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@enwezormary3687
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@blepaok
3 жыл бұрын
Pastor K, I thoroughly enjoyed this message. However, what should I do if what you speak off regarding what men appreciate is what I crave for in my relationship as a female? I want the respect, to be able to chat with a potential partner as a friend, and not to feel like I am getting nagged by 'I love you', when will you marry, what's your timeline etc.? How do I feel encouraged when I can't enjoy the basic peace of mind and happiness in courtship that will allow me to arrive at the very decision that I want to? Help me please because at this point, I find more peace in not trying at all 😳😔
@thetrenchmediaproduction4979
3 жыл бұрын
You have really impacted on me greatly sir,, thank you very much sir for yielding to the call of God..
@angelambahotu2317
3 жыл бұрын
What of if its a man who exhibits these characters
@lawrenciachioma884
3 жыл бұрын
@@blepaok we're wearing exactly same shoes!
@indirafranque4123
3 жыл бұрын
1. Not appreciating his efforts 2. Not understanding timing 3. Not understanding submission 4. Not believing/supporting his dreams 5. Not respecting him, specially publicly 6. Not being emotionally responsible 7. Not knowing when to be his friend. I’ve learned some more from this video, thank you for sharing.🙏🏾
@gerryzoetv3471
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir
@indirafranque4123
3 жыл бұрын
@@gerryzoetv3471 I’m a lady
@oyinloyeademola7086
3 жыл бұрын
If a single woman does all the above, then she's not your woman
@indirafranque4123
3 жыл бұрын
@DD don’t mention it
@Aliciahj_
Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤
@Princesbee9
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Pastor Kay, pls kindly teach men how to love. And pls make more episodes to serve as reminder. So many girls know these things but their men frustrate them a lot because of lack of knowledge on the part of those men. Thanks.
@Destroyandrebuild
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, most of his messages are targeted AT women. When men play a major role in the issues
@menubaesther3247
3 жыл бұрын
@Kingsley Okonkwo when are you having an exclusive talk with the men. They really need teaching
@alexmwendwa6582
3 жыл бұрын
Watch more videos
@harrystylz8481
3 жыл бұрын
Go listen to the wife. He teaches the woman while the wife teaching the men. Stop being one sided
@ogongare
3 жыл бұрын
@@Destroyandrebuild He can't talk about every need. That's why there are several ministries/callings; when we want teaching on a certain matter, we know where to go.
@ndivhuwotshivhase792
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor. The problem with most men is that they demand respect but they dont deserve it If you respect her she will respect you If you support her dreams she will support yours. But in Africa it's not many men who want to see their wives succeed
@williamsrobert335
3 жыл бұрын
Learn and don't give excuses
@israeldaniel5374
2 жыл бұрын
In most case scenario, When a man so gives a woman an inch by respecting her she goes miles misbehaving thinking she is on her right despite frustrating a man. This message is not aim at attacking women but helping them to know how to walk side by side with their men to achieve marital purpose. It all depend on an individual mindset. Check Pastor Kingsley's wife teachings on how not to frustrate your woman.
@oyegbolaoluwaseyi4015
3 жыл бұрын
This message is talking to me... I feel guilty, you really nailed it sir.... thanks for this and I will adjust on my part. GOD HELP ME
@adaonowumputu
3 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@learningandentertainmentce2441
3 жыл бұрын
The whole world is always teaching women how to treat a man , how to keep a man . When can we start teaching men how to keep women, how to be faithful, how to create time for their family?
@onyedikachiemmanuelubani5397
3 жыл бұрын
If you follow Pastor Kingsley closely you'll know he's balanced. Go through he's videos you'll see lots of videos where he talked to men.
@CodingToInspire
3 жыл бұрын
He has another video tailored towards women too
@abigailagampokahaviah4991
3 жыл бұрын
Pastor K talks to both men and women almost on every topic. Please follow him you'll be glad
@chiananuelmagha9563
3 жыл бұрын
@@onyedikachiemmanuelubani5397 you're right
@Joy-kl6fz
2 жыл бұрын
You start a KZitem channel and do it. Be the change you want to see
@ememobongnkana
3 жыл бұрын
Listening to this video, two things are quite clear. Men are needy and the whole world revolves around them. As a woman that wants to be with a man; you either learn to work with the situation or stay single...
@Nanjipdul
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you ma'am🙏
@nowkejiafam227
3 жыл бұрын
Ya
@ruthosaji1602
3 жыл бұрын
Very correct
@rimepeter789
3 жыл бұрын
Indeed true mommy ❤🙏
@gloryasworld...7144
3 жыл бұрын
But women equally have theirs... I understand you though, but this video is particularly in favour of men!
@ezinnenijoku-obi7822
3 жыл бұрын
I feel there should be a lot more teaching and grooming for the men. Too much dos and donts for women and not a lot for the men. Please do more for the men so they also learn to do better for the women. Thank you
@ogongare
3 жыл бұрын
You're right but I also think everyone has a unique calling. I'm sure there are other ministers who are heavily devoted to teachings that groom the men.
@miracleokoro9686
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you! Very few people are teaching men these fundamentals.
@maydvicky3316
3 жыл бұрын
Supported
@gracedomain
3 жыл бұрын
@@ogongare kzitem.info/news/bejne/0Jx3xWR7sISbl6w for men
@eileenwatt8283
3 жыл бұрын
Women are the ones who steers a relationship. Sometimes if the woman change the man will change because he sees the woman's worth.
@takubessem795
3 жыл бұрын
Chaiii!!! Your teachings have impacted my marriage so powerfully, God bless you!!
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
Lets not forget that submission does not mean saying and doing nothing, about lies, cheating, beating and mismanagement of finances and laziness. Each person is accountable to the other on these matters.
@ayodelealedare6507
2 жыл бұрын
na dem🤣😂
@ekomikpat
2 жыл бұрын
@@ayodelealedare6507 the lady is right... tolerating unnecessary bad habits n suffering without a way out isn't submission.
@simplynaa
3 жыл бұрын
Every human being both male and female need all these things....not just men.
@suzanne-cs7sx
3 жыл бұрын
If you follow the steps you will have a peaceful home, because Satan has found the woman's weakness and he use the woman well but can not get to a man. To get to the man you get to the wife and use the woman to d destroy the man. We are different beings
@simplynaa
3 жыл бұрын
@@suzanne-cs7sx Well...I believe this Satan can work through all human beings to do bad things. Both men and women.
@simplynaa
3 жыл бұрын
This is basically saying that obey men, follow their rules, follow their dreams, support them and you will be a happy wife. How do you get to be a happy wife? Through the man providing you with a home to take care of, giving you money and taking care of the children you give birth to. So in the end, what does the woman gain? What is the happiness in this? Maybe some kids and a home to take care of and a husband to obey. And the best part is the husband to tell you , I love you...that is when you have been submissive and obedient. To me, it doesn't sound right. It has to be a relationship where you both support, respect, protect, provide for each other, submit to each other, and love each other. Happiness is relative anyway.
@stellaihegbu2826
3 жыл бұрын
I experiences the same too. Where my husband don't support what i do as i can support him always. He complained in everything even when i go to church, pray and he nags. Doesn't listen to me. What do i do in this case PK. I have been following and listening to your teachings since i found you on KZitem and sometimes i will forward them to my husband because you teach so much of what i and hubby are experiencing, we almost go our separate ways last year. Your teaching have been giving me consolations to still carry on. Thank you for your words of encouragement full of wisdom and may the Lord continue to bless you Amen 🙏
@emmaodior9150
3 жыл бұрын
1.If your man doesn't support you 2.competes with you 3.only thinks about himself than sis you have a problem he might be toxic and he will probably never change... But go for counseling and try to make him understand if he doesn't just leave.
@danielattah1836
3 жыл бұрын
@@emmaodior9150 Divorce is not supposed to be a quick go-to solution.
@emmaodior9150
3 жыл бұрын
@@danielattah1836 I know that and it's the reason why I suggested she talks to her man and go for counseling Tham if he doesn't than she should leave and I don't think you understand how draining a toxic or narcissistic person is... It damages you mentally 😩
@9873e
3 жыл бұрын
U are not alone.
@AKUBARIKI
3 жыл бұрын
@@emmaodior9150 💯👌
@emmanuelaagbikimi9300
3 жыл бұрын
Pastor K is describing men and I'm like, in that case I'm probably a man, because I don't like being told what to do, my solution to something I'm not so good at is running away, and just looking for somewhere else where there is no judgement. That's why I like spending much of my time by myself, because there is no judgement, no standards and I can relax completely. But then I get scared that I've been single for too long and I've grown comfortable with setting my own rules and living by my own judgement, that it may be difficult to adjust or cope when I start dating again.
@CodingToInspire
3 жыл бұрын
You need a paradigm shift brother, by reading the right books believe me you’ll adjust.
@jenjen7558
3 жыл бұрын
It is ok and wonderful to be single.💗🤗
@timothynwaigbo910
3 жыл бұрын
@@CodingToInspire she's a woman
@davidamen7747
Жыл бұрын
Buy and dog and d.. alone
@PearlsClip
Жыл бұрын
@@jenjen7558 It is not okay to be single and is not wonderful to be single. You are lying!!!! It is God's plan who created unity, marriage. Read Gene 1-3 Chapters. You can not withdrawal money you have not deposited in the bank perior. It means money has to deposit characters that attract the same type of men.
@odamiss
3 жыл бұрын
Your teachings are really impactful. But sometimes I just wonder why God made us so sensitive that to live a happy life seems to be so much hard work. Like sometimes the work to just communicate in the right way can even be overwhelming, it seems like one is not free, cos everything has to be extremely calculated.
@honeydlamini8033
2 жыл бұрын
Wow. You said a mouthful here
@SimamkeleMakwetu
2 жыл бұрын
This 😭. Relationships are so much work. Sometimes you end up keeping quiet because its just too much!
@saltywords9236
2 жыл бұрын
I like your perspective my sister. I'm kinda was in that kind of state too. As a God-fearing, intelligent, good looking young man, It was quite a slap on my face when i see ppl not as "endowed" as I am succeeding in their relationships whilst I keep crossing from relationships to relationships "frying pan to blazing fire", lol. But i made an intentional decision to give time to social self development, and i tell you it was a hard at first, but it became easier and enjoyable once i got this secret. It's something simple and i hope you wont miss it. This is it: Managing/Maintaining a relationship will continue to seem overwhelming till you get to a state where doimg the right things become natural
@saltywords9236
2 жыл бұрын
As adults we're gradually starting to realize that the things we were taught about relationships arent exactly true, and if it took years to learn those, then obviously it cant all be erased in just a few seminars, lol. It may seem overwhelming and strenous at first but overtime you'll get better at it and soon it'll become natural to you. so dont give up yet, okay. We're cheeering you up here ,lol
@nalubegalidia5389
2 жыл бұрын
us who are not yet there will make a difference coz ure naturing us well well
@assumptachio5966
3 жыл бұрын
Respect gives off a fragrance of beauty.
@promisepriceless2731
3 жыл бұрын
It's not women. It's human. Every human can be this way.
@elizabethoputa4875
3 жыл бұрын
I know!
@zlawonkansehweah7458
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much man of God, you are really helping me to be a good wife, I parise God for you! More grace, and inspirations!
@vickytirlanyuy8172
3 жыл бұрын
The day I decided to start putting all of these into practice and most importantly treating my husband like a king he started cheating on me. Nothing makes sense to me again ever since then
@peaceyeesuf8044
3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is sounds really sad, would you like to chat with Pastor K directly... The contacts are on the pinned comment.
@ntokotom147
3 жыл бұрын
This is sad 💔. I'm sorry
@vickytirlanyuy8172
3 жыл бұрын
@@ntokotom147 thanks a lot. We are trying to work it out but honestly I will never see him the same way I used to
@eileenwatt8283
3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it was too late. The damage was already done and he had mental and emotionally gone when you started treated him like a king. He wasn't convinced you were not just playing a role.
@phebbynamutowe4357
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate. I did all I could, be a friend, confidant,support system, respectful and loving, and showed him how grateful I was for what he did for the family. Guess what! He cheated. Men can never get enough. Live your life sis
@aderinmolaoreoluwa7193
3 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman and I also want to be treated with the great advice you gave. Seems it’s a human thing and not really exclusively a man thing
@menubaesther3247
3 жыл бұрын
Sure. It's a general human desire.
@Destroyandrebuild
3 жыл бұрын
Don’t mind him.
@mz_bi
3 жыл бұрын
@@Destroyandrebuild don't mind who? Wow
@harrystylz8481
3 жыл бұрын
@@Destroyandrebuild go listen to his previous video.. before to talk nonsense. You fool
@darlingtinanicholas2917
3 жыл бұрын
@@harrystylz8481 There's no need to call him a fool dear.
@CherryJ2911
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Pastor Kingsley for this wisdom. May God empower me to apply it in Jesus Name amen
@ayopetv
3 жыл бұрын
Another very insightful video. Appreciate his efforts and support his dreams. Thank you PK🙏🏽
@n.7120
3 жыл бұрын
Ayope❤
@favourakinnagbe1444
3 жыл бұрын
Ayope 😎🙌
@chizobaelom6294
3 жыл бұрын
I honestly don’t know what is there to dislike about this topic Why are humans this way Thank you pastor have been watching your videos for some time now And am learning a lot Am getting more knowledge n refreshed with the word of God n ur teachings God bless you sir
@fionalewinson5199
3 жыл бұрын
It's good practice to appreciate each other. Motivation and appreciation in a relationship is vital.
@alexmwendwa6582
3 жыл бұрын
Who else from Kenya
@favouredflorence4546
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you sir May Oil on your head never run dry 🙏
@brieze1233
3 жыл бұрын
Particularly as a strong African woman ..this video is real CRUCIAL 4 us sisters..we know why ..I begooo !!!!
@LADYJAX
3 жыл бұрын
This video was for me, it gave me insights I never had. Thank you Pastor Kingsley
@kate4realus
2 жыл бұрын
I usually feel jealous that your messages are more geared towards the singles, but this... this Pastor k, this touches on both. Thank you. And yes, I've picked my own from this teaching(I feel attacked😁). Biko no dey too forget your married audiences o. Thank you sir.
@Iphie2019
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I stumbled on your network and I must say that I appreciate your perspectives in the issues you highlighted. We have a lot of counselors or motivational speakers out there but your perspective suited my cultural background so I thank you. God bless you. Women get replenished when they have emotional companionship while men get depleted when they have the same... wow! Thank you so much for your insight! Wow!
@Pheonix1111
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor for all of the videos you post. You provide so much wisdom based upon the truth. Due to the way God created men and women, I personally think it is a true miracle that even one man and woman get and stay married. You are giving men and women the keys to decode/understand one another to have a healthy marriage. May God bless you and your ministry. 🙏
@Elizabeth_Odafe
3 жыл бұрын
Pastor Kingsley. Every time I bump into your KZitem videos_you always bless my life. I dunno how but you always speak the ‘truth’. In fact, one of the reasons I keep watching your videos or listening to your messages is because they are always backed up in God's word. Thank you so much.
P.K. how about when the man is the one who is petty? Finding fault in every little thing! How should the woman react?
@Oops202
3 жыл бұрын
Someone should answer this question Please me too need answer 😫
@jonscott234
3 жыл бұрын
Send P.K a dm on Instagram or to the numbers he posted above
@ceegeebeloved8158
3 жыл бұрын
@@jonscott234 thanks.
@MojiAdb
3 жыл бұрын
I really want the answer to this question
@teachinghands7864
3 жыл бұрын
Develop shock absorber for the pettiness
@marigamtsonga
2 жыл бұрын
Emotional depletion of men against emotional Replenishment for women.....is my greatest lesson in this video. I seriously did not know this.
@toluasaolu
3 жыл бұрын
These things go both ways. I think a woman also expects some of these things About his dream, what about when you ask and ask and the man is evasive?
@Amsimplygold
3 жыл бұрын
It either he does not have a dream or he doesn't trust you with them, not sure of how you will accept it
@diandoyle3083
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this video ...I struggle with these a lot and never know where I was going wrong so thank a lot...may God bless u and your family Kingsley
@matthewkunnuji3491
3 жыл бұрын
I will be a better partner if I hear this everyday:)
@gaksgabriel5314
2 жыл бұрын
So what's stopping you ?
@jedidiaharmah7077
3 жыл бұрын
This video is showing me that all men are not the same. My man is so detailed that he will be more bothered by the dirty plate than me 🤣
@fallonchidera5105
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@chotachota3536
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂please my father has 4 daughters and he is cleaner than all four of us and my mom put together. I guess there's always exceptions 😂
@gracemukuka6020
6 ай бұрын
After watching this, am now thinking, Geez! How has he been coping with me. I now see how iv had it so wrong all this time. Thank you. I have taken notes and will do it right this time
@giftdesire2019
3 жыл бұрын
Sir please let your wife do a teaching on how to be a man's friend how to be his body and separate emotions at sometimes teach on that please so women don't know how to and it will really help many marriage cus me I wanna learn how to turn to a guy for my man at times and not always being that emotional woman thank you sir
@erikaero4312
2 жыл бұрын
He may have titled this in a way that seems to just be calling women out on behaviors but he’s also teaching women about men and some of their inadequacies or rather men’s traits and frame of thinking. God bless!
@erikaero4312
2 жыл бұрын
“Respect gives off a sweet scent, a beautiful fragrance..” A tear came to my eye. Lord help me to be better 🙏🏽💜
@dalisobandatv3924
3 жыл бұрын
Live Long Pastor K...!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@williamsrobert335
3 жыл бұрын
Am a MAN...THIS dude is speaking the truth. Ladies please learn and apply this to your--------
@damikasim1576
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you 🙏🏽
@forwardman6893
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks pastor for this video. It was so timely. Now I know where the problem came from. Thanks once again, sir.
@kikikiki3216
3 жыл бұрын
Why do guys find it hard to say sorry. Also if guys run away from where they are being criticised, why not make some changes as opposed to run to somewhere else? If a man has several character flaws, only women who want to use him will stick with him.....
@rachealakinrinmade2790
3 жыл бұрын
It’s so funny aw iono if I’ll say it’s my mind or the Holy Spirit buh something has just been teaching me to really appreciate the little effort I see now compare to all the shortcomings I have experienced .... am super excited to watch this 😊
@abrahamtubolayefa995
3 жыл бұрын
One major need in a man is "peace". Oh how I love my peace
@chocomiloloke1667
3 жыл бұрын
Do you give her peace?
@chineduekwueme1837
3 жыл бұрын
@@chocomiloloke1667 Must it be a competition
@chocomiloloke1667
3 жыл бұрын
@@chineduekwueme1837 no it shouldn't be but dont expect her to be your peace & you can't even make your woman happy‼
@abrahamtubolayefa995
3 жыл бұрын
@@chocomiloloke1667 My sister you are disturbing my online peace. Lol And just to mention, am not married.
@ceegeebeloved8158
3 жыл бұрын
@@abrahamtubolayefa995 Good! That gives you time to prepare very well.
@berryj9423
3 жыл бұрын
Perfect 👌🏾 God bless you. You are so on point. WISDOM!💪🏽
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
Very insightful. I will find a man and use this advice to frustrate him.
@user-dc1cw1zk4r
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tolulopearemu9057
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
@@tolulopearemu9057 Yes, just responding to the title of the video. 😂😂😂
@opeyemiadeosun8552
3 жыл бұрын
Guilty in all ways, God help me,break me mould me, make me
@samuelchukwu6345
3 жыл бұрын
For you to admit it means you are really humble
@estherkabwe2739
2 жыл бұрын
This is so true.... much appreciation to making this video Pastor Kingley.... but... definetely men are wired differently from men in terms of expressing emotions and all but I think men need to reveal these to their wemen to strengthen the relationship. Talk to your woman and she'll learn to understand you.
@assumptachio5966
3 жыл бұрын
Men find submission and respect to be sexy! Wisdom!!! ✔️
@chiderakanu5675
3 жыл бұрын
Sir I had to pause just on the 1st one oo am just laughing because this is me oo. God help me one bad thing literally almost cancels out the next good thing. God help me and I know his helping me. Thank you and God bless you sir. Cause I know God will use this to keep transforming me into the woman He wants me to be for the wonderful man He is giving me.
@titanrodri
3 жыл бұрын
Video editing is top notch 💯
@oryempalm4138
2 жыл бұрын
Wao, I am humbled Pastor, thanks for blessing my marriage.
@queenhawa4642
3 жыл бұрын
This guy been wanting me for a year and few months. I finally agreed and that was it. I feel like it don't matter weather a man chase you or not he not just the one.
@ogongare
3 жыл бұрын
Hmm there are some things we can't just control to be honest. Or better still, what works for one may not work for another. So it's a case of one size doesn't fit all
@nguverenande3074
3 жыл бұрын
I have always said this, it don’t matter how much or how long he chases you they have made us all believe that’s the standard but that’s all crap. I personally don’t believe in that but if it happens that way whatever!
@adauchendu8482
3 жыл бұрын
So much wisdom. Thank you pastor
@glorynoble6274
Жыл бұрын
Very very helpful. Turns out I'm guilty of 2 or 3 of it. I'm taking corrections already and I'll apologize for how far I've erred
@varbahtennie2073
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much sir,. each time I listened to your teaching I can learn new thing.
@ifeomaezeanochikwa6021
3 жыл бұрын
So helpful, will learn to separate my emotions to be his friend
@akinpriestley3901
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor Kingsley. Fantabulous 😂😂👍🏾🔥🔥😘
@her_Excellency_21
3 жыл бұрын
No1 & 3 sounds like what my boyfriend used to say before the Lord knocked sense into me🙈 There are lots of ideologies about relationships out there, God's word is the standard! Kudos PK👏 God bless you.
@olaidekomo9058
3 жыл бұрын
I watched this and I'm guilty of almost all 7. God help me!
@dorcaschiwanda1054
3 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful thank you greatly. Well articulated, precise and great.
@lindabagnena8101
3 жыл бұрын
May God help us hoooo, these men are becoming something else
@learningandentertainmentce2441
3 жыл бұрын
True. Cheating all the time and expect you to submit.
@unclekaceeymoores8545
3 жыл бұрын
A lot learned this was very important to me
@OlabisiImpactLight
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for always being a blessing sir, we are learning well.
@elizabethsamuel8440
2 жыл бұрын
This has helped me!! Thank you. 🙏🏾
@melben1576
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Kingsley..this is very helpful, i ve learnt alot
@jovitaarim8633
3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this video, I used to think your messages are basically for singles
@promistarglow5389
3 жыл бұрын
This is sooo true and practical.. God bless u sir.. I am going to start doing all this to mk mu husband king
@onyinye_okolo
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sir for this. I had listened to this before and shared it. but now that I applied the solutions you gave, I understand everything you shared better now. God bless your labour of love Sir.
@pàrfaitfurnishing
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir, God bless and replenish you and Pastor Mildred always.
@Queensia9
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much sir am Seriously in this situation now hopefully I can change and put all this into practice
@fionalewinson5199
3 жыл бұрын
I thought partners support each other dreams. Disrespect is horrible, in private or public.
@mrsoputadfavour7504
Жыл бұрын
Women feel the impact of any problem more than anyone. If they are not well informed, it turns back to them. I feel Pastor K. and his wife are balanced in their teachings, both for men and women. I love his wife because she loves the word of God. Kudos to them.
@priscillamensah2718
3 жыл бұрын
this talk is making me cry...i feel it too late for me...please encourage me....am regretting alot
@florachrist9602
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry babe
@florachrist9602
3 жыл бұрын
U can do it ...as long as you stil breath there is a chance!
@claudiandlovu553
3 жыл бұрын
Sit down have a conversation with him. Talk about the changes you're willing to incorporate and your expectations.
@akankeoge6965
3 жыл бұрын
Hmmm best thing is to pick the things I do wrong and move on. There are some similar things men and women want in this life, it isn’t one sided. happiness, recognition & fulfilment inclusive -If a man isn’t romantic, we should praise him at other things, if a woman isn’t romantic he would leave and find another woman. You can’t tell your husband to change, you can’t judge him but if you don’t change & can’t be judged he leave and find another woman.
@abiodunfaith1056
2 жыл бұрын
One of the things or qualities I really want in my man is friendship. I want him to be my friend
@ajayihonourjesutomi9690
4 ай бұрын
Thank you sir I love you and Pastor Mildred so much 🙇
@lisamwenye9316
3 жыл бұрын
So profound 👏👏👏👏 thank you pastor...
@ngozionuegbu32
2 жыл бұрын
Good morning Pastor. God bless you for your message. Your message is always a blessing to me.
@dubeusinorita.d2217
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you pastor K. Learning truly never ends.
@balogunopeyemi788
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for always blessing us pstkingsley i have learnt a lot through your books and videos. God has blessed you sir
@evelynolufunke4984
3 жыл бұрын
you spoke to me,thank you sir am grateful .
@Chinenye_Okafor
3 жыл бұрын
What about a man that is not willing to discuss his job or business ? He will say and I quote I choose to keep them to myself. How do a lady manage or handle this ?
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
3 жыл бұрын
You should find out IF he even has a job or a business at all ooo 🤔There are men who pretend to have but they dont. They are just living off their women and not providing financially in their homes at all. Please dont be scammed or be a sugar mommy.☝️
@ceegeebeloved8158
3 жыл бұрын
P.K. how about a contentious man! Should the woman move to a rooftop? Also he has something to say at all times! Nothing goes unnoticed! In the course of disagreement, (his soul is a record keeper of every wrong done) he brings up things that happened years ago and always twisting anything you say to the point you wouldn't want to speak anymore. What do you do?
@mrbennett
3 жыл бұрын
That's too much of a problem to have missed during courtship. You need to gently convince him to go for counselling with you. It's hard to say anything that can truly help you without knowing the types of things you argue about, but I can tell you this - keep praying about it and seek counselling. Also, in the meantime, no matter how tempting it may be to argue with him, don't. The best way to win against a bull charging towards you is to get out of its way. Even a mad man will be deflated if you choose not to fight or match his rudeness. Remain very respectful. Become the wife he doesn't deserve while praying to God to transform him into the husband you deserve.
@MENOFPURPOSE360
3 жыл бұрын
You ignored all these in courtship, you are dealing with it in marriage
@Destroyandrebuild
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly. A man can be a nag too.
@Destroyandrebuild
3 жыл бұрын
@@mrbennett ok so she missed it in courtship so what now? We teach women to baby men and be gentle, as you said, but chastise women. This is a man's world.
@Destroyandrebuild
3 жыл бұрын
@@MENOFPURPOSE360 ok, so she missed it in courtship. What now? It's ok for men to have missed it in courtship and then we have to now work around his issue but women get chastised. It's women upholding patriarchy anyway.
@jossyspur2155
3 жыл бұрын
God bless You Man of God.
@carolinenakiwala9813
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for the wisdom.
@4Jay384
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks PK. You nailed all 7 points succinctly. More grace and wisdom sir
@larissailboudo7705
3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Thanks so much Sir 🙏
@MERCYFRANK
Жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I know better now. Thank you P.K
@michaeldavid8564
3 жыл бұрын
Perfect video 📹. 100%... my church for life
@adebanjomoyosoreclinton.6836
2 жыл бұрын
Adeola welcome ❣️❣️❣️❣️
@clementinakuku5683
3 жыл бұрын
You always bless me, thank you sir
@echwanushicha7032
3 жыл бұрын
Am soo impacted by the. Thank you pst K
@TeejayN_
2 жыл бұрын
Learnt a lot from this. Thank you so much
@kwamealbertMusic
3 жыл бұрын
Hah God bless you sir 🙏 🙌. How i wish a lot of women would watch this 🔥🔥🔥🔥
@GraceDigitalnetwork
3 жыл бұрын
you are letting out all the keys.
@queenfolushade3695
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for this, God bless you so much and it was really really helpful.
@dunniojorebirth.7991
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Pastor K🙏
@abigailagampokahaviah4991
3 жыл бұрын
Knowledge is very powerful oo😀. Thank you so much Pastor K.
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