Leave single dads alone especially if you are childless. Emotional turbulence is real. Most of them will disappear and appear and repeat..and ghost you and repeat at will. Please run. Again you will always be on a pedestal of comparison with his previous relationship and he will never tell you. Just leave these people alone
@amberleexangeles
Жыл бұрын
Wow sis you’re so on point lol. 😂
@sharchannel1836
7 ай бұрын
On point I experienced this never again
@faithkamau3771
3 жыл бұрын
A pre 25 that follows all your teachings and I get to learn alot as a lady
@tariroyashesithole3084
3 жыл бұрын
Well-done girl
@hellenwanjiku167
3 жыл бұрын
Very true. At least wer safe to have such a topic.
@sontogumbi8177
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for teaching on such pertinent issues. In as much as I can love and accept someone with a child or children, I have learnt to see red flags to look for. Some people will have you playing second fiddle to their child or children no matter how good of a human being you are.
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
You are so right about most men in their 40s who are either lying about being married, or having kids. The ones who are divorced or have baby mamas have not healed yet or have not settled their issues with their Ex and bringing a lot of drama. Seldom do you meet a widower at that age and then even he needs to grieve properly before a relationship and will most likely also have kids 2ho also need to grieve before they are ready for a new mother-figure.
@susanwangui4181
3 жыл бұрын
Woow I have never thought of single dads .....I have learnt a lot today
@teejayangel6638
Жыл бұрын
I had to rewind that part about "dating your father's classmates" and ROFL about 10 times! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@taylorduvernay9789
3 жыл бұрын
I met a wonderful guy, divorced with three kids. The day he revealed that information i ran like a ginger bread man, I never looked back. I never wanted to be a step mom. I am a great Aunty to my nieces but I don't want to be a step mom, that I am positive about.
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
Smart choice. Most of these divorced guys with kids are just looking for a woman to nanny their kids. If you have no kids it’s best to stay single than to deal with their nonsense. The ex wife will also become a disturbance once she finds out you’re dating him. You’re right it’s more fun to be an aunt than a stepmom. No comparison.
@l-kin3480
2 жыл бұрын
@@misscamara12 lol. I can only be a stepmother if the kids are almost grown and the guy is a widower. I don't do divorcees
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
@@l-kin3480 That might be slightly better but I would still proceed with caution bc adult stepkids can also be problematic. Also, they could stay at home well into their 20’s. It takes time to be able to afford your own place and establish a career. Living with a man’s grown kids can be a challenge. The mom also may not be physically present but her memory will live on and you’ll be compared to someone who will now be seen as flawless. The kids may resent you even more if you come in after their mom passed bc your presence will be a constant reminder that she’s never coming back. So it may not necessarily be easier if she’s deceased. The ONLY way it’s easier to be a stepparent is if the man is wealthy and his kids live long distance. It doesn’t matter the age of his kids or whether the ex is alive or not. It depends how involved they will be in your day to day life. So best scenario is rich man with limited contact with his kids and ex wife.
@l-kin3480
2 жыл бұрын
@@misscamara12 oh boy. Single guy then
@misscamara12
2 жыл бұрын
@@l-kin3480 lol.. there’s no easy way out
@Wakio231
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣LOL Zulu you will break my ribs, who asked you to pray for me??
@cuteanimalvideos8926
Жыл бұрын
This video was Soo timely 🤣🤣 wueeh I had found Mr Right with everything only to find out he lied at first he has nokids then after wards he has 2 baby mamas with 2 kids
@teejayangel6638
Жыл бұрын
The problem with women with low self esteem is they caress their dumbness with excuses, they give excuses for the guy's narcissism, selfishness, and juvenile behavior.
@jeccysmattahmyrah5042
3 жыл бұрын
Well spoken zulu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 "dating your father's schoolmates" lol!!!. Watching from Saudi
@ruthfavour9432
3 жыл бұрын
You know 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ruthfavour9432
3 жыл бұрын
.... you get married to become a nurse and caregiver....😂😂😂😂
@rosewelimo7998
3 жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@Geesell
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Benjamin Zulu… I’m watching from Philippines 🇵🇭.. Thank you so much, I’m learning a lot from you… God bless you always 😊🙏
@lydiamutyaba401
3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this....You are God sent
@Happyjoy44628
11 ай бұрын
Thank you Benjamin for this advice, your a gift to this generation
@imanimwakinga4934
6 ай бұрын
Benjamin can embarrass 😂😂😂😂
@hellenmusyimi9627
3 жыл бұрын
Very true Benjamin, a man who his wife died and he disappears on you thinking about his wife is a no
@rachelnkambule3802
26 күн бұрын
South Africa Rachel cant wait for the advice
@mbalintobela4060
3 жыл бұрын
"hovering here like a demon, and causing drama" 😂 dead
@kagoyaasinati578
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks messenger of the 21century 😂😂😂😂.Dating our fathers agemate is another problem
@lilianmuthiga6435
3 жыл бұрын
True Zulu, look at your relationship needs versus his before committing . 👍👍 Your anger is warranted 😂😂🤣🤣
@ruthmutua705
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom.thanks for always being real
@hadassahnjuguna9796
2 жыл бұрын
Hadassah watching from Doha Qatar
@Ronsayy
3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss! Thanks for sharing this awesome video!🥂
@agnetahm4715
3 жыл бұрын
You are a gem!!!!
@asteriampingan5385
3 ай бұрын
Watching from the land of the brave 🇳🇦
@Wakio231
3 жыл бұрын
Father's classmates 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌
@Wakio231
3 жыл бұрын
Outbreak of babymamas 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣
@jamiilamuthoni8949
3 жыл бұрын
I salute single dads watching from Uganda
@sikhululekilemoyo7156
3 жыл бұрын
Especially man hide their children thus evil a child is a gift from God
@hannahmirembe5528
3 жыл бұрын
Just got here..... Hannah from Ug🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@davidskidydinkies9319
3 жыл бұрын
Mr Zulu you should discuss dating young female widows
@TheVLOLO
3 жыл бұрын
In the US..i wish we had more of this information.
@judithjackson1086
3 жыл бұрын
Lol he said "outbreak of baby mamas"
@sheilachepkorir2711
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣Benjamin is burning
@charitywaithera6396
2 жыл бұрын
I find your advises very insightful 👌
@ireneomoro6125
2 жыл бұрын
Ati single moms do what? 😂😂😂😂 Wewe Benjamin
@rhodahbranice3379
3 жыл бұрын
The profound message,,,thank you zulu
@monabrown101
2 жыл бұрын
Thank u Sir. U have set me free.
@nomfundomasuku2443
Жыл бұрын
Love you Zulu💛
@janewangui7663
3 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@awuorotieno5890
3 жыл бұрын
You have made my day! Who solicited their prayers? Ha! Ha! Ha!
@lydiamutyaba401
3 жыл бұрын
Uganda ....already here
@graceanguche6409
Жыл бұрын
Very impressive word
@usonjecheonga8751
3 жыл бұрын
Some wisdom here....
@mithletlwoyelo6044
3 жыл бұрын
His wife died one yr ago.this year we met and start dating but the guy can keep quite for one week or two weeks , no communication yet we are in long distance relationship. At the end of February this year we had a little misunderstanding .The guy has muted since then.i tried to start a communication with him but jamaa bluetik me and never replied. Niko hapa kwa mataaa! What do I do
@hellenmusyimi9627
3 жыл бұрын
Hehe waah could he be a brother of someone I know,,, he used to behave the same I had to move on with my life.
@wendymkhwanazi9862
3 жыл бұрын
Walk away my dear sister. lts a dead end
@susanedward1641
3 жыл бұрын
Don't allow anyone to walk in and out of your life whenever their feel like it,walk away sister
@nelilinda2199
3 жыл бұрын
That one is still mourning, has not yet healed.
@sheilawaweru8401
3 жыл бұрын
Move on.
@wendymkhwanazi9862
3 жыл бұрын
Save us from ourselves Benjamin 😭😭😭
@snikiwelanga6051
3 жыл бұрын
Full of wisdom Zulu
@joanwawira4277
3 жыл бұрын
Leo nimekupata live.Jeddah saudia
@lettakyjoy
3 жыл бұрын
🇳🇦🇳🇦🙌🏾thanks Mr. Zulu
@nellyneorege8480
3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha 🤣🤣 another akuku danger
@ruthmutinda6522
3 жыл бұрын
Am here listening
@fridakasebamanyika2873
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom
@Gisellexo
10 ай бұрын
Didn’t even watch the video.. but the answer to the title is .. DON’T, Unless the mother is dead or the kids are older.
@joanmweshmwololo6248
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly from Saudi
@susanwairimu2726
3 жыл бұрын
Zulu l like your truth, thanks so much
@carenmwendwa9528
3 жыл бұрын
Plz talk about how to handle orphans
@euniceodera9484
3 жыл бұрын
Check his talks, he has talked about them.
@nancieprincess7363
3 жыл бұрын
We are the most difficult people to love.... So if u know u will heart her please leave her alone huwa tunajirudisha sana
@eunicechebosaieunice
3 жыл бұрын
Team Saudi.... Ugandan
@philisilenkosi
3 жыл бұрын
Be nice Mr Zulu 😂😂😂
@eunicechebosaieunice
3 жыл бұрын
Surely you are God sent
@sarahnyambura1634
3 жыл бұрын
I like how Zulu hua anajam😂😂
@tonuiw7586
3 жыл бұрын
Here laughing🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ntg4300
Жыл бұрын
But in some cases you'll see a woman who has maybe aborted before judging a guy who has a kid. Y'all are the safe you can't judge someone coz of their past experiences. You're also a mother 😢
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