shared my texts I had with her attorney she has for our family law case. I just got a notice yesterday that they are dropping her as a client and have withdrawn from the case.
@basicprogrammer6147
Жыл бұрын
How do I get an order of protection terminated if I am the respondent/abuser? Particularly, my wife and I had an argument several years ago and I threw a vase at the floor and the handle broke off and hit her in the head. Fastforward to last summer, my wife started going through menopause, became more emotional, and decided to file for an order of protection where she wrote that I threw a pot at her head. At the hearing, I said that did not happen, but the female judge said "I don't believe you" and ejected me from our house for 1 year. It has been 8 months of me living by myself in an apartment, and my wife and I have exchanged 100s of friendly texts (my wife asked to modify the original order to allow non-harassing texts). So, I'd like to terminate the order early. What exactly should I say in my petition?
@keyanafields5890
Жыл бұрын
I’m trying to hire you or someone on your team to represent me to modify or remove a no contact order in snohomish county. Bf has been sentenced to 5 years he has adopted our 3 year old son and even though I am the victim I want to modify the protection order so we are at-least able to visit. What’s the chances of the judge modifying the protection order if both parties want it dropped we attend counseling etc? Please get back to me asap thank you!
@bts_fan_rkive
Жыл бұрын
Is email considered a no contact violation if someone has been defaming your character? I have been trying to get this person to leave me alone for 6 years. I personally think they’re deranged and obsessed.
@mylescrumel9633
Жыл бұрын
Yes it typically is. The specific outlines are in the document after you case
@bruiz4818
3 жыл бұрын
I am wondering in Washington State is there a form to fill out called a Waiver of Prosecution
@TheLanceLawyers
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the delay in responding. We are not sure what the form is you are talking about. Please respond here if you still have that question. Thank you for watching!
@macmarles3243
2 жыл бұрын
In Texas they call it the affidavit of prosecution. Don't know what they call it elsewhere but that might be what you're talking about??
@daleharrison9357
7 ай бұрын
Most "victims" are undiagnosed themselves! So I call "Contempt" on Lawyers and The Courts alike. Do "Men" have Human Rights?
@chelithamiller3632
2 жыл бұрын
Can you get in trouble if You take the contact order off of someone ?
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
@Chelitha: Generally not, but you would want to check with a local attorney about your specific situation. Thanks for watching!
@Aphelion25
2 жыл бұрын
And this is why I will never report
@zenchilladas
2 жыл бұрын
The system is totally screwed up.
2 жыл бұрын
What if it was ordered by ACS ?
@Loveoflife1994
Жыл бұрын
Same question I have as well. My husband got order of protection by stupid Acs for 6 months long and still they fighting to keep it on until Acs die I guess ! It was a minor incident but Acs got involved and still going on this battle for 7 months 😢😢😢
@dutchesslee3042
Жыл бұрын
What happens if my parents have custody of my kids and they put a no contact order on me ? It’s been three years what do I do !?
@TheLanceLawyers
Жыл бұрын
@Dutchess Lee: It depends on what the no contact order says. You would want to contact a family law attorney in your area is our best guess at this point. Often they can bring parenting actions. Thanks for watching!
@hayde7604
3 жыл бұрын
How can I drop a protective order if I’m 8 months pregnant and I want him to be there for the birth of our child
@TheLanceLawyers
3 жыл бұрын
It depends on the court and the situation. Please give my office a call if you are in Western Washington and we can discuss. Thank you for watching and commenting.
@mauriciorodriguez7154
2 жыл бұрын
Shit! You’re in the same boat as my bm lol.
@jazmynelawrence1720
Жыл бұрын
In the same situation..how’d it turn out?
@sunshineee2366
2 жыл бұрын
How do I know it's been removed? I signed a form to remove/ drop it. This whole 2 months I thought it was removed because I got a voicemail from the clerk saying that my request for protection order removal has been now dismissed by the judge. Next thing you know, we got pulled over and he got arrested??? :(
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
It sounds like the clerk was trying to tell you that your request to drop the order was denied. It is best to contact the Court and ask if the order is still in place. You may also want to ask for a copy of the order to see when it expires. Sorry that happened. Make sure the person who got arrested gets an attorney if possible.
@user-of9cc9ts6i
2 жыл бұрын
That's disgusting !!
@RhINoXX661
11 ай бұрын
Is there a no contact order in a civil case?
@TheLanceLawyers
11 ай бұрын
See above. Thanks for watching.
@RhINoXX661
11 ай бұрын
Let rephrase the question. Why is the restraining order/no contact order not in the law-enforcement database. I have no doubt that I would've been shot if I went to my in-laws after the sheriff said I could because he said there was nothing in the system. Yet they all would contact me later saying that I couldn't because there was an order in place. One that isn't entered in the database? That makes no sense at all. How is a protection order going to protect anyone if it's not entered into the database.
@chadwarden823
2 жыл бұрын
So my pretrial got postponed because i didnt have a representative. victim did a motion order to get nco dropped after the postponal but got denied by the city because they think im a threat which i clearly am not. Would I have had a better chance of it getting dropped today if I had a representative and didnt get it postponed? What’s the best viable option for me going forward to be able to see my partner again? Will I ever be able to see her again? Please I am in a living nightmare over a mistake I should have never done. Can we get it remodified so we can just drop the no contact part of the order? P
@TheLanceLawyers
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that Chad. If your problem is in Washington State you can give us a call to discuss the specifics. Sometimes it helps to have an attorney, sometimes it does not.
@strnglhld
2 жыл бұрын
CHAD WARDEN the celebrity?!!!! pee-ess-trippo
@patrickturner1598
2 жыл бұрын
Just tell the truth
@codihasbrouck1667
Жыл бұрын
Hypothetically you could freeze this part of the court system with fake complaints until someone was forced to fix this. Conjunction junction what's your function. I don't know I need a real pipe line. This is babble.
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