i''m an older guy. Back in the US now after spending 8 years in Saigon. I had the time of my life. Chris... you are a wise man for your age. Everything you said is true! Even I learned some tips from you. I hope you realize that you are NEW MAN recently. Even your voice has raised an octave! This is one of the best VLOGS you have ever done. I have followed you for over a year now. Please stick with your new, cleaner lifestyle. Congratulations! \
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you
@user-vv5sf3do4p
Жыл бұрын
What was your age when you arrived in SGN ?
@twhoskins4729
Жыл бұрын
@@user-vv5sf3do4p I was 64 years old when I arrived in 2014. I had to leave due the termination of 1-year visas last Tet. I was 73 when I left.. I still feel young and am anxiously awaiting the resumption of the 1-year visa program. To be young and in Saigon is my wildest dream. But I hope to return, even if I'm in my 70's. America is really sucking right now.
@ytviewer172
Жыл бұрын
@@twhoskins4729 As a work around for your Vietnam visa situation have you considered Thailand or Cambodia? They have a 1-year visa for your age group and you can commute back and forth between Bangkok or Phnom Penh and Saigon.
@bobnunyabiznz4917
Жыл бұрын
Specifically how has he changed and what does the octave of his voice have to do with anything?
@VuilangthangVN
Жыл бұрын
These tips must be for Westerners or tourist. After watching your video as a Vietnamese man, I feel a bit sad for the vietnamese girls in Vietnam. I grow up in the US, but I was born in Vietnam and lived until I was 12. I speak fluence vietnamese and I have no problem of communicating with a viet girl. I am 50 yrs old now and I live in the US. When I was in my 20s, I dated other ethnic girl like French, italian, russian, spanish, but in the end I married a vietnamese girl in America. The reason is of the common culture, values and Foods! I am sad because most vietnamese girls prefer to marry a viet guys and most viet guys are not financially wealthy to take care of a vietnamese girls who are high maintenance. There girls often find westerners who can support them financially and a promise of a better life outside of Vietnam. My message to you Westerners if you have good intention of marrying a viet girl please understand what you are getting into. Vietnamese girls are very smart and if you are a player and not committed to her, she will leave you. She will wait until she get her green card and now she will have the upper hand. If you have true intention and dedication, vietnamese girls will love you long time! :)
@misenvietnam
8 ай бұрын
Triệu like cho anh già 😊. Em thì thích lấy trai Việt, nhưng trai Việt của em thì thích lấy Taylor Swift 😅
@ronaldnayman4841
Жыл бұрын
Wish you gave me that advice about bad girls 50 years ago. Had a VN girl and after she left I found a good VN girl and married her. We are in VN now celebrating 51 years together. Happy life my friend.
@wadadli4sun
Жыл бұрын
51 years. Congrats Ronald 🎉 Vet?
@ronaldnayman4841
Жыл бұрын
@@wadadli4sun Vet, yes and 2.5 civilian time in VN as well.
@wadadli4sun
Жыл бұрын
@@ronaldnayman4841 Wow, you'd have seen a very different Vietnam. It continues to amaze me how welcoming the Việt are to veterans. I met another vet who had posted films from his tour in '70-'71 and from his return and wedding earlier this year. B Boomer Mike; top gentleman. If you're interested 👍🏼🔗 youtube.com/@bboomermike2126
@f1hotrod527
Жыл бұрын
My cousin is getting married to a Thai girl in Thailand in November. Going to his wedding will be my first time in Asia. I will probably spend a short amount of time in Thailand and go to Vietnam as it seems more interesting to me. I made the mistake of going on a dating site recently, and I do think it is a mistake like the author of this video says. If you are not going to meet someone soon, you are wasting your time and the time of the women by talking to them online. You need to have a plan to go there, and probably a plan to live there long term. This is a difficult thing to do depending on your net worth and career. I am a 43 year old mechanical engineer and I have saved quite a bit and invested, and would like to live in Vietnam full time or at least a good portion of the year. Unfortunately, the investing world right now does not look like it will be making me any money passively from my capital. I sure wish I had a job that I could do remotely like the author. Instead of chatting up girls on dating apps, formulate a plan to make money remotely so you can take the step of moving to the country and getting a girl in real life.
@abeimnida
Жыл бұрын
so how is it going? its getting close to november
@f1hotrod527
Жыл бұрын
@@abeimnida Flight is booked. Will only be in Pataya for a couple days :(. Will be in Bankok for 3 days before that. 3 days in Phuket. Then back to Bankok for 3 days. this does not include travel days. Most of the trip is planned out by my cousin. Will only be on my own final 3 days in Bankok. So I may have to return on my own some time. Will probably try Vietnam first though. I am excited to finally get to SEA.
@Xxxx-pb4fe
Жыл бұрын
I think it’s a good idea to get on apps just to see how’d you do in the country it’s a good way to get a feel to see the quality of girls you match with on there
@absurdnerd7624
2 ай бұрын
TLDR!
@f1hotrod527
2 ай бұрын
@@absurdnerd7624 hahaha you got better things to do, like troll. Thank you for taking the time to let me know hahaha
@TRangtran-xt5cn
Жыл бұрын
Hi Christ,thanks for your video about vn, and thanks for talking about Vietnamese girl. I am Vietnamese women, now I am living in california for 18 years . I met my husband in Ho Chi Minh 20 years ago. After few months , we decide to get married , after marriage , he brought me here and we live happily together until now. Your video made me miss Ho Chi Minh, since I went all the places you visited , that make me want to be and be back there again next year 😅. Vietnam has many beautiful places, you guys should try to be there once, I think you will like it. About Vietnamese girls/women. Most of us really serious about marriage. After marriage, we really concern and taking care of our family…..Of course , there are bad and good women in every country, that why you need to be smart to choose right one for you 😊. As you guys said, choose a one on the street is really risky, if you know someone from some body you know is better. Just like me, my friend introduce me to my husband and then he went to Vietnam to meet me and it worked out. Otherwise, there are still some people could get happy ending when they met some one on the street or on the dating site, depend on how you feel about your partner and get decision. If any of you guy , you must be a good person 😀. If you are interesting in Vietnamese girl/women, let me know 😁.
@portlandGTR
7 ай бұрын
1 major thing I love about Southeast Asia is the sheer lack of grossly overweight women. Being a normal sized woman is nothing special there. Where in the USA if you are a woman that ain’t fat you are seen as a unicorn almost
@Aaron-McDonald
5 ай бұрын
Exactly, so you can actually look for women that are fit, feminine AND beautiful. Getting a combo of all 3 is a unicorn in the US, there basically all are fit, almost all are feminine, and they’re mostly at least cute (adjustable 6)
@johnlozauskas778
Жыл бұрын
As a fellow/former fat guy, you're not fat, you're "Big Boned." What helped me lose the weight, besides getting divorced was focusing on my Diabetes. Now I am pre-diabetic but I still watch what I eat and take my Metformin religiously!!
@rirchardrubio5621
Жыл бұрын
A Tip for you Men, if you are good friends with a Vietnamese family or Single male friend or Woman and they have a Female Family member, that is your Best Bet. You don't want a woman from the streets that you barely know.
@user-uj3kw5wt3i
Жыл бұрын
Very true. There are some people out there prying on the outsiders and also asian men coming back from the state .
@rirchardrubio5621
Жыл бұрын
@1x0x1 , if someone knows a family or person who is Vietnamese here in the USA. I have over a dozen Asian friends here. If any one gets the chance to know some, it helps, even with other nationalities.
@johnnie9623
Жыл бұрын
Very useful advices You’re keeping it real & truthfully Keep up the excellent work Chris
@PassportBrosBusinessClass
Жыл бұрын
Vietnam looks awesome. I may come there - and Cambodia.
@Creees
Жыл бұрын
Be confident and work with your strengths. Maybe you are unfit or not cool but you are a great worker and dedicated and can provide. Also i think coffee dates can work really well. Not sure about Saigon but Vietnam have some amazing cool cafes and then have a walk along the river or beach. Thats a humble date and talk about goimf to dinners and can gauge if they are compatible
@terry-cn8ks
Жыл бұрын
sounds like solid dating advice to me thank you very much Chris
@Aaron-ep9ne
Жыл бұрын
Vietnamese women smile alot, even when nervous. It doesn't mean much.
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
Noted smiling means nothing 😆
@Aaron-McDonald
5 ай бұрын
It means she’s willing to talk, in the mood, not feeling protective. Women aren’t dumb, they know how to control their expressions, they can’t control their emotions as well, but they are very socially acute
@gumerzambrano
Жыл бұрын
My friend booked a round trip flight to Saigon for Feb 1 and its about $1k and asked me to join him. I checked how much it was for japan and it was about the same if not less so will probably be picking that 😅
@Aaron-ep9ne
Жыл бұрын
Maybe cheaper flight but everything else will cost more.
@vectorifix3218
Жыл бұрын
I'm looking for retirement in Asia; Malaysia, Thailand, Philippines or Vietnam and I must say the Vietnamese women are incredibly beautiful, holy s... Just found you channel, great content man and good info!
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
Best of luck!
@SA-qh7pc
3 ай бұрын
You really gave out practical and solid advice in this regard. Many thanks
@Call_me_The_Breeze
Жыл бұрын
Excellent video Chris, new subscriber here, I particularly liked your comments about the Red and Green lights. Keep up the good work! Mabee you could expand on where to find the Green light type women sometime, I would think there are both red and green lights at a street festival., but mabee certain clubs and bars, or shopping malls ect.
@MrMeldarionx
Жыл бұрын
Don't put them on a pedestal fullstop.
@Creees
Жыл бұрын
Exactly. They love you being the strong man
@MrIvosgarcia
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right!!!
@PatrickNevin
Жыл бұрын
Hey brother. I married a Filipina 15 years ago. Still love her...she loves me but she wanted a child. She has a beautiful daughter. I'm very happy for her. It's time for me to move forward. I think Vietnam would be good. Maybe I'll come there in November. Just thought I'd say hello. Thanks, Pat
@MrKeepnit100
2 ай бұрын
Hyunh Hue? Or Nguyen Hue? How does one spell this place?
@VietnamCryptoInsights
6 ай бұрын
Tip #1. Don’t say that you’re broke 😂😂😂😊
@MD-hd1cp
2 ай бұрын
Great advice, liked & subbed. 👍🏻
@rayc4038
Жыл бұрын
Hi Chris. I am long time expat in saigon, The first date with Vn girl will be a free ENglish lesson for her, that is why she gave you her phone number. They just want to practise English and not interested in you. Of course she always hopes for marriage if you are a foreigner and "generous". Hope this helps ! I know because I speak Vnese and they usually run away...haha
@mikelee7972
2 ай бұрын
54 from S florida!! LOVE AMERICA and where i live but let me tell ya. I went to southeast asia for the first time last year and have been to thailand 3 x the past year. Its the only place i have been but in jan 25 i am going to the phillipines for a month and then maybe vietnam. love love love the southeast culture and the women are absolutely beautiful and so much more approachable then american women in my opinion. What you spend for 3 nights in las vegas and a show or two, you can live comfortably for a month in thailand and im sure so many other places . this includes apartment going out to eat every day and also meeting women. If southeast asia was closer i would be there at least a week every month 12 x a year. Great video. just be respectful and nice to everyone!!!!!!
@brakmaster
Жыл бұрын
Great video Chris.
@sabazaba5196
Жыл бұрын
Cool Vietnamese rap music lol
@dennissouthern9429
Жыл бұрын
Hey Chris, I'll be there in January. I'm older and my hair is now gray, should I dye it for better results? Or stay gray and pay for play?
@wadadli4sun
Жыл бұрын
Stay grey, that is so much better than fake 'black/blond/brown'.
@corporatemcmahon2815
Жыл бұрын
You went gray or dyed? How old are you brother? Getting older too. I look young. Hair is grey which i dye all the time , but it is annoying.
@5o5a11
Жыл бұрын
Hit the iron while it’s hot😂That’s what ma used to say. Ive been to so many parts in the world but Saigon is truly something else ♥️🇻🇳
@absurdnerd7624
2 ай бұрын
Vietnamese women are the most beautiful women in the world.
@surfreadjumpsleep
Жыл бұрын
i think you forgot the most important point: get your HPV shots.
@adventuretime5
Жыл бұрын
Worse in america you gotta get the whole check up smashing a girl here
@pmimagery1295
5 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree with your age advice. My wife and I are separating after 20 years, so I'm looking to date again. I do really prefer older women.
@mynameisjayze
Жыл бұрын
This was great advice overall on any sphere of the world!
@Misterdave998
6 ай бұрын
I find the American vlogger in these videos to be sexy and intelligent
@Resmith18SR
Жыл бұрын
Hey Chris, As a retired American could you tell me if it's possible to get a visa to live in Vietnam long term now? I've been to Thailand many times and getting a long term visa there requires a 25,000 bank deposit and 3 month check in at immigration.
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
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@Resmith18SR
Жыл бұрын
@@fatandbroke Why would I want a Thai Elite visa? A 20,000 donation to Thailand so I can live there?
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
@@Resmith18SR it's really the only option in seasia for long term. Vietnam is still just 1 month evisa. Thailand also has retirement visa if you are over 50
@Resmith18SR
Жыл бұрын
The Philippines I believe let's anyone regardless of age stay for up to 3 years without having to leave the country if you just keep renewing your initial 30 day tourist visa. So right at the moment in Vietnam you have to cross the border every 30 days to renew your visa until they change that law? And I believe you said that's like a 4 hour bus ride to the border? I am over 50 so I could get the Retirement visa in Thailand by depositing 800,000 Thai baht into a bank there, but having lived there in the past I know what a hassle it is. I'm considering visiting the Philippines to see what it's like and also to see if you can just live there for 3 years without having to leave the country.
@Call_me_The_Breeze
Жыл бұрын
@@Resmith18SR But the Philippines is not is not near as American Friendly as SE Asia from what I have been reading.
@robertnicholson1409
6 ай бұрын
If you're fat and broke and you want to date gorgeous women in Vietnam, that's going to be difficult.......in fact it would be difficult anywhere.
@Lily_Mae.1
10 ай бұрын
wow this really shows the local people very well. thanks!
@GeraldPekeur
Ай бұрын
i will marry one off the single lady
@grivasgeorgios7409
Жыл бұрын
Man this was very helpful. You're such an outstanding guy. Excellent psychology 👏
@Aidenstravels
2 ай бұрын
Whats the name of the city? Winway? How do you spell it
@DiemNguyen-zg1sk
20 күн бұрын
Ho Chi Minh city, District 1.Nguyen Hue square.
@vwitty5189
Жыл бұрын
Every countries of our Globe will never Announce that We Feel very Satisfied because everyone will always EXPECT MORE EXPECT MORE forever in any Sectors.
@moongloomable
Жыл бұрын
Really good advice. Wish I hadn't learned it all the hard way haha.
@jaredtheboss
Жыл бұрын
Chris great video!!!
@3XPOSINGTHETRUTH
Жыл бұрын
Hey Chris Got any advice for dating a girl from Vietnam that is already in a western culture? I am dating one. I met the parent (dad has passed) and sister as they are visiting. She has been clear she wants to have the option to have options, and seems to have stopped looking around, but I would like the opportunity to try and lock her down, I am falling for her and don't want to screw it up. When should I propose being exclusive? When should I propose moving in? When should I propose marriage? Any advise from others would be helpful too. I am in Australia, she has lived in a few places and I started dating her shortly after she arrived her 8 months in now.
@fatandbroke
Жыл бұрын
How old is she
@3XPOSINGTHETRUTH
Жыл бұрын
@@fatandbroke 35
@corporatemcmahon2815
Жыл бұрын
15
@fercode07
Жыл бұрын
Wise advices brother, greetings from Uruguay, latin America. I´m planning to live in Vietnam
@nuclearwinter391
Жыл бұрын
Good luck sancho. They're into tall, blue eyed and northern type of men in all of Asia. Need to try harder.
@VideoAssociates
11 ай бұрын
I went to H.C.M. city in 2019 . I took fine wine from Australia and gave it to a girl who worked in the markets, was really well received
@Silfverr
7 ай бұрын
What a great confidence boost for a guy that would be a 5 in the US
@caribbeanexpat3927
Жыл бұрын
Check which phone 📱 or laptop?? What are they smoking 🚬? They know how the man phone 📱 buy or device buy? Touching my device is a "no-no".. Make that Rule #1
@mikejames9133
Жыл бұрын
Fantastic insights, buddy.
@MadawaskaObservatory
6 ай бұрын
flowers are not stupid gifts
@monza8844
3 ай бұрын
The don't smile at you, they're just laughing about you assuming you have the looks to date them.
@angeluisv
Жыл бұрын
Met my viet gf now vo oi at a McDonalds in d1 over caphe sua. Good luck fellas
@vwitty5189
Жыл бұрын
The Denim Jeans Clothes of the country America can be Slight Costly but it is so unique while doing Solo Boasting games everywhere.
@chrisevans8007
Жыл бұрын
Thanks man I'm thinking about coming to Vietnam in November
@Iammartinnnn
Жыл бұрын
I’m planing on going there soon to ,if you ever need friends,lmk
@yuant1533
5 ай бұрын
Where is this?
@jn3750
Ай бұрын
do most of them "do it" after a few dates?
@Alexander-xg5xd
Жыл бұрын
haha, crash course of the book "the game"
@luckyb4541
6 ай бұрын
ok dude Im sold. I lived in the PH for five years , crappy internet and lots of scammers. Can you find weed in Veitnam? I know , dumb question , its everywere but whats the general attitude about it? In the PH its not generally accepted to the culture is there but underground. Is it risky to ask a taxi driver or a bar waiter about weed? Do you have to be super careful , be higly selective about where you smoke or can you just light up on your balcony?
@okbilly1
Жыл бұрын
i like these types of vlogs, helps me as I have never been to vietnam yet, but can only help, but is age difference an issue? for a 50yo male?
@ajarnolaf9034
Жыл бұрын
get good food! have big sausage! spend lots of money!
@mamagne800
4 ай бұрын
I would go for the coffee first to get to know her without spending too much for nothing. If it clicks, maybe some drinks the next day. I don't want to spend $100 USD on a girl that I barely know on a first date. No wonder some guys are called walking ATM.
@vvowah
2 ай бұрын
Seriously, i spent 600k ($25) for dinner for two at a nice, but not fancy, vietnamese food restaurant. Then a 60k ($3) boat trip to cross the river to walk the promanade and view the city from district 2. This ain't 'merica.
@Just4funTravel
Жыл бұрын
Good content. Keep up the good work.
@Mike_MFn_Jones
Жыл бұрын
Excellent vids, look forward to see your next one.
@Sokx41
Жыл бұрын
I see a lot of tall locals, suggesitng enough food to eat and food of high quality, including milk. In the 1860s and 70s, it was unusual to find a woman over 5 ft 3 in. or so, Now is see many ladies 5ft 8 or more. But I prefer the older ones.
@RobertRustem
Жыл бұрын
Where in Vietnam is this video?
@midsouth3363
4 ай бұрын
Saigon
@metalhamster14
Жыл бұрын
took a few mental notes while watching this one cheerz
@SteveJones-g9n
9 ай бұрын
Wish I was young again, missed all the fun.
@thorazine0076
6 ай бұрын
So a girl just looks at you and smiles and you give her your phone number? Are they pros, what's the deal? Are they thinking you have a lot of money?
@RobertRustem
Жыл бұрын
Is it in Hanoi
@lexflow2319
Жыл бұрын
Do you have a life time visa? Will you become a vietnamese citizen?
@lukefoster6122
6 ай бұрын
Việt Bad girls wear daisy dukes of all colours.. 😂😂😂
@vwitty5189
Жыл бұрын
When every people's of our world decides to themselves has we must always FOCUS to avoid the BIG BLACK DOTS of SHAME means then everything will be SUPER COOL always.
@vwitty5189
Жыл бұрын
Ok thanks Respected sir.
@eagleman1542
Жыл бұрын
Let's get those three-month visas back, damn! As I've mentioned before on this channel, that has to be addressed if Viet Nam is going to bring tourists back. Maybe after Tet 2023? Let's hope.
@iftikhkhan253
5 ай бұрын
Zalo is dishwashing detergent in Norway.
@alexiabent4142
Жыл бұрын
When is the best time to Vietnam.....good weather and good music...tjs.
@williamhenrydr.med.acquah3073
Жыл бұрын
Nice video.
@mga71
Жыл бұрын
Another way is if you have friends they can introduce you to available girls, I did this and we have been together now for a good 10 years, living in Australia but she is from Saigon, I hear lots of VN men like to have an em ut, I think this means little sister, but really its a girl on the side hahaha
@benndong
Жыл бұрын
This guy has the most game
@hercules3782
5 ай бұрын
lol. no news here. I worked in Vietnam several places, did he ever get to the point. you don't need phone nr I Vietnam, unless meet online, just go out, be friendly, first date just be friendly, normal information, if 2 date ge more into details. Vietnam women are fantastic. but this video did not help anybody at all
@elperro3056
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same about cafe date haha boring I did have good luck tho at Starbucks hey what good roof top bar I got invite to the one ab tower how is it tourtist trap and expensive
@SomaPant
11 ай бұрын
What is this? A guide to shopping?? Pls. dont reduce human beings to commodeties for gods sake!
@BudSwayze
Жыл бұрын
spittin the facts
@guglielmodirita352
Жыл бұрын
where are the girls to dating ?
@f1hotrod527
Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@wadadli4sun
Жыл бұрын
💯 good advise Chris 👍👍👍 Very much what I was advised some years ago from a buddy in HK sbout dating in SEA. Watch out for those flags 🔴
@timmyjones1921
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Mr. Chris, Good Food For Thought.
@benchtalkrcsetup4803
Жыл бұрын
Top advice
@danielpearson6306
Жыл бұрын
I object very much of you and every POS pushing to drink alcohol. I do not drink. I do not run never have. A former power lifter.
@stuartmcarthur795
8 ай бұрын
Yeah he wasn’t speaking directly to you Daniel 😂 cry more
@vvowah
2 ай бұрын
A nice sky bar will cost 100k-200k per cocktail. I'd rather pay just a little bit more and have dinner with her for the first date. Its not my style to try so hard to impress a Vietnamese women, or any women. We are men ain't we? --not simps.
@caribbeanexpat3927
Жыл бұрын
Cats 🐈 on leash and they are not 🦁 or 🐅?
@MyLifeThai371
Жыл бұрын
Love cats!
@Resmith18SR
Жыл бұрын
Put the girls there on a leash. A very short one.
@cial67
Жыл бұрын
KZitemrs walking around filming everyone, what a world we live in 🤦♂️
@MadawaskaObservatory
6 ай бұрын
let it flow man
@Joeoi
Жыл бұрын
In Vietnam they are ready to get you laid at first date no.matter your appearance and age . .and it s not considered promiscuous it s NORMAL in Vietnam vietnamese get married after a month or two...what must scares you it s what comes next : marriage . Most of women under 30 are available with the only purpose to have a provider for the rest of their life no matter what character , immaturity, past they got
@sammbaldwin6402
3 ай бұрын
what is zalo?
@WillemJacobus-de1eg
3 ай бұрын
Need one
@williamhenrydr.med.acquah3073
Жыл бұрын
Very very clean.
@peternelligan6780
Ай бұрын
ROYAL CANADIANS BAND UNCLE TOMS CABIN BOOK FREEDOM RIDERS TR A FFIC BAND SONG WHAT DID YOU DO IN T HE WAR DADDY DRLIVERANCE MOVIES
@drummerchicago
3 ай бұрын
this place does not look like a good place to meet single women. just because someone smiles or says hello does not mean they are single. this video does nothing for your dating life in Vietnam
@lazarusmagellan2367
3 ай бұрын
I disagree. It’s a numbers game. And you’re seeing a large number there!
@manueljesuspaucar5951
Жыл бұрын
lol anyone can date any girl in south east asia, all they need is Money😂
@อรุณรัตน์ศิขรินรัตน์
11 ай бұрын
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@kabjab
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@Irishlen64
4 ай бұрын
Do VN women do online meeting?? Also do they have that 304 flavor that American women have?? Good advice sir on this video.
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