A beautiful testimony ❤ He’s a Father to the fatherless! Such a blessing 🙏🏻
@bluebellecharm4
7 ай бұрын
Thank you, friend 🤗😍💗
@carolinew6095
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry about your past Jennifer 🙏🏻 Thank you so much for sharing this insightful and thoughtful message. I have experienced some issues in the past and I find visualising Jesus wiping my tears away helpful. I will certainly try your letter idea in the future 😊 I hope that you and your family are all well Love in Christ Caroline ✝️❤️🙏🏻
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Hi Caroline, I love your idea of visualizing Jesus wiping away our tears. I will use that idea. I'm so sorry that you experienced this same kind of issue. But I'm so thankful for your friendship and that we are kindred spirits- Jennifer 🤗🌻💛
@watercolourartincapetown2919
Жыл бұрын
“Hurt people, hurt people “ This was so true!!! I’d never thought about writing a letter 💌 that sounds like something constructive. Trying to actually speak to my father about these issues would be pretty futile. Having an absentee father isn’t ideal but it is what I would have preferred, my father was hurt which made him extremely hurtful. And he still is to this day. I forgave him 3 years ago on his birthday. Because I knew by enjoying the forgiveness of my real father in Heaven, I had to forgive the father I had on earth. Sorry for getting so personal, I think our compassion stems from our pain. Celebrate the good men in your life ❤️ 💕 🤗 You may not have enjoyed the love of your biological father, step dad or father-in-law. And yes I ca hear the pain in your heart. But Jennifer count the pure loving hearts in your life 🤗 your son will be a good man some day because he sees his dad and will model that behavior and your daughter will look for a good man like her dad ❤️
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Nabeelah, your comments brought tears to my eyes. Yes, you know me so well even though we have never met in person. 💗 Thank you for sharing your story with me. You never have to worry about being too personal with me. I consider you to be a good friend. I truly think God brought us together so long ago on Instagram. I am sorry that you have had these issues with your dad, my heart hurts for you. I know how you feel though. I was relieved when my mother divorced my stepfather. He was not a good person. All three of these men are no longer living and I often wonder if they are in heaven. Only God knows. That is wonderful that you have forgiven your dad. I think it blesses us more than them. I have tried to be intentional with the way I raise Jack. I tell him that he's a good boy and that one day he will be a good husband and daddy. And I tell Maggie that not every man is like her daddy so keep your eyes open. Sorry for going on so long. Thank you for being a good friend. You are one of the main people who encourage me and made me think I could do KZitem. You were so supportive when I'd post my Savannah pictures on Instagram. 💖😍🤩
@ladonnaallen5337
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to so many things here and I wish I had known all these things sooner. I pray that this will reach those who also need to hear it.
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Ladonna, thank you, friend. I also wish I'd known it sooner too. 🤗 But God is so good, and i know that he's been with us every step of the way. -Jennifer 🌻 💖
@watercolourartincapetown2919
Жыл бұрын
❤ 🤗
@samanthabailey925
Жыл бұрын
Big hugs to you friend. My dad passed when I was 10, and it’s very hard growing up without a dad around. Even in sickness situations, it still leaves you with an abandonment feeling when you are young. My mother never remarried so she was both to me. And I couldn’t have asked for a better mother. She’s still with me, although she is in assisted living. I think God prepares us for life in ways we never would have imagined. I don’t think I would have learned at an early age to depend on the Lord--for everything-like I did had my dad not been sick with cancer and then passing. He has truly shown me my strength and protection come from him only. Not an earthly father or even husband. Big hugs to you. And your daughter looks a lot like your mother did!
@watercolourartincapetown2919
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I always say Maggie looks just like her beautiful grandmother ❤️ And thank you for sharing your story 📝 🤗
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Samantha, I love hearing about your mama. She sounds like an amazing woman. I remember that she's in assisted living and you had bought her some of the pioneer woman dish towels like I have. What a blessing to have a strong woman in your life. I can relate to the feelings of abandonment, but I'm so thankful that the Lord is there for us. I was just telling Maggie the other day how much she looks like her grandma. Especially when my mom was young. Lol Thank you for being here! I love hearing from you. - Jennifer
@susanweicht5548
11 ай бұрын
So precious, God is good, to heal our hearts, so beautiful, thank you for sharing this
@bluebellecharm4
11 ай бұрын
Thank you Susan 🤗💗
@JB-ki2vd
Жыл бұрын
So powerful Jen, amazing tips that are so needed in our walk. I've also dealt with a lot of rejection but my father is in heaven and he NEVER lets me down. He has been father, mother, friend EVERYTHING to me. Your so right about being the parent you never had, thats the best form of healing. Thankyou for your vunerability and honesty in this video. I'm blessed to have a beautiful son and good husband, men are so important, I'll be praying for anyone struggling with trusting men... we need them!A good relationship with a son, husband, friend, father, grandfather even uncle or cousin are all so important but if we don't have these Jesus will never leave us or forsake us
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Hi Rachael, thank you, friend. Rejection is so hurtful. I am sending you a hug. I am glad that we have each other and we can know that we aren't alone. I loved hearing about your son and husband and I'm so happy that you have them in your life. What a blessing! You are right about having Jesus in your life, without Him I wouldn't be able to forgive, move on and have joy in my life. I will keep you in my prayers - Jen
@sherrylew519
Жыл бұрын
Dear Jennifer, what a hard past you've had, but what an amazing testimony! I never fail to get blown away by our heavenly Fathers tenderness and care of his children! May God get all the praise, honor and blessing! Thank you for sharing your heart. Praying for you!
@watercolourartincapetown2919
Жыл бұрын
Yes 🤗 🙏 grateful for the tenderness of our Father
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Sherry. I really appreciate your prayers and kind words. 🙏 God has been so kind and patient with me. There is so much more to my testimony. I may share it one day in the future. I still pray for you & Mr. Lewis. - Jennifer 🤗🩷
@sherrylew519
Жыл бұрын
@@bluebellecharm4 Thank you SO much once again. It is definitely making a difference!
@lewiemcneely9143
Жыл бұрын
@@bluebellecharm4 Thanks for the prayers, Jennifer! Sherry always gets a charge watching you and so do I from our Father! I think the Army helped me in the wrong direction but The Almighty is a bunch more powerful that that goofy outfit, and I'm being very nice here. Thanks again and God Bless All Yall from the other half of the mountain swamp dwellers!
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
@lewiemcneely9143 Mr. Lewis, I was overjoyed to see your comment. Thank you for commenting. I'm so sorry that the Army led you in the wrong direction, but from the bottom of my heart, I want to thank you for your service. I keep you both in my prayers. Please pray for me. We have health issues and things going on with our extended family. 🙏 God Bless You! - Jennifer 🌻
@stacysatterfield2154
Жыл бұрын
Jennifer that was truly special. I'm going to send this to a dear friend.
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Stacy 🤗 How were your results at the dermatologist? I've been praying 🙏
@stacysatterfield2154
Жыл бұрын
@@bluebellecharm4 still resting. Putting waterproof bandages on my back. Thank you for praying.
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
@stacysatterfield2154 Stacy please pray for me. I found a possible lump & have to get another mammogram next Tuesday June 20. I'm keeping it a secret from the kids. Maggie graduates tomorrow and I don't want to ruin her special day. 😞🙏
@geralynrafat7021
Жыл бұрын
Dear Jennifer, thank you for opening your heart and sharing these very comforting and healing tools with us. I'm so sorry you experienced tremendous pain, but your words and story taught us that we can heal and move forward through forgiveness as you are a testament to that! I had my father in my life but he was a great source of pain. Forgiveness has also helped me tremendously to let go of the anger I felt toward him for many years. He has passed on now, but thankfully I have made peace with him. I read this quote often, "Our value does not decrease based on someone's inability to see our worth". God bless you for your kindness and gentle spirit. I wish you all the happiness and love you so deserve!!
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
Geralyn, thank you for your kind words. Thank you for sharing that beautiful quote. 🤗 I'm so sorry that your dad was a source of pain. I'm happy that you were able to forgive him.🙏 I think forgiveness helps us more than the other person.
@bluebellecharm4
Жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful that I've put it behind me & God brought me a wonderful husband who has been so patient with all of my baggage. 💖🌻
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