I been dating wrong like my whole life. Good I know now. Its not too late to get it right
@Empressintuition
4 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@Kmillions77
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, same here! I wish I would of known all this before but glad I know now.
@Kmillions77
4 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yes, yes, yes bless you ❤
@ninasky3275
4 жыл бұрын
@@tiffanydiggs7625 yes thats right and we can teach our (future) children better
@uyiclementina6984
4 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm oh yes
@YodyBrown2011
4 жыл бұрын
I criiiieeeeedddddd when he said he has to have Citizenship in the same Country 🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂, nothing but the TRUTH
@Empressshorts
4 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie he be having me hollering!! 🤣
@lyndapeoples8127
4 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie... my eyes are already big and they got really big when I heard him say that! 😳
@Wavy-Waves
4 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Marie LAWD HAVE MERCY!!! He is telling the truth. My cousin just married a Nigerian & it has been a nightmare. I told that fool don’t do it!
@Wavy-Waves
4 жыл бұрын
Abisola Abiodun Girl start your KZitem channel first.
@kenyafromcali
4 жыл бұрын
Ma’am that was nothing but the truth!
@jamiepope9823
2 жыл бұрын
Everytime I meet a new person, I come back to this video....this time I will follow the steps....
@mariahpowell
2 жыл бұрын
“He better have transportation, a place to stay and citizenship” 😭😂😂😂
@DH-zi5ob
2 жыл бұрын
And when Brotha Tony said that third middle leg ready to dip that stick🤣🤣 that right there made me enthusiastic to wait!
@drea1228
2 жыл бұрын
He is soooo humorous 😂😂
@elizabethcross8372
Жыл бұрын
Emphasis on citizenship 🤣🤣🤣
@jacquelynsimmons6131
Жыл бұрын
Say that!!
@elizabethclarke2005
5 ай бұрын
OMG I cant stop crying and laughing at the same time
@marquettawilson3712
4 жыл бұрын
When he said “ some of yall was raised by a worry wart, so everybody you meet you think they wanna chop you up and put you in their freezer” I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂
@marilynking527
4 жыл бұрын
Marquetta Wilson 😂😂😂😂😂
@missmarymack3457
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂
@Ashley_Banks
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nofybn7794
4 жыл бұрын
Better to be a worry wort then chopped up in a freezer.
@daniellelewis8043
4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jlove3371
4 жыл бұрын
“This is a red flag if you meet a man and in the beginning all he’s doing is texting you” This is so correct and it’s my pet peeve...we’re grown, why text all day.
@sharoncobb2547
4 жыл бұрын
So true,I loathe that, big turn off!
@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430
4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss. He's a grown boy
@queenofthesouth4205
4 жыл бұрын
AMEN AND AMEN
@wealldeserveloveandhappine7430
4 жыл бұрын
@@DatDyme980 yesss
@eveheart2876
4 жыл бұрын
I agree
@marquittadixon7761
Жыл бұрын
This man is literally a comedian 🤣🤣🤣 but he dropping straight gems 💎 Thank you Tony!
@sanaimcclain
11 ай бұрын
on everything had me cracking up😭
@TDJ8329
11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@veronicamiltonnewdimension
11 ай бұрын
He is soooo funny! 😂
@Therealhoneydip__
9 ай бұрын
Factual
@harmonybringswealth9193
7 ай бұрын
Yes but need the help from big brother😁😅🤣,
@Steviecyanide444
2 жыл бұрын
I’m 20 with no type of guidance from either of my parents. I really needed this ✨
@Steviecyanide444
2 жыл бұрын
I been doin EVERYTHING wrong LMAOO
@xandriaborges
Жыл бұрын
You wanna be friends girl?!? Im turning 20 next month 😊
@avanoelle5333
Жыл бұрын
Same!! I’m pretty much reparenting myself. It’s a journey it’s hard af but I already feel so much better
@dimedavispresentstalkyospit
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate yall for realizing this early on💯💯 keep educating yourself and surround yourself with ppl who are on your level. Be different from the crowd. The crowd is crowded for a reason and misleading one another
@sherikawilliams1466
Жыл бұрын
I was there am in my 30s learning this to teach my kids
@candybroadway3023
4 жыл бұрын
Tony is the big brother I never had...you have enriched my life. You have made a difference.
@jerelene21
3 жыл бұрын
Agreed!🙏🏾
@CatGee
3 жыл бұрын
I always say the same! So true
@RecoveryCEO
3 жыл бұрын
I really give up on dating especially with black men.
@MoneTheGreatiAm
3 жыл бұрын
BIG Facts!!!! He's saved me so much time
@nellynell3109
3 жыл бұрын
💯
@michellelucius7973
4 жыл бұрын
This is so true a guy was texting after the third day I’m like is it a reason you can’t call me. He said yes I’m in a situation. After he told me the situation ( He live with a Woman) I stop reply and blocked him.
@traquilasmith2275
4 жыл бұрын
U did right for your self. Don't waste your time Or settle for less that was a sign from God. God knows the right man. God bless
@saiyansnake
4 жыл бұрын
SMH, good riddance, that guy was a scum bag.
@manij1913
4 жыл бұрын
Michelle Lucius 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 instant BLOCK ...... that and “I live with my baby mama for the kids “ or “Sweetie we not together but you mine “ BBBLLLOOOCCCCKKKKKEEEDDDTTTT 😂
@MsSweets0211
4 жыл бұрын
💪🏾
@Glamrocs
4 жыл бұрын
🤦🏾♀️ Thank God you was wasn’t desperate for a man
@tiffanyharris9292
3 жыл бұрын
For the single ladies this is great advice, I conducted myself in this same manner and my now fiancé said he appreciated the fact that I let him handle things yet he knew I had my own. Know your worth ladies and don't buy into what society says we should do.
@starlash-a
Жыл бұрын
You need 10 hours to know if he crazy 🤣 this man pure Gold
@pamelasbutterflylife1312
6 ай бұрын
😭😭😭
@logikgirl12
4 жыл бұрын
This is bulletproof! Any person dating like this would never be underappreciated or lied to. The grown boys would not have space to do their misdeeds, they would be dropped very early on!
@brendascott8267
4 жыл бұрын
Paid for a course on a date.😂😂😂
@234forte
4 жыл бұрын
Lies+
@mahletalem
3 жыл бұрын
Very early on indeed
@jcymngo
Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@chrisparker6249
4 жыл бұрын
The roles have drastically switched these days....Women are now the hunters/pursuers, and some if not most men are okay with this change in pace. It's never a woman's place to pursue a man, no matter what the circumstances may be. Women are only to be in position to receive their King, emphasis on KING!
@chrisparker6249
4 жыл бұрын
@Denetria Wright I agree Ms. Wright, we are attracted to each other physically for the most part, so this can easily put a woman in the position as the pursuer. Sadly there are some gorgeous people in this world but lack substance as well.
@fah232
4 жыл бұрын
Right, I worked at a job and I have never seen women like these, they would walk up to men a just tell them what they want to do sexually to them.....I could never.
@queenofthesouth4205
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Parker
@chrisparker6249
4 жыл бұрын
@@fah232 Sadly F A H it's becoming a custom or normality in today's society where women are agressive in their approach and have no problem being the pursuer. I do feel that this behavior can establish an expectation for some men where they may see the woman as being easy to sleep with. That's not the tone we need to set here. Women are Queens but not every woman acknowledge her royalty.
@fah232
4 жыл бұрын
@@chrisparker6249 Exactly
@seahorn2058
3 жыл бұрын
“It’s not that we aim high and miss, it’s that we aim low and hit”. This blessed me Mr. Gaskins, God bless you🙏🏽
@Mahogonykisses
3 жыл бұрын
This tho!!!
@TravelBug189
2 жыл бұрын
That hit me like a ton of bricks
@noig_donnypia5647
5 ай бұрын
When my husband finds me, I want Tony at the wedding. 💒 I’ve learned more from him in the few months of watching his videos than from my own father in the 10 years, he’s been home from prison. It’s never too late to get it right. I didn’t have the proper guidance but God sent us Tony. for the women that wanna do right but weren’t taking the right steps. I’m excited for the new chapter I’m starting. no more giving in.
@chasafras
4 жыл бұрын
When he makes the woman’s voice when he’s explaining something 😂
@lzsunshine
4 жыл бұрын
Whew chile! He pops that tongue and gets to going and I fall out every time. I have to rewind to actually listen to what he has said because the voice takes me out every single time.
@marilynking527
4 жыл бұрын
Marie Minx yes 😂😂😂
@Radience100
4 жыл бұрын
Yes! It’s hilarious !!!!!!😂🤣
@blacklove2923
4 жыл бұрын
Funny right..😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
@missj5564
4 жыл бұрын
He is hilarious when he does that.
@Watchme411
4 жыл бұрын
"eating peach cobbler" 😋🍑 & " singing on the microphone" 🗣🎤 🤣🤣😂😂... love the subliminals
@Wavy-Waves
4 жыл бұрын
campbella 81 My slow 50 yr. old tail was lost for a minute.😂😂😂😂 I got it y’all. Y’all young folks is something else with these names.😳😂😂😂
@zelmahenry7300
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂eating peach cobbler and singing on the microphone
@lindaturner9018
4 жыл бұрын
@@Wavy-Waves aá z
@skyshae3224
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@SmileyQueenlife
4 жыл бұрын
This guy is a lifesaver. I been going through these grown boys giving in and letting them have their way but no more !!!
@aliciabenson474
3 жыл бұрын
You not alone 😫🙏🏽
@valeriew364
2 жыл бұрын
Amen, I’m tired of bending for them.
@dorothymatthews6690
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you Kaykay! Been there done that too. I've been celebrate for 10 years now and will remain so until marriage.
@nursesrock4264
3 жыл бұрын
This is the most important video you have ever posted, in my opinion. Step by step for the clueless and curious. It's definitely not a 1 or 2 time watch...it's a study and perfect type of lesson
@gorgeousreese9741
3 жыл бұрын
Yesss I’ll definitely be studying and applying !
@donnahouston6958
2 жыл бұрын
Wow i agree I have LISTEN To this Video like Three Times Before THIS Video Goodness I have made so many mistakes but this has really equipped me
@krystavi05
4 жыл бұрын
Where was this video when I was in my early twenties?! 😭😭😭 I was told to save myself until marriage, but that's it. I wasn't given all this information, no red flags, no step-by-step instructions, not even clear boundary lines. Nothing. Just "no sex until marriage". I can't even begin to explain how necessary this video is! Thank you Tony Gaskins. You've made me feel much more capable of dating correctly with just this video. God continue to bless you!
@007stinkey
4 жыл бұрын
I needed it about 21 days ago 😭😭😭
@Shanakkk
3 жыл бұрын
Never too late
@naturesgirl7447
3 жыл бұрын
I didn't get instructions neither
@golden_shaperson2419
3 жыл бұрын
Sooo true
@shutit4024
2 жыл бұрын
Sameeee I was only told once but not taught anything well I had friends having $ex and guess what I did?
@ericabostwick4033
4 жыл бұрын
This is good step by step instructions....
@marishalewis484
4 жыл бұрын
Bosslady Pebbles Yes it is!
@angelaaaron5575
4 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@jjosborneable
4 жыл бұрын
Agree
@kimiko_111
3 жыл бұрын
"Broke, busted and disgusted" 😂😂😂
@Naturalwoman730
4 жыл бұрын
Loose bootie, singing on the mic and hotdogging, u are too funny, this is so informative and entertaining at the same time. I love it
@cheryljones2009
3 жыл бұрын
I've never even heard the term "hotdogging" & I'm 50 years old!!! 😆 lol
@DeeQJohnson
3 жыл бұрын
What in the world is hotdogging😂
@shutit4024
2 жыл бұрын
@@DeeQJohnson I think it means anal
@beauphomasterpiece3795
4 жыл бұрын
Also I’d like to add do not drink anywhere with this person you are dating for at least 6-8 months in especially if you are celibate or abstinent. It can alter your decisions
@CeeceByrd
4 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏😊
@Denise_Cocoa
4 жыл бұрын
This is true but I’d like your opinion cuz I JUST had this conversation yesterday with a friend. She is dating a guy and wants to see him when he’s drinking/drunk so she can see how he behaves. Is he aggressive, mean, nasty, perverted, etc. What do you think about that perspective?
@Shae_3
4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@hellosunshine3647
4 жыл бұрын
I had someone offer to cook me dinner and bring the wine. Df!! No sir, no thank! My coworker told me I was crazy for not accepting. But I barely drink as it is, I'm cleaning up my body, and I definitely will not drink with a man I'm getting to know. No! Stand on that!🙌
@hellosunshine3647
4 жыл бұрын
@@Denise_Cocoa that is interesting but can be dangerous? But I know some people drink on dates maybe one or two, but some people can hold their liquor well so it may require more. This is a hard one! I would say email tony with it. Hopefully we get an answer! Because I've dated a man who was an alcoholic and I had no clue until it was too late smh
@lynmariah3539
4 жыл бұрын
Father God I ask that you protect this Man , his mind as he continue to give us wisdom that we need . This generation NEEDS to hear this , you hear meeee! Satan is mad because he don’t want us to know this information , buttt God in your name I pray Amen🙏🏾
@latanyawilliams5200
4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@Godfavorsmi
4 жыл бұрын
When he said “the bigger the Diamond the smaller the Love”, I automatically thought of Cardi B & Offset!😅
@doramawrie3741
3 жыл бұрын
Lol Lovely Losja!!
@Mahogonykisses
3 жыл бұрын
Thissssss partttt!!
@nikkinanette8807
3 жыл бұрын
I know people like that personally. Buying the chick a larger wedding ring within the 1st year, then throwing the upgrade ring 💍 in other women’s faces only to get a divorce a few years later.
@gracedean2957
4 жыл бұрын
My mom and dad said this is the way it was during their times in the 50s and 60s. They didn't understand this dating one-person thing. During their time they didn't have sex, they called it "courting" and you could court whomever you wanted until you decided to marry. When I was dating I would tell guys this and they immediately want to call me a hoe because in their head they are thinking about having sex when dating is just apart of getting to know someone. In getting to know someone, sex is not a requirement.
@chantico221
4 жыл бұрын
Where was this video 10 years ago lawd! Lol
@lawanda891
4 жыл бұрын
Girl okay I’m 10 years late too 😫
@altheapearson467
4 жыл бұрын
Purple Dove 87for auistuydysuuist
@Nomoremonitoring
4 жыл бұрын
Right!
@natural.7
4 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄
@shereewhite4828
4 жыл бұрын
All the single ladies, including myself, as well as single men, let's M.I.U.M!!!!! (MAKE IT UNTIL MARRIAGE! = Abstinent until marriage! Last month marked my 6th yr of being abstinent! 😊
@Wavy-Waves
4 жыл бұрын
Sheree White So proud of you, because it can be difficult. Great example for all of us. Keep up the good work.
@shereewhite4828
4 жыл бұрын
@@MichElle-py8lk While some are being sarcastic, God knows my heart & will honor my sacrifice. I shared my journey to inspire others. People give the award, God gives the reward.
@Wavy-Waves
4 жыл бұрын
Beulah4ever Honey, don’t be upset with someone trying to do right & get it right. Why don’t you take a page out of her book? She is winning along with countless other women. How is your way of doing it working out for you? See when you do it the right way, it is rewarding. I have lived my entire life this way, waiting till marriage. My medals are: no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no abortions, a husband who adored me, children whom I knew who their father was, without wandering, not worrying about if he is cheating, or really loves me, & true happiness to name a few. Instead of bashing this lady, learn from her. Allow her to motivate you to do the same & get a good husband. Don’t put a sister down. Remember the message was from a real man,she happens to be a great example, like me.😎
@bronicaloglesby3610
4 жыл бұрын
@@shereewhite4828 Keep up the great work 👍 It's a struggle but you are showing others through example of what God can do through you!
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
Great job 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@yvonneatsu5323
3 жыл бұрын
I believe in living separately before getting married. No need to play house. Thnak you Tony Gaskins!
@TharaMesseroux1
2 жыл бұрын
I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋
@violets711
4 жыл бұрын
I made it through all 48 minutes and this video was totally worth it. My eyes are open now!
@nicolemuse1164
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@shaylatates1338
4 жыл бұрын
“Struggling with your loose booty ways “ 😩🤣🤣🤣 I love Tony Gaskins god bless point blank perioddd!
@kokokay9734
Жыл бұрын
This is seriously the best dating advice I’ve seen thus far.
@chantelcaldwell598
3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I need a man who is confident and can lead!!! Show me some chivalry and effort!
@jereline100
4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to save this video for when I start dating again and i'm going follow your every step. When I get married I'm inviting you to my wedding Tony 😅 Be blessed 🙏🏾
@TharaMesseroux1
2 жыл бұрын
I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know too, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋
@Itsdannib
4 жыл бұрын
This could have saved me so much time dealing with individuals but I’m on it now! Thanks Tony for the vid🙌🏽🙏🏽
@oliviahatchett9334
4 жыл бұрын
I know I’m late, but I just said this to myself lol
@yolettahall4003
4 жыл бұрын
Same here, better late than never 🦋🌹❤️❣️
@Th3lite
4 жыл бұрын
We live and we learn dear and it’s better late than never. Be good to yourself.
@btalley8198
4 жыл бұрын
Deleting folks off my phone now...
@DanaEliz24
4 жыл бұрын
I was just saying I wish I saw this 7 months ago ! God allowed us to see this video when we did for a reason so we are on it now Sis!!
@Birthforthekingdom
2 жыл бұрын
Dating wrong my whole life I’ve paid for meals, supported a man allowed cheating and disrespect. Now I’ve been alone for 5 months and it’s the best time ever I’m learning more than I’ve ever learned . Can you do videos on women dating with kids
@radhikaraj7394
3 жыл бұрын
no eating that peach cobbler no singing on the microphone LOL! im done! Tony you are too good.
@msbubblyqueen3536
4 жыл бұрын
Omg this is a great one.. @43 yrs old i thought i was old fashion ..but this is the true basics ladies👍☺
@nikkirowland
4 жыл бұрын
Ms BubblyPisces yessss!!
@ThatGyrlReese
4 жыл бұрын
“God know I’m home safe. I ain’t got to tell you I’m home safe. What you goin do if I’m ain’t home safe. Nuthing.” 🤣🤣 Tony is hilarious.
@Laur_r.
4 жыл бұрын
Sharece Vance lol I had to replay that part! 😂
@Nasrumii
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😭😭😭
@ThatGyrlReese
4 жыл бұрын
Lauren B. 😂 I did too!
@SehYoga
4 жыл бұрын
Sharece Vance lol
@queensmith2469
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao 😂 😂 😂
@sephrah_precious
3 жыл бұрын
My head is killing me from all the laughing 😂🤣. Your straight face humour in this is too much! Honestly, great tips and I’m saving this video for when the time comes 🙏🏽.
@triciamokoena3156
2 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who was laughing so hard at his straight face humour ! But indeed great tips. It will separate the grown boys from potential husbands.
@LadyJefferson
Жыл бұрын
You can at least take a walk around the lake and he can afford a slice of pizza ..
@thespiritualgospel555
4 жыл бұрын
This my 5th time watching this I gotta get it rite 😂 Update : still watching this video in 2021 trying this again before I get out there wish me look 😂
@faithful7571
3 ай бұрын
😅😂
@jerra_latrice
4 жыл бұрын
"God know I'm home safe."🤣
@marishalewis484
4 жыл бұрын
Jerra Latrice then he said I’m going to bed 🤣🤣🤣
@jerra_latrice
4 жыл бұрын
@@marishalewis484 Right!! That was hilarious!😂
@a.8774
4 жыл бұрын
I like it when Tony changes his voice to the feminine side 😀❤️
@hoyatay2004
4 жыл бұрын
Anne Johnson pure gold!😹
@jooo-cfroot8281
Жыл бұрын
It makes me sad that I made so many mistakes in the past but I was desperate just wanting to be loved and he played the exact games you mention 😢. Thank You Tony for your Honest approach….I can take it and I will use the knowledge!
@rubikscube6722
3 жыл бұрын
I got married at 30 and divorced at 40. If only I had access to this kind of advice before I got married. 100% of Tony’s advice in this video is true. I violated almost all of those things he forewarns here, and my exhusband did everything Tony forewarns of a selfish, shady man when I was dating him. Now looking to live the rest of my life with “me” at the forefront, not some stinking man. He needs to prove himself in every way the next time around 😂
@HeartOfGold..
4 жыл бұрын
Seems like this is going to be an informative video. I just turned 22 never had a Bf yet. Just taking notes and getting my personal life together. Waiting until the time is right in my life to be in a relationship. I don't want to give my time to the wrong man.
@BayouTheModel
4 жыл бұрын
Heart Of Gold I completely understand. Good for you!
@tierajohnson1556
4 жыл бұрын
stay that way girly you'll know when the time is right .
@Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
4 жыл бұрын
Follow this advice to the last word and you'll be a-okay
@sha2408
4 жыл бұрын
Heart Of Gold you came to the absolute right place! Listen to every video! Get this knowledge!
@HeartOfGold..
4 жыл бұрын
@@sha2408 Thank you I have been watching his videos for a while now. All of them are so helpful. My goal is to binge all of them lol
@msve3730
4 жыл бұрын
" A woman approaching a man is like a gizzel approaching a lion " basically your making it easy for them. Easy Prey
@elizabethschilling7178
4 жыл бұрын
Great way of looking at this! Easy prey.
@msve3730
4 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethschilling7178 yup I was rethinking my entire life , I'm like man. Wtf was I doing
@traquilasmith2275
4 жыл бұрын
So true easy prey wow good point.
@nikkyshamz2696
4 жыл бұрын
***Gazelle
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkyshamz2696 I am in the same habit of correcting people's spelling. We should have been English teachers :D
@cierraselby8733
4 жыл бұрын
I thought I had it all together, I've been dating all wrong. I'm ready to do this the right way, thanks Tony! This was enlightening AND hilarious!
@Letta0725
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony ,my dad never had talks with me. I been in alot of bad relationships and currently in an engagement that I'm really trying to make sure he is the right one. You are like the father/ big brother I wish I had. I just turned 31 and now just learning
@AwkMind
3 жыл бұрын
The same.. Wasted precious years looking for a replacement. Just learning now.
@francescalegrand6257
3 жыл бұрын
I'm just learning all of this currently. And, I will be 62 in a few weeks !! Better late than ever ??!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mirandasmith8501
4 жыл бұрын
I don't have any brothers until now. Tony is the protective brother I always wanted. Thank you big bro, much love for you❤
@alicea561
4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows
@brittnyy113
2 жыл бұрын
I watched this video after talking to a guy for a few weeks and not being sure of where we were going...and literally the very next day, I used all the tips in the video to confidently have the big talk with the guy..... found out he was only looking for FWB, not a relationship! I had no idea of that before and he'dnever told me, because we'd never talked about it! We were going on nice dates, but never really talking and learning each other. Glad I watched this and was able to apply the tips, and save my time/emotions for someone serious.... it hurts ALOT! Because I really liked this guy, but I would've been more hurt if I'd given him the kitty and found out later he was playing me. I will use this video to guide me in the future!
@nicolemuse1164
2 жыл бұрын
I get ot but the signs were already there but glad you moved on
@ramonaphillipsteach3284
3 жыл бұрын
I been married twice, once widowed. I did it the wrong way. Now God has healed my heart, I have forgiven my ex’s and myself. Got some therapy from past traumas. Today, I am ready, back at the gym, working on my brain, I know the Lord, we have a relationship. I am also an influencer. Thanks Tony!!!🙏🏽🙌🤗💕☀️
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
I learned in my early twenties to not let a man buy me a drink. I did a few times while out with friend’s. Anyway, an eight dollar drink isn’t an investment in my time. It doesn’t give anyone the go ahead to follow anyone around and etc. I started being upfront and would let them know if you buy me a drink, do it because you want to, but don’t expect anything. I would get a drink and be left alone. Setting boundaries and being upfront is a must! Tony knows what he’s talking about. I wish that I could have known a lot of this stuff as soon as I turned 18 to avoid a lot of nonsense. Thank you and be blessed!
@prettygirllafarrah
4 жыл бұрын
LaVette I wish the same ! No one really taught us about dating and dating rules . We just went the flow 🤷🏾♀️.
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
prettygirllafarrah that’s true. My kid’s are teens and I probably over share. I wasn’t talked to 🙄and I want them to be smarter than I was.
@traquilasmith2275
4 жыл бұрын
Right so true i wish i knew this year's ago as well learning and growing now. 👏
@GoodGrief101
4 жыл бұрын
Traquila Smith it’s nice to be 40 and waking all the way up!
@Beautifullybyg
4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to revise my dating goals and expectations.
@Jasmyne444
4 жыл бұрын
This has changed my life. 🤯🤯🤯 God bless you 🙌🏾
@sharonjudd7786
4 жыл бұрын
I love your “gaskinisms” like “loose booty ways” or hot like Caesar’s” “look like the back of a 67 Chevy” “Dip that stick in aguafina” “no singing on the microphone or eating the peach cobbler🤣😝😝🤣😂. Tony you are the BEST! Love your channel.
@phillyflytee9849
4 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy and within 2 months he asked me to be his gf. I could not be his gf because he did not have his own home.. I found out he was sleeping house to house couch to couch. Bye!!
@naram8282
4 жыл бұрын
I had the same scenario 🤣😂, on the third date that I’ve taken him for his bday, he asked to be his gf, ended up stuck with a ‘recovering’ addict in &out of sober homes, driving him around from a place to a place, doc app, spending money and energy on him because I felt sorry for him. What a waste of precious time:(
@princesssophiawise3560
4 жыл бұрын
@@naram8282 woooooow! my jaw just dropped! wow!
@Ladydiva6590
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Ladydiva6590
3 жыл бұрын
@@naram8282 wow My ex boyfriend would go to work everyday. Every time I would ask him about going out on a date. He would play broke . But he had the Audacity to ask me for sex I told him to keep it moving and Goodbye 👋🏾
@naram8282
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ladydiva6590 Good for you sweetie😃👍 We, women have to learn to take the higher road than cheapen ourselves
@vhayashi7369
4 жыл бұрын
I love how he uses words he doesn't know exactly what they mean but he says he's "going to use it because he likes the way it sounds!" 😂😂😂
@madonatadros2041
2 жыл бұрын
This man has changed my life for the better. You are doing God’s work Tony! God is blessing you and your family.
@extinctionlevelevent1431
4 жыл бұрын
From the mouth of Tupac: “If a man knows you’ll do anything for him, then he will RUN you.” “Ladies, you have ALL the power. Stand your ground and hold tight to your principles.” “You LEAD him...or you LEAVE him!” In other words...Push for what you want from a man, or you let him go!
@begee5847
4 жыл бұрын
“A woman is a wife.” Be blessed ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@TrueEssence100
4 жыл бұрын
OMG..I'm hollering...."Loose booty ways"🤣🤣🤣
@Mirror_My_Ambition
4 жыл бұрын
Gurrrrlllll...he is so funny. He took me out with that
@LatashaToday
4 жыл бұрын
D'Essence of Beautee I almost cried
@courtneyhoward9096
9 ай бұрын
Thank you, Tony, for this! My mom never taught me anything about dating except you have to be friends first (get to know them), My dad wasn't around, and my two older brothers didn't teach me anything. So I appreciate this information at 34 years old. Bless you 🙏🏾
@deymimartinez530
2 жыл бұрын
BEST dating advice I've heard in my life. Thank you Tony.
@kaydee_6644
4 жыл бұрын
"One of them slices of pizza out that winda"😅🤣😆
@m.williams3497
4 жыл бұрын
Khadeeja Shah 😂😂
@ceejay51
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@goddessblack8787
4 жыл бұрын
I promise these phrases I had me rolling 😆😆
@truthloves3206
4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@LondonKLuv
4 жыл бұрын
I love how that southern accent comes all the way through. lol
@ashunt29
4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate me some Tony Gaskins!!! He keeps it so real. He's like having a great guy friend who won't stir you wrong. He really looks out for women, we need to have support from a Christian man who tells his faults as a player but how he's changed his life around for the better. I love how he loves and incorporates his love for his wife in his videos. He paints pictures for me. Can't wait to get their book together or hear from her. She sounds like a strong woman. His messages are for free, that's priceless.
@devonadee858
4 жыл бұрын
That book is going to be good!
@ashunt29
4 жыл бұрын
@@p_tiffanii I will have to check Pastor Blakes out. Thank you for your recommendation. He reminds me of Chico Bean, the comedian, as far as his physical attributes.
@christinedozier2154
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@MayfairJones
2 жыл бұрын
Was Married for 23 years...Tony is Absolutely RIGHT ✅
@trinasworld9377
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 50 and I see this with a lot of guys, they are easy to read.
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
4 жыл бұрын
I Uber everywhere when going on dates. These ppl could be crazy. I don’t need anyone popping up at my house when things go bad. So far so good glad i stop letting ppl know where i live
@beauphomasterpiece3795
4 жыл бұрын
TiffanyB TV that’s a good idea cause I’ve dated people who have access to systems so if they saw my car tag they can figure out where you live . Crazy yes
@wall47291
4 жыл бұрын
@@DatDyme980 me too
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
4 жыл бұрын
IMPACT BEAUTY 😳😳😱😱😱
@m.williams3497
4 жыл бұрын
Nikki Doe the google number is my favorite I give it to everybody. Only ppl super close to me have my number
@wowso4
4 жыл бұрын
TiffanyB TV when should you allow them to pick you up? On the second date or when your in a relationship?
@BA-hb9hh
4 жыл бұрын
THIS VID SHOULD BE IN THE SCHOOL SYSTEM. BRAVO TO YOU FOR THIS FABULOUS VIDEO
@anitahobbs839
3 жыл бұрын
Lol so true ! I needed this years ago !
@KB-tj4qb
3 жыл бұрын
He said “you think everybody ready to chop you up “ that’s me 😂😂😂
@graciem6562
3 жыл бұрын
Lmboo 😂😂
@sharonharris157
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣me too
@thenaturalgoddiss2841
20 күн бұрын
You are genuinely very entertaining lol. You kept me cracking up with your sense of humor while maintaining the seriousness of the conversation 🙌🏾
@elizabethschilling7178
4 жыл бұрын
Lol! Loose booty ways!! 🤦♀️😂😂
@dorothysparrow4355
4 жыл бұрын
I was on the floor😂😂🤣🤣
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
4 жыл бұрын
Holleringggggg 😂😂😂😂
@Theduchess0709
4 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Schilling girl I cried laughing 😂
@MsDash17
4 жыл бұрын
@@Theduchess0709 🤣 LOL!!
@CeeceByrd
4 жыл бұрын
😂
@lyndapeoples8127
4 жыл бұрын
This is probably the best video that I've ever heard regarding dating, Tony. I learned a lot and I appreciate it. It all makes sense to me...kind of strict. I live a strict life so that's saying something!!
@mariahconklin4150
2 жыл бұрын
He asked for my number. ☺️ What a good guy and he called me within 24 hrs. And he’s never been in a relationship. What a winner with a great mom. 🙏👏👏👏
@nadeanbowles3052
4 жыл бұрын
“When we play mind games, everybody loses.” -TG. AMEN!!!!!!
@knightyknight5399
4 жыл бұрын
Gave a guy my number and he was texting me 01:30 in the morning calling me honey and baby....That was a no from me...😣..Hes number was lost in a heart beat...
@MzSoulll
4 жыл бұрын
"you still strugglin wit yo loose booty ways" - Tony Gaskins. lmaooo
@jartustevens9831
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@JasmineJordyn
4 жыл бұрын
Yes I died 😂
@amandanicole8059
2 жыл бұрын
😩😂😂😂
@lukreecelupe8849
2 жыл бұрын
“Singing on the microphone” ? 😂😂😂😂😂👀 I have choked on my tea
@tracylove7759
3 жыл бұрын
I found you tonight and you are one of the best 😂😂😂, I’m abstinent for the past yr and your advice just made me feel stronger and more confident in what I’m doing. Thank you from France 🇫🇷
@shaylat79
4 жыл бұрын
Wow lmbo.... you are one of a kind in metaphors and similes “ Aquafina”, “3rd leg” , “ Peach cobbler” etc ....
@jessicamartir56
4 жыл бұрын
lmfao i crack up when he mention the Aquafina and 3rd leg
@heyyashleyyy2669
4 жыл бұрын
He really is haha
@shereewhite4828
4 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!! This was soooooo informative for women & men of ALL AGES! I'm a 51yr old black woman who's very old fashioned! I agree 100% with what you've explained brother Tony. Women pleeeeease listen to this man, he's speaking the whole truth & nothing but the truth! Men take note on dating & courting, there's a difference. I'm so old school I still use blue magic grease & sulfur 8 grease! 😂😂😂 God bless you brother Tony. This message really blessed me.
@phyllisgoodnight9481
4 жыл бұрын
He should teach this in the church's to the young ladies or the church should get the lesson and start teaching them. We need to do things God's way again.
@prossykemigisha1708
4 жыл бұрын
@@phyllisgoodnight9481 Amen to that.
@MsAries1968
2 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin saving generations.
@jr38499
4 жыл бұрын
This man is the TRUTH! He is on point!
@ashleygoodrich3294
4 жыл бұрын
The next guy I meet I hope he doesn’t like dating like that cause we’ll have that in common. I’m so tired of running into men claiming “ We don’t have to do anything” then going Ghost just because I’m keeping my Legs closed🙄🙄 Dating is so annoying nowadays
@mwellsdr
4 жыл бұрын
Sis I'm going through the shit right. Now.... you want everything in the world until I tell you... wont be no goosie in this coochie
@desire202
4 жыл бұрын
Exhausting...
@ascelinek
4 жыл бұрын
Sis I’m tired, it’s the same cycle of grown boys over and over again. As soon as you don’t give it up then they skate right outta there 🙃
@xekaicithole3433
4 жыл бұрын
I have done this but still the guys go away.
@micheleantoinette8072
3 жыл бұрын
Dating is so frustrating and a lot of it comes from dishonesty--- people unwilling to be upfront or hiding their true intentions... I've only just turned 30 this year and I'm already disheartened 😔.
@katrinadodd9015
4 жыл бұрын
Tony is a comedian/preacher. I love it. Keep speaking truth.
@LIBqueen
Жыл бұрын
You have a lovely accent The American southern accent is adorable Subscribed! 😊
@lynn4134
10 ай бұрын
This advice is 1000% on point! If you are dating do this and you will save yourself a lot of time point blank period lol. I just started dating again after a break up (and proper healing time) and came back for a refresher lol
@lionessetoile660
4 жыл бұрын
41 dislikes are those Men who feel like losing stupid fish to get from the river. We are here to learn and get ourselves ready into this crazy and messy world. Thank you so much. I sat quietly and paid attention to your advices like a preschooler do. Stay blessed 🙌
@bowleged1
4 жыл бұрын
Soon as my phone said Tony Gaskins uploaded a new video I had a moment of Glee
@nessacity
4 жыл бұрын
I wish I had this info in my 20"s not my 40z geesh!
@francescalegrand6257
3 жыл бұрын
Don't feel badly Nessie! I will be 62 VERY SOON and I am JUST LEARNING ALL THIS NOW!! Never give up !
@ylbrannon
3 жыл бұрын
This is my 3rd, 4th time watching this video. I purchased your book, A Woman's Influence, and I will stay everything you are saying is true. Dating someone now and he is consistently pursuing as you say. Thank you!
@brownsugarglamour
4 жыл бұрын
“Celibant” 😂😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@ci.ci.1998
4 жыл бұрын
brownsugarglamour 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀
@jamiechang1561
4 жыл бұрын
LMAO!!!!!! "Celibant. No you ain't because you can't spell it" 😂😂😂
@jartustevens9831
4 жыл бұрын
I hear you, I totally agree. Been saving myself for awhile. my partner is out there God will send him💞🙏
@Jasmyne444
4 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@lasonjacade489
3 жыл бұрын
I spit out my drink when Tony said” You can’t be hot dogging and eating peach cobbler.” I hollered!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The way he put things appropriately is so funny! But, what about “ dipping that stick in some Aquafina phrase??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This video has truly blessed me. Thank you, Tony
@staceys1028
2 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video so many time, always need to refresh
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