I totally needed this. I keep blaming myself for my sons behavior and it's not my fault. It's just him right now. Instead of him pushing other kids, he throws unbearable tantrums and then slams himself into things, pushes me, runs away, and it just lasts forever. He fights me on everything now whereas before he didn't. I definitely need to be more calm and not add to his stress with my own stressful reactions.
@alexpuddefoot1964
4 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel & this video has come at the best time for me. Baby no 2 came around my son's 2nd birthday and we've really noticed the change in his behaviour. These tips are amazing thank you 😊
@caseyargyrou9689
5 жыл бұрын
These are great reminders. Thank you! Just had a very embarrassing lunch with another mother today because my 3 year old was too tired and acting crazy. I wish I had handled it differently. Oh well, tomorrow is another day!
@brightmama
5 жыл бұрын
Gah its so hard to not think of all the ways you could handle each situation better! xx
@kimze1989
5 жыл бұрын
I am. So happy you posted this video! Its like I could have said all of what you did! Thank you for making me feel better about my parenting. I have a strong willed 2 yr old daughter, who is very rude to other kids her age. I feel judged by others even though I correct her bejaviour. Even i thought that maybe she was just channelling MY aggression. But I know deep down that its notnreally me.
@brightmama
5 жыл бұрын
Yes totally! its tough isn't it xxx
@alicew2355
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much...our daughter is entering this kind of phase, and watching your video is so helpful, THANK YOU 😅
@nicolaaac9596
4 жыл бұрын
This video is brilliant. Everything you've said. So helpful, so reassuring. Parent to a just turnt 2 year old and all of what you said is so relevant. Being able to understand why he 'doesn't listen' makes all the difference to how I want to parent him. Currently feeling like a snappy, grumpy mum. Can't be helped at times but not how I want to be. Thank you for making this. It will be one I keep coming back to. ❤️
@brightmama
4 жыл бұрын
ah thankyou! I'm so glad it was helpful! I've got another toddler now so I should probably re watch this myself! haha x
@courtneyvanhorn460
5 жыл бұрын
Such great reminders and tips! I really needed to hear all of this! Thank you so much!
@brightmama
5 жыл бұрын
You're definitely not alone! easy to feel like it though isn't it xxx
@LizzieforSMUG
4 жыл бұрын
So helpful! Really appreciate you sharing your experiences and what’s worked for you. Lots of really helpful tips in there that I’ll try to remember. I have a 22 month old!
@brightmama
4 жыл бұрын
I think I need to re watch now that my youngest is turning 2 soon! ha! xx
@bethboddison1583
5 жыл бұрын
I have a 20 month old son and recently his behaviour has started to gradually get worse he’s becoming a lot more defiant and a lot more physical and I thought I was doing something wrong i think it’s hard to know how to deal with and discipline them at that age, this video helped a lot x
@orlamartin7564
5 жыл бұрын
“Bring them up to your calm”, brilliant, that’s exactly what I need to hear. Could someone repeat that to me endlessly every day please?! Feel like we’ve really neglected our near 3yo since his baby brother was born last year. Must make the time now to figure out discipline and consistent calm responses by both parents. Thanks so much for sharing such great tips and your experience with lovely Jet 👍
@brightmama
5 жыл бұрын
Orla Martin it’s definitely easier said than done a lot of the time! ❤️❤️
@lesley-sheena68
5 жыл бұрын
I found this video so helpful and I'm not a mum. Thank you
@brightmama
5 жыл бұрын
Lesley-Sheena Robbins oh you’re so lovely! Thanks for watching xxx
@devpierce
5 жыл бұрын
This is my life! Thank you for posting 🥰
@mandatime
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Ruth.. I've only started taking my 10 month old to baby sensory class where she's exposed to alot of other babies. She is older than them all and so spends the whole class crawling up to them and wanting to smack/touch their head/arm etc. I felt so awful because the mums of the younger babies started looking at her like a bit of a bully and I just felt really protective of her like "i promise you she's a sweet girl, she is just exploring!!" I will definitely try to stay calm and talk to her calmly in the moment... i have no idea if she is too young for that but I'll just start now at 10 months and hopefully it'll stick!? It's so hard to know if you're doing the right thing!
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